I tend to copy. I like cute things, if I see it, I want it. Not to be the person wearing that item. And if it becomes a thing where I'm copying a specific person then I think we just have a lot in common or they might inspire me
Tbh theres a difference between someone who tries to copy others doing things to genuinely learn to do them, and someone who copies other people cuz theyre envious of them
When I was a young wife with four little boys- money was TIGHT!. I had been pining for Vanilla Lace body spray and cream…..My frenemy asked me to go with her to the mall to pay a bill with her….We went into Victoria’s Secret. She bought Vanilla Lace products- enough for THREE women! Her little girl whispered, “Mama, are you buying some for auntie?” She just quietly folded the VERY LARGE bag and we went home. ( She NEEDED to SHOW me that she COULD buy it on a whim.) Fast forward 35 years. She is divorced, and her kids can’t stand her. We went on to prosper and I now own TWO homes and live at the beach! 🏖️ GOD IS GOOD!🎉🎉🎉
I went through this with a friend. I used to tell her everything, but she would hide what she was doing. I also noticed she started to mention my plans around people that I didn’t want to know…she would always say that it was an accident. Things became really clear when I started to get more attention to her. It’s really pissed her off and she started making comments about living in people’s shadow. I started to distance myself and I no longer share things with her.
I am soo sorry you had to go through this, so effed up of her to tell your business to others and subtexting you about being in the shadows lol she crazy 🤪 I am glad you were able to distance your self from her for your own good
I deal with this exact issue but with men. It s the most annoying. But also hurtful shit. You sit there thinking someone is your friend but they really aren’t
Had a friend I cut off a month ago and found out he was envious of my family, personality, height(he is 5’9 and feels inferior), and who knows what else. Every time we hung out he would just go on and on non stop about himself and his career and cars. He always tried to make everything a point or lesson, kind of like he was trying to give me advice on my life even though I did not ask for it. Such people drain your energy. Leave them.
this happened to me !! I told my friend I wanted to take a bartending class & sent her the website. She said we should wait bc she didnt have the 500$ yet… We went 2 months without seeing eachother & speaking much which caught my eye but I didnt think much of it. She called out of the blue insisting on seeing me to catch up, we sat down & the first thing she said is Oh, I just finished the class, I can officially bartend…… 😐
Right?! Like they’ll get you all excited and make it seem like they care about you and that things are going good again until you finally see their real intentions. It’s so disappointing.
Omg soo sorry to hear that girl, pls be careful in these streets sadly we have all been guilty of ignoring red flags at times but truth is ignoring the signs sometimes can be fatal. I am glad you safe 🙂
@@nouchkam1939 I just found out some of my closest people were plotting to rob my jewelry n hold it for years before selling you can't trust anyone it seems like
Omg @ambrosiation i am soo glad that you found out before they were able to put their plan to execution. Please 🙏 be safe, it's rough out here... envy is REAL!
This is key 🔑 it's one thing to be "inspired" by someone, it's a totally different ballgame though to blatantly copy them, lie about it and even be in a secret competition with them
I had a “friend” buy a purse i told her i wanted my whole life in my face and it was the last 1. I told her i was torn between that bag and another and she literally turned around and said “i’ll take it”. Even the store clerks were shocked.
Omg 😲 what a bitc*!!! I am imagining the store staff face 😳 she was prob secretly competiting with you... So many people are in secret competition with us and we don't even know smh...Did you keep speaking to her afterwards??
@@nouchkam1939 for the past few days, I've been trying to stay under 1200 calories, and it's been really tough. When you first changed your eating habits, did you ever find yourself waking in the night due to sugar cravings, etc?
