How Trauma Plays A Role In Purpose

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  • @anomalus625
    @anomalus625 2 роки тому +183

    I look at life like a video game. The harder the difficulty, the better you are at playing the game. If you play on easy mode all the time, you don't really learn much. It like staying in your comfort zone

    • @oimiu4741
      @oimiu4741 2 роки тому +5

      Life is a "computer" game or simulation. There is no difference at all. Just remember that harder difficulty comes with some consequences tho. One should balance it like all things but you know that Im sure

    • @neirinjoseph6817
      @neirinjoseph6817 2 роки тому

      Yes

    • @iamfreedman6880
      @iamfreedman6880 2 роки тому +4

      Literally nothing points to learning being objectively necessary or staying in your comfort zone being objectively bad. Reality didn't objectively have to be this way. God just chose to make it this way cause he's a twat. Only reason people have to learn stuff later on in life is cause their parents and teachers failed and only reason people have to get out of their comfort zone is cause they don't already have what they want but at no point is it implied that everyone is like that or that there objectively infinite things one will want.
      Some people get all the basic human needs covered by the age of 20 and then they have all the time in the world to either stick with those or indulge in dozens of less important experiences, at times pretending they are doing something great by "pushing their boundaries" while others are struggling with basic stuff cause of circumstances. The only reason why the first choice doesn't last for a lot of people is cause god loves conflict and drama. Someone could have found the love and job of their life and be perfectly content with those till the end of their days and god will find a way to ruin that cause "they are not getting out of their comfort zone"...except of course for the lucky people who get to have all that uninterrupted only to get pretentious twats talk down to them for not "living" and not "getting out of their comfort zones".
      As for learning, if you had appropriate teachers and role models growing up, you learnt socialization, basic self esteem and decent work ethic along with some skill you can get paid for. Literally nothing after that is nearly as important, so, having to "learn" past your mid twenties - thirties is only there for people with dogsh1t families and teachers.
      If I had to make a parallel it'd be this; imagine you are playing a multiplayer game but instead of playing against people, you choose to play vs bots. It's easier, gets you all you need the moment you say so and then you are done. You are perfectly content with it but the guy who made the game just has to spam you massages with passive aggressive nonsense, telling you that you are staying in your comfort zone, you are not "expanding", you are not "integrating the knowledge the game can provide" and other such pretentious bullsh1t. At some point you cave in and decide to play the actual game, only to discover that the experiences it can give you are not anything special, the lessons mean nothing, the things you can do are finite and few - it's just the prespectives that are infinite and at the end everyone gets the same reward regardless of performance. Also, people playing in different difficulties all share the same server. The guy playing level 1 starts with +50 armor and 300 gold. Why play? If a human came up with a similar concept for a video everyone would call them retarded but life is to be considered a state of the art simulation as Abraham Hicks says.
      Take the subject of money for example. Someone shows up here and their "purpose" is to be an accomplished athlete. So, they are born into a family with a father obsessed with the sport the soul wanted to excel at, the incarnate gets put in an academy by age 6, come puberty their physicality shows up and they go pro by age 17, making millions doing what they love by the time they are 19. The only negative such a person has faced is losing a title. Meanwhile, someone else gets molested at age 10, has to spend a decade dealing with all the retarded manifestations that stem from the trauma, then they have to spend a decade resolving the trauma and then another five years establishing themselves as something that gets them paid based on their trauma. They are 35-40 by this points and because of bad habbits stemming from the trauma as well as the passage of time and being preoccupied with healing emotionally having prevented them from maintaining bodily health, they have 30 years left to live, with an underperforming body that can't get laid with youthful lovers or trully enjoy the money they are making, but hey they are being used as a tool to do god's dirty work of solving other people's issues, so that's good I guess lmao

    • @daisyg8384
      @daisyg8384 Рік тому +5

      @@iamfreedman6880 Totally understand your point of view. Presently, I don't understand how we can considerate the universe is always wanting the best for us, and that it loves us unconditionnally. If a soul has wounds or "false beliefs" inherited from past lives, what's the logic to
      come and martyrize her during her childhood in a new life ? To make her "experience what she unconsciously thinks she deserves" ? If the universe was really infinitely loving and helping, it could just had sent her caring and understanding parents, who would have helped her to heal all this pains that she was holding, instead of adding another layer. And this argument that we come to experience pain, to then be able to help others healing, if we take that as a truth, it would signify that this universe operates in an endless vicious circle. When will all this suffering end ? And, if this world in which we are living right now is just an illusion, if nothing of that is real, and our true self is actually perfecly fine and shinning, what's the point to all that ?

    • @iamfreedman6880
      @iamfreedman6880 Рік тому +2

      @@daisyg8384 Exactly. I have spent some time researching near death experiences and although they are riddled with contradictions, the one thing that is relatively the same from one story to the other is that on the other side all negativity is removed. Some people even describe a room they had to go to for removal of negativity before they could trully cross, with an "angel" explaining the process to them. So, if the ultimate purpose is to go there, to the place of eternal bliss, why is it necessary to get the negativity experience? It's like taking an exam for engineering school and one of the subjects being modern literature, completely irrelevant.
      Also, it legitimately sounds like an insult when we are told that we can't appreciate the good things without massive trauma, when it is in fact the trauma of neglect that leads to most bursts of rage that result in being blind to one's blessings. People who grow up in wholesome families have no issue appreciating their parents/siblings/grandparents while those traumatised and estranged are way more likely to not care for, say, visiting a grandma until she straight up dies. At no point does a child playing football with their parents require a vivid memory of being molested in order to appreciate the moment with their parents. The child just knows it's joyful to be playing with their parent

  • @lucidindigos1111
    @lucidindigos1111 2 роки тому +164

    good video that trauma doesn’t just derail you from your purpose but shapes you and plays a role in your purpose

    • @rachelneal3263
      @rachelneal3263 2 роки тому +4

      This is what I've experienced in my life.

