Well the old guy 91 just died learn about him and the women why they where seeking him out, who made women "famous" in porn, they want your status to rub on on them its a really weird thing but Hugh hefner or whatever learn why that guy is a "civil rights feminist" how they would line up in a row to ride his cock for 1 minute like splash mountain no condoms nothing. And you get you get the answer.
Vera Soler Vera, you get women haters and you get men haters, and yes we have all suffered the wrath of the keyboard warriors or trolls which there seem to be far more of unfortunately! Not everyone on the internet is that way fortunately, basically it's only someone's opinions it's one of few things were STILL entitled to don't give up or they win. Take care of yourself
Yea these goldiggin Thots only want chads because they're to lazy to work at a well paying job.if a Chad somehow lost all his money a Stacy would go after another rich chad
Love has very little to do with romantic relationships with women. It's what you can offer that counts in their mind. When a woman shows interest in me, I always ask what THEY can offer me. Most get pissed.
You must be talking to stupid women.. that's the only explanation. I know what I have to offer and it is pretty much the same as what expect of you... You can do all the heavy lifting though. I'll do the dishes.
LILIANA SURIEL or is it impossible standards? That's my point. The average guy or girl can't possibly measure up to a list with such high standards, their letting themselves in for a downfall. I'm being realistic.
Let’s face it in the end it’s ALWAYS MONEY!! There is no other option They will step ova your corpse with a tear in thier eye but have the Biggest “Smile” for Mr money bags😉 because thier built weak by nurture (which is just the training they get from their mothers)
One thing not mentioned in the study...... men who comment "first", on youtube videos, actually are more likely to stay single for extended periods of time, even decades.
Staying single is a much healthier choice, especially if one know and love themselves in a Wholistic and solubrious way. As what most understands about the concept of marriage is very far off from reality. Marriage is for irresponsible and unlearn people- they may babysit one another,and take out each other trash daily!!🤔😎
Well, if your mom chose a rich guy with good genes to make you rich and hot and you had a loving father on top of being rich, you wouldn't be complaining as her child I don't think! That's why men are hypocrites they complain about women wanting these things in a man, yet if their own daddy wasn't like that they are unhappy!
Well, if your mom chose a rich guy with good genes to make you rich and hot and you had a loving father on top of being rich, you wouldn't be complaining as her child! That's why men are hypocrites they complain about women wanting these things in a man, yet if their own daddy isn't like that they are also unhappy!
All most famous scientists have met and made a study about what women want. After many many years of research they finally came to a conclusion. "We had finally discovered what is that women want!!!" "What is that?" "They've changed their mind"
@1Man Army I suppose I would marry someone if there were years of a trustworthy relationship before that. Some people dont appreciate that trust is difficult to earn and easy to lose.
@@slipshaft I did that and did not go well. After about say 6 months things started to change :) something gets into their heads once you say "I do". So no, don't do jt for any reason. Nothing is worth the trouble.
Real men don't care what women want..it is not important. Do not get in relationships with them, just have fun and move on. Women destroy the lives of men.
Amen bro. Every man needs to live his own life. Always choose your gift and purpose over chasing women. If I decide to have a family with a woman, it’ll be by coincidence and astute choice, not because I’m out looking for a woman. Stay strong men. Pussy isn’t worth your pride and life.
@@mnavo86 Pride and life? I am very curious, not being rude. What exactly are you worried about that a prenup cannot address? Why give up on all women when a tad bit of knowledge is all you need to stay safe?
Sarah Lou I didn’t mention to give up on all women. In summary, I advised not to chase women. Instead a man should chase his goals and purpose. A prenup won’t solve all problems.
@@mnavo86 The OP claims women destroy lives, your reply is Amen bro. I get you're not referring to that now but it made you appear as an misogynist. Anyhow, name specifically what a prenup will not solve besides the responsibility of picking a suitable partner. I cannot find one good excuse why men should avoid marriage while prenups exist.
Brian Jones ... how do their actions scream it when most reject the vast majority of men? Women aren’t concerned with the average man. Lol & if it was men they are ‘really into’ then why would they reject them in the first place or say ‘we don’t need no men’ or why would the man say ‘ok bye’? looool it makes no sense. It’s the rejects and most women do not care about those.
That must be the case for a large portion of American women / modern feminists, I feel so bad for American men. I specifically look to date mostly East European and Slavik country women, as the vast majority of them prefer a masculine Alpha man, are excellent at being feminine and pleasing their man, happily do chores and housework, cooking etc without a fuss, and my goodness are they amazing lovers. Good women are out there, do not let people on the internet discourage you (but do not put those women on a pedestal of course, focus on yourself as well and finding a high value woman, and you will both have a long, happy relationship/marriage if thats your thing)
Well this is depressing. there is no satisfying or pleasing someone who wants it all. Seems like a woman will only want you if you have the attributes to make them look better. Basically what can you do for me. Men give and a woman takes. and once you stop giving or can't give a woman moves to the next and that is supposed to be ok. So based off this study, a woman will only be with you if you can benefit her and don't expect anything in return. that's F#&% up. Think ill be better off single. at least that way i wont be used, drained, and depleted.
It just recently dawned on me that women want to monopolize your time. They want all of it. The less time you give her, and spend on your own fun, the more she'll resent you for it.
Bojan Kotur ... YUP ... I’m 47 ... wish I could go back in time, and with all of this brilliant and insightful knowledge, smack my fucking skull. Why? I was playing by all the wrong rules. I assumed I was dealing with sane and rational beings. Women are not. Men test ideas. Women test men. I would have seen things with a more keen eye.
I know the vid is old but I gotta add my thoughts. Recently I got my dream car. A Dodge Challenger, and I’ve been extremely happy just being single and driving my car. Picking up women has also gotten so much easier. It’s a night and day difference as to how I’ve been treated by them once they see my car. I had one girl ghost me when I drove my beater, and then that same one hit me up again after she saw that I got my dream car. It’s pretty telling as to how women really are and how they actually behave. Big red pill moment for me.
@@DrMic2112 ...just wondering if you think your 4 cylinder front wheel drive Honda with 'stance' suspension and a fart can is better than a Dodge Challenger?
Exactly. I know a family member who's done. She married a much older man but he was a millionaire. He passed away a while back but she inherited half the wealth. She hasn't worked a day since.
grinning over here - yes, we want it all. Looking back, the men I was really attracted to and whom I really wanted to have possessed all those traits that you mentioned. Of course, I wasn't the only woman who liked them. They had their pick and they knew it.
I didn't realise this video was from over a year ago. It's about the same time I broke it off with my narcissistic fiance. The study honestly means to me, what is the point in dating at all, when at every level, psychological, phisical, behavioural, financial, primal, the woman seeks feed or supply from you. Does it even cross their minds that true uncinditional love is exactly that. Unconditional, and actually about appreciation, not posession, and certainly not about using someone else. People deserve to be loved for their spirit, not for what they can bring to someone else's table. I'm a huge believer in if you want something, go out there and get it yourself. Don't use someone else to make your dreams real. Personally I'd rather be alone forever than allow someone to use me like that.
im so happy i found this channel at 26 years old.....I feel my Dad couldve used this information 35 years ago......and every other man in my life.....sending these to all my friends.
They want everything from you without giving anything and even they don't really care about it😂😆
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What do women want? The want four animals. They want a Mink in the wardrobe. A Jaguar in the garage. A Stallion in the bedroom. A Jackass to pay for it. Men are now stopping the Jackass bit, and they dont like it
I never pickup heavy shit but I always put it down also known as fat women who hit on you LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....imagine feeding one of those,goodbye resources.
