ARE MEN IN GHANA DISHONEST ??? The External PRESSURES of a single woman!!!!

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    Akosua Tiana is a Mental Health advocate and has an NGO based in Ghana called Talk2Tiana foundation. She is on a mission to end the stigma that is attached to mental health in Africa.
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    Miss Vanessa Jackson-Cofie is a multi-award-winning Interior Architect and designer, with an extensive background in contemporary design, a keen eye for design, style, and Lifestyle. With training disciplines in Fine art, product design, interior design, and interior architecture, her work and achievements come highly recommended. Also known as one of the UK's ambassadors for women in construction and the founder/director of Jackson and co-designs. Jackson and Co are a Multi Award-Winning, British, and Ghanaian heritage Interior Architecture and Design firm, established in 2016. We accommodate our clients' every need and consider ourselves a full house service, this makes it possible for our clients, who often are based Internationally to use our services based in London. For many years, we have designed spaces on an international scale, with a creative and professional approach. From the initial strategy roundtable session to laying down the rug on your new floors, we provide clients with expert guidance throughout the entire design process.
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    Ivy Prosper is a Media Professional with experience as a TV Host, Producer, Writer, and Public Speaker. She is the author of the book, ‘Your Essential Guide on Moving to Ghana’ available in two editions on Amazon. Ivy has been monumental in helping to shape the narrative of Africa through her social media platforms which include her UA-cam Channel where she shares stories from Ghana. She is also the Social Media Manager for the Year of Return and Beyond the Return initiatives under the Ghana Tourism Authority. Her work has influenced thousands of people to make the decision to travel or relocate to Ghana and other parts of Africa.
    She’s an advocate for the empowerment of women and girls and has been a Keynote Speaker since 2004, having delivered powerful motivational talks to thousands of youth on issues of self-esteem, body image, confidence, and career goals.
    Her experience in Canada, the United States, and Ghana empower her when communicating to diverse audiences. Born in Ghana, Ivy spent most of her life living in Canada and a short period in the U.S. while studying radio and television broadcasting. The 3 beautiful women shared their transition journey on DIASPORA TRANSITIONS. The Ups, the Downs in migrating to Ghana.. They shared their dating experiences in Ghana and how MOST MEN IN GHANA ARE DISHONEST ??? The External PRESSURES of a single woman!!!! enjoy
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  • @ODANANETWORK
    @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +1

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  • @hilo25
    @hilo25 2 роки тому +62

    When people say"overhyped' it's because you don't get the whole story . I just spent 3 months in Ghana..and I was not prepared for the level of FRUSTRATIONS that can come from some simple things like a landlord telling you your apartment is ready..you go check it out and it's ' oh..this one small Job..we I'll finish in a week'!🙄. The Whole picture would be beneficial for people who truly want to come

    • @agnesstokes1078
      @agnesstokes1078 2 роки тому +1

      This was interesting to see young women discussing pros and cons of Ghana

    • @nancydc9422
      @nancydc9422 2 роки тому +1

      I really enjoyed these ladies

    • @roynique5218
      @roynique5218 6 місяців тому

      It’s a different country.
      We can’t get all together at once.
      Even the state’s struggles on a lot of things.
      Patience is what works here.
      If it’s hard just stay with what you used to
      Not trying to be mean.
      Just a relaxing advice for your frustrations.

  • @eboephilli77
    @eboephilli77 2 роки тому +10

    I love the Canadian lady in orange head wrap! She is so relatable. All these women are beautiful and wish them the best!!🙏❤

    • @williamgamelisenaya793
      @williamgamelisenaya793 Рік тому

      She's cute & knowledgeable & interesting.
      Infact all the ladies are Soo cute.
      Nuff respect.

  • @dayne9559
    @dayne9559 2 роки тому +41

    This was a wonderful conversation. I wish there was a part 2. I would love if you could also do an episode with Ghanaian men to hear their perspectives.

  • @asantewaa391
    @asantewaa391 2 роки тому +37

    I really enjoyed the conversation, lots of laughs, they were all relaxed. Wishing them all well. It is very difficult to network in Ghana, especially if you did not go to a secondafy/ high school in Ghana, because the old school network is very tight. It will be well.

  • @agyeiwaaokodie9198
    @agyeiwaaokodie9198 2 роки тому +32

    This is a conversation that needs to continue. The main point is that the narrative in our culture needs to shift. Evolution is imperative.

