How to Turn Negativity Into Positivity | Girl's Guide Q&A

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  • Опубліковано 20 сер 2024
  • Michelle Phan, Brittani Louise Taylor, and Mr. Kate talk about their experiences dealing with bullying and rejection, and how they turn negative experiences into something positive in the Girl's Guide to Being One of a Kind Q&A led by Andrea Bendewald.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 115

  • @domosmuggler12
    @domosmuggler12 10 років тому +39

    " sometimes rejection is a blessing in disguise" that's something I'm going to remember for sure

  • @cellogirl0096
    @cellogirl0096 10 років тому +17

    I love Michelle's idea that there are three answers: "Yes," "Not yet," or "I have something better." Truly inspirational!

  • @Angel-em5rp
    @Angel-em5rp 10 років тому +7

    "Sometimes rejection is a blessing in disguise" Remember that! It's true

  • @melglitter300
    @melglitter300 10 років тому +22

    michelle is so articulate

  • @YouShotMyRobot
    @YouShotMyRobot 10 років тому +3

    This reminds me of one of my favorite quotes: "I have lived to thank God that all my prayers have not been answered." - Jean Ingelow. So very true.

  • @redapplejuuice
    @redapplejuuice 10 років тому +34

    Michelle please make a video on building self confidence

  • @KoreBangs318
    @KoreBangs318 10 років тому +7

    Michelle is so inspirational... I followed her since day one and seeing her grow like that makes me really happy for her! To others, she might be only a beauty guru here on UA-cam but I'm sure there are so many girls out there who learned so much from Michelle - and it's not just enhancing your beauty by following those tutorials and tips but also how to grow as a person and be happy in life.

  • @crisamphioxus
    @crisamphioxus 10 років тому +19

    Phone,i dont think she was using her phone for chatting w someone, i think she was using it as her note or guide her questions..phones now are not just phone pople, it could be use as a diary, a note pad etc. coz thats what i do....hellow...

    • @ICONnetwork
      @ICONnetwork  10 років тому +7

      Correct! Andrea was checking the comments of the live stream so she could ask some of the questions coming in :)

    • @crisamphioxus
      @crisamphioxus 10 років тому +2

      People dont know the other pirpose of the phone! And I can see that in their comments..just so funny...

  • @mi13y
    @mi13y 10 років тому +1

    I like how they said "circling is a good thing" in the beginning. I have a class and we do circles all the time and it's called restorative Justice and it's an amazing class and helps bring out the positive in everything.

  • @122334455v
    @122334455v 10 років тому +9

    3:32 i loved what michelle phan said about the yes ,not now and i have something batter that is so truh

  • @aduvenku7779
    @aduvenku7779 10 років тому +1

    I agree with Brittani, and Michelle rejection is sometimes not a bad thing when something you are weak at and never allow negativity to dampen your spirit, also ruin your thoughts, it depends who you are and never take it seriously

  • @shootingstarshelle
    @shootingstarshelle 10 років тому +4

    HO!
    I love this vid.
    My favorite part is how rejection can be a blessing in disguise. I

  • @mselahi4409
    @mselahi4409 7 років тому +1

    Mish knows how to take rejection. Thinking positively is the best way forward. Mish has loads of experience now!

  • @aduvenku7779
    @aduvenku7779 10 років тому +1

    Never let negativity get better off you, allow yourself to think of becoming positive.

  • @EIeqant
    @EIeqant 10 років тому +5

    Do you realize how much Michelle Phan wanted that Lancome job? To you it means nothing because you weren't the one 'devastated' when you didn't get the call back. I think Michelle's story was well put and proved a very good point. Not everyone is going to idealistically think: Oh it's a rejection. It helps me learn. A lot of people take rejection to heart and think pessimistically about it. Hence this video was meant to turn NEGATIVITY INTO POSITIVITY.

  • @XO0oo
    @XO0oo 10 років тому +29

    Kinda unprofessional when the 'host' is paying more attention to her phone half of the time. Just sayin.

  • @aduvenku7779
    @aduvenku7779 10 років тому +1

    Rejection is not always a bad thing, sometimes some things don't suit others or its hard to do these things.

