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  • @AlexisLilian
    @AlexisLilian  3 роки тому +52

    Hope you find this helpful! And don't forget to share your own tips so we can all learn from each other 🙂

  • @sunflowergarden9794
    @sunflowergarden9794 3 роки тому +151

    I'm new to this community (in the middle of this year I finally accepted that I'm bisexual) and I can't wait to meet the love of my life!! I'm 19 so I have time but I can't wait, I hope I have a relationship like yours! Through November I have been getting involved in the community and you guys were the first queer individuals I found. I will never forget your videos, I literally watched them all. I'm crying... happy tears!!!

    • @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7
      @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7 2 роки тому +2

      You deserve the best I wish you luck on your journey of love

    • @sunflowergarden9794
      @sunflowergarden9794 2 роки тому +10

      I have a girlfriend since yesterday!! We met at college but started talking the 16 of August, the 19 I told her I loved her and now she is my girlfriend (since the 27 of August). Im so excited but afraid, we are both pretty inexperienced so that eases my anxiety a bit. Nonetheless, IM SO HAPPY!!

    • @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7
      @HazbinHotelIsMyLife7 2 роки тому +1

      @@sunflowergarden9794 I'm so proud of you I'm just asked out this girl and I'm nervous wish me luck

    • @imjasikasingh0
      @imjasikasingh0 Рік тому +1

      ​@@sunflowergarden9794 that was my birthday 😂

    • @333mia
      @333mia Рік тому

      @@sunflowergarden9794what did you say to her to know if she's into you / signs

  • @wilmahernan
    @wilmahernan 3 роки тому +64

    That intro was GOLD! 😂💕

  • @sunflowergarden9794
    @sunflowergarden9794 3 роки тому +66

    Through November I have been getting involved in the community (I recently accepted that I'm bisexual) and you guys were the first queer individuals I found. I watched every video of yours in 2 weeks and your style of videos has changed so much (in a good way!!!) I love the funny side and spirituality of them.

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  3 роки тому +11

      Congrats, that's a big step! Welcome to the community and thanks for the kind words :)

    • @sunflowergarden9794
      @sunflowergarden9794 2 роки тому +4

      @@AlexisLilian AMAZING NEWS ♥️ Yesterday she asked me to be her girlfriend!!! We met at college but started talking the 16 of August, the 19 I told her I loved her and now she is my girlfriend (since the 27 of August). Im so excited but also afraid, we are both pretty inexperienced so that eases my anxiety a bit. Nonetheless, IM SO HAPPY!!! Everything is moving so fast!!

    • @aunamonet
      @aunamonet 2 роки тому +1

      @@sunflowergarden9794 IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!! ❤️

  • @johannamoeller1375
    @johannamoeller1375 3 роки тому +60

    Haha I love the intro :D You two are just so AMAZING!! Love your videos :) You have such a nice vibe together :)

  • @joannacardoso1115
    @joannacardoso1115 3 роки тому +30

    You said my name and I spit a piece of my bagel into my ice tea.

  • @nitzanreact5274
    @nitzanreact5274 3 роки тому +29

    Haha, I'm a straight woman but I love you guys. I'm gonna use those tips on my current crush. BTW, loved your Surfshark add, very funny.

  • @sssaaarrraaaggghhh
    @sssaaarrraaaggghhh 2 роки тому +17

    I was actually looking for this one. I’m a baby gay and I just can’t wait to date.😭🏳️‍🌈🤍✨

  • @samantham5374
    @samantham5374 3 роки тому +19

    The intro is so funny you guys 😂❤️

  • @kritisingh5189
    @kritisingh5189 2 роки тому +15

    how to go from text to s3x... the intro!! Couldn't laugh harder. Thank you pretty girlss!!!!

  • @robinhazen8034
    @robinhazen8034 3 роки тому +12

    Thanks for the helpful hints! We can learn so much more about others when meeting in person, so I agree, setting a date to meet up is very important to keep things moving. I might be super old fashioned but I like a "group date" for the first time meeting. Meeting a new person amongst our friends & going to a fun event feels safer & more relaxed. Plus, if no sparks fly when we meet in person then at least a friendship can still be established, hopefully.

