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Her points could have been more specific and cleaned up a bit. I agree that a discussion would allow for more expansion on this topic and would love to hear your perspective when someone goes toe to toe with you. From a woman who has a male friend in her life that listens to you, you need to hold the mirror up to men and hold them accountable for their toxic actions. Men are taking your statements/ letters and agreeing without a solid perspective from both ends. I believe you should encourage your followers to step back and look at themselves and see what THEY are doing toxic in the relationship or situation. STOP blaming the woman and focus solely on yourself and what you can do better. Fuck anyone else. And women should do the same.
Alpha Interactions and that man will never grow and become a better version of himself. Clearly you aren’t your own origin because you are watching this channel and receiving input from someone other then yourself. Does that make you a weak man? Fuck no, but that comment makes you a closed minded man.
Entrepreneurs in Cars I'm not sure how to message you directly but I hope this finds you. As an entrepreneur and someone who's been through the family court system can you make a video describing solid business structures for protection? By protection I mean shielding assets and income from unreasonable support claims. I don't have a problem supporting my kids and I'm not trying to evade my obligations but I'm also very interested in growing a company that will be a foundation or legacy for my children and grandchildren to build upon. That's hard to do when the court is trying to base your support payments on your total company net instead of a reasonable salary. I understand you're in Canada but I'm in Texas, if you know of another channel or other resources I could plug into that would be great. Thanks Mr Cooper.
Most women tend to use emotions which is the opposite of logic. When emotion is high logic is low, and vise versa. Never forget that. It will take you far.
53 yr married female. Most of my female friends / colleagues are single and I get asked often “why do you seem so content, it just sounds like you do everything for him?”. I just laugh and follow it with my own. “What are you offering a man that would make it worthwhile to take on you and your kids?” They look at me like I grew three eyes and then I suggest they start listening to a “red pill” channel because society has sold them too many lies and fixing them all is above my pay grade. Thank you for what you do!
Keep at your friends. Your question to them is a powder keg of logic and cuts straight to the heart of their basic desires. Your everyday contentedness is not lost on them, and if you get through to just one of them you are doing a great service to God, humanity and society.
@@LaFayette2024 . LMAO. You say that like it’s supposed to insult me. Not. Lol. Enjoy your cats, paying all your bills yourself and complaining about being miserable in your 40’s. While I enjoy my husband, being pampered and loved. Lol. Pick me, just cracks me up! Absolutely!
Western women have been utterly ruined by feminism. With thier feminist indoctrinated narcissistic minds Western women who can hardly cook a meal from basic ingredients or even clean a house sit complaining in a comfortable chair in an airconditioned or heated environment made by men, in factories, designed, built and run by men. They drive nice cars invented, built and maintained by men. They use a computer invented and programmed by men, built in a factory by men, using electricity discovered by men, transported on a national grid of power lines that were planned and engineered, maintained and made by men, using electricity generated using methods invented by men, in power stations built by and run by men. They use the Internet, which uses protocols invented by men, transmitted over cables laid by men, in an international network invented, planned, and made by men. They are fuelled by food that was the result of farms and agriculture planned and created by men, delivered to them by global food networks and transport systems invented and built by men. They are diagnosed and healed from sickness by scientific methods and medicines in hospitals invented and built by men, They live in houses that were invented, planned and built by men, They are entertained by programmes transmitted globally by signal technologies that are beamed directly onto large large and small viewing screens invented and built by men, They are kept warm or cool by technologies invented and built by men, in cities with roads, bridges, shopping malls, movie theatres, hospitals, restaurants and other infrastructure planned and built by men. They drink clean water piped into their houses by a national network planned and built by men, from reservoirs and treatment plants that were planned, built and run by men. They are protected by laws invented by men, and enforced by men who risk their lives every day to protect citizens, their property and protect their country. Women enjoy the benefits of everything men discovered, invented, created, built and maintain and are treated equally (by law) and allowed to do anything they wish in the society men created, even if lives are put at risk by allowing women to join by lowering mens higher standards for entry into the military/police and fire services. And yet there are so many western women who are so privileged and devoid of hardship that they spend their time constantly complaining that all of this is not enough for them, that men should be ashamed, that men have too much in this society that they made, and that men need to give even more to women because they are entitled to it just because they were born a women...and emaculated men agree to it. Take away everything that men have done, and western feminist indoctrinated women would be sitting outside in the cold rain without anything to eat until a man comes along and offers them shelter, food, warmth and security. Western women are self-entitled fat ass deluded state weaponised thots who routinely without any guilt steal hard working, faithful honest mens children, wealth and livelyhoods and plunge men into abject poverty or even worse suicide by divorce raping them at a whim with no fault divorce. Western women also wrongly think they are equal to or are superior to men. What sane man would go anywhere near poisonous parasites like that just for access to poon. its bizarre behaviour for any right thinking man yet these deluded women who bring absolutely nothing to a relationship still complain... "where have all the good men gone". Marriage is the most irrational decision a modern man can make if he wants to survive free and intact. Feminism has ruined the chance for most guys (and women) to have a healthy, fruitful, loving productive relationship. This phenomena, while incredibly frustrating for men, will ultimately hurt women the most. Guys have checked out of the endeavor of finding a wife as its just to dangerous. Billions of women exist on this planet, women are not special. My comment represents the beliefs of millions of Western men, and it's about time too. Share these truths guys.
@Layne's Apparition I bring up the idea of Prenuptial Agreement indirectly with women as a topic of conversation just to see their take on it, a lot of them use the "It's not romantic" argument. My usual answer is to tell them that it is the most romantic thing a couple can do. A Prenuptial Agreement is between both the man and the woman and it is drafted to protect both parties from potential harm. It's like a seatbelt, you want to have and not need, instead of need and not have. If one person in the relationship were to become a monster, the prenup will protect the other partner and the children. To preamptively create a layer of protection for the ones you love the most against this twisted world and any potential harm in the future while you're the most in love with each other, how much more romantic can it get? Would you ride a car without a seatbelt or insurance?
"No man, in his right mind, would sign up to jump out of a plane, if he knew that the parachute only worked 50% of the time." Truer words were never spoken regarding women, marriage, and divorce.
ilumix led : That 76% is out of the 50% of the total amount of marriages, since over 50% of marriages end in divorce. You take that 50% and then take 76% of the 50%, then apply that result to an actual number of marriages, then you'll know exactly how many marriages are ended by women.
My story: After 10 years of completely devoting myself to my wife and family, she divorced me. No real story here - no cheating, no beating, just money pressures and communication difficulties that could have been resolved through counseling. Well, she scored big time through the family law courts - I had to fight (8+ court hearings) to have custody above absentee level "standard" custody for fathers (which is every other weekend). In my "no fault divorce" state, she got more money the more the deprived me of the kids. She was able to kick me out of the family home, and I had to pay her so much money (at one point more than 50% of my take home income - no exaggeration). To boot, all her female friends were cheering her on, even though they did not know me. I guess my ex's story of me being such a bad guy were just so believable. Only one lady, socially conservative and religious (meaning definitely NOT a feminist), remained completely neutral. Conclusion: Feminism poisoned the minds of women to really hate men. And the courts destroy fathers emotionally and financially. It really is that bad.
I experienced something similar and so I sympathise. It's dreadful to hear lies about yourself from someone you put your trust in but it works. If you've got no conscience it's easy to lie. No one likes an abuser and it's what people want to think when the woman lies and turns the tears on. I'm afraid that I don't hate women but by the same token I will trust one now like I trust a viper.
Why we allow this is beyond me. The weak have out-manoeuvred the strong. It's fucking disgusting. I know guys who have left the UK for Asia post-divorce. They can't get child support if you're in a different jurisdiction.
For starters....I am very sorry that you are going through that and am very much against the whole "every other weekend" bullshit. Kids need both parents and that's just ludicrous in my opinion. Children aren't a possession that should be just shared. On another note...it isn't just conservative, Christian women that are against modern feminism; I am not by societies standards, "conservative" and I am Wiccan, not Christian, however I live a life that would be a nightmare to most modern feminists aka housewife/stay at home mom and I rely on my husband for everything so I can be home with our little man. I do all of the housework and cooking and don't complain about it...unless it involves one of my teenagers being lazy lol.
my dad want thought the same shit as u . but in the end he got custody of me cause for some reason the judge get fed up with her bullshit and told her he send her to jail if she kept it up .
Rollo said it best: Women will agree with the parts of the redpill that conform with their imperative, but anything else, “No you can’t do that. That’s very offensive and I don’t approve of it.”
Only the weak get offended, as a woman I enjoy this it makes me become better...fuck the feelings suck it up. Facts are Facts. This is why women can't handle a real man....💯
Kudos from a female fan. I appreciate that you are boldly speaking on men’s issues. I know that I can’t really understand it totally, but I understand enough to know that men are being shortchanged by the laws and endure a lot of garbage from the demo-Nazis. I like the way you passionate and rational simultaneously. Keep up the great work.
I had a gun in my mouth after my last divorce, and yes I was stupid enough to go through it twice! Content like this saved my life and opened my eyes. After all that you'd think I would hate women, but I don't. Instead, I put my energy into learning how to be the best version of myself and how to navigate the marketplace. Thanks for the mirror and presenting the truth brother!
I wonder why no one of the Americans yet just killed the Ex-Wife, because it's much cheaper(nobody to pay). Instead of killing myself it would solve the pay problem AND going to jail means the State has to pay for you and will fall much faster. Like destroying it from the inside. Dark ideas, but then there would be a change soon.