8:18 this i dont mind, if they dont want to share everything, that’s alright -- 8:47 oh…… I withhold info from people , but ppl have different access and responsibility levels. I have a lot of loose friendships, and i dont mind with loose ones not sharing and if they dont share with me. Maybe if I have a closer friend it’ll be different the types of things we share
Hey sweet darling @celesteessel4500, i don't think that in and out itself you reholding information is a problem, but reholding an info and then rubbing your accomplishment down your friends throat would be one, or having a friend that shares litterally everything and then reholding some things from them, but then again this is a opinion based video. Thanks for watching 😘 and i am greatful you took time out of your i am sure busy schedule to engage and share your perspective 🤎
Yes unfortunately envious people can be extremely mean spirited. No one deserves to go through sad and you seems lovely, pls make sure you separate yourself from her/them. Stay safe babe ❤️
Yes as i told her about wanted to buy the belt, she didn't say a single thing had she said anything like she liked it or something like that it would have been different, i woudnt have mind..
She truly was a frenemy, omg @alexisonthebeat2438 is that you on the pic? You look absolutely phenomenal 😍 i know you got plenty envious friends for sure
They won't tell you certain things because of monitoring spirits, and yes, you're right: maybe they won't fully trust you with the details until the process is completed. Don't be offended.
@Qasde423 I am not offended. And i understand why they do it. The question is though why be friends with someone who you think has a monitoring spirit 🤔
I kinda disagree with the third one you have accomplishments they never show up at all so why would I continue to share accomplishments on what I am doing with them especially if they lied throughout the friendship
Haf to cut ine off at first sight she hated me because i grew up with her banyfather i knew my whole life child hood friends then copying or in my men friends face and possessive and always try to ine up me i had a hicky i didnt notice i had she literally went to get one she copied me til its was getting wierd she be looking real stupid til i laugh and told myself its very spooky especially at our age
You sound like a high maintenance friend. I dont think your friend was jealous of you, you just had high expectations of what you think friendship should be. Your definition of friendship might not be the same for everyone. As much as you might want to share everything, your friend might want to keep somethings to herself. Some people dont share because they dont want to jinx it, surprise you or just dont want you to feel disappointed if it doesn't work out for them.
I have high standards and try to hold other people to that standard and I have realized that we’re all different but, the craziest part is men are gossiping and jealous like women 😂😂😂 It used to hurt me that people tell my secret while I keep theirs but that’s the process of growing. I don’t tell nobody what’s going on in my life anymore also, I realized that they copy how I speak, dress and act 😂😂 I just sit back and ask myself do these people lack personalities or they’re intimidated. This is really confusing to understand
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Friends who steal ideas are also envious people.
Yup they most definitely are!
They copycat. They will copy anything they can because they lack personality.
Facts 💯
I tend to copy. I like cute things, if I see it, I want it. Not to be the person wearing that item. And if it becomes a thing where I'm copying a specific person then I think we just have a lot in common or they might inspire me
@@gildamartinez4604 interesting perspective
Tbh theres a difference between someone who tries to copy others doing things to genuinely learn to do them, and someone who copies other people cuz theyre envious of them
@@Ratryoshka Either way it comes from deep seated insecurity
When I was a young wife with four little boys- money was TIGHT!. I had been pining for Vanilla Lace body spray and cream…..My frenemy asked me to go with her to the mall to pay a bill with her….We went into Victoria’s Secret. She bought Vanilla Lace products- enough for THREE women!
Her little girl whispered, “Mama, are you buying some for auntie?” She just quietly folded the VERY LARGE bag and we went home. ( She NEEDED to SHOW me that she COULD buy it on a whim.) Fast forward 35 years. She is divorced, and her kids can’t stand her. We went on to prosper and I now own TWO homes and live at the beach! 🏖️ GOD IS GOOD!🎉🎉🎉
Do not tell anyone what you’re planning to buy, until they see it on you 🤣
This is such wise advice i wish someone told me this in my early 20's @iselaconstanten1292
Bling bling - for an average ring, it infuriated everyone LMAO
glow up in silence
This is an important topic. Especially considering the Shanquilla Robinson case.💞🙏🏻
I went through this with a friend. I used to tell her everything, but she would hide what she was doing. I also noticed she started to mention my plans around people that I didn’t want to know…she would always say that it was an accident. Things became really clear when I started to get more attention to her. It’s really pissed her off and she started making comments about living in people’s shadow. I started to distance myself and I no longer share things with her.
