Truth Sounds Like Hate To Single Moms That Hate The Truth
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- Ever hear that saying "the truth sounds like hate to those that hate the truth"? Well the single mother outage mob came for me because I held up a mirror and pointed to some uncomfortable facts.
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Spot on Rich! Truth hurts...single moms putting children first...no wonder their single?
Keep up the good work Rich, there isn't enough Anusol-HC (Rectal Cream) to cure the Butt hurt these Harpys are suffering from. The Truth Hurts and does not care for feelings, keep going in dry brother.
Lots of cold, hard, truth bombs. I dated a single mom. She was smoking hot, projected cheating on her, said she didnt stand for cheaters....ended up being a cheater. Wanted me to be all I could be....between the hours of 6a.m. and 6p.m. most worldly women are very hard to deal with. Keep yourself as the mental point of origin and the chaff will fall out of your life. Great video Rich!
@@narcismebelgie do you have a logical argument to make for men dating single mothers, or just more point n sputter?
England Jersey? Hi from Croatia. :D
Single moms should spend more time with their children and less time worrying about trapping another sucker.
No truer words have been said.
I agree, but there isn't any power, money, or resources in spending time with kids. At best, they improve her social status. Eventually, the kids MAY provide some of these things but for right now she sees them as a burden that she tolerates as a future investment.
But then they have to work...
@Bundy 4Prez
Hahaha what a peach.
Agreed but thats a form of income to some of the bitches.
Women angry at you? You're doing something right.
Once a woman opens her mouth, I stop taking her seriously
Women mad at you, the hell you say.
Richard is risking of being ostracised to help men. Courage!
Talking to my younger sister about these things. She says she doesn't like me anymore.
I was going to say exactly the same. Keep up the good work, Richard.
My mother told me this as a teenager.
"A woman has three priorities in her life.
1. Herself.
2. Her offspring, (aka children).
3. Her blood family relatives.
You as a man are not on her list of priories and never will be. Failure to to do your responsibilities as man for her priorities will result in you being discarded like used tampon."
Now you know.
@MLR
Wow your mother certainly gave you some sound advice.
I wish my Dad would have told me this when I was 23, it would have prevented a lot of trouble and heartache in my life. My dad was a very good man but very" Beta".
Words of wisdom
Which is why nobody is around in the first place to be discarded. 🤣🤣🤣
@FUBAR wow, I wish I could talk to you. Peace
As a childfree man at 36 I refuse to date single mothers.
39 year old over here and agree .
As a child free man at 51, I refuse to have anything to do with single mothers. Not even for something casual......NOPE!!!!
@@pcj8029 Likewise.
@bullybuc You are exactly right. The important thing is you came to that realization early and got out.
When I was younger I would have casual flings with single mothers, but I always kept them at arm's length and never let it get serious. I can honestly say that I never even knew the names of their children. That was intentional.
Ruthless I know, but even at a young age I knew that going into a long term situation with them would stifle my growth.
These days, I won't even do the short term thing. Too many of them are in bad situations and there's always the danger of her falsely accusing me of something to extort money from me. Some of them would even use their children in the scam.
I know it sounds paranoid, but 5-10 years from now the paranoid dudes will be the last ones standing. Meanwhile, the SIMPS will be suffering.
My motto is be a good and decent man who THINKS like a criminal. It will save your life.
Best of luck to you brother
@Quincy 82 - How do you DARE to take care of yourself, choose for personal growth AND improve your own life?!
You set yourself perfectly up to not be divorce-raped.
Women "I want a man who is 6ft tall, makes six figures, owns a home, is attractive to other women but only has eyes for me, is exciting, mysterious, spontaneous, good-looking, self assured, confident, hard working..."
Also women "He has to accept me for me"
These broads are delusional
I am going to take what you wrote here. Replace the word man with woman. Change the height to 5 ft 6 in tall. Join a dating site and use it! All men should do this with what you wrote here! You get a response from a woman saying she's all of these things you know you found the right one! 😁
.....dat...was....gangsta...
@John Kyle If pussy is all they can bring to the table, use it if you want, and walk away, otherwise, just walk away
That’s not too much too ask of a billionaire?
I used to date a "single mom" resources went into the kids and got bled dry. Got smart and got out of that shit. Now I got a 26yr old gf. She has no kids,good credit, and comes from a nuclear family where the father is the patriarch. I have even experienced her mom correcting her behavior and how she should act in a relationship towards her man. Such a big change and it is an invigorating relationship to be a part of.
lucky you
Update: Left her ass now also. Ain't gonna put up with any woman's bullshit
@@LordVader.66 bruh 😂
@@LordVader.66 😂😂😂 dude update don't leave us hanging what happened?
@@esmul she refused to find work and made some very rude comments to me while burying my grandfather at the Veteran's Cemetery
I don’t disagree if a woman wants to put her kids first. Just don’t get angry when I don’t want to date you.
They make their world revolve around the kids.....which is not necessarily bad. Problem becomes with the kids turn 18, move out, or head off to college. Mommy then has no purpose, becomes depressed...then companionship becomes more of a priority.