Sadly, most of us guys don't know the reality of family law until we're being crushed by it. I do my best to inform young men but most just don't get it and I understand that as I'm not convinced I would have "gotten it" either at their age.
@Bittersweet You You literally just proved his point for him, and why white men? I mean seriously what is different between white men and Asians, blacks, Latino's etc?
@Danny Timms I'm white, myself. I fail to see how I could be 'racist' towards my 'own' people. I do, too- but only the obnoxious and psychotic ones as I intend to be annoying and a weirdo in return. Btw, though, since I'm mainly attracted to white males in looks (unfortunately :/), I've decided to not date ever if I can help it. Everyone wins. ^-^
lol her entire email basically boiled down to this. "Hey, stop telling all the strong quality guys to avoid marriage. You are leaving us with no other options but to go for the betas that bow down to feminism" I feel like her email was well-intentioned but it wasn't made out of a legitimate concern for men. It was made in the service of women.
Ostensibly, those two goals should be aligned, so far as relationships go. The real issue is that women don't actually understand what they are advocating for or promoting. Instead, they over-inflate the egos of young women, encourage them to devalue men and competition in general (but particularly male competition), and despise family. Then later they wonder why they have to settle for betas like it isn't what they asked for.
@@ArtumTsumia I heard a really nice metaphor today that pertains to this but I can't seem to remember who said it. It goes a little something like this "Women don't care about the male struggle, when all men compete, women just hang out at the finish line and bang the winners" I imagine it must be frustrating for them to see people like Rich encouraging the guys as they struggle to become better men, only for them to finish the race and then just keep going past the women without sparing a look. They must be thinking "By all means, create better men because that benefits us" "But don't tell them not to marry, that doesn't benefit us"
Specifically, not to marry _them._ These women aren't even standing around the finish line. They're on the starting line and anyone who beats them is a misogynist and anyone they beat is pathetic. Still better to be a winner, even if they claim to hate winners, they still want the winner. @@AlexBlindness
ArtumTsumia lol, I feel like deep down women understand that they can't compete with men at the same level of performance. That's what makes them so bitter. They want the same level of respect and recognition that men USED to get, but they don't want to have to go through the same level of hardships and struggle. I have a female acquaintance that graduated with a business degree and started working as an accountant for a hotel, it was a nice job, good pay, very close to her house. However, she wanted more, she wanted to be the manager of a store so she went for it. Now she is working 50 hours a week, driving 25 miles to an from work, having mental breakdowns and falling sick every other week. Needless to say, she can't take it, she called me to see if I could get her a part-time position in my job.
Well what I think is that these women will have to do the approach instead of the good ol' men having to do the effort. My social circle did agree with me that most of us, men, don't like the traditional boy talks to girl only scenario. A lot of girls expect that and yet women don't understand why no men come up to them.
As a female veiwer, I have watched quite a few of your videos and I truly love getting your perspective. I am not a third wave feminist due to the fact that Ive seen the toxicity of radical feminism and currently its a man hating philosophy. It doesn't build up men but instead break them down. Regarding divorce and custody battles, I entirely agree. Its a system that drains men and many times women gain alot more. Coming from a divorced family, my mother, an addict (very manipulative) had gained full custody over three of us children; over my father who is a full time ER doctor (reliable). There is incredible bias in the courts, and it's took an additional 2 years for my Dad to gain full custody (nearly 250,000 dollars later paying lawyers,alimony,child support, and losing half of what he had). The stress and the depression really hit hard for my Dad but his persistence really paid off and for that I will be forever thankful. So yes, there are some hard truths that we must admit and except accountability for, but it's all about growing, learning, as well as trying to understand what men go through. I believe that as women we need to appreciate true men more for what they do because it goes unnoticed. And vise versa. We all need to strive to respect,love,and understand each other. STAY WOKE FAM!🤙
Its all a sad story about what happened to your dad and how you now realizing things, but as a woman DO something about it . There are other women as like yourself that have realized how unjust the system is But are not Helping and they should . So rally up as many women as you can and try to get the laws changed for a better and fairer divorce system for men. Make some sort of an impact , it doesn't matter how big it is as every impact helps. If your not going take action against the evil legal system that your poor dad had to go through then you are allowing this evil system to continue. if you have a son or even if someone you know is a male, they are next in line to be burnt . Everyone has to fight it , including women that see the light. Go kick some government ass.
“....it’s important how you influence them (men)...” Translation, it’s important how you influence men, so you need to influence them in a manner which serves the feminist/female narrative.
I’ll add that she’s vocalizing a panic that a lot of women seem to be having... the realization that “the jig is up”. They’ve been deceived by the lie of feminism and now they (and we) are all paying for it. Damn shame.
I have two older brothers and a strong alpha father and everything you’re saying is true...keep up the good work! We need more alpha males in this feminized society
My highest regards my Brother I call you my Brother since you seem to post my life of the last 10 years. English is not my primary language so i hope you'll forgive any misspell of my part. There is so much i could tell you about dating a single mom with 2 youngs. All the sacrifices, the energy and time i invested in a family. Total hell. thank you soooo much for what you do, in just a couple of days your videos has inspired me and showed me how much i let myself go during the last year and a half. I got out of a relationship of 13 years with barely the clothing i had on my back. i may not be able to subscribe or donate just yet but i swear i'll make amend. Still fighting cancer at this point but i'm getting better everyday and i should be able to resume training soon. You really give me the wake up call i needed. Can't stop, already did so much. YOU ARE MY NEW HERO, thanks so much again my Brother It's been a while since this post i hope this message find you.
Hey Rich . . . your videos are great. Thanks for what you do -- I'm an attorney in Tennessee, and Tennessee law believes firmly in a 285/80 day split, where the Fathers get 80 days a year and females get everything else -- regardless how horribly the woman lies during the divorce... Sometimes those lies can be proved in court, but judges GENERALLY don't care even when the woman is caught lying. You're also correct that kids need both parents and that when men are absent from the picture, kids generally develop more problems. Keep up the good message.
@@alb12345672 and I agree that is sometimes 100% appropriate. There are exceptions to every rule. If the man is a complete loser, for example (a drug addict or pimp); however, many dads want to be involved, and the woman lies -- sometimes the dad ends up in jail with no proof of any harm other than the woman saying "He scares me". Not all judges accept everything the woman says as true, and if the woman overplays her hand, it can work to the man's advantage. However, the presumption is that women should be given almost everything... (that presumption can be rebutted with good evidence to the contrary, but how does a father really prove he did nothing?) Imagine a woman on the stand, crying and saying "He scares me . . . he shouldn't be around our children" . . . It takes skill to prove that the mother is lying...
alb12345672. We all have different experiences .. I came home after work to find my wife at the time socializing on the phone. I asked where my 1 year old daughter was & she told me that she was in the bathtub.. I quickly went to check & the water was running & reaching her chin.. I was furious & incredibly disappointed.. Yet another example of many horrible & irresponsible choices my ex-wife made with my kids.. I had to put in extra effort to be vigilant of my children’s safety. Thank god, my kids actually made it into their late teens now. For the record.. stats show that women mainly raise children & thus women are also the ones that are mainly violent towards them..
alb12345672 Almost all criminals, serial killers, and lowlifes in general come from single mother households, whereas kids from single dads experience an upbringing closest to a classic mom/dad household (the next is gay patents, then lesbian parents, then finally single mothers). Both of these points are truths that have been proven time and time again academically and statistically. It is also a truth that Western society finds ‘uncomfortable’ to face, aka feminists.
Marry a woman and you could get a new best friend (which isn't required by marriage), someone to have sex with (also not requiring marriage I suppose) and someone who will hopefully be next to you should times get tough. If that marriage doesn't work out, you lose: Half of everything you own, likely your dog/cat, you'll probably lose your house and car (or pay her half of it's worth to keep it), be forced to pay child support for many years and be arrested if you fail to do so, and more. Yeah, an all-around high-risk investment that many guys are realizing is just not worth it. I still remember a female manager of mine trying to persuade a female coworker to go out with me. She didn't talk about my interests. She didn't talk about my personality. She focused on "He's got a pickup truck fully paid for! He has a house already paid for and doesn't pay rent!" Thankfully, the girl wasn't interested in that and wasn't very interested in me either. I was probably 8-10 years older than her anyway.
They try to do the same thing to me recently. However, I learned not to trust when people are trying to hook me up with a girl. You can't imagine the bullets that I have dodged like the Matrix. They think I'm a virgin for turning them down but, who cares. I seen how guys who are financially successful can't buy even a soft drink with their own money 'cuz wife don't allow it'. How that hell does a grownup gets to that point? And they think that others want the same thing!
Super high risk man and no reward for the guy Like he’s already getting the sex. The women just want marriage because they think it will change something in the relationship. And in the past their lives definitely would change, because they were virgins living in their dads house. Now they get to hook up with a new man and everything is different. But if you’ve been living with the guy and sleeping with him, marriage is going to be a let down and then she’ll blame the man and up s***s creek he goes because “he failed her” in the already failed marriage
I'm one of the men that found Richard's info during my divorce. It helped me out during that dark time in my life and I really appreciate all the work that's done to help men. Keep it up Richard! You have my gratitude.
Great vid as usual. I hope these never end... I have realized that it is quite hard to get out of the “blue pill” permanently. Years of conditioning doesn’t go away on a finger snap. If I spend a month not thinking things through I can find myself slowly slipping back to the needy ways, letting a hot girl somehow escape through some no-no’s or reacting not as sharply... or even worse, reacting when no reaction is the actual choice. This requires work, consistently.