  • @donnaxinhdep
    @donnaxinhdep 10 років тому +2

    Michelle Phan's piece of advice is really helpful for those fresh graduates who are going to face life and maybe cope with unemployment status. Thank you so much for this video. :)

  • @lovelinda888
    @lovelinda888 10 років тому +13

    very inspirational michelle

  • @1roonii
    @1roonii 10 років тому +6

    am i the only one who cried over michelle story? :(

    • @sgdev29
      @sgdev29 10 років тому +6

      yes. its just abnormal that you cried.

    • @EqraKazi
      @EqraKazi 10 років тому +1

      LOL, you cried? She's fake. Lying about everything.

    • @xStarrStruckk
      @xStarrStruckk 9 років тому +1

      *****

  • @MsKTMvalley
    @MsKTMvalley 10 років тому +2

    So in love with this. More down to Earth talks please! Best video by far from Fawn!

  • @TsunaKimchi
    @TsunaKimchi 10 років тому +4

    Becoming one of a kind?...I believe we all already are one of a kind right at birth: there's no one identical to us.

  • @polinar5871
    @polinar5871 10 років тому +1

    Michelle, I love your words about three answers that universe can give to our requests! you perfectly phrased it!

  • @klamarquez
    @klamarquez 10 років тому +4

    Why are people say Michelle fake? I'm confused and late :/

  • @sreemoyeemajumdar5206
    @sreemoyeemajumdar5206 10 років тому +1

    I am so recharged hearing the stories, all I can say is Thank you for sharing them!

  • @LeaderofRussiadhbfsdfbs
    @LeaderofRussiadhbfsdfbs 10 років тому +1

    I was so scared when they all started shouting HO HO HO I was like eh? Did they all just transform into Santa?

  • @thedarakht1
    @thedarakht1 10 років тому +1

    there is no such thing called universe , it is God willing , he is the one who decide for us whats good and bad he is the one who says yes , not yet , or there is something better for u ,

  • @nicolettedillion310
    @nicolettedillion310 10 років тому +1

    Michelle your the reason that I started makeup and love it today

  • @samydreamer1670
    @samydreamer1670 10 років тому +8

    stop picking on Michelle. If you don't like her don't watch her videos.

  • @operagirl81
    @operagirl81 10 років тому +1

    Michelle is very inspirational, I agree. I've followed her channel for a very long time and she is awesome at what she does. Someone finally noticed her and put her in a TV commercial! I just saw it out of the blue a few days ago while watching TV. I forget what the product was (some kind of drink.) It was really nice cause it showed her different character looks. I didn't know she was a Lancôme's online spokesperson! Nice! The last girl said some really good advice for dealing with "life." It is so true and how I deal with it! Much love and luck to you all!

  • @stylecauldron
    @stylecauldron 10 років тому +2

    I really needed this. thank u

    • @ICONnetwork
      @ICONnetwork  10 років тому +1

      Glad you liked! Thanks for watching :)

  • @oliviastahl6636
    @oliviastahl6636 10 років тому +1

    Ok, this video was amazing!!! I love how everyone had their own ideas even though some of the scenarios were the same. this video really helped me look at my life!!!

  • @mselahi4409
    @mselahi4409 7 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience with us. You're a lovely lady. Obviously very gifted and extremely impressive. Well done Michelle,

  • @EyrtheFyre
    @EyrtheFyre 10 років тому +1

    I have to deal with negativity all the time at work. Not directed at me but just negative comments in general from my boss. I know she is burnt out and going to retire soon but it is so hard day in and day out trying to ignore her when she slams someone for coming in late or calling in sick like they are liars and only she knows best how to run their lives. I've learned though when she gets like that to just shut up and hide because if I say anything she will turn it into an argument.

  • @Miramorena4
    @Miramorena4 10 років тому +1

    Lancôme is kicking themselves in the butt right now!!!

  • @LooksbyMC
    @LooksbyMC 10 років тому +2

    Great reminder and helpful, thanks ladies! =)

  • @happyheyhi
    @happyheyhi 10 років тому +1

    They really zoomed in on Michelle's reaction.

  • @teamloganjudith
    @teamloganjudith 10 років тому +1

    Video on building self confidence

  • @hautxtalons
    @hautxtalons 10 років тому +2

    @Mary Leigh Lear I didn't want to believe those things either because Michelle looks like a genuinely nice girl in her videos, and she is very successful. but I'm just kind of shocked from what I've read.