Jake I disagree. Women, especially single women use their kids as a front for getting their own way. Don’t believe any of it, look at the behaviour of most single mothers. Also, my mother is not a single mother but still is like this.
single mothers should focus on being mothers to their children.....there is no place for a man in her life at this point....if she's a widow there's a different dynamic in play....but if she divorced the father of her children then she is unstable and cannot be trusted.....it's a mistake for a man to put himself in such a foolish position...... divorced single mothers are failures.
@@JohnSmith-uu3rm "if she divorced the father of her children then she is unstable and cannot be trusted" You really going to say that? There can't be alternative explanations such as leaving an unstable relationship, etc? Age of children doesn't matter? smh
SoldierGeneral64 yes I'm gonna say it. she chose poorly to begin with.... marriage is for better or worse....she probably made a series of bad choices are will continue to do so. why should any man buy into that? sex? what else do they offer in almost every case. with age comes experience, with experience comes wisdom. look around you and tell me about the situations where a man picks up on a single mother and it works out even reasonably well for the man. be honest. I await your response.
A lot of women don't like it when men have standards!
Very True lol
Conviction like stone scares the hordes
According to modern feminists, we're not allowed to have standards.
C B You spelled “whores” wrong.
Standards reduce available resources.
You are so right I dated a single mother for five years three kids one cat two dogs they destroyed my home. Her and her kids it did not matter what I did for them it was never enough and if I did something for them they would ask what else do you got. When it ended I started to work on me. I changed my diet worked out more lost 45 pounds started my own business and now make more money than I ever have. And even upgraded my wardrobe.
I am proud of you!
I am proud of you!
Good 4 you bro!
Success speaks volumes
Did you get a wooden one?
The wolves don't lose sleep over the cries of the sheep.
Hawuuuuu🐺
Here's the version I've heard. “A lion doesn't concern itself with the opinion of sheep.”
― George R.R. Martin, A Game of Thrones
@@61dodgelancer tywin lannister
@@NastyNick1776Thanks! As you know, Tywin Lannister is a fictional character in the epic fantasy series A Song of Ice and Fire by American novelist George R. R. Martin, and its television adaptation Game of Thrones.
Dated a single mom for almost 3 years...... Never ever ever again what a freaking nightmare that was. Looking back on it with a clear mind what a dumb#$& I was.
Don't feel bad for being a good man. Lesson learned.
Yeah dude, you are a better man because of it now
Don't regret the experience, cherish the rewards
Story of my life
What happened if you don't mind me asking?
thrilla72 it was just too complicated of a “relationship” to maintain. She was very entitled and lazy. Not to toot my own horn but I made it possible for her to not work until she found her dream job; I pushed her to get her license to drive and I helped her get a car, among many other things but she couldn’t do one thing for me which was to slow down on the alcohol abuse and do away with the many guy friends she has on her Facebook. She was also super close to her baby daddy’s side which was a problem for me as we often discussed potentially starting our own family. I wanted to make sure I wasn’t sharing my would-be-wife with another man or his side of the family, naturally as most men would. Now when I date, I stay away from single mothers like a plague.
Red pill gal here, I adore you. Submissive happily married with 3 adult sons, you help me tons! 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
“The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it will hate those that speak it.” - George Orwell
I brought up my wife's daughter from her first failed marriage from 3 to 16 yrs old after we divorced she has communicated with me 5 or 6 times in 5 year and has visited me 2 times and one she was trying to convince me to buy her a car. ROI=0.
not bitter, dont hate women, the key is understanding the game and like Raging Golden Eagle says "im having way too much fun"
Mine was 3 to 15. It appeared to be a model relationship. She was a great big sister to my two girls. Right up to the point where her mom met some guy on line and filed for divorce. She instantly took her mom's side declaring I failed to make mom happy and that she thought it was great that mom had the courage to "Upgrade"
SHUR SHOT She tried to reach out to me when we flew out to attend my daughters graduation. After 7 years if silence only broken by an occasional reminder of how terrible I was and how happy they all are now, I rebuffed her. “Your resignation has long ago been accepted “
This makes me SOOOOOO Angry 😤
@@bernieeod57 They will both be miserable. Sociopaths who view all people as expendable assets can never find happiness. The new guy is in for a rough time too.
End welfare for single mothers.
Watch how quickly the problem goes away.
No lies.
Broke baby daddy’s ruining America because they can’t afford their own kids
@@incredibleiris2121 women dictate who gets to pass on their genes. Women need to make better choices instead of trying to bag a Man with higher SMV.
@@The-lightbiz men decide who they have sex with they need to be responsible for their own blood children instead of having other hard working Americans paying for their mistakes
My coworker was raised by her stepdad since age 3. Now she is in her 20s and her mom is divorcing him. She said she loves her stepdad dearly. Then immediately said she is gonna change her last name from mom's to biological dad. Step parenting is thankless.
Sorry, doesn't that prove that she does love him?