1. money 2. money 3. money 4. money 5. money 6. money 7. money 8. money 9. money 10. money. 11. money. 12. whatever else you own that can be turned into money 13. good genes for the father of their kids
I emailed my 2nd ex-wife on 12/24 to wish her a "Merry Christmas"... and the entirety of her response was: "The only thing I want or need from you is the money you owe me." I replied with a meme saying, "Respect a man, he'll do the more." That's the one thing she cannot / will not do.
In my mid-thirties I achieved 90% of this list. Unfortunately, the 6 figure income turns into 7 figures. The paid for condo turns into a 7 bedroom spread in the expensive part of town and the weekend getaway turns into first-class airfare to Paris for 3 weeks. FACTS! My point being it NEVER ends!
What I'm noticing, especially after looking for it, women want a man who presents himself as an alpha and who is fit, first. That's the initial attraction. Then they break down the hypergamy traits... ie money status and family values. I have always been an athlete so attracting women has never really been an issue. I've noticed, however, I get bored with women who are basic and not very good team players. I've had weak jobs and just focused on having fun. Now that I've actually started taking my job seriously and made good money, I've noticed that the quality of females are getting better, ie taller, fitter, more attractive, more feminine, less feminist, and more caring and nurturing. Improving yourself is improving your chances of finding "her." Confidence comes with success. The best women demand both.
Yes, quality of females may have improved but the paradigm is just the same. You just have a fitter, prettier, more feminine version of a woman who is afflicted with the same “ailments” as the uglier, fatter, masculine women.
I'm a successful person who have worked 15 years to have my own workplace and earning multiple digit income at 40. It's interesting to have seen women wanting to be with me even if I'm not very handsome or highly attractive. To be honest I'm fed up with women hitting on me whenever the opportunity arises. Because when I didn't have the resources and the status they simply did not care and pursue me. So I never trust female ability to love and devote themselves to a man for who he is but not for what he has achieved.
Thats true whatever else they r saying if bullshit they dont care about you they care about what you got thats y i question the word love as in a relationship it doesn't exist
Yep. It’s kind of a catch 22: a young man want a girl(s) so he improves himself and his life/status/resources/looks. After growing this women are more attracted to him. But now it’s impossible to know if any of them are interested in him as a person or for his resources.
They'd be willing to play the role for a couple years until you gave them a ring and a baby. Then they'd start feeling abused and would need a divorce, and 60-100% of your assets.
Note that the study is about the correlation between female attractiveness and their desire for each of the mentioned qualities. Not about what women value the most. For instance, it is well known that the most attractive women pretty much only date the most attractive men. That's what the 0.30 correlation under "sex appeal" means, not that women in general value that trait a lot. Less attractive women must accept they can't get an attractive guy, so they tend to value other traits like intelligence, which explains the 0.10 correlation under "intelligent". (Note that the correlation, although small, is still positive, indicating more attractive women are still more selective than less attractive women when it comes to intelligence in men.)
David Carson I know right!? After learning the facts about women (at least American women), any reasonable and prudent man should feel utterly disgusted at their behavior patterns. For example, women are more interested in money than intelligence? That's fucking ridiculous! Women are more interested in parenting skills than partnership skills? WTF!? The data suggests they are completely fucking irrational....which is why I'm not surprised at my lack of success with them. One word: mindfuck!
Watched this study years ago called something like "What man would you choose a)for a lover and b)become the father of your children". They were never the same guy ... It could be that simple. Watch out for age, goals and life stages.
If you choose a woman who doesn't know she's enough, with or without you/ "success" (however she defines it)/outside validation etc be aware you can never satisfy her. She needs to find it within herself first. Find a woman with self respect, who is healthy and has similar values to you. Treat her with respect and maintain healthy personal boundaries. "Don't judge a book by it's cover".
Hey brothers from another mother! Today I had such an experience. Few days ago I've met a Russian girl and I offered her to grab a coffee. We had some what good conversation she works for an Oil prodicuing company. At one point I asked her why she've decided to study this field at University and surprisingly she answered me honestly . She said that she thought it was easy to find a rich husband in this field or at least some one with good potential to become a rich. I laughed out loud. she proved this research totally
Things that I personally consider essential 1. Understanding 2. Honesty/ability to communicate 3. Affection 4. *Intelligence (mostly equal to your partner, provides better problem solving together) 5. A person that isn't homeless, you can buy stuff but it would be easier for everyone to be equal in a longer run Attention. All of these traits and the % of those depends of the person and their personality. For example from a highly educated person it would be natural to want emotional support while from an already emotional person- logical thinking to balance it out. Essentially what people need is just a compatible not entirely perfect person. Doesnt matter is it a woman or a man, just someone who gets you.
@Mr Offensington Well I didn't know you're an expert in knowing me. Attraction and essential parts that are needed to sustain a relationship are two different things. Attraction is something so complicated and individual based that it would be impossible to generalize while what I listed is something that, in my opinion, a relationship should be based on whether it is romantic or not. For me attraction comes second and these things first simply because attraction is more easily to wear off while common understanding not.
@@sugarflowerjam I think the point trying to be made is that how do these idealized versions of the perfect man measure up to reality. And I'm not talkin about a philosophical analysis in a vacuum. I'm talking about your actual reality and how you hope to achieve it. Sometimes perfect becomes the enemy of good. Perfect is something that can only exist in the mind. So ask yourself if you prefer to live in your mind seeing the world as you choose, essentially as a slave to this frame of thinking. Or as a conscious being with agency.
@@MrSears_1.618 My comment, in fact, claimed that people aren't to search for perfect but for compatibility. There is no perfect, there are only people who are compatibile enough.
@@sugarflowerjam The only part of your list clearly defined is that it's required to not be homeless, do you mean self-sustaining or able to provide for more than himself? The other parts are open to interpretation, what's different about points 1 & 2? Affection = romance? Intelligence with what? Computers? Construction skills? Technical knowledge? Social skills?
@@MrSears_1.618 Pfft. I'm sorry the "required" part made me laugh. I wouldn't write "not homeless" as a requirement for other than comical reasons. I did, however, try claiming with that, that equal financial situation is probably more comfortable for both. That is because it would eliminate the possible feelings on unfairness. But did you read my whole comment? The list doesn't matter. In my opinon, it is nice if the relationship is build on those essentials.Especially when it comes to 1,2 and 3 because those are the important pillars in communication. However, these are still my personal prefernces and if you wish to eliminate something or in other words " 0%" it in the search for compatibility please do so. Also, firstly, about affection. I don't think it's romance. Just the general one you show every close person. I suppose it can be taken as "showing kindness or that you care". But the ratio and frequency of any of the things on that list is up to your preference. You can find yourself someone who shows affection once a year if that's what you like. Secondly, simplified: for me intelligence is just general capability to think rationally and solve issues. I feel like too of a big gap in the so called intelligence makes things difficult and though, it is said that supposedly intelligence grows with education I wouldn't say it's the case for everyone.
Juan Cano , although not explicitly stated, personality was totally included in the study. For example, the ability to be humorous is known to be related to intelligence which is covered, and behavior like caring about kinds and being a loving partner are a major part of one's personality. Imho, it would be too arbitrary/challenging to include "personality" as a separate variable for a study.
Personality is never what women want first. It only matter if a woman can manipulate you, then she wants someone she be with while she manipulates you like a fool.
All these guys saying money are mislead. Attraction is the most important thing. I have plenty of friends who don’t have good careers but they have hot successful girlfriends. Being good looking and fitting cultural norms of what is considered attractive is most important.
Some not all applies to women. I think both sexes expect too much today. I think a lot of people over think today and are not satisfied with the simple things in life.