    • @theacneclearchef2952
      @theacneclearchef2952 2 роки тому +2

      Phenominal. Wow. Maybe my past relationship is molding me.....today. 💖💖💖💖💖😁✌️

    • @OJesusX3
      @OJesusX3 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for saying so my friend. 😊🌎✨

    • @rajd6711
      @rajd6711 2 роки тому

      😊😊😅😅

    • @TheBFA22
      @TheBFA22 Рік тому

      Then how does one see it in a way where it doesn't derail you?

  • @MissiJade
    @MissiJade 2 роки тому +136

    Trauma from hardcore childhood abuse and abandonment left me on my own at age 15. I made a series of bad choices in my life and in a way put myself in positions whee I have experienced more severe trauma.
    I have just discovered your channel and I am so grateful that I did.
    I began to paint right after I lost my partner in a tragic circumstance. I have hidden from the world for four years craving support and empathy for my situation.
    I don’t want this anymore. I want to be fulfilled, love myself and learn why I’m here and how I can help others through my art by teaching complex trauma survivors to heal their hearts through a creative way. Thank you so much for this video ❤

    • @violetgc6049
      @violetgc6049 2 роки тому +3

      That is beautiful!!!! I'm so inspired by your story.

    • @theacneclearchef2952
      @theacneclearchef2952 2 роки тому +2

      Amazing......💖💖😁😁 !!

    • @sacred_alchemy
      @sacred_alchemy 2 роки тому

      Wow what paralleled realities 😮

    • @Wakilispeare
      @Wakilispeare 2 роки тому

      Wishing you light & clarity, as you continue to trust that you are supported and guided ❤💐

    • @susier6001
      @susier6001 Рік тому

  • @eclecticd9953
    @eclecticd9953 Рік тому +11

    This makes sense. I decided to pursue massage therapy at 24, and truthfully it’s brought me so much joy being able to help others because it makes me feel as though I’m healing myself. I’m 33 now and I’m still healing from a lot of grief, but I’m taking the steps necessary for that

  • @DoYouWantTaBeFree
    @DoYouWantTaBeFree 2 роки тому +30

    This really describes one of the main traumas in my life. I was called "stupid" at some key points in my life. Unconsciously, I really tried to prove myself the opposite going on to become a mechanical engineer working at NASA among other places. I identified this trauma during a session of theophostic prayer and it was like a light switch turned on. I still enjoyed my engineering career, but I eventually left and started a property restoration company.

  • @aletich2
    @aletich2 2 роки тому +80

    Not only healing from trauma, but also propelling our lives towards our soul's purpose! The gift of trauma takes us away from the victim mentality. Thank you, Teal!!! ❤️

    • @theacneclearchef2952
      @theacneclearchef2952 2 роки тому

      Wow. !!! 💖💖 wow!!! Thank you!!!

    • @daisyg8384
      @daisyg8384 Рік тому +1

      Yeah, but if you didn't have any trauma, you would not have had to place you in this victim state of mind, and then learn how to get out of it ! 😀

  • @AlchemistaAcademy
    @AlchemistaAcademy 2 роки тому +54

    I love this ❤ I’m a therapist too and we have a saying that you can only take someone as far as you have gone. I find the more I heal the better I am at my job❤️🙏❤️

    • @elenaaraujoborisoff6169
      @elenaaraujoborisoff6169 2 роки тому +2

      I am considering this as a profession! Happy to read your comment. What kind of therapist are you? Do you have a specialty?

    • @AlchemistaAcademy
      @AlchemistaAcademy 2 роки тому +3

      yes, I specialize in complex PTSD with women. I use EMDR, parts work, energy healing, sound therapy, and much more to help women heal from abuse of all kinds. In your consideration of this work, I recommend strong, healthy boundaries and excellent self-care. The work requires it and is so worth it

    • @theacneclearchef2952
      @theacneclearchef2952 2 роки тому

      💖💖💖💖💖

  • @clarily-561
    @clarily-561 2 роки тому +84

    I've been so scared of creating trauma in my future children that I've been wondering if I should even have children, and I think this video is a huge help to get over this fear!! I will do my best as a parent , I have been putting too much pressure on myself! Thank you so much for this very needed message ❤️

    • @cheryl1357
      @cheryl1357 2 роки тому +3

      Kids will always come in with trama. Drama are a learning tool. Why hold your self back. All you can do is the best you and that is care.
      having kids can be a beautiful experience😳

    • @LutherAEvans
      @LutherAEvans 2 роки тому +9

      The fact that you were wondering if you should have kids at all due to not wanting to create trauma for them shows that you truly care and are wanting to do what's best for your future kids before they're even born! Give yourself credit for that. It's caring people like you who are precisely the type of people who make the best parents.
      If you were to have approached parenting from a place of fear, worry and being overly cautious, chances are your kids would pick up on that and it would affect them negatively. If you are more relaxed in your energy about parenting, I think this is a better outcome for both you and your future kids. No one is perfect, but you're at least conscious about your energy and committed to doing your best, which is huge! Your best is all you can do, after all. I think you'll be an excellent parent.

    • @Nowindresistance
      @Nowindresistance 2 роки тому +6

      There are so many other reasons not to have kids though. In fact there’s no good reason TO have kids.

