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What a cool synchronicity that you so this just after coming from the moving even though you live in America ;) and yes the movie did mimick social justice culture even though the set looked magical and whimsical. I wish you nothing but the very best this holiday season, merry Christmas in advance ❤️

@@nouchkam1939 lol yeah it was crazy I just got back from the theater, opened YT & saw ur video 😅 Thank you & Merry Christmas to you too ♥️

Aww thank you 😊 you are kind.

Aww it means a lot to me that you would say that, thanks for seeing all the effort i am putting in 🥰💞💕💗💓💞

I know right? Unfortunately i think a lot of people will always equate being lightskin to being pretty ;( funny you talk about your friend being big mad when you get more attention then she does, experience the same thing with my "friends" who are white and lighter then me... Thanks for sharing 🥰

Aww, greatful for you boo Also wishing you nothing but the very best this holiday season 💓💗💕💞🩷

@@nouchkam1939 you are welcome! Thank you so much for your well wishes for the holiday season. I hope you are keeping well and enjoying the holidays too! Stay fabulous! 💞

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That and the 5 hours live WITHOUT BATHROOM BREAKS.

She ain't normal lol, i appreciate you for engaging with my content 😍🤩💗💓💞💕🩷

The nerves of her to fix her mouth and ask you where her gift at 🙄 i swear selfish people be shameless too! And i totally agree with you on fighting our nature when it comes to giving, i use to be like that (and still kinda am too be honest) but i am learning to match people energy all while praying God not to change my heart..

@ I didn’t even mention the time this same girl, when we were going to lunch at Mc Donald’s, instead of saying “no y’all go” when we told her let’s go she says “I only have $2.” So I’m like here we go 🫠so I said girl have you heard of the dollar menu? 😂 So she comes and we’re all buying food and she’s just wandering through the restaurant and I see her but I didn’t say anything. She was waiting on someone to offer her food. The other girls in the group didn’t pick up on what she was doing, but I was. So then we got our food and she’s sitting there and I’m like “are you not gonna get something?” And she’s like “I said I only have $2” so then everyone else said what I originally told her, she finally gets up buys herself a sandwich and I actually gave her some fries, but the point was if we didn’t tell her to go spend her $2 that girl would have sat there… SMH they definitely have no shame, but will make you shame them like you’re their parent. I used to be quick to offer help because to me it’s not a big deal however I had to look at it from the other persons viewpoint and that has saved me so much headaches. Also people like this look to become friends with people not to actually be a friend, but to use that person to meet their needs. So when I meet people I always try and see what does this person need? Just lost your job ok you need a friend that will just employ you. Just broke up with your man? Oh you need someone to be your therapist. So yeah acquaintances are the best things especially in the current climate because people are for self these days. So I’m all for going out and having fun, but please don’t call me crying I will ghost you. 😂😂😂😂😂

Nicht hübscher als du oder deiner mama🥰

Meiner kleine 🥰 miss you ❤️

Okej sweets, will upload it after next week, thanks for watching ❤️

Not ugly to the bone lol, and girl you definitely right lol, this men definitely won't be greatful that you gave them the time of the day as a matter of fact they are going to start to think they can do better...

@nouchkam1939 they feel like if they can GET A PRETTY PRETTY woman like you and start chasing the rest of em! Hey thanks for the great video! And ain't no medium UGLY 😂 Either you ugly or you NOT Have a great DAY!! 💗

@Benrylol not you saying there is no such thing as medium ugly lol girl almost chocked laughing lol 😂 🤣 thank you needed this laugh and happy thanksgiving, hopefully you got leads to be thankful for 🥰

I am afraid i don't understand this comment. Do you mean lunch is superior to coffee?

@@nouchkam1939yes I don’t even get coffee with my girlfriends 😊 but people are free to do whatever works for them. Also I have noticed that culture plays a big role. European men like to ask women out to coffee while North American men often ask women out to dinner. I agree that a dinner date would not be fun if there’s no banter and/or chemistry….

@katechipata9934 love that for you ❤️ maybe Canada got leads of more interesting men then germany and yes even though as a collective european men love coffee and walk dates get asked on dinner dates a lot

@@agnesiftime6965 don't deserve you 😢 🤧

I miss you boo, pls give me a call 😘

Aww thanks sweets 🤩

I said the exact same thing in the video, this was not "isis's story to share, her daughters are four (4) and two (2) they could not possibly have consented to this. Yet she made a irrevocable decision for them...

Aww thanks boo, i am greatful for you taking time out of i am sure your busy schedule in order to engage with something i have created 💕

@ of course! I feel like we have such a similar outlook on different topics, it’s nice to hear you articulate them. I hope your content reaches more people soon 🩷🩷🩷

@r0guedoll aww what a heartwarming comment 💖 💕💞💗💓 Amen 🙏🏾 and happy thanksgiving hopefully you got loads to be greatful for this year and forever

Wow THE late but not missed kevin Samuel's lol

Unfortunately that does happen at times. I am genuinely sorry to read that that is what you are going through ;( how old are you if you don't mind me asking? Perhaps you can move out and put distance between you guys. If that is impossible for you then i guess you can always try putting emotional distance between you guys. Sending love and light ❤️

@@nouchkam1939 I'm in my late 20s, and yes, moved out and moved on! great video btw

Lol sis did i lie though? 😅😂 Some people truly are a job for jesus lol

@ lol sis no lies told at all🤞🏾😂

@bangibabs one thing about me boo i might tell a joke but i never tell a lie lol greatful for you boo ❤️

@@JaniceHylton she said herself that she did.