Men used to be simple, go to work, come home to a home cooked meal...spend time with the kids or watch tv in a clean home and have sex a few times a month with his wife. Pretty much the natural order of things. I understand things can't be like they used to for majority of relationships because women do deserve to have wants to achieve something other then raising good children...but there was something in that old formula although I admit not perfect that actually worked for marriages. Third wave feminism has now deemed a women who is a stay at home mom/wife as being held there by Patriarchy when it's in a women's natural inclination to raise children and tend to household necessities. If her husband is keeping her happy in her stay at home lifestyle and keeping her from wondering about leaving her man and pursuing a job he must be doing something right and that involves a man who can provide, who looks good and is healthy, and gives her good D when she wants it. Me, personally my first requisite for women is having a sexual attraction towards her, a women who is not in the Cluster B Personality types, and a woman who is independent to a certain degree...I do like to feel wanted and needed as a man...not because of my ego but because it gives me purpose in the relationship
Women "think" tey want tall, dark, handsome, protective guy but in reality tey require security, gud looks, stability, comfort & someone to be proud of.
I will say that what women want is everything xD they want EVERYTHING THAT MEN HAVE AND EARNED WITH HARD WORK. THEY WANT IT FOR FREE Now lets watch the video to see if I was right.
I want to thank you for all of your videos on the reality of dating. You have helped me change my life, so now I am constantly seeking perfection. You should know that your videos have made a huge positive difference in my life. Thank You
What women say they want and what they actually choose are two different things. Im an alfa , a little overweight and have had plenty of hotties. If you confident and challenge them , its easy.
Men used to be simple, go to work, come home to a home cooked meal...spend time with the kids or watch tv in a clean home and have sex a few times a month with his wife. Pretty much the natural order of things. I understand things can't be like they used to for majority of relationships because women do deserve to have wants to achieve something other then raising good children...but there was something in that old formula although I admit not perfect that actually worked for marriages. Third wave feminism has now deemed a women who is a stay at home mom/wife as being held there by Patriarchy when it's in a women's natural inclination to raise children and tend to household necessities. If her husband is keeping her happy in her stay at home lifestyle and keeping her from wondering about leaving her man and pursuing a job he must be doing something right and that involves a man who can provide, who looks good and is healthy, and gives her good D when she wants it. Me, personally my first requisite for women is having a sexual attraction towards her, a women who is not in the Cluster B Personality types, and a woman who is independent to a certain degree...I do like to feel wanted and needed as a man...not because of my ego but because it gives me purpose in the relationship ...something as simple as "baby can you open this jar for me" with a sly smile of femininity is sexy / gives me purpose... reward me with a kiss and I'm happy. Most men are truly simple to please
It’s really hard to find a man like that here. I want to stay at home, raising my kids, homeschooling them. But modernism and feminism has been killing the natural order.
that worked right up until woman were told men are oppressors and they are being held back etc...now single parent homes are the norm...the destruction of the family from the 50s is the goal and its working.
A passing thought: I am the eldest of (4) brothers and we are now in our 60's and paid our dues. We understand women "marry" for resources and know life with Princess Wannabe leaves you at best appreciated for your utility and at worst OMG what was I thinking. The next time we brothers get together I will ask if anyone wants to pony up $125k each and buy a (4) bedroom 3500 sq' Cabana Home along the Gulf Coast. We can hire room service and live out our days like Kings.
Thank you for this video and your work. This study is an excellent dose of reality, and this is why we as men, should study evolutionary psychology, because it gives us a more realistic approach and mindset towards dating. Unfortunately, the mainstream narrative gives us the opposite mindset of what reality is.
You mention the MRS degree. It is absolutely true and absolutely overt. I live in Utah and BYU students frequently talk about the MRS degree and they use that exact term. I don't know when it was coined, but I remember hearing the term back in the early 90's.
Dates back to the 50's when more women were going to college during the post-war boom actually. It's freaking regressive as hell that this s**t is still prevalent in this day and age.
I like this one Richard but some, including me, would ask "why become a better version of yourself just to appease some snarky, gold digging bitch who will eventually want to take it all from you anyway"
Entrepreneurs in Cars All of your videos and most of our experiences would indicate that playing against a female equals an automatic loose, it's just the time frame that varies, regardless of the "value"
It's just to keep pace with your own wants. If you are ok with an unaccomplished slob for a mate (easy to achieve for the woman), then you don't need to work hard yourself. If you want more (harder for the woman), then the price is an improved version of yourself.
Its very telling that good partner idicators were the least desirable in the list of qualities. Thankyou for the concise way in which you presented the study and its findings.
Finally. After all these years I got my answer. Now to begin working on myself correctly and fix the damage caused by an extremely radical blue pill family. I guess it's better late than never.
Honestly every time I watch your videos I don’t see a huge difference between men and women. Women want it all and so do we. The more money and status we have makes us wanna be free and sleep around. The more attractive a women is the more she expected from a man. So a lot of similarities then differences
We men are simple creatures, we buy a generator we know we can trust to provide warmth and power for years. But, we simply don't know what to put in this generator to even start it. By the end of it we find out the only thing this generator is good for, is decoration.
This is crazy so women want men , That are esentially off the scales beyond 2 plus. In nearly every category Except niceness and faithfullness 🤔 , Geez That's too much hassle , they want men paying for everything they want & for their children , So what do men get in return besides sex only when She decides ?
Mr Sandman, bring me a dream...bom bom bom bom...It's all their fantasy-land statistics. Last I checked our shitty reality is also their shitty reality. They still have a layer smothered with shit all over it, just like everybody else. :)
It’s hard finding a good loving figure in society. For me I couldn’t even find it from my mom. So now I’m just focused on loving myself only good life I see for me.
so basically u either enjoy your life, or u work hard 24/7 to be able to live with someone who'll make life more difficult and will leave once any of the things u built goes to shit. I was looking to live the dream but turns out i'm allrdy living it.
Wow. At 47 I fully understand the power of being stoned my whole life. Not being tempted to marry, do excessively stupid physical activities, working, surfing, skating, saving and investing. Hit a few nines and one ten along the way , I believe this low effort high reward strategy is ideal.
woman wants the 666666 = 6 at least six-feet tall 6 at least a six figure salary 6 Drives a 600 horsepower Super car 6 Has a Six-pack abdomen 6 at least six months since his last relationship with his ex 6 At least six inches banana below the belt
"Don't be Bitter be Better." My translation: let go of the source of your bitterness then betterment will follow; let go of women in your life and watch the fruits of your efforts blossom into a life to be proud of. Give love and validation to yourselves gentalemen and care not about the opinions of people who have no authentic love/affection to offer you. Bright side, when you do become better the power to accept or reject is in your hands 🤲 never forget this... "You are the masters of your own destinies, the builders of civilization, and you answer and bend the knee to no one." "DON'T BE BITTER BE BETTER."
I worked 30 years & retired from my company with a cool mill in the 401K & never been on a date or relationship. I'm glad things went my way despite never feeling the pleasure of a women.
The "Mrs." degree: My Dad's mother sent all three of her children to college. For my Dad my grandmother sent him to get a 4-year degree which he completed. For my two aunts she sent them for two years the the direction to get that Mrs. degree! They were both successful, although the eldest did eventually get her 4-year degree. Kind of interesting when one thinks about it. Now imagine a women going to college and getting her woman's studies degree. I'm thinking there will be a low chance of success. Both regarding marriage, but also earnings capacity and happiness.
