Hey. Lebanon we love you .the inventors of the alphabet the glorious phoenicians who discovered America and gave their princess name Europa to the European continent. From Byblos Lebanon comes the word BIBLE . Lebanon 7000 year old biblical state is all over the bible , was founded as a modern state by the Christians ✝️. Is now under a hellish siege , from its powerful ennemies .
Without him knowing, he has made his parents incredibly proud. For his Mother, she just wanted to do the best she could so he could be the best he could. For his Father, for whatever reason, could not be his Father...that defeat never leaves you. Now his son was able to give what he could not. The pain is over, and the stress on their spirits is elevated. That man eliminated generational curses just by not giving into fear. His children and grandchildren will be forever changed just because he decided to Love his Family. Just like that a new life of Happy Life is threaded into the cosmos.
The only distinction between a hero and villain is how they deal with tragedy. The hero thinks “I never want anyone else to feel this pain” and a villain thinks “I want to make everyone feel what I felt”. Good man
Wow! Profoundly said. His kids must be so proud of their dad..He brings love and structure to the family..God's blessings always to him and his family.
I was an extremely involved Dad. Never missed a single school event, single sporting event or concert. I volunteered at my daughters school so much even the staff thought I worked there. My daughter is 27 now and she recently called me the perfect man, which of course I’m not but it’s the highest compliment I will ever get. I love being a Dad!
@@brahtrumpwonbigly7309 When my daughter was little she liked me to describe the day she was born because I’ve always told her it was the best day of my life. To have a baby girl is the greatest blessing any man will ever have and I wish your friend well. The time and love I invested in my girl really paid off. By age 23 she had 4 degrees including a masters in Business from Michigan and a high paying job at Google. She played in the Michigan Marching Band for 4 years where she met and married a man a lot like me. Now they have a new baby girl themselves and I can’t believe I get to help raise another one!
He’s absolutely right. I’ve seen two types of men. Men who vowed to never repeat the mistakes his parents made. And men who just passes the mistakes straight down to the next generation. Smart vs dumb.
Women as well. Some women change. Some pass on the abuse. Although my mom was abusive she did improve from her mother. So it isn't always a black and white issue.
My husband is an amazing man. He grew up without a father, but made sure to study good male examples in his life. Our daughters seriously have the best dad!
He embraced the father within himself. A father is great to have, however you can give your children the guidance you wanted from your father. This is a good man.
Very wise response “if you learned what you were missing you would make sure you would never miss it” we struggle so that we may give a better life to our children
@@arabionjames9290 don’t let men take advantage of that fact. There’s a lot of dudes who try to dish out unwanted advice because they see a boy has no dad and they want to help. Form your own views of the world and don’t take everyone’s advice as good advice. Use your best judgement brother. One love good luck to ya.
As a man raised by a single mother, fathers are underrated but I seriously don’t know how I’ll do it without my mom. Even we live countries apart as long as she’s breathing I feel like she’s on my side and the day that stops will be a HARD day
I share this man comments. I went my childhood life was horrible but I promise to myself not to do the same to others. And I’m doing fine & living in peace💕
This is what America is really all about. Never met this man but I've known him for eternity. A good family man. Very good words from the heart. I wish he was my brother. God bless you and your family.
Hes so right. Our trials can either make us or break us. So glad he chose to let it make him a better person and give his children what he missed. God bless him.
As a fellow Montrealer I thank you Sir for your channel and videos. And as a 60something I appreciate your taking the time to ask people what it is like to be older
"When you lose a mother you become an orphan." Describes my life story. It's sad really, I honestly don't have a hope for being happy ever again. It sucks and sometimes I'd rather chose death. Maybe starting my own family one day will make me feel some warmth again, but right now I'm too depressed to even see that as a possibility.
Dang.. This one was tough for me..I just got off call with my 80 yr old mom.. Put my kids to bed.. And yes.. No Dad too.. This is seriously great part of YT! Keep it up!
Yes same here. I talked to my mom, put my kids to bed and here I am. But yours was 3 weeks ago I guess. My dad did work and live at home, but he was addicted to pharmaceuticals for his foot pain and he just wasn’t involved in our lives much.
Sounds silly I know, but that's how it hit me. Lost my dad in my forties, having previously lost my mum. That's exactly how I felt, like I'd been orphaned. Never take your folks for granted.
