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  • @erikvanconover
    @erikvanconover  Рік тому +2155

    Could you make it work in NYC on $22k a year? Make sure to give JR a follow!

    • @hakimyusof55
      @hakimyusof55 Рік тому +76

      I would bike to work, put in more hours perhaps during work,but love his lifestyle,his home,just looks so comfy ,would be a dream to live like that, an animal companion is a must ,

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Рік тому +50

      I'm an artist too, I lived in NYC for 5 years and loved it, except that I worked for a cutthroat interior design firm. The place was a strange mix of nice benevolent people and the ruthless who would stop at nothing to win. I discovered that many natural born New Yorker's wanted out. They saw it as a vacuum that's sucks you in. A place that you cannot escape from. Many adult children are still living with their parents because they can't afford a place of their own,. but I saw NYC similar to JR. I saw it, as adventurous and exciting. I loved the architecture old and new. The grocery shopping is outrageous! On one city block you can find a fresh fish market, a produce market, a Chinese market and a Mexican bakery, and a flower shop all on the same block. Where else can you find that? The city is so diversified in terms of culture, but don't expect to come to New York and stand out in a crowd and be noticed though. I think a person could walk down the streets of Manhattan nude and no one would care. Lol I mean people do notice but it's not like walking down the street in other cities where everyone might turn to stare. New York isn't like that, a super model would no doubt go unnoticed. Although, I did have some tourists stop and ask me to take a photo with them. Lol They liked the way I was dressed:-)
      A word to the wise, I have a friend who is a gifted guitarist. In fact, he won a guitar contest in Manhattan over 300 of the city's best. It still didn't get him anywhere. He was born and grew up in NYC. He couldn't get anywhere in music until he left New York and moved to Los Angeles where he landed a job with Disney. I'm not saying it can't happen in New York but....it's not the days of CBGB's where one could be discovered in a club like Patti Smith, Blondie, Joan Jett, and the Talking Heads. Those days are gone.
      One last thought: The people are as friendly as any other place so I want to debunk that myth. Basically you get as much as you give. If you are unfriendly they may be too. If you are friendly they will respond accordingly.

    • @davidstyles1576
      @davidstyles1576 Рік тому +56

      I make 32k a year working at a supermarket so yes, yes you can. I’m single so that helps a lot. I pay $1,140 for a 3 bedroom apartment in Brooklyn. But I wouldn’t mind trading it in for a small flat like this if it’s under $700 monthly.

    • @RMFeminine4TheWin
      @RMFeminine4TheWin Рік тому +25

      *his story brought so much joy to my heart. thanx for sharing this Erik.* 🥰🕊🙏🏽

    • @richardvinsen2385
      @richardvinsen2385 Рік тому +3

      @@Gg-ij7li No one cares.

  • @cappachino20
    @cappachino20 Рік тому +22396

    I used to work with this guy at the Roastery as a fellow trainer, even helped train him. This video you see is not an act. He is by far one of the brightest people I've ever gotten to work with. Super happy, always a joy to be around, and extremely humble. So glad people are getting to see even a glimpse of what an awesome person he is through this. JR YOU'RE AWESOME MAN!

    • @marianosantiniello2213
      @marianosantiniello2213 Рік тому +654

      Cool. Please explain why a barista trainer is making 22k a year in NYC. I'm from NYC, latte's are not cheap. There is no excuse for paying someone that. Whoever owns that has to be greedy.

    • @cappachino20
      @cappachino20 Рік тому +503

      @@marianosantiniello2213 It came down to the amount of hours they gave him. The entire Roastery had their shifts gutted regularly. I was lucky enough to be on the more "full time" end of things, but the majority of the workers had like 25 hrs a week max

    • @saran.4001
      @saran.4001 Рік тому +191

      @@marianosantiniello2213 His choice to work there, there are other higher paying jobs. That is what this job pays, and he works the hours he wants. He is not complaining.

    • @Zeustra
      @Zeustra Рік тому

      @@saran.4001 shutup sara nobody wants to hear you speak

    • @tempusername1361
      @tempusername1361 Рік тому +78

      @@marianosantiniello2213 (starbucks employee here) the entire company likes to strip hours away at most locations. my current store maybe has 15-16 employees and i think only three(?) of them get above 32hrs consistently. That's disregarding the store manager though, considering they're mandated 40hrs/wk per their salary. I'm not familiar with how starbucks treats their roastery locations, but going off of OPs response, it looks to be the same business model. Don't get me wrong, if you're at the right store the job is awesome and I personally love my team, it's just corporate likes their shareholders a bit more than us (which, kinda expected when you're one of the big name fast food places).
      if you'd like insight into the pay of a typical barista, I work in east texas and make ~15.45hr and typically scheduled between 24-30hrs a wk with open availability, with some lucky weeks of 32-36. Barista trainers at core locations don't get a raise but are allowed to carry on with a potential shift supervisor interview (which could promote them to being able to lead entire shifts, up their hours, and get a raise. Only issue with that is that stores only keep about 4 or 5 and above 5 you're fighting for hours between the other shifts unless you transfer to a different store.)

  • @silasopawoye2721
    @silasopawoye2721 Рік тому +7123

    He's found joy in life's little things: his cat, riding a bike in the city, the feeling of sunlight on his plants, the sound of rain on his roof, the polish on his guitar, watercolour etc. Until you find these little things to make you happy, no amount of money will be enough for you. This is how life should be lived, that's a rich man right there.

    • @study7794
      @study7794 Рік тому +102

      Exactly what I’m saying. He doesn’t bend care how small the apartment is. He is there for the city and what is values

    • @moonwater8089
      @moonwater8089 Рік тому +33

      That’s exactly right. Life is so beautiful.

    • @sumaaminahshaheed4255
      @sumaaminahshaheed4255 Рік тому +23

      Exactly! Life is what you make it, just be grateful for the little things.....❤️

    • @fredrikxnevad7305
      @fredrikxnevad7305 Рік тому +20

      Beautiful comment

    • @ML-kx9gz
      @ML-kx9gz Рік тому +21

      Oh cmon, he enjoy's being lazy. He only makes $22,000/yr in NYC of all places, he could be a bike courier if he enjoyed riding so much and make way more than that, he could do food delivery on his bike and make way more. He should consider his future with how lucky he got to find such a cheap and great apartment in NYC. He could be stacking SERIOUS bread and still be playing music.

  • @ed_architecture
    @ed_architecture Рік тому +6544

    Screw the millionaire houses.
    More of this type of content please. Real stories, real people.

  • @VictoriaHatzson
    @VictoriaHatzson Рік тому +364

    I hope he makes it. His positivity, how grateful and full of light and calmness he is, I mean wow he’s truly inspiring.

  • @blakewhatch
    @blakewhatch Рік тому +4803

    This guy’s attitude is so inspiring, he has such an optimistic attitude about his situation!

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +546

      I’ve never met someone who’s attitude on life was so positive, he’s become a good friend of mine over the last 6 months

    • @jeahavvalentin980
      @jeahavvalentin980 Рік тому +28

      He reminds me of me because I'm the exact same way

    • @Deniseeee84
      @Deniseeee84 Рік тому +20

      @@erikvanconoverdoes he have a gofundme so we can donate to his dream of music ?!

    • @barbaramuzychka3836
      @barbaramuzychka3836 Рік тому +12

      @@Deniseeee84 He has Erik Conover as a friend, he doesn't need a go fund me!

    • @penguinwithwifi
      @penguinwithwifi Рік тому +36

      @@barbaramuzychka3836 The point of the video is basically that he doesn’t need a go fund me. He’s able to meet all of his needs, and he’s grateful for what he has. Such a beautiful mindset.

  • @MikoyanGurevichMiG21
    @MikoyanGurevichMiG21 Рік тому +3081

    This might sound corny but this is genuinely a life changing and inspirational video. His attitude and tenacity is something to admire.

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +85

      Much more to come from this series

    • @DeadSister
      @DeadSister Рік тому +17

      Right? So glad I clicked on this video and got to see his appreciation for things in his life.

    • @MiamiBlossom
      @MiamiBlossom Рік тому +4

      @@erikvanconover what is the name of this apartment? I'm trying to move to New York, and am looking for somewhere inexpensive to start off with until I can work my way up to something better. This place and that rent price are perfect!!!

