HOW I SURVIVED THE TRAIN WRECK: One Year Later | Swoop, Adam McIntyre, Do We Know Them, H3H3

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  • @JoshuaDTV
    @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +550

    Y’all my fingers are cramping from responding to so many of you!!! Your love and outpouring of kindness warms my mushy heart 💙 I’ll continue to respond later tonight after dinner with my lady! Love y’all!!! 🫶🏻

    • @Amanda-sj5sb
      @Amanda-sj5sb Місяць тому +15

      Love this for you Josh. I was around way way back when and seeing you blossom into a happier and healthier person has been amazing. We missed you!

    • @jcflagg6540
      @jcflagg6540 Місяць тому +12

      We all love you brother

    • @Notevenlistening.
      @Notevenlistening. Місяць тому +7

      Hope you're so happy Joshua - you enjoy a bountiful life :0)

    • @mrsannettelee
      @mrsannettelee Місяць тому +14

      I'm gonna say this I don't care what anyone thinks. Because I have been saying this for years. I have been a supporter of yours since the day one Josh. And I've been very vocal about that. I have seen you've been mistreated from the start and I could see what they were doing to you. I remember back at the start telling my family members that I thought what they were doing to you was horrible. I've been waiting for the day for you to come out and tell your story because I knew you did nothing wrong and if there was anything for you to own up to that you would and you did. But you are one of the victims in this whole thing. And that's why you've come out on top and that's why you and Pamela deserve to come out on top. You've worked hard on yourself. You've taken accountability for anything not that you really had anything to take accountability for in my eyes. But at the end of the day I am 100% proud of you. Because I watched you go through all this knowing what you were going through. Congratulations do you want your hard work and congratulations on your amazing relationship with Pamela. She's a keeper that's for sure. Sending all my love from Australia x

    • @jessicaamordulce4746
      @jessicaamordulce4746 Місяць тому +11

      We freaking love you, Josh! And also we love you too, Pamala!

  • @that1chick92
    @that1chick92 Місяць тому +288

    An OG here. Been watching for at least a decade and I am so proud of you! Stay authentic, stay kind and always believe in yourself. And of course, be nice to people.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +17

      I appreciate you 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @JoshuaDTV
    @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +317

    #JusticeForUke 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻

    • @J97736
      @J97736 Місяць тому +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @AMinnie
      @AMinnie Місяць тому +10

      You’re so unserious 😭😭

    • @lavishrw
      @lavishrw Місяць тому +2

      @@JoshuaDTV that uke 😂😂

    • @sweetbabygurl40
      @sweetbabygurl40 Місяць тому +2

      @@JoshuaDTV 😂😂😂🤣

    • @snake.puppet
      @snake.puppet Місяць тому +1

      This is the highlight of my whole week lol 😂

  • @AshlynKShope
    @AshlynKShope Місяць тому +403

    Imagine getting divorced and they ex spreading a hate campaign against you. Imagine having your father leave out of nowhere. Imagine everything you ever believed about love was ripped away! Honestly I can’t imagine it. I’m so glad you got through it josh! And you are so lucky to have Pamela and your mom and your sister and everyone in your life who do care. And thank you swoop and Adam for being a light on the internet that can honestly be a very scary dark place! ❤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +100

      It’s been a tough reality to live in. That’s why alcohol became my primary crutch.
      Those days are over now. Life is still gonna have difficult times, but I can manage them with a lot more strength and wisdom now 🙏🏻💙

    • @CraiginOhioUSA
      @CraiginOhioUSA Місяць тому +4

      Imagine an exhusband taking part in a scam to lie about his ex-wife, with another guy, both of whom intended to ride her career to their own fame and fortune.

    • @JoF999
      @JoF999 Місяць тому +7

      @CraiginOhioUSA well, you obviously know her better than the guy who used to be married to her 🤔

    • @jessicaengel3151
      @jessicaengel3151 Місяць тому +4

      ​@@CraiginOhioUSA please tell us how you personally know her

    • @CraiginOhioUSA
      @CraiginOhioUSA Місяць тому +1

      @@jessicaengel3151 I was just thinking of asking you- Please let all of us know what personal experience you have had with Josh or Adam McIntyre, that gives you complete assurance to convict a woman of crimes, when in reality not even the accusers could concoct enough evidence to even file charges? And yet- you are certain she is guilty. In the United States, we go by this rule: a person is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law....Or are you still wanting to burn witches?

  • @htraveller21
    @htraveller21 Місяць тому +110

    Josh talking about Pamela and getting to grow old with her and how each gray hair is a new experience and memory and blessing has me crying. That’s so beautiful.

    • @aekelly
      @aekelly Місяць тому +1

      It really is. ❤️

    • @sleepypup
      @sleepypup Місяць тому

      AGREED

    • @gracehensel1225
      @gracehensel1225 Місяць тому +2

      Ugh, Josh, you didn’t tell us you’d be breaking into our houses to cut onions! What a beautiful thought

  • @mrscorvo0831
    @mrscorvo0831 Місяць тому +106

    Only halfway through the video, and hearing Swoop had a counselor on site for your interview has me in tears. I have followed you for a long time and I am so happy for you and the life you’ve built after everything ❤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +28

      Her heart was always in the right place

    • @aekelly
      @aekelly Місяць тому +4

      Swoop has so much strength. And it manifests in such compassion. I'm so glad that she helped to give Josh the space to tell his side of things.

    • @MizDBMe
      @MizDBMe Місяць тому +1

      Swoop is an AMAZING young lady. ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. Her heart is kind and loving. The voice that she uses for good and the way she helps , she’s just a great human being. Im glad you had somewhere to go to speak your heart when you needed to. Healing looks good on you Josh. Much love and light.

  • @xSweetlyDementedx
    @xSweetlyDementedx Місяць тому +55

    Actually saw part of this video on Adam's channel so I had to come over to yours, watch the full video, and show some love. Glad your life is back on track and you're healing from your past traumas. You have a beautiful heart, and I'm glad to see this whole debacle didn't change that. Keep your chin up, keep healing, and keep being you. Much love to you and Pamela (and of course Shadow).

