Three (3) instances in which it is not in your best interest to look your best..

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  • Опубліковано 24 гру 2024

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  • @gladys.k.1050
    @gladys.k.1050 2 місяці тому +3

    I’d summarize it this way for the deep ones. In places dominated by power and ego it’d be best not to lead with your ego which sometimes dressing up could be used to boost up your own ego.(ps;nothing wrong with that as long it’s balanced out).The issue with these people is that they they’re in a work place where they’re already looking for a power boost(eg;promotion,raise,praise,contract etc).So you coming in unable to boost their perception of themselves and having your perception boosted instead indeed will trigger them personally and egotistically.
    Additionally since these people are looking for doses of power/ego boosts and some of them are boderline psychopathic ,dressing too ‘down’ may be an easy way to put you down even further just for the fun of it to feel powerful.So personally the key term would be CONFIDENT.Don’t lead with ego because egos will always butt heads.Selfworth ,however, is unfuckwithable and is indeed inspirational.Dress to the extent that you feel Confident and then STOP!Self control will come in play.I personally Save Ego Expression and Dressing Up for environments that I feel safe from bullies and free to be me with no judgment or no evil eye or no particular societal expectations.Its the world we live in.Other wise I won’t dim down my light down but the goal will be to lead with confidence and shine more inward than outward as TRUE beauty is skin deep.

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  Місяць тому +1

      @@gladys.k.1050 you summarised it perfectly. Couldn't have said it any better and didn't lol

  • @SaintCatherine555
    @SaintCatherine555 Місяць тому

    So true. I don’t have anyone to impress. Plus, as a *black* young woman, I usually get harassed no matter how I dress. Dressing my best would make it worse! I only really dress my best in professional settings or for my man. Other than that, errybody else just gotta see me in sweatpants and a t-shirt.

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  Місяць тому

      I know right? Lot's of mothers are bitter, and resentful of their daughters looks. Some of them are also resentful of the fact that their daughter's are still young and got all of their lives ahead of them ( maybe they were young single mother's and feel as if they wasted their lives) you also got the one that get resentful when their girls study and get good jobs ect ect... i am sorry 😞 if you were are able to relate in any way shape or form. Also greatful for the support 🙏🏾 ❤️

  • @ameenahlazarus103
    @ameenahlazarus103 2 місяці тому +1

    You are so funny without even trying lol ❤

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  2 місяці тому

      Mo lane mo fi funny lol miss you 😃

  • @cleopatraadossidis2884
    @cleopatraadossidis2884 2 місяці тому +1

    So true girl

  • @BeFree.Forever
    @BeFree.Forever 2 місяці тому +1

    Tu es très beau!!! 😍🥰🥰

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  2 місяці тому

      Aww merci ☺️ mais je suis une femme 😘🥰🥰

    • @BeFree.Forever
      @BeFree.Forever 2 місяці тому

      @@nouchkam1939 oh ma dieu Je suis désolé. Mais merci pour le lésion de français. Tu es une très belle femme. Désolé 🙏🏽

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  2 місяці тому

      @BeFree.Forever c pas grave ma puce merci 🥰😘 et bravo d'avoir essayé

  • @agnesiftime6965
    @agnesiftime6965 2 місяці тому

    Very useful, thank you!!!❤

  • @Meeshee57
    @Meeshee57 2 місяці тому +1

    I disagree. ALWAYS dress your best at your job. If it’s your style, there’s no need to shrink yourself for other’s comfort level. One done this with every job, I’ve gotten a lot of compliments, and I’m successful. You have to make sure your office etiquette and persona is friendly but stern when it comes to getting the job done. Dress for the role you want, then change after you get the job (if you must).

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  2 місяці тому +2

      I agree with doing what's necessary first and then switching up later lol also i am glad all worked out for you and that you are successful maybe it is because like you said you are stern with your job i can guarantee you that this is not the lived experience of loads of women ( myself included).

  • @LutherMahoney
    @LutherMahoney Місяць тому

    How’s that single mother life going?

    • @nouchkam1939
      @nouchkam1939  Місяць тому

      It's rarely been better, thanks for pretending to care lol