LIVING IN NYC PROJECTS FOR $25 A MONTH

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  • New York City comes in all shapes and sizes. In this new series, I explore interesting places and today a low-income NYC that can be anywhere from $25-$800 a month.
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  • @sincerelylatoshamonique8781
    @sincerelylatoshamonique8781 Рік тому +2705

    I grew up in one of the worst projects in NYC in the late 80's and 90's..Pink Houses in East New York Brooklyn. With the things I saw growing up, I could have been influenced by my environment easily. I was not amazed by negativity. Today, I have a MBA degree, I write Hood books, and I'm a Notary Public in NYC..Yes, a little girl from the projects. Thanks for not showcasing the projects in a despicable way ⚘️

    • @ulovetashi
      @ulovetashi Рік тому +103

      Back in the days, in the early 2000’s nobody wanted to be near there. It was a rough time in NYC especially in public housing. I remember my mom telling me I couldn’t hang out over there lol. I had a friend that lived there and then her family moved near broadway junction because it was rough there but despite the bad, there was some great people there that actually had careers and stayed out of trouble. I think people hear the term “the projects” and just assume people are lazy or bad, but that’s not the truth.

    • @sincerelylatoshamonique8781
      @sincerelylatoshamonique8781 Рік тому +66

      @@ulovetashi Yes...that is very true..People judge others who were raised in the projects. Technically, it's just affordable housing, but the people committing crimes, and indulging in illegal activities, plus the kids with no guidance or parental supervision is what makes the neighborhood/projects bad.

    • @BlackDiamond-rj1ov
      @BlackDiamond-rj1ov Рік тому +7

      🌹

    • @carlmcpherson5980
      @carlmcpherson5980 Рік тому +4

      Fire 🔥

    • @meryljohnston2499
      @meryljohnston2499 Рік тому

      Shorts rabbitt hole!

  • @dieguismama2330
    @dieguismama2330 Рік тому +1745

    This kid is going places. His insight and self awareness are next level. I've got my money on you bro.

    • @veronicaapaez8181
      @veronicaapaez8181 Рік тому +3

      How much anyway.

    • @RichOffYayy
      @RichOffYayy Рік тому +15

      U dudes be watchin thjs shi hood shi but not from da hood or da streets y yall suburban kids so fascinated with hoods 🤣🤣 it’s wierd

    • @hazardxh6803
      @hazardxh6803 Рік тому +6

      @@RichOffYayy huh??

    • @richardvinsen2385
      @richardvinsen2385 Рік тому +15

      @@RichOffYayy Could you try that again but in English?

    • @RichOffYayy
      @RichOffYayy Рік тому

      @@richardvinsen2385 no jus stop watching shi with the hood ur so obsessed go watch ur suburban videos u a wierdo

  • @calvingarcia3540
    @calvingarcia3540 Рік тому +844

    Kudos to Caleb for representing the Projects in a positive way. I was always afraid that he would take it as an opportunity to clown the low standard, but he didn't and that means a lot. Something that resonated with me was coming from the projects can be your excuse or it can be your why. Coming from the projects its my why. I feel incredibly privileged to have grown up in Lower Manhattan around a diverse set of people.

    • @quadaar1017
      @quadaar1017 Рік тому +13

      RESPECT 🙌

    • @sumgr8babe
      @sumgr8babe Рік тому +11

      I agree. I live on the LES but I was born and raised in Queensbridge Projects. I wouldn’t have wanted to grow up anywhere else. I love my hood.

    • @AnonymousGameWarden
      @AnonymousGameWarden Рік тому +5

      Projects living wayyyyy too boujee

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Рік тому

      the projects suck... too many poors

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Рік тому +1

      @@sumgr8babe so youre still inthe projects? thats sad

  • @rosenaandre7147
    @rosenaandre7147 Рік тому +208

    Wow, I can definitely relate. My dad brought us here from Haiti. He renovated everything. We lived in NYC project for ten years. Everything looks amazing. My dad even changed the kitchen cabinets
    We came a long way. Now, all of us now have our own house. I even became a landlord myself. Where you come from doesn't have to define who you become.