A few months back I had a woman go in rage because the shoes she wanted weren't on sale. She started yelling saying I was telling her to shut up and intimidating her. She quietly tells me to choose my next words carefully. I quickly turned around and walked away calling for security on my ear piece. Luckily the boss knew I never insulted any clients and have always been respectful. They ended up giving her the new shoes on sale because they didn't wanna deal with her craziness. Lesson her guys is that women will lie and scream abuse even for petty objects like shoes at 29$
She acted like a toddler because it worked in the past. As long as people let her agree with that behaviour, she will continue acting that way. I dated a couple of woman who tried that shit around me and my response was to drive them home and tell them I was done. I didn't put up with tantrums from my kids when they were 2 and I sure won't put up with that shit from anyone else.
I agree with your point. Lets look at this another way. She allows herself to use emotional arguments to get her way. She is self serving and she knows it. Next point she would not worry a second about putting an innocent person's job on the line because she just does not care who she hurts. She is a narcissist. The last point is the store will not stand up to her because it is not something that is good for business. The store giving in is cosponsoring or rewarding her behavior.
Let's review the iron rules. Maybe we can find where they encourage lying. Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth. Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment. Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her. An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy. Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for - women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha. Where do they encourage lying? I can't find anything in there that _encourages_ lying.
Maybe someone following the rules would lie to try and follow rules number 2 and number 9, but that's on the individual. Nothing in the rules themselves encourages lying.
@@Lisa-ih7fk for me there is a difference. If you just started dating, than sure, wait for a second or third date. But if you are together for two months now, and still nothing, even though he tried to initiate it, then something is not right.
This whole channel is a total wake up call for me,I’ve watched about 10 or so videos now and I,m looking at my present and previous relationships very differently because of it.Ive never suffered anywhere near the financial loss that I’ve seen on this site,though I’ve got 3 close friends who have,and are still paying......but your doing great work here....educating a whole wave of men about one of the biggest cons in modern society.
You love women, that was so clear from the start when I started your video's. The cold hard truth could not be any more accurate! So glad I watched this. You're a solid coach.
Because of Richard and Rollo and a few others I have finally stopped disrespecting myself and lowering my standards. I will not ever give a low self esteem hypergamous (sp?) woman my precious time ever again. I am actually happier living on my own and enjoying hanging out with my daughter on the weekends. Thank you Richard and Rollo et al.
Right on, mate. I've been accused of being bitter and hating women. Sure I'm bitter, because an abusive, selfish woman used the broken Family Law to take away my kids and ruin all our lives. Do I hate women? No. I just hate one in particular. My main problem is with Family Law and the attitudes that allow and encourage this behaviour. It's not good for the kids or society in the long run. My ex needed mental help, not two thirds of my shit. But man = bad.
I recently dated a single mom. I gave her kids and her, all the attention in the world. I supported them financially and emotionally. I treated her two kids as if they were my own and they (the kids) loved me. She wanted me to pay for her divorce - I said no way. She refused to allow me to become part of the family home. She would kick me out for the slightest indiscretion (going to the pub with the lads or coming home late from work as I'd been at the gym). I ended up back at my folks door on numerous occasions. She wanted 30 grand of me to continue living with her as she wanted "back-pay" on whatever she had paid on the mortgage prior to meeting me. She wanted to see my phone records, my emails and my bank statements - I said no way. She said that if I had nothing to hide (which I didn't) that I should show her. I said no way. She read my snail-mail-bank statements. I sent them to the house as a 'plant' knowing she would read them. I walked. I will be buying my own house in the coming months and have been totally red-pilled. I'm gonna wander around India for a month in Dec/Jan and I didn't have to ask anyone's permission to organize my trip. I am so glad I stumbled across this movement. It is liberating and I have never felt better in my whole life.
You're doing a great job, Rich. As a mother of two adult, male children, I appreciate your straight forward manner of presenting the information that men need to hear from a men, not women. I have a son in law school to whom I gave Tomassi's book during the Christmas break, then I caught him watching a few of your videos. The information you provide is exactly what young men need to know about relationships. I have always tried to make sure that my sons have the best information necessary in order for them to make sensible decisions, while leaving their decisions in their hands. Besides, what young man wants to listen to love advice from his mother? And, my son has already avoided one big train wreck thanks to you and Tomassi. I am ever so grateful. PEACE
What happened to their father your husband, Cynthia? Glad they have Richard as like a surrogate father to get advice from but they need a PHYSICAL father figure to talk to.
Honestly I found your channel and others making this red pill stuff last year when the single mom I had been with for two years was ... it wasn’t going well. She broke up with me because whatever and losing my relationship with her kids made me feel horrible and I had considered end it all out of deep depression. I don’t have family so that relationship was a big deal for me and it satisfied something I’ve always been missing. We still live together but soon I will be moving 4,000 miles away for a dream job and life. Videos like these showed me I wasn’t crazy and that there was something more happening with women. The sucky part is I wanna be married to a partner for life with some kids but I never will now especially after a horrible 7 year marriage of hell. Thanks man you and others make a difference
Not quite then. Maybe at 50 when those child support checks stop, the alimony is done, her settlement money is all in her closet, and the free house is falling apart...then reality will kick her in the face. At 40, she is living the life of free money leeched off her ex.
I'm talking about the money coming in and her financial life situation. Not about how hot she thinks she is, but knows she isn't. The world is totally different for menopausal women when the beards and mustaches start coming in. But please Tinder away.
I’m 26 years old, have dated many “10’s” and in long term relationships. You’re so right on and thank you for saving my life. Like I used to be so frustrated thinking about how women marry men and destroy them through divorce and having children. Hypergamy is absolute truth and in a great way I’ve decided to focus on excellence instead of chasing tail. Also to avoid crazy women because some of them had daddy issues and never grew up. One valuable lesson I’ve learned is for all guys to remember, no matter how hot she is there is always a guy somewhere who is sick of “her shit”
For the last year, I've been following your videos and advice. I've honestly never been happier. Dating and relationships are such a shit show nowadays and avoiding those headaches is some of the best advice I've ever heard. Keep up the good work! 🤙
This woman falls into the category that I like to call "semi self aware". She is aware of some of the problems with western society but she is still enslaved to the female first imperative. Everything she takes issue with are those things that directly butt heads with the feminine imperative. She is obviously in denial about the state of open hypergamy in western society. She would rather tell men it doesn't exist and just to man up and raise better men. Then she has a problem with the iron rules which god forbid we men develop some kind of mental framework to better ourselves.
i dont think she aware of anything. she only agreed with what benefited females, then right after that she calls men weak because they dont agree with feminism
Another example of a woman that is uncomfortable with the mirror being held up in front of her. Hypergamy cannot be disputed. Its in a woman's nature. They want to be able to criticize without being criticized themselves.
It's getting so sickening... My mother, my sister, all my aunts... My my girlfriend my ex-girlfriends every one of them are all the exact same and exactly as you described... It's always about their feelings, and they can always dish it but they can never take it in return! The absolute ignorance and double standards of a modern woman's mindset is absolutely insane!
As the daughter of a former golddigger (the wall was not kind, she settled now for a beta and he's husband #3, #1 left her for a younger model and #2 her last hope drank himself to death) I am HIGHLY aware of hypergamy being in our nature. Women that are offended by this truth or deny it even, are just trying to project the image of not being cold hearted and greedy. You see it conflicts with their own self image of being a special unicorn with a great personality. It's "unpleasant"
@@BiggerThenKingKong over time, I have made progress in reminding myself that her inability to admit being wrong has nothing to do with the objective wrongness of her behavior and actions. The more I am able to internalize this, the more red-pilled I get. To the extent I'm able to think it in real time, in reaction to her antics (of there are too many to list), I am able to maintain my equilibrium and refrain from responding to her angrily -- not that she doesn't deserve all the anger she receives, but because it's freaking useless
"Not all women are like that" I may not eat meat every day, but just because I skip on meat for a few days it doesn't make me a vegetarian. Just because she doesn't (or can't) indulge her appetite for something, that doesn't mean the appetite doesn't exist.
I love this type of video when you dissect an email like this. I think you are respectful and use 100% logic to defend jabs against you. So often people argue with emotion and it is refreshing to hear logic/facts in a world where it seems to be incredibly rare.
Videos like this shaped my life. There’s an idea that goes like “go through life and learn from you mistakes..” I prefer learn as much as you can about the truth of life as early as you can, and play the game accordingly
Solid video. Western men need to get a good grip on what entrepreneur in car is saying about our dying culture, and even more so, western women need to re-evaluate their priorities
There will be no re-evaluation. There probably wasn't an evaluation to begin with. Most of them will only realize that something has gone wrong when the lights go out and never come back on.
My father hung himself on 06/16/21. Men are hopeless and are looking for the guidance. Keep up the great work. I miss my dad more than words can explain and will never stop advocating for men.
You CANNOT trust a woman's words, you can only trust her actions. The Divorce Courts (and this email) are proof of that. Love your content Rich - keep up the good fight!
Women don't want to hear what we think, they want to hear what they think.. Women's logic, is whatever benefits them.. One day it's black, the next day it's white.. Your a God Send brother.. He gifted you, for us, with the mind & the mouth.. Thanks
A girl at the peak of her SMV is also the most entitled and delusional about life's reality. The temerity of her to lecture us is what happens as a result.
The problem is that women don’t want to settle for a man with the same SMV. They run after men with a higher SMV, and then whine when Chad shows her the door.
Absolute legend. Im going through a divorce with a narcissistic controling woman, my good nature kept me in the marriage for the kids but my Alpha has just had to say no! gone through a tough time leaving the military too but you add confidence and clarity which gives beliefe going forward. Good work, Adam from over the pond. Peace.