  • @ChanelFDSays123
    @ChanelFDSays123 10 років тому +3

    Awesome video!

  • @faithh2908
    @faithh2908 10 років тому +1

    This helped me so much bcus I've been having a really hard time with high schools bcus I got in to the high school I wanted but my family can't afford it so I have to go where I didn't want to go but it's going to b ok

  • @KristinaLovesJustin
    @KristinaLovesJustin 10 років тому +1

    aaa my favorite youtubers!! LOVE YOU ALL!:D

  • @sofiarose9548
    @sofiarose9548 10 років тому +1

    I love your videos! Xx I would love to see more beauty + health videos, they are so inspirational! X thankyou!

  • @Helena42246
    @Helena42246 7 років тому

    Michelle is So Beautiful!! I just Love her Personality..so humble and Real! This Girl is going to go very far in life. She is an Inspirational no doubt 👍👏😁

  • @TheDeextra
    @TheDeextra 10 років тому +2

    The host isn't plugged in

  • @maisymartin130
    @maisymartin130 10 років тому +1

    Oh my god I love all the youtubers in this videos

  • @wensee3694
    @wensee3694 10 років тому

    Michelle,
    i am always rejected to lots of job. i am hoping a miracles walks a long way. Being rejected hurts. i hope what you said about the yes, not now and something better ....will come true. it hurts. i went through depression.

  • @dkalisd
    @dkalisd 10 років тому +1

    love michelle, love mr kate!

  • @xvideopro
    @xvideopro 10 років тому +1

    Love you, Michelle Phan!! :)

  • @maymay-tt3wx
    @maymay-tt3wx 10 років тому +1

    I love Michelle phan

  • @Angel.9r
    @Angel.9r 10 років тому +1

    Waaw this was so amazing
    I learned a lot of this small video
    Thank you so much
    Really thank you
    ^^
    You inspired me a lot

  • @WaLoliiiu
    @WaLoliiiu 10 років тому +1

    This video was pretty true.

  • @SirisLife
    @SirisLife 10 років тому +1

    Michelle, you are amazing!

  • @SilentSacrifice
    @SilentSacrifice 10 років тому +2

    Seriously Michelle is that the only rejection you've faced? A sales assistant job?

  • @beautybymely1
    @beautybymely1 10 років тому +1

    I don't get why they say ohhhh

  • @kristianicrisostomo2878
    @kristianicrisostomo2878 9 років тому

    Michelle please come to Australia for a meet and greet!

  • @greentea17
    @greentea17 10 років тому +1

    Wow!!! Thanks you soooo much!!!! I learn sooo much T-T ;)

  • @naseemkausar2570
    @naseemkausar2570 10 років тому +1

    Hey! Great Video!! ..umn i wanted to know where u heard the "yes" "not now" and "even better" quote ?

  • @simplynicolebabeh
    @simplynicolebabeh 10 років тому +1

    this*

  • @julianavarela1
    @julianavarela1 10 років тому +1

    Loved this

  • @michibdream208
    @michibdream208 10 років тому +1

    though I'm kinda depressed while waiting for the company for their confirmation call =( even though its just 2days away...I need a job related to what I'm really interested which make me wanted it so badly that I'm not sure I should move on looking for the others job or still continue waiting =/

  • @EMJKfunnTim3s
    @EMJKfunnTim3s 10 років тому +1

    wow I love this :DD

  • @marleygregory4338
    @marleygregory4338 10 років тому +1

    love this video

  • @2KrAzYfriends
    @2KrAzYfriends 10 років тому +1

    Love this

  • @swensonbl
    @swensonbl 10 років тому +1

    Loved it! Thank you!

  • @simplynicolebabeh
    @simplynicolebabeh 10 років тому +1

    I love

  • @itslyndsayrae
    @itslyndsayrae 10 років тому

    awwwww this is really sweet!

  • @RASHASA1237
    @RASHASA1237 10 років тому +1

    Super video so very true I love it be blessed!!!

  • @thegirlwhohaseverything922
    @thegirlwhohaseverything922 9 років тому

    Michelle s awesome.