Exactlybshe said... thats it. . Donyou think shera would give her chikdren to a man who she barely know? This woman just listen Shera 3 seconds​ and she did what she listen@@nouchkam1939

That's totally understandable sweets, i mean who can deal with them?

I know right? You are soo lucky for not having to deal with male identified women they truly are the worse.. And yes unfortunately 😔 these women are EVERYWHERE i wish they would be honest and just admit that they are looking for nothing but free therapist.. For me the insecure ones use to be the hardest to recognize 😪 cause they always seem that way.. Anyways thanks a bunch for engaging, means a lot to me 😘

Aww 🥰 i am greatful for you 💕 I bet it's pretty cold in Canada 🇨🇦 right now hum? And yes in order for to get princess treatment we need to treat yourself as such first.

@katechipata9934 Yes unfortunately like i said in the video not not every high earning man wants to provide

@Jasmine24434 I know that sweets 😘 this video is to remind the women that they are loads of monsters out there so we need to be careful

Bisous

I said myself in the video that "the trofy wife" acted out of desperate and that one shouldn't date when desperate. However is not 100% accurate that it isn't shera's fault there is a reason it's called "influencer" cause these people have an influence on naive people sadly and too whom much is given much is asked off. Now to answer your question of wether it's other "hypergamy content creator" fault as well, well isis herself only cited sheraseven1 and the universe guru.

@nouchkam1939 so are we blaming Shera specifically are we blaming all Influencers & content creator's like Shera? I see & listen to all types of content but at the end of the day I'm responsible for my decisions and choices. I still have to think for myself and be responsible and hold myself accountable. Neither influencer has ever said move her children from a previous relationship into a man's home then have more children. It's not safe and most Mothers understand this.

I agree that in a court of law shera isn't responsible for isis choice and decisions but i guess my naive hope is she and all content creators with huge platform understand that to whom much is given much is asked off and be mindful what they say cause all everybody is not like you and me (and able to decipher what they take from content creators pr not

I agree,sweets and said in the video that the new troy wife shouldn't have been dating cause she was in a state of desperation. That does not change the fact that shera often says very problematic stuff like just get drunk and if you can't sleep with him while sober, locks and natural aren't classy, if he cheats on you just get him to pay you a car and u could go on and on and on...

@@nouchkam1939I agree❤

@@nouchkam1939 I understand where you're coming from, but had she truly listened to Shera’s advice and understood it for what it actually is, rather than interpreting it how she wanted to, she might not have stayed in this situation long enough for things to escalate this far. This lady clearly has some deep-rooted issues, and quite frankly, even if she had used the Bible as her guide, I am almost certain she would have found herself in the same situation with the same type of man. We can all find faults in what Shera or anyone else says-I've seen plenty of advice that made me side-eye the source-but that doesn’t take away from the valid truths they may still offer. Shera provides advice that targets a specific type of man, and if that’s the kind of guy you're after, her advice would be valid whether we agree with it or not. However, as you pointed out, this kind of situation could happen with any man, rich or poor, which is why I believe she holds some responsibility here. Her desperation and unresolved issues led her to this outcome, and it could have happened regardless of whether she was following Shera’s guidance or not. Because, again, even if she had followed the teachings in the Bible or adhered to any other moral framework, she likely would have found herself in the same dynamics. This indicates that the problem lies not with the advice she followed but with the deeper personal issues influencing her decisions and the types of men she gravitates toward.

I am glad you do boo 🥰

Yes not losing yourself is paramount, miss you boo 😘 how are things?

@nouchkam1939 Heyy Nouchka, I am getting my life all the way together. By next year, I hope to be in therapy to help address those childhood traumas that are keeping me from being great.

@Ohmygodb when did i say that we should have more empathy for the girls being bullied then the one doing the bullying?? I never said that! Anyways thanks for watching

@heavenly894 aww thanks boo, i am sure both you and your girl are gorgeous as well 😍 and happy to read that a black women is instilling self esteem in her young darskin girl. Greatful for you support ❤️

@nouchkam1939 ❤

Mhm mhm, even though i think it's important not to minimise individual bullying stories ( i would even be willing to admit that those stories might be a lil more frequent then we are sometimes willing to admit) to generalise and say that all darskinned black women are envious of lightskin women it's a stretch! I appreciate you sharing your own personal experience 😘

Merci pour elle 🥰❤️

@@fatounianggueye8622 I love you bunny ❤️

Aww thanks boo, i appreciate 🥰🥰🥰

I know right? Lot's of mothers are bitter, and resentful of their daughters looks. Some of them are also resentful of the fact that their daughter's are still young and got all of their lives ahead of them ( maybe they were young single mother's and feel as if they wasted their lives) you also got the one that get resentful when their girls study and get good jobs ect ect... i am sorry 😞 if you were are able to relate in any way shape or form. Also greatful for the support 🙏🏾 ❤️

Lovely to see a young black woman get it, it's unfortunate that we even have to to it, but it's understood the important to move strategically in life in order to win and get what we want. Wishing you and your man nothing but the very best ❤️