    • @study7794
      @study7794 Рік тому +1

      @@MiamiBlossom you should look on crag list out the price of the apartment you want in New York.

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Рік тому +2

      Agreed ♥️

  • @sorayalovett2627
    @sorayalovett2627 Рік тому +986

    I have worked with millionaires that don't exude the same energy and contentedness as this inspiring guy. It's not about money.

    • @jb894
      @jb894 7 місяців тому +19

      It's a coping mechanism

    • @dethepwner3892
      @dethepwner3892 5 місяців тому

      @@jb894 yea, way better to work your ass off for years to be part of the social media bubble to just realize youre nobody and all you have is work and then ending urself in your 40s

    • @josiahbaumgartner7643
      @josiahbaumgartner7643 5 місяців тому +11

      If they were content they wouldn’t be millionaires

    • @forceoneX
      @forceoneX 5 місяців тому +9

      Millionaires are NOT inspiring most are born rich. The biggest dreamchasers and inventors or talent comes from the bottom NOT no damn millionaire. You cant predict who becomes A "millionaire" everybody starts off somewhere. You can never teach personality. Remember that. Stupidist opinion ive ever read.

    • @yzwme586
      @yzwme586 2 місяці тому +1

      @@jb894 Everything is a coping mechanism for something.

  • @everardohernandez5063
    @everardohernandez5063 Рік тому +60

    I really hope this dude achieves all his goals. Humble as fck. Mad respect

  • @markwienands
    @markwienands Рік тому +984

    All of your previous 100,000,000$ apartments and mansions makes me very depressed deep down. But this…. This guy makes me feel the light and happy. Nothing compares to minimal living away from materialism, and with a good attitude. Life is joy

    • @takeyourtime3328
      @takeyourtime3328 Рік тому +25

      I can tell right now he is depressed. He put this happy face and acts happy but he is 100% depressed. Look at his clothing (riddled with holes), he has no women in his life, hair loss, nose ring, cat to comfort him in his loneliness. He is still young so he can use music and entertainment but also hope for better days to compensate his depressions but once he hit 40s or 50s it's going downhill....

    • @godnotavailable2094
      @godnotavailable2094 Рік тому +55

      @@takeyourtime3328 I'm sure he wants more than what he has, but is there not a lesson here about appreciating what you have? A positive mindset is worth more than any of those things you just listed.

    • @takeyourtime3328
      @takeyourtime3328 Рік тому +16

      ​@@godnotavailable2094 ​ My post was never about material things or his small apartement. Most of us know that material things can't me make you happy on the long run.
      Positive mindset is a good thing AS LONG it's your true feeling and not a mask. Why do you think people in the comment section think he is an actor? ..because he acts annatural happy all the time. This is what many derpressed people do. They put a mask on trying to avoid negative comments from others without realizing they overacting with beeing happy.

    • @inejklaus3047
      @inejklaus3047 Рік тому +25

      @@takeyourtime3328 sounds like jelousy to me

    • @chrisjone7555
      @chrisjone7555 Рік тому +20

      @@takeyourtime3328 A lot can happen within the next ten years. He may meet the woman of his dreams, get a better job, and is able to move to a larger apartment. His hairloss is a result of bad genetics.

  • @clarasarria9397
    @clarasarria9397 Рік тому +1801

    He is a very inspiring guy. Very positive, appreciative of what he has, well spoken, energetic, respectful. Seems like a great person to be around

    • @WoodyJ98
      @WoodyJ98 Рік тому +13

      I agree. I do hope he gets more to save for retirement and health emergencies, but I think he will. He is happy in his own skin and has confidence, I respect him following his dreams.

    • @franksterkb891
      @franksterkb891 Рік тому +11

      I realized that it doesnt take a lot of possessions to be happy

  • @akastardust
    @akastardust Рік тому +5106

    JR may only make $22K, but he's rich beyond measure. You can't buy that kind of attitude towards life, his energy is infectious!

    • @Shepardofman
      @Shepardofman Рік тому +63

      You falling for this?

    • @zenthous9568
      @zenthous9568 Рік тому +16

      @@Shepardofmanfalling for.. what

    • @Shepardofman
      @Shepardofman Рік тому +25

      @@zenthous9568 it's staged. The guys an actor.

    • @zenthous9568
      @zenthous9568 Рік тому +6

      @@Shepardofman aight

    • @wturner777
      @wturner777 Рік тому +12

      @@Shepardofman Don't judge a book by its cover. We don't all know his situation beyond this video.

  • @mayamountainresearchfarm4236
    @mayamountainresearchfarm4236 Рік тому +3

    Respect. The Center of the Universe. Glad to have grown up there. Nice to see you thriving!

  • @winipoo1
    @winipoo1 Рік тому +1891

    He is underpaid. This man is a treasure. May he stay healthy so he can continue to live this lifestyle ❤

    • @TeatimeThotsWithMorgan
      @TeatimeThotsWithMorgan Рік тому +27

      He may be underpaid, but he seems perfectly happy. Some people don't bother with money too much, and if they fall into it, which I think he has the potential to do, they just sock it away into their savings and continue slaying like they always have.

    • @IamAWESOME3980
      @IamAWESOME3980 Рік тому +36

      @Teatime Thots it is easy to be happy with little money as long as your dailly needs are met but if you are starving, i doubt you are happy

    • @lemurianchick
      @lemurianchick Рік тому

      @@IamAWESOME3980But that's not what's happening, is it? 🤡 You can't wrap your brain around this and need to poke holes in it because you have been
      ed to believe that more money and more things make a person happy. This is unfortunately why so many people submitted to that shit-show in a syringe: they thought their life was attached to a job, a house, and other possessions....

    • @Kewlausgirl
      @Kewlausgirl Рік тому +22

      ​@@IamAWESOME3980 the fact that this guy is a professional trainer and is earning barely above the US minimum wage is crazy to me. How does a professional trainer in their industry earn barely enough to live? Actually it'd be questioning if it's really enough to live. Cos he's only working casual hours, not full time or permanent.
      You know how much this would pay in Australia - depending which city - it's around 30 to 45 bucks or more if it's a full time permanent position with a business or college or whatever. And you can still get the same arty vibe if you were in Melbourne or London... Or any other major Cities. I mean, what about Vancouver? I've been there multiple times, it's frikin beautiful, super artsy & beautiful in the art scene, and just an amazing place to live and their pay is much higher lol.
      But man you get the same with Melbourne!! That place is art Central and it has amazing food... And much better coffees lolol. The amount of varieties you get there and great food. Plus multicultural to the max!! The amount of different cultural food. Peruvian, African, Vietnamese, Malaysian, to Philippine... Yeah it's crazy. And that's obviously not including all the rest of the different cultures, including the normal European & Mediterranean, North & South American, huge variety of Asian...
      Anyhow that wasn't the point. The point was holy crap how the hell do people justify such a shit wage... I love New York (except the road side stalls, they smell like burnt crap) and all but wouldn't it be great for him to live there like this and be on a great, livable & comfortable wage?
      Like where you could afford food, clothes, health and save or have something else on the side.
      Man and I thought it was hard enough for people here ATM with the increasing food cost. But it's still nowhere near as bad as that.

    • @zzzyyyxxx
      @zzzyyyxxx Рік тому +4

      @@Kewlausgirl how does someone in their industry get paid that much? Because that's how much their replacement costs. One reason why I moved out of the service industry, pay is shit.

  • @doda9ilovegackt
    @doda9ilovegackt Рік тому +322

    His apartment may be super small but its really cozy and beautiful, you can feel the bright energy all around. What a nice, joyful human being. He really inspired me to be grateful for the little things in life. I wish him happiness.

    • @mjjones3216
      @mjjones3216 Рік тому +3

      So true.At least he keeps it nice and clean.

  • @sph8996
    @sph8996 Рік тому +1513

    JR should start a UA-cam channel. He would get 100k subscribers in no time. He is so fascinating, creative and positive. He could showcase his latte art, photography, busking and give financial advice about how to live on a small budget and do tours giving a 'New Yorkers eye view' of New York. I'd definitely watch it. He could use the ad sense to further fund his creative projects and build an audience for his music. You're incredible JR. I'm a fellow artist sending a big high 5 from the UK :)

    • @Gunz4President
      @Gunz4President Рік тому +19

      Great advice, sounds like you should start a UA-cam as well, or help me kickstart mine. 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

    • @moussamalki1544
      @moussamalki1544 Рік тому +1

      I was thinking more of a twitch streamer

    • @LaCréé.e
      @LaCréé.e Рік тому +10

      @@moussamalki1544 Idk how Twitch works but the perks of youtube is he could make really decent money from it. The abovementionned content would attract many.