I'm almost 50 years old and in all that time I have not met one woman that at the least, had the peace of mind a man can achieve. As just two recent examples I watched two youtube videos where you have these two beautiful woman in Thailand. One was by herself the other was with her girlfriends. Both looked like they were very excited to go, but once they got there they both had this look. The look was like I should be happy right now, but I'm not. They took alot of selfies, drank, dance around, laid around in bathing suites. Men can go to places like that and find adventure, they can make themselves happy. In all my time alive I have never seen this quality in a woman...ever.
First visit to the channel, good vid man. It was pretty interesting and spot on. I’m talking to a single mom of two boys right now and it’s quite entertaining to watch her try and plant small seeds here and there. I call her on the BS every time. She hates it, but she respects me for it.
Rich...you're spot on and have helped me save my own life. Best advice you've offered me. Get off the antidepressants and start lifting some weights. I joined a gym Put down the bongs Threw away the cigs. I found myself hiding under all the bullshit. Thank you Brother
arguing from a moralistic angle rather than truthfulness angle, which is fairly typical. "it worries me" vs "it's true" she's designed to do that. it's signal based rather than empirically based. that's fine, but when women do this, it's typically in the wrong sphere (politics and society).
I'm a woman and I just started watching your channel. I like to hear things from the true male perspective to help me understand guys better. Some truths are harder to swallow because men and women are wired so differently. But that's just the way it is. It's better to understand than try to change another person. Men can be horrible in relationships ( my own ex-fiance was abusive and got another girl pregnant) but I've watched hard working, loving men in my family and friends have their lives RUINED by women. I think it is so wrong that a drug addicted welfare mother gets custody over a man with a stable job, a home and true love for his children.
Hi, bro! Thanks for another great video. I'm one of the men who are grateful for all the hard work you do. The only thing I want to say is that it was hard to discern what was the email and what was your response. I wouldn't expect you to make different voices, but some kind of differentiation would make it alot more easy to follow for us who binge your vids while looking elsewhere. Apart from that, I resonate with your reasoning unreasonably well, brother. Thanks again.
I am a married woman (38) and I love your channel. I admire your brutal honesty and the fact that you have the maracas to come on UA-cam and just tell it like it is! At 22 years old I don’t think this woman - or anyone- has had the life experience, therefore emotional IQ, to really understand the depth and holistic nature of your content. Keep doing what you’re doing and I think it’s awesome that you are encouraging men to become better versions of themselves 👍🏼
When I was a teen, my dad told me to treat the janitor the same way I'd treat a king. I took his word on it. He then told me to buy a new car on lease as my first car, instead of a used one because it'd be more reliable. I didn't listen and got a mildly used one for 1/3 the price of a new one. Men aren't stupid to listen to shit advice and follow it blindly. Men only listen to Richard because his advice is sound and makes sense.
@@freddyrassinger8198 I barely drive it anymore so it is just parked. No intention to sell it. When I am not travelling, I use it or one of the company cars. Or just Uber, etc. Driving is a waste of time lol.
Anytime I have ever asked anyone in my life why I should get married as a man nobody has been able to give me a logical reason why. All they can say is it's what your supposed to do in society and marriage is great. They ignore me when I say statistics about divorce and how you can lose your stuff. All they can say is I have to be optimistic. I asked someone the same thing where if they had a 50% chance of dying from sky diving would they go skydiving? The person I said this would not give a direct answer since they knew as well as I did it was stupid to say yes. It's always emotional responses never logical responses I get from people. Not one person has told me a logical benefit to getting married as a guy.
I'm struggling to see the perks myself. Dating = What has she done for me lately? Married = I'm stuck wih her lazy ass unless I give up half my stuff to get rid of her.
next time someone gets on you about not marrying ask them this......if marriage did not exist as we know it today with all the laws and government intervention etc...would they invent it and want to take all the credit for it?? watch as they have that stupid look on there face and watch the gears start turning in there head...gets them everytime.
@Dr.'sorders i get a guy wanting kids..not my thing but the stable home thing is an illusion ...50 years ago things worked and the divorce rate was not 50-60%...more single mother then ever and fathers are kicked out.
Hi, It's a brilliant reply for a 20 yrs old, it is almost the same way I think since I have experienced not worse than hell and now I go my own way. A sincere thank you
I had to actually Google hypergamy and boy, you hit that one right on the head. My ex was the poster child for that!!! A recent sub who loves your content. Keep up the great work, brother.
I own a successful business, I'm fit and I'm becoming a good investor. I'm never getting into a LTR. The family laws are against me. What I earn belongs to me and no one. I earned.
I'd just like to thank you & all the guys I've been watching lately(red man group). Almost done reading "the rational male" and these new views of the world are a great change for me. So I appreciate all the content, its definitely helpful wile I'm coming out of the feMatrix and seeing this new shit storm. Having the information to deal with it is wonderful. thank you
Why arn't women encouraged to get "better" as men are encouraged to get better. Modern woman have become entitled and preferenced as proven in the family court. This must change and we need to challenge all female claims in court.
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Rich, you are providing a great service to men. Keep it up and thank you.
i found the email to be the biggest weapon women can use against a man when he stands his ground....emotional blackmail !
Her points could have been more specific and cleaned up a bit. I agree that a discussion would allow for more expansion on this topic and would love to hear your perspective when someone goes toe to toe with you. From a woman who has a male friend in her life that listens to you, you need to hold the mirror up to men and hold them accountable for their toxic actions. Men are taking your statements/ letters and agreeing without a solid perspective from both ends. I believe you should encourage your followers to step back and look at themselves and see what THEY are doing toxic in the relationship or situation. STOP blaming the woman and focus solely on yourself and what you can do better. Fuck anyone else. And women should do the same.
Alpha Interactions and that man will never grow and become a better version of himself. Clearly you aren’t your own origin because you are watching this channel and receiving input from someone other then yourself. Does that make you a weak man? Fuck no, but that comment makes you a closed minded man.
Entrepreneurs in Cars I'm not sure how to message you directly but I hope this finds you.
As an entrepreneur and someone who's been through the family court system can you make a video describing solid business structures for protection? By protection I mean shielding assets and income from unreasonable support claims. I don't have a problem supporting my kids and I'm not trying to evade my obligations but I'm also very interested in growing a company that will be a foundation or legacy for my children and grandchildren to build upon. That's hard to do when the court is trying to base your support payments on your total company net instead of a reasonable salary. I understand you're in Canada but I'm in Texas, if you know of another channel or other resources I could plug into that would be great. Thanks Mr Cooper.
"You cannot beat a woman in an argument because men have a need to make sense. " - Chris Rock
Absolutely, men use logic and reasoning to make decisions.....women do not.
Most women tend to use emotions which is the opposite of logic. When emotion is high logic is low,
and vise versa. Never forget that. It will take you far.
Define "beat"...
@@VersusARCH and Kick, bite, scratch...
Chris Rock was a great comic but now he's a left wing pandering douchebag has-been.
53 yr married female. Most of my female friends / colleagues are single and I get asked often “why do you seem so content, it just sounds like you do everything for him?”. I just laugh and follow it with my own. “What are you offering a man that would make it worthwhile to take on you and your kids?” They look at me like I grew three eyes and then I suggest they start listening to a “red pill” channel because society has sold them too many lies and fixing them all is above my pay grade. Thank you for what you do!
Keep at your friends. Your question to them is a powder keg of logic and cuts straight to the heart of their basic desires. Your everyday contentedness is not lost on them, and if you get through to just one of them you are doing a great service to God, humanity and society.
This is deliberate to destroy our society
Wow! "A pick-me". You are so cool. Not.
@@LaFayette2024 . LMAO. You say that like it’s supposed to insult me. Not. Lol. Enjoy your cats, paying all your bills yourself and complaining about being miserable in your 40’s. While I enjoy my husband, being pampered and loved. Lol. Pick me, just cracks me up! Absolutely!
Women want equality yet I have yet to see any feminist movement picketing to sign up for the draft....still waiting....
They keep saying "equality", but female sexual attraction mechanisms are elitist. I never met an egalitarian who wasn't an elitist.
Western women have been utterly ruined by feminism.
With thier feminist indoctrinated narcissistic minds Western women who can hardly cook a meal from basic ingredients or even clean a house sit complaining in a comfortable chair in an airconditioned or heated environment made by men, in factories, designed, built and run by men.
They drive nice cars invented, built and maintained by men.
They use a computer invented and programmed by men, built in a factory by men, using electricity discovered by men, transported on a national grid of power lines that were planned and engineered, maintained and made by men, using electricity generated using methods invented by men, in power stations built by and run by men.
They use the Internet, which uses protocols invented by men, transmitted over cables laid by men, in an international network invented, planned, and made by men. They are fuelled by food that was the result of farms and agriculture planned and created by men, delivered to them by global food networks and transport systems invented and built by men. They are diagnosed and healed from sickness by scientific methods and medicines in hospitals invented and built by men, They live in houses that were invented, planned and built by men, They are entertained by programmes transmitted globally by signal technologies that are beamed directly onto large large and small viewing screens invented and built by men, They are kept warm or cool by technologies invented and built by men, in cities with roads, bridges, shopping malls, movie theatres, hospitals, restaurants and other infrastructure planned and built by men.
They drink clean water piped into their houses by a national network planned and built by men, from reservoirs and treatment plants that were planned, built and run by men. They are protected by laws invented by men, and enforced by men who risk their lives every day to protect citizens, their property and protect their country.