  • @abigailpidazo9704
    @abigailpidazo9704 Рік тому +1473

    “Perception is power.” Usually, I’m someone who gets caught up in the shorts but I have no regret taking the time to watch this. So much wisdom and learning material. Thank you for this 🙏🏼

    • @erikakafure4193
      @erikakafure4193 Рік тому +11

      Agreed^ inspirational

    • @Refresh636
      @Refresh636 Рік тому

      You sound so dumb? “No regrets” watching a video instead of a dopamine scroll addicts short

    • @elvisnunez9226
      @elvisnunez9226 Рік тому +10

      I truly agree with that 👍 He was very informative and kept me glued to my phone. Smart kid indeed and always never judge someone just because of where they live, we are all equal at the end of the day no matter where you from, stay blessed to all 🙏

    • @cathygreen2485
      @cathygreen2485 Рік тому +3

      it's a good thing to remember as you go through life

    • @antjones8036
      @antjones8036 Рік тому

      Me To Bro 💪🏿🙏🏿

  • @LongRangeLuca
    @LongRangeLuca Рік тому +337

    I love this! My mother raised me and my brother in government housing while we were young, she worked like a dog. She always had a talent for for interior designing she would help people with money fix up there homes. Then she met my step-father he paid for her real estate school she made her first million in less than two years! God is good! Now now she just fixes her beach houses up and gives to people that needs it!

    • @delovelyday430
      @delovelyday430 Рік тому +7

      🙌🏾🌿

    • @Linda-xk6ed
      @Linda-xk6ed Рік тому +14

      @FrankWhite Your mom is a rock star. God Bless her.

    • @d0ttiej
      @d0ttiej Рік тому +4

      Give you mom a hug for me! And to enjoy her beach life she deserves it.

    • @216goldgoddess5
      @216goldgoddess5 10 місяців тому

      Im so happy for her 😊 she was blessed

    • @ProPandaPlays
      @ProPandaPlays 9 місяців тому

      Loan lolo,

  • @1jackvalley580
    @1jackvalley580 Рік тому +307

    Proud of this young man, he's been raised so well by his Mama ❤️🌠

  • @kekelah7857
    @kekelah7857 Рік тому +94

    My grandma lived in the projects and like she said all you need is soap, water, and bleach to keep the house clean. She made her own curtains and tablecloths. And red was her favorite color. So she customized her apt in was always nice and comfortable.

  • @AaMmack
    @AaMmack Рік тому +405

    “Turning what you have into what you need.”
    Wise words to live by💪

  • @futureexperience
    @futureexperience Рік тому +405

    This was definitely an insightful and thought provoking episode. I appreciated seeing the apartment and hearing what his family has been through. It would be great to see more ones like this in the future.

  • @brivonn5222
    @brivonn5222 Рік тому +69

    What a humble intelligent man. His perspective of life is so positive snd uplifting and real. We need more of that. He could definitely become the next community leader and organizer.

    • @Imsupersandy
      @Imsupersandy Рік тому +2

      Hey! that would be awesome! I am always thinking about to best serve my community

    • @sadiesage7454
      @sadiesage7454 Рік тому

      @Super Sandy, keep up the good work! May you name this project? Also, how’s the school district?

    • @ProPandaPlays
      @ProPandaPlays 9 місяців тому

      Lolol clown

  • @thehouseofcm
    @thehouseofcm Рік тому +21

    I love his Twin Peaks 💕 T👕👀. He is humble and has a positive outlook. Having the teddy 🧸 and his sister's art work shows an innocence. Family is important to Latinos.

  • @nickvas95
    @nickvas95 Рік тому +962

    This dude is dope. I like episodes like this where someone is actually speaking truth & not just showing off their $50,000/month apartment.
    Both have their place. But this was a nice change up. Thanks Caleb

    • @TheresaPowers
      @TheresaPowers Рік тому +12

      you're right. he is a dope.

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Рік тому +3

      being poor is dope? thats sad

    • @nicholaspatti1526
      @nicholaspatti1526 Рік тому +1

      @@juanshaftpatel7488 😂😅🤣 There not poor..There living off of you am I. ! 😂🤣😅 Only black lives matter in New York City. Mayor Eric empty suit Adams voters

    • @juanshaftpatel7488
      @juanshaftpatel7488 Рік тому

      @@nicholaspatti1526 we need slaves... who is gonna clean the gutters

    • @nicholaspatti1526
      @nicholaspatti1526 Рік тому +2

      @@juanshaftpatel7488 that's extremely a racial.. comment

  • @sheshe18
    @sheshe18 Рік тому +57

    I love his positivity!