@@thrilla72 Read it again He was not her biological father.
I dated a single mother when I was 20. Her daughter and I had a close bond (or so I thought). Her father ( who was incarcerated at the time) hated my guts and would tell my ex to keep his daughter away from me. My exes mother would call me a "rent a dad" which was strange because she had 5 children by 5 different men. The nail in the coffin of the relationship was when she told me I would become expendable after her Section 8 application was approved. I moved on and didnt see my ex or her daughter for years. They came into my job (by this time her daughter was a teenager). When asked by her mother if she remembered me she responded no. IMHO men should avoid single mothers because they see men who step up as a constant reminder of the failure they made in choosing a mate. Despite anything a man does for a child that isnt his the mother will still resent him.
B Simmons GET OUT! You dodged a Bullet!...
@@BS10258 Not necessarily. I def understand the ideology of avoiding women with kids. Comes with potentially a host of issues. I married and had children with a women who had a young child. Raised said child as my own, as there was no other father figure present. She's now a young lady, and I've helped guide her every step of the way. It's not practical to get involved with a pre-made family, I admit. Each situation is diff, it's very nuanced. There are many who would label me foolish, I guarantee my stepdaughter would vehemently disagree
Online dating is the fast food of dating. When you look at the menu there's a beautifull picture of a gorgeously stacked burger. When you open the box it's this greasy, sloppy lopsided mess that was wrecked by several sets of hands...
Lmao great metaphor!
G -7 yesss! You hit the nail on the head. Well stated sir. Question: Did you still eat the burger? hmmm...
G -7 , if that's yours, copyright and trademark it.😂👍
Oh damn, I felt that. 🙊
Nice!
AMEN! I took the red pill on January 1, 1986 and my life started getting better! I decided to stop wasting my time with a woman who was never going to see me as a catch. I went back to school and my life has been moving forward ever since. I met an AMAZING woman who did see me as a catch. Together, we built an incredible life. The funny part is, the woman I quit seeing has tried to contact me 3-4 times in the years since. I keep that chapter of my life closed.
Any woman who gets angry about this probably ticks at least four of those boxes.
Truth hurts, she's clearly hurt. Good.
Her priorities:
1. Kids.
2. Mom
3. Hair, clothes and makeup.
4. House and car.
5. Dog and cats.
6. Family and friends.
7. Online shopping.
8. Reality shows.
9. Eating out.
10. Finally YOU (the male)
You forgot to add “social media & validation to keep thirsty betas” in orbit.
That’s where they go to post all of the “my life is great, look at me” nonsense while they’re are internally miserable but can’t dare let the world know.
It’s called Positivity pandemonium.
wow....eating out and reality shows... takes priortiy?? Daaaaamn
Diggler Treehorn that’s so trueeeee!
Accurate
Why is the "YOU (the male)" even on your list? Come on dude! They don't give a fuck unless it's the one they want to fuck. lol
My sister-in-law who was a single mother once told me to NOT date a single mom lol, ain't that something.
Donnell Maddox my twice divorced single mother told me the same thing..
we have so many single mothers because they are : PROFESSIONAL SINGLE MOTHERS
THEY GET PAID.
THEY USE KIDS AS A MEAL TICKET.
I have always dated single moms and now when I look back Im just blown away at how ignorant I was. It is a total nightmare it is exhausting and just well flat out not worth it. Richard you make a lot of great points and well your channel has helped me out alot. I am 30 years old now and I have never had the conviction like I do now to basically make sure 1# NO feminist 2# NO daddy issues and 3# No kids. AGAIN THANKS FOR THE WISDOM RICHARD.
Good luck king 🤴
Daddy issues girl here who works her ass off with 3 jobs, full time in school, have been to therapy multiple times to work through issues from that. Back off.
I’m a big fan of yours. I’m a 50 year old mum in England who regularly sends your videos to my 28 year old son. You talk a great deal of sense. I want my son to be equipped to deal with women. This year he had his first crazy ex experience. The girl contacted me to hint he’d been threatening her when they’d split up. I didn’t respond to her. She then sent 432 texts in one week to get a reaction. Thanks to your videos (and others) we knew not to react and keep evidence.
She is a great mother
Thank you so much ma'am. We need women like you. The biggest problem I see in the dating world myself (being a 25 year old), women want to be men! I'm all for equality, but men are men and women are women!
And another thing-
My last girlfriend had a degree in gender studies. I have a degree in civil engineering .She used to complain all the time about gender pay gap. I mean I am building stuff here and she works in a fucking NGO and expected to be paid the same! And it didn't stopped there. At EVERY place she used to bring patriarchy, sexism blah blah blah. I'm a good guy and just want to date a normal human being 😪
Chris Willis you had a lucky escape! Any woman who mentions patriarchy...run...fast....do not engage..repeat do not engage! Advice I’ve given my son that you may or may not want to consider 1. You don’t have to “settle down” just because your friends are 2. When they ask you why you’re not it’s because you’ve made them uncomfortable because they’ve followed social norms 3. No large tattoos on the girl (it doesn’t make her a bad person but it does make her a crazy one) 4. Take responsibility for having not having babies. 6. If you break up with a girl be extra careful with casual hook ups with her. They do happen and they can end up with pregnancy entrapment5. Network in your chosen career.