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +16

      I appreciate you for coming over here to watch the full thing and Adam for sharing his thoughts on it as well. Thank you so much!

  • @eliddlejoy
    @eliddlejoy Місяць тому +322

    THE INTRO!!! 🤣😂😂❤
    welcome back, josh🥲🫶

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +95

      Took a risk with that … but I’m allowed to have fun too right?

    • @annacampbell6301
      @annacampbell6301 Місяць тому +11

      It was so good and also so good to see a bit of your sense of humor again. Thank you for this video.

    • @allyalmighty
      @allyalmighty Місяць тому +4

      I literally cackled out loud!!

    • @BLuvsDesigns
      @BLuvsDesigns Місяць тому +1

      ​@@JoshuaDTVim here for it❤

    • @aekelly
      @aekelly Місяць тому

      ​@@JoshuaDTVomg it was SO funny!!! 😅

  • @nenalinda9482
    @nenalinda9482 Місяць тому +270

    The ukelele 😂 so funny. I’m so happy that you’re finally back. You should continue making more videos and contents. ❤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +23

      I will! Just gotta be the right thing at the right time 🫶🏻💙🫶🏻

    • @nenalinda9482
      @nenalinda9482 Місяць тому +2

      @@JoshuaDTV 🙌🏼❤️

  • @DanteKS37
    @DanteKS37 Місяць тому +35

    Hey Josh, I first saw you on the Swoop doc. So I have no preconceived notions about who you are. I just loved how genuine you were and started following you on instagram. Loved the video and I’m so glad that you reconnected with the love of your live Pamela. You can see how much you love her by how your face lights up just talking about her. I wish you and her all the joy and happiness in the world.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +7

      She’s truly the best person I know

  • @necem3703
    @necem3703 Місяць тому +61

    I'm so glad you didn't let it eat you alive, Josh. You've always deserved so much better. And I'm so glad you found that in Pamela. And in yourself!! You should be so proud of how far you've come. ❤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +6

      She’s literally the best

  • @jobivuvuvfvi605
    @jobivuvuvfvi605 Місяць тому +29

    I came from Adam's video. Im glad you're healing. I never actually heard any of the negative narratives spread about you. Never watched anyone involved, i just recently started watching adam and swoops channels. I will be watching swoops interview with you after i finish your video. I am so very happy you have your wife and mom, and i hope you continue to thrive in this new chapter of your life.

  • @tiffanychan2303
    @tiffanychan2303 Місяць тому +22

    josh, i had watched "she who shall not be named" when you guys were going through everything, and i remember thinking how odd it was that she seemed to try and erase your presence from her life. i am so happy that you chose to stay on this earth, fight for healing, and share your story. your life is valuable - you are loved! your and pamela's story inspires me to nurture that love with my partner every day. wishing you the best and sending you so much love and healing!

  • @J97736
    @J97736 Місяць тому +202

    WE LOVE PAMELA ❤❤❤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +29

      This comment wins 🎉

    • @Pamelakbutler
      @Pamelakbutler Місяць тому +6

      Thanks

    • @J97736
      @J97736 Місяць тому +2

      @@Pamelakbutler ????

    • @claracruz9466
      @claracruz9466 Місяць тому +2

      Yes we do! Beautiful woman. I wish I had a friend like her in my life! ❤

  • @joelleg8415
    @joelleg8415 Місяць тому +251

    The "train" wreck and the uke and all the subtle burns is si cleverrr

    • @ryanhebertson7457
      @ryanhebertson7457 Місяць тому +3

      Can you explain? I don’t get it.

    • @ElpSmith
      @ElpSmith Місяць тому

      @@ryanhebertson7457 His ex posted an awful video shirking accountability playing a song about a “toxic gossip train” with some mediocre ukulele playing. We don’t talk about his ex anymore because she’s awful but you can YT search that dumb song if you want

  • @OrimaJam
    @OrimaJam Місяць тому +170

    I’m glad you survived josh. You deserve all the love after years of colleen’s terror.❤❤❤❤ johnny trying to ruin your life backfired thanks to Swoop and Adam. I’m glad that your life is peaceful now. Please stay safe

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +64

      For years, I became so used to bad people either getting away with being terrible or being praised for it. Swoop and Adam are the reasons the tides finally changed for my life. I’m forever grateful. 🥹

    • @OrimaJam
      @OrimaJam Місяць тому +16

      @@JoshuaDTVI forgot to thank Pamela, she stuck by your side and cared so much about you and the fact that you and her got back together is so wholesome, you two actually have a good relationship unlike your previous one, Icried honestly.
      Also I was happy that you Adam and Swoop met in person.

  • @daniellerestrepo9504
    @daniellerestrepo9504 Місяць тому +56

    So happy to see your journey of healing. You were abused, Josh. Abuse, no matter what form it takes, changes your brain chemistry. You are doing great and I’m proud of you.
    Also, been watching you since your music videos in your NYC apartment in front of the red door. I’ve always seen your genuine spirit through every version of Joshua.

  • @myahmoo2012
    @myahmoo2012 Місяць тому +17

    This Josh is the best version of Josh we have ever gotten to see! You are truly healing oh so gracefully Josh. Thank you for taking accountability. Thank you for choosing to be the best version of yourself self you can be.

  • @Leelz247
    @Leelz247 Місяць тому +15

    I’m really glad the Swoop documentary worked out for you because I know you had wanted to get your truth out there. I’m so relieved she agreed, because she was committed to the truth and not her own agenda. Most people would have remained silent and hoped for it to blow over but you showed grace and accountability.