    • @richarddebono7092
      @richarddebono7092 2 роки тому

      @@Nowindresistance people like you should absolutely follow your Malthusian advice. Morally righteous & considerate people like Clarily absolutely must raise children for without them the world will continue being over run by television watching Muppets.

    • @richarddebono7092
      @richarddebono7092 2 роки тому +6

      Worry less & make more babies. Remember what professor Peterson says about the damage caused by the overbearing mother. I had no mother & my father wasn't conscious. All the turmoil & grief this brought made me the man I am today.
      The only way to go wrong in life is to base decisions on fear. You will love your children. That's your answer.

  • @TealSwanOfficial
    @TealSwanOfficial  2 роки тому +13

    Incase You'd Rather Read About It Instead: tealswan.com/resources/articles/how-trauma-plays-a-role-in-purpose-r524/

  • @salchst
    @salchst 2 роки тому +5

    YES! OH-MY-GOD!! 64 years old, and still learning.

  • @pappiwolf
    @pappiwolf 3 місяці тому +3

    I've been watching a few videos and I like what you are saying so far. You talk about ending needless suffering and I'd like to hear more about your view on cPTSD. I am 1 of so many who have been put through institutionalized child abuse. I struggle with flashbacks, dissociation, emotional paralysis, and more. I haven't found any therapist who could help me make any sense of, well, life really. There are so many others who have similar experiences and there are still kids being forced into these places. Idk what all I want but I would love to at least bring these programs to your attention because I think you could do a lot of good in helping us survivors. Please consider reaching out to me. - William Ulfmærr Craig

  • @mordaciousfilms
    @mordaciousfilms Рік тому +12

    I feel like no matter the method, my greatest need and desire is to connect with others. I've felt lonely and like an outsider my whole life. My whole life, I've tried and tried to make friends and find a sense of belonging in the world and my trauma always surrounds the feelings of "not being valued" and "not being loved" and "not having a place in this world". Thus everything I gravitate towards is either a means to feel good about myself, or a means to connect to others, or even a means to IMPRESS others... and the latter is also a surefire way to shoot myself in the foot when my efforts to connect and/or impress others yield more rejection rather than connection and inclusion. It doesn't matter what angle I take, or how many spiritual teachers I hear talking about making peace with "being alone and being one with yourself and just sitting there being present"... I'm in resistance to that concept because the need for companionship, connection and belonging is so strong that it overrides any other need. As a teenager, despite having a place to live where my other needs were met, I was not expected to make my own money or anything - but I was lonely and longing for a sense of community and I'd watch documentaries about street kids / squatter punks and see how they all banded together and everyone had a place in the crew and I longed for that lifestyle, despite the fact that these kids had no home or money and needed to steal and beg. That's how strong my need for friendship and connection is. I turned to the arts to try to give myself a voice and connect with others, but lately I've lost the passion for that stuff because despite spending most of my life focusing on filmmaking and art and music, it hasn't yielded the attention or reward I wanted it to yet. And I've become burnt out, I feel lonely and neglected still, and I'm trying to circumvent the whole "I gotta earn my right to gain love and attention from others" and just try to focus on making friends and meeting new people and figuring out who I am BESIDES those creative things. I have to figure out some new paths and work on developing more facets to myself rather than continuing to place all of my worth into the things I create and how much people like them or not...

    • @user-hn1vk5bn7n
      @user-hn1vk5bn7n Рік тому +4

      I feel the exact same. Loneliness has to be the most painful trauma 😞

    • @zee1010
      @zee1010 Рік тому +2

      @MordaciousFilms @@user-hn1vk5bn7n
      Hi there, kinda late, but I just wanted to say I feel just like you. I've been an outsider all my life (because I'm autistic), and feeling connected is the thing I seek the most. The need is so strong, it overrides anything else, as you said. ... I wish we didn't have to feel this way.

    • @ΒασίληςΑγγελόπουλος-ξ3δ
      @ΒασίληςΑγγελόπουλος-ξ3δ 11 місяців тому

      I can feel your pain. I have been experiencing it for years. I'm also lost. But if there is a way out, I will try to find it. I want to believe that you will do the same. I want to believe there is a way out, for both of us.

  • @inglestherightway
    @inglestherightway 2 роки тому +21

    I've come to realize Teal has so much clarity, whenever I don't get what she says or I don't agree, I just give it time until it comes to me, cause it will.

    • @ellahuang9253
      @ellahuang9253 2 роки тому +2

      I listen to her teaching over and over again even with the same one I can gain new insights each time

  • @LionMith
    @LionMith 2 роки тому +62

    I have a saying. “Turn pain into power. Wounds into wisdom. Struggle into strength”

    • @graceymiller6047
      @graceymiller6047 2 роки тому +1

      Mithu, Love that saying!
      If I were to follow that up I'd add, "and your Faith will be your Freedom!" Namaste

    • @cps2715
      @cps2715 2 роки тому +4

      You integrate it, turn it into a positive thing.

    • @JoeSmith-xf8uo
      @JoeSmith-xf8uo 2 роки тому +1

      nice thought.

    • @Anangelfromabove
      @Anangelfromabove Рік тому +1

      Needed this. ❤

    • @alex-ander-13
      @alex-ander-13 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you.