A little confusion on the scale used in the university study referenced in this video. 2.0 is highest positive score possible on any given trait characteristic surveyed, negative 2.0 is the lowest negative score possible, according to what Mr. Cooper says in the video. However, Mr. Cooper references results in the 0.25 to 0.35 range as being highly positive and significant. These trait characteristic ratings are barely off the 0-point (which corresponds to an inconsequential trait characteristic). Is Mr. Copper just mis-speaking here? Did he mean to say 2.5 to 3.5? If so, this seems an impossible result, since the range in the study only spanned from negative 2.0 to positive 2.0. Thus, a score higher than 2.0 would not be possible. I am confused.
Men are drawn to women who are needy and make them feel wanted, then they complain when it doesn’t work out and they’re left with the responsibility of that woman even after it’s over. Men don’t like women who are independent until it’s too late. I honestly look for a man who makes me feel safe and happy, feels like a partner or an equal but honestly that’s so hard to find because of what was stated above. They don’t want a woman who doesn’t rely on him 100% while they’re together, can’t have it both ways guys!!
Rolando Ariaga trust has to be earned by being transparent. As soon as one partner starts being secretive, mirroring comes into place and the relationship goes down the abyss, only a matter of time: transparency+trust or secrecy+separation. Simple formulation, isn't it?
Interesting study but it says, a bit farther down, that participants WERE ALREADY MARRIED. Someone who is married in the mid 20s likely is going to have a different set of likes and dislikes compared to an unmarried woman in the same age group, right? From the study ovulation status or mate value. Before discussing the potential implications of these results, several limitations of the study should be noted. First, the sample consisted of already-married individuals.
I've done videos on the topic of how come our mothers, especially divorced or single, give some crappy advice to their sons such as 'just be a nice guy and the girls will like you..' which is completely out of phase with reality (bad boy syndrome). My hypothesis is this; women who are old enough to give advice to their sons who are old enough to start dating are already in their 30s (post wall) and what do post wall women want? Nice guys...well, not that they necessarily want, but that's all their SMV will get them post wall. In short, they're not giving advice to their sons from their teenaged selves frame of reference. They're giving advice 15 years after they were teens.
Copy of study here: labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2015/09/attractive-women-want-it-all-2008.pdf
What exactly is sex appeal defined as? Is it just confidence in approaching and pursuing?
Well the old guy 91 just died learn about him and the women why they where seeking him out, who made women "famous" in porn, they want your status to rub on on them its a really weird thing but Hugh hefner or whatever learn why that guy is a "civil rights feminist" how they would line up in a row to ride his cock for 1 minute like splash mountain no condoms nothing. And you get you get the answer.
Vera Soler Vera, you get women haters and you get men haters, and yes we have all suffered the wrath of the keyboard warriors or trolls which there seem to be far more of unfortunately! Not everyone on the internet is that way fortunately, basically it's only someone's opinions it's one of few things were STILL entitled to don't give up or they win. Take care of yourself
great information Rich thanks for the hard work.
Thanks!
"Being a good partner" (loving, loyal, supportive) comes in dead last on women's wish list. That really says it all doesn't it?
Marriage is a trap! And yet it's the first thing a young man is taught to have lol
Yea these goldiggin Thots only want chads because they're to lazy to work at a well paying job.if a Chad somehow lost all his money a Stacy would go after another rich chad
Love has very little to do with romantic relationships with women. It's what you can offer that counts in their mind. When a woman shows interest in me, I always ask what THEY can offer me. Most get pissed.
You must be talking to stupid women.. that's the only explanation. I know what I have to offer and it is pretty much the same as what expect of you... You can do all the heavy lifting though. I'll do the dishes.
Because simps are everywhere.
but do women have a list of what they have to offer?
Randy Rhoads It's assholes like above that make it hard to watch these videos sometimes.
promise edoziem No, but the men sure do. It's a long list too, and it's not only sex.
promise edoziem they should if they have high standards
LILIANA SURIEL or is it impossible standards? That's my point. The average guy or girl can't possibly measure up to a list with such high standards, their letting themselves in for a downfall. I'm being realistic.
would love to see this list, im all ears
Under 30: Bad Boys
Over 30: Money
You clearly aren't dating older women. I clearly am. I'm also flat broke.
Next pet theory!
Under 30 bad boys/money
Over 30 ......repeat 😂
Let’s face it in the end it’s ALWAYS MONEY!!
There is no other option
They will step ova your corpse with a tear in thier eye but have the Biggest “Smile” for Mr money bags😉
because thier built weak by nurture (which is just the training they get from their mothers)
@@GeraldSmallbear. Over 40: Desperate.
That's what you're dating.
Over 40: back to badboys😂
chasing women is a waste of time
They don't even want to be chased when looking for a suitable mate idiota
Don,t chase lol run faster
Linda Robinson haha yep
Well ..a man does need to get his chicken slapped!
Fucking A!
One thing not mentioned in the study...... men who comment "first", on youtube videos, actually are more likely to stay single for extended periods of time, even decades.
lol, good one.
If you actually think they're men, you're not better..
Staying single is a much healthier choice, especially if one know and love themselves in a Wholistic and solubrious way. As what most understands about the concept of marriage is very far off from reality. Marriage is for irresponsible and unlearn people- they may babysit one another,and take out each other trash daily!!🤔😎
LMAO 😂😂
RYEINDUSTRIAL I’ve done that and I’m not single I been with the same girl for 5 years......
1 money
2 cute baby genes to feed their ego
3 be a good person so they can steal the first two.
Thats cold. Not saying youre wrong tho.
Ice cold true.
🤯
Aww fa sure👊🤣
Well, if your mom chose a rich guy with good genes to make you rich and hot and you had a loving father on top of being rich, you wouldn't be complaining as her child I don't think! That's why men are hypocrites they complain about women wanting these things in a man, yet if their own daddy wasn't like that they are unhappy!
The moment one stops prioritizing women over one's life, that is the moment one starts living a much better life.🤨
That sums it up.
Well, if your mom chose a rich guy with good genes to make you rich and hot and you had a loving father on top of being rich, you wouldn't be complaining as her child! That's why men are hypocrites they complain about women wanting these things in a man, yet if their own daddy isn't like that they are also unhappy!
RTHELIONHEART 👏👏👏👏👏
To Right😉
All most famous scientists have met and made a study about what women want.
After many many years of research they finally came to a conclusion.
"We had finally discovered what is that women want!!!"
"What is that?"
"They've changed their mind"
Sources pls or it's BS
LMAO This!!!!!!!!!
@@youtubeshadowbannedme smh
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I'm really starting to think that, unless you are planning to have kids, marriage has become obsolete.
@1Man Army I suppose I would marry someone if there were years of a trustworthy relationship before that. Some people dont appreciate that trust is difficult to earn and easy to lose.
Your absolutely right Max! That is the purpose of marriage, and were trying to make it be something else, chasing our tails.
Not even necessary anymore. Adopt or get a surrogate mother for the child you want
Max Weisenstein 100%
@@slipshaft I did that and did not go well. After about say 6 months things started to change :) something gets into their heads once you say "I do". So no, don't do jt for any reason. Nothing is worth the trouble.
Real men don't care what women want..it is not important. Do not get in relationships with them, just have fun and move on. Women destroy the lives of men.
Amen bro. Every man needs to live his own life. Always choose your gift and purpose over chasing women.
If I decide to have a family with a woman, it’ll be by coincidence and astute choice, not because I’m out looking for a woman.
Stay strong men. Pussy isn’t worth your pride and life.
@@mnavo86
Pride and life?
I am very curious, not being rude. What exactly are you worried about that a prenup cannot address?
Why give up on all women when a tad bit of knowledge is all you need to stay safe?
Sarah Lou
I didn’t mention to give up on all women. In summary, I advised not to chase women. Instead a man should chase his goals and purpose.
A prenup won’t solve all problems.