  • @redgoldgreen9960
    @redgoldgreen9960 2 роки тому +31

    Hello from Wisconsin avenue DC. I really enjoyed this conversation. Denta, my mom is a GHANAIN from ABURI and Dad from Montego Bay Jamaica, I've been in Ghana for 9 times. I am also building 64 bedroom apartments in ABURI MOUNTAINS for rent. All of you are very smart and beautiful ladies and I'm proud of all of you. Please ty to bring men onboard and listen to their side of the same story because this is very interesting. I am 38 year old single guy Akosua is very cuul, I wish I can get her contact🇬🇭🇯🇲🌍

  • @biniyamwhite3015
    @biniyamwhite3015 2 роки тому +38

    Ivy Prosper was such a delight to listen to. Such a great conversation overall. Thank you for sharing!

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +2

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @davidkodua8898
      @davidkodua8898 2 роки тому +1

      She's is nice and very well spoken. Has the experience about moving to Ghana

  • @py20
    @py20 2 роки тому +53

    Who are these men toying with the hearts of our dear sisters, and what makes them behave this way? Is it prolonged adolescence syndrome or sheer selfishness? Ladies, I'm glad you expressed the hope of finding the right men. Be assured, those men still exist, and I pray you all find them and go on to enjoy fruitful, enduring relationships. Thanks for a great conversion.

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching

    • @TEEJAY-ej5xt
      @TEEJAY-ej5xt 2 роки тому +1

      Preach on. We are all over the place,they just need to locate us#goodmenarestilloutthere

    • @py20
      @py20 2 роки тому +3

      @@TEEJAY-ej5xt LOL - how about you locating one and sweeping her off her feet by your mature, purposeful, romantic and serious pursuit?

    • @Ghanadiaries
      @Ghanadiaries 2 роки тому +2

      @@TEEJAY-ej5xt When they finally locate you, you'll mess up,lol. The good ones are usually annoying so if you don't have patience teaching them or telling them what you want, then the Italian in me, will say auguri 😜😜😜😂😂😂

    • @TEEJAY-ej5xt
      @TEEJAY-ej5xt 2 роки тому

      @@py20 I already did and we are happily living together with three beautiful daughters

  • @keishahart8439
    @keishahart8439 2 роки тому +7

    So proud to see my sisters do their thing! Keep up the good work. I want to make the move to Africa eventually. After graduating from college in '06 I wasn't sure how I cld use my education in America, and felt lost in the sauce. I make a decent living here, but I think I could do more on the continent. I won't feel complete until I make that move. You girls look so happy!
    Love from Atlanta, GA 🇺🇸 .

  • @irenefunn4261
    @irenefunn4261 2 роки тому +20

    ladies I really enjoyed the conversation, I'm a black American grandmother, great-grandmother. You black women Rock. I wish you all love and peace

  • @aminaaminat8378
    @aminaaminat8378 2 роки тому +14

    Spot on heartfelt conversation between mature and beautiful women, and I not only thoroughly enjoy it, but I also loved and respected the genuine honesty shared by all of the sisters. Definitely related to each of the sisters contentions and experiences. As a natively born Black American woman, I too, experienced the expectations of cultural familial womanhood. The similarities were soooo glaring and REAL! Thank you DNA African sisters for sharing! Dinta, I love your show, your beauty is lovely, and your personality is awesome! Each time I watch your channel, I learn soo much and always find myself smiling and laughing throughout and at the ending of each showcase. Thank you and muchhhh success to you!!! Eager to see more shows from your channel! ❤️🖤💚

  • @abrahamniilartey6492
    @abrahamniilartey6492 2 роки тому +14

    Please Dentaa, have u had an episode with returnee men and their dating experience yet??

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +4

      Yes.. please stay tuned.. more to come

  • @godie9184
    @godie9184 2 роки тому +8

    The standards some ladies set for themselves makes it difficult for them to settle with a man........I think some ladies just dnt take their time to get to know men nowadays.......Great Conversation....Thumbs up!!!

  • @ansesta606
    @ansesta606 2 роки тому +18

    This video is Worth watching, all the ladies were real...you made my day.

  • @AmaAmowah
    @AmaAmowah 2 роки тому +7

    Odana, this is fantastic! I love your straight- forwardness Ivy! Ladies, do not drop your guard for loose men. You’ll be blessed with the right man if you pray, seek& wait

  • @madetocapture6243
    @madetocapture6243 2 роки тому +13

    OMG I loved the energy! You ladies are so real. I felt like I was there!

  • @donnbiggie
    @donnbiggie 2 роки тому +4

    Ivy, you are so professional and funny as well. I love this chat. Part 2 would be nice.

