People are brutally abusive towards each other these days. Only do people care after the fact. I don't say that on Eiisha, but it's a general occurrence.
@@FresherStartElisha probably felt like he “out alpha’d” his neighbor during his interactions with him. Now he wants to seem like the good person lmao.
@Everysingletimeowitz how'd you get to this conclusion. God forbid a dude get mixed thoughts finding out they're young neighbor just killed himself and been rotting alone in his house
And when we ask for help it's annoying, or whiny, or "dude get a grip, I'm trying to live my life, how about you try and live yours" bro no one truly actualy deep down cares. Everyone wants to just live their own lives, at arms length from even their closest loved one. "God damn, uncle Tim is really acting up. Dude has fucking issues lol, leave me out of it" and then uncle Tim is dead.
Dear friend, please stay with us and help improve life for those who are not at peace. I want to suggest a new career for you in health care. Keep grinding every day, life is a long battle that you will win if you continue the fight.
I’m on the brink myself. Dealing with homelessness alone, working a job that isn’t paying out, looking at a world that’s left me behind and forgotten me, which never wanted me in the first place. There’s no one to talk to, nowhere to go.
I feel ya bro. But the last thing I am gonna do is end it, I made it this far and came close a whole bunch of times. I have to see it through now! In 98 i lost the love o my life to car accident, and I tongue fucked my shotgun for a week, before i sold it. Not gonna lie a huge part of me died when Danielle LaFond was killed.
Keep pushing brother, I was suicidal a few years back. Keep at it man and don’t give in to the hate within that you hold to yourself. I’ve been there too.
FK society, do the opposite of society. If society says take a left turn here, you say no we're going straight or turning right. Stop listening to society.
In 1998, I was 12, my brother 15. January 19th, he committed suicide with a gunshot to the head. I came home from school, and was the first responder to the aftermath at the foot of our dining room table. We had the best childhood, best parents, he was well respected, tons of friends and an impressive athlete in school. To say the entire city was in shock would be an understatement. I was so young, I didnt even fathom the idea that you could end your own life, so I thought he was cleaning the gun and it had a misfire. His shotgun was laying beside him, but he used a revolver. When I learned that he had left a note, my entire world changed that day. He was my only sibling, and we loved each other hard. I have been a recluse for 15 years, living alone, barely going out, but holding my own with a full time job and making solid income. I have been single since 2005, not even dated. I did all that in middle/high school. Never turned to drugs, drink maybe twice a year. Life is crazy man, and I dont allow many people into mine these days.
@@ElishaLong Work is high energy, and very loud in a casino. It drains me. I kayak 1-2 times a week, explore new rivers and lakes, and lots of fishing. I have been slowly getting a sweet girl at work into the hobby as well. She bought one a couple months ago and we have been getting out on the water here and there. Only because I vibe with her. She's the first woman I have wanted to bring into my life and hobbies in 15+ years.
@@tiffanygafner9780 this world is too brute and horrible. The extremes at how horrible life can be and how humans can be to each other makes sensitive kind spirited people hate the world. They feel and think of that person suffering as if it were them and it eats at them so much that they don't want to know anything about this world
@@dustygatrell-ru7tg You don't get it. some people, because of their sensitive kind hearted parents, genetics and the general culture they were influenced by are much more sympathetic, emotional and deep feeling people than some airhead materialistic dingbat who was probably sadly abused as a child. This has nothing to do with god or his glory, nothing at all.
RIP. Ive seen 5 suicides in the 5 years as a firefighter. All young men. Two of my friends took their lives. Sad af. Still think about them to this day. Dont do it boys. Never give up.
Honestly I can’t blame anyone who chooses to do it. There’s not much to look forward to, and it’s becoming much more of a struggle just to survive let alone live. How about we make it a world worth staying around for?
At this time, if you tell someone that you are depressed, they will tell you to "go to therapy" as if telling your life story would improve something. Society pretending to care about "mental health" is another reason for rope.
My oldest son decided to commit suicide. He planned it, for as much as a year ahead. He tried to be no nuisance, gave away his few belongings to others. He had health problems, illegal immigration had made it impossible to have hope of survivable finances. It turns out that a lot of young men, teens to around 27, commit suicide when they feel there is no way to have a decent life...a workable job, a chance to marry and have a family, etc.
I feel you with the illegal immigrants thing I would love to work as a carpenter for a company but the fact is that these companies hire illegals for a lot less money because it’s cheaper than hiring an American Now I’m kind of forced to go into a career I don’t really like and feel as though I’m going to struggle through school because I have no interest in it, but there is simply no other option for me
When you hit 25yrs of misery I think that says it all sounds like my life once it’s that consistent for that long sorry to say it but it’s like hopeless this is it, at this point it’s like this is what it is an it won’t get better an it hurts me to be brutally honest
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We don’t need a men’s mental health awareness month, especially not during the same month as pride month. We need equal mental health treatment on all months
Others will not be able to help you, committing quit in game is a solution. Mental health is a problem for those who have it, not for others since they do not experience it nor will they ever know how difficult it is to spend day after day in the shoes of another, there is no scammer or coach who with a few nice words can solve everything.
yea our friend offed himself and we were all shocked because he was the life of the party, he was a total chad with amazing skateboarding skills and massive charisma and we always scratched our heads with the women he was with who were very ratchet, he was dating very way down for his level. he offed himself over a very low value woman.
People pleasers, in a way...or good actors. I can't stand people who Force-Mirth constantly. They are such phonies going around saying "smile!" to others all the time and ringing joy-bells no matter whether appropriate or not. They make me cringe.
It’s my birthday today Every day is the same I have multiple sclerosis My family abandoned me I don’t have any friends All I have is god I am ok with that /hug love you brothers turn 45 today
@claudiocerezo1644 I didn't say it was the hardest time to be alive. We are surrounded by technology that can connect us to anyone in a split second, yet we still lack connection, acceptance, friendship and intamacy. That was my point.
Well, we live under a system that views men as being disposable. Male self-deletion is basically seen the same way as roadkill by the majority. A minor inconvenience that is unpleasant to look at, but quickly forgotten or dismissed.
Gotta keep your head up. Quit sugar, start working out, take ice baths every morning. Drink more water. Stop alcohol and fast food. Stay off social media and put the phone down. Get a proper sleeping schedule. Join a community or church. Do that for even 3 months and see if your are still suicidal. Guaranteed you'll be thankful you hung on to life. Oh yea and kick the people out of your life that don't value you and your time. God bless you man
I lost my best friend of over 20 years to suicide last year. When people say it is because of mental illness, I disagree. I think that's just an easy way for people to justify it. He was the best person I've ever known, incredibly smart with a great job. Would have done anything for anyone. Was ALWAYS nice never not once saw a mean bone in his body. Society's judgment and disrespect can push someone to give up. It's hard to understand why people can't just be kind and respectful instead of being so judgmental and mean. Then laugh and make fun of people for no valid reason. Some people assume they know everything about someone they've barely spent any time with. To me, this constant need to put others down and people gossiping about others is what’s really mental. If someone has harmed others and should be in prison, that's different. But there's no excuse for treating innocent people badly just because of how they look, what they wear, or because someone is different than you. I've seen many suicides in recent years, and society keeps making excuses for it. Just be nice to people-is it really that damn hard!? Stop acting like people have done something terrible to you when they haven't. Imagine how the world probably would have been if everyone was kind to eachother and there wasn't evil, judgemental, and greedy people in the world. Majority of people don't care about anyone or anything but literally theirselves and thats it. I'm really sorry about your neighbor. No one deserves to feel that way in life. My heart goes out to their family. ❤
So they didn't leave a note? Sounds like he was bullied or something? That kinda thing can cause mental health problems or issues. Yeah I wish people could be nicer especially when you work for a lame as courperations who believe "the customers always right" when there screaming at you for no damn reason and if you don't kiss there ass you get fired.. 🙄 It's none there damn business
This is spiritual warfare, demons inside of most people came after that man. He had a light and they wanted to destroy it. Everyone, call on Christ to be saved and to help you navigate in these current times, He is our one and only hope against the wickedness that has increased in these last days. ✝️
A close family friend took his own life last week, leaving behind a 3-year-old son and wife. Hundreds of people attended the funeral. No matter how meaningless you may feel your life is, remember that many people count on you and care about you.
@@tarichar8no matter how many people show up to your party or how many facebook likes you have doesnt make them your friends dont worry about it, me and my mom both agreed that whoever goes out first there wont be a funeral for vultures to try and profit off your vulnerable loved ones, those who care will mourn at their own pace in their own time like you have
@@ghostphoto1789trust me when money is involved money people are coming like hawks to the funeral. I rather have 3 people at my funeral that really care about me than 50 people who kinda lived me.
Your Introverts then, people who enjoy being alone and having their peace of mind and also being with small amount of friends maybe friends from school, but people who didn’t go through any kind of depression or any other antisocial behavior before find it hard to enjoy being alone, it’s like their now going through what you have already gone through and you might have coped with it and now your resistant to it, but some couldn’t and take the other way
I'm 33 living in a city, just got out of prison. My family basically deserted me. I can't afford to live here. Only advice they give me is just hang in there!!! I been hanging in there, I'm T I R E D. Some people don't want help, just rest.
@@johnnyboy2411 not in this world I agree. That's why I embrace death a lot more now a days. Parole is so hard to appease. I got a job and actually try to better my life, but one slip up and back to prison I go and lose everything yet again. It's all a catch 22 and fucking gets me thoroughly depressed most days.
The ugly truth that people need to accept is that not every life is worth living. People who isolate themselves do it because they are fully aware that they are the only ones who can understand themselves, the only ones who care about themselves and the only ones who truly know what's best for themselves. It's true that the world doesn't owe you anything, but you don't owe anything to the world either. It's your life, and if you decide that it's not worth continuing, that should be your decision alone. I'm sorry that your neighbor had to live like that, but at the same time I'm happy for him that he finally found peace.
sometimes ones life is more painful than death, death is the only reprieve they can have because life is so unbearable, living in agony till the end of your days is no way to live
My dad killed himself off a 200 ft bridge. He was a Marine vet. I am now a Marine veteran. I go fishing alot but I feel you on the loneliness. I also play video games and walk. Life is weird as a civilian for me.
Where civilian life is going, you might just feel right at home soon. Veterans are becoming an asset to civilians more and more but only the government seems to know that.
I always hate how the “survivors” always blame the victim who was begging for help and felt no other way out yet those same “survivors “ didn’t have the time of day for the victim
Not until after they are gone. Then they are like if I only had known. EVERY suicide I investigated I found DOZENS of warning signs that nobody cared about. I never was cruel and pointed all them out to the people but they are there most people just don't care enough to see or hear or follow through. And they just want to make themselves feel better for not helping the person and leaving them on their own to suffer alone.
@@streamrsm1009 yea they send an obligation text occasionally asking how the guy is doing after making excuses that they cant hang out soon but of course its not polite to respond with a bunch of issues so they just respond -im doing good and thats the end of the conversation
Our nation is going through some dark times right now. Our economy is horrible with inflation and people are just getting nasty. Thankfully I have a few friends. It's rough out there right now.
The economy is actually great right now. 16 million jobs added since Biden took office. Unemployment and inflation way down to 4% or less. Record number of startup businesses. Wages are out pacing inflation. The stock market is at record highs. No recession. No housing market crash. Manufacturing sector is booming. You are delusional.
I was going home yesterday by train and someone jumped in front of the train. I was sad I was thinking what was in mind of that person how cruel life must be for him.
I am sorry about the one that self terminated. I am more concerned about you. Do speak with someone if it is really getting to you. We were driving on the freeway the other day and an 18 wheeler went off the road 10 seconds in front of us. The wreck has just happened because people were pulling over right and left to see if they could get the driver out. All I could do the rest of that day was think about that life. What happened? Did the guy fall asleep? Did the guy dodge a car? It could have even been suicide.
@@svenstefansson4022 I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Believe me I understand. I have been saying this for a while now I merely exist I am not living any more. I recently got a cancer diagnosis and hopefully I will now qualify for MAID otherwise I will have to choose another way to exit stage left.