I am soo sorry you had to go through this, so effed up of her to tell your business to others and subtexting you about being in the shadows lol she crazy 🤪
I am glad you were able to distance your self from her for your own good
I deal with this exact issue but with men. It s the most annoying. But also hurtful shit. You sit there thinking someone is your friend but they really aren’t
Some people are just weird. Forever 11 years old.
Had a friend I cut off a month ago and found out he was envious of my family, personality, height(he is 5’9 and feels inferior), and who knows what else. Every time we hung out he would just go on and on non stop about himself and his career and cars. He always tried to make everything a point or lesson, kind of like he was trying to give me advice on my life even though I did not ask for it. Such people drain your energy. Leave them.
this happened to me !! I told my friend I wanted to take a bartending class & sent her the website. She said we should wait bc she didnt have the 500$ yet… We went 2 months without seeing eachother & speaking much which caught my eye but I didnt think much of it. She called out of the blue insisting on seeing me to catch up, we sat down & the first thing she said is Oh, I just finished the class, I can officially bartend…… 😐
wtf
Wow that’s crazy I don’t understand why people do this..
@@ObsessionbyKen my husband said she was jealous and/or in a competition with me. Looking back now there were soo many red flags lol
I hope you're no longer her friend
Right?! Like they’ll get you all excited and make it seem like they care about you and that things are going good again until you finally see their real intentions. It’s so disappointing.
I had a envious “friend” set me up to get my car stolen 😩 I noticed the envy but I didn’t think it could get this far
Omg soo sorry to hear that girl, pls be careful in these streets sadly we have all been guilty of ignoring red flags at times but truth is ignoring the signs sometimes can be fatal. I am glad you safe 🙂
@@nouchkam1939 I just found out some of my closest people were plotting to rob my jewelry n hold it for years before selling you can't trust anyone it seems like
Omg @ambrosiation i am soo glad that you found out before they were able to put their plan to execution. Please 🙏 be safe, it's rough out here... envy is REAL!
so true, they always show the signs but we ignore
Yep 👍🏾 😅😢
copying is one thing but acting like u didnt copy me & lying straight to my face or acting surprised is what I have an issue with
This is key 🔑 it's one thing to be "inspired" by someone, it's a totally different ballgame though to blatantly copy them, lie about it and even be in a secret competition with them
Facts that’s the sign of a super weirdo 😂😂
I know someone I spoke to everyday for hours and when she came in town she said nothing
I don't understand, why would she do that? Did you ask her? Would she then talk later on the phone?? What a weirdo...
They don’t even look you in the eyes
Cause they cowards @adriandejesus4243
She fake as hell
I had a “friend” buy a purse i told her i wanted my whole life in my face and it was the last 1. I told her i was torn between that bag and another and she literally turned around and said “i’ll take it”. Even the store clerks were shocked.
Omg 😲 what a bitc*!!! I am imagining the store staff face 😳 she was prob secretly competiting with you... So many people are in secret competition with us and we don't even know smh...Did you keep speaking to her afterwards??
That’s just evil
😮
@@NEO_RKXfor real
I really need and want a close female friendship. It's not cool when the friend is a slimy B.....
Yup making friends specially as a adult can be hard af but hand in there they are good women out there too.. Any update on the 1200 calories??
@@nouchkam1939 for the past few days, I've been trying to stay under 1200 calories, and it's been really tough.
When you first changed your eating habits, did you ever find yourself waking in the night due to sugar cravings, etc?
Hi Shannon, I am looking for a mutually respectful female friendship. Maybe we can chat somewhere and try getting to know each other?
More blessings upon your life chosen one🤩😘🥰
Amen sweet darling 😍 this comment means to me more then you will EVER know thank you chosen one ❤️
I wouldn’t tell anyone that I was getting citizenship.
