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  • @emforsyth2100
    @emforsyth2100 Рік тому +57

    I just had to put my bunny to sleep last Saturday after months battling illness. He was my best little buddy who was there for me through so much. Keeping busy is also what’s helped me in this time of grief. I’m so sorry about nugget chandler. No words can ever explain how much our pets mean to us, but I really am so sorry 🥺💗

  • @lozziehumphreys
    @lozziehumphreys Рік тому +41

    Sending you so much love. Pets leave pawprints on our hearts than never fade 🐾

  • @evildoesnotsleep-x2b
    @evildoesnotsleep-x2b Рік тому +8

    I liked the Bodyguard so much, it's a fun take on the trope where the protection agent is the woman. Plus, it was so funny in the dialogue and has more than romance

  • @Dramione24
    @Dramione24 Рік тому +33

    There are no words that describe the loss of a family member. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Thanks for posting anyways, it is nice seeing you :) I think we all really cared about him too, watching your videos or instagram posts with him in them. We are all gonna miss him :'( Sending you lots of love and strength 🤍
    Ps. Don't worry about the sponsored content! Get your coins girl! We love you~

  • @angelinepieterse7103
    @angelinepieterse7103 Рік тому +1

    I'm so so sorry for your loss. ❣️❣️❣️We lost our family dog Bella two years ago and I miss her every day.🤗🤗 Sending you loads of love 💕💕💕

  • @jaimecardona92
    @jaimecardona92 Рік тому +13

    Good luck as you continue to work through your grief. All the best

  • @erinzummo
    @erinzummo Рік тому +5

    Sorry for you loss, and don't worry about having more sponsorships! Honestly I love to see sponsors cause I know how much it can mean to creators and how much it helps you guys

  • @whitneywest3538
    @whitneywest3538 Рік тому +12

    My best friend lost her pet bf after seventeen years and I didn’t think we’d ever get her out back together. I didn’t understand it on her level until I finally had a cat I rescued and fell in love with. It cuts so much deeper than I ever expected. I hope your heart heals as best it can and as quick as it can. ❤️

  • @queenkitty89
    @queenkitty89 Рік тому +16

    Thank you for posting this

  • @Anna_the_Bibliophile
    @Anna_the_Bibliophile Рік тому +5

    I recently lost my beloved cat in July to lymphoma. He passed pretty suddenly and I’m still grieving. I am so sorry for your loss and sending you lots of love in this devastating time. Please take all the time you need to grieve.

    • @chandlerainsley
      @chandlerainsley  Рік тому +3

      i am so so sorry for your loss. sending you some love right back

  • @megsummerfield2513
    @megsummerfield2513 Рік тому +6

    Hey Chandler,
    As someone who lost her best friend (Mabel the cat) and my partner lost his best friend in the same summer (Cooper the dog), I just give you a hug. Know we get it, and and you will always know the love of your lovely Nugget. The quiet moments are hard, and if it's anything like me, reading was also quite hard for a bit, I couldn't get out of my head for a while. It does hurt less over time, but those memories will always be there. Just after three months after losing my Mabel, we are off to pick up a lovely new addition to the family in a week. Again, hugs, and take care of yourself.

  • @ffiontill5924
    @ffiontill5924 Рік тому +9

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending so much love to you, Hayden and your other little fur babies. I hope they’re okay. Just remind yourself that you gave nugget the best life you could have and he loved you❤

  • @alliewithbooks
    @alliewithbooks Рік тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. A loss like this is so difficult. When I lost my dog a couple of years ago I went to class in tears for a while. Take care of yourself as much as possible 💕💕

  • @valerieholmes9409
    @valerieholmes9409 Рік тому +1

    I am very sorry for your loss. I met 2 of my childhood best friends when we were 3 and the other when we were 11. I lost the first 2 when we were 32, I am 57, and there are still days when I miss Tanya and Alita so much. I am so grateful to have loved them and to have been loved by them. You are in my thoughts and prayers as you journey through the process of grief.