  • @AMinnie
    @AMinnie Місяць тому +30

    Wow. I believe I have been watching your videos for 14 years of my life. Never once regretted it. You’ll never understand what you’ve meant to me over the years. I love that I was right about you.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +6

      Wow, thank you🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @feitocomfruta
    @feitocomfruta Місяць тому +38

    I think the important difference in how you handled this and how others did, is that you were already hurt by what came out, knowing you were responsible for your own mistakes, and decided “this is going to be painful, terrifying, and I don’t know which way I’m going to land… but I’m going to take ownership and work through this.” That shows that you are resilient, you have integrity, and you will carry on.
    Each of us, victim or victimizer, in whatever stories you are a part of, have choices to make in order to heal. In my case, as the victim in my own situation, I decided that I don’t need an apology, because I’m not interested in offering that person forgiveness. There will be people that you hurt that feel similarly towards you as I do towards my victimizer, and that is their journey. The only thing you can do is accept it, acknowledge it, and continue to move forward. Recovery is not linear, but it will progress.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +7

      What a powerful statement. Thank you for articulating it all so well 🙏🏻💙🫶🏻

  • @DoraSometimes
    @DoraSometimes Місяць тому +7

    It's vile when someone tries so hard to diminish your light, your joy for life.
    But I'm incredibly happy for you pushing through and literally surviving.
    Don't deny the world your creativity, happiness, loveliness! We're here for you and we welcome you and Pamela back.
    Don't even try to reason with evil, unhappy, narcissistic and egocentric people. You'll always loose beverage good, decent human beings are not on that toxicity level...and thank God they are not!
    Your energy is so positive and calm, just keep it like that and everything will be good.
    Sending you, Pamela and your mum lots of love from Croatia 💙

  • @stephaniegerhart6994
    @stephaniegerhart6994 Місяць тому +7

    Not me crying over you and Pamela’s story because of how beautiful it is… I am beyond proud of the steps you’ve taken to get this far. You’re a beautiful human inside and out, and I’m happy you have Pamela. True love heals, and teaches. You have clearly grown so much, and you genuinely look happy. You deserve it, over and beyond. Be nice to people ❤️

  • @lanaa0000
    @lanaa0000 Місяць тому +12

    The end where you were talking about getting to grow old with Pamela was the most precious thing ever 🥲

  • @samanthawhit07
    @samanthawhit07 Місяць тому +7

    josh i have been watching you for over a decade and one thing that has always remained the same is how genuine you are and how you have always taken accountability. i love seeing how you have grown. i appreciate you for being vulnerable and willing to share the good, the bad and the ugly. thank you for the update. keep doing you ❤

  • @emmabeebe509
    @emmabeebe509 Місяць тому +7

    I’m 24, and have followed your journey since I was 13! Never lost faith in you, I could see your genuine heart always there!❤

  • @BebeQueens1
    @BebeQueens1 Місяць тому +3

    I found you over a decade ago, and your energy was always so powerfully positive. It’s amazing to see you comfortable in front of a camera and happy in your life. Whatever you want to do, chase your bliss. Your story was central to my young teenaged years. I fell off just prior to everything happening, but when I saw the Swoop interview I knew that you were the person I’d always looked up to, at your core. Thank-you for being you.

  • @nikkihernandez4912
    @nikkihernandez4912 Місяць тому +12

    Josh, I have no idea if you’re still reading the comments at this point, but I am so happy that you, Pamela, and Shadow are doing well. I’ve been following your journey throughout all of this and am truly happy to see you come out the other side a new and renewed man. Wishing you and your family all the best ❤

  • @Samantika1983
    @Samantika1983 Місяць тому +13

    Adam Mckentyre is a freaking resilient beast and good for him. His critics are just jealous that he is more mature and authentic they’ll ever be.

    • @jnmks
      @jnmks Місяць тому +2

      mature? his channel is literally all about drama

    • @Samantika1983
      @Samantika1983 Місяць тому +1

      @@jnmks umm and what do you think Ethan’s is about?

    • @jnmks
      @jnmks Місяць тому

      @@Samantika1983 just because ethan "attacked" adam doesn't mean he's still isn't a drama channel
      crying about being a victim yet spending hours editing a video to monetize 🤑

  • @rinrinrainbow4173
    @rinrinrainbow4173 Місяць тому +134

    THE UKULELE I'M YODELLING 😭😭😭😭

  • @CherishingtheChaos
    @CherishingtheChaos Місяць тому +4

    Josh, you have always struck me as an imperfect person who really just tries to get it right as much as possible. I used to love watching your videos and collabs and still love to see you put out a video or two every now and then. I’m happy for your little family and your sobriety. I’m glad SWOOP was able to provide clarity to much of your role in the debacle and that you also were able to leave the interview feeling like you had spoken with a safe person. I was really worried for you when I saw you were being interviewed. You seemed very genuine and like you were trying very hard to make sure you didn’t accidentally (or purposely) shrug of your responsibilities in the situation.
    I’m proud of the person I see when you post your videos and wish you nothing be continued healing and grace in life. ❤

  • @lottycolbeck
    @lottycolbeck Місяць тому +7

    Joshua, it’s so wonderful to see you back on screen. A vulnerable, raw video but so good to see you again. I won’t be the only person to be glad that you’re in a better place, and that you have a fantastic support system around you.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому

      Thank you!! Really feels like a new beginning and launching off point for me.

  • @Edith45671
    @Edith45671 Місяць тому +6

    Hi Josh, I'm usually a silent watcher, and never ever comment on videos. But I have been watching your videos since I was in middle school (I'm currently in graduate school pursuing music!) I've always kept you in my prayers watching everything progress. It fills my heart to see that you are doing well!!! And THANK YOU for being so strong and honestly having such a big heart- that doesn't go unnoticed. Truly you are an inspiration and I hope God continues to bless you.

  • @amyambs87
    @amyambs87 Місяць тому +3

    Have been watching since around 2010, throughout your highs and lows - I'm the same age as you, and although I've never been part of any fandom as such, its felt like I've grown up with you indirectly (I'm getting those grey hairs too, so I know how Pamela feels!)
    I have always rooted for you Josh, as I've always felt you are so genuine and caring, one of life's good eggs. Amidst all the revelations, you acted maturely and stuck your neck on the line to apologise and try and make others feel better, which so many people wouldn't do (and didn't!) You've overcome so much betrayal, manipulation and undeserved attacks on your character in the past 8+ years and I'm so glad to see you've come out on the other side. Wishing you and Pamela nothing but the best in your life together ❤️

  • @llnut4775
    @llnut4775 Місяць тому +19

    Thanks for the check in Josh, I wish you and Pamela peace!

