Arrange her books...pray for her to pass in exam.. Sir didn't spoke anything if it's vice versa like the woman is studying.. amazing A woman is born to make a man happy and raise family that is the only goal of a woman..she jus cannot think anything beyond that And than when the wives and sister of our so called men need a doctor than they look for a " FEMALE DOCTOR"😂😂😂 LOOK AT THE HYPOCRISY
And some women don’t do anything for their husbands and expect to be treated like queens. Nevertheless, if she does nit have to work and he pays all the bills then he deserves 100% the treatment described by the sheikh
@@DaggerSecurity there are woman who are paying all the bills including the expenses of the kids and the man ...Yet they are expected to treat the men like a slave to a ruler jus because of this hypocrisy that woman are jus born to make men happy that is the only goal of her life
@@DaggerSecurity also I want to bring to your kind reminder that most of men are actually not being really kind and that generous with there wives regarding there money or regarding any important matter in the family...Most of the women compromise and suppress there desires and adjust with a man ..But when it comes to a man he needs 100 % or even more from a woman without any guilt for what he is actually giving from his end to the woman... absolutely no guilt
The Prophets, sallalahu aleyhi wasallam, wives, may Allah be pleased with them, reported that he did his own chores, and he praised muslims that do their own chores. He also placed immense emphasis on treating the wife kindly. And Islam places great emphasis on womens education. How should we expect them to be educated when we also expect them to do so much for us. I see sheikhs talking about a wives duties but rarely do I see men warning one another to treat our women right. To be gentle for them, to provide well for them, to give them ease. I cant imagine a good muslim to sit while his wife runs around the house chasing chore after chore. May Allah rectify the wrongs and have mercy on us.
Never have I seen the shuyookh who advise the women also advise the men "to just sit". I see a lot of advice out there for men, if you look for the truth you will find it. As a woman, the advice being given here is loved and appreciated. May Allaah keep us firm upon the truth.
Youve misunderstood the prophet doing chores. It doesnt mean he did them everyday it means when he was home he helped out. As the man goes out to work and the woman takes care of the house. If u expect to marry a man who works all day then comes home and does work ur in for a rude awakening and this is coming from a sister. I dont understand why muslimahs nowadays find it so difficult to understand the man has his duties and the woman has hers. Housework does not even take the majoirty of ur day so im not understanding why u dont have time to educate urself from ur home?
@Madmarkhor I am a man. I go to work and when I come home I try my best to get work done there as well. For one, because my wife also works, and because she's my wife and I promised with Allah as my witness to be kind to her. Though I sometimes do need rest. I haven't misunderstood the Prophet, peace be upon him, doing chores. I'm not saying a man should be at home doing the chores, I agree that men and women have their own roles and duties. But I personally do not like when men try to justify doing nothing at home after work by saying it's the woman's job. And it's concerning to me when a man puts this much emphasis on the women doing everything for the husband. I mean, cleaning his books? Will you as a man not lift a finger when your wife is running through the house? And by education, I mean getting a degree, for example. I would not want this message to misguide anyone, but I wanted to share my thoughts since I think what he say, though not wrong, is a concerning message to say. A woman would be very virtuous to do as he said, but it shouldn't be expected from her. To me, this much service would be like a man earning a grand amount of money. I shall cease responding to this. It is not right. Assalamu aleykum wa rahmatullah
Subhanallah if the shaykh was instructing the men on how to act (which by the way he has many times in other lectures), the men in the comments would take the advice and naseeha. However as you can see in this comment section, some women cannot take the accountability and say “what about the men”. For the sisters who are acknowledging the Shaykh’s advice I ask Allah to reward you
What do you know to judge? A man has to deserve to be treated in that manner! What about If the wife actually studies and works and the husband just sits around not working because he isn't as educated and is used to getting his food served and clothes whashed by his mom? Times have changed. May Allah strenghten the womed and open the eyes of the men that think they deserve to be served without doing their duties!
These bayans are very common... What about the rights of a wife? Our beloved prophet said in the last khutba treat your wives right otherwise Allah will ask you directly about it...
Only the man should be pleased ,happy,& served in a married life life,the woman shid be his servant 24/7 ,may she be sick ,having kids soing chores or anything. Men can scream at their wives and do whatever,women shud spk to him like a.king. All this happend before Prophet Mohammed s.a.s came in maklah. He taught us to respect.women,ne kind to them.& not to.treat them like slaves
@@ryu7red I am responding to the exact points mentioned in this video. If it's wrong, it's wrong. There may be a million other things, but that doesn't make the points in this video right. Get your thought process in the right place first.