    • @gsef4157
      @gsef4157 Рік тому +1

      @@LaCréé.e he can make a bag off twitch 4sure!!

    • @CalvinRRC
      @CalvinRRC Рік тому +25

      The thing is it takes a lot of time and effort to produce that content. Believe it or not, it takes a lot more to make even simple youtube videos than the length of them would suggest. Especially to put them out regularly.

  • @Glickan
    @Glickan Рік тому +5

    I really like this guy, very humble and real. And the most important thing; he is content w what his got. Good video

  • @vgxr29
    @vgxr29 Рік тому +1283

    I’d feel kind of miserable if I were him but this guy has so much positive energy. Learned a lesson from him. He lives what life he wants for himself. Respect

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +80

      Major respect

    • @jscholex
      @jscholex Рік тому +57

      for sure this guy made me realized how much I'm taking for granted in my life

    • @fulippuannaghiti1965
      @fulippuannaghiti1965 Рік тому +35

      A life based on illusions. I'm not saying that it's impossible for him to make a living out of his passion, but it's extremely hard today especially if you're in new York where far too many people do that. Don't waste the best years of your life pursuing a dream that will not come true to find yourself 50 year old, with no wife, kids or friends and working in a dumb cafeteria.

    • @peeteisacutie8645
      @peeteisacutie8645 Рік тому +82

      @@fulippuannaghiti1965 It is better to try, fail, and later in life be able to say that you had a dream that you went for even if people thought it was impossible. If the perfect and safe life is "have kids and don't chase dreams" then I will make sure to always chase my dreams. It is not an illusion, it is an attempt to forge his own story.

    • @fulippuannaghiti1965
      @fulippuannaghiti1965 Рік тому +19

      @@peeteisacutie8645 It's all about personal choices, but don't forget that it's very hard after 40 to create a family and have a career if you've wasted most of you 20s and 30s on chasing your dreams. Then if you are happy to live with your passion more than living with your partner and family again, good for you . But do not forget that human interactions have proved to be more valuable and rewarding than any passion out there, hence the reason why most of the artists and musicians in history didn't really end up in the happiest way.

  • @bossdelguapo6114
    @bossdelguapo6114 Рік тому +202

    This is a man who is at peace with himself and the world around him. Great attitude and gratitude

    • @fulippuannaghiti1965
      @fulippuannaghiti1965 Рік тому +4

      Wait until he will turn 40 then it will be an embarrassment to work at Starbucks and not having a family or kids because of a childish dream.

    • @tysim1059
      @tysim1059 Рік тому +19

      @@fulippuannaghiti1965 I see your other comments, quit worrying about what other people would think. Life is what happens when you are busy making plans, enjoy life at the moment and do what you love. If you are surrounded by people who judge you for your occupation, you are around the wrong people. This man lives a life more fulfilling than 99% of us.

    • @fulippuannaghiti1965
      @fulippuannaghiti1965 Рік тому +3

      @@tysim1059 Sorry sir, but it's not about what other people would think, it's all about wrong choices and illusions which on the long term can lead you to a miserable life, a life that you won't be able to sustain when you reach a certain age. As the guy stated, he left his hometown, family and friends to pursue a dream, you certainly don't move to New York to work at Starbucks or to see some foreigners do you ? He is there because he has a dream which unfortunately it's almost impossible to realize if he has already crossed a certain age and hasn't already met the right people and opportunities. It's not a case that there are not so many old people in New York or London.

    • @loveinthematrix
      @loveinthematrix Рік тому +10

      @@fulippuannaghiti1965 There are many people who are 40, with the family and everything they’re supposed to have financially and end up committing suicide. If you are shunning someone’s choices, it’s because you don’t believe in the part of yourself that is reflected back to you while watching them. It’s not about them. In truth, whether or not he fulfills his dream, I’d much rather spend time with him than you.

    • @loveinthematrix
      @loveinthematrix Рік тому +6

      @@fulippuannaghiti1965 His dream is to live in NYC, he fulfilled his dream. He’s already living it. When did you stop believing in your dreams?

  • @ophelia_foxx
    @ophelia_foxx Рік тому +480

    I worked with JR for a short time and he is such an awesome dude! So glad he's pursuing his dreams and living his best life up in NYC.

    • @Shepardofman
      @Shepardofman Рік тому +3

      Does he not apply himself or what?

    • @vamp8903
      @vamp8903 Рік тому +6

      @@Shepardofman apply himself to what ?

    • @vamp8903
      @vamp8903 Рік тому +15

      @@Shepardofman one can only live according to ones means ...and if one is satisfied with what one has ...then so be it

    • @MsZoombye
      @MsZoombye Рік тому +1

      He makes me so happy! I might be just as cheerful as a young man who can afford his life in nyc!

  • @WastedCranium1
    @WastedCranium1 Місяць тому

    This guy's a pure soul, has probably completed most learning tasks of his soul and is here now just enjoying the small things and spreading happiness. May your journey be blessed.

  • @lisahoshowsky4251
    @lisahoshowsky4251 Рік тому +1118

    He’s the kind of person who’s made for NYC, it feeds him instead of feeding off him.
    I’ve seen apartments like his before and he’s actually got one of the nicer and cheaper ones I’ve seen!
    I will say it’s sad that he’s considered a trainer at his work, meaning his work recognizes he has a skill valuable to them, and they still appear to be paying him minimum or basically minimum wage. He’s making it work but the under-appreciation in terms of compensation is always a disappointing reflection of our society.

    • @Darkest_Soul_187
      @Darkest_Soul_187 Рік тому +47

      I feel sorry for him. He made all those sacrifices, and for what? To live in a box, and work for minimum wage at a coffee shop? It looks like he loves NYC way more than NYC loves him..

    • @politcallycorrect5816
      @politcallycorrect5816 Рік тому

      yea and he'd be miserable in another place. So whats the problem?@@Darkest_Soul_187

    • @megmulholland4518
      @megmulholland4518 Рік тому +36

      Darkest Soul, are you real or a bot, lol. If you watched this video in it's entirety, there's no reason to feel sorry for this man, whatsoever. Aww. Feel bad for you to have missed the spirit of this story. 💔

    • @999spot5
      @999spot5 11 місяців тому +4

      managers get like a $2 raise over minimum lmao

    • @saaraa7876
      @saaraa7876 10 місяців тому +12

      @@Darkest_Soul_187 some people rather live in a shoebox in a big city than a house in a small city. If I were American New York City would be my dream too.

  • @kaylin756
    @kaylin756 Рік тому +912

    He's so upbeat. I feel terrible about how misreble I've let myself become.

    • @abiolathecreator3205
      @abiolathecreator3205 Рік тому +54

      It’s not your fault entirely, it’s mostly the system

    • @yaminogame7805
      @yaminogame7805 Рік тому +43

      he would want you to try again :) think of it this way. You can choose to start your day over any time you like. I think of it the same with attitude.

    • @BernieSanders-bn5dk
      @BernieSanders-bn5dk Рік тому +7

      He also lives in NYC, The most desirable area and makes 22K , pays 600 for rent.

    • @leek6068
      @leek6068 Рік тому +3

      dont let the cycle consume you! dont feel terrible about it- let it inspire you:)

    • @sumaaminahshaheed4255
      @sumaaminahshaheed4255 Рік тому +7

      Learn from him.....Happiness is an inside job, just make the decision to be that person....

  • @kayleespivey5748
    @kayleespivey5748 Рік тому +483

    I love how grateful he is. He genuinely loves life and its amazing.

    • @jeffmattel7867
      @jeffmattel7867 Рік тому +6

      Until he finds himself old and with no savings and reality kicks in. Naiveness is a disease.

    • @3_pancakes767
      @3_pancakes767 Рік тому +2

      Yasss, we need more people like him to just be happy with what he has and never ask for anything more. We don’t need change, we need humility. Maybe free antidepressants too.