  • @corkycobon1481
    @corkycobon1481 Місяць тому +3

    I commented under your post on Adam's vid but I wanted to comment here as well. First, I hope this finds you hale and hearty. To be able to survive the absolute hell that was the last year for you, in my mind, is an absolute W. To have endured what you did, all while trying to live your own life, must have been extremely difficult. To walk away from it all with the grace you have shown is a credit to you and your journey through healing and recovery and I commend you for it. I wish you nothing more than continued success in all things because you deserve it. I also hope, one day if your are able to, speak upon your recovery journey. I think you could make a major difference by speaking about how recovery looks to you and I think your story could help others who might be struggling themselves. I wish you continued love, laughter and happiness with your wife. She sounds like an incredible woman and you both deserve all the happiness you can handle. Peace be with you.

  • @lauradora3268
    @lauradora3268 Місяць тому +9

    Josh, we hear you and we appreciate what you're trying to do.
    I do miss your music, and would love to see what other creative projects you release in the future. Please know if you wish to share them, there are people who would love to see it.
    Sending love ❤️

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +5

      Working on it! 💙🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @caseyi326
    @caseyi326 Місяць тому +5

    I find your story so inspiring. I’ll be 30 next year and nothing in my life has gone as planned, but your story reminds me that when the “plan” doesn’t work out, something even more beautiful might be waiting. I’d love to read that book by the way!

  • @shannonquinn
    @shannonquinn Місяць тому +4

    Been around for about a decade, and I couldn't possibly be more proud of you and how far you've come. All my love to you, Pamela, and your family. May you all have all the love, happiness, health, and joy this world has to offer. ❤❤❤❤

  • @katelynsyoutube4797
    @katelynsyoutube4797 Місяць тому +96

    Please finish that book and publish!!!

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +30

      Okayyyyyyy ✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼✍🏼

    • @stephaniebonilla6596
      @stephaniebonilla6596 Місяць тому +1

      Yes finish the book!!!

  • @TessMac
    @TessMac Місяць тому +30

    It is SO LOVELY to see you using humor again Josh. Also INCREDIBLY proud that you have been able to take your story & your LIFE BACK.
    You were born to entertain people & bring JOY to those who are needing it.
    The coolest part is now you are able to use YOUR BIGGEST PAINS & help others do the same.
    Healthy & happy Josh is the best one yet 🩶🙏🏻💯
    #JusticeForUke

  • @calliehaynes8845
    @calliehaynes8845 Місяць тому +5

    This is awesome! I’m so glad you posted this. It takes a lot to be as honest and real and truly thankful to those who stuck up for you in the thick of it all. Adam and Swoop are both great creators and I’m so happy you all are on such good terms. Kudos to you Josh!👏🏼👏🏼

  • @alie_smith
    @alie_smith Місяць тому +56

    I'm gonna sob. I'm so incredibly proud of you ❤ p.s. the ukulele bit was perfection and if anyone tries to give you shit for it they can come to me ✊🏻

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +16

      I’ll stand behind you then

  • @heyitsangharad
    @heyitsangharad Місяць тому +17

    I still have 3 more minutes to watch the video, but I wanted to make sure I commented something to let you know a couple of things. 1) I'm very proud of you. Life throws its curveballs and it can be heavy, but I'm really glad you had your family around. You've come a long way since I started watching your videos around 10 years ago. 2) I am sorry about all the pain you have faced from the hands of others and the pain your family has faced too. You guys strive so powerfully though and it's very inspiring to watch. 3) I can relate to you in more ways than one, so you definitely aren't alone in any way. There's a lot still going on for me, but I've started my 2nd year of college now, trying my best. Crazy since I started watching when I was just starting my teenage years and I'm going to be 24 in October. Anyway, I really appreciate you, you are wonderful and I'm so glad you survived the train wreck. You, Pamela, and Shadow are the best ❤️ thank you for everything you've done for us. You are a beautiful soul, worth more than gold, deserving of so much, kind, caring, and just all round a great guy who's come very far. I will always support you and I am always rooting for you and your family ❤️ much love 🫡

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +5

      You know I’ll always have a soft spot in my soul for you. Your comments and messages over the years came at times when I felt no one would ever be kind to me or value my life. Thank you for what you’ve done for me 💙💙💙

  • @ladylazulisystem6766
    @ladylazulisystem6766 Місяць тому +7

    Dropping a subscribe! we only found out about you via the last year stuff (it feels weird calling it a drama but thats the only word that comes to mind) and its been really inspiring to see how you handled taking responsibility for the things you did to contribute to the CB problem but also realizing how much of a survivor you were at the same time. Ive been in toxic relationships before (thankfully i got out of them all) and if your in them long enough you do see things in a very warped way but it also means you can heal your way into a healthy kind person and who you were isnt the real you. We are very happy to you doing well enough to film again! i bet it feels great to reclaim that part of yourself

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +2

      I genuinely appreciate your support and subscription 💙 Nobody’s perfect, but it’s alway better to face our missteps rather than brush them under the rug. Happy to see you here!

  • @rifarahat5118
    @rifarahat5118 Місяць тому +8

    Hey josh! I feel like I kind of owe an apology to you(minus the uke) because for years I had a skewed perception about you and about the things you did due to the false narratives and lies I heard about you online... and i fell for it. But obviously everything has come to light now and I'm so glad that it has! I'm so sorry you had to go through all that but think of yourself as a survivor, as a hero. You endured through it all and came out stronger 💪 🙌

  • @cjbk-unlimited
    @cjbk-unlimited Місяць тому +2

    ❤ I'm glad you and yours are so happy and well these days ❤
    This story was absolutely everywhere at the time. The swoop doc was the first content I had watched a full video of because it was SO organized and thoughtful.
    Having people fully misunderstand you or misrepresent who you are and run with that version is... genuinely life threatening. It's isolating and humiliating - you start to doubt and second guess everything, including whether you should even exist if everyone hates you so much over something you didnt do.
    This made my heart so happy to see on my timeline. You seem like such a genuine person and hearing you talk about loving your support systems around you and your wife was so encouraging to hear.
    Thank you for sharing! Good luck on your journey 😊

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +1

      You have no idea what comments like yours do for the part of me that always felt unseen. Thank you :)

  • @brandonmoore2237
    @brandonmoore2237 Місяць тому +16

    Well done, man. Been watching you for over a decade and have always been proud to support you. I love seeing that you're happy and loving life now. You deserve it. And whatever you decided to do on UA-cam from here--if you decide to do anything at all--I'm happy to support. Keep shining!!