@@svenstefansson4022 Help other people. Shelters are full of people who can use a clap on the back, a handshake or a hug. Gets your focus off you. I highly recommend it for low moods.🕊️❤️Tee
I always greet my neighbors hello, and a little chit chat. Some don't answer that is fine, but I an there for people who need some one to talk to. Spread live light, and most importantly spread wisdom. A minute of your time can save, and change some ones life for the better. If your reading this and in a struggle. I recommend volunteering at a hospital or at a dog or animal shelter. Helping other will help you see peoples struggle to survive and people that have it worse than you do. Break away from the shyness , and don't be afraid to start comversations with people. Some people may not show interest bevause they have too much on their minds but some people will love to share what is on their mind with you to get your opinion. The person struggling may also help people who seem like they are happy on the out side but do have some struggle going on in their life. 🫶
"You dont need love of a woman bro" "You need to be around other ppl bro" "Just be a servant in 33 trillion dollar monopoly money economy bro" A lot of men are never heard, loved, or valued. The last thing ppl need is the gaslighting
exactly realize how the first thing he mentions is his girlfriend waking him up. many men cant find a girlfriend and dont have any real friends. of course they want to give up, working 9-5 at a crippling job just to come home to nothing. reproducing is the sole reason we are here. its the only way to feel satisfied and accomplished in this life. were here to have a family and reproduce. if women aren’t important elisha should just break up and follow his own advice my ass we dont need women to be satisfied. his ego is too big to look into the mirror hes the same „weak man“ he talks about.
Become aware that having a girl will not solve your problems man. Having sex won't solve them either. Women are just a cope too. There are other highs to be achieved other than the dopamine of a woman, you just have to find out what that thing is that makes you tick
“Chad here, remember to never complain because I didn’t need to. Chad signing out” that’s the video summarised. There’s always someone worse off than you and there’s always someone better, your own perception is therefore the only relevant one.
@@Jesamisus That's just selfish to think that way. A decent man would not cause emotional and financial harm to his family and friends by commiting suicide. If you're alone in your life, go ahead.
@@redgrengrumbholdt2671 more selfish to bring said person into the world for ones own pleasure. To continue their legacy or cuz they couldn't care enough to put on a condom.
Don't you dare make excuses for them. As someone who's attempted twice, it is a disgustingly selfish act. Two things stopped me in those moments; the fear of hell and the horror that I would put my family through, especially my little niece who is closest to me. By saying life is sometimes too much you're telling them to go ahead. Shame on you.
It's usually through his lack of a supposed good and kind woman he desires. Outside is not inside. Start inside boys/men then you won't feel so lonely and needy. "It is not good for man to be alone" GOD SAID I SUGGEST YOU SERIOUSLY THINK ABOUT THAT
My mate drowned himself at the beach about 7 years ago for a girl who replaced him just 6 months later. I am still so angry at him till this day. He was smart, athletic, good looking, funny and a beautiful person- threw his life away for some b!tch. REST IN PEACE BOBBY.
Disgusting. Stuff like this happens to men all the time and it constantly gets swept aside or drowned out by women's experiences. The world's full of bias
@@wasabee8228 His pain and suffering for HER was not valid enough no, because i am still alive to see the residue of his actions, nobody cared at the end, especially the person he thought would- only his family.
I'm 63. When younger, I had many days that I questioned "what is the purpose of going on?". Fortunately, I had a job that allowed me to work as much as I wanted so I became a workaholic, until I got sick of it at 50. I then turned to God and placed my faith in Jesus, that saved my life. I'm glad I avoided turning to drugs/alcohol, that is a sure path to death for many millions.
I went through struggles in my relationship ( marriage) _ started down the road self medicating ( crawled into the bottle) - Before it got too out of hand I recognized it thought to myself. Nope! So I started working-out - mainly running - pretty soon I was running sometimes 8 to 10 miles a day- found it to be my drug of choice, and got me through a tough period in my life.
@@sitka49 Yes, exercise is a great way to maintain our mental/physical health. I exercise for 2 to 5 hours every day, it's great medicine. Glad you were able to escape the clutches of alcohol. Take care.
No matter what you’re going through, just keep the dice rolling man. You don’t have to be strong, weak, rich, poor, smart, or dumb. Just have Gratitude
Everyone that I've known in my life that committed suicide were men, including my grandfather. Thank you for this video. I need to pay attention more. My parents have a neighbor that is always alone, no one comes over, and he's very quiet. Next time i see him outside, i think i'll go say hi.
Yep, suicide statistics skew heavily towards men and a lot of women love to say that it's because testosterone makes them more likely to use more lethal methods like a gun. No. Life is harder for men on average. There is way more responsibility on our shoulders and we have to earn our social capital whereas women get cared for and protected by default.
@@philj9594as a woman who has suicidal ideations, I would agree that yes, on average it’s harder for men. But I hate how people always have to compare the two. Anyone who thinks about committing suicide deserves to be heard. Anyone, man or woman, who has these thoughts or takes action deserves to be heard. It’s not a competition of pain
Yeee! Just make sure it’s somewhat genuine so that he doesn’t feel like he’s being patronized. This could end up being just as bad. Their hyper-receptivity due to limited contact could process the social engagement as being bullied or patronized. I used to think they all need to toughen up but the reality is that after working in social services for 20 years, I have learned that a huge amount of our social communication and feeling is a reflexive endeavor that can sometimes defy the obvious.
@@demillef6845in general yes, we all have our own issues and problems to solve first. But must people hid their issues and but on a brave face and crack, we never really know what’s up because nobody talks about. Yeah we are fucking surprised, upset and concerned after the fact because we don’t expect it.
My cousin seemed like the happiest dude. Made everyone feel like family. Had a wife and two girls. My neighbor was excited about a job interview that he never made it to. Some hide it well.
Not a suicide but 3 years ago I had a friend who drowned in a river accident. My friend group pretty much broke apart after his death. It was like a double whammy loss. Not only did we lose a good friend, no one wanted to hang out again or float the river or play disk golf, it just destroyed the whole vibe. Things can radically change over night. You can't take anything for granted. People change after tragedies. I'm assuming my other friend doesn't want to do those activities anymore because they probably remind him of his brother, that's gotta be really painful.
I would try to form the connection again. Sometimes people just need some time for themselves to process the loss, but hopefully you can come together again and honour his memory!
Had the accident taken your life, would you want your friends to be crippled in their mourning? I doubt it. Friends want the best for friends. I feel like the only way to get past the pain of losing a loved one is to be grateful for the time you had with them and continue to make more memories. Rationalization? Probably a bit. Difficult? Sure. What other choice do you have?
@@jefferytokarsky1930yeah I just lost my Dad end of April.. I HAVE to keep going.. I have to.. it was actually unbearable.. but somehow here I am.. You basically time capsule and keep going but if you stay in that pain and depression too long too deep, it could take you too.. very tough to push through that. I would never disagree
The best advice I can give is stay away from people and get a pet. I'm a 64 male and retired and the only time I leave my house is to pay the rent and get food. Being alone is a lot better then being with somebody that does nothing but puts you down.
"Death is a friend. It will never fail you." I remember this quote from a famous female writer in my country when she was 83 (she died at 93.) For me that's a comforting phrase that keeps me going. When things get unbearable you've got a friend that will be there.
Yea but people ‘fail’ at forcing their own deaths all the time. Often times leading to worse quality of life than beforehand but usually robbed of their ability to make choices like that for themselves again. Worse things in life than death. Also be careful not to romanticize dying. This leads to self sabotage more so than self discipline or discovery which actually improve our circumstances
@@R37ARD3D You can't wage war against death, it always wins. It is precisely because most people fight so hard for their personal lives, ignoring everyone else, that death only becomes bigger
I was in Foster homes growing up and I remember in one of my homes I went outside to kick a football about with another lad from the home and I saw another guy was watching us from his window. Something inside me wanted to shout out "come and play mate" the football came in my direction and my thought process had gone I was just concentrating on kicking this football about. Anyway the next morning early ours that poor lad hanged himself. I was 15 years old then. And to this day it not only haunts me but its mentally disturbed my mind. I'm 44 now and I have a family of my own and a great job and I'm a happy bloke with a massive heart and tons of Empathy for the world. Peace and love to everyone out there including people who are going through difficulties in life 🙏 ✨*BELIEVE *✨
@@keifer7813youd be disturbing everyone around you who loves you severely for your own wants. If you are all alone you are missing opportunities to turn yourself around. You havent tried everything yet.
@@jvlian2020 So it's selfish to end your suffering because it upsets others but it's not selfish of them to continue your suffering by staying alive to make them feel better?
people dont actually care. it really hits home in situations like this and thinking "coulda, woulda, shoulda." but going to people with mental health issues is literally one of the most off putting things for that person, and can instantly can destroy a relationship. people are not as accepting or caring as you would think. i know because i've tried it many times through hard days or hard times. always hurts the relationship negatively and alot of people end up using it against you if things ever go sideways.
The only thing keeping me here is taking care of my elderly mother who has dementia. I can’t desert her. Beyond that, I’m in my mid-30s and see no future for myself. I’m in a shaky relationship with my girlfriend who I can tell longs to be in a different state with her family, so the writing is on the wall. The only joy I used to feel was from feeding people (homemade pizza from a woodfired oven was my passion that I wanted to build a business on), but my desires have vanished. Nothing has brought me joy in recent years and I’ve failed others on bringing joy to them, something I used to have the energy to do. I spend many evenings staring at the ceiling. I’m physically alive but I’m dead inside. I’m only here because I can’t bring myself to put my mom in a care facility and risk a once highly intelligent, compassionate woman be treated like crap by underpaid, overworked and stressed workers. I’ve lost. I’m lost.
Please Stay. I’ve been down and trapped in my head complete misery and seen no way out. All alone but thankfully years have passed and I could have never believed I could be as happy as I am now. Life can change in a day by meeting someone or a crazy unseen opportunity. I truly hurt for others in that place. It hurts so bad every time I hear of someone committing suicide. I truly hope things get better and I hope you don’t go. You are a kind person for looking after your mom and being selfless. We need people a lot more people like you in this world not less.
Bro I really needed this video man, I’m 23 been out of work for damn near 2 years now and been a heroin addict since I was 16, I’m so fkn lonely n tired idek why I clicked on this video but I needed to hear this. God bless u man
Hang in there bro I’ve been there with the H, i know everyone says this and it’s cliche as hell and i, myself, didn’t believe it at all whenever i’d hear it but it seriously really really does get so much better on the others side of withdrawal, like it ofc sucks for a bit and then it’s kinda meh for a while but eventually it seriously really gets great - like sobriety i mean. if i can give any advice i would say try doing whatever exercise you can, even if it’s just like no more than 2 pushups at first just whatever you can, get in the habit of doing that every day then eventually up it to more pushups then eventually add sit-ups and then eventually other stuff too - more important than the quantity of exercise is the regularity and building it up into a daily habit - that helped me a ton bc eventually if u have an addictive personality like i do then you’ll get addicted to the endorphins from exercise which straight up feels like a natural high except it’s good for you obv and also i don’t wanna really heavily push a drug as the solution when the problem is already drugs but i think weed definitely helped me get off the opiates, i never really smoked before but just using that to get thru the withdrawals until my brain started to normalize from the lack of opiates did help. eventually i realized i had started overdoing the weed too and had to cut back on that but i didn’t worry about that until well after the opiate withdrawals were over. as a temporary bridge to go from opiates to no opiates it absolutely helped me, like from bad drug -> not as bad drug -> eventually no drugs, maybe it can help u too Anyway, hang in there friend u can do it!! I believe in you! 🙏😇💯🙏🫡🫶 Just keep it going one day at a time a tiny bit of improvement every day and after a while you’ll look back and go wow i’ve come a long way !
Hi bud. Remember the Bible states that Jesus is always there for you, and He never sleeps. Philippians 4:13. You can do it, brother!❤ i know it is tough. When things get tough, i quote Nemo and say "just keep swimming ".❤ you can do it!!
As a pack of smokes a day smoker for over 30 years, I disagree, I love being alone, but then, I write the songs that make whole world sing! And an expert boat builder who teaches for free, I do miss my ex sometimes, but we ran our course.
@@arsenelupiniii8040Being alone isn't neccesarily synonymous with loneliness. One can have many 'friends' and yet feel completely alone. One can have no friends and yet be completely content in their Solitude. I think we all need at least one or two people in our life that we can turn to though.
Loneliness is a symptom of a Lack Of Self Worth. When one is truly okay with themselves and who they are, loneliness doesn't exist. It's a mindset that I wish everyone who has ever battled depression and/or demons would adopt.