    • @kayleespivey5748
      @kayleespivey5748 Рік тому +1

      ​@@jeffmattel7867 And then he dies having lived a full and happy life doing exactly what he wanted all along. Some of the happiest people I ever met had very little. It makes them appreciate what they do have even more.

  • @bluewin13
    @bluewin13 5 місяців тому +2

    I teared up watching this. There's something so beautiful and... intrinsically human about passion-to see someone live in such certain and unapologetic pursuit of what gives their life a sense of meaning. I both admire and envy how unquestionably sure he is about what he wants to do. That's why it's all worth it to him, even if it means living in a shoebox. Passion that is prioritized above money is the most respectable kind to me

  • @Jay-zb4iq
    @Jay-zb4iq Рік тому +760

    This video made me tear up. Just moved into a new apartment, trying to find peace within myself, stay positive. My cat died yesterday. It's honestly really beautiful to see this guy live on much less than me and still have so much joy and optimism in his life. Thank you for this.

    • @Koala_JK
      @Koala_JK Рік тому +22

      i know the feeling, my dog passed a couple months ago. I still cry to this day. The best thing I can say is that your cat knows it was loved by you and loved you back and they live on in the forever memories of your heart and mind. Take care stranger

    • @usernameisusername
      @usernameisusername Рік тому

      ​@@Koala_JKdogs matter. Cats don't

    • @fabricioacuna6993
      @fabricioacuna6993 Рік тому +3

      @@Koala_JKso beautiful ur a kind soul

    • @Vxjx15
      @Vxjx15 Рік тому +11

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost one of my cats last month to health issues 💔 wishing you peace in this difficult time, and the ability to relish the good memories

    • @sarah.j.777
      @sarah.j.777 Рік тому +3

      I'm so sorry about your kitty ❤❤❤❤

  • @111nick6
    @111nick6 Рік тому +728

    It makes me relieved knowing people like him exists in a fast-paced materialistic world. He finds meaning and happiness in the little things unlike many people who believe buying glamorious consumer products is going to bring them continuous happiness. Watching JR made me realise a lot of money doesn't make you any happier if you don't know how to be happy without a lot of money.

    • @IKeepGettingFlagged
      @IKeepGettingFlagged Рік тому +3

      I just hope he's putting money towards retirement..

    • @MikeySkywalker
      @MikeySkywalker Рік тому +4

      I do not want money for the glamour. I am sick of worrying about where will I work, how will I eat, will my car break down, will I be able to do the things that I want to do. I do not have luxurious wants and needs. I just wish I didn't have to worry all the time about money.

    • @aceclover758
      @aceclover758 Рік тому +1

      People like him are contributing to the high rent prices
      Paying so much for something so little
      No one is saying living glamorous but hand a studio cost almost 2k in a questionable area, you know something is fucked up

    • @TheDragonshadow1231
      @TheDragonshadow1231 3 місяці тому +2

      Most important use money=benefits for things. Things like glamorious consumer product doesn't benefit, benefit is like health, lifestyle, food, water, diet, water flosser, teeth or if you bringing massage chair and etc;
      Things that benefit is prioritizied first and not other way around

    • @TheDragonshadow1231
      @TheDragonshadow1231 3 місяці тому +2

      @@IKeepGettingFlagged Idk about that now if he going age 45-50+ I assume he must put towards retirement... As, for age 25-35-40 better to put health prioritized first cause the world ain't gonna last and we heading where goverment elite putting money project and money that things in a way it reduce citizen

  • @NateOBrien
    @NateOBrien Рік тому +2005

    This is one of your best videos that you've ever made

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +125

      I appreciate that Nate, more to come from this series

    • @Mr.MallyMall
      @Mr.MallyMall Рік тому +6

      I absolutely agree.

    • @stn7172
      @stn7172 Рік тому +15

      @@erikvanconover Do one on illegals living rent free in NY

    • @ICONICPARIS
      @ICONICPARIS Рік тому +35

      @@stn7172 go away

    • @stevovimy
      @stevovimy Рік тому

      ​@@ICONICPARISseethe

  • @KristinPMosher
    @KristinPMosher Рік тому +252

    I would be retiring or working less in 5 years, and I'm curious to know best how people split their pay, how much of it goes into savings, spendings or investments, I earn around $90K per year but nothing to show for it yet.

    • @JackBJacobs233
      @JackBJacobs233 Рік тому +2

      I recommend you seek the guidance of a broker or financial advisor.

    • @ThomasChai05
      @ThomasChai05 Рік тому +2

      It's gotten especially difficult since the pandemic, hence why I decided to use the expertise of an advisor, my spouse kicked against the idea initially, but oh well guess who's best buddies with our advisor now

    • @91ScottieP
      @91ScottieP Рік тому +1

      @@ThomasChai05 Hi there, This got my attention, which advisor do you use and are you making more than average returns?

    • @ThomasChai05
      @ThomasChai05 Рік тому +1

      Definitely! All of this happened in less than a year after *Camille Alicia Garcia* told me what to do. I started with less than $100,000, and now I'm about 17,000 short of having a quarter million dollars.

    • @Grace.milburn
      @Grace.milburn Рік тому

      She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I just ran a Google search for her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @gglizzy4651
    @gglizzy4651 Рік тому +524

    I lived in an apartment this small when I lived in Miami. It was the first place I ever lived on my own. The peace you can find in these little shoebox apartments is so amazing. All I needed was a place to sleep, cook, make my coffee, and have my little dog. We had a little patio too so I got to sit outside most of the days. I loved it. Once you prioritize your peace over materials things change so drastically.

    • @Test-zn9rs
      @Test-zn9rs Рік тому +7

      Do you have any tips for finding places like this? I would be all over it but they seem so difficult to find!

    • @Alejojojo6
      @Alejojojo6 Рік тому +8

      Welcome to European mindset

    • @ChinyereDOTcom
      @ChinyereDOTcom Рік тому

      🧡

    • @cougnation212
      @cougnation212 Рік тому +1

      Bathroom tho….

    • @MrStone125
      @MrStone125 Рік тому +6

      That's more just lying to yourself and trying to cope with such a crappy space.

  • @yilucas7115
    @yilucas7115 Рік тому +123

    This reminds me when i first moved to LA from China living at someone's living room for $300 and moved to a room for $500 and keep changing places, i wasn't satisfiled about my living condition so worked hard to get more stuff and bigger place. Until i realize it really doesn't matter where you living it's the mindset of never forgeting where you came from and what is bring you joy, it's always the small things! Go get it JR and all other ppl have big dream and small budget.

  • @joshpluto
    @joshpluto Рік тому +320

    this guy's energy is something else. mad respect to him for taking the leap to pursue his dream

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +2

      hes got it

    • @unclesly2465
      @unclesly2465 Рік тому +3

      i was like him when i arrived in London 7 years ago, now I am a grumpy old man LOL

    • @superfuntime469
      @superfuntime469 Рік тому

      @@unclesly2465 lmfao

    • @unclesly2465
      @unclesly2465 Рік тому +2

      @@superfuntime469 it is called honeymoon phase 🤣

  • @MyLAEx
    @MyLAEx Рік тому +7

    This guy is so pure, please protect him at all cost. He's like a modern Betty White.

  • @hilarybabin9022
    @hilarybabin9022 Рік тому +252

    This guy is soooo nice. He’s so excited about the light his plants get and keeps his cat on a strict one treat a day. He’s just happy. That’s epic.

  • @geverniveup
    @geverniveup Рік тому +319

    I feel like he’s living a lifestyle that even if he went on to become a millionaire would look back on as some of the best days of his life. So rad

    • @west_ldn_xxx5549
      @west_ldn_xxx5549 Рік тому +9

      Literally watching this material reminded me of myself from 30 years ago and my early single days in London. Every weekend was an unforgettable adventure. Now I live on a different level, with two children grown up, but I still remember that time as the best years of my youth, despite the fact that materially I was living from day to day.

    • @Nonyah123
      @Nonyah123 Рік тому +2

      That's exactly how I feel now. 25, earning 25k, spending 500 on rent and having most of my days to pursue my own dreams and make amazing memories with new people. I can't imagine being any happier

    • @west_ldn_xxx5549
      @west_ldn_xxx5549 Рік тому +1

      @@Nonyah123 And that's what life is all about mate, stay warm and experience life.