I lost my mother very recently, and I always felt what this man articulated so beautifully. Really appreciate this man, and everything he shared. God bless you brother!
I grew up without a mother since I was 5, what’s worse I had a abusive step mother. The lesson I learned is life can hurt, you may make mistakes along the way but in the end we learn to be better.
That’s a quality man. A lot of people in America who blame their “oppression” on others should learn from this man. Your life is what you choose to make it.
I lost my mom last year. She was very sick. What he said about being an orphan after losing your mom is absolutely true. Always appreciate your mom guys. Give her lots of hugs and kisses. When you lose a good father, its like losing a best friend and mentor. My old man is still around and I have been spoiling him and taking him on trips.
For me my dad died when I'm very young and my mom never being there for me. So im 100% orphan but I'm strong women i fighted aginst depression and find my own value as human. If you don't trust yourself you will be lost easly by neglecting from parents.
He learned a real lesson about how to be a dad. There are 11 of us, and he made certain every day that we all knew we were loved. He found ways to spend time with each one of us on our own. He worked hard, he was a leader in our church, he was a leader in our community, and he was there for every single event for all of us. He worked the chains at my brothers’ football games, the snack bar at their basketball games. He was there for every single play we were in, for every Mass in which we did a reading. His standard is an impossible one to live up to but we all try. I feel his loss every day. He also adored our mom. We were the center of both of their worlds, but they took time to spend with each other and remember why they fell in love. She stayed home with us, we learned to read from her, we learned about personal responsibility from her. We’ve lost both parents now, but each one of us has a beautiful family, we all stay connected, our children have all grown up with each other. My two oldest siblings are coming up on their 50th wedding anniversaries and I, as the youngest, just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary with my husband. Family is the greatest gift, and the Faith to hold them together in the center.
I've been living by this rule, and preaching it since I was in my late teens. At 38, I feel blessed that God brought this into my spirit at a young age because it's life saving!
I had a conversation with my husband, and I told him that for me, I'm giving to my children what I didn't get from my mom. Not monetary things, but things that you can't buy. That's LOTS of love, tons of affection, a listening ear (so important during teenage years) and your undivided attention, encouragement, godly wisdom and counsel ( they choose whether they take heed or not, but I let them know that there are always consequences for their actions, and the importance of sowing good and bad seeds). Most importantly I pray for them. Some of your children will have you on your knees more than others, lol, but they're worth it. NEVER STOP praying for your children. Your prayers will carry over to their children as well.❤️❤️❤️
That’s a great man right there. His kids will remember the time he chose to spend with them forever.
Hey. Lebanon we love you .the inventors of the alphabet the glorious phoenicians who discovered America and gave their princess name Europa to the European continent. From Byblos Lebanon comes the word BIBLE . Lebanon 7000 year old biblical state is all over the bible , was founded as a modern state by the Christians ✝️. Is now under a hellish siege , from its powerful ennemies .
@@berytus6746Who are the hellish enemies? You mean USA and Israel right?
@@cino4919 i wonder why you thought of them first?
Yes
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Without him knowing, he has made his parents incredibly proud. For his Mother, she just wanted to do the best she could so he could be the best he could. For his Father, for whatever reason, could not be his Father...that defeat never leaves you. Now his son was able to give what he could not. The pain is over, and the stress on their spirits is elevated. That man eliminated generational curses just by not giving into fear. His children and grandchildren will be forever changed just because he decided to Love his Family. Just like that a new life of Happy Life is threaded into the cosmos.
I can tell you the reason, it's because the mom cut him out of the family.
Yes, he did cut the generational curses by being the man his father was not to him and not repeating the cycle.:)
@@Kitiwakeyou are just woman hater . That's it . Just because your mom or wife is bad doesn't mean all women are like that 😂
The only distinction between a hero and villain is how they deal with tragedy. The hero thinks “I never want anyone else to feel this pain” and a villain thinks “I want to make everyone feel what I felt”. Good man
True
Wao...great quote!
So true 👍🏼
An important point. Thanks for sharing it.
Exactly 👍👍👍
Sounds like a great father. I am deeply touched by his sentiment towards his children and life in general.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
When you lost your father you become a man, but when you lost your mother you become an orphan. That hits me
Wow, I thought this was only a saying in Ghana 🇬🇭 with the Akan tribe
It's the truth, I experience loosing a mum it's like you loose both
Same applies to women. You step up to be your own woman. Without the need to mimic anothers ways and behavior.