  • @ktkt9982
    @ktkt9982 Рік тому +45

    To the young man who's apartment this is:
    Thank you for showing us your apartment and telling us a bit about your life. The fact that you still have you teddy bears lifted my spirits no.
    end. Wishing you all the best!

  • @markguim
    @markguim Рік тому +36

    love this video. some wise words shared here
    "It can either be your excuse or it can be your why"
    "That safety net becomes a comfort net and they stay there"
    “Turning what you have into what you need.”

  • @sha_na2902
    @sha_na2902 Рік тому +111

    Very profound and moving episode! This young man is on his way, he dropped so many gems on the power of the mind. "That safety net becomes a comfort net and they stay there", people don't see it as an opportunity!

  • @rosalinaayala5963
    @rosalinaayala5963 11 місяців тому +57

    I worked for NYCHA and what struck me was how some tenants had apartments that looked like something out of a magazine while others lived like cavemen.

  • @heatherjohnson5612
    @heatherjohnson5612 Рік тому +29

    This guy is my favorite apartment tour! Caleb I love how absolutely you are so real, nonjudgmental and this was the absolute coolest guy ever. Loved his story. Love his family love and family bond. Happy birthday!

  • @29outlaw
    @29outlaw Рік тому +13

    He hit the nail on the head at 4:47 when he said "complete homes" is the key and kudos to him for saying it. Lots of folks want to blame their plight on other factors and try to ignore the importance of home and family.

  • @PamelaH_HappyVibes
    @PamelaH_HappyVibes Рік тому +146

    This young man is so humble and is finding his joy!

  • @TaylorBell
    @TaylorBell Рік тому +20

    Damn he has an incredibly impressive and inspiring perspective. Loved this 💪🏼

  • @idjilju2835
    @idjilju2835 Рік тому +16

    This strong warms my heart. His mama raised him right and he has a wonderful perception

  • @younglivingmargo
    @younglivingmargo Рік тому +78

    I think this has been your best video yet. This young man you interviewed was such a pleasure to meet. He is years beyond his age, full of wisdom and depth of character. What a wonderful young adult! He's mumma must be so proud. Hats off to her, she did a fantastic job raising this fine young man

  • @donniemoder1466
    @donniemoder1466 Рік тому +27

    Great idea to visit NYCHA housing because so many New Yorkers live there. The apartments are decent sizes for NYC. The grounds can be decent/green. You might have a decent basketball court. The problem is upkeep, NYCHA does not have the resources, when something gets broken, it is not necessarily going to repaired. If the heating in the building breaks down. If something happens to the gas lines. You then got major problems. If you have some bad neighbors with mental problems, then it is hard to deal with. You might not have a good public school nearby. Elevators are a big issue, they break down or some bad tenants mess with them.

  • @priscilla5321
    @priscilla5321 Рік тому +37

    Would love to see more videos like this one! That young man is great and his apartment has so much history and character.

  • @DarrenKriz
    @DarrenKriz Рік тому +20

    "It can either be your excuse or it can be your why" the right mindset will truly get you through any situation in life

  • @tobybartlett
    @tobybartlett Рік тому +37

    This was such a great episode. Thanks Caleb for showing all kinds of New York and not just $30,000 couches. This channel just gets better and better. ✌️

  • @KP-jg8yq
    @KP-jg8yq Рік тому +24

    “That safety net became a comfort net.”

  • @SteakFromJakeFarm777
    @SteakFromJakeFarm777 Рік тому +22

    wow, the best episode yet! appropriate levels of respect and sincerity combined with fun, levity and inspiration. amazing work! and Sandy is an inspiring young man.

  • @shonnyyyworlddd5621
    @shonnyyyworlddd5621 Рік тому +20

    He’s so wholesome and positive I hope he goes far in life 🤍

  • @helenawarsinnak
    @helenawarsinnak Рік тому +10

    I have much RESPECT for this young man!! He is very intelligent, well spoken, positive etc...you can tell that he wants more in life and wants to get to t

  • @TechnicJunglist
    @TechnicJunglist Рік тому +9

    He's wearing a Twin Peaks shirt. The icing on the cake for me. Keep that love and happy birthday. ♒️

  • @Pinkexplosion2023
    @Pinkexplosion2023 Рік тому +11

    "Perception is power".....well said....