  • @Tarunyu
    @Tarunyu Рік тому +881

    I recently moved from Tokyo to NYC, and for 3 years while I was there I lived in an apartment like this for around $300-$400. I think cities should create more apartments of this nature for people to afford to live in. It doesn't have to be run down or anything, just affordable.

    • @IamAWESOME3980
      @IamAWESOME3980 Рік тому +20

      Tokyo housing space are very tiny as well. I don't think it is too far off in size no?

    • @jaydizzy76
      @jaydizzy76 Рік тому

      NYS LORDS are super greedy so this prob won't happen and the gov is a clown

    • @DanihelMetalPromotion
      @DanihelMetalPromotion Рік тому +40

      Yup, all these huge places. Totally nonsense, unless you actually are a billionaire that wants to live like that. I will say I would prefer my own bathroom and would be willing to spent a little more for that. But those 3k appartements need to go. It's honestly ridiculous how much money people make off that. Should be illegal. Happens all around the world in larger cities. Really frustrating.

    • @Kewlausgirl
      @Kewlausgirl Рік тому +7

      I live in Brisbane, 20 min drive from the city, but I live in a house... Although that was because I bought before covid where now the costs for houses have skyrocketed. :(
      Still, it's not as expensive with a one bedroom place and still be pretty close to the city. But the main thing is, you would be living on a much higher wage than this as a barista or trainer.
      The only part that sucks is everyone still drives to the city, so transport by bus can take 30 60 mins depending on the time and the traffic. Or more if there's a delay. -_-
      But the stupid thing is, train takes just as long coz it has to loop around the river along the south side then across the river just to get to the city.
      Instead of adding another bridge or tunnel that connects the south east area to the north west.
      It would essentially make travel like 20 mins by train 🤣 but you know... Politicians are shit with city planning lately. Yay for the Brissie Olympics -_- I dunno where our city will fit everyone. 😂
      But the one or two bedroom places sound nice. I think they could be a bit bigger though. At least for the living space, but it just needs to be designed well so you aren't wasting more space. Because if it's one thing Covid taught us, small spaces are not the best when trying to avoid getting sick or if you end up confined in it. I don't mean just by lock down...I mean, say you had an accident and are stuck there with a broken leg... Or worse. That would be awful while you heal!!
      I definitely like minimalist (though I don't live that way very well) but there's a limit to how big optimum space is and how small.
      But in saying that, too big is crazy. My cousin is pretty well off. I visited their new house they built (cost...a lot) and they had a 3 layered roof to help make it cooler in the heat. So it was a higher ceiling than normal, but then extra high after that with the extra layers of roofing. But it was done in a way that from the outside it didn't look too high, it still looked like a one story place.
      Their lounge room was the size of our lounge, dining and kitchen... And ours is a nicely spaced, but not too small or too large... And theirs was huge!! And bedrooms... Yeah. It was crazy. And they were two people.
      But hey that's how they wanted to live. It wasn't a mansion or anything crazy. But it was a very, very large single story home for two people lol. That's where I think there's waaay too large and there's too small. Lol
      But ppl make do with their tiny homes as well. So I guess it's all depending on the type of person and how they work. But too large and too small where you can't move is just nuts.

    • @kiminimuchu__
      @kiminimuchu__ Рік тому +5

      @@IamAWESOME3980 Yep, I used to live in Tokyo, tiny apartments are super super common on the more populated areas for the average income, although often times they're really efficient with space usage and usually do have a tiny bathroom inside the apartment.

  • @jakenelson7106
    @jakenelson7106 Рік тому +1

    You know after watching this video I am very grateful for the perspective it has given me. What a wonderful soul JR is. Bless him.

  • @leahbayah98
    @leahbayah98 Рік тому +207

    I love the care he has for his space, for each and every object in his home. He keeps things clean and neat, appreciates and maintains the objects that bring him joy, makes his home welcoming to his kitty whom he obviously loves so much, and keeps the shared bathroom in a respectful condition. This guy's attitude toward life and his fascination with what's around him is really inspiring!

  • @tigergreg8
    @tigergreg8 Рік тому +139

    He is so enthusiastic about life, really knows what he wants, which is more then most people can say.
    Can you imagine working with him every day, I can, because I'd totally enjoy his personality.

  • @taterkaze9428
    @taterkaze9428 Рік тому +307

    This is so much better than tours of rich homes none of us can afford. The cat is well cared for but still lives in a small space. Suggestion for JR - put up some wrap-around shelves (catwalks) and cat ladders to make the vertical space more accessible to the cat. A shelf perch across the upper half of the window would give her a better field of view and she wouldn't need the window sill. The more catwalks, the better, the space becomes more interesting to the cat.

    • @brp_
      @brp_ Рік тому +13

      Great idea for the cat - the best part of this is it can be done for real cheap using scrap wood and carpet.

    • @piaandluna
      @piaandluna Рік тому +7

      Yes!!! We want the cat to live his best life too in NY

    • @kellyj817
      @kellyj817 Рік тому +2

      Great idea - I think his kitty would love this ❤️

    • @destinationlimbo378
      @destinationlimbo378 Рік тому +12

      Guys it’s depressing for a cat to live in such a small place get over yourselves just because you love New York it doesn’t make it any better

    • @201hastings
      @201hastings Рік тому

      This is still an impossible place to find in NYC for anywhere close to that price.

  • @nicolasbenson009
    @nicolasbenson009 28 днів тому +3106

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      @BellamyGriffin19 28 днів тому +3

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      @DorathyJoy 28 днів тому +2

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    • @Hectorkante
      @Hectorkante 28 днів тому +2

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    • @DorathyJoy
      @DorathyJoy 28 днів тому +3

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    • @SandraDave.
      @SandraDave. 27 днів тому +1

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  • @savictez1178
    @savictez1178 Рік тому +498

    Refreshing finally seeing another artist living on minumum/lower wage in NYC. It gets exhausting just seeing rich influencer transplants dominate NYC living online, this feels a lot closer to the reality I've seen living here not just of me but many of my peers and coworkers. If you're smart, it's possible to live here on a small budget :) Plenty of working class people and families have been living here a longgg time and my favorite parts of NYC were created and maintained by those people, personally.

    • @L337m0j0
      @L337m0j0 Рік тому +7

      Families going through hard ships should move when possible. Why put their kids through that. If I was a parent and I was barely able to afford basic living expenses, I would consider moving to another city where it was cheaper for the better future for my children. Odd people try to live in cities just to say they live in said city and just dealing with the negative consequences when there are so many cheaper options out there.

    • @jesseleeward2359
      @jesseleeward2359 Рік тому +4

      @@L337m0j0 they want connections

    • @tokichvideos
      @tokichvideos Рік тому +11

      @@L337m0j0 You just said why they stay, you just don't realize it and must have been very lucky in life so far. Because if a family can barely afford to live somewhere, then where's the money coming to uproot? If you're paycheck to paycheck, you also dont have a savings realistically since its being used immediately as needed. You don't just get up and go, you have to find a place, down payment (lots require first/last month's rent and security deposit before they hand over the keys), pay through your lease until you can move, and figure out how to relocate everyone which is an extra expense. And if they move somewhere cheaper, getting to and from work is something to consider. Does the smaller city have good paying jobs and, if not, can they get to their better paying job in the city? All things to consider.
      I live alone and moving to a new apartment in the same city and state would cost me roughly $3000 right away and that's assuming I find a $900 one bedroom and paying the usual first, last, and security deposit upon move in as well as getting my things moved. If it's $3000 for me, I can't imagine the astronomical costs to move a family. So most stay because it's their best option financially instead. I'm currently in that boat and know that while you'd WANT to leave, actually doing so might be far worse and you have to be realistical about your situation, options, and the limit of what you CAN do.
      Of course some stay for connections. But realistically it'd a cost thing and just too damn expensive nowadays to just up and move.

    • @L337m0j0
      @L337m0j0 Рік тому +1

      @@tokichvideos you can't read. I said move if possible, everyone clearly has different situations. This specific guy got up and literally left all his family to live in New York on his own before he was ready like an idiot. He says this in the video which you prob didn't watch and rage commented an essay. He could of stayed where he was with the support of his family. You are as big of an idiot as this guy as you can't read and don't even watch the full video before commenting. You americans need better education. And I'm not lucky in life. I just stayed at home with my family and friends and saved up before moving out like a sane person who was raised right by immigrant parents who came from nothing. Hope you get it! I'm done with this convo as I hate talking with idiots.