  • @kurriedone741
    @kurriedone741 2 роки тому +8

    Excellent interviews. Excellent conversations. As a male I believe now that it is 2022, men are going to have to step up in everyway judging from the sheer quality of the conversations.

  • @michaelaidoo9
    @michaelaidoo9 2 роки тому +10

    A Dentist in the USA got surprised I could speak English so well coming from Ghana. lol. Your Program is always awesome.

    • @fredkofiodoom5499
      @fredkofiodoom5499 2 роки тому +1

      Man what do you expect as a Ghanaian 🇬🇭 speaking good English,we are just gifted.You have a good job there,bravo.When are you visiting.Man,let connect !

  • @changetocome100
    @changetocome100 2 роки тому +2

    I love these girl chats....more please!!!! And i appreciate that the host doesnt talk about her marriage, she supports and listens to the ladies.

  • @Cabenah
    @Cabenah 2 роки тому +5

    Dentaa I love what you’re doing, you’re doing great im not sure you know the magnitude of what you’re doing. God bless you.
    Hmmm this pressure of settling, even me, I’m a man, mid 30s, I’m getting this pressure everyday. My mum is kinda chill about it but now even my colleagues are adding pressure.
    We’re all different, we need to let our people be aware that it takes time to decide to be with someone for a lifetime. So our people need to take it easy.
    I’m happy that the ladies are taking it cool. I think they’re making the right decisions.

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much faith. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @rosiemensah_
    @rosiemensah_ 2 роки тому +5

    This was such an informative and insightful conversation. I appreciate the different perspectives, and especially Ivy sharing how we need to actively share a positive narrative about Ghana and Africa as a whole. I recognize I have my bias and my own beliefs that I need to unlearn. This is the work that I do in the realm of food and culture too. Can't wait to make my move to Ghana!

  • @jabulanigumede6951
    @jabulanigumede6951 2 роки тому +5

    Odana it was a wise decision of me to subscribe to your channel cos I find your conversations with your guests very informative,useful and entertaining. With this one laughing nonstop and it's 4h00 am in South Africa but I'm not feeling sleepy at all sister ❤🇿🇦

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +2

      Aww thank you so much. We are grateful

    • @jabulanigumede6951
      @jabulanigumede6951 2 роки тому +1

      @@ODANANETWORK I find it funny that my sisters were not initially comfortable discussing the dating part of their lives but gradually dug deep into their romantic pasts. My sister from (Canada) was the most uncomfortable of the three but when she opened up! OMG!🤣🤣🤣🤣I was in stitches especially with that story of a Jamaican boyfriend who blocked the door handle just so he cannot be disturbed by THEE GIRLFRIEND who was literally trying to open the door. I was in tears with laughter with facial expression 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤🇿🇦this conversation made my day PERIOD!

  • @sistaluv1357
    @sistaluv1357 2 роки тому +2

    I absolutely enjoyed this segment. I am able to relate to these women. Keep up the good work.

  • @AbbeysArtPrints
    @AbbeysArtPrints 2 роки тому +1

    This was such fun, great job ladies…….white lady from Canada. Your awesome Odents

  • @RenewableBrain
    @RenewableBrain 2 роки тому +9

    Time Magazine recently name Accra, Ghana the best place to visit in Africa ahead of places like Cairo, Egypt.
    You don't get such an accolade based on hype.
    Someone like Ivy deserves a huge thank you for a job well done.

    • @DoubleDeuce90
      @DoubleDeuce90 2 роки тому

      Great place to visit, but not to live. Beware what you’re told.

  • @faheemfaquir1024
    @faheemfaquir1024 2 роки тому +12

    Black women in a struggle for love all over the world. Damn

  • @naakorkoraryee
    @naakorkoraryee 2 роки тому +3

    I heard your full journey on Mcbrown show and l must congratulate you on your success. Well done Dentaa👏👏👏

  • @Ghanadiaries
    @Ghanadiaries 2 роки тому +5

    I hope one day all these shows will be on tv,in Ghana. Many need to hear this.

  • @akuadaizydee9407
    @akuadaizydee9407 2 роки тому +5

    This is the most interesting interview I have watched this year. I love your guest. Lovely ladies. There should be part 2. 👍😋😂

  • @RakwanTWOFOUR
    @RakwanTWOFOUR 2 роки тому +4

    Damn I enjoyed this thoroughly and ms. Vanessa is mature asf! She knows what she's about and what she wants. I'd wanna work with her professionally

  • @BaahDbee
    @BaahDbee 2 роки тому +5

    Great conversation
    Well educated beautiful Ghanaian ladies
    We need more of them to come home
    Peace !!!!

