How is gate keeping affecting the Black Community?
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- Опубліковано 3 чер 2021
- How is gate keeping affecting the Black Community?
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The mentality of trying to be the big one on top instead of playing our roles is very pervasive in the black community. Instead of us finding our own niche, working together, and conducting mutually beneficial partnerships we see someone else who has something successful going for them as our rival and try to destroy it. This mentality makes it virtually impossible to practice group economics which can lead to more job opportunities, success, and business generation. It plays a big part as to why we're at the bottom globally compared to other groups.
Is common among the black people. The mentality of the other person must not meet me or pass me.
This is so true. I quit my job at the start of the pandemic because of a fellow African at work. This woman gave me hell to the point i started having anxiety attacks on shift. What hurts the most is that when she was hired, i was the one who was entrusted to do all her induction and training. I taught her everything about the job coz she was clueless and it was her first time. This woman later became the bane of my existance in a job that i had maintained for 8years!!! I couldn't take it anymore and quit without notice. Thank goodness i got a new job 2 months later.
My brother told his friend about a job opening at his job and put in a recommendation for him so, he got the job. After he got the job, my brother informed him that he was also going to tell other friends about additional openings at the company. His friend who he just helped get a job, told him not to tell anyone else about job openings in the company. We are indeed our biggest enemies.
I was fired twice from two different jobs by black supervisor in London without no good reason simply because they’re very arrogant, I don’t want to name the two companies but thanks God I’m full self employed for the past 10 years now which’s great 👍. It’s very good and fantastic to be self employed abroad it allowed you to determine who you deal with and not.
Hint: The oppressive black will rather earn $70k while his friends earn $50k than earn $150k while his friends earn $180k.
I was naive to the high level of racism I was subjected to as a young woman, thinking I had the same level of opportunity as people of the other race, only when I got older did the level of discrimination became more apparent from discrimination by virtue of my race to agism, classism, tribalism and sexism. I can go on. The discrimination I endured within the black community was most heartbreaking; Black people are eager to destroy each other before anyone of another race is thinking of destroying them.
This reminds me of how a Ghanaian lady who was my manager ended my contract without notice when I told her I was not happy with her bullying. I was cut out of income could not recover.7 years down the line I never forget this. It is hard to see any hope for the black people in the diaspora.
Hey Phrankleen. Good discussions. Part of the problem is that some of us take our tribalism outside the shores of Africa to the West.
I found a job for my so call friend because of me the manager hire her and omg biggest mistakes of my life. She told the whole job my business. Telling them how am nothing that I use to sell water on the street in Africa. I use to be respected at that job. She change everything for me they start laughing at me when I come to work. She will sit with them and point and laugh. Omg she made it so uncomfortable for me. I quit without notice. I learn my lesson to never try to help a African find work where you work. Never again lesson learned.
The Kent residents pattern replays in Nigerians who feel that living in Lagos Island makes them better. Many in Canada do same...it is very appalling
I have always helped my POC colleagues and shared all the information I have about advancing and promotion at work. It's no skin off my nose. I will continue to do it till I retire from work. I believe there is strength in numbers.
When a Nigerian says "na God" it means they took the illegal route or just generally ashamed of the method they used. They don't want you to use the knowledge against them 😂
In Jamaica we having sayings as badmind and crab in a barrel mentality.
As the saying goes, 'not all skin folk are kin folk'
Thanks Yetune Day!!! I asked a friend who had several properties to show me how to do the same. She made an appointment with me then cancelled. I realised she did not want me to have what she has. She has never asked me or offered to help till this day.😱
Na wao... I have had some great mentors in other black people, who helped me make my way up in my career.. Its sad to hear the negative expereince of others.
So true re: KENT. I have friends who have moved to Kent and suddenly do not want to associate with me. But in most cases, they moved because it's cheaper to buy 3/4 bedroom houses in Kent and they can't afford it if they were to purchase in London. In most cases, the value of their properties are much lower than ours in London, so I don't understand the sudden snobbery. God help us!!!
When you get that black interviewer for a job you're qualified for. You feel for sure you'll get the job. All your past interviewers have been white, Asian and Indian. Then all of a sudden, he gives you a hard time and rejects you for no good reason. Only reason is because you're also a black man. Your Hope's are now crushed.
"Plant discord within them to cause a stampede, isolate them, so then its easier to break them". This is the strategy of a predator-prey relationship. It always works man. I believe the way forward is to create small circles of genuinely convicted folks that want a change. Those devoid religious bias, and the likes.