Me too 😭
@@junglekutz5625 so true !
Wow! Profoundly said. His kids must be so proud of their dad..He brings love and structure to the family..God's blessings always to him and his family.
I was an extremely involved Dad. Never missed a single school event, single sporting event or concert. I volunteered at my daughters school so much even the staff thought I worked there. My daughter is 27 now and she recently called me the perfect man, which of course I’m not but it’s the highest compliment I will ever get. I love being a Dad!
My buddy just had his first child saturday, a little girl. A month premature but healthy as all get out. I hope he gets a similar experience someday.
@@brahtrumpwonbigly7309 When my daughter was little she liked me to describe the day she was born because I’ve always told her it was the best day of my life. To have a baby girl is the greatest blessing any man will ever have and I wish your friend well. The time and love I invested in my girl really paid off. By age 23 she had 4 degrees including a masters in Business from Michigan and a high paying job at Google. She played in the Michigan Marching Band for 4 years where she met and married a man a lot like me. Now they have a new baby girl themselves and I can’t believe I get to help raise another one!
@@sheneedsme you are lucky ❤
That's why you are best dad.
What a treasure you are😭
Him saying when you loose a father you become a man but when you loose a mother you become an orphan hits hard 😢
Very!
Aad iyo aad 🥺
@Ben10SoloUrFavoriteCharacterWere talking about mothers, or if youve never had one or have a bar relationship with her which i take back what i said
Lose*
Lose*
“Don’t do what was done to you” man that was intense!
I grew up without a father and this is exactly how I want to treat my kids. Great man!
Don’t do what was done to you.. Profound words right there.
Unless you were treated well!
He’s absolutely right. I’ve seen two types of men. Men who vowed to never repeat the mistakes his parents made. And men who just passes the mistakes straight down to the next generation. Smart vs dumb.
Women as well. Some women change. Some pass on the abuse. Although my mom was abusive she did improve from her mother. So it isn't always a black and white issue.
@@Catlily5 what was the need of posting this? We are talking about one thing dont bring something else
@@sruthi2708 We are all human beings. This seems to be an issue that applies equally for both sexes. That is why I mentioned it.
@@sruthi2708 Also I mentioned it because some people improve upon their parents but are still abusive. It is not always an all or nothing situation.
@@Catlily5 haha ok true but statistics show it goes one way more than the other 😁
My husband is an amazing man. He grew up without a father, but made sure to study good male examples in his life. Our daughters seriously have the best dad!
How long have you guys been married
Totally relatable I am sobbing, never seen my father i am 25, I'll takecare of my mother as much as I can🥺
Your mom is luckiest mom who have you a great son.
This man is an absolute treasure.
He embraced the father within himself. A father is great to have, however you can give your children the guidance you wanted from your father. This is a good man.
I am also Lebanese...and my father died when i was a kid...My mom raised 5 kids pretty much by herself..
He seems like a decent man! I wish him and his family the best
Very wise response “if you learned what you were missing you would make sure you would never miss it” we struggle so that we may give a better life to our children
His posture and countenance says alot . A wise man indeed .
I am black American and strait male.
I feel this.
I saw my father 5 times tops.
I still miss my father.
God in the name of Jesus we pray you meet this young mans needs of a loving father ♡
@@debbiewilder4738 thank you
Inshallah you meet him again if you desire to
What a brave young man, to be honest and humble. You are very loved.
@@arabionjames9290 don’t let men take advantage of that fact. There’s a lot of dudes who try to dish out unwanted advice because they see a boy has no dad and they want to help. Form your own views of the world and don’t take everyone’s advice as good advice. Use your best judgement brother. One love good luck to ya.
Good dad...glad he didn't repeat the mistakes of his father....and he right, there's nothing like losing a mother.😔
As a man raised by a single mother, fathers are underrated but I seriously don’t know how I’ll do it without my mom. Even we live countries apart as long as she’s breathing I feel like she’s on my side and the day that stops will be a HARD day
May your mom be blessed with healthy long life..Ameen
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This man is a legend! "When you a father you become a man but when you loose a mother you become an orphan" I completely agree - do true!
Fathers have been so underrated.
Essential for children to have both parents.
Seems like he did fine with a single mother.