  • @frongsi536
    @frongsi536 Рік тому +1

    Wishing you much strength as you go through this grief. Lots of love

  • @jenhasaplan
    @jenhasaplan Рік тому +3

    it’s so nice to see your face here, even as you’re grieving. we will all be here, regardless of how much or how little you post during the process. sending all the love to your family 🤍

  • @claryy8
    @claryy8 Рік тому +1

    Sending you lots of love 🤍 take all the time you need to work through your grief & to heal 🤍

  • @Chelsea2023K
    @Chelsea2023K Рік тому +11

    Grief sucks. My Grandma died this year and it was the worst pain I have ever felt but I got through it and you will too. If you need to take breaks we will all still be here. It’s still nice to see you in a video. Sending love as you work through this hard time ❤

    • @dstodd
      @dstodd Рік тому +1

      i just lost my grandma two weeks ago n when you said it was the worst pain you ever felt i wholeheartedly understood that. sometimes it feels like i’ll never get past it but it’s nice to know someone out there gets what i’m going through and i wish you nothing but peace and happiness.

    • @Chelsea2023K
      @Chelsea2023K Рік тому

      @@dstodd ❤️❤️❤️

  • @brunabarenco
    @brunabarenco Рік тому +1

    sorry for your loss! i lost one of my dogs this year, she was rescued by me and my mim, and such a beautiful soul. losing a pet is always hard.
    about sea of ruin, i think the darkest scenes happens after the 60% mark, so if the beginning sounds dark, its nothing compared to what comes next - i have a high toleration for dark themes, but this book did make me close it sometimes bc it was a little too much. overall i enjoyed it though

  • @FourPawsandaBook
    @FourPawsandaBook Рік тому +1

    Sending you so much love! Losing a pet is so hard, especially when they’ve been with us for so long.

  • @toribrookss
    @toribrookss Рік тому +1

    sending you so much love during this time & always ❤

  • @millymollymrst3537
    @millymollymrst3537 Рік тому +1

    I am so so sorry to hear of your loss.❤

  • @lmf221
    @lmf221 Рік тому +4

    When I lost my 13 year old pup a few years ago I was a mess and I still miss her every day. Our pets are our family and our emotional support place when the rest of life literally blows so losing such an integral part of our day to day happiness is a pain the world likes to underestimate. You were an amazing mom to nugget and are an amazing mom to all of your precious fur-babies. You were blessed to have each other and his life was full of love and comfort thanks to you. It doesn't take away the pain of loss, but it helps to cherish the lessons he taught you and the love you all shared. I wish you and your family healing through this time of grief and transition.

  • @sharonperezserrano8736
    @sharonperezserrano8736 Рік тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss, just thinking about it breaks my heart. Also, I'm very excited about the upcoming videos and the sponsored content doesn't bother me. I think it's great that they want to work with you.🥰

  • @alyrica0505
    @alyrica0505 Рік тому +2

    💔 I am so sorry for your loss. I am still grieving the loss of my fur baby too so I can relate.

  • @masqueradechick
    @masqueradechick Рік тому +1

    Oh my gosh I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @wiktoriabadora1243
    @wiktoriabadora1243 Рік тому +1

    lots of love Chandler!

  • @kartik3719
    @kartik3719 Рік тому +2

    Sending you all the love in the world ❤❤

  • @bebella9005
    @bebella9005 Рік тому +1

    Take all the sponsors you want/need, babe! Get that coin! I’m really curious to hear your thoughts on the secret history, cause I didn’t expect you to like it at all 😂
    I’m really sorry for your loss, and I’m sending you love, peace and strength in this time of grief ❤

  • @maddyrivera6943
    @maddyrivera6943 Рік тому +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss! It can be so hard! I’m happy to hear you’re doing at least a little better💜
    I just read heated rivalry by Rachel Reid and saw that you read and rated it highly but I noticed you hadn’t read the sequel that came out recently for that couple The Long Game and it so so good! So if you’re looking for a well written smutty sequel highly recommend