  • @bananita92
    @bananita92 Рік тому +5

    When I began watching your shorts I could see the fun and voyeuristic aspect to them that would get people hooked. Here, you cross into a much more human and relatable content, past the sometimes misplaced curiosity and into a very powerful and impactful content. Props to you. This was powerful.

  • @darlenebattle2713
    @darlenebattle2713 8 місяців тому +10

    I think this young man's story was world class. He shows that anyone can make it beyond their life. ALSO: I was impressed to see all the books lined up in his bedroom. Most people his age have a deep disdain for literature.

    • @richardbrown7441
      @richardbrown7441 6 місяців тому

      If you got bugs get this it's called demon wp

  • @dobermandogmom
    @dobermandogmom Рік тому +25

    What a darling young man. I only wish the best for him and may all his dreams come true.

  • @journalologyandcoofficial
    @journalologyandcoofficial Рік тому +134

    This is one of the things I love about your channel Caleb, you deliver such a variety of content and earnest way of communicating with each person you meet. You have a great way of conversing with people and sharing their stories.
    You're very special.♥️
    #DontEVERForgetIt

  • @garrickclau
    @garrickclau Рік тому +5

    By far, your best video. So much depth, introspection, Caleb you need to make more content like this. Well done.

  • @timelessadventurer
    @timelessadventurer Рік тому +11

    This guy was awesome! A lot of people who come to the U.S. from other countries always seem to be so appreciative of where they live. Like my grandma from Poland and mother in law from Mexico. I wish Americans would appreciate how good they have it compared to some other countries but it’s hard when you don’t have that experience from a different way of life. Like my grandma left Poland during WWII to get to freedom and she loved the USA.

  • @mybby1966
    @mybby1966 Рік тому +10

    What a smart young man! I know he was raised by a good Mom! Find the good in every situation and you will be a better happier person.

  • @Juli-ge4yp
    @Juli-ge4yp Рік тому +27

    Fantastic episode. This kid is going places. Thank you for sharing his story with us

  • @fantazephir5597
    @fantazephir5597 Рік тому +5

    I really like this episode. Life is truly about your perspective, outlook. I know he definitely sees the glass as half full 💪🏽👍🏽. I lived in a project growing up starting in 3rd grade , and maintenance were always in awe stepping into the home my parents created. It was beautiful, linoleum floors and 7 children. Always clean. A visiting family member once said he thought we were like the Huxtable family 😊. It’s all about who you are and what you make of wherever you are at. 🙏🏽

  • @jenfira
    @jenfira Рік тому +5

    By far one of the best videos. I loved this guy's story. Thank you for sharing it with us! Great job!

  • @tkthree
    @tkthree Рік тому +5

    Appreciate this, such a thoughtful take on public housing, and really cool to hear sandy's perspective.

  • @oscarrada7475
    @oscarrada7475 Рік тому +15

    Amazing ✨ I’m not surprised cuz I’ve always known people from the projects; like he said some people make it out, some don’t. Everything is perspective and how it shifts is up to you. I’m just really happy that there’s still progressive thought Everywhere ✨ This episode just made this series all the better. The teddy bear backstory was really touching I thought 🧸 Good job 👍🏽

  • @ladonnaantoinette9476
    @ladonnaantoinette9476 Рік тому +1

    I really appreciate his perspective and do believe this is the best interview of yours I’ve seen. Thank you for sharing a different insight on gentrification and low income housing.

  • @elisabethvanhouten2914
    @elisabethvanhouten2914 Рік тому +2

    This is my favorite video of yours! Perception is power. 🤯 So true and so simple! Love it.

  • @dailysmiles
    @dailysmiles Рік тому +9

    Yooo respect! I’ve always been really into myrmecology myself but like you no one would expect it. I have started queen colonies with dozens of ants. Really fun to watch them start the colony. You might want to do a tube change though. That mold starting in the cotton can kill them. Thanks for sharing your optimistic outlook on where you live. That’s an amazing deal myself and many people I know would be VERY thankful to get these days. The greedy rich are charging way too much for rent.