There are other ways to get to heaven then pleasing a husband. Plus the world is changed some women have to work so the husband can sleep at night. So when the wife comes home the house must be clean and tidy, food on the table. Why do men just get special treatment us women don't. It's 50% partnership not power!
Is it not enough that it’s Allah swt command? However there are rights of wife that also has to be honored. That the men protect them take care of all their needs by earning and respecting them. Your comments reflect the filthy western feminist mindset. Islam promotes Islamic feminism, the only religion that promotes the right of women.
50% exists in kufaar marriage so good luck if thats what u want. In this day and age women (both genders rlly) want luxury and see themsekves as poor if they cant spend after food shop and paying rent. This is not what is meant by the man providing for the wife. Women shudnt be marrying men who expect them to work full stop.
@hadjadolley3735 seems like the comment was put as a result of disliking/resenting what the sheikh was saying Sheikh spoke HAQQ Jazakallah hu khairan May Allah guide us all
No he didnt. Because u want to follow ur own desires of a kufaar marriage uve lied against the prophet which is haram. The prophet helped out with housework when he was home. That does not mean he had a set of chores he completed everyday.
@@Madmarkhor you sound like a red pill psycho. Yrs no set chores but he didnt ask for anything etc. But why u want ti change religion because of yiur own desires
please do not post such nonsense under the name of Islam. These nonsenses are not our prophet pbuh words. Islam is just both husband and wife should respect, care and serve each other.
Please have great adab towards our scholars. Maybe you don't agree, still practise proper adab. Allah SWT may give you understanding. Then you will feel sa bad as to why you said those things. The blessings that you have may be taken away. Ask for forgiveness and and be humble. Scholars are heirs of Prophets.
You are ignorant and you sound like someone who will bow to a woman. Islam has come with plenty rights for her that the husband should commit to. Stop being weak.
The arrogance of u muslims. Wud u go under any other indivduals profession whos srudied and learned in his profession? No. But somehow u think u know more than an old man who dedicates every second of his life to studying the deen.
I get confused when I hear someone saying that wives should baby their husband's and will say, the prophet (PBH) the best of the creations was doing everything for himself, even though he had more than one wife. No one was baby him. Why I have to baby a man full of strength, power, ability and grow up person??? CONFUSING
@@Albani3 To baby a man is to do everything that this video says to do. Men are not babies. If they want to be treated like that then that's what psychiatrists call being 'mentally disabled'.
@@happyflower7392 there was specific instances where he did that to show that men can help their wives but it wasn't everyday that he was at home cooking and cleaning and doing house chores, he was out spreading Islam etc so please don't use instances like that to twist the narrative and justify that a man should do these things everyday
The Prophet SAS was not like that ..please stop...you are not helpful in promoting the true happily married life ..the man is only king if the wife is a Queen . Not a servant .
We are all human and everyone should have respect both husband and wife. Both should take care of each others needs and happiness.
And the husband should be obeyed, say it.
Jazakallahu Khair. My wife works. Alhamdulillah what ever she can do will do. Help each other
It works both ways for a happy marriage
Husbands should do the same for their wives. If not, then it's not a marriage it's where one is a King, and the other a servant.
My sympathy to all husbands who expect to be addressed as rulers with being a strong provider of joy happiness and peace fir their wives.
Some husbands don’t do anything for their wives and expect to be treated like kings
100%
Arrange her books...pray for her to pass in exam..
Sir didn't spoke anything if it's vice versa like the woman is studying.. amazing
A woman is born to make a man happy and raise family that is the only goal of a woman..she jus cannot think anything beyond that
And than when the wives and sister of our so called men need a doctor than they look for a " FEMALE DOCTOR"😂😂😂 LOOK AT THE HYPOCRISY
And some women don’t do anything for their husbands and expect to be treated like queens.
Nevertheless, if she does nit have to work and he pays all the bills then he deserves 100% the treatment described by the sheikh
@@DaggerSecurity there are woman who are paying all the bills including the expenses of the kids and the man ...Yet they are expected to treat the men like a slave to a ruler jus because of this hypocrisy that woman are jus born to make men happy that is the only goal of her life
@@DaggerSecurity also I want to bring to your kind reminder that most of men are actually not being really kind and that generous with there wives regarding there money or regarding any important matter in the family...Most of the women compromise and suppress there desires and adjust with a man ..But when it comes to a man he needs 100 % or even more from a woman without any guilt for what he is actually giving from his end to the woman... absolutely no guilt
The Prophets, sallalahu aleyhi wasallam, wives, may Allah be pleased with them, reported that he did his own chores, and he praised muslims that do their own chores. He also placed immense emphasis on treating the wife kindly. And Islam places great emphasis on womens education. How should we expect them to be educated when we also expect them to do so much for us.