@@mnavo86
The OP claims women destroy lives, your reply is Amen bro. I get you're not referring to that now but it made you appear as an misogynist.
Anyhow, name specifically what a prenup will not solve besides the responsibility of picking a suitable partner.
I cannot find one good excuse why men should avoid marriage while prenups exist.
@@mnavo86
By the way, I agree men should focus more on their own lives instead of women. I highly recommend it as well.
1. Looks
2. Money/status
3. Good with children
4. Good partner/loyal
You nailed it! ❤😢
Thanks!
No, you did not nail it, that is not what the study said. He said most important were parenting indicators.
basically, they don't know what they want.
Correct, but I would flip 1 and 2
My dad said to me once women only want one thing,,EVERYTHING 😂
Very true
😂😂😂😂😂
:-( :-( :-( :-(
all men want ONE thing from all woman.....woman want EVERYTHING from one man.
sounds modest
What they can't have, until they have it, then they want what they can't have.
Stop caring about what women want.
Whyy?
@@ace.and.dead222 Because that is how it should be. :)
@@ace.and.dead222 because woman only bring 3 holes to the table that's all
@@AMIN35000 Mouth, vagooter, and butthole. Assuming you'd already had this figured out from the time of your comment.
When you stop chasing them, they start chasing you. Make them pay their own way and make sure they bring something to the table. Dont be their slave.
1 looks
2 money
Improve in those aspects and women gonna flock at you
No need to talk for hours
Serious Damage! | no i Think that’s the right order, first thing she sees is your looks not your wallet
Money then looks. There is no such thing as broke and handsome.
Soviet Plays Games ... most women aren’t looking for short term so that’s irrelevant.
If you want a man yes looks first. Women want a man period .
first women looking at looks for attractions. and then money for long term relationship/provider
Modern Women: "We don't need no men!"
Modern Men: "Ok bye."
Modern Women: "Wait! Where are you going!? Get back here!"
Said no woman ever.
Brian Jones ... how do their actions scream it when most reject the vast majority of men? Women aren’t concerned with the average man. Lol & if it was men they are ‘really into’ then why would they reject them in the first place or say ‘we don’t need no men’ or why would the man say ‘ok bye’? looool it makes no sense. It’s the rejects and most women do not care about those.
That must be the case for a large portion of American women / modern feminists, I feel so bad for American men. I specifically look to date mostly East European and Slavik country women, as the vast majority of them prefer a masculine Alpha man, are excellent at being feminine and pleasing their man, happily do chores and housework, cooking etc without a fuss, and my goodness are they amazing lovers. Good women are out there, do not let people on the internet discourage you (but do not put those women on a pedestal of course, focus on yourself as well and finding a high value woman, and you will both have a long, happy relationship/marriage if thats your thing)
@@johnnicholas6802 eastern European women are the best. Bit nuts but lots of fun
Short and sweet, what does a woman want? Exactly whatever it is that the man just happens to be out of.
Anita Inman
Good one
Nailed it!
Wdym
Well this is depressing. there is no satisfying or pleasing someone who wants it all. Seems like a woman will only want you if you have the attributes to make them look better. Basically what can you do for me. Men give and a woman takes. and once you stop giving or can't give a woman moves to the next and that is supposed to be ok. So based off this study, a woman will only be with you if you can benefit her and don't expect anything in return. that's F#&% up. Think ill be better off single. at least that way i wont be used, drained, and depleted.
Don't expect a Man and a Women to stay together if she is always looking for more. She believes in Polygamy. Not Monogamy
I personally went the escort route.
Your comment summarizes why you can't make a woman happy. The perfect guy for them don't exist.
So 1.Stop trying to please and satisfy them, and 2.Only give in small portions, and have them work for next one. No more free lunches!
@@brandonwombacher1615 AND women believe in hypergamy.
It just recently dawned on me that women want to monopolize your time. They want all of it. The less time you give her, and spend on your own fun, the more she'll resent you for it.
Bojan Kotur ... YUP ... I’m 47 ... wish I could go back in time, and with all of this brilliant and insightful knowledge, smack my fucking skull. Why? I was playing by all the wrong rules. I assumed I was dealing with sane and rational beings. Women are not. Men test ideas. Women test men. I would have seen things with a more keen eye.
Bojan Kotur no one wants your time, trust me
Shots fired.
Right? It's almost like she expects you to spend time with her since you're in a relationship.
@@chelseavisalus deves te achar a última bolacha do pacote haha
I know the vid is old but I gotta add my thoughts. Recently I got my dream car. A Dodge Challenger, and I’ve been extremely happy just being single and driving my car. Picking up women has also gotten so much easier. It’s a night and day difference as to how I’ve been treated by them once they see my car. I had one girl ghost me when I drove my beater, and then that same one hit me up again after she saw that I got my dream car. It’s pretty telling as to how women really are and how they actually behave.
Big red pill moment for me.
BMAN Wayne Nice car in their minds equals “can provide”.
A Dodge....seriously. Must be getting pigs. How is a Dodge a dream car. Aim higher dude!
@RShCovers Apparently you do...enough to respond. Lol
@@DrMic2112 ...just wondering if you think your 4 cylinder front wheel drive Honda with 'stance' suspension and a fart can is better than a Dodge Challenger?
@@DrMic2112 dude it's up to him whatever he likes and wants to buy.
They want to marry and divorce a rich man
😂😂😂😂exactly then independent with his money
Exactly. I know a family member who's done. She married a much older man but he was a millionaire. He passed away a while back but she inherited half the wealth. She hasn't worked a day since.
@@ronaldcharan2705
That's just prostitution with a better name.
@@jshepard152 even worse since at least with prostitutes you know what you are getting and they don't take half your assets
Ring-A-Ding Ding Ding, we have a true winner. Marry and divorce a rich man. Then she can serve a BBC.
It’s simple - women want what they cannot have the moment they have it they don’t want it
Or don't know how to keep it.
I've seen it happen.
Most women are all consuming fires.
Women what whatever she can get away with getting. The more attractive she is, the more she thinks she deserve
Even ugly girls think they deserve better
Q. What do women want?
A. Don’t know don’t care.
they want long dick beer
is that why you clicked and commented in a video about what women want?
The Roger Sterling approach.
Yes you do.
True alpha men are not watching these videos.
I'm 26 and listened to 14 hrs of the rational male. I can't thank you enough for convincing me to check it out.
Its a game changer
MARVELous Where can I listen to it? Or did you buy the audio book?
DOUBLE0SEVEN the app "audible". Download it. My first book was free and I used it on the rational male. I think it hits home if it's read to you.
MARVELous Thanks!
check out terrence popps. you wont regret it
So great to see men who are surrounding themselves with solid sage advice. Keep up the hustle!
grinning over here - yes, we want it all. Looking back, the men I was really attracted to and whom I really wanted to have possessed all those traits that you mentioned. Of course, I wasn't the only woman who liked them. They had their pick and they knew it.
I didn't realise this video was from over a year ago. It's about the same time I broke it off with my narcissistic fiance. The study honestly means to me, what is the point in dating at all, when at every level, psychological, phisical, behavioural, financial, primal, the woman seeks feed or supply from you. Does it even cross their minds that true uncinditional love is exactly that. Unconditional, and actually about appreciation, not posession, and certainly not about using someone else. People deserve to be loved for their spirit, not for what they can bring to someone else's table. I'm a huge believer in if you want something, go out there and get it yourself. Don't use someone else to make your dreams real. Personally I'd rather be alone forever than allow someone to use me like that.
im so happy i found this channel at 26 years old.....I feel my Dad couldve used this information 35 years ago......and every other man in my life.....sending these to all my friends.