I went to the hospital this Saturday with my suicidal thoughts/depression which I've struggled with for over a decade. It's something that I should have done this a long time ago. To anyone who can relate to these thoughts, I hope you find the strength to reach out for the help needed.
Seek what is above. Aim high. Don’t dwell on your past or regrets. Focus on doing for others instead of yourself. God bless and stay strong. You are here for a reason.
Bruh no one’s killing themselves over a girl. I hate when people over simplify an issue because they feel to see the complexities of life. The reality is, if someone’s killing themselves due to a relationship then the relationship was probably abusive or the person that’s committing suicide probably has a mental illness.
100%.. It's not just over a girl, it's the girl, and the job, and the lack of feeling like you fit in, and the lack of friends, and the feelings of hopelessness or being stuck in place, and the economy, and the lack of any great prospects for the future, and on, and on. C
@@louiemorales6459 hell doesn't exist bro. This is about as worse as you could imagine. A social species of animal not socializing is like ironic if that's how all of us go out 😂
How many of yall truly believe this but go on to have BABIESSSSSSSS... I don't take ya'll serious. If you really felt like this realm was hell, u would not dare release in the aomb of a woman.
I'm exactly like your neighbor. I'm 39, in great shape. I work out, run marathons, live alone in a big house, no friends come over, no women, no nothing. I work a shit job, pay bills, do hard drugs all day. I don't talk to anyone except my dog but it's getting harder and harder and harder. I'm all alone. But good video. It extended my life for another 7 days at least.
How do you do hard drugs and do marathons??? When I do drugs I can hardly do anything else, except when I did 'roids (and that stuff is a killer). But I hear you about the loneliness. It's no joke. But then I also hate what most people value: arrogance, superficial garbage, crudeness, etc. I see a lot of guys who are a$$holes who have rich social lives and I think I'm not half as bad as them but don''t have anyone. But so much is not about your intrinsic value as a human but about IMAGE, about playing the GAME. It's a tough racket and I don't have the mindset for it. I think learning to be alone but not lonely is the best (and only) alternative for some.
@@NN-df7hl I run marathons on LSD. My record was 3:55. Been smoking a pack a day for 20 years. One time I drank a whole bottle of wine, slept for 3 hours then drove 1 hr to run a half marathon. I tried running a half marathon coked out but it ended up being my worst time.
@@NN-df7hl I don't know how I do it. I run marathons on LSD. It makes it less boring. Been smoking a pack a day for 20 years. Ran a half marathon after drinking a bottle of wine, but definitely cannot do a full marathon drunk. I don't know how I do it. Maybe I'm just stupid.
my cousin Brandon took his own life about 3 years ago....for the first year every time i would get drunk and think about it i would just cry , sometimes yell...i was so sad, and angry and pissed off...i would just say to myself over an over " why bro, fucking why?"
@@xFlamingTacos They aren't delusional, just speaking facts - most people don't kill themselves because it's scary and if it fails you will be vegetable for the rest of your life. Fate worse than death, they will force you to stay alive in that state. Most people are too privileged to understand for some life DOES NOT get better.
@@alexandrabellerose3550 or most people are too weak to understand that they have more power than they think to change their situation for the better. For example, if you look at the person’s channel that you’re agreeing with, the dude has silicon fuck dolls that are his companions, these are the type of people who spread the black pill and are lost in the sauce for a long time. Good luck
I don't know you or about your life but those feelings at 21 could be due to something that happened to you in your life earlier. Could be due to childhood trauma and now you're living the effects of what happened to you and struggling in your early adult years. Again, I don't know you but I can only say that at 21 your still incredibly young. Things will get better, believe me. I also couldn't see the light at the end of the tunnel but today I see myself as a survivor. Try watching UA-cam videos from therapists about the things your feeling and experiencing if you can't get therapy. It's normal to feel this way but these feelings of shame can also lie to us and make us feel that we aren't enough. I wish you all the best in your life ❤.
Can i just say that maybe this earth is too cruel that we can just believe that he is in a better place somewhere else. He deserved better than being here
@@nyegye1606as long as you don't view the after life as some kind of snackbar paradise then your only being positive.. we really don't know what happens after, there are some possibilities.
Nowhere in the bible does it state that you're going to hell because of suicide a quick search is all you need. The bible condemns murder and when you commit suicide you murder yourself so it would be considered a sin but that doesn't mean you're going to hell. It all depends on the grace God has for the person @josephl6727
People usually want to help only after the thing happened. But they ignore all the signs and suffering that came before that and don't offer help or friendship or something in the moment when it actually matters.
Yes it seems like couples, no one cares about single people without families in their neighborhood. Like it sounds like he unintentionally didn’t care. If you are single you are always going to them putting yourself out there to befriend them, but at the end of the day, would that even matter. It shouldn’t we have to keep at it for ourselves.
I just listened to a strong, good man with deep empathy and compassion for that neighbor. I'm glad for the internet where people can express their compassion. I heard that "sigh." It spoke volumes... ...of blood, flowing through a good heart.
@@ElishaLongIt's people like you that say this kind of shit that makes people kill themselves you should be ashamed of yourself. You don't know everything like you think you do you're ignorant.
@@ElishaLong wtf is your problem B****? You have no idea how many people starve in apartments to avoid freezing in winter but you still can't afford food. Internet for basic sanity can be afforded easier then food throughout the month. Jobs expect everyone to call or email or to apply online. IF you had experience understanding what is going on you would know this instead of acting like a troll.
Elisha, I’m gonna be honest I suffer from loneliness since middle school, I’m 25 now I live near nyc but work there. seeing people living life socializing hurts me, specially me that I work in the restaurant industry in the city while getting a career, I get to see people and friends socializing from a much closer perspective, it seems having friends, people to hang out with makes life a little better, don’t know if that’s ever gonna change from me but I keep trying hanging in life and looking in getting in shape.
I hear you man, I’m 30 I experienced a lot of the same. If you want more socialization you can get it with initiative, start talking to every person as if they’re your friend and see what happens. That’s my advice
Being lonely sucks man I can relate.try you’re best to reach out to others, sometimes others suffer just like us but taking that initiative can help you and others.
Jesus loves you, no matter what. Having friends is good and great, but I had so many friends in my life and they all come and go. Jesus stays forever brother. There is a saying that a human can only find about 2 real friends in his life, and I absolutely agree with that. Many people call themselves friends, but how many would risk their health to save you? So a personal relationship with Jesus is the best thing you can do, because he got put on the cross for us and because of us. Thats a friend that stays forever 😊
Hey man, I'm kind of in the same boat. Turns out I have ADHD and it makes adulting so much harder than it needs to be. Still figuring this thing out, trying to take care of my body, mind and spirit. Stay strong, and take one step at a time. I currently have zero friends, but this is temporary. Take care of yourself first, and things will slowly but surely fall in place. High Thumos.
Today is the 10 month anniversary of losing my wife to cancer. It hasn't been a year yet but I sympathize and empathize. Life is very empty now. Best wishes to you, Lori.
I feel for you, I know how you feel. I had a great loss and some of what you share is how I feel. I hope u have support from friends and family. Hope u get better!
If its any consolation, I bet you gave him a really good death because he had someone so loving as you by his side. He did not die alone and despaired he died knowing he was loved and loving you. None of us get to choose which one goes first that is just up to God.
Amazing message Elisha. To anyone reading this, he’s right about every word. I’ve been to the depths! Bad mental health, hard times, you name it. If you’re reading this, I promise you, suicide is not the answer! Your life has meaning and the hard times can end. There’s always a way my friend. HIGH THUMOS
I found out who my real friends were when I was diagnosed with cancer. Some embraced my situation and gave me support and some ran away as far as they could. Thanks to God I'm still here.
@@iiCounted-op5jxi feel like this tbh i feel depressed😢 I'm getting bullied my boyfriend knows about it but my boyfriend handling it the harsh way hes yelling and swearing at me on the phone today. 😢😢 He saying his trust getting affected 😢 Im losing him and his trust 😢 Facebook is making me feel depressed and this way. I don't feel good about myself
Sometimes it’s not just loneliness, it’s feeling like you can never live up to the standards of yourself or other people as a man. It truly seems like it’s not okay to be average when by the rule of averages the overwhelming majority of people that have and will exist are average. I think a revolutionary idea is finding beauty in the average bc that’s our stories.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized that’s probably the quintessential Scrooge character, someone who didn’t live up to expectations so they cut everyone out and have an excuse for people to dislike them.
53, marriage breaking down, zero friends. My main achieved goal was losing 20 pounds of fat over the last half year, thankfully. Looking for a local mens group to help others, tired of being self absorbed.
RIP to that gentlemen ! I used to think that I needed a woman in my life to be complete. However, I finally learned to enjoy my own company because I know that I'm complete on my own ! The only thing that I'm struggling with is dealing with past trauma, but I know that God will do his part in my healing process.
In a community connected more than ever people are more lonely and struggling more than ever. People used to be close with their neighbors and knew everyone that lived around them. They Looked out for each other, now people go years living next to someone and never even say a word to them. As people we need to make it to how it used to be again, get to know your neighbors spend time with them. Invite them over for a cookout or to watch a movie, play games or just hangout.
I've been at home nearly the last 3 years, lost my car, lost my job. Looking for work, and well, it's going slowly, but I reach out, call out, talk to people. I used to go to the gym to exercise but also just to see faces. There is so much craziness around, it's almost better to just stay home. Some people get things easy, some of us have to suffer through it. I'm not depressed, but I am tired.
I saved peeps from suicide. Their lives never got better and I apologize to them for saving them. They were right. They knew it would never get better and wanted out. It is us that makes them stay. It's selfish. People who live in pain every day have every right to want to be no more. It is selfish of us to demand they continue to suffer so we won't miss them. Most only want peeps to keep living because they're of use to them, not because they love them. Sorry to anyone I saved. You were right, it never got better only waaaaaaay worse. 😞
Your comment is true in my case. I'm now 54 years old and my life never got better either. I've lost everything_ my children, my husband, my home and worst of all, I've lost the belief that I'll be happy one day.
@@DiamondDoll33 your answer is in Jesus, he can turn your life around like he did mine, then things will change drastically for the better. But you have to invite him in he wont push his way in . Except christ as your savior you wont regret it.
I totally agree with you. A person has every right to remove themselves from this planet without physically harming others. No one has the right to tell someone else to live a life that's unlivable.
I empathize with people who have done no wrongs to others who feel like living is slowly killing them. It's better for someone to take their life than other people's. So many people feel like this world isn't for them and I don't blame them. This world is a living hell.
@@mbatista5891 We're living in a simulation where evil people rule the world and good people are subjected to psychological torture and "depression" (quotation marks around depression because there's a fine line between depression and awareness of the terrible reality we live in), the more aware and the more of a deep thinker you are, the more "depressed" you are going to seem to ignorant people
There are plenty of people out there to hang out with or men to date. Put yourself out there, join clubs with common interests and ask men out. You can find someone.
@@marcK599. dating is not a priority as it seems like it is for men. We value deep bonding in general and to be understood. In relationships as women we don’t necessarily feel understood emotionally nor fulfilled since men are taught not to suppress their emotions. There isn’t a mutual understanding which leaves us feeling very alone in a relationship. What’s the point of it after you go through it many times. We eventually give up on it since no human wants to keep potentially opening their self up to more pain. It’s like taking a chance and entering a room with 1000 snakes but some of them are not poisonous. Also getting cheated on, betrayal is the worst kind of pain to us as well. Then we called emotional and over dramatic just for having these emotions. Making it feel unsafe to be open anymore. Also as a women we go through a lot of manipulation from men just so they can get in our pants. That’s very exhausting, feeling that preying energy all of the time to be used as a object. So the grass isn’t really greener on the other side as you may think. The endless shaming and manipulation has done too much damage to being able to trust now. That a simple get a boyfriend is not the solution when you consider the reality of it.
I hate the term commit suicide! People that take their life’s are not criminals . Commit is use for criminals they commit crimes,murders lMy son took his life he didn’t commit a damn crime .
@@dogoshin9337 real, but also, enough with this depression bs. (unless it's clinical) nobody struggles from depression, we struggle from the horrible reality we live in. nothing more, nothing less.
Rest in peace to that young man and prayers to his family. I’ve been through some dark times myself and your videos and advice helped me and kept me going. I appreciate all you do man.