Hello you are a charm. You are not just a mother to your son but to many.
John Normal 😘
"My kid/s come first." OK then, be happy staying single.
"My children come first"
>Be single mother through divorce
If the children came first, then where is the dad to make a complete family so the child(ren) will grow up/do better in life? No, the children were leverage to either control the dad and/or get money from the government.
Of the kids were _truly_ the priority, she would have bit the bullet for 18 years.
The children are a convenient meat-shield for criticism. Don't get it twisted, chaps.
I would rather be single than date a single mother! I agree children come first. You'll struggle in the dating world as most single men wouldn't be interested. Dating single fathers could work for you? Good luck.
I have a friend, he got married with single mom with 2 daughters OMG, he is the workhorse. To be worse the woman he is with, spoke out loud that she need someone to pay her bills. Jesus Christ the guy is blind.
I agree with what you say and I'm also tired of toxic feminism. I feel bad for you men, and my 3 brothers.
I feel bad for any man that proposes
@Cherry Ember its obviously a scam that only benefits women
For you men out there the problem too sweet pea!
It’s perfectly fine if a woman puts her child first.....
As long as she doesn’t expect the man to put her first.
A woman should put her children first, i agree, and not whine about guys not wanting to date het
I think this is the best way to summarize that argument. It's silly to expect your new GF to put you ahead of her children, because even your own wife would put your own children ahead of you. I mean, would you even be interested in a woman that's so nasty that her new BF takes precedence over her children?
However, her expectations of you need to reflect that.
My reply to that is why would you want to date her seriously if she didn't? And even less have children with her?
Well said
Naw they want you to love the kids like they are your own
The truth can feel like a bucket of ice water.
D G for sure. It also feel like getting slap into reality
😂😂😂😂😂 fact!
that's why economics gets called "The Dismal Science"
"In a world of deceit telling rhe truth is a revolutionary act"
-George Orwell
Part of being a good mom is choosing the right person to have a kid with.
As a woman, Richard’s opinion was hard to take at the beginning. But more I process it more I understand it and agreeing with it. Everyone should take ownership of your decision and life regardless women or men.
@Sonia Lin - Kinda like what Cassie Jay who did the documentary The Red Pill. She couldn’t process a mans perspective on how things are so biased against fathers until she spent hundreds of hours editing the film for production,,,,only then did she get it...smh
She talks about it on one of her interviews. And it further explains how women don’t think logically but think with their emotions....and thus, never let a woman be in charge
Why was it so hard to take? Lol
A woman capable of self reflection.... You'll go far in life. Best of luck to you. :-)
I believe it makes perfect sense to an objective mind.
Ryan k the reason is, from birth women and men have been brainwashed with the cult of Feminism/ Marxism. As someone who was raised in a cult, got out and had counseling for it,I can see clearly now what a seriously scary control on society this ideology is on the world. Once you realize this, it's easier and easier to deprogram ones self from the propaganda. This is what I see the redpill and mgtow community is, it's a way of deprogramming ones self of the cult think.. as it grows it will change and morph into more and more men and women waking up to this. Which is a good thing! This purpose of Feminism is to destroy marriage, family and culture, using women first, then men. So the elites can enslave the people as wage/ debt slaves.. they are telling you, you just have to read between the lines.
They're mad because it's all true. If women get mad at you for something you said. 9 times out of 10 you're right.
My one experience dating a single mother was a blessing in disguise. It was short-lived and she said something that burnt into my brain, while foolin' around heard "You'll be an excellent father to my daughter". This was after about 2 months of dating...
I realized quick she wasn't in it for a relationship, her baby daddy wasn't really in the picture and she wanted someone to provide for her and her kid. She even went so far as to confirm it. I wasn't a priority, my wallet and time were the most valuable. Needless to say 10 minutes after hearing those words I was out the door and never looked back.
I was lucky that I learned this life lesson in my early 20's and haven't looked back.
Darn man, you are the clever type. Congrats
I completely agree with Rich. This woman is not intelligent enough to process this concept objectively. I’m ashamed that most women can not see the truth right in their face. I’m not sure if this comes from denial, entitlement or lack of comprehension.
@@zefautino did it just get dark in here? space ghost
It's a lack of accountability. All life long they're treated as special, told how great they are, had as many obstacles removed from their path as possible, and told any remaining obstacle are oppression. You cant function in reality if you've been shielded from it your whole life. It's a similar problem with many young men as well. Now add on too that natural biological tendencies and you have the ending to a great civilization. Get a gun, learn to farm, and plan for your own future. The next 100 years are going to be interesting.
It's called Cognitive dissonance.
What do you value most in being in a mans day to day.