They want your money, status and soul.
BMWg84 ... Yup ... fucking brilliant ... lol
They want everything from you without giving anything and even they don't really care about it😂😆
What do women want? The want four animals.
They want a Mink in the wardrobe.
A Jaguar in the garage.
A Stallion in the bedroom.
A Jackass to pay for it.
Men are now stopping the Jackass bit, and they dont like it
So what the study is saying is Women want Everything!
Every time I hear you say "Picking up heavy shit putting it down" really cracks me up.
Its that simple
I never pickup heavy shit but I always put it down also known as fat women who hit on you LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....imagine feeding one of those,goodbye resources.
1. money 2. money 3. money 4. money 5. money 6. money 7. money 8. money 9. money 10. money. 11. money. 12. whatever else you own that can be turned into money 13. good genes for the father of their kids
Jeremy Tanner .... hahaha ... fucking brilliant ...
Sarah Jayne Scott women haven't seen shit women just realizing men aren't committing so now they want to date good men
Holy fuck you nailed it. Sad thing is some people won't believe it.
I emailed my 2nd ex-wife on 12/24 to wish her a "Merry Christmas"... and the entirety of her response was:
"The only thing I want or need from you is the money you owe me." I replied with a meme saying, "Respect a man, he'll do the more." That's the one thing she cannot / will not do.
@@LordHasenpfeffer Goddamn you have my sympathy. But why twice? Marriage scares the shit outta me!
A guy with a brain, a good thinker, deep thinker. From a decent family. Trustworthy.....does what he says.
I weigh over 500lbs and I am 4 .3 feet tall I am virgin at 42 but I willl do tai Lopez millionaire course soon and be a winner.
gavloft If you become a millionaire, then women will line up at your door regardless of those other stats.
gavloft funny
Tai Lopez is a scam artist. Google it: tai lopez scam
Men respecting other men..is what make them real men because it shows how big of their heart is.
good joke.
In my mid-thirties I achieved 90% of this list. Unfortunately, the 6 figure income turns into 7 figures. The paid for condo turns into a 7 bedroom spread in the expensive part of town and the weekend getaway turns into first-class airfare to Paris for 3 weeks. FACTS! My point being it NEVER ends!
Exactly
Congrats. Any self improvement items to share?
They always want more. They're never content.
So you mean you had good diggers that sucked money out of your pockets. Yeah I feel that
What I'm noticing, especially after looking for it, women want a man who presents himself as an alpha and who is fit, first. That's the initial attraction. Then they break down the hypergamy traits... ie money status and family values. I have always been an athlete so attracting women has never really been an issue. I've noticed, however, I get bored with women who are basic and not very good team players. I've had weak jobs and just focused on having fun. Now that I've actually started taking my job seriously and made good money, I've noticed that the quality of females are getting better, ie taller, fitter, more attractive, more feminine, less feminist, and more caring and nurturing. Improving yourself is improving your chances of finding "her."
Confidence comes with success. The best women demand both.
Solid reply my dude.
Brady Smith why do they have the right to demand “Both” when they have done nothing worthy other than bieng alive to receive it?
Yes, quality of females may have improved but the paradigm is just the same. You just have a fitter, prettier, more feminine version of a woman who is afflicted with the same “ailments” as the uglier, fatter, masculine women.
I'm a successful person who have worked 15 years to have my own workplace and earning multiple digit income at 40. It's interesting to have seen women wanting to be with me even if I'm not very handsome or highly attractive. To be honest I'm fed up with women hitting on me whenever the opportunity arises. Because when I didn't have the resources and the status they simply did not care and pursue me. So I never trust female ability to love and devote themselves to a man for who he is but not for what he has achieved.
Thats true whatever else they r saying if bullshit they dont care about you they care about what you got thats y i question the word love as in a relationship it doesn't exist
Yep. It’s kind of a catch 22: a young man want a girl(s) so he improves himself and his life/status/resources/looks. After growing this women are more attracted to him. But now it’s impossible to know if any of them are interested in him as a person or for his resources.
They'd be willing to play the role for a couple years until you gave them a ring and a baby. Then they'd start feeling abused and would need a divorce, and 60-100% of your assets.
Note that the study is about the correlation between female attractiveness and their desire for each of the mentioned qualities. Not about what women value the most. For instance, it is well known that the most attractive women pretty much only date the most attractive men. That's what the 0.30 correlation under "sex appeal" means, not that women in general value that trait a lot.
Less attractive women must accept they can't get an attractive guy, so they tend to value other traits like intelligence, which explains the 0.10 correlation under "intelligent". (Note that the correlation, although small, is still positive, indicating more attractive women are still more selective than less attractive women when it comes to intelligence in men.)
I will just live a bachelor the rest of my life.
That's a good thing.
I wish i had!
Me too - hope it works out for us
David Carson I know right!? After learning the facts about women (at least American women), any reasonable and prudent man should feel utterly disgusted at their behavior patterns. For example, women are more interested in money than intelligence? That's fucking ridiculous! Women are more interested in parenting skills than partnership skills? WTF!?
The data suggests they are completely fucking irrational....which is why I'm not surprised at my lack of success with them.
One word: mindfuck!
Good
Watched this study years ago called something like "What man would you choose a)for a lover and b)become the father of your children". They were never the same guy ... It could be that simple. Watch out for age, goals and life stages.
Cosmopolitan Bay sad shit
my research came up with: they want money. feel free to share.
LMAO!
Oh how i wish they only wanted money...
ronbronb money first and foremost, since money = security and respect from peers. Then, your soul.
Guys want money too... why? because they want women.. or drugs to kill their pain.
If you choose a woman who doesn't know she's enough, with or without you/ "success" (however she defines it)/outside validation etc be aware you can never satisfy her. She needs to find it within herself first. Find a woman with self respect, who is healthy and has similar values to you. Treat her with respect and maintain healthy personal boundaries. "Don't judge a book by it's cover".
"Loved how you threw that essay over your shoulder!" Respects Bro pure Respect.
After 40 years old the prospect of being with women is just not a motivating factor for me.
I don't care what women want anymore.
"if you are the best version of yourself you are not going to have to chase women". Nailed
"kind and understanding was near the bottom" : interesting proof of how nice guys finish last...
They want to take a lot and give a little
Pro tip -- never ask a woman what she wants. Gives them the upper hand
Hey brothers from another mother! Today I had such an experience. Few days ago I've met a Russian girl and I offered her to grab a coffee. We had some what good conversation she works for an Oil prodicuing company. At one point I asked her why she've decided to study this field at University and surprisingly she answered me honestly . She said that she thought it was easy to find a rich husband in this field or at least some one with good potential to become a rich. I laughed out loud. she proved this research totally
AWALT!
@@endthefed1448 No doubt AWALT!
Things that I personally consider essential
1. Understanding
2. Honesty/ability to communicate
3. Affection
4. *Intelligence (mostly equal to your partner, provides better problem solving together)
5. A person that isn't homeless, you can buy stuff but it would be easier for everyone to be equal in a longer run
Attention. All of these traits and the % of those depends of the person and their personality. For example from a highly educated person it would be natural to want emotional support while from an already emotional person- logical thinking to balance it out.
Essentially what people need is just a compatible not entirely perfect person. Doesnt matter is it a woman or a man, just someone who gets you.
@Mr Offensington Well I didn't know you're an expert in knowing me. Attraction and essential parts that are needed to sustain a relationship are two different things. Attraction is something so complicated and individual based that it would be impossible to generalize while what I listed is something that, in my opinion, a relationship should be based on whether it is romantic or not. For me attraction comes second and these things first simply because attraction is more easily to wear off while common understanding not.