  • @tammya5403
    @tammya5403 Рік тому +140

    I really love how he perceives gentrification, because as a black person myself, I always felt like I wasn’t allowed to say, “I actually like gentrification because it works for me.” I’m so grateful to have grown up with many different ethnicities and cultures and gentrification allowed that to happen for me.

    • @xenostim
      @xenostim Рік тому +14

      That surprised me because I haven't really heard this perspective before. Doesn't it raise the price of living, especially rent?

    • @tammya5403
      @tammya5403 Рік тому +19

      ​@@xenostim It definitely does, however, my mother lives in a rent stabilized apartment so market prices going up had no effect on us. I made the decision to move out and was still able to find affordable rent under $800 living with roommates. I really think it's all about perspective. Gentrification isn't an excuse I use for my price of living. I just make more money lol

    • @xenostim
      @xenostim Рік тому +2

      @@tammya5403 heck ya, make that bread!

    • @amateurastronomer9752
      @amateurastronomer9752 Рік тому +17

      I don’t live in NYC but I always felt like gentrification brought people, money and business and therefore opportunity into poor neighborhoods. I think a lot of the folks that speak only against gentrification have never lived in a poor neighborhood

    • @tammya5403
      @tammya5403 Рік тому

      @@amateurastronomer9752 I absolutely agree.

  • @r.r4270
    @r.r4270 Рік тому +1

    Powerful perception great story. I grew up in the projects and i love the projects it made me appreciate life. 🙏 Thank you momma for being your best. We made it in the projects.

  • @jayheh
    @jayheh Рік тому +2

    Really appreciate Sandy’s wisdom, all the best and hope him and his fam stay safe X

  • @fitzgerald434
    @fitzgerald434 Рік тому +3

    These are the episodes I like, it shows your everyday person trying to make it in life and keeps you inspired to make it yourself

  • @zyeshaphillips5307
    @zyeshaphillips5307 Рік тому +28

    I’m still in the projects working on getting out, he spoke straight facts on being comfortable and everything else he said. 🙏🏾 4 myself and manifesting better for my future

  • @Marina-vb9by
    @Marina-vb9by Рік тому +1

    This was my favorite tour (and interview) yet. Thanks y’all!

  • @CC8CY
    @CC8CY Рік тому +2

    I love real stories like this. It's sincere and grounded. He's so wise too

  • @sammuis01
    @sammuis01 Рік тому +8

    What a smart, respectful, fine young man... His mother did a great job raising him. All the best to you, we can all learn from your words of wisdom!

  • @vilstef6988
    @vilstef6988 Рік тому +5

    I love this guy's positivity!
    The teddy bear story was really touching!

  • @YahwahStories
    @YahwahStories Рік тому

    Love this! Thank you for highlighting this topic

  • @mtmg3648
    @mtmg3648 Рік тому +2

    I love this! Happiness and positivity is a choice. A decision. We need more of this. Kudos to this young man!

  • @ashtonausbey
    @ashtonausbey Рік тому +3

    Brought me to tears. A gem of a guy with such powerful gratitude and insight, wishing him nothing but the best

  • @KaelaComontofski
    @KaelaComontofski Рік тому +11

    Wow. Terrific video! And this young man has an amazing head on his shoulders and PERSPECTIVE, as he teaches, about life!

  • @veram4820
    @veram4820 Рік тому +1

    Man, this interview is gold

  • @anderra88
    @anderra88 Рік тому +5

    I remember this guy from the 1st time you showed his apartment. The thing that stood out was his really positive attitude and willingness to take in the stray cats. He still maintains that positive attitude.

  • @joberry877
    @joberry877 Рік тому +4

    I appreciate this episode a lot. Thank you for not making living in the projects the most stereotypical, negative thing ever. Nicely done

  • @briarrose5208
    @briarrose5208 Рік тому +75

    What a beautiful apartment! Most US citizens have no idea how grateful immigrants are when they achieve their dream of a better life. This young man has wisdom beyond his years. He could School these anti-immigration folks if they would ever listen. I wish him all the best.