I had a work friend found dead in his apartment this year. He had some tough young years, that i believe hurt his quality of life. I got to listen to his father give a speech about him. I think looking out for people and being kind are signs of strength. I hope we learn something from these tragedies and help to prevent suicides in the future
I realized recently that for men ... intimacy is a NEED. It's not a want. It's a need just like food, water, and shelter. It's in our DNA and we die inside without it. Unlike women, however, it's up to us to pursue. Love doesn't just fall in our laps. It's something we have to earn. The problem is that ... men are expected to pursue but we're also demonized for doing so. We get told we're creeps, so it's a lose-lose, shitty deal. Admitting that we need intimacy goes against what we were taught as boys, that we are weak for expressing our needs. It's all one big confusing contradiction which is why we choose to bottle it up, isolate and cope with drugs or porn, And then eventually, we kill ourselves. I'm so damn sick of feeling like shit, feeling worthless. We need to fight this is shit, reach out, believe that we matter.
Thank you for sharing this and putting this out there, if you need intimacy I got you❤people are individuals not to be generalized not all people believe you are weak
I feel you. We have to stop trying to pursue and try to connect. We have to see each other as equal beings to do that. Women are tired of having to be grateful for a compliment based on appearance. They want to be seen as a person said hello my name is to. It’s not always going to work but it probably will with a good person that sees you as well and be ready to accept a woman doing the same to you I’m sending that wish your way.
@@Beencouraged777 Would you tell a starving man he doesn't need food? Or a dying man he doesn't need medicine? I could just 'carry on', but what kind of quality of life would that be.
Thats very sad to hear. My thoughts and prayers are for your neighboor. My dad passed away from an illness last year, and i took care of him until his last breath, and i thank God for that opportunity because he was a very lonely man (by choice) and that could have had happened to him. Dying alone is a terrifying thought. I hope he have now found his peace. 🙏
I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real, it's impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me; it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES! "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest" Someone does, a lot more than you think ua-cam.com/video/EXQGTInPpZU/v-deo.html
I am 54. Being alone. That's all I know. Every group and organization doesn't want anything to do with me. My family as well. My 4 ex-wives could only say one thing to me. Shut up. My neighbors and towns plus cities always treated me way worse than dirt. Military is a group thing. Really. I was in the PG war. Truck driver. Doing the majority of my runs by myself. Our planet is cold when it comes to talking to other people. Myself. I really enjoy being alone. I learned how to do everything. A 4 man job only done by myself. No fighting on how it should be done. If something goes wrong. I can only blame myself. I love being alone. It's not more stress. It's 100% less stress. I can go do whatever I want to without someone telling me no. I love it. Thanks everyone. Sad for those who take their own lives. Yet. People always do it to each other. Treating others as they don't exist. Yet. You can extremely learn more without them. Your knowledge and skills go through the roof.
I totally understand. You are right, actually. However, it still sucks to feel how all you have done for society does not mean a damn thing to anybody. That is where suicide comes in. I was a truck driver for ten years. I was rarely home. Nobody gives a shit. Now I just want to be medicated and sleep.
@curtis7599 I used to say. Go stand on a street corner. Town or city. Just stand and look. Try to find anyone who cares. For years. I would put comments of facts. To see if anyone cares or knows the truth. 99.99% of the world population doesn't care and doesn't want or comprehend the facts. There is the public who doesn't care. Then there is. The Elites and their employees that are scared if the public knows the facts and the truth. Again. Public doesn't care. Will never know the truth and facts. Never. Yet. The Elites and their employees are scared they will. That there. A proven fact. Make our planet IQ what?
This is the first video I've ever seen . I've been in a rut for a while now. Isolated and just going nowhere quick. Your words hit me hard. Sometimes we need someone to just not sugar coat shit and tell you how it is. Im very glad I came across your channel. Thank you
As men, we’re conditioned to tough it out. Don’t complain, total confidence. Then once you realize that’s bull, you’re left with years of pain and sometimes don’t know how to cope.
Funny how everyone is suddenly your best friend after you're gone
People are brutally abusive towards each other these days.
Only do people care after the fact.
I don't say that on Eiisha, but it's a general occurrence.
funny how that works huh
@@FresherStartElisha probably felt like he “out alpha’d” his neighbor during his interactions with him. Now he wants to seem like the good person lmao.
@Everysingletimeowitz how'd you get to this conclusion. God forbid a dude get mixed thoughts finding out they're young neighbor just killed himself and been rotting alone in his house
They're just trying to get a free ticket to my VIP afterlife club.
Most men suffer in silence. You never know who is secretly suffering, and many times it's the people you least expect. May he rest in peace
And when we ask for help it's annoying, or whiny, or "dude get a grip, I'm trying to live my life, how about you try and live yours" bro no one truly actualy deep down cares. Everyone wants to just live their own lives, at arms length from even their closest loved one. "God damn, uncle Tim is really acting up. Dude has fucking issues lol, leave me out of it" and then uncle Tim is dead.
So true.
Women too
@@NuttyCookie333 when women suffer they become narcissists
They still exist
I'm 37. Lonely. No wife. No kids and sometimes i just wanna go to sleep and never wake up.
Please do not give up. You keep on the journey and you will see better and even amazing things on the journey.
Maybe consider getting involved in community activities so that way you can meet other males who are trying to make society a better place.
Dear friend, please stay with us and help improve life for those who are not at peace. I want to suggest a new career for you in health care. Keep grinding every day, life is a long battle that you will win if you continue the fight.
I’ll marry you ❤
@@sbaby4572 Alright. Where can I find you lol
I’m on the brink myself. Dealing with homelessness alone, working a job that isn’t paying out, looking at a world that’s left me behind and forgotten me, which never wanted me in the first place. There’s no one to talk to, nowhere to go.
You're a handsome dude. What job are you working?
I feel ya bro. But the last thing I am gonna do is end it, I made it this far and came close a whole bunch of times. I have to see it through now! In 98 i lost the love o my life to car accident, and I tongue fucked my shotgun for a week, before i sold it. Not gonna lie a huge part of me died when Danielle LaFond was killed.
@@arsenelupiniii8040love yourself deeply and kindly bud..She wants you to be happy and enjoy life.
Keep pushing brother, I was suicidal a few years back. Keep at it man and don’t give in to the hate within that you hold to yourself. I’ve been there too.
Find your why find the thing that will get you excited to wake up in the morning and always put yourself first
The way society became I'm afraid suicide rates will only go higher
FK society, do the opposite of society. If society says take a left turn here, you say no we're going straight or turning right. Stop listening to society.
I'm not selling my soul out. I'm not going out cheap way
Higher self deletion rates go hand in hand with civilizational decline. It's to be expected.
Women need to stop treating us men poorly
And will society care?
No!
In 1998, I was 12, my brother 15. January 19th, he committed suicide with a gunshot to the head. I came home from school, and was the first responder to the aftermath at the foot of our dining room table. We had the best childhood, best parents, he was well respected, tons of friends and an impressive athlete in school. To say the entire city was in shock would be an understatement. I was so young, I didnt even fathom the idea that you could end your own life, so I thought he was cleaning the gun and it had a misfire. His shotgun was laying beside him, but he used a revolver. When I learned that he had left a note, my entire world changed that day. He was my only sibling, and we loved each other hard. I have been a recluse for 15 years, living alone, barely going out, but holding my own with a full time job and making solid income. I have been single since 2005, not even dated. I did all that in middle/high school. Never turned to drugs, drink maybe twice a year. Life is crazy man, and I dont allow many people into mine these days.
Why do you willingly isolate yourself? Why not go on a date?
@@ElishaLong Work is high energy, and very loud in a casino. It drains me. I kayak 1-2 times a week, explore new rivers and lakes, and lots of fishing. I have been slowly getting a sweet girl at work into the hobby as well. She bought one a couple months ago and we have been getting out on the water here and there. Only because I vibe with her. She's the first woman I have wanted to bring into my life and hobbies in 15+ years.
What is your job at the casino?
@@RyanLee1986 you just said you were single and havent dated...wtf
why bro commited suicide?
No one with a clean spirit likes this world
Please explain this to me?
@@tiffanygafner9780 this world is too brute and horrible. The extremes at how horrible life can be and how humans can be to each other makes sensitive kind spirited people hate the world. They feel and think of that person suffering as if it were them and it eats at them so much that they don't want to know anything about this world
@@leoburst6 well put
Noone has a clean spirit. We all fall short of Gods glory.
@@dustygatrell-ru7tg You don't get it. some people, because of their sensitive kind hearted parents, genetics and the general culture they were influenced by are much more sympathetic, emotional and deep feeling people than some airhead materialistic dingbat who was probably sadly abused as a child. This has nothing to do with god or his glory, nothing at all.
RIP. Ive seen 5 suicides in the 5 years as a firefighter. All young men. Two of my friends took their lives. Sad af. Still think about them to this day. Dont do it boys. Never give up.
It has become impossible to be sensitive emotional man in this world.
What else is there to do when your life isn’t worth living, a daily humiliation with no end in sight?
Man's search for meaning. Victor frankle
Honestly I can’t blame anyone who chooses to do it. There’s not much to look forward to, and it’s becoming much more of a struggle just to survive let alone live.
How about we make it a world worth staying around for?
At this time, if you tell someone that you are depressed, they will tell you to "go to therapy" as if telling your life story would improve something.
Society pretending to care about "mental health" is another reason for rope.
My oldest son decided to commit suicide. He planned it, for as much as a year ahead. He tried to be no nuisance, gave away his few belongings to others. He had health problems, illegal immigration had made it impossible to have hope of survivable finances. It turns out that a lot of young men, teens to around 27, commit suicide when they feel there is no way to have a decent life...a workable job, a chance to marry and have a family, etc.
Im really for you and your son :(
@robertshrewbury5067 that why we spend so much time tryingto te them about Jesus being able to help them,hes the only one that can.
I feel you with the illegal immigrants thing
I would love to work as a carpenter for a company but the fact is that these companies hire illegals for a lot less money because it’s cheaper than hiring an American
Now I’m kind of forced to go into a career I don’t really like and feel as though I’m going to struggle through school because I have no interest in it, but there is simply no other option for me
I’m one shit day away from it. I’m 28
@@Chuncy566Jesus should have stepped in during my fucked childhood
"Its not always gonna be like this."
25 years of being miserable, this is my life.
You need to move and start fresh.
I agree, go take a risk. Not a deadly risk but a chance to change something up
@@One-way I did, trust me fellas I've tried everything and continue to try anything I can. Nothing will ever really change though.
@@kevinbond8966 don’t give up on YOURSELF brother… there are ways to make a change. SMALL goals can move mountains.
When you hit 25yrs of misery I think that says it all sounds like my life once it’s that consistent for that long sorry to say it but it’s like hopeless this is it, at this point it’s like this is what it is an it won’t get better an it hurts me to be brutally honest
June is Men's Mental Health Awareness Month.
Brothers never be afraid to speak up if you or someone you know is struggling.
ever since our Birth The Living God Jesus is Soo GOOD to us since he Created this Earth🌍!
He healed me From my Incurable Sickness 💯
and he can heal you too!Seeking the Living God Wholeheartedly ❤🙏
and Diligently is soo Powerful! Jesus saved me from Death i could have died many times because of the Devils traps! he is a Good Loving God who came to give his life on the Cross in exchange for our sinful life!!!We MUST Separate ourself from sin to meet God!:100 he is a Holy God!But he LOVES US SOO MUCH he Gave HIS OWN LIFE for us!!Thats Gods Love for you (: Jesus Christ your God and Creator TOOK a BULLET For your life EVEN your BESTFRIEND did not take a Bullet for your life!Don't believe the Devil who is the Ruler over This World
Believe the Words of Jesus who is The Creator of this whole UNIVERSE
and Who is the KING of The Glorious Kingdom of God Heaven
JESUS😍🙏💯
It's also pride month. That's all that anybody cares about.
We don’t need a men’s mental health awareness month, especially not during the same month as pride month. We need equal mental health treatment on all months
this why we need jesus christ!
Others will not be able to help you, committing quit in game is a solution.
Mental health is a problem for those who have it, not for others since they do not experience it nor will they ever know how difficult it is to spend day after day in the shoes of another, there is no scammer or coach who with a few nice words can solve everything.