Women enjoy the benefits of everything men discovered, invented, created, built and maintain and are treated equally (by law) and allowed to do anything they wish in the society men created, even if lives are put at risk by allowing women to join by lowering mens higher standards for entry into the military/police and fire services.
And yet there are so many western women who are so privileged and devoid of hardship that they spend their time constantly complaining that all of this is not enough for them, that men should be ashamed, that men have too much in this society that they made, and that men need to give even more to women because they are entitled to it just because they were born a women...and emaculated men agree to it.
Take away everything that men have done, and western feminist indoctrinated women would be sitting outside in the cold rain without anything to eat until a man comes along and offers them shelter, food, warmth and security.
Western women are self-entitled fat ass deluded state weaponised thots who routinely without any guilt steal hard working, faithful honest mens children, wealth and livelyhoods and plunge men into abject poverty or even worse suicide by divorce raping them at a whim with no fault divorce. Western women also wrongly think they are equal to or are superior to men.
What sane man would go anywhere near poisonous parasites like that just for access to poon. its bizarre behaviour for any right thinking man yet these deluded women who bring absolutely nothing to a relationship still complain...
"where have all the good men gone".
Marriage is the most irrational decision a modern man can make if he wants to survive free and intact.
Feminism has ruined the chance for most guys (and women) to have a healthy, fruitful, loving productive relationship.
This phenomena, while incredibly frustrating for men, will ultimately hurt women the most. Guys have checked out of the endeavor of finding a wife as its just to dangerous.
Billions of women exist on this planet, women are not special.
My comment represents the beliefs of millions of Western men, and it's about time too.
Share these truths guys.
@Layne's Apparition I bring up the idea of Prenuptial Agreement indirectly with women as a topic of conversation just to see their take on it, a lot of them use the "It's not romantic" argument. My usual answer is to tell them that it is the most romantic thing a couple can do. A Prenuptial Agreement is between both the man and the woman and it is drafted to protect both parties from potential harm. It's like a seatbelt, you want to have and not need, instead of need and not have. If one person in the relationship were to become a monster, the prenup will protect the other partner and the children. To preamptively create a layer of protection for the ones you love the most against this twisted world and any potential harm in the future while you're the most in love with each other, how much more romantic can it get? Would you ride a car without a seatbelt or insurance?
TheLifeBidder it most certainly is. Her recruiter didn’t care enough about her to do the paperwork though, I’ve seen that happen a few times.
There's a place that's terrifying to women.... True equality
so if a man stands in the middle of a forest and says something out loud , and there is no woman to hear him , is he still wrong ??
...did his beta az ask permission first? lol
if a man wife's a woman off the track, is she still a whore?
Early 20s. That just explained it all.
yeah. that was gonna be my comment.
Don't believe "she" is early 20's or who "she" claims to be by the style of writing...this email is a red herring...
The age means nothing. As long as a woman has some hope of getting a man she will sound similar.
I think this is coming from a late 30's for sure
i immediately said "STRIKE ONE" when i heard that
"No man, in his right mind, would sign up to jump out of a plane, if he knew that the parachute only worked 50% of the time."
Truer words were never spoken regarding women, marriage, and divorce.
ilumix led : That 76% is out of the 50% of the total amount of marriages, since over 50% of marriages end in divorce. You take that 50% and then take 76% of the 50%, then apply that result to an actual number of marriages, then you'll know exactly how many marriages are ended by women.
Thank you Bill Burr
Al Bundy jumped out of plane hoping the parachute wouldn't open ;)
Why I'm staying away from marriage lol
My story: After 10 years of completely devoting myself to my wife and family, she divorced me. No real story here - no cheating, no beating, just money pressures and communication difficulties that could have been resolved through counseling. Well, she scored big time through the family law courts - I had to fight (8+ court hearings) to have custody above absentee level "standard" custody for fathers (which is every other weekend). In my "no fault divorce" state, she got more money the more the deprived me of the kids. She was able to kick me out of the family home, and I had to pay her so much money (at one point more than 50% of my take home income - no exaggeration). To boot, all her female friends were cheering her on, even though they did not know me. I guess my ex's story of me being such a bad guy were just so believable. Only one lady, socially conservative and religious (meaning definitely NOT a feminist), remained completely neutral. Conclusion: Feminism poisoned the minds of women to really hate men. And the courts destroy fathers emotionally and financially. It really is that bad.
I experienced something similar and so I sympathise.
It's dreadful to hear lies about yourself from someone you put your trust in but it works. If you've got no conscience it's easy to lie. No one likes an abuser and it's what people want to think when the woman lies and turns the tears on.
I'm afraid that I don't hate women but by the same token I will trust one now like I trust a viper.
Why we allow this is beyond me. The weak have out-manoeuvred the strong. It's fucking disgusting. I know guys who have left the UK for Asia post-divorce. They can't get child support if you're in a different jurisdiction.
For starters....I am very sorry that you are going through that and am very much against the whole "every other weekend" bullshit. Kids need both parents and that's just ludicrous in my opinion. Children aren't a possession that should be just shared. On another note...it isn't just conservative, Christian women that are against modern feminism; I am not by societies standards, "conservative" and I am Wiccan, not Christian, however I live a life that would be a nightmare to most modern feminists aka housewife/stay at home mom and I rely on my husband for everything so I can be home with our little man. I do all of the housework and cooking and don't complain about it...unless it involves one of my teenagers being lazy lol.
Tough story. Sorry to hear it. Golf and beer might help. Works wonders for me....lol...
my dad want thought the same shit as u . but in the end he got custody of me cause for some reason the judge get fed up with her bullshit and told her he send her to jail if she kept it up .
Your saving alot of men worldwide. Thank you.
Rollo said it best: Women will agree with the parts of the redpill that conform with their imperative, but anything else, “No you can’t do that. That’s very offensive and I don’t approve of it.”
The fact that it is so accurate is scary and truly shows us that Rollo Tomassi wasn't wrong.
Only the weak get offended, as a woman I enjoy this it makes me become better...fuck the feelings suck it up. Facts are Facts. This is why women can't handle a real man....💯
Yue Fei Ragnar comes out with some blinders too
Kudos from a female fan. I appreciate that you are boldly speaking on men’s issues. I know that I can’t really understand it totally, but I understand enough to know that men are being shortchanged by the laws and endure a lot of garbage from the demo-Nazis. I like the way you passionate and rational simultaneously. Keep up the great work.
I had a gun in my mouth after my last divorce, and yes I was stupid enough to go through it twice! Content like this saved my life and opened my eyes. After all that you'd think I would hate women, but I don't. Instead, I put my energy into learning how to be the best version of myself and how to navigate the marketplace. Thanks for the mirror and presenting the truth brother!
I wonder why no one of the Americans yet just killed the Ex-Wife, because it's much cheaper(nobody to pay). Instead of killing myself it would solve the pay problem AND going to jail means the State has to pay for you and will fall much faster. Like destroying it from the inside. Dark ideas, but then there would be a change soon.
@Roy_Thousand HaHa... It's all good bro, not going down that road again.
@@JeyDeee89 We think alike. I've been asking this question for years.
Lamd
@Roy_Thousand it use to
Imagine if women just concentrated on being the best version of themelves?
Imagine?
Not likely
your asking for the unrealistic!
@Fritz maybe but that would not be their best version.
It would be great, but I will probably see a unicorn first!
@@bross824 You'll probably see the return of Christ before it happens.
Excellent response. Balanced approach and respectful.
Sadly, most of us guys don't know the reality of family law until we're being crushed by it.
I do my best to inform young men but most just don't get it and I understand that as I'm not convinced I would have "gotten it" either at their age.
@@sailingaeolus you are on the ultimate 🎯 strong men keep the world spinning easy target for the devil using eve again 🤷🏾♂️
Just as I tell my 8 year old son... Never let a woman define what it means to be a man.
Bittersweet You Are you a screwed up specimen?
Go away sweetie, men are talking.
@Bittersweet You You literally just proved his point for him, and why white men? I mean seriously what is different between white men and Asians, blacks, Latino's etc?
@Danny Timms I'm white, myself. I fail to see how I could be 'racist' towards my 'own' people.
I do, too- but only the obnoxious and psychotic ones as I intend to be annoying and a weirdo in return. Btw, though, since I'm mainly attracted to white males in looks (unfortunately :/), I've decided to not date ever if I can help it. Everyone wins. ^-^
@@dhedluk8363 You mean 'Trans women' (if only on the inside). ;)
WAKE UP. How many women commenting here are saying they are "not like that"!
Don't be fooled men!
Yeah, what they really mean is “I’m not like that, right now!”
You may find one or two unicorns, it's possible. The problem is, more than enough women are like that that the odds are not in your favor.
@Runer Warlock I certainly understand and respect that. Being Christian does not require one to be stupid or suicidal.
What is that old saying?
"Proof is in the pudding"..
Well, it sure is isn't!
They are all like that
lol her entire email basically boiled down to this. "Hey, stop telling all the strong quality guys to avoid marriage. You are leaving us with no other options but to go for the betas that bow down to feminism" I feel like her email was well-intentioned but it wasn't made out of a legitimate concern for men. It was made in the service of women.
Ostensibly, those two goals should be aligned, so far as relationships go. The real issue is that women don't actually understand what they are advocating for or promoting. Instead, they over-inflate the egos of young women, encourage them to devalue men and competition in general (but particularly male competition), and despise family. Then later they wonder why they have to settle for betas like it isn't what they asked for.