  • @MiniMeags
    @MiniMeags Місяць тому +25

    I’ve never watched you or ukulele monster but I’m an avid Mucker and I’ve watched all his videos since he started calling her out, and after watching everything I was so happy to sit and watch this video and support you. I am so happy you’ve been able to heal from everything and that you have the most beautiful wife. Inside and out.
    I’m really happy for you Josh. 😊
    Keep shining! ✨

  • @yeebler
    @yeebler Місяць тому +4

    i discovered you through the TGT drama, i had never watched "her" and i had never known about any of it. i watched the SWOOP doc because i was her subscriber. i deep dived all of it and i couldn't believe this story. i'm also a recovering alcoholic btw. sober since 23/10/23 ODAAT JFT. God bless Josh i wish you nothing but the best in the future man

  • @dozersmom22
    @dozersmom22 Місяць тому +10

    You’re a good man, Josh. I’m so grateful that you persevered and made it through all the bs that has been thrown your way over the years. You genuinely seem so at peace and content. Wishing all the happiness and love to you and your beautiful Pamela. You’re lucky to have each other. I’m glad you found someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved.

  • @LawNerdAmber
    @LawNerdAmber Місяць тому +88

    Oh Uke. The problem isn't you, you were used. 🤣

  • @YouTubeTeacherRemote
    @YouTubeTeacherRemote Місяць тому +3

    Never think of you living with your family as a negative.
    I have had generational living with uncles, grandmother, great grandmom, parents and siblings. They all made me who I am today.
    One person can tear it down. I was attacked by Vidiq and at almost 2 million subs on a lie. It got back to my job, and I was put on leave and investgated. So I get it.
    The world can be a cruel place and why not be in the comfort and support of your family. That is not just brave for many, but a very mentally and financially responsible decision to make.
    Having the experience of family to support is second to none.
    What one thinks may destroy them, can become their biggest triumph.
    You have the right to make a joke about your own situation to give you the strength back that was drained out of you and use your voice to tell your truth.
    You, Pamela and Shadow are lucky to have each other.
    I am glad you found Swoop.
    #JusticeForUke #TellTheTruth

  • @breannawesolowski
    @breannawesolowski Місяць тому +4

    I have been watching you since 2014 when I was 12 years old and got to meet you when you went on tour. I have been able to grow up with you and now as a 22 year old graduated from college and working full time it makes me so happy to see you living your life with Pamela! Can’t wait to see what the future holds for you and can’t wait to keep growing with you!

  • @bonniebasswade
    @bonniebasswade Місяць тому +2

    Joshua. I’ve been watching you for 36 minutes and 48 seconds and you’re completely right, people are judging you, I am judging you. My judgment of you is that you are a kind hearted individual with incredible strength. You’re so kind that you had the courage to share your story with us, the faceless strangers on the internet. Whether you intended it or not, your story has helped and is helping countless people with countless things in countless ways. You have a strong sense of justice and you are willing to do what’s right even when it’s at the risk of the things you hold dearest. You do it not just to pay the debt of past mistakes but because it’s the right thing to do and that is truely admirable.
    I don’t know you. I’m just another faceless stranger on the internet and good or bad, you shouldn’t take my word as gospel. In the grand scheme of things my words, my opinions of you and my judgement of you don’t matter (that is my honest perception of you, however). It’s nice to be liked but what matters are the people who matter to you.
    I wish you and your loved ones every happiness. I wish you healing, good vibes, comfort.
    And please, take care of yourselves. 🖤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +1

      As a faceless stranger, you sure seem well intentioned and kind hearted. Thank you for such a nuanced and loving comment.

    • @bonniebasswade
      @bonniebasswade 18 днів тому

      @@JoshuaDTV Of course! I'll always do my best to even out the negativity that runs rampant online because I know that there is far more positivity to be shared. 🖤

  • @victoriawynn3825
    @victoriawynn3825 Місяць тому +4

    That last part was such a beautiful love letter to Pamela. As someone who has watched you for over a decade, this version of Josh is my favorite 💗

  • @NannyCam
    @NannyCam Місяць тому +49

    You’re a good man, Joshua Evans. 👏🏻

  • @Bigtennyswife
    @Bigtennyswife Місяць тому +2

    I have loved seeing this resurgence of the Josh that is new and improved (and probably) back to who he was as they guy who mat Pamela years ago as a full adult. Josh you and Pamela are strong people and I love that you have each other to lift up and depend on. The BOTH of you deserve endless happiness in whatever capacity or form that is most healthy for you! I love Pamela in the way that she has almost gardened a precious flower and made him into the garden he truly is. She had all the tools and all she had to do was use them and there is the beautiful soul WE know and appreciate. Im so glad that you are healing, and I'm glad to see you share what you want from that! If youre wondering( I know you arent), yes I cried typing this. Because all this has taught me to care for myself and the people around me that love me! Thank you!

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому

      Don’t cry!!! Your ability to articulate yourself is appreciated here. Hope you’re having a wonderful weekend 💙

  • @lavishrw
    @lavishrw Місяць тому +10

    I just want to say that I am so happy you have the beautiful life you have today. Everyone deserves peace and closure from that awful situation. Especially the former children victims from the one's name I won't speak. Sending love to you all!

  • @Sammawich
    @Sammawich Місяць тому +1

    I'll die on the hill that cringey isn't all bad. It's a moment. Especially if we learn from it. Being positive and keeping yourself going ... That's what's important.

  • @crystalr6461
    @crystalr6461 Місяць тому +3

    The beginning screams 2013 UA-cam and I am here for it. 😂 But seriously, wishing you continued happiness and healing. All the best to you, man.