  • @lucy-wp8ic
    @lucy-wp8ic 2 роки тому +3

    thank you for this video !! i thought i was bisexual but have realised i am just a lesbian after all i need this

  • @Marina23031
    @Marina23031 3 роки тому +15

    Hilarious!!! And i felt personally adressed when you said my name 😅

  • @StarTrinity009
    @StarTrinity009 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this video! I've been trying to figure out if my crush is interested or not, and this video makes me think that she is because she does a lot of this. I'm still unsure because I've known her for about 10 years, and she's so naturally bubly and uses a lot of emojis. Consequently, I've been staring at my phone like, "What does it mean?! AHHHHH!!!" The double heart emoji gets me the most... Oh well, I'll figure it out later when we meet in person. We haven't had a lot of one-on-one time face-to-face, so it'll be a lot easier to tell if she's interested in just developing our friendship or wants a romantic relationship. I'm already doing most of this, and she's doing it back, so looking good maybe. She recently came out, so now that I know our relationship can be more, I've developed a crush, and I'm trying to flirt.

  • @gillianslattery1765
    @gillianslattery1765 3 роки тому +12

    Your intro made me smile, like it was new found self confidence due to your recently engaged state. Congratulations again! You two are lovely together, great humour amidst the flirting 😏😉😊🌟

  • @Mr-sd7ez
    @Mr-sd7ez 3 роки тому +5

    I'm literally laugh crying bc of the intro!!!!!That's a lot I haven't done that in a while

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,🖤🖤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      what✝sapp him now,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

    • @Mr-sd7ez
      @Mr-sd7ez 3 роки тому

      @@miraclejames4804 I don't text men I'm gay dude that's kinda of a bad place to post that lurky shit:3Gays are smart

  • @julia1100a
    @julia1100a 3 роки тому +4

    Great video! I agree that using the person's name and including some photos makes your text much more personal and inviting

  • @jehoqz
    @jehoqz 2 роки тому +7

    This couldn’t have come at a better time! Came out at the beginning of the year and I’m currently courting a beautiful woman inside & out. I’ve not dated a woman in a long time. LONG TIME!
    You 2 are the ideal couple! It’s when you lock shes with one another … it’s the soulmate feels I get. Congrats on the engagement. I do have one question 🙋🏼‍♀️
    I’m a sis gendered woman, she/her, they/them, masc presenting, stem/verse/switch. I’m trying to find my style & could use help around that area?! Love you guys xoxo

  • @erikken1039
    @erikken1039 3 роки тому +3

    Die Einleitung...einfach berauschend! War so überwältigt , dass ich sie mir hundertmal angesehen habe! Sehr unterhaltsames und interessantes Video!

  • @kariharkness7015
    @kariharkness7015 2 роки тому +2

    Love how you spiced up your sponsors LOL

  • @mfg2324
    @mfg2324 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks!
    You've helped me a lot in the past and now that I'm getting to know a woman I really like, I'm really grateful for some of your videos - this one included! Thanks, my gay bf/mums 🌈😊

  • @kisskiss6866
    @kisskiss6866 3 роки тому +2

    This intro OH MY GOD!! ❤️ Bought me in the first hot second haha!

  • @naty58pr
    @naty58pr 3 роки тому +2

    Last but not least, send them videos of Alexis and Lilian.

  • @amandaconnell653
    @amandaconnell653 3 роки тому +4

    Not calling them by the wrong name I find is useful !!! 🤣😂🤣😂 (jus kiddin')👍👍♥️♥️ 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍🌈

  • @vapcicle6355
    @vapcicle6355 Рік тому +2

    Intro had me rolling on the ground weezing

  • @grillbesteck6319
    @grillbesteck6319 10 місяців тому +1

    I hope this is helpful cause there’s that girl that’s kinda flirty and gay with me sooo… let’s see how everything goes.

    • @grillbesteck6319
      @grillbesteck6319 10 місяців тому +1

      I think she prefers phone calls though 🧐

  • @sokhushie
    @sokhushie Рік тому +3

    I'm going to be myself wish me luck!!!

  • @marlenalynne
    @marlenalynne 3 роки тому +2

    love the humor in this vid! thanks for the tips!

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,❤❤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      what✝sapp him now,,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @scubagoldfish45
    @scubagoldfish45 3 роки тому +3

    Yessss texting! That's a little more my speed! 😆

  • @jennybowen8656
    @jennybowen8656 3 роки тому +4

    This was hilarious. Love all your videos!

  • @stinrosa
    @stinrosa 9 місяців тому

    Guys, you're amazing!

  • @NeonKodiak
    @NeonKodiak 3 роки тому +1

    love the ad and intro 😂 great video~!