@@ArtumTsumia I heard a really nice metaphor today that pertains to this but I can't seem to remember who said it. It goes a little something like this "Women don't care about the male struggle, when all men compete, women just hang out at the finish line and bang the winners" I imagine it must be frustrating for them to see people like Rich encouraging the guys as they struggle to become better men, only for them to finish the race and then just keep going past the women without sparing a look. They must be thinking "By all means, create better men because that benefits us" "But don't tell them not to marry, that doesn't benefit us"
Specifically, not to marry _them._ These women aren't even standing around the finish line. They're on the starting line and anyone who beats them is a misogynist and anyone they beat is pathetic. Still better to be a winner, even if they claim to hate winners, they still want the winner. @@AlexBlindness
ArtumTsumia lol, I feel like deep down women understand that they can't compete with men at the same level of performance. That's what makes them so bitter. They want the same level of respect and recognition that men USED to get, but they don't want to have to go through the same level of hardships and struggle. I have a female acquaintance that graduated with a business degree and started working as an accountant for a hotel, it was a nice job, good pay, very close to her house. However, she wanted more, she wanted to be the manager of a store so she went for it. Now she is working 50 hours a week, driving 25 miles to an from work, having mental breakdowns and falling sick every other week. Needless to say, she can't take it, she called me to see if I could get her a part-time position in my job.
Well what I think is that these women will have to do the approach instead of the good ol' men having to do the effort. My social circle did agree with me that most of us, men, don't like the traditional boy talks to girl only scenario. A lot of girls expect that and yet women don't understand why no men come up to them.
As a female veiwer, I have watched quite a few of your videos and I truly love getting your perspective.
I am not a third wave feminist due to the fact that Ive seen the toxicity of radical feminism and currently its a man hating philosophy. It doesn't build up men but instead break them down. Regarding divorce and custody battles, I entirely agree. Its a system that drains men and many times women gain alot more. Coming from a divorced family, my mother, an addict (very manipulative) had gained full custody over three of us children; over my father who is a full time ER doctor (reliable). There is incredible bias in the courts, and it's took an additional 2 years for my Dad to gain full custody (nearly 250,000 dollars later paying lawyers,alimony,child support, and losing half of what he had). The stress and the depression really hit hard for my Dad but his persistence really paid off and for that I will be forever thankful. So yes, there are some hard truths that we must admit and except accountability for, but it's all about growing, learning, as well as trying to understand what men go through. I believe that as women we need to appreciate true men more for what they do because it goes unnoticed. And vise versa. We all need to strive to respect,love,and understand each other.
STAY WOKE FAM!🤙
Its all a sad story about what happened to your dad and how you now realizing things, but as a woman DO something about it . There are other women as like yourself that have realized how unjust the system is But are not Helping and they should . So rally up as many women as you can and try to get the laws changed for a better and fairer divorce system for men. Make some sort of an impact , it doesn't matter how big it is as every impact helps. If your not going take action against the evil legal system that your poor dad had to go through then you are allowing this evil system to continue. if you have a son or even if someone you know is a male, they are next in line to be burnt . Everyone has to fight it , including women that see the light. Go kick some government ass.
@@claytonbouldin9381 Absolutely. Lawyers are the devil leading Eve to ruination through temptation.
“....it’s important how you influence them (men)...” Translation, it’s important how you influence men, so you need to influence them in a manner which serves the feminist/female narrative.
This.
I’ll add that she’s vocalizing a panic that a lot of women seem to be having... the realization that “the jig is up”. They’ve been deceived by the lie of feminism and now they (and we) are all paying for it. Damn shame.
When they don't have the option to refuse you first....oh boy!!!
This a thousand times
Excellent deduction.
I have two older brothers and a strong alpha father and everything you’re saying is true...keep up the good work! We need more alpha males in this feminized society
Basically summed up- stop telling masculine men to pump and dump because what you’re telling them is inconvenient to my hypergamy.
My highest regards my Brother
I call you my Brother since you seem to post my life of the last 10 years. English is not my primary language so i hope you'll forgive any misspell of my part.
There is so much i could tell you about dating a single mom with 2 youngs. All the sacrifices, the energy and time i invested in a family. Total hell.
thank you soooo much for what you do, in just a couple of days your videos has inspired me and showed me how much i let myself go during the last year and a half. I got out of a relationship of 13 years with barely the clothing i had on my back. i may not be able to subscribe or donate just yet but i swear i'll make amend. Still fighting cancer at this point but i'm getting better everyday and i should be able to resume training soon. You really give me the wake up call i needed. Can't stop, already did so much.
YOU ARE MY NEW HERO, thanks so much again my Brother
It's been a while since this post i hope this message find you.
Hope brother you are doing great nowadays
Hey Rich . . . your videos are great. Thanks for what you do -- I'm an attorney in Tennessee, and Tennessee law believes firmly in a 285/80 day split, where the Fathers get 80 days a year and females get everything else -- regardless how horribly the woman lies during the divorce... Sometimes those lies can be proved in court, but judges GENERALLY don't care even when the woman is caught lying. You're also correct that kids need both parents and that when men are absent from the picture, kids generally develop more problems. Keep up the good message.
Women should raise kids. I was brought up entirely by women and taught men are irresponsible. My mom wouldn't even trust me alone with my dad.
@@alb12345672 and I agree that is sometimes 100% appropriate. There are exceptions to every rule. If the man is a complete loser, for example (a drug addict or pimp); however, many dads want to be involved, and the woman lies -- sometimes the dad ends up in jail with no proof of any harm other than the woman saying "He scares me". Not all judges accept everything the woman says as true, and if the woman overplays her hand, it can work to the man's advantage. However, the presumption is that women should be given almost everything... (that presumption can be rebutted with good evidence to the contrary, but how does a father really prove he did nothing?) Imagine a woman on the stand, crying and saying "He scares me . . . he shouldn't be around our children" . . . It takes skill to prove that the mother is lying...
alb12345672. We all have different experiences ..
I came home after work to find my wife at the time socializing on the phone.
I asked where my 1 year old daughter was & she told me that she was in the bathtub.. I quickly went to check & the water was running & reaching her chin..
I was furious & incredibly disappointed.. Yet another example of many horrible & irresponsible choices my ex-wife made with my kids..
I had to put in extra effort to be vigilant of my children’s safety. Thank god, my kids actually made it into their late teens now.
For the record.. stats show that women mainly raise children & thus women are also the ones that are mainly violent towards them..
@@alb12345672 You were taught some BS.
She didn't want you spending time with your dad because then you would see she was wrong
alb12345672 Almost all criminals, serial killers, and lowlifes in general come from single mother households, whereas kids from single dads experience an upbringing closest to a classic mom/dad household (the next is gay patents, then lesbian parents, then finally single mothers). Both of these points are truths that have been proven time and time again academically and statistically. It is also a truth that Western society finds ‘uncomfortable’ to face, aka feminists.
Marry a woman and you could get a new best friend (which isn't required by marriage), someone to have sex with (also not requiring marriage I suppose) and someone who will hopefully be next to you should times get tough.
If that marriage doesn't work out, you lose: Half of everything you own, likely your dog/cat, you'll probably lose your house and car (or pay her half of it's worth to keep it), be forced to pay child support for many years and be arrested if you fail to do so, and more.
Yeah, an all-around high-risk investment that many guys are realizing is just not worth it. I still remember a female manager of mine trying to persuade a female coworker to go out with me. She didn't talk about my interests. She didn't talk about my personality. She focused on "He's got a pickup truck fully paid for! He has a house already paid for and doesn't pay rent!" Thankfully, the girl wasn't interested in that and wasn't very interested in me either. I was probably 8-10 years older than her anyway.
They try to do the same thing to me recently. However, I learned not to trust when people are trying to hook me up with a girl. You can't imagine the bullets that I have dodged like the Matrix. They think I'm a virgin for turning them down but, who cares. I seen how guys who are financially successful can't buy even a soft drink with their own money 'cuz wife don't allow it'. How that hell does a grownup gets to that point? And they think that others want the same thing!
Super high risk man and no reward for the guy
Like he’s already getting the sex. The women just want marriage because they think it will change something in the relationship.
And in the past their lives definitely would change, because they were virgins living in their dads house.
Now they get to hook up with a new man and everything is different.
But if you’ve been living with the guy and sleeping with him, marriage is going to be a let down and then she’ll blame the man and up s***s creek he goes because “he failed her” in the already failed marriage
Oh look, she shared her feelings. Awww. Bless her.
That's the spirit treat them like children
lol, cool, more of those comments pls
She was sincere, and seemingly open to debate. Respect, goes a long way, in dialogue. Same with politics, these days.
You handled that like an absolute boss Rich. Very articulate, measured, intelligent and assertive. Makes me proud to be part of the manosphere.
I'm one of the men that found Richard's info during my divorce. It helped me out during that dark time in my life and I really appreciate all the work that's done to help men. Keep it up Richard! You have my gratitude.
Michael S me too and I am not a dude. I just take the advice, maybe it has to do with me thinking like a guy!!! I don’t know 🤷♀️
Good on you bro
Great vid as usual.
I hope these never end... I have realized that it is quite hard to get out of the “blue pill” permanently. Years of conditioning doesn’t go away on a finger snap. If I spend a month not thinking things through I can find myself slowly slipping back to the needy ways, letting a hot girl somehow escape through some no-no’s or reacting not as sharply... or even worse, reacting when no reaction is the actual choice.
This requires work, consistently.
I can see why you save us young men's lives - we get manipulated into things we don't want to do - keep up the great content!