  • @Hb33_
    @Hb33_ Місяць тому +2

    The intro is the Josh we love and remember!! I am so sorry for everything you have been through, but I’m glad you have Pamela and you’re doing so well. Always here to support. If you ever decide to come back to UA-cam for good - I’ll watch 😊

  • @LadySapheira
    @LadySapheira Місяць тому +4

    Been watching you for 7 years and still here! Proud of you for how you turned your life around and so glad to see you happy!

  • @persephonegibson5587
    @persephonegibson5587 Місяць тому +1

    I’ve been around for 10+ years, and so grateful for your presence in this life! You have a wonderful, peaceful, sweetheart vibe that I appreciate very much. We understand that you’re not here to be back totally, but welcome your presence in our screens in whatever capacity you choose! 💜 also, We love you Pamela! Thank you for taking care of Josh when he couldn’t care for himself 🥰

  • @meganbeattie1010
    @meganbeattie1010 Місяць тому +4

    THE UKE PART MADE MY JAW DROP!!! In all seriousness I am so happy you’re doing well Josh ! You’ve been through so much and your resilience is admirable, the growth and the glow up is amazing ❤

  • @sleepypup
    @sleepypup Місяць тому +1

    You are incredible and resilient and so so genuine. I cannot even put into words how proud I am of you for staying on this plane of existence while experiencing some of the worst mental pain stacked on top of eachother. You are a rock and your wife sounds like the most incredible woman. ❤ Great job doing the work and staying sober. You are awe-inspiring

  • @ginac.6567
    @ginac.6567 Місяць тому +29

    An old school Josh sketch no way! 😂😂 so glad to see that spark back inside you Josh I can tell that your finally feel free!.. I saw a girl talking the other day about how she’s in her mid 30s and if she lives to at least 80, that means she has a whole other lifetime ahead of her except this time she’s an adult for all of it and she knows exactly what she wants and who she wants to be. And I keep thinking about that. But anyways, just wanted to share that and say I’m excited to see what u do from this point on! Feels like a whole new chapter 💙

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +5

      My mind is blown. GREAT perspective 💙🙏🏻💙

  • @NotSarahLee358
    @NotSarahLee358 Місяць тому +2

    I was only introduced to you diring the sh*tstorm of 2023, and i just want to say that you are good vibes. You come off as a very genuine, open, honest person who is in tune with your emotions and thoughts and i absolutely commend you for it! Pamela and Shadow are lucky to have you in their life. doing you and continue to share your kindness and positivity with the world! 😊❤

  • @peapotfairy
    @peapotfairy Місяць тому +16

    I am glad you felt safe and healthy enough to make this video.
    I am only 4 min in but I can't wait to hear your insights.
    I wasnt internetting back in the day so, I never knew anything about you intil seeing SWOOP's video. But I have done a lot of work to overcome my choices from years ago and a lot of introsepction to understand why I made those choices.
    It is more than clear that you have used your time off of the internet to prioritize and focus on getting well. All the best to you, Pamela, Shadow and Uke.
    Now... back to the show

  • @_x_CupCake_x_
    @_x_CupCake_x_ 2 дні тому

    Be you and live the free life you deserve Josh! I’m a Swoop fan and discovered you via her channel. Really respected your honesty and accountability. Wrong or right, your past decisions don’t define who you are. Given the toxic environment you were in, it’s somewhat understandable.Your recent actions demonstrate what a good and kind hearted person you truly are. I wish you all the best for your recovery and future.

  • @ABiteBetterbyEva
    @ABiteBetterbyEva Місяць тому +4

    Hey Josh! I've watched your videos since 2015 when I went through a terrible breakup, they helped me escape my daily life for a couple of minutes every day. You were one of the first UA-camrs I ever subscribed to, so thank you 😊 I'm so happy you're better now, keep being nice to people and au revoir ✌🏻

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for being a part of the ride!!

  • @madeleinereads
    @madeleinereads Місяць тому +1

    Hi Josh! I wish you the best and send you so much continued peace and healing. You deserve that after everything you've been through. I remember watching the Swoop doc. I imagine it probably wasn't easy for you to share your story, but I think so many people, myself included, appreciated you trying to take accountability.

  • @Adri-jn9id
    @Adri-jn9id Місяць тому +11

    Josh, I've been watching your videos since 2013 and I just want you to know that I've been rooting for you since then. I'm glad you're bringing your sense of humor back in this video. Almost all of your videos have made me laugh thease past 11 years! I think you're a funny guy so please never let go of that humor of yours!!!

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +2

      I appreciate that! Joking about this felt SCARYYYYYYYY for some reason. But, that’s just me being afraid of comments from people that don’t have a place in my life and world. Why should they dictate my little choices? UKE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE!!! We need a second interview, this time featuring Uke and not me (cough cough Swoop we need you again!!)

    • @Adri-jn9id
      @Adri-jn9id Місяць тому

      @JoshuaDTV lol I agree, Uke definitely deserves a second chance!! Another thing I wanted to comment on is the part where you talked about moving in with your mom and living there for a few years. I'm sorry people were giving you crap for that! I don't see anything wrong with an adult living with their parent/parents. I think it's an American culture thing where it's looked down on because there's other cultures, like Asain and Hispanic, where people wouldn't think anything of it. It's normal thing for different generations to be living in the same household. Anyway, you're a great son to have been living with your mom, being there to support her during her hard trails and the same goes for your mom! She's a great mom to have let you live with her so she can be there for you. And Pamela is a great wife to be in support of the decision to move in with her MIL and being there for the both of you. You have some great women in your life!