    • @Canadianlove
      @Canadianlove Рік тому +1

      If not the indigenous Americans.US citizens are immigrants too.Their ancestors immigrated from Europe and Middle East .

    • @mickyosully4592
      @mickyosully4592 Рік тому

      @@Canadianlove I think you’re mentally ill

    • @justsaying9604
      @justsaying9604 Рік тому +1

      Key word is legal. Most do not cross our borders legally. There is a big difference in being legal and illegal.

    • @peachycalmable
      @peachycalmable Рік тому +2

      Immigrants drain government assistance programs

  • @EVERYBODYLOVESRUBIA
    @EVERYBODYLOVESRUBIA Рік тому +1

    This video is one of the best! "Perception is power".... Love that saying ♥️🙏🏻💯

  • @justbeinghonest1
    @justbeinghonest1 Рік тому +6

    The gentleman that lives here is super humble it takes a lot of strength to live in the projects and not be scared

  • @internalreflection
    @internalreflection Рік тому +4

    I loved this video, that’s what it’s all about. Using what you have and striving for more. 💛

  • @tiffanyslade7625
    @tiffanyslade7625 Рік тому

    Really needed to see that today. Thank you.

  • @kingjustinv01
    @kingjustinv01 Рік тому +3

    Happy he shared his perspective/ story. I wish the best for him 🙌🏽 from one Dominican New Yorker to another 💙

  • @nm93932
    @nm93932 Рік тому +8

    When I lived in the projects, I used constantly hear that I would end up joining a gang, start doing drugs, or be a teen mom and stay in the ghetto, and my kids would follow the same path. That is not true for everyone. The sad part was always watching gang members harrass the kids going to college...I remember watching them be chased around, hearing "you think you are better than us". Instead of supporting, they tried to bring them down. 😕 I had good memories in the projects....but the most horrific ones as well....but everything the good and the bad just become a norm. Living in the projects made me appreciate many things that others don't and also how to be safe out there.

    • @dollsNcats
      @dollsNcats Рік тому +1

      I never understood that ! It’s almost like a jealousy thing like deep down they want better but don’t know how to get out :( !

  • @Hannah-gh5xd
    @Hannah-gh5xd Рік тому +3

    Love your channel (here from IG) and there’s are such insightful episodes🙏🏼 I vote more of these episodes to learn Vs the IG influencer 💛

  • @Rebeccaac
    @Rebeccaac Рік тому +23

    This young man is incredibly wise and spiritually evolved. This was an interesting video to see since also because I’m used to NYCHA housing shown on the local news as in disrepair and squalor and it’s great to see he has good quality of life with this home environment.

  • @HatianHurricane
    @HatianHurricane 10 місяців тому +4

    I have been in plenty project apartments that were beautifully done up! You start to question if you are really in the projects. It's up to the individual. You can wait for NYCHA to improve your individual apartment or you can do it yourself. It's not the projects that are the problem, it's the people!

  • @baldlyjoe
    @baldlyjoe Рік тому +6

    This is a great story, Caleb. Kudos! If you do nice things and uplift each other, the rest will follow.

  • @RowPoore
    @RowPoore Рік тому

    These are the videos and people I enjoy seeing the most keep doing this amazing work!

  • @Trillion0323
    @Trillion0323 Рік тому

    Love his perspective on life! One of your best videos for sure!!

  • @planwithmarisol
    @planwithmarisol Рік тому +3

    He's so positive. I love his whole vibe. Amazing young man.

  • @nicoleharshman3322
    @nicoleharshman3322 Рік тому +3

    This is my favorite vid you’ve done!!

  • @Kristyle11
    @Kristyle11 Рік тому

    Love this! One of the best videos on this channel. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @CasContents
    @CasContents Рік тому +2

    This guy is so grounded! What an awesome dude!! Great video, thank you!

  • @Petruskinhap972
    @Petruskinhap972 Рік тому +162

    I’m a visiting nurse and most of my patients are in housing projects. I’ve seen in it all and never judge. I’m always amazed though by how much potential these apartments have. They are so big and some are located in fully gentrified neighborhoods.
    Like this young man, some of my patients have made their apartments into safe heavens. Spotless, smelling like Pinesol, bright and airy. Modest, but clean and welcoming.
    Of course there are also those who say they have roaches, rats, drugs falling from the sky, and are victims of the system, so why bother. They only see the urine in the elevators, trash and negatives, completely missing the opportunity all together to use this low income apartment as a stepping stone to something so much greater. And this negative dialogue is a cycle that repeats itself generation after generation. It really makes me sad.
    It’s not the environment. It’s mental illness, bad lifestyle choices and broken families that make all the difference. The resources are out there and are the same for everyone. It’s just that some use and others don’t.