@@joshuarowe7695 "had obstacles removed and ...remaining obstacles are oppression" EXCELLENT thought! I'm going to remember that and maybe use that if you don't mind?? And btw...I'm a woman and you are absolutely correct! This new wave of feminism (feminazi I call it) does nothing to make us look strong and capable... it just makes us look weak and juvenile. This misandrous view and rhetoric is toxic to all of us, and embarrassing.
My boyfriend and I truly enjoy that you speak unpopular truths. We appreciate you!
I'm 45 and a little incompetent, never married, no children, trying to improve myself and make better decisions is what gives my life meaning in the absence of women.
dont give up mate keep going. all the best
I just turned 46 and Im on the same path. Godspeed to you brother!
You Sir deserve praise.
Dude! When you clicked on Emma's profile I spat out my food laughing.
She looks exactly how I imagine what people look like, that write articles like that.
Me too haha
ROFL Did you see all that arm fat! She's going to be able to take flight soon! :-D
She's a product of the UK's left-wing university system. And not a particularly original one.
Ah, Pasty British Woman (PBW). This is why I was a celibate for a year when I studied there...
I have never met a good woman named Emma
Single moms: Always looking for the next atm. Not like most single moms ever have a decent job.
Coming from a woman everything you said is 100% true!! Thank you for attempting to make today’s men more masculine...keep up the good work!
Byron Rainer ignore the chameleons. She doesn’t know what she wants and cares only about men becoming masculine for her 50 shades fantasy
laurencxle Was that a left handed complement... smh
Poo.
Please it is woman making these bata males in the first place!
Never date a woman with kids ! I got married with one for 13 years biggest mistake
Of my life.
6 years in my case
damn. same reasons as rich said?
can you elaborate more on what happened and what made you realized that it was a mistake?
Khagan Wanganate I got cheated on that’s what happened And used
Incidentally, if you arrange an online date and the woman who shows up is, shall we say, not as advertised: *call her on that and leave*. Do not be "a gentleman" and stick it out, making small talk for 30 minutes with somebody who have no interest in. A woman waives her right to gentlemanly behaviour by being deceptive in such a situation.
Facts are not her friends.
She's only offended because you are right.
Being a single mother i strongly support your decision, don't date single mothers, you will never come first because to her, her kids are way more important than you.
Her kids are only important to her but not to me. I want nothing to do with single moms and her kids.
@Gray Kin What is wrong with a single parent finding someone new. A good relationship will improve everyone's lives.
Lubna Anderson thank you for being honest; I turn away single moms like the plague✌🏻❤️🇺🇸
Nothing wrong with a single mother entering another relationship but men shouldn't be shamed for not wanting that life. I married a single mum but when it ended I wasnt allowed to see my step son even though I was there for him from 2 year old. This upset both me and him. I'd never put myself in this situation again.
@@toes1965 never shamed a man for not wanting to date a single mother. I actually think guys who never had kids should not date single mothers because they don't know how difficult it is. My problem is when people shame and belittle single mothers for their "damaged bodies" or for being "single mothers" most women don't want or plan on being single mothers but they become single because the guy show his true colors and begins to fuck up. Single mothers aren't damaged goods or punching bags for men with mommy's and daddies issues. If you want women to respect you, be respectful to them.
Took my ex one month to start seeing someone behind my back when things were very near the end and two weeks to have him virtually move in after I left a near four year relationship with her and her three daughters.... Great example mom. So much for being strong and independent.
Those are all the things I tell my son !!
Granted , he is 15 yrs old, but I need it to get it in his head !! Stay FAR AWAY from damaged (Toxic) woman.
His life depends on it !!!
Good for you. Hopefully he has dad in his life to aid him in becoming a man. Children need their dads just as much as they need mom to be well rounded adults. I believe that the reason today`s younger generation are so messed up is because sigle parenting leaves out to much of life`s lessons that can only be learned through having a mom and a dad. Contrary to what many believe, Men cannot be moms and moms cannot be dads. They can give it their best attempts but somethings will always be left out.
Steven L Emerson , His dad is very much in his life. We have been married for over 19yrs and still going strong. I agree with you 💯. These women out there thinking they can be both, have no idea what kind of damage they are causing.
You're a good Mom, no two ways about it.
And that is why this video has nothing to do with you a women with selfworth and a women who can take ownership. I want to say I wish there were more of you out there
I am happy to see that there are some women out there that don't dispute the truth because they don't like the truth.
And if I could make a suggestion for your son...... please teach him that the law, the cops, the courts and judges ALL favor women. If I knew that earlier in my life, it would have saved me a lot of heartbreak and a lot of money.
Dating a single mom ? Yeah no thanks lol all that baggage and who really wants to care for someone else's child. That's just me
Somtimes I'm wondering why single mothers care so much to be in relationship again 😐
They really shouldn't unless of course it's with a single father... than by all means do your children and the tax payer a favor. 🤣🤣🤣
Money..
Because they are users and losers
Because it’s hard to be on their own.
It's about POWER !...that's why.
Modern journalism
"HEY EVERYBODY!! THAT MAN IS TELLING THE TRUTH OVER THERE!!"