  • @djeniiala
    @djeniiala Місяць тому +2

    Got to sit down and watch the video. Hats off to you Josh! You brave soul! May the light shine on you and yours forervermore

  • @EmilyPlatt-d6t
    @EmilyPlatt-d6t Місяць тому +4

    I admire how you have handled yourself and present yourself truthfully, flaws and all. Lots of UA-camrs would be smart to approach their mistakes with the humility you have. I hope you Pamela, and Shadow continue to find love and happiness with in each other ❤

  • @lassalicatmeow
    @lassalicatmeow Місяць тому +1

    you are such a genuine person. someone who’s hurt and been hurt and seen so many sides of stories unfold.
    i am sorry that evil crept in from below and wrapped its clutches around you during times of vulnerability! i am so so happy to see how well you’ve been doing, how happy you are in this current era with your wife and dog and cozy home together. ❤ you deserve to feel happy too! (everyone affected does, and i really really hope they are as well!)

  • @LifeOfKaiEliF
    @LifeOfKaiEliF Місяць тому +3

    Josh, I’m trying to figure out how to convey this but I have been watching you for a long time. It’s hard to say how long but quite a long time. And I definitely was sad when you had to stop uploading. But since I’ve last gotten to watch your content, so much in my life has changed. A lot of hurt and trauma. Being hurt by people who were supposed to be my best friends, losing a few other friends who have passed away. There has been a lot of grief, both for my friends who have passed away and my friends who hurt me and are no longer a part of my life because of the trauma we all endured. All that to say, there has always been a part of me that misses that time period when I watched your videos, because it was back before I lost these people from my life. Even though some of the people were no good for me, the grief of losing people I had good times with and thought were my “chosen family” is still something I’ve had to deal with. Seeing this video from you and hearing your send off again felt so good. It made me feel like something from that time is still present. And it made it feel present in such a healing way. Like yeah, things are different now but that is because there has been meaningful healing and growth and self-exploration and discovery since that time in my life. Just like things are different with how you approach making videos, because of your growth and healing and etc. I guess what I’m trying to say is your video felt like a great start to a next chapter. I have a completely different life than I had when I watched your videos daily, with completely new people in my life and I am doing well. This one video gave me a piece of that time back but in a super healthy and non-traumatic way. Exactly what I’ve been longing for to deal with my grief of my life at that time. I’m not trying to be dramatic and say you completely took away my grief of that time in my life, but you at least gave me something to smile about. Things are not the same as they were then, but that is for the best, because we are growing and changing and learning and healing…and we can still cherish the good times we had back then, like seeing a new JoshuaDTV video has been uploaded and getting to hear his sign off once more. Wishing you the best Josh. Thank you.

  • @minamesparkletits6714
    @minamesparkletits6714 Місяць тому +1

    Keep on shining, people who become good people could have gone something that made them a dirt bag that they grew from and become a beacon of love self development and hope, and honestly I am a huge third wave feminist and the guys I talk to get genuinely shocked whenever I offer to flay their abusive exes. I hate the fact, that domestic violence with cisgender male victims are seen as a joke or not taken seriously. I wish you luck on your growth and I'm happy to see you back.

  • @carrieshaw8181
    @carrieshaw8181 Місяць тому +9

    I’ve been watching your content since 2011 😳 I love a redemption story! I’m so proud of you and how you’ve turned things around. It’s only up from here!

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +3

      Carrie!!!!! I totally know that name and remember your comments throughout the years! Thank you for being here again!

  • @hv2144
    @hv2144 Місяць тому +1

    Joshua you have gone through so many thing that would completely destroy anyone. You have gone through it with accountability, humility, kindness and authenticity and I cannot tell you how proud of yourself you should be. You deserve all the good things happening to you and I have a feeling there is a lot of good things coming your way. I will be watching what you choose to share and hoping that you and Pamela and Shadow have the best life❤❤

  • @breeandpurple2
    @breeandpurple2 Місяць тому +3

    The truth always comes out. Always have been rooting for pamela,you, and shadow. Pamela, you are a hero❤

  • @Orah
    @Orah Місяць тому +1

    Hi Josh, I was only an occasional viewer back in the day - I didn’t really keep up with YT drama. One of Adam’s videos showed up on my feed & that’s how I found out about the situation. Once I saw the Swoop doc, I was so impressed with how open & genuine you were (and are). I agree with everything you said about Swoop & Adam, they’re both amazing in their own way and I have a huge amount of respect for both of them. I wish nothing but the best for you & your whole family. You absolutely deserve it. I know how it feels when life goes all ‘scorched earth’. It’s a tough road back. I’m so happy that you’re doing well and have no doubt you’ll be successful going forward! 💖

  • @Indiewilson-i1c
    @Indiewilson-i1c Місяць тому +4

    Crazy how this came up on fyp, your energy is so whole again I got emo watching this, I am so so glad you were able to find your actual true love and get back to yourself. You really have a gift of making people fell enlightened and I can't wait to see what fun things are in store for you on this channel, I went through something as well that didn't make me feel seen and after years I finally feel free too. Congratulations on being free, we don't have anything to be ashamed of or scared of anymore, so now it's time to have fun again

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +2

      So sorry you went through a time of darkness. Glad to see you pop up in the comments here. Appreciate you 💙

  • @kcallamajaji
    @kcallamajaji Місяць тому +2

    Got introduced to you from Heart/Arnold/Julien and Jenna back in the day. Kept following you and CB through the years but only at a surface level. I always thought something was off when you two split but never knew how bad it was. After the Swoop stuff came out, I stopped watching CB all together and was heartbroken even more for you Josh. I'm so glad you have a loving, supportive partner in life now and are doing so much better.

  • @michellejacksier5308
    @michellejacksier5308 Місяць тому +5

    I’m grateful for the update!
    I started watching you during the Sara era. I don’t know when that was; safe to say it’s been a while.
    It’s great to see you thrive. I’ve always been team Josh. I’m also older than many of your fans from back in the day and wasn’t really in the drama.
    I’m a big fan of Pamela’s. She’s incredibly gifted and creative. I also really enjoy Tym’s work and follow his various projects.
    So thank you for the music you’ve brought into my life.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому

      I absolutely remember your screen name and profile image. Thank you for showing my little tribe so much love!

  • @caraelizabeth7073
    @caraelizabeth7073 Місяць тому +1

    I just have to say I’m so proud of you Josh. I’m so happy that you found someone that is truly able to help you be with you and love you mind-body and soul like Pamela does. I think as a video suggestion like you said on sobriety I think whenever you came out with your sobriety video, I commented saying I was about a year, maybe coming up onto two years sober. I don’t remember, but it is always nice to get someone else’s perspective on their journey of sobriety. I think it would help a lot of people.