  • @OrbitStephanie
    @OrbitStephanie Рік тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤ Top to bottom, I loved this WHOLE segment!!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @herthyjaidaagyei6732
    @herthyjaidaagyei6732 2 роки тому +5

    What a great conversation ladies. Enjoyed listening to you, very insightful. 👍👍

  • @yo-a
    @yo-a 2 роки тому +8

    Really enjoyed this! Thank you for sharing your experiences ladies.

  • @carolcastile9038
    @carolcastile9038 Рік тому

    Very informative. Thank you, ladies, for sharing. I will be arriving in Ghana for the first time on November 9th of this year. Maybe I will get to meet you all.

  • @lawrencianelson3044
    @lawrencianelson3044 2 роки тому +9

    I absolutely loved this...wishing these three beautiful Gh women well🙏🏽❤

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +2

      Us too!

    • @maxa6453
      @maxa6453 Рік тому

      think they are pricing theirselves out with those Disney princess perspectives they hold

  • @kennykenny7293
    @kennykenny7293 2 роки тому +5

    Great conversation ladies, l pray you all will find the men you looking for. Like they say, there is someone for everyone, it just a matter of finding them. Good luck on your businesses and stay bless

    • @philippebleykouassi8646
      @philippebleykouassi8646 2 роки тому

      chalet they won't their expectations are pure fantasies,im sorry

    • @jacksonandcodesigns
      @jacksonandcodesigns 2 роки тому

      Amen and Thank you for watching and your kind words.

    • @ODANANETWORK
      @ODANANETWORK  2 роки тому +1

      That's right

    • @maxa6453
      @maxa6453 Рік тому

      like most Ghanian females, they are confused. The attempt to convolute steep western thinking and mostly tamed African perspectives leaves people in a conundrum. Good effort ought to be inputted to crate good visibility . They loose visibility at some point.

  • @muchit3629
    @muchit3629 2 роки тому +7

    Very interesting conversation. Ivy I relate with your mindset. Once you spoke about Detroit and I once worked there. I have also been to St Catharines as I have family there and the Niagara Falls is amazing.
    The lady architect said she is s hopeless romantic and that her family does not believe in divorce. How does she reconcile getting married and the husband starts to cheat. She said love evolves so I am curious how she would reconcile that with her beliefs.
    I guess the real issue here maybe that most men struggle to be monogamous. Personally I feel that if I cannot be monogamous then I should have no expectations for my girlfriend or wife to be either. So it is best to stick to one person for me.
    One piece of advice is that you should try to include a lady who has never lived abroad. I think the conversation would be much richer.

    • @jacksonandcodesigns
      @jacksonandcodesigns 2 роки тому +2

      Hello Muchi T,
      My names Vanessa, yes i shared i believe in love and come from a family of long standing successful marriages, which does leave me with hope for Love when it finds me. I shared i believe like anything in life, love is also something we work on. Be it, business relationships, friendships or significant other, they all take work. Cheating in my opinion is a choice, and our culture has made it ridiculously too normal yet the same isnt readily embraced should a woman step out on her marriage. Either way its wrong and extremely unhealthy how women are encouraged to be tolerant of cheating. Mistakes are made indeed, but consistently cheating thats unacceptable and not a matter i wish to accept will be my fate one day. Thanks for watching and your comment.

    • @muchit3629
      @muchit3629 2 роки тому +1

      @@jacksonandcodesigns I hear you Vanessa. I am from Zim living in the US. When I last went to visit a few years ago I was very disappointed by the increase in the number of men who want to normalize cheating and all sorts of side relationships.
      Broken families lead to major trauma which is all too visible here in the US which is why every day people are killed due an abundance of angry people.
      I have four sisters so my suggestion is never settle on something that fundamental. And as you correctly said the same men who think like that are the most jealous. Talk about hypocrites.