Thank you for standing up for what is right. I am saddened by the lack of true and strong men. I have no attraction to men who have no backbone and who behave like boys or who are feminised. It is not attractive. Feminism is a very destructive concept which has destroyed many facets of society. We need male energy to balance feminism. Keep doing what you're doing. Women have to take responsibility for their decisions and please stop taking all of these birth control pills and learn to discern who you get involved with. It's really strange to me when I see men having kids with several different women and women having children with several men. It's really gross.
Totally agree!
THANK YOU
Im a single mom and I completely agree with you. I think the points made on accountability is spot on. I’ve had a victim mentality for years! And now I’m de tangling from thinking I’m special and that it’s society that’s wrong. I made a choice to step away from his dad and think that every situation at work or with dating should adjust to my decision. I do feel lonely but I made a choice and one day I know I will fall into a right situation with a man where I am also Ideal. I think we also tend to forget when we pray for a good man is for us to be a good enough woman for them. Just what I’ve learned. Keep growing, learning and leaving the victim narrative.
When the screeching starts you know you're on target - stay strong boys, this is just the beginning!!
Word!
Hard truth to listen to regarding your description of Briffaults Law. It is a 100% reflection of my experience. As my start up business struggles to grow, my ex filed for divorce. Her unforgettable words “ I can do better by myself “. Even though business is still slow, as God as my witness, the peace, quiet and freedom I have experienced is awesome. Who knew you could be so at peace going from a 3,800;square foot house to a two bedroom apartment. I have lost 45lbs, I work out at my gym at least 6/days per week at 5AM and have done more business networking than in the past. It is a journey and I am working on my purpose to be my very best.
Keep striving. Good luck to you.
Inspired One live your life! Keep at it.
Inspired One hell yeah man! Live a simple life! No wife happy life!
Don’t even need a 2 bedroom; a studio will do as long as you have peace, quiet, freedom.
I logged on just to send this msg to you brother. I got the exact "I can do bad all by myself"
And lost everything in my divorce from a silver bullet. I feel your pain, and know you are not alone.
The fact they get angry just shows ur right …truth hurts
so we got 2 choices ... 1 date a single mom 2 create a single mom ,, hahah what an joke this world is
3 wear condom pump then dump
@@jeffuchiha3725 Don`t use the condoms that she has provided.
@@stevenlemerson534,preaching to the choir brother,i barely trust a woman to make me a sandwich.
@@jeffuchiha3725 🤣
Duck single moms, walk away and never come back! it’s worth it guys!
“Women don’t care about the struggles”, fact. This couldn’t be more true and has always been a thought in the back of my head in all the past dealings I’ve had with women in my life.
This is absolutely true. I was with a girl for 7 years. When the relationship ended, she was with someone else publicly within 2 weeks. It was sickening. Made me feel like all that invested time just didn't matter. And a woman is offended that you said that? Deal with it. It's the truth. I'm not making any investments into a woman who doesn't invest in me.
The house can be on fire and Richard Cooper would still be talking to you calmly :D very professional delivery mate.
@MikeWu
Best and truest comment of the day. :-)
Class Act.
"So as you can see behind me the house is on fire, but I just wanted calmly upload this video before stepping out for a bit. Next video will cover Home owners insurance."
A single father that marries a single mother has it's own set of risk. Even if "two daughters" seem to get along. In my case they learned to hate each other and my ex-wife accused me of loving my child more than hers.
Yellow I had this too. Shamed for loving my son more than y step kids. They were all treated equally and provided for equally but apparently it's all about feeling.
You f up once and now you f up again.
Ever since I was young ive heard a saying that my dad and other older guys would agree with: "happy wife, happy life"
Even at a young age, like 10, I thought that was the biggest load of bullshit. I say fuck that.
"Bomber Command dropping cold hard truths." LOL
Truth Nukes
"My kids come first. But a man has to put me first"... that is the root cause of my failed 10 year relationship.
You were with a singke mom for 10.years?
I’m 15 and your teaching me well
Well done Richard! Men are needed. I grew up in a single motherhood household. Garbage! Victimhood!
Dude, your rationality and lack of emotion when dissecting this issue are incredibly inspiring!
I just shine a light on facts. Thats it, thats all.
Keep dropping the truth bombs my brother someones gotta hold these women accountable
Women hate the fact that us men can now brainstorm and evaluate relationships
They hear things so truthful they wish it was silenced.
Keith Barbaro and for every 1 red pill alpha male, there are 100 soy boy beta male
You've never had a relationship. You've been too busy brainstorming. Let's be honest here.
@Exe Cutie You either do or are a nosey b%@&h that adds nothing of value to the convo. Which one is it? Never mind I don't give a F@%K about your opinion.
@@nicolep9493 And honestly speaking that makes him a lucky Man; a modern Man. This is the future girls, buckle up. The Male Free Agent... The real price...P.S. shaming tactics are overrated; if women's game don't evolve with the times their jig really is up.LMFAO
@Exe Cutie Passive aggressive...I'm shoooooooocked!