There is a misconception that people who take their lives appear sad....nope, a lot of people appear happy. Men and women.
Whats the old saying fake it until you make it until you cant make it any more.😢
Especially when they decided on a date to commit suicide….so sad
yea our friend offed himself and we were all shocked because he was the life of the party, he was a total chad with amazing skateboarding skills and massive charisma and we always scratched our heads with the women he was with who were very ratchet, he was dating very way down for his level. he offed himself over a very low value woman.
@rudestbeast4907 so sorry for your loss.
People pleasers, in a way...or good actors. I can't stand people who Force-Mirth constantly. They are such phonies going around saying "smile!" to others all the time and ringing joy-bells no matter whether appropriate or not. They make me cringe.
It’s my birthday today
Every day is the same
I have multiple sclerosis
My family abandoned me
I don’t have any friends
All I have is god
I am ok with that
/hug love you brothers turn 45 today
Happy birthday man. Stay strong. I hope you have a blessed year.
@@ElishaLong I only pray for gods discernment to be a vessel for his will
I appreciate your words and prayers
Happy birthday brother.
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Happy Birthday! Sorry to hear, but there are people who care, just keep grinding towards a goal!
It's the loneliest time to be alive right now. I've been in dark times like that before so I feel for that man. Sucks it turned out the way it did.
Facts.
@claudiocerezo1644 I didn't say it was the hardest time to be alive. We are surrounded by technology that can connect us to anyone in a split second, yet we still lack connection, acceptance, friendship and intamacy. That was my point.
@@thedude8526He didnt say it was the hardest time to be alive either
@@LLANTALOBOTOMIKyou lie
Well, we live under a system that views men as being disposable.
Male self-deletion is basically seen the same way as roadkill by the majority. A minor inconvenience that is unpleasant to look at, but quickly forgotten or dismissed.
I’m alone. I’m struggling. I don’t like it here anymore. My heart is broken.
Awwww hunnie im so sorry your feeling this way..please speak to someone ok.PLEASE DON'T SUFFER IN SILENCE BIGG HUGGS
Hello. I’m sorry you’re struggling. Please reach out to a community you can connect with.
I see you. I understand
Gotta keep your head up. Quit sugar, start working out, take ice baths every morning. Drink more water. Stop alcohol and fast food. Stay off social media and put the phone down. Get a proper sleeping schedule. Join a community or church. Do that for even 3 months and see if your are still suicidal. Guaranteed you'll be thankful you hung on to life. Oh yea and kick the people out of your life that don't value you and your time. God bless you man
Me too.
I lost my best friend of over 20 years to suicide last year. When people say it is because of mental illness, I disagree. I think that's just an easy way for people to justify it. He was the best person I've ever known, incredibly smart with a great job. Would have done anything for anyone. Was ALWAYS nice never not once saw a mean bone in his body. Society's judgment and disrespect can push someone to give up. It's hard to understand why people can't just be kind and respectful instead of being so judgmental and mean. Then laugh and make fun of people for no valid reason. Some people assume they know everything about someone they've barely spent any time with. To me, this constant need to put others down and people gossiping about others is what’s really mental. If someone has harmed others and should be in prison, that's different. But there's no excuse for treating innocent people badly just because of how they look, what they wear, or because someone is different than you. I've seen many suicides in recent years, and society keeps making excuses for it. Just be nice to people-is it really that damn hard!? Stop acting like people have done something terrible to you when they haven't. Imagine how the world probably would have been if everyone was kind to eachother and there wasn't evil, judgemental, and greedy people in the world. Majority of people don't care about anyone or anything but literally theirselves and thats it.
I'm really sorry about your neighbor. No one deserves to feel that way in life. My heart goes out to their family. ❤
"An easy way to justify it."
I put it this way, "simple answers, for simple people."
People are afraid to admit, that life isn’t as good as they think it is
So they didn't leave a note? Sounds like he was bullied or something? That kinda thing can cause mental health problems or issues.
Yeah I wish people could be nicer especially when you work for a lame as courperations who believe "the customers always right" when there screaming at you for no damn reason and if you don't kiss there ass you get fired.. 🙄
It's none there damn business
@@Nuhbuddysconfirmation bias
This is spiritual warfare, demons inside of most people came after that man. He had a light and they wanted to destroy it. Everyone, call on Christ to be saved and to help you navigate in these current times, He is our one and only hope against the wickedness that has increased in these last days. ✝️
A close family friend took his own life last week, leaving behind a 3-year-old son and wife. Hundreds of people attended the funeral. No matter how meaningless you may feel your life is, remember that many people count on you and care about you.
Well, when my father died, no one attended his funeral. I was the only one there and gave a eulogy to myself looking out over the empty chairs.
@@tarichar8 You still cared.
@@tarichar8no matter how many people show up to your party or how many facebook likes you have doesnt make them your friends dont worry about it, me and my mom both agreed that whoever goes out first there wont be a funeral for vultures to try and profit off your vulnerable loved ones, those who care will mourn at their own pace in their own time like you have
@@carnovector6396A funeral is not a party or Facebook likes… it is deeply depressing to have a funeral where nobody shows up except one person.
@@ghostphoto1789trust me when money is involved money people are coming like hawks to the funeral. I rather have 3 people at my funeral that really care about me than 50 people who kinda lived me.
Im a trucker. I mostly live in my truck. Im pretty much alone. I meet people from all over at times. I enjoy loneliness.
I love to isolate to
If you enjoy loneliness then it's actually being alone not being lonely. Enjoying being alone is a gift.
i also enjoy solitude but i have occasional bouts of seeking social interactions which i quickly bury, i cannot fully deny that i am a social creature
@@missbcritiques9209sanctuary with God where we can hear His still, small voice.
Your Introverts then, people who enjoy being alone and having their peace of mind and also being with small amount of friends maybe friends from school, but people who didn’t go through any kind of depression or any other antisocial behavior before find it hard to enjoy being alone, it’s like their now going through what you have already gone through and you might have coped with it and now your resistant to it, but some couldn’t and take the other way
My friends neighbor did the other day as well. We need to lift eachother up as much as possible, bless up bro 🙏🏼
same here
that’s coincidence, not irony. still very sad
I mean if they are old and want to die it's not that sad. Probably life after death so they just dipped out
@@friedboot42 I corrected it 🙏🏼
You spoke more than most and asked how you doing.... We mean it when ask dont be hard on self.
I'm 33 living in a city, just got out of prison. My family basically deserted me. I can't afford to live here. Only advice they give me is just hang in there!!! I been hanging in there, I'm T I R E D. Some people don't want help, just rest.
Tomorrow is a brand new day, brother.
There is no rest in this world brother. Push through! You got this!
@@johnnyboy2411 not in this world I agree. That's why I embrace death a lot more now a days. Parole is so hard to appease. I got a job and actually try to better my life, but one slip up and back to prison I go and lose everything yet again. It's all a catch 22 and fucking gets me thoroughly depressed most days.
I'd check Craig's List for people needing roommates.
Go to a bible believeing church and get Jesus Christ in your life.
The ugly truth that people need to accept is that not every life is worth living. People who isolate themselves do it because they are fully aware that they are the only ones who can understand themselves, the only ones who care about themselves and the only ones who truly know what's best for themselves. It's true that the world doesn't owe you anything, but you don't owe anything to the world either. It's your life, and if you decide that it's not worth continuing, that should be your decision alone. I'm sorry that your neighbor had to live like that, but at the same time I'm happy for him that he finally found peace.
Hate to say it but it’s true
And just how do you know he found peace? Nobody knows
sometimes ones life is more painful than death, death is the only reprieve they can have because life is so unbearable, living in agony till the end of your days is no way to live
My condolences to his family may he rest in peace
My dad killed himself off a 200 ft bridge. He was a Marine vet. I am now a Marine veteran. I go fishing alot but I feel you on the loneliness. I also play video games and walk. Life is weird as a civilian for me.
Thanks for your service I appreciate your time to make sure that our country is safe! 🙏🏿🇺🇸
@@DevistechThank you for protecting us from invisible Weapons of Mass Destruction. I feel so much safer 😊
@@afridgetoofar1818 people like u are not helping.
Where civilian life is going, you might just feel right at home soon.
Veterans are becoming an asset to civilians more and more but only the government seems to know that.
@@afridgetoofar1818 Lmao right. Like going to Vietnam or Iraq to fight a bunch of people that did nothing to you is protecting us 🤦♂️
I always hate how the “survivors” always blame the victim who was begging for help and felt no other way out yet those same “survivors “ didn’t have the time of day for the victim
🙏🙏 yes I know😢
Not until after they are gone. Then they are like if I only had known. EVERY suicide I investigated I found DOZENS of warning signs that nobody cared about. I never was cruel and pointed all them out to the people but they are there most people just don't care enough to see or hear or follow through. And they just want to make themselves feel better for not helping the person and leaving them on their own to suffer alone.
@@streamrsm1009 Most people have their hands full handling their own basket of snakes,sadly.
@@streamrsm1009 yea they send an obligation text occasionally asking how the guy is doing after making excuses that they cant hang out soon but of course its not polite to respond with a bunch of issues so they just respond -im doing good and thats the end of the conversation
That part !!!!
Our nation is going through some dark times right now. Our economy is horrible with inflation and people are just getting nasty. Thankfully I have a few friends. It's rough out there right now.
The economy is actually great right now. 16 million jobs added since Biden took office. Unemployment and inflation way down to 4% or less. Record number of startup businesses. Wages are out pacing inflation. The stock market is at record highs. No recession. No housing market crash. Manufacturing sector is booming. You are delusional.
I have no friends. Wife ran them off.
Not only USA similar in many other nations
Lel.
I rather be alone.
At least I have nothing to lose and you can't have leverage on me.
@@banzaaiiiii- Western nations mostly... Although the Asian countries are going to Sh!t as well... All thanks to modernity.
I was going home yesterday by train and someone jumped in front of the train. I was sad I was thinking what was in mind of that person how cruel life must be for him.
It all disappears at that point. Utter bliss
@@neilmcdougall4927Yes, but the question where do we go? Probably to nothing
Is there a news article on it..what city?
@@thewildcardASMR these things unfortunately happen far too often to be written about in news articles every time.
I am sorry about the one that self terminated. I am more concerned about you. Do speak with someone if it is really getting to you. We were driving on the freeway the other day and an 18 wheeler went off the road 10 seconds in front of us. The wreck has just happened because people were pulling over right and left to see if they could get the driver out. All I could do the rest of that day was think about that life. What happened? Did the guy fall asleep? Did the guy dodge a car? It could have even been suicide.
I'm not living either, just coping with existance for over 7 years now. Basicly an undead.
But its a lie, its not going to get better. We aren't going in circles either, we going down the spiral.
@@svenstefansson4022 I'm sorry you are feeling this way. Believe me I understand. I have been saying this for a while now I merely exist I am not living any more. I recently got a cancer diagnosis and hopefully I will now qualify for MAID otherwise I will have to choose another way to exit stage left.
@@svenstefansson4022 squarely down the spiral.....
Me2
@@svenstefansson4022 Help other people. Shelters are full of people who can use a clap on the back, a handshake or a hug.
Gets your focus off you. I highly recommend it for low moods.🕊️❤️Tee
R.I.P brother, stranger but brother none the less
nah.. stranger
That's the problem neighbors never use to be strangers. Were becoming more and more of a isolated society.
I always greet my neighbors hello, and a little chit chat. Some don't answer that is fine, but I an there for people who need some one to talk to. Spread live light, and most importantly spread wisdom. A minute of your time can save, and change some ones life for the better. If your reading this and in a struggle. I recommend volunteering at a hospital or at a dog or animal shelter. Helping other will help you see peoples struggle to survive and people that have it worse than you do. Break away from the shyness , and don't be afraid to start comversations with people. Some people may not show interest bevause they have too much on their minds but some people will love to share what is on their mind with you to get your opinion. The person struggling may also help people who seem like they are happy on the out side but do have some struggle going on in their life. 🫶
@@sitka49Probably contributing to more depression to begin with.
@@thebestcat9601 hard to trust now days.
"You dont need love of a woman bro"
"You need to be around other ppl bro"
"Just be a servant in 33 trillion dollar monopoly money economy bro"
A lot of men are never heard, loved, or valued.