    • @L337m0j0
      @L337m0j0 Рік тому

      @@jesseleeward2359 I can see that, but he didn't state that anywhere in the video, he just mentions he moved to pursue his dream. I guess his dream is art? At the same time he says he is at a job he loves being a barista teaching people. Dunno seems like his priorities are all over the place or the video was edited poorly lol

  • @silverhammer7779
    @silverhammer7779 Рік тому +109

    The difference between JR and most people is, JR has everything he needs and is content with that. Most people will never have enough and are miserable because they know they will never have enough. Everything comes with a price. JR was willing to pay what it took to achieve his dream. Most people want the dream but aren't willing to pay for it and that's why they'll never have enough.

    • @ran4082
      @ran4082 Місяць тому +3

      sort of, capitalist billionaires taking away peoples free time is also kinda making their lives hell. People have a responsibility to find their own happiness sure, but I dont think you noticed youre basically using the arguement "You will have nothing and you will be happy"

    • @silverhammer7779
      @silverhammer7779 Місяць тому +1

      @@ran4082 No. There are certain minimum requirements for a relatively comfortable existence, and they vary somewhat between individuals. Everything is a tradeoff between what you want, what you need, what you can afford, and what makes you happy. And happiness is a do-it-yourself project; only you can determine what makes you happy. The "you will own nothing and you will be happy" idea is one that is imposed upon the individual by some entity, be it government or the military-industrial complex. And that is why it is a bullshit idea, because nobody can decree happiness - you have to figure that out for yourself.

  • @48162342
    @48162342 Рік тому +439

    As a NYer it's people like him that really help run the city. There's way too much greed and selfish behavior in the city from transplants who think they've arrived. Some people will keep quitting their jobs because they heard their friend or colleague makes more than them. There's almost no appreciation for life and this man embodies what we should strive for at the end of the day.

    • @loveinthematrix
      @loveinthematrix Рік тому +22

      That's what's up. The creative spirit of NYC is truly the heart of the roots of it's culture, I'm thankful it's not turning to San Francisco and that energy is still alive in people

    • @SexyGio
      @SexyGio Рік тому +1

      So true. The transplanter's think they discovered NYC, and want to control it.

    • @Lordwolfie59
      @Lordwolfie59 Рік тому

      Yea to many major companies being incredibly greedy about paying their employees a living wage. Its pretty disgusting that he only get paid 22k a year to do what he does.
      Someone quitting their job to find a better life isn't wrong. Anyone working hard and getting paid practically nothing to survive on should always look for other options. Being loyal to a company that doesn't value you is incredibly dumb.

    • @catgirlow
      @catgirlow Рік тому +13

      what’s wrong with job hopping? more money is good

    • @48162342
      @48162342 Рік тому +4

      @@Lordwolfie59 The point is that he's making it work for that much money. There's people in the city who make 6 figures or more and are extremely obnoxious and greedy.

  • @Mynameishmmmm
    @Mynameishmmmm Місяць тому +3

    5:21 "And a toilet in manhattan??" That was my favorite part loll

  • @PandaCoasters
    @PandaCoasters Рік тому +426

    I really like this format; I'd love to see more like it.

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +58

      More to come

    • @robertc6293
      @robertc6293 Рік тому +17

      Yes agree! Real estate vlogging properties is good & all, but diversifying with interviewing people how they live really gives us more indepth view of NYC as a whole.

    • @hl236
      @hl236 Рік тому +2

      This x 200

    • @SheniceSays214
      @SheniceSays214 Рік тому +3

      @@erikvanconover I want more interviews

  • @AnonYmous-ry2jn
    @AnonYmous-ry2jn Рік тому +888

    He's just plain lucky he found that apartment. To be 20-something and be able to live in Manhattan, in a comfortable-albeit-small apartment on $22,000 per year and not have the torture of roommates is (for someone in that income bracket) an incredible, rare luxury. Not many with income under 25G have it so nice, and even people with substantially higher income would be extremely lucky to find a comparable setup in Manhattan in a nice building on a nice street like that.

    • @colinstevenson6984
      @colinstevenson6984 Рік тому +163

      Having lived and gone to school there, even in the early 2000's, I concur - he's literally one of the luckiest people in the city to have that place. If you're young and single, it's perfect.

    • @AnonYmous-ry2jn
      @AnonYmous-ry2jn Рік тому +4

      @@colinstevenson6984 Exactly. Thanks!

    • @goodlookinouthomie1757
      @goodlookinouthomie1757 Рік тому +75

      His landlord must be an absolute Saint.

    • @AnonYmous-ry2jn
      @AnonYmous-ry2jn Рік тому +56

      @@goodlookinouthomie1757 Seems like he or she is making a wonderful place for not-so-affluent tenants, rather than trying to squeeze as much $ as they can get from the building, which by N.Y.C. landlord standards is definitely in the saintly direction! Good point!

    • @strikingmachine2975
      @strikingmachine2975 Рік тому +12

      Why would anyone want to live like this? I would rather live in a van in the suburbs. Much less Crime. And you can commute to the city every weekend, if you so desire.

  • @Soshi701
    @Soshi701 Рік тому +124

    He's adorable. It's sad what the greedy people in the world take from good people, but he's happy and makes everything work. He's awesome.

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +16

      Amazing mindset

    • @kaspar_1982
      @kaspar_1982 Рік тому

      @@erikvanconover more like perplexing mindset, Carene's Neo Marxist statement that its sad when "greedy"" people are taking from good people is ludicrous here. we live in a free capitalist society that has proven time and again to be the one system that provides fulfillment and meaning to human existence, think not? go ask the billions of people that live in mind numbing squalor and wish they could come here. NYC is a magnificent place at this time in history, a true renascence of human expression. the Florence of our time. nothing of value is a given it must be worked for to be of value. JR seems to be one of the few here to understand this. what a loss...

  • @julielisboa
    @julielisboa 8 місяців тому

    He’s actually a minimalist ❤️ I loved his vibe , he seems so humble and genuine … in a world full of superficial people he’s definitely a treasure .

  • @probablytheamaziiingtim2915
    @probablytheamaziiingtim2915 Рік тому +286

    I love how sincere, full of life, and transparents he is. And most of all how grateful he is for what he got ! I hope he makes it one day because he truly deserves it and works for it.
    And what's more impressive ! He was able to fit a cat to his life style !

    • @XenaXOE
      @XenaXOE Рік тому +4

      Having a cat live in that tiny place is not impressive it’s abusive.

    • @SheilaR.08
      @SheilaR.08 Рік тому +4

      ​@@XenaXOENot remotely. The cat has all she needs, especially the companionship of someone who loves her.

    • @dimensionstomorrow
      @dimensionstomorrow Рік тому +6

      I think he already has made it. It’s just our perception of “making it” is flawed. I hope we all make it.

    • @erikm9768
      @erikm9768 Рік тому

      How is taht impressive? cant you tell the cat is not doing great

    • @erikm9768
      @erikm9768 Рік тому

      @@SheilaR.08 you dont know sh1t about cats clearly

  • @RaeLarz
    @RaeLarz Рік тому +58

    JR!!! Omg I'm so glad I stumbled upon this. I've had the joy of hanging with this dude and seeing him in shows, and he's one of the most genuine, talented, and grateful folks out there. Livin the dream my man

  • @sjschyler
    @sjschyler Рік тому +215

    Love this series, please continue with more amazing stories

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +38

      I plan on it, looking for the most unique inspiring stories

    • @sweetaqu
      @sweetaqu Рік тому

      @@erikvanconover can't wait, love it.

  • @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
    @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l 6 місяців тому +3

    This man has the secret of being happy. Be grateful for what you have. Positive energy ❤

  • @rebeccavl97
    @rebeccavl97 Рік тому +84

    This guy is by far the most humble, down to earth person I have seen in a long time, especially during such times of extreme greed. Honestly, bless him and I wish him all the best in life going forward! Thank you for sharing his story Erik!

    • @0Ciju0
      @0Ciju0 Рік тому

      Humble? He makes less than minimum wage almost. Of course he's humble lmao

    • @rebeccavl97
      @rebeccavl97 Рік тому +2

      @@0Ciju0 You can be a millionaire and still be humble. Humbleness is a mindset not relevant to income!