This guy cuts right through the bs and is 100% honest we need more realistic people like this..........
I AGREEE
With a woman with kids, you come after the kids, her, her job, her parents, relatives, friends, pets, car, clothes, lawn furniture, flip flops, Amazon....Don’t do it. I know from experience. If you want the most happiness in life don’t ever get married.
I agree with you on everything you said. I have experienced this a few times. Never again will I date a single mother.
Men need to stop being so thirsty
We are educating boys on how to be men.. Thec thot crowd is having a fit about it
you make it sound so easy. i am honestly open to serious ideas. but i also would love for you to tell a drug addict to stop being a drug addict and an alcholic to stop being one.
thewewguy8t88 it’s just your mindset. You need to occupy yourself with other things hobbies sports etc focus on your purpose that’ll take your mind off chasing pussy.
@@shawna8134 no not really it can be extremely physically overwhelming. i litreally feel like i am going through withdraw please do not tell me there is a mindset when there is a physical thing to it. i have litreally had panic attacks from it and have been temped to call 911 because of this issue.
@@shawna8134 also it has been phsysically painful at times.
My adoptive dad thankfully took me on when he began dating my mother. My mother has always been horrible to me, but that man was my saving grace. I have loved him from the moment I realized he wasn’t going to abandon me like my own father did. For those women who have “daddy issues”, get over it. If not, you’re only hurting yourself.
There are Noble Men out there that are a Father to any child THEY choose to Take on on ALL levels, loving them like their own. Although in most cases every negative thing here can and most often will be true, Nothing is 100% - Good or Bad. Glad the two of you salvaged some Love out of an otherwise Bad Situation. That almost happened for me during my most recent dating experience - I took the chance on a single Mom/Best Friend, loved both of her Girls like my own (I'm probably too old to have my own kids) and the older daughter and I bonded like you did. But, that girl will always know I care - and her Mom made, in my opinion, an inferior choice and married another. Probably, from what I read here, it was really the Best Outcome for me. The Cautions here are Real - but, as in your case, something Good can come of Bad, Love doesn't require Blood relation - sometimes God sets it up that way.....
YES!!! I saw the post and thought it looked like you. So happy your making a video about this. 👍🏼
Had to pause the video several times to read the bitterness of those landwhales. You are doing a great job Richard.
This hit piece came across my facebook feed yesterday and I unfollowed the "VT" page after reading some of the comments posted by 90% women. Based on the amount of salty comments, I'm guessing there were A LOT of single mother's posting replies. Keep it up Rich, enjoying the content brother!
There’s nothing wrong with anything you said, you make very valid points.
@The New Paulo Coelho She doesn't. But she wants men to think she does
I admire your goal to illuminate a greater awareness, for the soul purpose of living a fuller, healthier and successful life.
He’s the best
My husband is teaching our boys of the types of women to stay away from now too. Also don’t trust a young woman when she says she’s on the pill it’ll be “fine”. Always always use a condom.
Men need to get vasectomies
And don’t tell the woman
And don't allow the woman to have access to the condom before or after.
I got fixed at 27. My insurance even covered it. No way was I going to end up like all my friends. All are divorced and paying child support. No way.
Richard your 100% correct, I'm speaking from experience, my last relationship was with a single mother, and she had alot of rules and all was to benifit her and her kids, and when I wanted things more equal in our relationship, she walked away in flash, she showed me a totally different person when I started opposing thefact that all our resources was going towards her and her kids. She kept saying her kids come first always. Because of you Richard I'm becoming a better version of myself. From Ireland 👍
Spot on. I've been a step-father and/or in the role in three different relationships. Every thing stated was 100% accurate in my experience. 100% responsibility with 0% authority. I won't do it again, no matter how good the woman or children. They dynamic cannot be changed.
Love your videos. I recently divorced after an 11 yr marriage (together for 17 years). It almost destroyed me. Your videos helped me through my worst times. You are bang on with online dating thing. Every girl I’ve dated from online has either not looked like their profile pictures and have lied about their situations. Every one I broke up with accused me of using them for sex despite them initiating it. The hypocrisy from woman out there is epic. They all want equality but not equal responsibility. Keep up the good work.