I see sheikhs talking about a wives duties but rarely do I see men warning one another to treat our women right. To be gentle for them, to provide well for them, to give them ease.
I cant imagine a good muslim to sit while his wife runs around the house chasing chore after chore.
May Allah rectify the wrongs and have mercy on us.
Never have I seen the shuyookh who advise the women also advise the men "to just sit". I see a lot of advice out there for men, if you look for the truth you will find it. As a woman, the advice being given here is loved and appreciated. May Allaah keep us firm upon the truth.
@@PoetriiseStanzafyah amin
Youve misunderstood the prophet doing chores. It doesnt mean he did them everyday it means when he was home he helped out. As the man goes out to work and the woman takes care of the house.
If u expect to marry a man who works all day then comes home and does work ur in for a rude awakening and this is coming from a sister. I dont understand why muslimahs nowadays find it so difficult to understand the man has his duties and the woman has hers.
Housework does not even take the majoirty of ur day so im not understanding why u dont have time to educate urself from ur home?
@Madmarkhor I am a man. I go to work and when I come home I try my best to get work done there as well. For one, because my wife also works, and because she's my wife and I promised with Allah as my witness to be kind to her. Though I sometimes do need rest.
I haven't misunderstood the Prophet, peace be upon him, doing chores. I'm not saying a man should be at home doing the chores, I agree that men and women have their own roles and duties. But I personally do not like when men try to justify doing nothing at home after work by saying it's the woman's job. And it's concerning to me when a man puts this much emphasis on the women doing everything for the husband. I mean, cleaning his books? Will you as a man not lift a finger when your wife is running through the house?
And by education, I mean getting a degree, for example.
I would not want this message to misguide anyone, but I wanted to share my thoughts since I think what he say, though not wrong, is a concerning message to say. A woman would be very virtuous to do as he said, but it shouldn't be expected from her. To me, this much service would be like a man earning a grand amount of money.
I shall cease responding to this. It is not right.
Assalamu aleykum wa rahmatullah
May The Almighty bless our daughters with such a genuine and kind husband.
All husbands must do the same
No, husband is the leader.
Subhanallah if the shaykh was instructing the men on how to act (which by the way he has many times in other lectures), the men in the comments would take the advice and naseeha. However as you can see in this comment section, some women cannot take the accountability and say “what about the men”. For the sisters who are acknowledging the Shaykh’s advice I ask Allah to reward you
All humans must submit to and only do what pleases Allah. Read the Quran. It’s the primary source of wisdom.
I feel like the women who are complaining and protesting in this comment section are the ones who needed to hear this the most.
Exactly
Weak men want such kind of wives ..because they are insecure.
What do you know to judge? A man has to deserve to be treated in that manner! What about If the wife actually studies and works and the husband just sits around not working because he isn't as educated and is used to getting his food served and clothes whashed by his mom? Times have changed. May Allah strenghten the womed and open the eyes of the men that think they deserve to be served without doing their duties!
@@mujahidalaustrali9068 so unfair of you to say this! Treat women as you'd like to be treated
jazakumullaju khayran
Jazakum Allah khayran* brother
These bayans are very common... What about the rights of a wife? Our beloved prophet said in the last khutba treat your wives right otherwise Allah will ask you directly about it...
Thank You.
Basically she must treat him like her master and NOT a husband.
Allahu Akbar.Prophet Muhammad Peace be upon him.
Only the man should be pleased ,happy,& served in a married life life,the woman shid be his servant 24/7 ,may she be sick ,having kids soing chores or anything. Men can scream at their wives and do whatever,women shud spk to him like a.king. All this happend before Prophet Mohammed s.a.s came in maklah. He taught us to respect.women,ne kind to them.& not to.treat them like slaves
So many beautiful things for men to be pleased..
Anything that men should do to please their women? Or is that out of syllabus for you people?
Aww, are you hurt?
@@ryu7red nothing to be hurt, just a curious question, about things that men have never thought about
@@aninditabhattacharya1715 Either you are an ignorant or you only want to criticise. There are more things in Islam teaches men to please their women.
@@ryu7red I am responding to the exact points mentioned in this video. If it's wrong, it's wrong. There may be a million other things, but that doesn't make the points in this video right. Get your thought process in the right place first.