  • @maamemint8773
    @maamemint8773 2 роки тому +10

    Life in Africa has many advantages over life in the Western world, no doubt. That said, the diasporans who return to Africa are often at an advantage/favoured when it comes to jobs or contracts partly because they have gained their qualifications/training/experience from outside Africa, a lot of this is rooted in colonialism. It's important that we acknowledge this because for many regular Ghanaians (esp. Women) many career opportunities are still hard to come by unless you have connections or even worse you end up being coerced by someone. A 30 year old female trained in Gh as an architect probably wouldn't have the level of contracts that the lady Vanessa has at this stage (it would take far longer for the average Ghanaian).
    Also, many diasporans talk about how great Ghana is whilst completely ignoring that the majority of citizen do not enjoy the basics of standard living (eg. healthcare, suitable accommodation) or anywhere near the life that diasporans can live in Gh whilst travellingin and out at their convenience (sometimes to utilise more affordable/better health care when they need it). Let's remember the less fortunate (who are still far too many) when we say 'Ghana is lit'.

    • @YORUBADE
      @YORUBADE 2 роки тому +4

      I think your comment was very sensible whereas a lot of your observations go ignored. The only input I would add is the skillset for diasporas returning is generally greater than of those in the country, and understandably so. One of the most frustrating challenges many foreign investors have is looking for adequately skilled workers. I think one solution to this is to have many more locals become mentees or shadow those diasporas obtaining these positions. The ball has to get rolling on reversing the brain drain somehow.

  • @YORUBADE
    @YORUBADE 2 роки тому +9

    I actually watched the whole video surprisingly. The title can be divisive. I would say the conversation was overall reasonable. There were several questions that came to mind when they were talking of their experiences. I just wish there was a man’s perspective to challenge some of the statements they were making.

  • @Ayimwaa
    @Ayimwaa 2 роки тому +5

    I met ghanaian man told me he has a wife and kids, but he will take care of me very well, another told me, he will give me all his salary if I agree to date him!! Very bold and confident in nonsense

  • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
    @WazirinJosnEnvirons 2 роки тому +13

    Why is it always easier to move mountains for 'a job' than for the deepest, more important relationship-'a life time companion'? men 'settle' all the time-I think it's extremely important our diaspora ladies leave hollywood and disney behind-it's not even working abroad! Very insightful evening chat.

    • @IvyProsper
      @IvyProsper 2 роки тому +8

      I have moved 3 times for a relationship.
      Life decisions are never easy.

    • @blainecelestaine4543
      @blainecelestaine4543 2 роки тому +4

      I say it all the time ,that Disney star flying around that castle got our mind messed up. Of course that is not the only factor but it's in there fe real.

    • @diannwhitaker6
      @diannwhitaker6 2 роки тому +8

      Why should a woman settle? Men are suppose to bring women up. We are not supposed to settle for a man that is low on the totem pole. We are not accepting struggle love.

    • @WazirinJosnEnvirons
      @WazirinJosnEnvirons 2 роки тому +3

      That's why this is so interesting playing out in Accra or Lagos. 'Suppose to'-suggests certain expectations on ascribed gender roles. Settling infers having attained some status that you are willingly going beneath. All men & women who have amassed career or financial accolades must settle (as many returning diaspora), because they have risen above the pack. No one 'ahead' of them (i.e higher on the totem pole) is a. available nor b. Interested, in whatever you believe you have. The difference is 'Settling' works for most older successful men (who happily get a swarm of beautiful young unemployed financially 'struggling' women), and doesn't work for same smaller sample of older successful women (who can get but may not want, a flotilla of handsome, tall, dark 'struggling' young men). Life has already made the choice, it's merely playing out.

    • @blainecelestaine4543
      @blainecelestaine4543 2 роки тому +5

      The examples these ladies are giving are not a settle situation. It's deceitfulness they are fending off. But on the settling subject it's more like appearance or earnings or education level. I do think our women have some issues with reality on that hence the Disney 🌟 around the castle prince syndrome

  • @andyteechannel3634
    @andyteechannel3634 Рік тому

    This is very funny to watch. I've earned a lot, feom these Ghana-Abrokyire ladies Diadporians and their takes on business, relationships, cultural differences/shocks, and all far & in between. Great conversational piece Dentaa for engaging us from A-Z..well done all 5 of you ladies 👏🏾👏🏼👏🏽👏🏻👏🏿👏👏🏽

  • @Noble724
    @Noble724 2 роки тому +5

    The behavior of dishonest men is beyond words for me ! Ladies you are so right about the marriage. Been there , don't settle please. It's not worth. Vanessa, Ivy both of you are on point about the prenuptial.

  • @blackdotfamily7535
    @blackdotfamily7535 2 роки тому +12

    This lady has really answered the stupid question of over hyped....Ghana was not sold to people just that Ghanaians love their country and would always love to go bak,it took our frdz to follow us to see what we going for so there is no over hyped,they get there they found out the peace of mind there.