And that's perfectly fine as long as you won't be mad if others don't tell you as well
You did good with this topic 🙌
Thank you, i am glad you liked it 😌
8:18 this i dont mind, if they dont want to share everything, that’s alright -- 8:47 oh…… I withhold info from people , but ppl have different access and responsibility levels. I have a lot of loose friendships, and i dont mind with loose ones not sharing and if they dont share with me.
Maybe if I have a closer friend it’ll be different the types of things we share
Hey sweet darling @celesteessel4500, i don't think that in and out itself you reholding information is a problem, but reholding an info and then rubbing your accomplishment down your friends throat would be one, or having a friend that shares litterally everything and then reholding some things from them, but then again this is a opinion based video. Thanks for watching 😘 and i am greatful you took time out of your i am sure busy schedule to engage and share your perspective 🤎
@@nouchkam1939 💗💗 thank you for the response, it is an interesting topic !!
You’re a very pretty lady love your glowing skin and lipstick/gloss.
Aww thank you gorgeous 💕 greatful for you ❤️ ❤️
i’m sorry you had to deal with that bae, i’m dealing with a similar situation. thank you for the video.
Yes unfortunately envious people can be extremely mean spirited. No one deserves to go through sad and you seems lovely, pls make sure you separate yourself from her/them. Stay safe babe ❤️
I just met an envious person in my friends group. She talks bad and gossips about everyone with an anointing. They compromise everyone.
That’s weird and a red flag to buy the belt and never said… “ oooh I like that “…. She was trying to one up you definitely. Get it before you.
Yes as i told her about wanted to buy the belt, she didn't say a single thing had she said anything like she liked it or something like that it would have been different, i woudnt have mind..
Your place is so nice! ❤
Aww thank you Josh ♥️ Stay stuned apartment tour coming next...
You are so beautiful ❤
Aww thank you gorgeous ❤️
She had to get the belt before you. What a hater.
She truly was a frenemy, omg @alexisonthebeat2438 is that you on the pic? You look absolutely phenomenal 😍 i know you got plenty envious friends for sure
Girl, you are gorgeous
Aww greatful for you 💓
Nothing, zero, nada 🤣🤣🤣
Yea she was wierd af
Hey Mariah she truly was, I am soo glad to the nightmare is over now...
They won't tell you certain things because of monitoring spirits, and yes, you're right: maybe they won't fully trust you with the details until the process is completed. Don't be offended.
@Qasde423 I am not offended. And i understand why they do it. The question is though why be friends with someone who you think has a monitoring spirit 🤔
I kinda disagree with the third one you have accomplishments they never show up at all so why would I continue to share accomplishments on what I am doing with them especially if they lied throughout the friendship
I have a theory about this...i think alotta people WANT others to be jealous of them...thats why.
Haf to cut ine off at first sight she hated me because i grew up with her banyfather i knew my whole life child hood friends then copying or in my men friends face and possessive and always try to ine up me i had a hicky i didnt notice i had she literally went to get one she copied me til its was getting wierd she be looking real stupid til i laugh and told myself its very spooky especially at our age
You sound like a high maintenance friend. I dont think your friend was jealous of you, you just had high expectations of what you think friendship should be. Your definition of friendship might not be the same for everyone. As much as you might want to share everything, your friend might want to keep somethings to herself. Some people dont share because they dont want to jinx it, surprise you or just dont want you to feel disappointed if it doesn't work out for them.
I have high standards and try to hold other people to that standard and I have realized that we’re all different but, the craziest part is men are gossiping and jealous like women 😂😂😂 It used to hurt me that people tell my secret while I keep theirs but that’s the process of growing. I don’t tell nobody what’s going on in my life anymore also, I realized that they copy how I speak, dress and act 😂😂 I just sit back and ask myself do these people lack personalities or they’re intimidated. This is really confusing to understand
Yepp
Things I wish I knew to see the red flags…
😂😂
❤avoid those with mommy daddy issues… adopted single mother raised all same gender siblings only child… statistically, are the worst
LOL