  • @romi276
    @romi276 Рік тому +131

    It’s so humbling to see how happy he is and content with his stuff. Happiness is more important than any materialistic things

    • @jmitterii2
      @jmitterii2 Рік тому

      Good little serf. All serfs and slaves should be so greatful.
      Now get back to work you lazies!

  • @gerardomichelena
    @gerardomichelena Рік тому +102

    I hope he really accomplish everything that he needs and deserve. He looks like an amazing soul in this earth ❤️

  • @Mirrrya
    @Mirrrya Місяць тому +1

    It was s year ago but I'd like to say hi to this man... He lives my favorite lifestyle and someone finally mentioned it as something good. Most if the time people scoff on us for no reason!

  • @tipsycat27
    @tipsycat27 Рік тому +1620

    Goes to show that money doesn't buy happiness. This guy is more fulfilled and satisfied by life than most millionaires

    • @texasrex93
      @texasrex93 Рік тому +136

      I mean...money doesn't necessarily buy happiness, but it does alleviate stress, which is a source of sadness for a lot of people.

    • @hjlegends4999
      @hjlegends4999 Рік тому +9

      Fair enough he's happy without money but to an extent money can buy happiness

    • @molleymabean
      @molleymabean Рік тому

      or probably cuz he lives in new york

    • @aceclover758
      @aceclover758 Рік тому +16

      Money does buy happiness. It doesn’t buy salvation
      Get it right kid

    • @tipsycat27
      @tipsycat27 Рік тому

      @@aceclover758 You must be poor then you grump lmao

  • @chrisbishop3716
    @chrisbishop3716 Рік тому +103

    I love this guy's energy. The world needs more people like him.

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ Рік тому

      He's amazing, isn't he? So positive and grateful for all the things you really can't put a price on: amazing sunlight (which is almost unheard of in a cheap NYC apartment), rain on the skylight, his thrifted chair, his clean bathroom, his cat, that awesome guitar, his ultralight bicycle, and even a job that (under)pays him minimum wage.
      I want to meet his parents and thank them for raising such an awesome human being.

    • @angelachanelhuang1651
      @angelachanelhuang1651 Рік тому

      lol

  • @SinaLaJuanaLewis
    @SinaLaJuanaLewis Рік тому +218

    You know what is so interesting? I used to live in NYC and moved away. Because of the prices. Now I find myself in another country and literally living similar life to his here in Europe. Tiny apartment, minimum wage, what is important is happiness and peace 🎉

    • @watamutha
      @watamutha Рік тому +2

      May I ask what country you settled in? Yes I agree for a lot of people, not having to worry about the essentials is askin to being rich.

    • @goury
      @goury Рік тому +3

      Same, except my salary is way above average and I live in a very nice and modern 1400²ft apartment (not including large balcony) in a very walkable and bicycle-friendly city.
      Oh, and one can rent such an apartment here for less than this shoebox in NY.
      So everyone here have decent living conditions.
      Surely not everyone needs this much space, but governing a country or a city the way working people can't afford to have at least 300²ft of personal space must be a crime in 2023.

    • @goury
      @goury Рік тому

      @Thawne1338 I didn't

    • @goury
      @goury Рік тому

      @Thawne1338 no

  • @agustinacurrado3176
    @agustinacurrado3176 10 днів тому

    This guy made me cry. I'm an actress, on the same path of pursuing my dream. With no so many resources but with a heart full of love for what I've chosen.
    Thanks for sharing something so real.

  • @mcp_thats_me
    @mcp_thats_me Рік тому +277

    Just goes to show that money isn’t everything. He’s happy and grateful with what he has while some rich people are miserable thinking about what else they can get to make them happy. He’s living his best life and I’m here for it 💗

    • @vamp8903
      @vamp8903 Рік тому +4

      The thing is the mega rich people are not satisfied ...always on the lookout for another flashy car or a bigger yacht ...another villa ...more extravagant jewelry for the over pampered wife ...designer clothes I'm sure in the long run it changes ones mind..also it's a form of greediness ...

    • @lexiebi
      @lexiebi Рік тому

      So true. You will always want more even you have a lot of money.

    • @F32Aidan
      @F32Aidan Рік тому

      @@vamp8903 how to cope with the fact that your poor lmao

    • @vamp8903
      @vamp8903 Рік тому +3

      @@F32Aidan actualy I'm not ..I'm comfortably off ...so you must be coping with the fact that you are the poor one ...I just don't like the ultra rich people ...they tend to get bored and then get involved in nefarous practises

    • @vamp8903
      @vamp8903 Рік тому

      @@F32Aidan so lmao at you 🤣

  • @lianhoffman3761
    @lianhoffman3761 Рік тому +98

    Erik, I feel like this was what I’ve been waiting for, without knowing what you had in your mind for content this year haha. Love the format, showing real people and who they are in a great light. Not to say I don’t love your apartment tours but adding in a different, more relatable aspect and you’re good at story telling so why not share some cool people’s stories!

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +19

      Finding the right stories to tell is the tricky part. While I've been in school over the past 1.5 years its been difficult to create content that feels important to make. With this new series I feel I am coming close to that

  • @JMK15
    @JMK15 Рік тому +29

    His space is really unique. Love how he has a real bedroom. And the bathroom situation is perfect. You heard him “never an issue. We put in the work.”

  • @HumanGirlEmma
    @HumanGirlEmma 11 місяців тому +1

    I just want to say - I come back to this video atleast every few months to watch it, its very comforting and I love the energy and outlook this person has. Thanks so much for sharing his world with us :)

  • @HyperDaveUK
    @HyperDaveUK Рік тому +92

    This guy seems soo chilled out for someone living a huge city like NYC, I'd find it tricky living in a studio apartment like that, but its better than a room in someone else's home.

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +4

      JR has a great story

    • @HyperDaveUK
      @HyperDaveUK Рік тому +1

      @@erikvanconover So great to see this side of New York City!

    • @vamp8903
      @vamp8903 Рік тому +3

      So true and he has his privacy too

  • @ml.9106
    @ml.9106 Рік тому +46

    My tears went down listening to him. He’s so genuine. I wish him everything best.

    • @p6h14
      @p6h14 Рік тому +1

      Same!

  • @Jshoty
    @Jshoty Рік тому +109

    I just finished watching this entire video and I cannot believe the happiness I felt just hearing him speak out of joy about his love for his life in the Big Apple. I have always dreamed of living in NYC, Manhattan since I was a kid watching Home Alone. I have traveled to many places and still have not visited NYC. There really is no excuse for me. This has convinced me to visit this year. I appreciate the video, and I wish you nothing but success and prosperity.

    • @goury
      @goury Рік тому

      Sorry to disappoint you, but McCallister mansion's location is around Chicago (Winnetka, Illinois).
      NYC is but a corrupt and dirty shithole.
      Some people are on drugs.
      As for location to visit, go to any large European city, they all are still great.
      And they all are not ridiculously expensive like in some countries with infinite debt.

  • @CrispyPommeFrites
    @CrispyPommeFrites Місяць тому

    It is so refreshing to see like-minded people taking a leap of faith to make their dreams come true, currently doing something like this myself and I have never felt more alive.

  • @jrg4587
    @jrg4587 Рік тому +92

    JR is wealthier than most billionaires with that happiness, smile, and passion to live there. Immediate sub. This was incredible!!!

    • @erikvanconover
      @erikvanconover  Рік тому +11

      He is. I've met a fair share of very wealthy people who own these apartments, along with well known real estate agents and they are not present.

    • @ThisIsGoogle
      @ThisIsGoogle Рік тому

      Depression has many faces.

  • @Pat7629
    @Pat7629 Рік тому +28

    The best part of this story is his positive attitude. People in general spend so much time thinking about what they don't have instead of appreciating the blessings of what they do.

  • @ShaniaOsburn
    @ShaniaOsburn Рік тому +18

    His passion really made me tear up. He’s has such beautiful, calming energy and you can tell he is at peace within himself and loves everyone around him. WOW. Truly an amazing human you rarely come across.

    • @toke7342
      @toke7342 Рік тому

      What about his family though?