A few months back I had a woman go in rage because the shoes she wanted weren't on sale. She started yelling saying I was telling her to shut up and intimidating her. She quietly tells me to choose my next words carefully. I quickly turned around and walked away calling for security on my ear piece. Luckily the boss knew I never insulted any clients and have always been respectful. They ended up giving her the new shoes on sale because they didn't wanna deal with her craziness. Lesson her guys is that women will lie and scream abuse even for petty objects like shoes at 29$
She acted like a toddler because it worked in the past. As long as people let her agree with that behaviour, she will continue acting that way. I dated a couple of woman who tried that shit around me and my response was to drive them home and tell them I was done. I didn't put up with tantrums from my kids when they were 2 and I sure won't put up with that shit from anyone else.
@@j.w.matney8390 👍
I agree with your point. Lets look at this another way. She allows herself to use emotional arguments to get her way. She is self serving and she knows it. Next point she would not worry a second about putting an innocent person's job on the line because she just does not care who she hurts. She is a narcissist. The last point is the store will not stand up to her because it is not something that is good for business. The store giving in is cosponsoring or rewarding her behavior.
Omg... This kind of behaviour makes me wanna buy some AK-47 and fucking shoot them all.... The courts too. Fucking rotten system and society!!
@@j.w.matney8390 It didn't just work in the past it worked on this guy too lol.
Let's review the iron rules. Maybe we can find where they encourage lying.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #1
Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.
Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2
NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #3
Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #4
NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #6
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
In its simplicity this speaks volumes about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.
Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #7
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #8
Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her.
An integral part of maintaining the feminine imperative as the societal imperative involves keeping women as the primary sexual selectors. As I’ve detailed in many prior comments and posts, this means that a woman’s sexual strategy necessitates that she be in as optimized a condition as her capacity (attractiveness) allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy.
Iron Rule of Tomassi #9
Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman.
Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for - women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha.
Where do they encourage lying? I can't find anything in there that _encourages_ lying.
Maybe someone following the rules would lie to try and follow rules number 2 and number 9, but that's on the individual. Nothing in the rules themselves encourages lying.
Where are these rules from ?
@@hanniffydinn6019 They're in Rollo Tomassi's book, The Rational Male.
Is there a difference between making a man wait and just feeling like it's too soon and she honestly doesn't want to cross that line yet?
@@Lisa-ih7fk for me there is a difference. If you just started dating, than sure, wait for a second or third date. But if you are together for two months now, and still nothing, even though he tried to initiate it, then something is not right.
This whole channel is a total wake up call for me,I’ve watched about 10 or so videos now and I,m looking at my present and previous relationships very differently because of it.Ive never suffered anywhere near the financial loss that I’ve seen on this site,though I’ve got 3 close friends who have,and are still paying......but your doing great work here....educating a whole wave of men about one of the biggest cons in modern society.
Keep masculinity alive, Richard! Love your videos!
You love women, that was so clear from the start when I started your video's. The cold hard truth could not be any more accurate! So glad I watched this. You're a solid coach.
Because of Richard and Rollo and a few others I have finally stopped disrespecting myself and lowering my standards. I will not ever give a low self esteem hypergamous (sp?) woman my precious time ever again. I am actually happier living on my own and enjoying hanging out with my daughter on the weekends. Thank you Richard and Rollo et al.
Right on, mate. I've been accused of being bitter and hating women. Sure I'm bitter, because an abusive, selfish woman used the broken Family Law to take away my kids and ruin all our lives. Do I hate women? No. I just hate one in particular. My main problem is with Family Law and the attitudes that allow and encourage this behaviour. It's not good for the kids or society in the long run. My ex needed mental help, not two thirds of my shit. But man = bad.
you can't live with them and you can't kill them. Just avoid them PERIOD!
Rule no.1
Don't take women's opinion so seriously!
Rule no. 1. Don't take women seriously.
Rule no 1
Try not to be sexist.
@@manynumeritos I'll stop being sexist when you stop being a gold digger.
Don't take anyone's opinion seriously.
Well nvm... I said that because of the constant sh*t tests that women give.. I'm not against women. Neither am I sexist.
Well said my brother.. I love people.. I dislike toxic people... Keep up the good work
Sorry chic. But I would rather be a millionaire than a plow horse.
Tony Anderson ditto!
I recently dated a single mom. I gave her kids and her, all the attention in the world. I supported them financially and emotionally. I treated her two kids as if they were my own and they (the kids) loved me. She wanted me to pay for her divorce - I said no way. She refused to allow me to become part of the family home. She would kick me out for the slightest indiscretion (going to the pub with the lads or coming home late from work as I'd been at the gym). I ended up back at my folks door on numerous occasions. She wanted 30 grand of me to continue living with her as she wanted "back-pay" on whatever she had paid on the mortgage prior to meeting me. She wanted to see my phone records, my emails and my bank statements - I said no way. She said that if I had nothing to hide (which I didn't) that I should show her. I said no way. She read my snail-mail-bank statements. I sent them to the house as a 'plant' knowing she would read them. I walked. I will be buying my own house in the coming months and have been totally red-pilled. I'm gonna wander around India for a month in Dec/Jan and I didn't have to ask anyone's permission to organize my trip. I am so glad I stumbled across this movement. It is liberating and I have never felt better in my whole life.
You're doing a great job, Rich. As a mother of two adult, male children, I appreciate your straight forward manner of presenting the information that men need to hear from a men, not women. I have a son in law school to whom I gave Tomassi's book during the Christmas break, then I caught him watching a few of your videos. The information you provide is exactly what young men need to know about relationships. I have always tried to make sure that my sons have the best information necessary in order for them to make sensible decisions, while leaving their decisions in their hands. Besides, what young man wants to listen to love advice from his mother? And, my son has already avoided one big train wreck thanks to you and Tomassi. I am ever so grateful. PEACE
Will you adopt me as an aunt?
What happened to their father your husband, Cynthia?
Glad they have Richard as like a surrogate father to get advice from but they need a PHYSICAL father figure to talk to.
I bet you're lying.
Well said Coop, "All men should have options."
ALL!!
Honestly I found your channel and others making this red pill stuff last year when the single mom I had been with for two years was ... it wasn’t going well. She broke up with me because whatever and losing my relationship with her kids made me feel horrible and I had considered end it all out of deep depression.
I don’t have family so that relationship was a big deal for me and it satisfied something I’ve always been missing. We still live together but soon I will be moving 4,000 miles away for a dream job and life.
Videos like these showed me I wasn’t crazy and that there was something more happening with women. The sucky part is I wanna be married to a partner for life with some kids but I never will now especially after a horrible 7 year marriage of hell.
Thanks man you and others make a difference
Great video and measured response . What saddens me is this information was never talked about when I was younger . I’m almost 60 now .
When this young lady is 40, divorced twice with 2 kids she MIGHT see the world differently lol
Not quite then. Maybe at 50 when those child support checks stop, the alimony is done, her settlement money is all in her closet, and the free house is falling apart...then reality will kick her in the face. At 40, she is living the life of free money leeched off her ex.
@@jamie49868 Doubt it. Even then she will still blame men for her predicament
Actually no, Tinder is full of them who think they have the same SMV.
I'm talking about the money coming in and her financial life situation. Not about how hot she thinks she is, but knows she isn't. The world is totally different for menopausal women when the beards and mustaches start coming in. But please Tinder away.
no she wouldn't. she will blame everybody but not her decision
I’m 26 years old, have dated many “10’s” and in long term relationships. You’re so right on and thank you for saving my life. Like I used to be so frustrated thinking about how women marry men and destroy them through divorce and having children. Hypergamy is absolute truth and in a great way I’ve decided to focus on excellence instead of chasing tail. Also to avoid crazy women because some of them had daddy issues and never grew up. One valuable lesson I’ve learned is for all guys to remember, no matter how hot she is there is always a guy somewhere who is sick of “her shit”
I always tell men that I want a provider and if he can't handle it, I'm out! I'm not his maid.
I got told off once or twice by a woman, I just blew it off. No big deal.
it means you are on the right path, they are trying to shame you back in submission.
Pff.. I generally ignore women. I dont even try to take them seriously, cant. They just blabber nonsense, thats all.
And your definitely not wrong about her email your response was perfect
For the last year, I've been following your videos and advice. I've honestly never been happier. Dating and relationships are such a shit show nowadays and avoiding those headaches is some of the best advice I've ever heard. Keep up the good work! 🤙
What women think doesn’t really matter. Your wisdom Richard is accurate, any man who disregards your advice is a fool.
This woman falls into the category that I like to call "semi self aware". She is aware of some of the problems with western society but she is still enslaved to the female first imperative. Everything she takes issue with are those things that directly butt heads with the feminine imperative. She is obviously in denial about the state of open hypergamy in western society. She would rather tell men it doesn't exist and just to man up and raise better men. Then she has a problem with the iron rules which god forbid we men develop some kind of mental framework to better ourselves.
i dont think she aware of anything. she only agreed with what benefited females, then right after that she calls men weak because they dont agree with feminism
It is completely circular and low IQ
Keep on keeping on. Content like this has helped me get through a tough time in my life as well.
Another example of a woman that is uncomfortable with the mirror being held up in front of her. Hypergamy cannot be disputed. Its in a woman's nature. They want to be able to criticize without being criticized themselves.
It's getting so sickening... My mother, my sister, all my aunts... My my girlfriend my ex-girlfriends every one of them are all the exact same and exactly as you described... It's always about their feelings, and they can always dish it but they can never take it in return! The absolute ignorance and double standards of a modern woman's mindset is absolutely insane!
As the daughter of a former golddigger (the wall was not kind, she settled now for a beta and he's husband #3, #1 left her for a younger model and #2 her last hope drank himself to death) I am HIGHLY aware of hypergamy being in our nature.