  • @immortalslounge2028
    @immortalslounge2028 2 роки тому +13

    I believe I’m someone who sent myself here to experience trauma so that I can live in authentic life I had seven years of homelessness that I overcame and now I just think differently but I’m not sure if I focus on that trauma or childhood trauma to find my authentic self great video❤

  • @queengoblin
    @queengoblin 2 роки тому +9

    Wow this directly mirrors my experience and what I've been realizing this past week Teal.
    My trauma has caused me to want fame, and to be in the film industry. I've always wanted this. Part of my trauma was not getting what I wanted young and that massive disappointment leading me down a twisted path that wasn't me. I did lose myself.
    I found myself and have been purifying my heart and I thought I'd rid myself of my dream of Fame and working in film. I became a life coach with a natural and magnetic online presence and high creative ability.
    And the more I heal, the more I see that I still want to be in the film industry, and the drive for fame still burns within me. Only it has been purified. I no longer just want to be "famous", I want my soul to be recognized for it's creative talent. I want to help cleanse Hollywood of it's corruption and bring in my light.
    The more I purify, the more I recognize my soul as one of pure raw creative talent that cannot be boxed into a conventional life and dies when I try. I thought healing meant ridding myself of the instability of creative fields. No. That instability is empowerment to me. I thrive on instability, it motivates me to push myself to be better.
    We need lightworkers in Hollywood. We need changemakers who aren't part of the propaganda matrix. We need true artists to make a comeback, not people who are rotting inside and sell their souls for "success".

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation 2 роки тому +4

    A dream does not become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination, and hard work
    Thanks

  • @thelovechannel7236
    @thelovechannel7236 2 роки тому +4

    You’ve just answered a question I’ve had for the last 6 years . Why I suddenly had no passion for a career I took on as my identity. It was my life on all aspects . I was healed . I moved on to another career .

  • @Droggarth
    @Droggarth 2 роки тому +19

    This is something you've already taught me over the course of 2 years Teal, since I first started watching your content! Thank you. Without the trauma I wouldn't have been propelled towards what I care about, it's something I am still being propelled towards

  • @donavonwayne1102
    @donavonwayne1102 2 роки тому +6

    Yes. This is next step into our journey
    We must acknowledge that we have been abused, so as to discover our path not just cope with trauma that happens
    Very good one teal

  • @ninaduschek9267
    @ninaduschek9267 Рік тому

    For a long time I felt like I shouldn't follow the path of becoming a famous musician. I always told myself that wanting to be famous comes from trauma, because I just want attention, and I can also be happy without the attention. But as the years passed by, I came to realize, this desire never really got away and it just IS something that I really HAVE to do, to be at peace with myself and with what I am doing with my every day life. I am still trying to find out where the trauma of wanting attention is coming from, as I would find that very interesting and helpful to know. But yeah, I am so glad to have found this video. Thank you so much, Teal! You inspire me and you have helped me so much on my journey since the last 7 years. I love you, and much love to anyone reading this!

  • @resmisadasivan878
    @resmisadasivan878 2 роки тому +2

    This is a much needed message. Some of us are still carrying our trauma around. We are so sorry for the lost of a happy childhood and youth. The emotional scars that came with it. Now I know we need to heal it. Thank you Teal Swan for making this video.

  • @everydayvacaytaj
    @everydayvacaytaj 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, so it's time to really look at and heal my trauma. That's what all of my unhappiness has been leading me to do. I feel like I have work to do now.

  • @iamtheluciddreamofficial
    @iamtheluciddreamofficial 2 роки тому

    Can’t stop watching Teals Teachings

  • @margaretcox1996
    @margaretcox1996 2 роки тому +2

    I am blown away by the amount of insight and inspiration I got from this video!!! Thank you teal swan for all that you do to help everyone who seeks your guidance . I am a trauma survivor of rape, abuse from relationships in all forms, physical,emotional, mental and verbal. I am 57 years old and the path to healing my own trauma has been so important, so detrimental to my living a life in which I am not afraid and one that I can actually be loved and love another without abuse.
    .thank you again and again and again.

  • @ugotaguyitsme1844
    @ugotaguyitsme1844 2 роки тому +2

    Very proud of this lady. One of the greats of our time

  • @fairygodbro
    @fairygodbro 2 роки тому +5

    Come through Xena! Spiritual Warrior Princess! love your energy and work! Thank you Teal Swan!

  • @prachidawer
    @prachidawer 2 роки тому +10

    Thank you Teal, even before watching the video, because you are truly changing my life - one video at a time.

  • @JinxMarie1985
    @JinxMarie1985 2 роки тому +6

    I've been through many types of finding a path to take and live with my trauma. It still gets me every day. Suicidal ideation, isolated, lost my baby boy cat that was my best friend... my family is a mess. I'm a mess. While doing DBT therapy, wow, it blew my mind of how messed up my family was and the abandonment i felt as a child. The loneliness and despair i feel all. The. Time. Where even does the healing from trauma even start. Teal, you have helped me open my mind to so many things and saved my life several times. I just do not think I will ever heal from 30 years of trauma so far...

    • @Emmajic
      @Emmajic 2 роки тому +2

      I understand that feeling of despair and that feeling you have to much to do to possibly be able to do it.
      Maybe you can focus on what you can do about it today, even if it's not much yet. It's impossible to take steps ( even little steps) and still not getting anywhere you know, by doing so, you will inevitably move toward what you want.
      Also, something that could help you is finding support in this process, I don't know where you can find it, maybe you don't know it yet too, but when you will, it will deeply helps, because you won't be alone in this anymore.
      So I hope it helped, even if it's just a bit. Lot of support to you Lisa!