I loved my stepdad the most. He was the most amazing dad and we stayed by his side when he was dying of cancer. I was blessed with him in my life 100%
Well, you are a lucky young lady for having another man other than your real father raise you and teach you the many things a good dad has to offer. It is not an easy thing for a man to raise and love a child that is not his own. Your mom must be a good woman too. If she was not, I`m not sure he could have stuck around and you would have had a much different childhood. Most of us men, avoid single moms like the plague. Of course women must be careful to not get suckered in to bringing another man into their lives because there are a lot of loser type men out their who are all too willing to jump straight into a relationship with a single mom just to live off of them. Beware of this type of man. They are usually just big losers looking for a free ride. And then there is the risk of them being an abuser (mentally, emotionally, and even sexually). I will add something to this topic of "dating single moms" . Of course, we need to all understand that when we call someone (a man or a woman) a user, loser etc. we are generalizing. Not every single mom is a bad choice but in general it is a risky thing to get involved with any single parent as this video explains so well. I believe that moms raising a child on their own will always have a rough time and as much as they try, they cannot fill the shoes of a father. At least not completely. Often the result is an unruly, troubled child or teenager lacking good morals and are often brats to say the least. Not all though. Young men these days are very immature as a result of being raised by just mom. These men (or boys that look like men) are the equivalent of the selfish woman that this video is referring to. So yeah, stay away from these boys that only think they are men. I hope I have used the right words to try and explain this. I am not meaning to bash on women that have had to raise children on their own. Just giving a warning to young women about young men who have been raised by just mom. Moms tend to spoil and coddle their sons through their upbringing and this is where it often goes wrong. A young man that has been spoiled by mommy, often expect their girl fiends to treat them like mom treats them. So if you are looking for a man, beware of boys who are looking for a replacement mommy. They are everywhere! Sorry for the long comment. I feel that good young ladies should know this. It will help them avoid a bad relationship with a man-child. I have one beautiful daughters and 4 beautiful grand daughters and so I so hope my grand daughters do not turn in to one of these entitled, selfish women that the video talks about.
It does take a special kind of man, who is able to step up, and take on the challenge of raising kids. I'll bet he adored you too ❤️
ok great, pay it forward and date a single dad, I bet my house you won't
@@littleoldlady873 not raising kids... raising OTHER MEN kids, thats TOTALLY DIFFERENT ;)
Yall killed that man
I was on a dry spell for about 4 months then met this blonde bombshell with an 8 yo. She talked me into getting engaged and started pushing her kid on me real hard. Got me a fathers day card after 2 months. It was so awkward that i came to my senses and left. What a relief! I could've been so screwed!
single moms seem to get pissed off at me. when they tell me how many kids they have, I ask " so, how many different dads?"
3 baby daddys ha!🤣🤣🤣 my kids are adults now.. I am by myself and loving it. Sad that they can't handle a question. 😂nothing to be ashamed of. Just saving a mans time.
@@marimac182
u lookin for a fourth ?wink wink
@@danjohnson8399 Lmfao ugh no... never again. Did life in the motherhood pen...Lmfao.. you are hiliarious... I served my time for my bad choices...💯.wheh I grow up, I am selling my ovaries...🤣
Been listening months now and its made such a difference in how I see women and relationships. Thanks for the content, keep up the great work.
Never prioritize a woman over yourself when she only sees you an option.
this is the best video to underline the "envy comes from below" arguement
Women get mad because all these things have always been part if their bag of tricks. The game is being exposed. It makes them work harder and they hate that.
The daughters in my relationship told me I was last in the family,
And if your still in that relationship your crazy.
😢
Was playing darts at the local bar, spoke with 2 young guys and asked them how many women they meet have kids? They told me all of them...... over 95% of women I meet have kids... I'm done. Pump and dump.
How old are you, and how old are the women?
@@wagondragon I'm 35, the women I meet are between 21 and 40. They all have kids. Its sickening
Trust me Rich... you aren't lying. You've totally hit the nail on the head! Every reaction you're getting was outlined in Rollo Tomassi's "The Rational Male". They publicly deny their own nature and behaviour!
I have been married to a single mother for the last 7 years... been separated from her, for the second time now, for a few weeks... I was responsible for most of the financial burden for all this time. But now, she got a job earning a little better than me, and she wasted no time in acting in ways that she knows would make me distance myself from her. She didn't come up to me and said: "Get the fuck out. I don't need you anymore." She just acted in a passive agressive way to indirectly tell me she didn't want me around anymore. It has been the worst experience I've ever had in my life and I'm never doing that again. And yes, I'm telling all men who I get a chance to say this: Don't get involved with single mothers. They are most likely using you to make their lives a little easier. When they don't need you anymore, they will uncerimoniously bid you good buy and kick you to the curb.
Yeah men been trought it aswell with a single mum they act like this because they use you so you not value to them anymore
Her whole article proved you right...everything in this video was spot on
I love how all single mothers online label their child or children "Amazing " ! Your kid at best is probably average. 😆😆😆
Probably less than average, considering they only have one parent to give them attention and encouragement, which are vital to the social and academic development of children.
Kids of single hoes are well below avg.
True
@@Mcarthywasright I look most forward to about 15-20 years from now . Having to deal with all these emotionally underdeveloped children ROFL
Brinshido39 most are naughty little shits that won’t listen to you but they take full advantage of you financially. No thanks.
Just go on a dating site and write, that you want her 10y younger, BMI below 22, no debt, no smoker. Then you get a lot of messages 😜 you might put on some kevlar though.
Lol
“They hang out at the finish line and bang the winners.”
Bro! I’m using that line (and referencing you of course).
Grand Slam home run video!! The Truth is not an insult, and facts don't care about your feelings.
Never Simp.
Deep, deep in the back of their minds, they know it's true, that's why they're so angry.
The truth we only accept it when it suits us.