Why don't the husband have functioning hands to take care of their own clothes and books
مُشکل کام ہے بڑا۔ اللّٰہ حی مالک ہے بس اور کیا کہوں؟
There are other ways to get to heaven then pleasing a husband. Plus the world is changed some women have to work so the husband can sleep at night. So when the wife comes home the house must be clean and tidy, food on the table. Why do men just get special treatment us women don't. It's 50% partnership not power!
Is it not enough that it’s Allah swt command?
However there are rights of wife that also has to be honored. That the men protect them take care of all their needs by earning and respecting them.
Your comments reflect the filthy western feminist mindset. Islam promotes Islamic feminism, the only religion that promotes the right of women.
50% exists in kufaar marriage so good luck if thats what u want.
In this day and age women (both genders rlly) want luxury and see themsekves as poor if they cant spend after food shop and paying rent. This is not what is meant by the man providing for the wife.
Women shudnt be marrying men who expect them to work full stop.
@@Madmarkhorin kuffar marriages, its both men and women give their 100 percent
@@rekakhanom6931 Thank You! Excellent point
How was Aisha ra was with her husband, prophet Muhammad (saw)?
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your profile is haram sister. Please change it
How did Aisha ra was with her husband, prophet Muhammad peace be upon him?
Asalamo aleykom could you please take off ads jazak allah kheyran
And what about the wife?
she a slave.
You can find many videos on this on UA-cam
she is a slave.
@hadjadolley3735 saying what about wife as If it's there aren't information out there about this
Jazakallah hu khairan
@hadjadolley3735 seems like the comment was put as a result of disliking/resenting what the sheikh was saying
Sheikh spoke HAQQ
Jazakallah hu khairan
May Allah guide us all
Prophet pbuh did own chores and this old guy
@@mariasal8793 feminist comment
No he didnt. Because u want to follow ur own desires of a kufaar marriage uve lied against the prophet which is haram. The prophet helped out with housework when he was home. That does not mean he had a set of chores he completed everyday.
@@Madmarkhor you sound like a red pill psycho. Yrs no set chores but he didnt ask for anything etc. But why u want ti change religion because of yiur own desires
Fear Allah, this isn’t any old man this is Shaykh Raslan May Allah preserve him. A big scholar in Egypt. Have some respect
@@erena9400 he should fear Allah by lieing upon the prophet pbuh and makimg up his own Islamic advices
please do not post such nonsense under the name of Islam. These nonsenses are not our prophet pbuh words. Islam is just both husband and wife should respect, care and serve each other.
Please have great adab towards our scholars. Maybe you don't agree, still practise proper adab. Allah SWT may give you understanding. Then you will feel sa bad as to why you said those things. The blessings that you have may be taken away. Ask for forgiveness and and be humble. Scholars are heirs of Prophets.
You are ignorant and you sound like someone who will bow to a woman.
Islam has come with plenty rights for her that the husband should commit to. Stop being weak.
The arrogance of u muslims. Wud u go under any other indivduals profession whos srudied and learned in his profession? No. But somehow u think u know more than an old man who dedicates every second of his life to studying the deen.
There are hadith like that, think before your speak.
O maulana.... tell me one thing,,is the husband able to make her wife happy in bed or not 😂 if not then why she should take care of her husband 😅
To be saved from hell.
I can't believe people actually believe this nonsense.
Exactly how it should be, the husband in charge of the wife, now its other way round hence a ruined society
@@zulirajwani1396 Thanks for your opinion, jahil
If my husband takes care of wife should wife not take care of him? Goes both ways
@@robotnitchka teri ma
Bro really wants a cleaner and personal assistant badly, thinks he will get both for free via a wife 😂😂😂
BS 😂
I get confused when I hear someone saying that wives should baby their husband's and will say, the prophet (PBH) the best of the creations was doing everything for himself, even though he had more than one wife. No one was baby him. Why I have to baby a man full of strength, power, ability and grow up person??? CONFUSING
What are examples of what he was doing himself?
@@as-rx9xn washing his own clothes. Fixing and mending his torn clothes and shoes. There might be more but that's all I can remember.
What does babying a man mean? Can you give me a detailed explanation. It is something ambiguous that people say and I always hear the kuffar say this.
@@Albani3 To baby a man is to do everything that this video says to do. Men are not babies. If they want to be treated like that then that's what psychiatrists call being 'mentally disabled'.
@@happyflower7392 there was specific instances where he did that to show that men can help their wives but it wasn't everyday that he was at home cooking and cleaning and doing house chores, he was out spreading Islam etc so please don't use instances like that to twist the narrative and justify that a man should do these things everyday
The Prophet SAS was not like that ..please stop...you are not helpful in promoting the true happily married life ..the man is only king if the wife is a Queen . Not a servant .
Thank You. Good point. Be blessed