  • @soph219
    @soph219 Місяць тому +38

    You’re incredible for speaking up and taking control of the narrative. You deserve a peaceful life and I applaud you for your courage

  • @Lavenderica
    @Lavenderica Місяць тому +1

    Appreciate your honesty, humility, integrity and sincerity. After everything you’ve been through, your story could have ended very differently. It gives me an immense amount of hope for the world that you have found peace and healing. ❤

  • @JulieAnnPowell
    @JulieAnnPowell Місяць тому +3

    Nice to see your face again, Josh! I haven't kept up with everything that was posted about the craziness, I saw some of it and basically just said "sounds about right" and moved on. I felt like I was the only human that saw that you weren't being treated very well back in the day. Every video I watched, it seemed there were always instances where you were either being made fun of, treated like a bother or completely ignored and I hated to see it, I knew that there was a facade being shown to the world and another reality happening behind it. My daughter, who was 7 at the time, actually brought to my attention that so and so was "really rude" to you. I was sad the relationship ended only because you were sad. Was delighted to see you in your sister's videos, happy when you and Pamela got together and happier still that she seems to have been a rock for you through so many rough times. I've followed the story you've shared with us all this time and so happy you're at a good place. I'm glad you have found vindication through all this more recent craziness and I hope that it has/will help you moving forward to more realize your worth!

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +2

      You and your daughter seem like my kinda people. Sending you love, light, and high tops. 💙🙏🏻

  • @brittanysmusic1649
    @brittanysmusic1649 Місяць тому +1

    I have been watching you since I was 12 and now I’m 22 and I’ve never stopped supporting you and I will continue to support you I’m so proud of how far you’ve come and how much you’ve grown ❤

  • @tateylove
    @tateylove Місяць тому +6

    Yes friend. This year is the year of SO many truths coming to light. Small scale and large scale. Your words on IG and here are proof that you’re aligned with that good energy that’s unfolding. Team truth! Team light! Team love! 🙏

  • @erikaredfield9061
    @erikaredfield9061 Місяць тому +2

    This is beautiful Josh, and as a fellow recovering alcoholic I really related to a lot of what you said. Ive been watching your vids since 2014 and when I started isolating it felt like UA-camrs became like my actual friends so I kind of feel like you've been by my side throughout the decade of spiralling alcoholism. I'm almost a year sober now and happier and healthier than ever. It is confusing and complicated adjusting to a normal world, I never realized til recently that the first about 30 years of life I was just walking around as a shell because after being molested for a few years as a toddler I just thought I had to pretend everything was okay and put on a happy face my whole life, and eventually couldnt do that without alcohol so drinking problem it became. Its amazing how much better life actually is without all the problems the drinking brought lol.
    Congrats on your sobriety buddy, Wish you the best, and if the ambition happens to strike for sobriety vids or even just like a check-in or what you to do stay sober, I'm sure the sober community would love to hear it, and you might just be the push someone needs to make the decision to get help. 😊
    Be where your feet are. ❣️🐧

    • @twosugarscream
      @twosugarscream Місяць тому

      Congrats on your sobriety! ❤❤🎉 Coming up on a year this month myself.

  • @m27d42
    @m27d42 Місяць тому +3

    Oh my god Joshua!!! This made me laugh, cry sad tears and happy tears for you!! Your such a sweet man with a kind heart and didn't deserve any of this! I know first hand how the trauma people can cause stays with you and affects you in many ways, for so long. My heart could burst with happiness for you for coming back to UA-cam, taking another piece of your happiness back. Superb video with absolutely beautiful words from a genuinely beautiful man. Sending huge amounts of love to you, welcome back lovely 😘💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +1

      There was a really dark season where I wasn’t as kind or pleasant in how I approached this topic, but that’s the whole human experience ya know? Happy to be where I am these days 🫶🏻

  • @mattisonhamblin1201
    @mattisonhamblin1201 Місяць тому +1

    Seeing that outro come back hit really hard. All the heart eyes for Pamela! A great partner changes everything. I’m so glad you found your family and your healing ❤️

  • @wideride8320
    @wideride8320 Місяць тому +3

    I never heard of you until the Swoop doc. I appreciate you being so open and candid.

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому

      Swoop is doing the real work!

  • @mirandaallen954
    @mirandaallen954 Місяць тому +1

    Been following you for at least 11 years. . . Having the power and courage to stand up in that interview for what you dealt with hurt my soul for you. . . I’m so proud of who you’ve become and I hope you and Pamela and shadow are living y’all’s best lives. . . I didn’t know there was even an interview bc I stopped watching “that family” immediately. I watched it last night after I saw this video. Kudos to you for everything. . .

  • @TheRich324
    @TheRich324 Місяць тому +5

    From a stranger on the internet I just wanted to tell you haw proud I am of you.

  • @preranapsarma
    @preranapsarma Місяць тому +2

    I’ve been watching you since at least 2012, and have been Facebook “friends” with you since at least 2013. For the most part, I’ve silently liked your social media posts and tweets, maybe leaving a comment here and there over the years, but it’s been heartwarming to see you find happiness after everything that was done to you. I can relate to a lot of your mental health struggles, even if not for the same reasons, and you finding your light again gives me hope. Stay happy ❤

    • @JoshuaDTV
      @JoshuaDTV  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for being a part of the journey my friend. Truly.

  • @nubiaflores547
    @nubiaflores547 Місяць тому +7

    I watched you since about 8 years ago. I always felt your authenticity and that’s why I continue to see your videos.

  • @meghna617
    @meghna617 Місяць тому

    So happy you're back Josh!! Been watching since 2014, and I'll always be grateful to you for the advice you gave me in the comments of a video from 2020 about toxic relationships, because of which I felt empowered to do what was right and back myself!! Never looked back and now, after a lot of healing, I'm in one of the most beautiful relationships with a loving partner. Love and kindness always wins :)