    • @JinxMarie1985
      @JinxMarie1985 2 роки тому +1

      @@Emmajic thank you very much. I appreciate that a lot. I feel SO alone. And for the most part I am. However, no I'm not going to college like people tell me. I don't want a normal career. I actually want to work travelling and helping this planet. Maybe make a difference. Or help others and travel. All I know is I am not meant to be in one place because I've been so many beautiful places especially in my country. 🇨🇦 🍁 just me and a dog and a cat and an RV. Helping people with addiction and the homeless. Cuz I know exactly how that feels. I don't want a plaque on my wall. I could care less. If I could help a handful of people unselfishly then maybe that would grow into something bigger.
      Sorry for the long msg. Hope you're well.

    • @Emmajic
      @Emmajic 2 роки тому

      @@JinxMarie1985 You're very welcome. ^^
      Well I don't believe college will give you the kind of support I'm talking about (maybe I'm wrong), because I think what could really help is not necessarily to be surrounded by a lot of people, but to have just a few, maybe even one person for now, that can really understand and empathize with your situation, that can really see you and support you. I believe that is what's gonna make a difference for you in this healing process.
      And I think those people are often in health/spirituality/self improvement area so maybe you could go there? Maybe to some of Teal's workshop or other similar meeting near the place you live ? Like I don't know, meeting about non violent communication, or any type of subject linked to health/spirituality/self improvement really.
      I really wish you to meet people that can stand by your side, really understand you and be there when you need Lisa. Trauma is already a very isolating experience and there's a lot to do to get back on your feet, so it's only natural that you feel completely overwhelmed and defeated by it, especially if you're alone. But you don't have to carry it on your own, there are people in this world that can understand you even if you don't see it yet. ^^
      As for the rest, if you have a call to travel and to help people, go for it ;)
      All the best for you Lisa!

  • @Anangelfromabove
    @Anangelfromabove Рік тому

    She is talking about herself it’s kinda cute love you Teal!

  • @nate411
    @nate411 2 роки тому +5

    It was just 20 hours before you posted this that I had a really traumatic experience. I was going somewhere having a good feeling of what I'm about to learn. And indeed, it was painful but so beneficial in so many levels.

  • @hypnosecoachinghombach7517
    @hypnosecoachinghombach7517 2 роки тому +1

    Even though we have very different spiritual perceptions of the world, I'm over and over again fascinated how much overlap there is.
    When I started with hypnosis "back then", and had my first hands-on experience with forgiving and emotional closure from the past, I realized that many of the great artists, writers, singers, scientists, etc. would probably never have produced their oevres when they had overcome the pain of their past prior.
    There's a reason why we need passion (suffering), suffering, to outgrow ourselves.
    In German there's the saying "the problem becomes the profession".
    I wouldn't be surprised if there's something similar in English.

  • @debbiesday8270
    @debbiesday8270 2 роки тому +3

    I love seeing things in a new way. Thank you for showing me a new way to explore trauma.

  • @taylorgibson1994tg
    @taylorgibson1994tg 2 роки тому +2

    Phenomenal. I have gone through so much trauma recently in my life after such a high point and now, as I am currently healing and planning my empire, this video helps me realize just how importantly true the phrase "everything happens for a reason" is. Thank you, Teal Swan.

  • @crookedmirage9645
    @crookedmirage9645 2 роки тому +7

    I think my trauma derailed me for sure... I always wanted to find my calling, something I love doing and could financially sustain me, something where I could be empowered and bloom... But now I'm afraid that I have no calling whatsoever. So what did I suffer for?

    • @marchingkoala
      @marchingkoala 2 роки тому +1

      Same here!

    • @TheBFA22
      @TheBFA22 Рік тому

      Lol. Certainly derailed me, I look at people differently,

  • @johanleroux7046
    @johanleroux7046 2 роки тому +1

    Grand Rising all. I just have 2 say I found this channel only yesterday after meditation. I'm so happy that I found Teal. I appreciate the uploads and advice. Blessed

  • @youqike9923
    @youqike9923 2 роки тому +1

    We all have trauma deep inside, really like your talks, help a lot. Mia

  • @randomelvis3359
    @randomelvis3359 2 роки тому +3

    Suffering is the teacher ✨

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA 2 роки тому +3

    Precisely, as we become one and balance the equation, what comes up as these life experiences & traumas is the math we have to deal with in order to reach the sum=ourselves. 🗝️✨

  • @msdenisemartinez
    @msdenisemartinez 2 роки тому +1

    I love when you talk about trauma ❤️

  • @Thorn99855
    @Thorn99855 Рік тому

    Thank You for helping me with this. "Patience" is what I got out of my healing. It means a lot to me. Thank You

  • @blue_sky_bright_sun7599
    @blue_sky_bright_sun7599 Рік тому

    This has given me such a relief. It makes sooooo much sense too and now that I understood this it’s so obvious. I always felt like the wounds I got are stopping me from living my life but instead they are creating it the way I intended to.
    Now it all rests upon me reconnecting with myself. And it’s in my hands this.
    Such a simple yet easily overlooked aspect of trauma/purpose.