The last thing ppl need is the gaslighting
exactly realize how the first thing he mentions is his girlfriend waking him up. many men cant find a girlfriend and dont have any real friends. of course they want to give up, working 9-5 at a crippling job just to come home to nothing. reproducing is the sole reason we are here. its the only way to feel satisfied and accomplished in this life. were here to have a family and reproduce. if women aren’t important elisha should just break up and follow his own advice my ass we dont need women to be satisfied. his ego is too big to look into the mirror hes the same „weak man“ he talks about.
Become aware that having a girl will not solve your problems man. Having sex won't solve them either. Women are just a cope too. There are other highs to be achieved other than the dopamine of a woman, you just have to find out what that thing is that makes you tick
@@realityghost-nv7fz
Literally
“Chad here, remember to never complain because I didn’t need to. Chad signing out” that’s the video summarised. There’s always someone worse off than you and there’s always someone better, your own perception is therefore the only relevant one.
@@realityghost-nv7fz accurate take here
" its not going to be like this forever " - im 27 and its been like this since middle school
24 here and same.
same dude 26 here
33 and struggling since 16
42F and I've always felt unhappiness
Yeah, dude is talking out of his ass. Just because he's made doesn't necessarily mean you will too. That's the suck of life.
Shouldn't stigmatize people who comitt suicide, sometimes life is too much
Yes we should. It's not fair to those around you.
@@redgrengrumbholdt2671Those who took their lives owe no one anything.
Different case if they got kids though.
@@Jesamisus That's just selfish to think that way. A decent man would not cause emotional and financial harm to his family and friends by commiting suicide. If you're alone in your life, go ahead.
@@redgrengrumbholdt2671 more selfish to bring said person into the world for ones own pleasure.
To continue their legacy or cuz they couldn't care enough to put on a condom.
Don't you dare make excuses for them. As someone who's attempted twice, it is a disgustingly selfish act. Two things stopped me in those moments; the fear of hell and the horror that I would put my family through, especially my little niece who is closest to me. By saying life is sometimes too much you're telling them to go ahead. Shame on you.
It’s so sad how many men have considered doing the same at multiple points in their lives. Stay strong, stay hopeful brothers.
Every guy friend that I have gotten to know deeply has💁
Why? so that each day gets a little worse than the last?
It's usually through his lack of a supposed good and kind woman he desires.
Outside is not inside.
Start inside boys/men then you won't feel so lonely and needy.
"It is not good for man to be alone"
GOD SAID
I SUGGEST YOU SERIOUSLY THINK ABOUT THAT
I did
COPE
My mate drowned himself at the beach about 7 years ago for a girl who replaced him just 6 months later. I am still so angry at him till this day.
He was smart, athletic, good looking, funny and a beautiful person- threw his life away for some b!tch. REST IN PEACE BOBBY.
What 😢
Disgusting. Stuff like this happens to men all the time and it constantly gets swept aside or drowned out by women's experiences. The world's full of bias
Why in the f are you angry at him for? You are saying his pain and suffering was not valid enough. You’re not a good friend.
@@wasabee8228 His pain and suffering for HER was not valid enough no, because i am still alive to see the residue of his actions, nobody cared at the end, especially the person he thought would- only his family.
@@ramio1983your angry at him, you should be angry at yourself and the girl that replaced him within 6 months, whats wrong with you?
It’s always terrifying when reality strikes you after a dream. Damn near metaphorical.
@@HeyYoSurveyTime with claws and fangs?!?
I'm 63. When younger, I had many days that I questioned "what is the purpose of going on?". Fortunately, I had a job that allowed me to work as much as I wanted so I became a workaholic, until I got sick of it at 50. I then turned to God and placed my faith in Jesus, that saved my life. I'm glad I avoided turning to drugs/alcohol, that is a sure path to death for many millions.
Amen brother!
I went through struggles in my relationship ( marriage) _ started down the road self medicating ( crawled into the bottle) - Before it got too out of hand I recognized it thought to myself. Nope! So I started working-out - mainly running - pretty soon I was running sometimes 8 to 10 miles a day- found it to be my drug of choice, and got me through a tough period in my life.
@@sitka49 Yes, exercise is a great way to maintain our mental/physical health. I exercise for 2 to 5 hours every day, it's great medicine. Glad you were able to escape the clutches of alcohol. Take care.
@@sitka49
That is wisdom. Respect.
Very smart. Deep.
Most people don't seem to care unless it somehow affects their lives, unfortunate but true
the unfortunate cold truth, I tried avoiding it but I can deny no longer, truth is that if you have nothing to offer, nobody cares what happens to you
Yep 💯
@@iiCounted-op5jxI mean why would someone like a random dead person tho ?
My neighbor in my previous residence hung him self. The guy was a retired firemen who suffered an injury to the head in his younger years.
No matter what you’re going through, just keep the dice rolling man. You don’t have to be strong, weak, rich, poor, smart, or dumb. Just have Gratitude
Exactly. There is someone in your exact shoes who got through the darkness and is living/lived a great life. Stay strong.
That and presence for sure
Respect this bro
Try being homeless and telling yourself that
U can literally enjoy life then when to old to walk die yourself and boom easy life
Everyone that I've known in my life that committed suicide were men, including my grandfather. Thank you for this video. I need to pay attention more. My parents have a neighbor that is always alone, no one comes over, and he's very quiet. Next time i see him outside, i think i'll go say hi.
Offer a coffee cake? 🍰
Condolences for your grandpa.
Yep, suicide statistics skew heavily towards men and a lot of women love to say that it's because testosterone makes them more likely to use more lethal methods like a gun. No. Life is harder for men on average. There is way more responsibility on our shoulders and we have to earn our social capital whereas women get cared for and protected by default.
@@philj9594as a woman who has suicidal ideations, I would agree that yes, on average it’s harder for men. But I hate how people always have to compare the two. Anyone who thinks about committing suicide deserves to be heard. Anyone, man or woman, who has these thoughts or takes action deserves to be heard. It’s not a competition of pain
Yeee! Just make sure it’s somewhat genuine so that he doesn’t feel like he’s being patronized. This could end up being just as bad. Their hyper-receptivity due to limited contact could process the social engagement as being bullied or patronized. I used to think they all need to toughen up but the reality is that after working in social services for 20 years, I have learned that a huge amount of our social communication and feeling is a reflexive endeavor that can sometimes defy the obvious.
It's only in retrospect we think about people suffering.
Truest comment Ive ever read.
People are rather self centered so most (generalisation) don't think about others until something bad happens that actually highlights that person.
true empathy is rare.
@@demillef6845in general yes, we all have our own issues and problems to solve first.
But must people hid their issues and but on a brave face and crack, we never really know what’s up because nobody talks about.
Yeah we are fucking surprised, upset and concerned after the fact because we don’t expect it.
My cousin seemed like the happiest dude. Made everyone feel like family. Had a wife and two girls. My neighbor was excited about a job interview that he never made it to. Some hide it well.
Not a suicide but 3 years ago I had a friend who drowned in a river accident. My friend group pretty much broke apart after his death. It was like a double whammy loss. Not only did we lose a good friend, no one wanted to hang out again or float the river or play disk golf, it just destroyed the whole vibe. Things can radically change over night. You can't take anything for granted. People change after tragedies. I'm assuming my other friend doesn't want to do those activities anymore because they probably remind him of his brother, that's gotta be really painful.
I would try to form the connection again. Sometimes people just need some time for themselves to process the loss, but hopefully you can come together again and honour his memory!
@@svenvanderzwaag1012 well said. yes maybe they can become closer friends through this tragedy.
Had the accident taken your life, would you want your friends to be crippled in their mourning? I doubt it. Friends want the best for friends. I feel like the only way to get past the pain of losing a loved one is to be grateful for the time you had with them and continue to make more memories. Rationalization? Probably a bit. Difficult? Sure. What other choice do you have?
Man ... 🕊
@@jefferytokarsky1930yeah I just lost my Dad end of April.. I HAVE to keep going.. I have to.. it was actually unbearable.. but somehow here I am.. You basically time capsule and keep going but if you stay in that pain and depression too long too deep, it could take you too.. very tough to push through that. I would never disagree
When the life battery is empty and you have no charger...
The best advice I can give is stay away from people and get a pet. I'm a 64 male and retired and the only time I leave my house is to pay the rent and get food. Being alone is a lot better then being with somebody that does nothing but puts you down.
"Death is a friend. It will never fail you." I remember this quote from a famous female writer in my country when she was 83 (she died at 93.) For me that's a comforting phrase that keeps me going. When things get unbearable you've got a friend that will be there.
Yea but people ‘fail’ at forcing their own deaths all the time. Often times leading to worse quality of life than beforehand but usually robbed of their ability to make choices like that for themselves again. Worse things in life than death. Also be careful not to romanticize dying. This leads to self sabotage more so than self discipline or discovery which actually improve our circumstances
@@R37ARD3D Yep. Nursing homes are full of 1/2 done unalives. Don't do it!!!
@@R37ARD3D You can't wage war against death, it always wins. It is precisely because most people fight so hard for their personal lives, ignoring everyone else, that death only becomes bigger
I was in Foster homes growing up and I remember in one of my homes I went outside to kick a football about with another lad from the home and I saw another guy was watching us from his window. Something inside me wanted to shout out "come and play mate" the football came in my direction and my thought process had gone I was just concentrating on kicking this football about. Anyway the next morning early ours that poor lad hanged himself. I was 15 years old then. And to this day it not only haunts me but its mentally disturbed my mind. I'm 44 now and I have a family of my own and a great job and I'm a happy bloke with a massive heart and tons of Empathy for the world. Peace and love to everyone out there including people who are going through difficulties in life 🙏 ✨*BELIEVE *✨
"It's selfish to decide to end yourself for yourself. But it's not selfish to fight our wars."-Society
Boo hoo @@supercalifragilistaphobic2146
@@supercalifragilistaphobic2146 Deleting yourself is no more selfish than treating yourself to a nice vacation or a new car
@@keifer7813youd be disturbing everyone around you who loves you severely for your own wants. If you are all alone you are missing opportunities to turn yourself around. You havent tried everything yet.
Its as simple as not killing yourself or fighting their wars. We dont have to live like this
@@jvlian2020 So it's selfish to end your suffering because it upsets others but it's not selfish of them to continue your suffering by staying alive to make them feel better?
people dont actually care. it really hits home in situations like this and thinking "coulda, woulda, shoulda."
but going to people with mental health issues is literally one of the most off putting things for that person, and can instantly can destroy a relationship. people are not as accepting or caring as you would think.
i know because i've tried it many times through hard days or hard times. always hurts the relationship negatively and alot of people end up using it against you if things ever go sideways.
Those people only learn when it's too late to help the person. Some need to be taught the hard way on what happens when someone is treated that way.
The only thing keeping me here is taking care of my elderly mother who has dementia. I can’t desert her. Beyond that, I’m in my mid-30s and see no future for myself. I’m in a shaky relationship with my girlfriend who I can tell longs to be in a different state with her family, so the writing is on the wall. The only joy I used to feel was from feeding people (homemade pizza from a woodfired oven was my passion that I wanted to build a business on), but my desires have vanished. Nothing has brought me joy in recent years and I’ve failed others on bringing joy to them, something I used to have the energy to do. I spend many evenings staring at the ceiling. I’m physically alive but I’m dead inside. I’m only here because I can’t bring myself to put my mom in a care facility and risk a once highly intelligent, compassionate woman be treated like crap by underpaid, overworked and stressed workers. I’ve lost. I’m lost.
Please Stay. I’ve been down and trapped in my head complete misery and seen no way out. All alone but thankfully years have passed and I could have never believed I could be as happy as I am now. Life can change in a day by meeting someone or a crazy unseen opportunity. I truly hurt for others in that place. It hurts so bad every time I hear of someone committing suicide. I truly hope things get better and I hope you don’t go. You are a kind person for looking after your mom and being selfless. We need people a lot more people like you in this world not less.
Bro I really needed this video man, I’m 23 been out of work for damn near 2 years now and been a heroin addict since I was 16, I’m so fkn lonely n tired idek why I clicked on this video but I needed to hear this. God bless u man
What's your next move brother
Keep going, man. I was in a really bad spot once, it CAN get better. Ask God for help, he saved me. I will pray for you, brother.