@@sugarflowerjam I think the point trying to be made is that how do these idealized versions of the perfect man measure up to reality.
And I'm not talkin about a philosophical analysis in a vacuum.
I'm talking about your actual reality and how you hope to achieve it.
Sometimes perfect becomes the enemy of good. Perfect is something that can only exist in the mind.
So ask yourself if you prefer to live in your mind seeing the world as you choose, essentially as a slave to this frame of thinking. Or as a conscious being with agency.
@@MrSears_1.618 My comment, in fact, claimed that people aren't to search for perfect but for compatibility. There is no perfect, there are only people who are compatibile enough.
@@sugarflowerjam The only part of your list clearly defined is that it's required to not be homeless, do you mean self-sustaining or able to provide for more than himself?
The other parts are open to interpretation, what's different about points 1 & 2?
Affection = romance?
Intelligence with what? Computers? Construction skills? Technical knowledge? Social skills?
@@MrSears_1.618 Pfft. I'm sorry the "required" part made me laugh. I wouldn't write "not homeless" as a requirement for other than comical reasons. I did, however, try claiming with that, that equal financial situation is probably more comfortable for both. That is because it would eliminate the possible feelings on unfairness.
But did you read my whole comment? The list doesn't matter. In my opinon, it is nice if the relationship is build on those essentials.Especially when it comes to 1,2 and 3 because those are the important pillars in communication. However, these are still my personal prefernces and if you wish to eliminate something or in other words " 0%" it in the search for compatibility please do so.
Also, firstly, about affection. I don't think it's romance. Just the general one you show every close person. I suppose it can be taken as "showing kindness or that you care". But the ratio and frequency of any of the things on that list is up to your preference. You can find yourself someone who shows affection once a year if that's what you like.
Secondly, simplified: for me intelligence is just general capability to think rationally and solve issues. I feel like too of a big gap in the so called intelligence makes things difficult and though, it is said that supposedly intelligence grows with education I wouldn't say it's the case for everyone.
He never talks about personality, which matters alot.
Juan Cano , although not explicitly stated, personality was totally included in the study. For example, the ability to be humorous is known to be related to intelligence which is covered, and behavior like caring about kinds and being a loving partner are a major part of one's personality. Imho, it would be too arbitrary/challenging to include "personality" as a separate variable for a study.
Juan Cano character trumps everything
Personality is never what women want first. It only matter if a woman can manipulate you, then she wants someone she be with while she manipulates you like a fool.
What women want? Ask Mel Gibson..
NC Hammer lol I got that reference:D
😂
Good one 👍😎
This is my kind of info, thank you. This is in my library. These are my goals and I have a plan of action to achieve them.
All these guys saying money are mislead. Attraction is the most important thing. I have plenty of friends who don’t have good careers but they have hot successful girlfriends. Being good looking and fitting cultural norms of what is considered attractive is most important.
Some not all applies to women. I think both sexes expect too much today. I think a lot of people over think today and are not satisfied with the simple things in life.
Katherine Elaine
well said. I firmly can say you learnt valuable lessons . ☆★☆
reza B Thank you.
You're welcome
Men used to be simple, go to work, come home to a home cooked meal...spend time with the kids or watch tv in a clean home and have sex a few times a month with his wife. Pretty much the natural order of things. I understand things can't be like they used to for majority of relationships because women do deserve to have wants to achieve something other then raising good children...but there was something in that old formula although I admit not perfect that actually worked for marriages. Third wave feminism has now deemed a women who is a stay at home mom/wife as being held there by Patriarchy when it's in a women's natural inclination to raise children and tend to household necessities. If her husband is keeping her happy in her stay at home lifestyle and keeping her from wondering about leaving her man and pursuing a job he must be doing something right and that involves a man who can provide, who looks good and is healthy, and gives her good D when she wants it. Me, personally my first requisite for women is having a sexual attraction towards her, a women who is not in the Cluster B Personality types, and a woman who is independent to a certain degree...I do like to feel wanted and needed as a man...not because of my ego but because it gives me purpose in the relationship
All I'm expecting is a little head. I don't that's too much of an ask. :-)
Very impressive work here Mr Cooper. You are helping many of us gentlemen out here
I feel much better inside my lonely life just watching these video's!
Women "think" tey want tall, dark, handsome, protective guy but in reality tey require security, gud looks, stability, comfort & someone to be proud of.
Great content, keep educating young males to become real men
I will say that what women want is everything xD they want EVERYTHING THAT MEN HAVE AND EARNED WITH HARD WORK. THEY WANT IT FOR FREE
Now lets watch the video to see if I was right.
Hand it over🤗🤑😗😆
@@francieodendahl9351 Sadly I LIKE MONEY MORE THEN WOMEN! SO NO xD
I want to thank you for all of your videos on the reality of dating. You have helped me change my life, so now I am constantly seeking perfection. You should know that your videos have made a huge positive difference in my life. Thank You
What women say they want and what they actually choose are two different things.
Im an alfa , a little overweight and have had plenty of hotties.
If you confident and challenge them , its easy.
The best part is no longer caring about what women want. It’s liberating and frees me up to work on me.
Men used to be simple, go to work, come home to a home cooked meal...spend time with the kids or watch tv in a clean home and have sex a few times a month with his wife. Pretty much the natural order of things. I understand things can't be like they used to for majority of relationships because women do deserve to have wants to achieve something other then raising good children...but there was something in that old formula although I admit not perfect that actually worked for marriages. Third wave feminism has now deemed a women who is a stay at home mom/wife as being held there by Patriarchy when it's in a women's natural inclination to raise children and tend to household necessities. If her husband is keeping her happy in her stay at home lifestyle and keeping her from wondering about leaving her man and pursuing a job he must be doing something right and that involves a man who can provide, who looks good and is healthy, and gives her good D when she wants it. Me, personally my first requisite for women is having a sexual attraction towards her, a women who is not in the Cluster B Personality types, and a woman who is independent to a certain degree...I do like to feel wanted and needed as a man...not because of my ego but because it gives me purpose in the relationship ...something as simple as "baby can you open this jar for me" with a sly smile of femininity is sexy / gives me purpose... reward me with a kiss and I'm happy. Most men are truly simple to please
Men and women used to compliment each other. That is gone. Now, it is a competition, unfortunately.
A few times a month?!
It’s really hard to find a man like that here. I want to stay at home, raising my kids, homeschooling them. But modernism and feminism has been killing the natural order.
that worked right up until woman were told men are oppressors and they are being held back etc...now single parent homes are the norm...the destruction of the family from the 50s is the goal and its working.
Once men embrace their inner Bateman (just the sex part no gore) and start getting what they want - sex
through game or escorts.
A passing thought: I am the eldest of (4) brothers and we are now in our 60's and paid our dues. We understand women "marry" for resources and know life with Princess Wannabe leaves you at best appreciated for your utility and at worst OMG what was I thinking. The next time we brothers get together I will ask if anyone wants to pony up $125k each and buy a (4) bedroom 3500 sq' Cabana Home along the Gulf Coast. We can hire room service and live out our days like Kings.
Thank you for this video and your work.
This study is an excellent dose of reality, and this is why we as men, should study evolutionary psychology, because it gives us a more realistic approach and mindset towards dating.
Unfortunately, the mainstream narrative gives us the opposite mindset of what reality is.
You mention the MRS degree. It is absolutely true and absolutely overt. I live in Utah and BYU students frequently talk about the MRS degree and they use that exact term. I don't know when it was coined, but I remember hearing the term back in the early 90's.
Dates back to the 50's when more women were going to college during the post-war boom actually.
It's freaking regressive as hell that this s**t is still prevalent in this day and age.