    • @maxa6453
      @maxa6453 Рік тому

      its being largely overhyped . I think romanticized. Ghanaians as a habit cover their realities

  • @ritaosei9977
    @ritaosei9977 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much for this delightful conversation I really enjoyed it 🇨🇦🇨🇦

  • @foreverdave1985
    @foreverdave1985 2 роки тому +4

    Denta seriously I have had a lot of education on your channel, thanks 👍

  • @roamwithswift
    @roamwithswift 2 роки тому +3

    I visit Ghana two time and had hook up and yes I agree they not emotional or romantic at all

  • @slady210
    @slady210 Рік тому

    I'm a black woman in America and I thoroughly enjoyed this. It was a wonderful conversation!!

  • @janicejennifer9861
    @janicejennifer9861 2 роки тому +11

    Yasss Ivy “I JUST WANT A BLACK MAN”

  • @stephanieawuah
    @stephanieawuah 2 роки тому +11

    Loved this convo. I'd love to know, for future group interviews, how your interviewees' faith/ spiritual journeys have been impacted in the move, living in Ghana. Thoughts on places of worship in Ghana, church communities specifically. Just curious. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @anyangrb
    @anyangrb 2 роки тому +4

    Ivy yes ! I’m like don’t call me “sweetie” “dear”, especially from someone younger than me

  • @elizabethinpearls7176
    @elizabethinpearls7176 2 роки тому +7

    What a wonderful conversation! Can't wait to get back to Ghana.😍

  • @thanayi
    @thanayi Рік тому

    I want to be in the next chat. It was fun, flirty and informative!!!🧚🏾‍♀️

  • @stephenjimmyannan2591
    @stephenjimmyannan2591 2 роки тому +3

    I just love this topic and the whole discussion, love you ladies too

  • @lucyabugre763
    @lucyabugre763 2 роки тому +3

    I love your conversation it’s so interesting 🤨 God bless you girls you make we your Ghanaian Momie’s all over the world proud of you 👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️don’t listen to those who come to Ghana and think that Ghana should just become first country for them thank you all girls go higher 👍👍👍🙏

  • @airgentille2788
    @airgentille2788 2 роки тому +2

    Ghanaian men will disappoint you. They are too dishonest.
    Great show. God bless you all.

    • @williamhanson4154
      @williamhanson4154 2 роки тому

      It depends. If you meet a good man you will not regret.

    • @kwakubonsu4602
      @kwakubonsu4602 3 місяці тому

      As deplorable as this behavior is, it is global; blatantly displayed in some societies than others. Perhaps it’s because it’s been a chauvinist society until the last few decades. But even as women are learning to be self sufficient and independent, men are learning to grow out of chauvinism.
      I’m not justifying infidelity or the deceptions in relationships; just trying to understand .

  • @miezahblayerzuah3922
    @miezahblayerzuah3922 2 роки тому +1

    A woman's intelligence too is worth celebrating.Dentaa thanks for showcasing our beautiful sisters in this light.

  • @delaemmasyd32
    @delaemmasyd32 2 роки тому +2

    Nice job, ladies. I really enjoyed this conversation. Wishing you all continued success. 😊🙌🏾

  • @Crabtree1844
    @Crabtree1844 2 роки тому +1

    I love the way these ladies are spilling the tea. Vanessa gets me going.....hahahaha. You should all do a sitcom!

  • @estherserwaah4245
    @estherserwaah4245 2 роки тому +2

    Wow she said she's allergic to American men oh my gosh that one got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🇬🇭🇬🇭🇺🇲🇺🇲

  • @alisonmoore2323
    @alisonmoore2323 2 роки тому +5

    Excellent video Dentaa, I loved hearing from my London ladies (keeping it real). Great hearing from Ivy too. So many jokes from their experiences 😂😂😂👑👑👑👑👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿.

  • @giftedriders3194
    @giftedriders3194 2 роки тому +2

    Very insightful conversation,mix with intelligent queens 🥂🍾💯♥️🇯🇲

  • @gabordidieredoh9833
    @gabordidieredoh9833 2 роки тому +3

    We have very intelligent ladys in Ghana I love this conversation The architect Lady mostly
    Greetings from Amsterdam Thank you Adenta schow

  • @psyccaretvwithDrOTUBEA
    @psyccaretvwithDrOTUBEA 2 роки тому +4

    Great conversation! Thanks for sharing

  • @EstherAivinhenyi
    @EstherAivinhenyi 2 роки тому +11

    " Don't call me sweetie." We need to CHANGE this ARCHAIC mentality to EVOLVE in today's world as Africans and within a business setting we need to practice professionalism!!! Thanks Miss Ivy you and I are on the same WAVELENGTH and I concur your opinion.😄😄😄

    • @teascobie6557
      @teascobie6557 2 роки тому +1

      those pet names are so cringe. I like the way Ms Ivy went around it and kept it professional

    • @maxa6453
      @maxa6453 Рік тому

      what's wrong with sweetie.