  • @robertharris4100
    @robertharris4100 Рік тому +26

    What a Wonderful & Positive attitude towards life in general. So humble & thankful for Everything. I pray that he never becomes ill or not able to provide for himself. Inspiring interview. This was more about JR than about his apt. After watching this video a second time, I'm not noticing a TV or a computer. Yet I doubt if JR ever gets bored. Amazing young man.

  • @edwardcook8982
    @edwardcook8982 Рік тому +46

    JR carries a beautiful soul & highly energized spirit. This is a type of friend one must have. You can see how organize he is and his optimism is inspiring. He is smart guy - appreciative of everything - I hope I can see more of him, because you don't get tired of listening to him.
    Good luck to you JR, and I hope you start a spare time blogging about your optimism, your music, your art and your daily commune with life.
    More admiration for you from the Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @bbkintanar
    @bbkintanar Місяць тому

    This video got me teary-eyed! Even as a 6-figure earner myself, I feel like I can't even find as much joy in the simpler things like he can. May he continue to stay joyful and spread joy to others!

  • @Marte0107
    @Marte0107 Рік тому +70

    Dude should be a motivational speaker or make some content like this himself. I love his energy, he sees the greatness in what he has- his nice window, plants that thrive and a content cat- and doesn’t focus on the things he doesn’t have or need. It’s refreshing

  • @Beautykaar15
    @Beautykaar15 Рік тому +175

    I am halfway through the video and it just made my whole day better, this past week I've been having anxiety on how I'll be able to afford staying in New York after college as an international artist, but this video just showed me that the little things in life are enough motivation to keep following your dreams and that it is possible to live here and enjoy every second. THANK YOU!

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ Рік тому +4

      If you can find a way to stay affordably (and safely), do it. Look at the amazing light he has in that tiny studio. Manhattan is the most amazing city on the planet, better than London, Paris, Sydney, Tokyo, and Sao Paulo. I'd take Manhattan over all of them. I never regretted living there. Truthfully, the most amazing 9 years of my life (and the most difficult).
      Good luck to you! I hope you can find a way to make it happen!

    • @angelachanelhuang1651
      @angelachanelhuang1651 Рік тому

      heineken

  • @chicophi203
    @chicophi203 Рік тому +14

    Sending this guy nothing but good vibes. He appears to be a genuinely happy and can find the silver lining in every situation. The longer I watched this video, the happier I became.

  • @michaelfishman7174
    @michaelfishman7174 8 місяців тому

    It's nice to know that despite the tough life for many of us in New York city with the high rents, the violence in crime, the tough job market, high prices, etc. There are many great souls out there living with us like the gentleman in this video.

  • @neothe7737
    @neothe7737 Рік тому +28

    Never been a fan of this minimalistic lifestyle but the vibes from this guy and how well organized this place is has impressed be so much

  • @jasontodd6822
    @jasontodd6822 Рік тому +29

    This guy has one of the most positive auras I've seen in a person love the way hey looks on life and his living situation. Definitely one of the best Apartments on a budget I've seen in NYC.

  • @kbb1220
    @kbb1220 Рік тому +10

    Just by seeing this video, you can absolutely tell that he is a nice man. somebody you would want to surround yourself with.
    What a walking ray of sunshine. ♥️

  • @singlemotherRespector
    @singlemotherRespector 5 місяців тому +3

    The gratitude is infectious

  • @_mikeyjames
    @_mikeyjames Рік тому +41

    This brought me so much joy and reminded me how absolutely stoked on life I also was when I first moved to NYC. I lived in an old, run-down apartment, and I too couldn’t have been happier about it. ☺️ It truly is a city like no other.

  • @bill6049
    @bill6049 Рік тому +26

    It's humble to see this guy living his happy life with not much but a bike, a guitar, a cat, and a small apartment. And look at what I had already, I should be happier. Instead, I am seeking for more and more. Thank you.

  • @estrellasjournal
    @estrellasjournal Рік тому +30

    I was losing hope that I could afford to move to New York but as I learn to practice gratitude more often, I stumble upon this video of this guy who’s just exuding positivity, creativity and resilience. I want to be in New York. I really do. And when that happens, I want to feel like him - a million bucks.

  • @Technonova323
    @Technonova323 Місяць тому

    He's making the most of what he's got, and he's living life to the fullest. Absolute respect for this guy. He's confident and conformable with his stuff.

  • @Makingthetransition
    @Makingthetransition Рік тому +22

    I LOVE how grateful and joyful he is! His energy is so refreshing. I seemingly have so much more but I don’t think I appreciate my blessings nearly as much, until I stop and think about how grateful I am. Thank you Brother for making and sharing this. I visit New York regularly for business. New York does the same thing for me.

    • @cathynewyork7918
      @cathynewyork7918 Рік тому +1

      New York does the same thing for me -- that is why I moved here from Los Angeles two years ago, and am so so so so thrilled to be here.

  • @Your_Boy_Subz
    @Your_Boy_Subz Рік тому +11

    For perspective..in South Africa, you get a 615sqr ft. stand alone 2 bedroom townhouse with full size kitchen, private garden, 2 bathroom, and 2 garages behind a gated estate/complex for roughly $295 per month on average, in some instances amenities are included.
    Watching your channel gives me additional appreciation for all I have access to at a way lower price bracket. I love the attitude of all the people you feature, they are very optimistic and it's great to see people will smiles despite circumstances or conditions.
    Great content, giving a different look to what mainstream media portrays

  • @kierstenferguson9137
    @kierstenferguson9137 Рік тому +23

    This guy is so genuine. We all need to be more like him.

  • @CinemaCircuitVibes
    @CinemaCircuitVibes 5 місяців тому

    I admire this man's determination, grit, and passion for his dream and his job. It takes a lot of courage to leave everything you know behind in order to pursue a dream. I wish you the best of luck in everything that you do bro!

  • @K61r
    @K61r Рік тому +8

    Im so glad he's happy, his spirit is contagious.
    But as a claustrophobic introvert that would be happiest if I i saw people like once a month, and just collected firewood, this is absolute hell for me

  • @AT-xp1pj
    @AT-xp1pj Рік тому +68

    This is hands down one of the best videos you have ever made. I have been watching you for years and videos like this seem like they might suit you best. Showing NYC from a human perspective, whilst still being classified as real estate showcase. As far as JR is concerned, I really loved this guy from the first second he appeared. Such a cool guy

    • @jameslightbody490
      @jameslightbody490 Рік тому

      Incredibly well said. Would be thrilled if Erik continued to make videos like this.

  • @pouetpouetdaddy5
    @pouetpouetdaddy5 Рік тому +11

    God, this boy gives hope in humanity. He's so likable. Happiness is an attitude not a furniture

  • @relaxationacoustics123
    @relaxationacoustics123 Місяць тому

    I love the mentality of this man. He is all about grinding and he doesn’t let life’s difficulties get to him.

  • @9871516690
    @9871516690 Рік тому +10

    Wow! If anyone wants to learn to be grateful for and derive happiness and joy from the smallest of things, it has to be from this guy! What an inspiration!! Loved his energy. Please, more of these videos!

  • @arpitjain7366
    @arpitjain7366 Рік тому +21

    Just can't get over the fact that he is so inspiring and full of positivity! Great start for 2023 Erik 🙂🙂

  • @kimberlykristin2507
    @kimberlykristin2507 Рік тому +132

    In our buy-more culture, I find a lot of wisdom in living more simply and appreciating the things you do have, as previous generations did. And this guy is really drinking in the rich experiences available all around him. Many of us know people who have lots of resources and things and yet are still unhappy. In many ways, JR is really living the life.

    • @cowboybeboop9420
      @cowboybeboop9420 Рік тому

      I`m not an American or from the West even but this looks depressing. The guy needs to move to a cheaper city and get a real job so he can live in a nicer place, get laid and have a life instead of wasting his 20s over dumb shit.

    • @TimmyTints
      @TimmyTints Рік тому +2

      "the things we pay for are actually very cheap, the best things in life are given to us free of charge"

  • @Himako-Z
    @Himako-Z 3 місяці тому

    All I saw is a man with gratefulness take everything he had as gifts and anything that hasn’t come yet as a surprise. Thanks for sharing this best lesson of life.

  • @starr5765
    @starr5765 Рік тому +27

    This is definitely a great series you’ve started that has so much potential, to be able to hear stories about different people in New York is priceless.