  • @sulemmarquecho
    @sulemmarquecho 3 роки тому +3

    I loved that intro haha ✨

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,💜💜💜

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      what✝sapp him now,,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @RaeLarz
    @RaeLarz 3 роки тому

    This is my favorite intro on your channel and maybe all of UA-cam

  • @kaitlynm1328
    @kaitlynm1328 2 роки тому

    I would love to hear you guys talk about ways to show your partner that you love and appreciate her. And what you’d like to receive in ways of support and love from a partner. I adore my girlfriend and I try every day to find new ways to shower her in love.

  • @drmikailacamerondacmdiplom9063
    @drmikailacamerondacmdiplom9063 3 роки тому +4

    Voice memos do feel warm, I agree. What a cute video. Spelling her name correctly, works. 😊💫

  • @ToshaRaeNailed
    @ToshaRaeNailed 2 роки тому +1

    I never noticed there was a drooling emoji

  • @anonymousarmadillo9800
    @anonymousarmadillo9800 3 роки тому +1

    you two should honestly start an advertising agency

  • @Slimshady316
    @Slimshady316 3 роки тому +2

    Loved the intro 😂

  • @monserratsolanosanchez1032
    @monserratsolanosanchez1032 3 роки тому +2

    HAHAHAHHAHA I loved the intro

  • @cocot.camila
    @cocot.camila 3 роки тому

    The new Tinder is Instagram for sure, and it goes deep how far we've e come to language and behaviors. With so many emojis, interesting for semiotics studies lol.

  • @newjerseefemale
    @newjerseefemale 3 роки тому +1

    🤣😜 u guys are so creative, funny and light hearted, HAPPY THANKS GIVING :)

  • @Behold-the-Florist
    @Behold-the-Florist Рік тому

    The G in gif stands for graphical so I'm digging my heels in on this one and saying it with a hard g! 😂

  • @klarissaclairiton9010
    @klarissaclairiton9010 3 роки тому

    Das beste was du gemacht hast !

  • @romaint5416
    @romaint5416 3 роки тому +3

    Would you please make a video about how we know if a girl flirting with us or just being friendly! It's very hard to understand! Because lots of thinga lesbian cuples do, u can do it with your best friend...

  • @CJA32able
    @CJA32able 3 роки тому +1

    Omg your intro and sponsor part. 🤣 🤣 😆 I’m dying

    • @CJA32able
      @CJA32able 3 роки тому

      Wait wait. I mean 🔥 🤤

  • @mariamsalie372
    @mariamsalie372 3 роки тому +1

    That intro tho!!😂🙌

  • @Nikki-mx5my
    @Nikki-mx5my 3 роки тому

    This was a delight, thank you!

  • @---gx2ee
    @---gx2ee Місяць тому

    Intro is a blust!🎉❤

  • @allistair61
    @allistair61 3 роки тому

    Love the videos as always, could you ask if you guys know have a-romantic UA-camr suggestions?

  • @cecileturner450
    @cecileturner450 3 роки тому

    HAPPY COMING OUT Sunflower Garden!!!
    You ladies are a riot!
    I"m taking notes. :)
    I"m a single Bi Fem. I haven't been living "in the life" for so... long I have no one to text. : (
    So how do people meet one another in the community these days.
    I used to live In NYC. There used to be popular/exclusive restaurants and clubs.
    That has all changed. Now that I live is suburbia. The only time I may see someone out is during Pride Month. So Tinder is the place to be? That seems so impersonal and not very safe.

  • @willowdovegirl
    @willowdovegirl 3 роки тому +1

    You said my name! I got a buzz. Thanks. 😊

    • @AlexisLilian
      @AlexisLilian  3 роки тому +1

      hahaha i was hoping for this! - L

  • @johnnysins6851
    @johnnysins6851 3 роки тому

    Very informative video for single like me.

  • @ArsiekDHOL
    @ArsiekDHOL 3 роки тому

    LOL the intro !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love you girls !! love the content you two make !!! Still struggle to learn new people though,..