  • @divyasrivastav1488
    @divyasrivastav1488 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Teal . You are changing my life :)

  • @guyanasun4361
    @guyanasun4361 2 роки тому

    She hit the nail on the head.
    In trauma "we're lost" and must collect ourselves again because we're recovering. We're massing depression in darkness attempting to enlighten ourselves with material delivering formula in conscious program. Building depth and form with recollected thought and 'mess-age"..
    We could only ask ourselves why God created or allows negative/bad time, but that's merely perception through our own alterations and rationing. What's negative here exist positive elsewhere and what's good there might be bad near. The natural outcome of rearranging perfect is Fair & Fear atmosphere Affect & Effect of our actions.. Tear away leading to tears in echo & reflection of giving and retaking.
    Trauma exist because both negative & positive, hot & hold must exist in our natural universe. This was once a perfect situation in placement made complex after our big bang scattering occurred leading to complicated *re" recreation similar to putting a mirror back together or Genie back in a bottle.
    The domino effect of our little Pandora box began and exist similarly to a Rubik's cube that must be solved. How to get Zero & One working for us in good vs bad..
    Both negative & positive amounts to conscious & physical material existence in syn & ion. We need a bottom for top to exist and dark for light. If we could understandably situate negative and positive back into all the right places, then our lives become much easier to navigate. This is why we're tasked with accountability and "a count ability" directed by God in biblical prescription to put what's out of place back together again.
    The divide and replenish !
    Examples of necessary evil can be found in the explosion our Big Bang created by magnifying itself from "depression" El to "expression" mag. It's what "concentrated" and then reignited our conscious universe creating both social and physical atmosphere. Same as water & fire in physical, we manifest words, thoughts and imagination in Water 💦Charge ⚡ & Fire 🔥
    Collecting thought in mind data produces DNA used for creating animation & enlightenment. This is done by extracting depth from El electric Air (Aether) similar energy taken from El elements.. This is the spirit in social atmosphere of water and air (pharm) attaching itself to our physical soul atmosphere of earth & fire (farm). The living Eve/ Ivy & Adam/Atom concept like darkness/ light and Genesis/Revelation playing out in synchronized binary pattern.
    For proper social atmosphere the mind offering contrast is given proper "app" direction and format from stem or source code readable as Spirit & Soul mirroring contract & contrast..
    (Depression)
    Depth- reality- spirit - soul- Ion
    (eye on) building beam/blocks in life 🔽👁️✡️👁️🔼
    Master/Mass Star
    Ma - SS
    M- Asteroid
    ✴️ Table of time held up by
    3- 4 legs in spirit and Soul as water -air -fire -earth
    🔶🟧/blue, red/yellow
    Isis, Ra, El
    3/💦💨 🔥
    Blue, White and red..
    Or
    4/💦💨🔥🌴⚡

  • @jupiterjanes
    @jupiterjanes 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, thank you, thank you, as always 🙏🙏♥️♥️ I wish people would just listen to YOUR videos, and not videos about you..... it just would become so clear to everyone the worth behind your words and insight. The ones who want to do the work, will, that is my hope. Bless you, from Sarah in Newfoundland, Canada!

  • @jessicacollier2499
    @jessicacollier2499 Рік тому +2

    I tried to find purpose through my trauma, I figured my purpose was to help heal others, but I don't find satisfaction in that either. Idk if it's selfish or delusional, but I just want to help myself. I want to be loved and taken care of and pampered. I get that it's a comfort zone, but I don't care, I can't care, I want to be taken of, looked after, I don't wanna do anything anymore unless it's for myself

    • @yavikaritu33
      @yavikaritu33 Місяць тому

      Thank you for deciding to share this. I also feel like this. I feel like I don't really care to genuinely do anything for other people, I'm just invested in understanding and learning about myself, and also about other people (but that also constantly gives me insights about myself). Also, I think due to trauma I've been dissociated but I seem to not really care much for others' pain. What are your thoughts on this? Do you feel like this? I see you posted a year ago, do you feel any different now?

  • @LaLeoRonroneo
    @LaLeoRonroneo 2 роки тому

    Yay! This is what I have been doing. A new job that has many pros and big few cons…. Staying the course, learning, growing and moving forward ! 🎉

  • @avikchatterjee1945
    @avikchatterjee1945 2 роки тому

    As Walter Benjamin said , you have to be at the crossroads to know what you want. Veering or swerving is so important.Life is so very nonlinear and transversal. So purpose is always a dynamic process. You already know by now my devastating life story Teal. The other day I wrote to you that one. It amidst of all the trauma and destruction like to invent new ways or purpose as you put it. So I thank you for giving me more clarity. I have to get always my plan b or c or d ,the nth number of plan ready. And while executing these plans I find purpose. Love you Teal, dearest. Avik here.

  • @sherececocco
    @sherececocco 2 роки тому +4

    Purpose is moving forward

  • @jamesmullaney5841
    @jamesmullaney5841 2 роки тому

    This is Your keenest teaching in recent months, Superior One. You hit the nail directly on the head.

  • @angeliclighthouse9279
    @angeliclighthouse9279 2 роки тому

    Beautiful messages of inspiration for others to love themselves, heal within and change their lives.

  • @CB-et6jo
    @CB-et6jo 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks! I am a guard currently, but I studied LMFT and am still healing and analyzing myself. I use what I learned almost every day to make sense of the world around me. I also adore your interview answering questions about psychiatric labels and how these only exist to help psychs talk more quickly to other professionals.
    Thank you for reassuring me of what I learned working with horses: for me to reach my destination, I need to go in the round about way before I can decide to arrive at my supposed "destination."
    I feel trapped in the current modality and ethics MFTs use. The rooms themselves annoy me, and therapy is agonizing for me. I would rather be a guard and nurture my wild inner child that way, having more naturally occurring healing conversations to people out in their daily activities, for shorter interactions for the time being.
    One of my fragments is more like Tomb Raider, lol.

    • @CB-et6jo
      @CB-et6jo 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the like. 😍

  • @memoirsofafarmerboy
    @memoirsofafarmerboy 2 роки тому

    Teal,
    Thank-You for who you are. The beautiful energy you carry is magnificent!
    I say this respectfully, for I am a happily married man.
    Your soul and your heart are very beautiful.
    Paul

  • @amandapanda9097
    @amandapanda9097 2 роки тому

    This is something I have struggled with but this video has made me feel so much better about it. Thank you.