@@hi2978 and many don't.
@Marina E. Usually a father is really good to have around.
But if your father rapes you repeatedly it might be better if he is gone.
The problem is that fathers do it themselves. And we are forced to forge ourselves as men without their support.
@@AlexiosLair Not really. A lot of mothers turn their kids away from dad.
Special man. I never heard of the saying. When you loose your mother you become a orphan , my heart was frozen in that real moment o this reality
I share this man comments. I went my childhood life was horrible but I promise to myself not to do the same to others. And I’m doing fine & living in peace💕
This is what America is really all about. Never met this man but I've known him for eternity. A good family man. Very good words from the heart. I wish he was my brother. God bless you and your family.
I respect this man a lot, he is spitting facts. RESPECT!!!
My dad was my Rock. He's got alzimers now but... What a man. And of course, mam was the best mam in the world 😉. Both equally special.
Your blessed
I lost my dad too 😓. So sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
This is a real man right here. Don’t repeat the same mistakes your parents did.
Just beautiful. I aspire to be a father like him one day.
A very good & wise man…two very good, smart men.
Hes so right. Our trials can either make us or break us. So glad he chose to let it make him a better person and give his children what he missed. God bless him.
A great American. Thanks for being there for your children. I remember being at the ball field with my father, some of the best times.
I respect this man. Made me tear up a bit.
That's a good father figure who can attend their children basketball play and attend their trips that's a cool dad
When I watch these videos , i actually want to get their numbers and talk to them, learn more and understand their story. Good channel.
Them: No thanks
I love this great interview very wise man. I’m sorry for his loss 💕
This man is Awesome. What a great man
He's kids are blessed to have him 🧡
This is a real MAN. I envy his children they are so lucky!
As a fellow Montrealer I thank you Sir for your channel and videos. And as a 60something I appreciate your taking the time to ask people what it is like to be older
YOU ARE A VERY GOID MAN, YOU TAUGHT ME SOMETHING, GOD BLESS YOU FATHER OF THE YEAR!!
I like what he said about 2 schools of life and to take the positive choice. I wonder how he became wise enough to make the right choice.
Respect to this man
He's such great man and great father ❤️
What a wonderful man. God bless him!
His mom did a great job ❤ God bless them all and especially women like his mom 💖💖💖
A beautiful human being.
Blessed be.
This made the tears well up, not gonna lie.
I was given advice when I was younger, it is do not make the same mistakes your parents made with you ,and become a better parent to your kids.
Really touched me💝 when you loose a father you become a man and when you loose your mother you become an orphan 🤗
Respect and admiration for this man. He chose to provide for his kids the kind of parenting he wished for. Bravo 🙌
"When you lose a mother you become an orphan." Describes my life story. It's sad really, I honestly don't have a hope for being happy ever again. It sucks and sometimes I'd rather chose death. Maybe starting my own family one day will make me feel some warmth again, but right now I'm too depressed to even see that as a possibility.
You will be happy again just think of the good memories, May God bless and comfort you ❤❤much love
The best days are yet to come, if you wish to have children one day, you’ll know what I mean❤ keep pushing
Time and Faith in Allah can help you go through the toughest losses.
You will have moments of warmth again. ❤️That is what your mom would want.
What an fine example of a man. Just beautiful.
“When you lose a father you become a man” so true
This was very emotional.Bless him and his family!
Dang.. This one was tough for me..I just got off call with my 80 yr old mom.. Put my kids to bed.. And yes.. No Dad too.. This is seriously great part of YT! Keep it up!
Yes same here. I talked to my mom, put my kids to bed and here I am. But yours was 3 weeks ago I guess. My dad did work and live at home, but he was addicted to pharmaceuticals for his foot pain and he just wasn’t involved in our lives much.
All respect to that man
Exactly, life is a chance to give and be what we missed out on ourselves.
What a MAN, Love this Man.....Learn what you missed in life.
Im Lebanese too, Lebanese Accent is so distinct, he sounds like my uncles
Its distinct accent but i feel their accent is the smoothest than any other arab nation.
@@mhd92aa 💯
@@mhd92aa true, it blends well in English but it's still recognizable in a none-meme way
Inteligent man. Don't do what was done to you. I lost my mom 1yr ago, i feel like an orphan, he is spot on
Great advice...
Finally a youtube channel that's not some self absorbed bullshit.