  • @whitneywest3538
    @whitneywest3538 Рік тому +1

    I’m gonna tell on myself here. I watch a lot of UA-cam and more specifically BookTube so I fast forward in those 10 second increments a lot or I’d never be able to do anything else. I’ll also say, I talk fast. I’ve always spoken fast but learned who I need to slow down for in my life. But people who repeat themselves or pause or use umm.. I’m fast forwarding those videos because I’m not missing anything. If I skip ahead for you, I’m potentially going to miss an entire book in 10 seconds. Absolutely zero shade with this comment. It’s impressive how quickly you speak and I never notice you stumbling over a word or words or thought. Rapid fire, all day. ❤️

  • @najeebah1406
    @najeebah1406 Рік тому +1

    Chandler, thanks for doing this at such a difficult time. We appreciate you and I hope you are feeling better. I started Fling and the brothers aspect was actually unimaginable for me. Like what is happening with these grown men? It was way too much. I haven’t finished this book. It’s unclear if I will.❤️

  • @ashleyxnicol
    @ashleyxnicol Рік тому +1

    lots of love 💗

  • @markatlasauthor6969
    @markatlasauthor6969 Рік тому +1

    Another Brilliant critique. My sympathies.

  • @moodyfloral6234
    @moodyfloral6234 Рік тому +5

    So happy to see your face! ❤ Sendings hugs to you and your family. Also, I’m really excited to hear your thoughts on The Secret History, I just read it last week for the first time as well. For a smile, I can totally recommend the audiobook to Rosaline Palmer Takes the Cake by Alexis Hall. It leans more women’s fiction, but there still is a lot of romance in it. It’s about a single mom who enters into the Great British Bake Off. It is hilarious, the narrator is really fun (and does a lot of British dialects) and I really appreciated that it has a bisexual heroine. 😊

  • @sophiac4724
    @sophiac4724 Рік тому +1

    here for you❤

  • @isalvacaoclaro
    @isalvacaoclaro Рік тому +1

    Yes. I also liked Love on the Brain so much, more that the LH no doubt 😍 Also, sending you a big hug ❤️

  • @JayGTheAwkwardBookworm
    @JayGTheAwkwardBookworm Рік тому +1

    Sending you lots of love 🖤

  • @aliciapeacock7148
    @aliciapeacock7148 Рік тому +1

    Just saw this and I am sorry for your loss. Anyone who has had their heart captured by a pet knows the suffering you experiencing. You provided the best life and love possible. Doesn't make it easier but hopefully a little better. ♥ 🐈

  • @kaitreads
    @kaitreads Рік тому +1

    sending hugs as always :) wishing you the best

  • @addicted2naps206
    @addicted2naps206 Рік тому +1

    *orders love on the brain* you got me

  • @AlexiaM
    @AlexiaM Рік тому +1

    Sending love girly ❤️

  • @shelleyfrank6909
    @shelleyfrank6909 Рік тому

    I need you to read The Undertaking of Hart and Mercy. It's like You've Got Mail in a funeral home, with some zombies. It's spicy, sweet, and all of the characters, even the secondary and tertiary ones, are really well drawn and fleshed out. I loved it and cannot stop recommending it. It's kind of Enemies to Lovers, but probably closer to what Love On the Brain sounds like.

  • @emmyrose77
    @emmyrose77 Рік тому +1

    my baby kitty thomas o'malley went over the rainbow bridge a couple wks ago. it was very sudden. sending all the love & hugs💘💘.

  • @muddywatersbookshelf7758
    @muddywatersbookshelf7758 Рік тому +1

    So sorry for your loss….