Hang in there bro I’ve been there with the H, i know everyone says this and it’s cliche as hell and i, myself, didn’t believe it at all whenever i’d hear it but it seriously really really does get so much better on the others side of withdrawal, like it ofc sucks for a bit and then it’s kinda meh for a while but eventually it seriously really gets great - like sobriety i mean.
if i can give any advice i would say try doing whatever exercise you can, even if it’s just like no more than 2 pushups at first just whatever you can, get in the habit of doing that every day then eventually up it to more pushups then eventually add sit-ups and then eventually other stuff too - more important than the quantity of exercise is the regularity and building it up into a daily habit - that helped me a ton bc eventually if u have an addictive personality like i do then you’ll get addicted to the endorphins from exercise which straight up feels like a natural high except it’s good for you obv
and also i don’t wanna really heavily push a drug as the solution when the problem is already drugs but i think weed definitely helped me get off the opiates, i never really smoked before but just using that to get thru the withdrawals until my brain started to normalize from the lack of opiates did help. eventually i realized i had started overdoing the weed too and had to cut back on that but i didn’t worry about that until well after the opiate withdrawals were over. as a temporary bridge to go from opiates to no opiates it absolutely helped me, like from bad drug -> not as bad drug -> eventually no drugs, maybe it can help u too
Anyway, hang in there friend u can do it!! I believe in you! 🙏😇💯🙏🫡🫶 Just keep it going one day at a time a tiny bit of improvement every day and after a while you’ll look back and go wow i’ve come a long way !
Hi bud. Remember the Bible states that Jesus is always there for you, and He never sleeps. Philippians 4:13. You can do it, brother!❤ i know it is tough. When things get tough, i quote Nemo and say "just keep swimming ".❤ you can do it!!
@@dolphinbear661I ask God for help. You know what he replied?
Nothing 😑
Loneliness is worse for your health than smoking a pack of cigarettes a day.
As a pack of smokes a day smoker for over 30 years, I disagree, I love being alone, but then, I write the songs that make whole world sing! And an expert boat builder who teaches for free, I do miss my ex sometimes, but we ran our course.
@@arsenelupiniii8040 if u smoke ofc u will be numb to the worsening effects of sober lonliness, also u dont seem to have standards for yourself
@@IIIISai I never said I was sober.
@@arsenelupiniii8040Being alone isn't neccesarily synonymous with loneliness. One can have many 'friends' and yet feel completely alone. One can have no friends and yet be completely content in their Solitude. I think we all need at least one or two people in our life that we can turn to though.
Loneliness is a symptom of a Lack Of Self Worth.
When one is truly okay with themselves and who they are, loneliness doesn't exist. It's a mindset that I wish everyone who has ever battled depression and/or demons would adopt.
My best friend committed suicide in 2021. RIP Nick Punch
You will not be forgotton homie
I went to the hospital this Saturday with my suicidal thoughts/depression which I've struggled with for over a decade. It's something that I should have done this a long time ago.
To anyone who can relate to these thoughts, I hope you find the strength to reach out for the help needed.
Seek what is above. Aim high. Don’t dwell on your past or regrets. Focus on doing for others instead of yourself. God bless and stay strong. You are here for a reason.
That takes a lot of strength and accountability to do what you did. Be very proud in the fact that you made a decision to keep fighting.
Hope all is well bro
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What was that experience like? If you're willing to share
Ive attempted suicide 3 times in life because employers and women are rotten.
they both r judges of performance
I think the solution is in your hands:
1- become your own boss
2- find yourself a good man.
Write back and let me know how that goes.
Bruh no one’s killing themselves over a girl. I hate when people over simplify an issue because they feel to see the complexities of life. The reality is, if someone’s killing themselves due to a relationship then the relationship was probably abusive or the person that’s committing suicide probably has a mental illness.
100%.. It's not just over a girl, it's the girl, and the job, and the lack of feeling like you fit in, and the lack of friends, and the feelings of hopelessness or being stuck in place, and the economy, and the lack of any great prospects for the future, and on, and on.
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This guy is ignorant asf
The Andrew Tate vibes are actually making me want to kms even more
They in a better place because this is hell
omg it seems like u have a bit bigger brain than 95% of ppl
Hell is much much worse. This is literally nothing compared to hell.
@@louiemorales6459 hell doesn't exist bro. This is about as worse as you could imagine.
A social species of animal not socializing is like ironic if that's how all of us go out 😂
@@DevoidVoidRespect people’s beliefs
How many of yall truly believe this but go on to have BABIESSSSSSSS... I don't take ya'll serious. If you really felt like this realm was hell, u would not dare release in the aomb of a woman.
been dancing with clinical depression for seventeen years, can't see how waking up in hell would help.
😂 I like 420 to much to go to the upper room
@@OldHats432 is higher
U dumb
shroomsies saved my life.
@@OldHatsif you thought that mattered to Jesus you weren’t gonna go as a monk Jesus’s Blood and repentance that’s it
I'm exactly like your neighbor. I'm 39, in great shape. I work out, run marathons, live alone in a big house, no friends come over, no women, no nothing. I work a shit job, pay bills, do hard drugs all day. I don't talk to anyone except my dog but it's getting harder and harder and harder. I'm all alone. But good video. It extended my life for another 7 days at least.
How do you do hard drugs and do marathons??? When I do drugs I can hardly do anything else, except when I did 'roids (and that stuff is a killer). But I hear you about the loneliness. It's no joke. But then I also hate what most people value: arrogance, superficial garbage, crudeness, etc. I see a lot of guys who are a$$holes who have rich social lives and I think I'm not half as bad as them but don''t have anyone. But so much is not about your intrinsic value as a human but about IMAGE, about playing the GAME. It's a tough racket and I don't have the mindset for it. I think learning to be alone but not lonely is the best (and only) alternative for some.
@@NN-df7hl I run marathons on LSD. My record was 3:55. Been smoking a pack a day for 20 years. One time I drank a whole bottle of wine, slept for 3 hours then drove 1 hr to run a half marathon. I tried running a half marathon coked out but it ended up being my worst time.
@@NN-df7hl I don't know how I do it. I run marathons on LSD. It makes it less boring. Been smoking a pack a day for 20 years. Ran a half marathon after drinking a bottle of wine, but definitely cannot do a full marathon drunk. I don't know how I do it. Maybe I'm just stupid.
You want women to be interested in a junkie? Lmao
@@robinly You. Are. Pathetic. But that can change!
my cousin Brandon took his own life about 3 years ago....for the first year every time i would get drunk and think about it i would just cry , sometimes yell...i was so sad, and angry and pissed off...i would just say to myself over an over " why bro, fucking why?"
I assume getting drunk and crying brings him back to life?
@@yudi8204 no, but it made me feel better, and back then i was gonna get drunk whether grieving or not
@@commandingsteel Good for you, maybe.
Don't cry over something you can't change, especially death.
@@yudi8204Maybe, just shut your mouth. It is not your concern whether someone cries over the loss of a loved one.
@@VolleKwark But is it your concern wether I concerned about the guy cries over their loss of loved one?
That's a brave, courageous person. That person is in a great place now by doing something most people are too weak to do.
You are crying out for help, it’s ok man
@@xFlamingTacos They aren't delusional, just speaking facts - most people don't kill themselves because it's scary and if it fails you will be vegetable for the rest of your life. Fate worse than death, they will force you to stay alive in that state.
Most people are too privileged to understand for some life DOES NOT get better.
@@alexandrabellerose3550 or most people are too weak to understand that they have more power than they think to change their situation for the better. For example, if you look at the person’s channel that you’re agreeing with, the dude has silicon fuck dolls that are his companions, these are the type of people who spread the black pill and are lost in the sauce for a long time. Good luck
@@alexandrabellerose3550yup
@@alexandrabellerose3550 True
i’m 21. i attempted to take my own life back in February and everyday since then i wish i could have succeeded.
At 21. Why is life so hard for you?
The choice is up to you friend. I plan on living but for those who choose to leave this ugly world, I can see why bro
I don't know you or about your life but those feelings at 21 could be due to something that happened to you in your life earlier. Could be due to childhood trauma and now you're living the effects of what happened to you and struggling in your early adult years.
Again, I don't know you but I can only say that at 21 your still incredibly young. Things will get better, believe me. I also couldn't see the light at the end of the tunnel but today I see myself as a survivor. Try watching UA-cam videos from therapists about the things your feeling and experiencing if you can't get therapy. It's normal to feel this way but these feelings of shame can also lie to us and make us feel that we aren't enough. I wish you all the best in your life ❤.
He's in a better place now. Unfortunately, there is not always something you can do to fix a problem. It's okay, we all will die someday.
Can i just say that maybe this earth is too cruel that we can just believe that he is in a better place somewhere else. He deserved better than being here
@@S88S55I agree. It was wrong for me to have made the statement as fact. However, I am hopeful it is true
@@nyegye1606as long as you don't view the after life as some kind of snackbar paradise then your only being positive.. we really don't know what happens after, there are some possibilities.
@josephl6727 we're not going with the Bible
Nowhere in the bible does it state that you're going to hell because of suicide a quick search is all you need. The bible condemns murder and when you commit suicide you murder yourself so it would be considered a sin but that doesn't mean you're going to hell. It all depends on the grace God has for the person @josephl6727
People usually want to help only after the thing happened. But they ignore all the signs and suffering that came before that and don't offer help or friendship or something in the moment when it actually matters.
My thoughts exactly
Yup
Yes it seems like couples, no one cares about single people without families in their neighborhood. Like it sounds like he unintentionally didn’t care. If you are single you are always going to them putting yourself out there to befriend them, but at the end of the day, would that even matter. It shouldn’t we have to keep at it for ourselves.
I just listened to a strong, good man with deep empathy and compassion for that neighbor. I'm glad for the internet where people can express their compassion. I heard that "sigh." It spoke volumes...
...of blood, flowing through a good heart.
Let’s be honest, you just feel bad. No one will or does anything.
Currently homeless, no family, no job. Hi I am here in Denver Colorado. Help.
Homeless with Internet access and enough energy to try to start shit online. Go get a job
Hi I’m in Boulder 😊
@@ElishaLong He could be using the internet at the library.
@@ElishaLongIt's people like you that say this kind of shit that makes people kill themselves you should be ashamed of yourself. You don't know everything like you think you do you're ignorant.
@@ElishaLong wtf is your problem B****? You have no idea how many people starve in apartments to avoid freezing in winter but you still can't afford food. Internet for basic sanity can be afforded easier then food throughout the month. Jobs expect everyone to call or email or to apply online. IF you had experience understanding what is going on you would know this instead of acting like a troll.
This hit really hard, there's already not many of us, shouldn't be diminished even further...
You just spoke to my soul man, been needing to hear this for years. Thank you.
Elisha, I’m gonna be honest I suffer from loneliness since middle school, I’m 25 now I live near nyc but work there. seeing people living life socializing hurts me, specially me that I work in the restaurant industry in the city while getting a career, I get to see people and friends socializing from a much closer perspective, it seems having friends, people to hang out with makes life a little better, don’t know if that’s ever gonna change from me but I keep trying hanging in life and looking in getting in shape.
I hear you man, I’m 30 I experienced a lot of the same. If you want more socialization you can get it with initiative, start talking to every person as if they’re your friend and see what happens. That’s my advice
Brother just put yourself out there and make friends. Join a martial arts gym and get involved with clubs and activities. Join a church.
Being lonely sucks man I can relate.try you’re best to reach out to others, sometimes others suffer just like us but taking that initiative can help you and others.
Jesus loves you, no matter what. Having friends is good and great, but I had so many friends in my life and they all come and go. Jesus stays forever brother. There is a saying that a human can only find about 2 real friends in his life, and I absolutely agree with that. Many people call themselves friends, but how many would risk their health to save you? So a personal relationship with Jesus is the best thing you can do, because he got put on the cross for us and because of us. Thats a friend that stays forever 😊
Hey man, I'm kind of in the same boat. Turns out I have ADHD and it makes adulting so much harder than it needs to be. Still figuring this thing out, trying to take care of my body, mind and spirit. Stay strong, and take one step at a time. I currently have zero friends, but this is temporary. Take care of yourself first, and things will slowly but surely fall in place. High Thumos.
We need at least 3000 people to show compassion to one another. Not just 1 people doing everything.
My husband died from Covid in 2020. I want to hide from everyone now. I don't know who I am without him. . Every year the pain gets worse.