  • @maameyaaley4739
    @maameyaaley4739 2 роки тому

    Omg this ladies are so funny, you just made my day wow love you ladies. I should link up with you when i come down this hols. I love having a good laugh with ladies with a purpose 💕 ❤. Good discussion 👏 Essex in the house 🤣🤣

  • @mamasandy7986
    @mamasandy7986 2 роки тому +1

    and the funny thing is they know they are hitting on you and when you speak out, they make you look crazy as you are over thinking .

  • @XInstitute
    @XInstitute 2 роки тому +4

    Ivy, you’ve been transparent today. I got to see some of your UA-cam videos through my deceased wife about 2 years ago and have been asking myself this question. With your height, completion where’s your significant other
    I enjoyed this gathering and it make me want to love again

  • @kaybee3757
    @kaybee3757 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed this convo. Best of wishes to all the ladies in finding what they're looking for and success to their businesses.

  • @veraaddoyobo8482
    @veraaddoyobo8482 2 роки тому +3

    It's not just in the olden days alot of the men in Ghana have more than one wife, so to avoid heartache just stick with people from your own background

  • @shaybaines8483
    @shaybaines8483 Рік тому

    I frown upon visit to Ghana, but you woman made me change my mind

  • @johnsonyawodame5105
    @johnsonyawodame5105 2 роки тому +3

    Wow I enjoyed the conversation our women are beautiful

  • @sebentilezanini1085
    @sebentilezanini1085 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂 Oh o the conversation is so interesting!! I lived in Burkina and dated a GH man....from the Ashanti tribe. I was heratbroken to learn he is married!!! But I made my peace o😢

  • @anurseinthekitchen6442
    @anurseinthekitchen6442 2 роки тому +2

    This was so entertaining...Ivy had me rolling LOL

  • @bedinabebe4521
    @bedinabebe4521 2 роки тому +2

    Delightful dinner date amongst beautiful, intelligent, interesting ladies with so much to offer. Certainly you deserve a man who has more to offer too. I feel it's important to maintain your standards, but remain focused on all the qualities & attributes that you want in a dream mate, & don't waste time or thinking about the unworthy aside from an occaisional laugh as you chat & chew. You have everything going for you, it's just the opportunity to connect with your Mentality Mate. Best💗

  • @MsEast8
    @MsEast8 2 роки тому +5

    Loved this show and loved how open Ivy was. This was such a lovely, enjoyable conversations amongst such Stella women. I wanted to be at that table. 💕

  • @3rdeyevision569
    @3rdeyevision569 2 роки тому +1

    Love what you're doing keep up the good work beautiful

  • @AbbeysArtPrints
    @AbbeysArtPrints 2 роки тому +1

    The difference from Arica to Ghana where poverty is concerned is that Africans are very happy people, I lived i. South Africa and those people had a lot of joy in them.

    • @fredkofiodoom5499
      @fredkofiodoom5499 2 роки тому +1

      Then you need to try Ghana 🇬🇭 so as you thank me later !

  • @ewutrygetsense9851
    @ewutrygetsense9851 2 роки тому +2

    Am a Nigerian woman that has been in gh more than 5 times 8 or 9 years ago .. all this women are trying say even though I didn't pay attention buh I no.. Ghanaian men has a long long way to go and Ghanaian man can disappear on you . As crazy as Nigerian men are I will prefer a Nigerian man to a ghanaian man.. buh I love Ghana as a country love de Seren the peacefulness , I m considering relocating there wen I m ready to go bck to africa.is a beautiful place

  • @oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253
    @oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful interview indeed, I watch all of it. I love ❤️ Ivy. Is the name of the restaurant Green Lounge in Tema I would love to experience when I come to 🇬🇭 Ghana Indeed.

  • @foreverdave1985
    @foreverdave1985 2 роки тому +6

    Ivey is such a great personality to listen to, thanks for the conversation ladies. Great content, one of the best UA-cam channel to subscribe, like and share.