Women that are offended by this truth or deny it even, are just trying to project the image of not being cold hearted and greedy. You see it conflicts with their own self image of being a special unicorn with a great personality. It's "unpleasant"
@@BiggerThenKingKong over time, I have made progress in reminding myself that her inability to admit being wrong has nothing to do with the objective wrongness of her behavior and actions. The more I am able to internalize this, the more red-pilled I get. To the extent I'm able to think it in real time, in reaction to her antics (of there are too many to list), I am able to maintain my equilibrium and refrain from responding to her angrily -- not that she doesn't deserve all the anger she receives, but because it's freaking useless
"Not all women are like that"
I may not eat meat every day, but just because I skip on meat for a few days it doesn't make me a vegetarian.
Just because she doesn't (or can't) indulge her appetite for something, that doesn't mean the appetite doesn't exist.
Man... when you started talking about divorce, you really spoke from your heart. Man.. you are brave. Respect.
I love this type of video when you dissect an email like this. I think you are respectful and use 100% logic to defend jabs against you. So often people argue with emotion and it is refreshing to hear logic/facts in a world where it seems to be incredibly rare.
I was 20 once. I had no idea how clueless I was. Live and learn, I guess.
Videos like this shaped my life. There’s an idea that goes like “go through life and learn from you mistakes..” I prefer learn as much as you can about the truth of life as early as you can, and play the game accordingly
Solid video. Western men need to get a good grip on what entrepreneur in car is saying about our dying culture, and even more so, western women need to re-evaluate their priorities
There will be no re-evaluation. There probably wasn't an evaluation to begin with. Most of them will only realize that something has gone wrong when the lights go out and never come back on.
My father hung himself on 06/16/21.
Men are hopeless and are looking for the guidance. Keep up the great work. I miss my dad more than words can explain and will never stop advocating for men.
Like a chihuahua telling off a rottweiler.
😂🤣
That title picture belongs on a billboard with the quote, "so you want to get married?...".
You CANNOT trust a woman's words, you can only trust her actions. The Divorce Courts (and this email) are proof of that.
Love your content Rich - keep up the good fight!
Thank you. I wish I knew this when I was younger. It's never too late so I'll at least start where I am.
The red pill has quite literally saved my life. Thanks to your recommendation to read the rational male.
Women don't want to hear what we think, they want to hear what they think..
Women's logic, is whatever benefits them.. One day it's black, the next day it's white..
Your a God Send brother.. He gifted you, for us, with the mind & the mouth.. Thanks
A girl at the peak of her SMV is also the most entitled and delusional about life's reality. The temerity of her to lecture us is what happens as a result.
The problem is that women don’t want to settle for a man with the same SMV. They run after men with a higher SMV, and then whine when Chad shows her the door.
Absolute legend. Im going through a divorce with a narcissistic controling woman, my good nature kept me in the marriage for the kids but my Alpha has just had to say no! gone through a tough time leaving the military too but you add confidence and clarity which gives beliefe going forward. Good work, Adam from over the pond. Peace.
I'm almost 50 years old and in all that time I have not met one woman that at the least, had the peace of mind a man can achieve. As just two recent examples I watched two youtube videos where you have these two beautiful woman in Thailand. One was by herself the other was with her girlfriends. Both looked like they were very excited to go, but once they got there they both had this look. The look was like I should be happy right now, but I'm not. They took alot of selfies, drank, dance around, laid around in bathing suites. Men can go to places like that and find adventure, they can make themselves happy. In all my time alive I have never seen this quality in a woman...ever.
Sometimes I think that women do not have souls.
First visit to the channel, good vid man. It was pretty interesting and spot on. I’m talking to a single mom of two boys right now and it’s quite entertaining to watch her try and plant small seeds here and there. I call her on the BS every time. She hates it, but she respects me for it.
They don't like the fact you making the man aware of BS around. Makes their life difficult.
You mean they get regular difficulty?
Your videos help men a lot. Also, you always make sense. Keep it up.
Well said, sir! The truth is a beautiful thing!
You had me at:”Welcome to Bomber Command” 😂😂😂 I love it...you are so funny while being cold hard truth bomb giver 🙌🙌
as always a woman wants a man to be direct ...... until she hears something she doesn t like
Rich...you're spot on and have helped me save my own life.
Best advice you've offered me.
Get off the antidepressants and start lifting some weights.
I joined a gym
Put down the bongs
Threw away the cigs.
I found myself hiding under all the bullshit.
Thank you Brother
arguing from a moralistic angle rather than truthfulness angle, which is fairly typical.
"it worries me" vs "it's true"
she's designed to do that. it's signal based rather than empirically based.
that's fine, but when women do this, it's typically in the wrong sphere (politics and society).
sounds like politics
Thank you, I am from Burlington Ontario
I drop past your channel from time to time when the playground gets too noisy. always good sense here brother. peace!
The audacity of someone trying to lecture you as if you have no life experience. I can't deal with people like that.
I'm a woman and I just started watching your channel. I like to hear things from the true male perspective to help me understand guys better. Some truths are harder to swallow because men and women are wired so differently. But that's just the way it is. It's better to understand than try to change another person.
Men can be horrible in relationships ( my own ex-fiance was abusive and got another girl pregnant) but I've watched hard working, loving men in my family and friends have their lives RUINED by women. I think it is so wrong that a drug addicted welfare mother gets custody over a man with a stable job, a home and true love for his children.
God bless you man, you are amazing and yes you are making a dent in the universe, more men need to see your chanel.
I’m pretty sure she just wanted to slide in Richard Coopers DM.
Keep Preaching Rich! Thanks for Your Job!!!!
Hi, bro! Thanks for another great video. I'm one of the men who are grateful for all the hard work you do.
The only thing I want to say is that it was hard to discern what was the email and what was your response. I wouldn't expect you to make different voices, but some kind of differentiation would make it alot more easy to follow for us who binge your vids while looking elsewhere.
Apart from that, I resonate with your reasoning unreasonably well, brother. Thanks again.
I am a married woman (38) and I love your channel. I admire your brutal honesty and the fact that you have the maracas to come on UA-cam and just tell it like it is! At 22 years old I don’t think this woman - or anyone- has had the life experience, therefore emotional IQ, to really understand the depth and holistic nature of your content. Keep doing what you’re doing and I think it’s awesome that you are encouraging men to become better versions of themselves 👍🏼
When I was a teen, my dad told me to treat the janitor the same way I'd treat a king. I took his word on it. He then told me to buy a new car on lease as my first car, instead of a used one because it'd be more reliable. I didn't listen and got a mildly used one for 1/3 the price of a new one. Men aren't stupid to listen to shit advice and follow it blindly. Men only listen to Richard because his advice is sound and makes sense.
@@freddyrassinger8198 been with me five years. Still runs like a dream.
@@freddyrassinger8198 I barely drive it anymore so it is just parked. No intention to sell it. When I am not travelling, I use it or one of the company cars. Or just Uber, etc. Driving is a waste of time lol.
Dam rich very very well said respectfully i’ll add class act brother 👍
Anytime I have ever asked anyone in my life why I should get married as a man nobody has been able to give me a logical reason why. All they can say is it's what your supposed to do in society and marriage is great. They ignore me when I say statistics about divorce and how you can lose your stuff. All they can say is I have to be optimistic. I asked someone the same thing where if they had a 50% chance of dying from sky diving would they go skydiving? The person I said this would not give a direct answer since they knew as well as I did it was stupid to say yes. It's always emotional responses never logical responses I get from people. Not one person has told me a logical benefit to getting married as a guy.
I'm struggling to see the perks myself.
Dating = What has she done for me lately?
Married = I'm stuck wih her lazy ass unless I give up half my stuff to get rid of her.
next time someone gets on you about not marrying ask them this......if marriage did not exist as we know it today with all the laws and government intervention etc...would they invent it and want to take all the credit for it?? watch as they have that stupid look on there face and watch the gears start turning in there head...gets them everytime.
@Dr.'sorders i get a guy wanting kids..not my thing but the stable home thing is an illusion ...50 years ago things worked and the divorce rate was not 50-60%...more single mother then ever and fathers are kicked out.
@Dr.'sorders yup...i remember my father telling me if you are not next to her in bed every night.....another man will be guaranteed.
Its because they are all asleep so basically sheep
Hi, It's a brilliant reply for a 20 yrs old, it is almost the same way I think since I have experienced not worse than hell and now I go my own way.
A sincere thank you
I love your shelves! Cast iron pipes! Awesome!
I had to actually Google hypergamy and boy, you hit that one right on the head. My ex was the poster child for that!!! A recent sub who loves your content. Keep up the great work, brother.
I own a successful business, I'm fit and I'm becoming a good investor. I'm never getting into a LTR. The family laws are against me. What I earn belongs to me and no one. I earned.
Richard, you are the king! Thank you for your contributions of helping young men.
I'd just like to thank you & all the guys I've been watching lately(red man group). Almost done reading "the rational male" and these new views of the world are a great change for me. So I appreciate all the content, its definitely helpful wile I'm coming out of the feMatrix and seeing this new shit storm. Having the information to deal with it is wonderful. thank you
YOU'RE GODDAMN RIGHT, RICHARD. THANK YOU!
Why arn't women encouraged to get "better" as men are encouraged to get better. Modern woman have become entitled and preferenced as proven in the family court.
This must change and we need to challenge all female claims in court.
Great response. I do appreciate the fact that she sent her email in a calm, non-emotional manner.
Gotta love it when people in their 20s tell others what life is all about.