    • @fredhammer6413
      @fredhammer6413 Рік тому +14

      You say that “you never judge”. Why would you say that?
      Of course you judge, that’s how people survive their surroundings.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova Рік тому +5

      @@fredhammer6413 so true we all judge even if it's a positive judgement

    • @Petruskinhap972
      @Petruskinhap972 Рік тому +18

      @@fredhammer6413 no, I don’t judge because it’s not my place. I’m not there to check out your decor. I could really care less. An observation is different from judgment . Judgment would be “ew your house is dirty, what is wrong with you.” versus assessing the situation, putting my backpack in a garbage bag to protect from bugs and moving on to do my job.
      People are people. That’s what I’ve learned from being a nurse for 15 years. Pain and suffering are exactly the same for everyone. We don’t care how you look, where you live, how rich or poor you are. We can make an assessment and move right along. We are there to do our job and go home to our families.

    • @fredhammer6413
      @fredhammer6413 Рік тому +3

      @@Petruskinhap972 ; you state “people are people”. That’s implying that all people are the same and no one person is better or worst than any other person, you know, “we can’t judge”. So following that logic you would assume that an Eagle Scout that has devoted most of his life to education, self improvement and community service is no better or worst than a homicidal pedophile who is a scourge on society. Would you consider your line of thinking as socialist or Marxist?

    • @Petruskinhap972
      @Petruskinhap972 Рік тому +12

      @@fredhammer6413 Yup, in medicine they are all the same. We don’t hold care because of someone’s past or wrong doings. We are not judges, law enforcement, or corrections. I can have a personal opinion about a patient but will still treat them like any of my other patients because that’s my JOB. If you’re a very judgmental or highly sensitive person you should not be in healthcare.

  • @adilee626
    @adilee626 Рік тому +5

    Crazy, when I visited NY my hotel was just next to these buildings and i realized it was probably not the safest area but it had this weird energy i liked. Hard to explain but very interesting insight!!

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 Рік тому

    Awesome video! This is the first video and not a short on this channel. Very inspiring.

  • @anyinwin
    @anyinwin Рік тому

    "hurt people, hurt people". so profound. wishing you the best, man. and thank you caleb for sharing this man's story!

  • @LAWLESSKING
    @LAWLESSKING Рік тому +12

    Also as a dude that was homeless for a stint and then I had the opportunity to move into the PJs for a while I felt that energy exactly that everyone was talking about the pjs being hell and for me it was an upgrade. I'm glad I got out and got my own place but it wasn't a bad time for me even tho I was the only white dude in the projects in morissania south BX back in 2009 LOL. Everyone just left me alone cuz I minded my own business but was also aware of my surroundings. I'm not a fool you gotta know youre in other people's neighborhood sometimes.

    • @MRBBALLMAN10
      @MRBBALLMAN10 Рік тому +1

      Webster Avenue baby. The 1200 side.

  • @spideyschaf9489
    @spideyschaf9489 Рік тому +6

    The thought and spirit of this kid’s perspective was the exact intention behind the genesis of Public Housing. You’re an embodiment of the dream my young man. Respect 🫡 ✊🏽

  • @betsidaabebe2351
    @betsidaabebe2351 Рік тому

    well-spoken and insightful! He deserves more and I wish him all the best!

  • @kakes6412
    @kakes6412 Рік тому +2

    Love this guy's outlook! You can tell how amazing of a mother he had growing up as well 💙 we need more videos like these!

    • @Klawg
      @Klawg Рік тому

      Can you tell me if all the apartments and houses are like this in countries outside India?
      *Sorry for horrible English, I'm Indian (unfortunately)

  • @MsRotorwings
    @MsRotorwings Рік тому +3

    I really like this kid. He really seems to have a good perspective. It is clear his Mom cares for her family.