  • @maameyaaley4739
    @maameyaaley4739 2 роки тому +4

    It's never normal they are serial cheats who think its ok to do so. Their wives aren't aware, they only come out to lie. Of course some of them are monogamous and the brave ones will be honest. I do agree with Ivy 100% those who want that should be open from day one and give the woman the opportunity to say yes i want this or not. Its one of the really bad characters or behaviour of a lot of men in Ghana. Cheats all over, of course there are a few good men out there.

  • @emmanuellaaduboffour942
    @emmanuellaaduboffour942 2 роки тому +3

    I’m
    really enjoying Dentaa show 😍

  • @shawndreasprolesss
    @shawndreasprolesss 2 роки тому +1

    Love this conversation Ladies.

  • @merchandise420
    @merchandise420 2 роки тому +3

    Yeah.., they’re smart , independent, , cute..etc. but men understand why they’re single... without even asking.

  • @maximusfootball6266
    @maximusfootball6266 2 роки тому +3

    Hahaha 😂🤣😂🤣 about 43:18 going, I couldn't stop laughing. Ivy I didn't know you've got that side about you, funniest story I've heard in a while lol. " Do you wanna take me to lunch with your wife?" Imagine the guy the said, let's just call it family gathering lol.

  • @kissPhamousStudio
    @kissPhamousStudio 2 роки тому +1

    Loved 😍 😍 to u all from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @obidobabue1175
    @obidobabue1175 2 роки тому +1

    Not only african society. It is everywhere my dear girls. I'm in canada and i have dealt with alot of caucasian women and they also get that pressure. So simply put, women are pressured in every society

  • @yojerico5856
    @yojerico5856 Рік тому +1

    I think Ivy looks like a young Madge Sinclair.
    The beautiful actress that is sadly no longer with us.
    For those of you who are probably unfamiliar with the name she played Eddie Murphys mother in the first coming to America.

  • @williamhanson4154
    @williamhanson4154 2 роки тому +1

    When I came to America the all white church I used to attend in Dallas, Texas told the children that Africans don't wear clothes and shoes. Before coming to America, I was an accountant in both Ghana and Nigeria so I know fashion. Anytime I go to church the way the children looked at me I sensed there was something going on. One Sunday the pastor told me that the children like me and he wanted me to be with them. Immediately I sat down with them ,they started to bombard me questions like do Africans wear clothes, shoes, live in a house? I asked them who told them Africans live in trees. I had a good discussion with them and told them that their parents are lairs. After the church about 30 children run to their parents and started accusing them that they were not straight to them. They nearly put me into trouble.

  • @angelapalmer3542
    @angelapalmer3542 2 роки тому +2

    Interesting conversation. Also i agree with so much of what was said from these beautiful sisters...

  • @danielpoimlenor3098
    @danielpoimlenor3098 2 роки тому +11

    I’m just here to learn how to behave if I ever found my self next to such a gorgeous woman!

  • @philipadjapong6095
    @philipadjapong6095 2 роки тому +5

    I think the discussion was lopsided being that all the women were from the West. Their views and cultural experiences will be similar. It would have been better to have women born and raised in Ghana as well to balance the discussion.
    Culture plays a part in one’s experience and expectations though.
    Interesting convo btw!!

    • @akuaboateng3030
      @akuaboateng3030 2 роки тому +5

      Sure, Phil, but why are most black men so deceitful when it comes to relationships? Really, any where...

    • @patrickacheampong9657
      @patrickacheampong9657 2 роки тому +2

      @@akuaboateng3030 sometimes I see it as,what u bring to the table is what u served with, let's say most men are deceitful but u should know some women come all clean but deep down they might not be clean,and some smart heads turn the table against them and later the women play the victim

    • @James_150
      @James_150 2 роки тому +1

      @@akuaboateng3030 so it’s only BM that are deceitful in relationships?

  • @helenbaffo7189
    @helenbaffo7189 2 роки тому +1

    Wow great minds think alike. Love this chat guys xx

  • @FND-GH
    @FND-GH 2 роки тому +9

    Ghana will teach you Patience and test you.

  • @healthfluency-psychedup7730
    @healthfluency-psychedup7730 2 роки тому +4

    The biggest challenge in Ghana is Healthcare especially emergency Healthcare. If we are to convince people to move back they must be assured of some forms of quality Healthcare

    • @TheKofinyarko
      @TheKofinyarko 2 роки тому

      So the 111 health facilities promised wouldn't materialize ?

  • @BillieJay
    @BillieJay 2 роки тому +2

    Great convo!