I like this one Richard but some, including me, would ask "why become a better version of yourself just to appease some snarky, gold digging bitch who will eventually want to take it all from you anyway"
When you are a high value male, and red pill aware, its like being a chess master. You just know the game and how to win.
Entrepreneurs in Cars All of your videos and most of our experiences would indicate that playing against a female equals an automatic loose, it's just the time frame that varies, regardless of the "value"
It's probably easier to be red pill aware before becoming the high value male. :-)
It's just to keep pace with your own wants. If you are ok with an unaccomplished slob for a mate (easy to achieve for the woman), then you don't need to work hard yourself. If you want more (harder for the woman), then the price is an improved version of yourself.
Arie Ravestein, You strive to be a better version of yourself for YOU...nobody else, women included.
Do they even know. ...
Tommy no, we are all just so dumb. How do we even function?
+Chelsea Thompson You don't.
@@VictorGyo Damm bruh lol
Who cares?
What women want?
EVERYTHING.
And that includes *your* money, which *you* worked for.
Its very telling that good partner idicators were the least desirable in the list of qualities. Thankyou for the concise way in which you presented the study and its findings.
Finally. After all these years I got my answer. Now to begin working on myself correctly and fix the damage caused by an extremely radical blue pill family. I guess it's better late than never.
Honestly every time I watch your videos I don’t see a huge difference between men and women. Women want it all and so do we. The more money and status we have makes us wanna be free and sleep around. The more attractive a women is the more she expected from a man. So a lot of similarities then differences
Yup
More comprehensive answer is: they want it all, without having to work or even ask for it.
Yup. Was engaged to a really smart woman, multiple degrees. Put a 30k ring on her finger and a new Lexus suv and she evaporated. Was never the same.
We men are simple creatures, we buy a generator we know we can trust to provide warmth and power for years. But, we simply don't know what to put in this generator to even start it. By the end of it we find out the only thing this generator is good for, is decoration.
This is crazy so women want men , That are esentially off the scales beyond 2 plus. In nearly every category Except niceness and faithfullness 🤔 , Geez That's too much hassle , they want men paying for everything they want & for their children ,
So what do men get in return besides sex only when She decides ?
Mr Sandman, bring me a dream...bom bom bom bom...It's all their fantasy-land statistics. Last I checked our shitty reality is also their shitty reality. They still have a layer smothered with shit all over it, just like everybody else. :)
A rotten v with lots of mileage, and according to her you better feel lucky, like out of this world.
What do men want? Faithfulness and no drama. Also an impossible requirement.
hy-PER-ga-me.
the second syllable is stressed,
not the third.
It’s hard finding a good loving figure in society. For me I couldn’t even find it from my mom. So now I’m just focused on loving myself only good life I see for me.
What do beautiful women want ? All the benefits of being beautiful without the consequences. The consequences often exceed the benefits.
Wtf are the consequences of being beautiful 😂😂😂
they want a long dick
Most relevant concise and accessible word on the subject to date. Patreon worthy. Thank you.
so basically u either enjoy your life, or u work hard 24/7 to be able to live with someone who'll make life more difficult and will leave once any of the things u built goes to shit. I was looking to live the dream but turns out i'm allrdy living it.
Wow. At 47 I fully understand the power of being stoned my whole life. Not being tempted to marry, do excessively stupid physical activities, working, surfing, skating, saving and investing. Hit a few nines and one ten along the way , I believe this low effort high reward strategy is ideal.
woman wants the 666666 = 6 at least six-feet tall 6 at least a six figure salary 6 Drives a 600 horsepower Super car 6 Has a Six-pack abdomen 6 at least six months since his last relationship with his ex 6 At least six inches banana below the belt
Hmm, i actually check three of those. Height, six pack and penis size.
Woah lol, the Adrenachrome is really getting you worked up. You forgot BBC, and making daddy angry.
"Don't be Bitter be Better."
My translation: let go of the source of your bitterness then betterment will follow; let go of women in your life and watch the fruits of your efforts blossom into a life to be proud of.
Give love and validation to yourselves gentalemen and care not about the opinions of people who have no authentic love/affection to offer you.
Bright side, when you do become better the power to accept or reject is in your hands 🤲 never forget this...
"You are the masters of your own destinies, the builders of civilization, and you answer and bend the knee to no one."
"DON'T BE BITTER BE BETTER."
I worked 30 years & retired from my company with a cool mill in the 401K & never been on a date or relationship. I'm glad things went my way despite never feeling the pleasure of a women.
The "Mrs." degree: My Dad's mother sent all three of her children to college. For my Dad my grandmother sent him to get a 4-year degree which he completed. For my two aunts she sent them for two years the the direction to get that Mrs. degree! They were both successful, although the eldest did eventually get her 4-year degree. Kind of interesting when one thinks about it. Now imagine a women going to college and getting her woman's studies degree. I'm thinking there will be a low chance of success. Both regarding marriage, but also earnings capacity and happiness.
A little confusion on the scale used in the university study referenced in this video. 2.0 is highest positive score possible on any given trait characteristic surveyed, negative 2.0 is the lowest negative score possible, according to what Mr. Cooper says in the video. However, Mr. Cooper references results in the 0.25 to 0.35 range as being highly positive and significant. These trait characteristic ratings are barely off the 0-point (which corresponds to an inconsequential trait characteristic). Is Mr. Copper just mis-speaking here? Did he mean to say 2.5 to 3.5? If so, this seems an impossible result, since the range in the study only spanned from negative 2.0 to positive 2.0. Thus, a score higher than 2.0 would not be possible. I am confused.
Men are drawn to women who are needy and make them feel wanted, then they complain when it doesn’t work out and they’re left with the responsibility of that woman even after it’s over. Men don’t like women who are independent until it’s too late. I honestly look for a man who makes me feel safe and happy, feels like a partner or an equal but honestly that’s so hard to find because of what was stated above. They don’t want a woman who doesn’t rely on him 100% while they’re together, can’t have it both ways guys!!
So funny I said "everything " and then it was the first thing you said. Bingo.💏
I like the way you threw the paper at the end.
Awesome vid as always 👍 why do wife's loose passion and interest soon after getting married is it the man's fault?
Chris C because she's now your only source of sex if you're faithful. It's referenced in "The Rational Male".
You need to keep shit testing her.. keep her on her toes
Rolando Ariaga trust has to be earned by being transparent. As soon as one partner starts being secretive, mirroring comes into place and the relationship goes down the abyss, only a matter of time: transparency+trust or secrecy+separation. Simple formulation, isn't it?
So glad I found this channel.
I guess height is included in good genes. Women want it all but my experience tells me that they have to settle eventually when they hit that WALL.
Never settle. It is not fair to the partner. You need to love the whole 🎁
Interesting study but it says, a bit farther down, that participants WERE ALREADY MARRIED. Someone who is married in the mid 20s likely is going to have a different set of likes and dislikes compared to an unmarried woman in the same age group, right?
From the study
ovulation status or mate value.
Before discussing the potential implications of these results, several limitations of
the study should be noted. First, the sample consisted of already-married individuals.
I've done videos on the topic of how come our mothers, especially divorced or single, give some crappy advice to their sons such as 'just be a nice guy and the girls will like you..' which is completely out of phase with reality (bad boy syndrome). My hypothesis is this; women who are old enough to give advice to their sons who are old enough to start dating are already in their 30s (post wall) and what do post wall women want? Nice guys...well, not that they necessarily want, but that's all their SMV will get them post wall. In short, they're not giving advice to their sons from their teenaged selves frame of reference. They're giving advice 15 years after they were teens.
I watch you, because I want a decent, rational, loyal human being as a life partner. 😊