  • @ToshaRaeNailed
    @ToshaRaeNailed 2 роки тому +1

    Saying your name is a big one

  • @royalegamer2704
    @royalegamer2704 2 роки тому +1

    Women (straight or lesbian) often over analyse ever word every text and its a vibe / passion killer

  • @gowiththeflow6210
    @gowiththeflow6210 3 роки тому +2

    I would love 2 agony aunts like these XD

  • @loupelizzo2399
    @loupelizzo2399 3 роки тому

    Great tips you gave and thank you so much for this great video

  • @Kdot2761
    @Kdot2761 3 роки тому +1

    the intro🤣🤣🤣

  • @logan97327
    @logan97327 3 роки тому

    maybe u guys can be those snl couch comedians. the intro sent me 🤣

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,🖤🖤🖤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      what✝sapp him now,,,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @gracepritchard6987
    @gracepritchard6987 Рік тому +1

    thanks for the tips--- love you guys!! i have a question! is it better to return a compliment with a compliment or to wait for a more natural time when it will feel genuine and not forced? I fell weirdly guilty just replying (this is a text convo) with "thanks" but if i reply with the exact same compliment i feel like i'm forcing it and they will know i'm just doing it for the sake of returning the compliment instead of for the sake of actually appreciating them. i also kinda feel like if i reply with identical compliments all the time then it starts to become a red flag (only for relationships that aren't platonic, in my opinion--- with friends it's fine) because it means i can't come up with my own compliments and/or don't like anyhting about that person enough to comment on it. i know i have complimented them before so it's not like i feel like i haven 't been giving compliments enough. i'm DEFINITELY overrthinking this (lol). i kinda answered my own question but i'd still appreciate some outside input.

    • @grillbesteck6319
      @grillbesteck6319 10 місяців тому

      I’ve never dated anyone cause I’m still young but I think replying with a different compliment might be the best option, not sure though

  • @Haidi533
    @Haidi533 3 роки тому +1

    I think Lilian has a spesial beautiful smile, both are cute persons

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      I PRAY THE UNIVERSE GRANT YOUR HEART DESIRES WITH MORE LOVE AND COMMITMENT FROM YOUR EX❤️ THROUGH THE SAME GREAT MAN OF THE UNIVERSE DR LARY WHO HELPED RESTORE MY BROKEN HOME. 🏠HE CAN MAKE YOUR EX BEG FOR A SECOND CHANCE,❤❤❤

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      what✝sapp him now,

    • @miraclejames4804
      @miraclejames4804 3 роки тому

      ✝19177370809⏭⏮⏮

  • @riinata131
    @riinata131 6 місяців тому

    Ahahahahahhahahah, I love intro

  • @MyMndy
    @MyMndy 3 роки тому

    Hahhaha love this intro!!!

  • @suebarajaki79
    @suebarajaki79 2 роки тому

    A girl i am meeting on an app only did a v8deocall with me once, after that we only chat via text. I always update her with the phot of my "today's activity", but she never wants to send me hers, as she said she doesnt like taking selfie. It is confusing though as she said she wants to know me more. I feel silly 🤣😂

  • @newworldlord643
    @newworldlord643 2 роки тому

    Excuse me but YOU 2 ARE STUNNING💕😍😍😍😍😍👀👀👀

  • @sassi7124
    @sassi7124 3 роки тому +1

    Ihr beide seit soooooooo suesssssss ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🙋🙋🙋

  • @carolburke9153
    @carolburke9153 3 роки тому

    I love these gals.💓

  • @isabellelloydd.9464
    @isabellelloydd.9464 3 роки тому +1

    For me!!😂

  • @CybeleCotter
    @CybeleCotter Рік тому

    Nice video, Alexis and Lilian! 😊

  • @LittleLulubee
    @LittleLulubee Рік тому

    Crepes 😂

  • @scapegracer
    @scapegracer 3 роки тому

    ... So this far I have come

  • @tiya3086
    @tiya3086 3 роки тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @kanafujiwara300
    @kanafujiwara300 День тому

    i wonder how's everyone in 2024? here I am watching this because Im lost ahahahahah and she's older than me hahhha

  • @johnnysins6851
    @johnnysins6851 3 роки тому

    Why your intro vibes some commercial or something

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 3 роки тому +1

    💋💋

  • @riam5973
    @riam5973 3 роки тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @silviakapfinger4956
    @silviakapfinger4956 3 роки тому +1

    👍❤❤❤

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 3 роки тому +1

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖

  • @mohamadirani7724
    @mohamadirani7724 2 роки тому

    Hi..I liked..go in iran..iran is beautiful

  • @maryddd3546
    @maryddd3546 3 роки тому

    "j"if

  • @alanaban3519
    @alanaban3519 3 роки тому

    😂😂😂👫

  • @Valve_Without_Beach
    @Valve_Without_Beach Рік тому

    Woman and a girl

  • @christopherskipp1525
    @christopherskipp1525 2 роки тому

    Are these two lesbians?

  • @virgilmcclendon5072
    @virgilmcclendon5072 3 роки тому +1

    😎😃😊😜😍😘💖