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🙏
Exactly! ❤
True very true 😊
‘let me tell you something’
Such a gentleman. His values are spot on.
Don't do what was done to you.... word💯
amazing! nothing beats a mother. I'm proud as a mom.
ALHUMDUALLAH BLESSINGS ☪️
This man is the definition of "Do better!" Bless Him and bless his family 🙏🏽
"لا تربوا آبناءكم كما رباكم آباءكم ، فقد خلقوا لزمان غير زمانكم
My Arab brothers 😃❤️
Omg. I didn't think of all the older people I know, they are orphans😭💔
Sounds silly I know, but that's how it hit me. Lost my dad in my forties, having previously lost my mum. That's exactly how I felt, like I'd been orphaned. Never take your folks for granted.
I lost my mother very recently, and I always felt what this man articulated so beautifully. Really appreciate this man, and everything he shared. God bless you brother!
I never had a mom or dad so I guess I’m just an orphan man.
I grew up without a mother since I was 5, what’s worse I had a abusive step mother.
The lesson I learned is life can hurt, you may make mistakes along the way but in the end we learn to be better.
He is a real man.
Just watch his handshake.
Kudos to a great dad.... I hope his kids realise what a great treasure they have...
This man is amazing. Ensuring his children never forget him and his love ❤️. An example to all fathers. He must miss his mother very much.
Well said Dad, hope your children see this. They Should be proud.Blessings to you and yours.
You are the truest definition of a father sir.
Now THIS is a real father💯
True u become an orphan when u lose a mother 😘😍
This guys statement is world moving
Fathers are important
♡ ☆ ♡ This is a great man with an important message...♡☆♡ BLESSINGS ON THIS MAN, & HIS FAMILY. . . ♡ ☆ ♡
He'a an inspiration. He displays a winner mindset. Not a victim mindset
That’s a quality man. A lot of people in America who blame their “oppression” on others should learn from this man. Your life is what you choose to make it.
I lost my Mom when I was was 40. I described myself they same way, as an orphan. 🙏🏼 💔
Everything he said was beautiful.
I lost my mom last year. She was very sick. What he said about being an orphan after losing your mom is absolutely true. Always appreciate your mom guys. Give her lots of hugs and kisses.
When you lose a good father, its like losing a best friend and mentor. My old man is still around and I have been spoiling him and taking him on trips.
So full of wisdom.
Well said. He's a responsible and kind person. Be blessed.
For me my dad died when I'm very young and my mom never being there for me. So im 100% orphan but I'm strong women i fighted aginst depression and find my own value as human. If you don't trust yourself you will be lost easly by neglecting from parents.
This man is wise.
He learned a real lesson about how to be a dad.
There are 11 of us, and he made certain every day that we all knew we were loved. He found ways to spend time with each one of us on our own. He worked hard, he was a leader in our church, he was a leader in our community, and he was there for every single event for all of us. He worked the chains at my brothers’ football games, the snack bar at their basketball games. He was there for every single play we were in, for every Mass in which we did a reading. His standard is an impossible one to live up to but we all try. I feel his loss every day.
He also adored our mom. We were the center of both of their worlds, but they took time to spend with each other and remember why they fell in love. She stayed home with us, we learned to read from her, we learned about personal responsibility from her.
We’ve lost both parents now, but each one of us has a beautiful family, we all stay connected, our children have all grown up with each other. My two oldest siblings are coming up on their 50th wedding anniversaries and I, as the youngest, just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary with my husband.
Family is the greatest gift, and the Faith to hold them together in the center.
I've been living by this rule, and preaching it since I was in my late teens. At 38, I feel blessed that God brought this into my spirit at a young age because it's life saving!
He became who he needed as a kid
Beautiful
Good job dad!!! Bless you!
I had a conversation with my husband, and I told him that for me, I'm giving to my children what I didn't get from my mom. Not monetary things, but things that you can't buy. That's LOTS of love, tons of affection, a listening ear (so important during teenage years) and your undivided attention, encouragement, godly wisdom and counsel ( they choose whether they take heed or not, but I let them know that there are always consequences for their actions, and the importance of sowing good and bad seeds). Most importantly I pray for them. Some of your children will have you on your knees more than others, lol, but they're worth it. NEVER STOP praying for your children. Your prayers will carry over to their children as well.❤️❤️❤️