Today is the 10 month anniversary of losing my wife to cancer. It hasn't been a year yet but I sympathize and empathize. Life is very empty now. Best wishes to you, Lori.
My condolences
I feel for you, I know how you feel. I had a great loss and some of what you share is how I feel. I hope u have support from friends and family. Hope u get better!
If its any consolation, I bet you gave him a really good death because he had someone so loving as you by his side. He did not die alone and despaired he died knowing he was loved and loving you. None of us get to choose which one goes first that is just up to God.
I’m so sorry to hear that 😔 I’m praying for you Lori
Amazing message Elisha. To anyone reading this, he’s right about every word.
I’ve been to the depths! Bad mental health, hard times, you name it. If you’re reading this, I promise you, suicide is not the answer!
Your life has meaning and the hard times can end. There’s always a way my friend. HIGH THUMOS
Well said brother
I appreciate your videos man
Time is passing is the biggest motivator for me.
Hope you’re doing good bro
I found out who my real friends were when I was diagnosed with cancer. Some embraced my situation and gave me support and some ran away as far as they could. Thanks to God I'm still here.
I pray God will completely remove that cancer from your life in Jesus Name. Have faith and stay strong bc God is real and He heals
how could you possibly still want to be here? this place is hell
@@iiCounted-op5jxi feel like this tbh i feel depressed😢 I'm getting bullied my boyfriend knows about it but my boyfriend handling it the harsh way hes yelling and swearing at me on the phone today. 😢😢 He saying his trust getting affected 😢 Im losing him and his trust 😢 Facebook is making me feel depressed and this way. I don't feel good about myself
Sometimes it’s not just loneliness, it’s feeling like you can never live up to the standards of yourself or other people as a man. It truly seems like it’s not okay to be average when by the rule of averages the overwhelming majority of people that have and will exist are average. I think a revolutionary idea is finding beauty in the average bc that’s our stories.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized that’s probably the quintessential Scrooge character, someone who didn’t live up to expectations so they cut everyone out and have an excuse for people to dislike them.
53, marriage breaking down, zero friends. My main achieved goal was losing 20 pounds of fat over the last half year, thankfully. Looking for a local mens group to help others, tired of being self absorbed.
Rescuing a dog can help, not only does a dog provide amazing companionship but going to dog parks regularly is a great way to meet people.
I really needed to hear this today 😢 I don't know how you showed up on my feed... It was perfect timing. From across the pond 🇮🇸🏴 Thank you.
Hahah and these countries are always on the top PR charts of happines, reality=pills, extremly high cost living, depression, overdoses.
RIP to that gentlemen ! I used to think that I needed a woman in my life to be complete. However, I finally learned to enjoy my own company because I know that I'm complete on my own ! The only thing that I'm struggling with is dealing with past trauma, but I know that God will do his part in my healing process.
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eat steak and eggs exercise..focus on your own goals or create some if u dont have them already
I literally have nothing, broke ,no valuable skills but desperately need a job
Today I got informed that I will not get return offer, it's so sad 😢
Very sad to hear and know so many young people especially man are going through this. I appreciate you taking the time to make this video.
In a community connected more than ever people are more lonely and struggling more than ever. People used to be close with their neighbors and knew everyone that lived around them. They Looked out for each other, now people go years living next to someone and never even say a word to them. As people we need to make it to how it used to be again, get to know your neighbors spend time with them. Invite them over for a cookout or to watch a movie, play games or just hangout.
People are shallow now, cant even made a bold joke or they look at u funny
3 years in my new house appartment and i know only 2 people now, out of like 50 neighbours😂
@@jessepinkman876 yeah
I've been at home nearly the last 3 years, lost my car, lost my job. Looking for work, and well, it's going slowly, but I reach out, call out, talk to people. I used to go to the gym to exercise but also just to see faces. There is so much craziness around, it's almost better to just stay home. Some people get things easy, some of us have to suffer through it. I'm not depressed, but I am tired.
I saved peeps from suicide. Their lives never got better and I apologize to them for saving them. They were right. They knew it would never get better and wanted out. It is us that makes them stay. It's selfish. People who live in pain every day have every right to want to be no more. It is selfish of us to demand they continue to suffer so we won't miss them. Most only want peeps to keep living because they're of use to them, not because they love them. Sorry to anyone I saved. You were right, it never got better only waaaaaaay worse. 😞
Your comment is true in my case. I'm now 54 years old and my life never got better either. I've lost everything_ my children, my husband, my home and worst of all, I've lost the belief that I'll be happy one day.
@@DiamondDoll33 your answer is in Jesus, he can turn your life around like he did mine, then things will change drastically for the better. But you have to invite him in he wont push his way in . Except christ as your savior you wont regret it.
I totally agree with you. A person has every right to remove themselves from this planet without physically harming others. No one has the right to tell someone else to live a life that's unlivable.
most real comment I've ever read in my entire life
@@iiCounted-op5jx Thank you. I can't wait to leave this prison.
The problem is life itself period anyone trying to justify this reality being good is extremely delusional
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People who commit suicide is not stupid.
I empathize with people who have done no wrongs to others who feel like living is slowly killing them. It's better for someone to take their life than other people's.
So many people feel like this world isn't for them and I don't blame them. This world is a living hell.
@@mbatista5891 We're living in a simulation where evil people rule the world and good people are subjected to psychological torture and "depression" (quotation marks around depression because there's a fine line between depression and awareness of the terrible reality we live in), the more aware and the more of a deep thinker you are, the more "depressed" you are going to seem to ignorant people
i agree with you batista
cute pfp awwwwww that's actually so cute
Loneliness is the worst kind of torture for a woman as well. At least it is for me. My burden of life feels unbearable right now.
Take care
I am sorry. I wish we could take a walk in the park.
I’m here.
There are plenty of people out there to hang out with or men to date. Put yourself out there, join clubs with common interests and ask men out. You can find someone.
@@marcK599. dating is not a priority as it seems like it is for men. We value deep bonding in general and to be understood. In relationships as women we don’t necessarily feel understood emotionally nor fulfilled since men are taught not to suppress their emotions. There isn’t a mutual understanding which leaves us feeling very alone in a relationship. What’s the point of it after you go through it many times. We eventually give up on it since no human wants to keep potentially opening their self up to more pain. It’s like taking a chance and entering a room with 1000 snakes but some of them are not poisonous. Also getting cheated on, betrayal is the worst kind of pain to us as well.
Then we called emotional and over dramatic just for having these emotions. Making it feel unsafe to be open anymore. Also as a women we go through a lot of manipulation from men just so they can get in our pants. That’s very exhausting, feeling that preying energy all of the time to be used as a object. So the grass isn’t really greener on the other side as you may think. The endless shaming and manipulation has done too much damage to being able to trust now. That a simple get a boyfriend is not the solution when you consider the reality of it.
@@marcK599. I love how people make it sound so easy to make friends. It's not elementary school anymore, people are vicious and judgemental
I left my family six years ago , went no contact and my dad committed suicide a couple of days ago. My dad was always angry .
I'm sorry about your loss.
Sorry for your loss. But there obviously was a reason for you leaving and you do have a right to keep yourself safe, happy and healthy.
Dad always angry= broke family and loser dad. This why majority of men are not meant to have kids.
If you went no contact because of abuse please don't let them draw you back in with his suicide. Keep them no contact to preserve your mental health.
stay strong
not your fault
you have to survive in order to help others
just the way life goes
I hate the term commit suicide! People that take their life’s are not criminals . Commit is use for criminals they commit crimes,murders lMy son took his life he didn’t commit a damn crime .
Im 24. Ready to leave, I expect the lavish life after this crappy life im living. I have great self esteem, just a terrible life.
Easy for you to sit there and say while not suffering from depression and loneliness.
@@dogoshin9337 real, but also, enough with this depression bs. (unless it's clinical) nobody struggles from depression, we struggle from the horrible reality we live in. nothing more, nothing less.
@@iiCounted-op5jxDoes music sound the same? Food taste the same? Nothing is the same, you are not the same person when depressed.
@@michaela6073 that's clinical depression which can be medicated
My wanting to end my life has nothing to do with human interaction.
Rest in peace to that young man and prayers to his family. I’ve been through some dark times myself and your videos and advice helped me and kept me going. I appreciate all you do man.
I had a work friend found dead in his apartment this year. He had some tough young years, that i believe hurt his quality of life. I got to listen to his father give a speech about him. I think looking out for people and being kind are signs of strength. I hope we learn something from these tragedies and help to prevent suicides in the future
AI, automation, job outsourcing. And it will only get worse. I'm an old guy...the idea of calling it quits becomes more inviting.
I realized recently that for men ... intimacy is a NEED. It's not a want. It's a need just like food, water, and shelter. It's in our DNA and we die inside without it. Unlike women, however, it's up to us to pursue. Love doesn't just fall in our laps. It's something we have to earn. The problem is that ... men are expected to pursue but we're also demonized for doing so. We get told we're creeps, so it's a lose-lose, shitty deal.
Admitting that we need intimacy goes against what we were taught as boys, that we are weak for expressing our needs. It's all one big confusing contradiction which is why we choose to bottle it up, isolate and cope with drugs or porn, And then eventually, we kill ourselves.
I'm so damn sick of feeling like shit, feeling worthless. We need to fight this is shit, reach out, believe that we matter.
That’s a courageous truth.💪🏾
Thank you for sharing this and putting this out there, if you need intimacy I got you❤people are individuals not to be generalized not all people believe you are weak
I feel you. We have to stop trying to pursue and try to connect. We have to see each other as equal beings to do that. Women are tired of having to be grateful for a compliment based on appearance. They want to be seen as a person said hello my name is to. It’s not always going to work but it probably will with a good person that sees you as well and be ready to accept a woman doing the same to you I’m sending that wish your way.
Get out of that mindset of “needing” intimacy. Just carry on.
@@Beencouraged777 Would you tell a starving man he doesn't need food? Or a dying man he doesn't need medicine? I could just 'carry on', but what kind of quality of life would that be.
Thats very sad to hear. My thoughts and prayers are for your neighboor. My dad passed away from an illness last year, and i took care of him until his last breath, and i thank God for that opportunity because he was a very lonely man (by choice) and that could have had happened to him. Dying alone is a terrifying thought. I hope he have now found his peace. 🙏
Im tired and have been crying out. Nobody gives a shit.
I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real, it's impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me; it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES!
"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest"
Someone does, a lot more than you think
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I am 54. Being alone. That's all I know. Every group and organization doesn't want anything to do with me. My family as well. My 4 ex-wives could only say one thing to me. Shut up. My neighbors and towns plus cities always treated me way worse than dirt. Military is a group thing. Really. I was in the PG war. Truck driver. Doing the majority of my runs by myself. Our planet is cold when it comes to talking to other people. Myself. I really enjoy being alone. I learned how to do everything. A 4 man job only done by myself. No fighting on how it should be done. If something goes wrong. I can only blame myself. I love being alone. It's not more stress. It's 100% less stress. I can go do whatever I want to without someone telling me no. I love it. Thanks everyone. Sad for those who take their own lives. Yet. People always do it to each other. Treating others as they don't exist. Yet. You can extremely learn more without them. Your knowledge and skills go through the roof.
Reacher
I totally understand. You are right, actually. However, it still sucks to feel how all you have done for society does not mean a damn thing to anybody. That is where suicide comes in. I was a truck driver for ten years. I was rarely home. Nobody gives a shit. Now I just want to be medicated and sleep.
@curtis7599 I used to say. Go stand on a street corner. Town or city. Just stand and look. Try to find anyone who cares. For years. I would put comments of facts. To see if anyone cares or knows the truth. 99.99% of the world population doesn't care and doesn't want or comprehend the facts. There is the public who doesn't care. Then there is. The Elites and their employees that are scared if the public knows the facts and the truth. Again. Public doesn't care. Will never know the truth and facts. Never. Yet. The Elites and their employees are scared they will. That there. A proven fact. Make our planet IQ what?
This is the first video I've ever seen . I've been in a rut for a while now. Isolated and just going nowhere quick. Your words hit me hard. Sometimes we need someone to just not sugar coat shit and tell you how it is. Im very glad I came across your channel. Thank you
Are you doing better now?
As men, we’re conditioned to tough it out. Don’t complain, total confidence.
Then once you realize that’s bull, you’re left with years of pain and sometimes don’t know how to cope.
Thank you man. This video was so good