  • @kirstenenglish5525
    @kirstenenglish5525 2 роки тому

    This video showed up for me to watch because I am going through my trauma. Learning my purpose through this trauma. Thanks for this video. The second example is me, but my career was something totally different than what I should be doing. ❤

  • @reikimama
    @reikimama 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this video, Teal! I love your psychology oriented videos but I have missed the more spiritual ones. This blends them both, and I just love that!

  • @ghasaqkareem
    @ghasaqkareem 4 місяці тому

    Thank you
    That answered a question I've been pondering

  • @UssiTheGrouch
    @UssiTheGrouch 2 роки тому

    I like how you, video by video, seem to work on your approachability.
    You seem so much more emotionally involved and relatable.
    That really suits you.
    Thank you also very much for sharing your wisdom. 💜
    It's greatly appreciated. 🙏🏾

  • @gammie1017
    @gammie1017 2 роки тому +8

    Turn pain into power.

  • @sunrise5567
    @sunrise5567 2 роки тому +1

    This video is incredibly informative, much needed and I greatly appreciate its making and I hope media helps spread this wisdom to more and more people who would be helped by it. I personally think any individually could benefit from it, should they desire to improve their life. Thank you for spreading your profound wisdom, dear T. Swan ❤

  • @mayankkohli1322
    @mayankkohli1322 2 роки тому

    This was a fantastic video Teal. Resonated strongly. You have a great quality of putting across an intellectual message, in an easy to understand manner. Thank you for what you do. 🙏

  • @TheErika711
    @TheErika711 2 роки тому

    😳 how do you hit the nail every time this is making so much sense I needed to hear this going thru trauma I lost my purpose but now I'm connecting with myself in ways I never knew

  • @kamalsarraj-andaloussi5593
    @kamalsarraj-andaloussi5593 2 роки тому

    The flavor of this video is “warmth”, of feelings, of emotions and even looking back at some of the worst scenarios of trauma from childhood are looked upon and revisited in some auric blanket of warmth . This gives me the sensation of tasting what “ Dragon’s Aura”, could be like to harness. And using it as a sift through energy and or frequency to see certain details with Dragon’eyes, and embrace them with “warmth”… A Gracious Loving Sunday To All!!!. This video is my Sunday brunch. I have spent a spectacular Saturday in the ancient city of “Fes”, I took my old man and spouse to visit some of his ancestors lands , and I have got the privilege of walking through a “Pomegranate grove “, along side the “Sebou river”, for the first time in my life and pick fresh organic pomegranates right of the tree. since worth mentioning it is only four years now that growers on these lands have taken the decision to diversify form the original culture of planting olive trees . Breaking with tradition is something a rich bouquet of “Teal’s knowledge and wisdom”, could be applied to , but I refrain and allow the moment to come with its share of joy The walk through the alleys of the ancient Medina were refreshing in colors and scent . And most esoteric as it could be with we were blessed with a shower storm the moment with got the car loaded with three types of honey, olive oil from the groves, and the traditional Moroccan “khilgh”, which is a type of beef jerky bathed in its own liquid fats and olive oil, I have to mention I do not eat it anymore for many years now. This was our bonus divine wash of renewing with the lineage of the old man. So what could be as tender and kind as this than waking up to watch and listen to the iconic Saturday “Timeless Rise with Teal”, video on a quiet Sunday. I said brunch, because when I do return trips to any given location the same day and get back like gone at 10 in the morning and we were back at 11 in the evening. I need time to wind down the Adrenaline rush of focus driving , no music needed only mantras and invigorating story telling and details discussed while behind the wheel. And of course refused to fill up the entirety of the trunk with pomegranates as much as I Love them in a very active and expressive manner I was not going to get more than enough to avoid excess and spoils .quick edit … After one hour prayer I sat from midnight thirty Till 3 in the morning bringing my electrolytes from dehydration eating pomegranates of course!!!

  • @mariarohmer2374
    @mariarohmer2374 2 роки тому +2

    As always, more wise information from Teal.

  • @BIGTAD1987
    @BIGTAD1987 2 роки тому

    I can relate to Gatiek and draw parallels to our lives, in short, at 35 Years of age and after many Cycles Synchronicity and Inner Child/Father Wound Healing, I'm changing Careers to become a Chef.

  • @Littlelinden86
    @Littlelinden86 Рік тому +1

    This is huge. How can I explore it more?

  • @KellyLove444
    @KellyLove444 2 роки тому +6

    Wow, amazingly helpful and timely, thank you Teal!!!!

  • @randy5829
    @randy5829 Рік тому

    Teal you’re a good soul!

  • @arycochet9904
    @arycochet9904 Рік тому

    Thank you for spreading knowledge

  • @miguelrobledogardendesign
    @miguelrobledogardendesign 2 роки тому

    Thank you Teal, this was a great video. Felt like I haven’t heard you go into topics like this in a while and it’s nice to have it again. God Bless 🙏🏽

  • @confusedwhynot
    @confusedwhynot 2 роки тому +1

    So we can learn from our trauma and make it work for our good or we can let the trauma destroy us. I for one to make it work for my good. Thanks for sharing!

  • @kimberlysilveira7686
    @kimberlysilveira7686 2 роки тому

    Fantastic video, filled with such truth.... let's us change the beliefs surrounding our trauma with new acceptance.

  • @andycampano
    @andycampano 2 роки тому

    I like how you switched up the intro music.... great insights as well thank You

  • @nojjy09
    @nojjy09 2 роки тому

    Beautiful. thanks for the insight and reminder and message.