  • @happinesstalks
    @happinesstalks 9 років тому

    Sometimes a No helps open a door that helps you to get to your dreams quicker. It is the Universe pushing you in a positive direction. Great work here by telling people that just because you are rejected or told NO, doesn't mean you should stop and sulk. Keep striving to get to where you want to be!!
    Check out our Channel where we talk about positivity and happiness! :D

  • @pratimakarmacharya6574
    @pratimakarmacharya6574 7 років тому

    Mishh is love

  • @0915SJ
    @0915SJ 10 років тому +2

    I love their collective 'ho's :P makes me laugh

  • @lexa3748
    @lexa3748 10 років тому

    whenever someone said "ho" i giggled a little X3.
    Me has dirty mind! :D (me has is grammarly correct btw, not really)

  • @Adellxxx
    @Adellxxx 10 років тому +1

    Yes
    Not yet
    Or there is something better
    HOOOO

  • @pinkforever21702
    @pinkforever21702 10 років тому +1

    I love u mich!!!!!!!!!!:)

  • @hautxtalons
    @hautxtalons 10 років тому +1

    Okay, I just read more in depth about Michelle and what got to me the MOST out of everything was the way she handled the incident with that depressed 16 year old girl on Twitter. That girl could have killed herself! and then what? Unsubscribing to her.. very disappointed.

  • @MissMarshimellow
    @MissMarshimellow 10 років тому +1

    I've read many comments saying that michelle is a huge liar...can someone tell me why?

    • @AngelofHogwarts
      @AngelofHogwarts 10 років тому

      I used to be a fan too...but not anymore unfortunately. :/
      Read this:
      mishbunny.tumblr.com/post/74677044294/em-store-no-more

    • @teresaanthony9633
      @teresaanthony9633 7 років тому

      JesusMySavior RU serious is she fake?

  • @MiYu-tj8bj
    @MiYu-tj8bj 7 років тому

    Michelle was so inspirational and real in her own old videos on her channel. Since this icon thing she changed and those videos are so fake! What happened to our Mish? I have the feeling she's still the same and she's just afraid to say she doesn't like this whole Icon sh*t because of the money she gets. She's been such a role model for me. We have the same name and she made me love my name because every time I heard it it made me think of her but now it changed. I hope really really bad she'll be herself again and she'll make her old videos. Shame on Icon Network for destroying her personality and making young girls loose their values just for money!

  • @mggz71
    @mggz71 10 років тому

    Michellle Phan oops like Jessica Alba a lot.

  • @shinshokulc
    @shinshokulc 10 років тому +5

    Those two chicks bobbing their heads is distracting.

  • @ayraamos
    @ayraamos 10 років тому

    they were nodding like bubble heads hahahaha cute!

  • @Iceechibi
    @Iceechibi 10 років тому

    I wish the things Michelle said she would put into practice. I feel like she is still lost trying to find herself and isn't quite there yet.

  • @Drrck11
    @Drrck11 10 років тому

    What does the stick have to say? LOL

  • @Jessi8594
    @Jessi8594 10 років тому +3

    The blonde chick was really rude being on her phone like that.

  • @hyun808
    @hyun808 10 років тому

    LOl Michelle is terrible at taking in negative comments.
    Pls Michelle...
    She caused cyber bullying for a random twitter user for 'hurting her feelings'

  • @dlovepink09
    @dlovepink09 10 років тому +5

    like the advice, but you guys are so weird with the "talking stick" and the "ho" if you agree. it's so freaking weird-in my opinion.

  • @MamiYankeeMusic
    @MamiYankeeMusic 10 років тому +1

    life and the universe, or God? ;) ashamed people... read what jesus said bout that

  • @Fas1396
    @Fas1396 10 років тому

    What is this ignorance? Is this branch to achieve your dreams?? That achieves the aspirations is the God who created all this universe from above the seventh heaven.

  • @KEWlSH
    @KEWlSH 10 років тому

    blablabla Michelle Michelle... -.-

  • @DeltaDeaddoll
    @DeltaDeaddoll 10 років тому

    As if Michelle didn't have enough money for some chairs... lol

  • @HajisSaya
    @HajisSaya 10 років тому +1

    Fake much?

  • @nguyenthuylinh4061
    @nguyenthuylinh4061 10 років тому

    hay ra phet