  • @kennedyparrish9092
    @kennedyparrish9092 Рік тому +1

    Sorry to hear what you're going through Chandler! Do things at your own pace and sending big love!💗
    Would love to hear your thoughts on Unexpected by Grace Turner if you ever get to it on KU

  • @dollycatlin5077
    @dollycatlin5077 Рік тому

    I just found you. What genre of books do you usually review and what do you usually like most?

  • @C4r1y1996
    @C4r1y1996 Рік тому +1

    The man on Mercy by Sara Cate looks like his head was photoshopped on 😂 I have Love on the Brain coming on my BOTM this month. Loved The Bodyguard!!! Sending you support and strength 💕

  • @aslgg254
    @aslgg254 Рік тому +1

    love u

  • @israa.6375
    @israa.6375 Рік тому +3

    girl, even if you decided to take more sponsorships to buy overpriced christmas themed decorations, we would support you bc it’d your decision. i just don’t want you to feel as though you have to justify your incomes, like you deserve to make the money you want to, and not just need to!

  • @thebestiebooksleeve
    @thebestiebooksleeve Рік тому +1

    Hi love! Since I know you need some happy books and smiles please read The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches. It will warm your heart. Sending all my love to you right now! 💛💛💛💛

  • @sarahweese
    @sarahweese Рік тому +1

    If you haven’t read/listened to Thank You For Listening by Julia Whelan, I highly recommend that one for a smile! One of my favorite audiobooks this year, for sure! ❤

    • @chandlerainsley
      @chandlerainsley  Рік тому

      i have a copy, i need to listen in october for sure

  • @theahegwood
    @theahegwood Рік тому

    Chandler pleaseee try my Oxford year by Julia whelan! It’s my favorite romance of all time and it’s a easy read

  • @chocolateoreo6489
    @chocolateoreo6489 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @bookedonafeeling
    @bookedonafeeling Рік тому +1

    So so sorry for your loss, that is heartbreaking. ☹
    I just finished the second book in the Salacious Players Club (Eyes On Me), and I'm curious about your thoughts on it... in which of your videos do you talk about that one?

    • @chandlerainsley
      @chandlerainsley  Рік тому

      hi i talk about it here: ua-cam.com/video/M2xmjk0GEBs/v-deo.html

  • @briannaostendorf4179
    @briannaostendorf4179 Рік тому +1

    I’ve been waiting to hear what you think about Sea of Ruin. I thought I was the only one that didn’t like it. The on page assaults is through the whole book and it took away from the romance for sure.

  • @bailee912
    @bailee912 Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shaymackay4443
    @shaymackay4443 Рік тому +1

    What does DNF mean?

  • @pardonthisbookaddict
    @pardonthisbookaddict Рік тому +1

    I stopped reading after Eyes on Me. It was too familial for me.

  • @aurorabalkanis
    @aurorabalkanis Рік тому +2

    Chandler, I'm very sorry for your loss. I personally didn't like cats until I fell in love with a scruffy little stinker my parents had rescued from freezing to death. He made me not only fall in love with him, but with cats in general. Unfortunately, he passed away almost two years ago, and the pain is still too real. I hope you will heal with time; I'm sure you've given him an amazing life and made him very happy ❤‍🩹

  • @-autumnfeelings
    @-autumnfeelings Рік тому +2

    I honestly didn't like The American Roommate Experiment so far. I stopped reading at the moment but don't want to dnf because I hate dnfing. Those characters just have no chemistry so far and barely interact with anyone else so far which is so tiring

  • @allisonedwards9949
    @allisonedwards9949 Рік тому +2

    finally someone who agrees that elena armas’ characters are way too immature! i found catalina so unbearable and child-like.

    • @-autumnfeelings
      @-autumnfeelings Рік тому

      Agreed. I didn't read The Spanish Love Deception but I started TARE and I dont like Rosie much

  • @inmyreadingera
    @inmyreadingera Рік тому +1

    here for ALL the content, sponsored or otherwise. do what you have to and i hope you’re healing journey is getting easier, though i can’t imagine it is having experienced this same pain🫶🏼