  • @aquariusstar7248
    @aquariusstar7248 2 роки тому +4

    thank you for psychically tapping into my consciousness this week 🤯🤯 😆😆 and anticipating my needs. I hv been pondering and having inner conflict on this very topic all week! it felt like divine timing to wake up and see this topic on this weekend's video.

  • @salchst
    @salchst 2 роки тому

    I recently, about a month and a half ago, went through a very difficult period. I was like, "Why the hell is this happening?" Now, looking back, more relaxed, I see how I can use that event to my advantage! (Pertaining to what's happening now.)

  • @Lucida1818
    @Lucida1818 2 роки тому +1

    This is a very clear explanation and perfect timing Teal
    It’s given me huge relief 😅
    Brilliant actually ❤

  • @D07770
    @D07770 2 роки тому

    Amazing! Thank you for the food for thought!

  • @danielaravenous
    @danielaravenous 2 роки тому +4

    Just in time as always 💕

  • @Noychooz
    @Noychooz 7 місяців тому

    This is what I was looking for.

  • @stevejennifernichols9391
    @stevejennifernichols9391 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this video, Teal. I really appreciate you. ❤️

  • @jennytai88
    @jennytai88 2 роки тому

    Wow really grateful for this video ❤ much needed right now 🎉

  • @Nina_Kowsari
    @Nina_Kowsari 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Teal

  • @keennickolas8575
    @keennickolas8575 2 роки тому +2

    Damn, I don't have a purpose ... but I have plenty of Trauma to shape me ... I still dunno, where I am going, though ... I like doing sports. I like doing music. I like to entertain.
    But all my drive stems from the one worst trauma: I feel lonely ... FAR TOO OFTEN!
    So I try to get myself out there. Try to make myself get seen as well.
    Been sick my whole life. Often for really long times ...
    lost so many people, because of sicknesses ...
    If I finally should have enough wholesome people in my life, with healthy relationships towards them, I might not do the things anymore, that I am doing with so much discipline ... but maybe I'll be able to do them more free ... more enjoying ... well, ... maybe even together with those people.

  • @Zainabhussainii
    @Zainabhussainii 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much teal, i love youu

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 Рік тому +1

    This is so good

  • @xxqueenofdarkness
    @xxqueenofdarkness 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Teal. Great timing for this video, great examples, all of them resonated with me. Exactly what I needed to hear today. :) Thank you for everything that you do.

  • @holocronlibraryfox1187
    @holocronlibraryfox1187 2 роки тому

    Big hug for the smile after the sentence (3:50) 🤗😄
    Great video. 😊 Have a good week. 🙏

  • @ikhan8976
    @ikhan8976 Рік тому

    Thank you Teal ❤

  • @tothemoon8465
    @tothemoon8465 2 роки тому

    thank you teal!! Will try to heal.

  • @liberatedhippything
    @liberatedhippything 2 роки тому

    Aiming to write a book about the troubled children who may or may not have ended up like Dahmer.
    As someone who's recently learned that I experienced a fear of powerlessness thru my whole life, this is what created me into THIS. and it's not even terrible! If little me could see! My gosh. She'd be terrified to learn she has to quit some things to really experience love and vulnerability though.

  • @anastasialymperopoulou5142
    @anastasialymperopoulou5142 2 роки тому

    Amazing! exactly what I needed today !

  • @hena6592
    @hena6592 2 роки тому

    This was so helpful. Thank you.

  • @l2344hdhn
    @l2344hdhn 2 роки тому

    Hi Teal! I just wanted to say thank you for your videos, they helped me so much in this journey of understanding and healing... And I like the examples you always use for a better understanding it helps so much...

  • @rinahgberg312
    @rinahgberg312 2 роки тому

    Thank you,Teal! Your videos are such a great help.❣

  • @rhuwrong1135
    @rhuwrong1135 2 роки тому +1

    Your talking directly to me... unbelievable knowlage!!!! Thank you for your motivation and visualization of what would happen if I directly look into my own horror story and heal it... Sending you crystalized bliss♥️❤️ thank you

  • @shelbywilliams1603
    @shelbywilliams1603 2 роки тому

    Teal, would you be open to doing a video about Halloween? With it being around the corner, I’m really curious what your take is on Halloween, what the energy is doing around the holiday? What spirits do… I just want to learn about it.
    Thank you for your content, I love hearing your insights ❤

  • @Mushiishum
    @Mushiishum 2 роки тому

    Teal I laugh because you make me feel better and at the same time see what I do not want to look at.

  • @jaynebarry5658
    @jaynebarry5658 2 роки тому +1

    At the level of your example, this theory makes perfect sense. It is too difficult to follow the theory though, once we start talking about real things like extreme harm of infants and the like. This is where it becomes impossible to comprehend why anything could possibly be worth that, and we should just go without whatever we could gain from it because it is seems unethical to allow another soul to do that; even by choice. We shouldn’t take them up on the offer. We should just not evolve behind a certain point if the only way is through that level of torture. I can’t be the only being that sees this. God must at least have as much compassion as I do, so how could evolution be worth that? I’m genuinely asking, not arguing or fighting. I want to understand.

    • @jaynebarry5658
      @jaynebarry5658 2 роки тому

      If this is an authentic offer to communicate, I am grateful beyond words. How can I verify this is an authentic offer to communicate?

  • @kennypham3856
    @kennypham3856 2 роки тому +3

    Teal I hope you do those amazing computer/3D/design backgrounds again. They were so cool. Anyways, big fan. Your insights are amazing.