  • @lebronpryor6677
    @lebronpryor6677 Рік тому +4

    My family lived in(Webster Ave Bronx) NYCHA for years . The roach3s come out when the lights go off

  • @ledwardsmd
    @ledwardsmd 10 місяців тому

    Such an important post. Kudos to Caleb and his team for doing this video. And wishing this gentleman and his family the best of success. Love that he has a cat too!

  • @ifortiz
    @ifortiz Рік тому +1

    This guy is amazing! We need more videos like this one representing diverse perspectives.

  • @wlh4395
    @wlh4395 Рік тому +3

    Thank u for giving him the whole video and showing respect and letting him tell his story and actually showing the real world .

  • @abranchie102
    @abranchie102 Рік тому +45

    I appreciate this video because provides a different outlook on the “projects”, having been raised in the Bushwhack Hylan during the 60’s when it was first built to the mid 70’s, I saw the change from beautiful to not so much. My parents, as well as most of the parents of my friends during that time, were happy to live there, took care of their homes and we were able to run up and down the stairwells to visit our friends, leave our doors unlocked, and all of that good stuff, until the 70’s….Vietnam War….drugs…and all that came with it, helped in destroying what we all called home. Now when it comes to gentrification…that’s all about economics, the haves, the have nots and the good and bad effects that come in tow. That would better be left for another discussion. Thanks again.

    • @Imsupersandy
      @Imsupersandy Рік тому +1

      I love this. Thank you for sharing this insight. Id love to do a podcast interview with you if you are ever in NYC.

    • @KC-ed1dj
      @KC-ed1dj Рік тому

      Yeah, those drugs that came into low income neighborhoods destroying families and the community were a planned event. The drugs were brought in by the powers that be for a reason.

    • @dorothytaylor7369
      @dorothytaylor7369 Рік тому

      Wow, bushwick projects. I was raised there as well !!!memories , block parties in the back of 370 & 140 moore street, those were the days, I’m not certain who you are, I pray all is well. My take was just because you live in the projects, , you don’t have to live the project lifestyle, it all depends on your mindset. Trust & believe living there I’ve seen it all !!Remember the community center😀

    • @Wrekkshoppe
      @Wrekkshoppe Рік тому +1

      There's actually NOTHING GOOD about gentrification. Gentrification happens when the economy gets so bad that those in higher socioeconomic classes can no longer reasonably afford to live in the areas they're used to. They then wind up moving to areas of those in much lower socioeconomic classes because they're far more affordable. Gradually over time, more and more people from that higher class move to that poorer neighborhood, raise the property values of that area, changing the culture, and eventually displacing those original much poorer residents because they can no longer afford the rents. Then what happens is that once poor affneighborhood thfen becomes unaffordable to those in higher socioeconomic classes, and so the repeats itself, over and over and over, and over. Unfortunately, in the United States, the socioeconomic status of it's citizens directly correlates with race.

    • @Wrekkshoppe
      @Wrekkshoppe Рік тому

      There's actually NOTHING GOOD about gentrification. Gentrification happens when the economy gets so bad that those in higher socioeconomic classes can no longer reasonably afford to live in the areas they're used to. They then wind up moving to areas of those in much lower socioeconomic classes because they're far more affordable. Gradually over time, more and more people from that higher class move to that poorer neighborhood, raise the property values of that area, changing the culture, and eventually displacing those original much poorer residents because they can no longer afford the rents. Then what happens is that once poor affneighborhood thfen becomes unaffordable to those in higher socioeconomic classes, and so the repeats itself, over and over and over, and over. Unfortunately, in the United States, the socioeconomic status of it's citizens directly correlates with race.

  • @kerridever-je2ev
    @kerridever-je2ev Рік тому +1

    He’s so positive! Great tour, great message!

  • @TheRoasts
    @TheRoasts Рік тому +1

    Good and encouraging video! Alway show gratitude for where you have gotten to ❤

  • @leolee5907
    @leolee5907 Рік тому +3

    I hear you bro when I’m walking thru the projects I cross the street too 😂😂😂😂 and I’m black “ hurt people hurt people “ all facts

  • @sethharper9663
    @sethharper9663 Рік тому +47

    Love this episode, great to see how happy people can be with so little. Don't always need these flashy places/things to find happiness. It comes from within.