Trans Guy Hacks For Being Pre-Testosterone
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- Опубліковано 19 бер 2019
- Some tips and hacks for dealing with the wait for testosterone.
Let me know if you have any hacks of your own!
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I'm here to hack my dysphoria
Big mood tom
SAME U3U
*I'M IN*
Same same same
Did it work or did the Dysphoria devs patch the fire wall?
Pre-T Hacks:
1. Voice training (do it properly!)
2. Go to the gym/Exercise at home
3. Wear things that make you look broader on top
4. Get a hair cut
5. Use shoe-lifts (insoles/boots or shoes with heels)
6. Shave your face (boosts your confidence)
7. Keep busy! Put energy into something else that distracts you
oLiver 0118 I'd specifically recommend swimming or rowing to build up the shoulders and chest - for teens who are still growing, that will build up the actual bone structure, not just the muscles. Cis women who did competition swimming through their teens, you can tell for the rest of their lives because of the shape of their back and shoulders.
@@tealkerberus748 thanks for the advice! I'll try it out!!
Teal Kerberus as a trans guy who does row I can confirm that this does happen and you can tell looking back it did really help a lot
Teal Kerberus I’ve never been so happy to be on a swim team
What if I’m 13 years old and higher than literally every one of my friends and their parents? (~174 cm)
"Pre-T hacks"
Never clicked so fast
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Me too
Right?!
The Mun Bro that movie is iconiccc
The Mun Mmmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeee
"Hacks for being pretty and how to deal with it"
Can't relate
what a mOOD
s a m e
I had a new geography teacher today and when she came over to the table with me and the boy sitting next to me she said
"Can you boys hand over your sheets?" and it made me feel so good becsuee I do have short hair but I'm forced to wear a skirt to school. But I was sitting down so she didn't notice and it made me feel very happy :)
Ugh school dress codes can be awful for making trans kids miserable. There are schools that let each student choose trousers or skirt (which they'll rename a kilt) or mix it up, and they should all do that.
Bro I’d die if I have to wear a skirt ever again. I’ll just buy a pair of jeans that are similar to the uniform ones
Dude if i realized what school uniforms don’t let trans people do last year I could have put it in my persuasive paragraph on why school uniforms are bad and sounded smart while we did a devate
exact same situation happened to me, except i didn’t have a skirt. However, people ridiculed it for the rest of the month. Yes, month. Way to put a person down
In my school I had to wear a above-knee dress, cause Australia. And it was hell.
I'm pre everything. Pre transition basically. Oh and pre accepting parents.
Update!! It's been 3 years since I posted this comment, I'm going to start taking blockers and stuff soon. My parents still aren't accepting of it though but I have a few supportive people in my life helping this happen.
11th April 23 update: on the 26th of April I'm getting my pre-hrt mental health checkup.. 6 years in the making and I'm finally going to become the man I'm meant to be
17th Jan, 2024
Started T in August.. finally starting to see some changes. It was a rough path for me due to allergies and other complications but I’ve finally made it!
Same dude lol . I havent even tried to tell my parents yet.
Same
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ sending love to you and everyone on this thread who's struggling with this. My dad isn't accepting of me but my mom has been great
@@jackeyjack5759 I tried to tell my mom but after she told me that gay people are possessed by the devil I decided maybe another time
@@bluesunshine420 I'm sorry dude that totally sucks.
Jamie: telling me not to compare myself to trans guys on t or cis guys and focus on the things I CAN change
Me: nice and all but like can I have your beard m8
Gerard Way is Wheat man same also nice name
that name is everything
reminds me of Gerard Gay nickname
(get the reference? ;))
Everyone keeps telling me that I'm "pretty", "beautiful", "gorgeous", and other compliments used for girls. A trans female even told me that I'm so pretty that I shouldn't transition, but I'm not doing this because I think I'm not attractive it's because I am a male mentally!
It's so hard dealing with this but I'm still happy, my 10 year old sister calls me her brother and I'm happy because of that and I'm being patient with my family, they need time to get use to this but they support me.
Males can 100% be "pretty", "beautiful", and "gorgeous"... but using those words as a "reason to not transition" so that your expression can actually match who you are? That's some bs right there. You are a male. Your sister gets that and I'm glad your parents are supportive. Here's hoping the other people in your life can get on board.
Kudos to you for managing to be happy amidst all of that. You're clearly an amazing human. I wish you love and support and all the best things.
@@tru2lifestories Thanks so much for this comment, it means the absolute world to me.
I've been having a really hard past couple of weeks, so seeing this comment made me cry. Thank you so much for taking time out of your day and commenting this, you are such a sweet person.
You have no idea how overwhelmingly happy this made me!!
@@courtjester6375 Aw, I'm so glad to have brought some light to what sounds like a dark and challenge few weeks. You are so welcome- you deserve love and support.
I can't guarantee how often/quickly I'll respond, but you are welcome to reach out if you want to talk or process anything with someone who won't judge you and wants to support you.
And just a reminder:
You are valid, you are worthy of love and happiness, and you are amazing!!
Bro I bet you're actually really handsome and super manly as all hell. If I saw you in public I'd be like, woah what a Chad! I hope more people have started getting used to your identity and are addressing you correctly now.
@@theabyss310 Thanks so much for commenting this.
Sadly, parents and siblings have stopped being so supportive now. Sister stopped calling me her brother. Things have changed a lot but I'm still happy because I know things will always get better, just gotta wait.
The Chad comment really made me smile and laugh, again thanks so much.
Me: *came out to my parents
Me: *went back into the closet because it didn’t go very well*
Me: well this is grand
same
Skylar i have snacks, crystal pepsi mountain dew red, and some pirate booty w hot cheetos. i made sure to stock up before i came back in y’all want any
grand is a very great word of choice
S a m e
*Pullls out thermos*
Cup of tea?
I'm Pre-T and here's what I'm doing:
- The little things: change how you walk, sit, hold yourself. It takes time but start adopting movements that make you feel less womanly.
- Layering! I have a very small chest, so layering does a lot to make me seem completely flat. I wear things that accentuate my shoulders. Binding is good also if you can get a binder. Jeans are friends if you get the right cut.
- Vocal training. Look into lowering your range. I did this way before I realised I was trans; my singing voice was too low to fit into the alto section of my high school choir, so I trained it into tenor. You can do the same for your speaking voice.
- Start working out. You should always keep your cardio up but you might alsp find that strength training helps relieve the incongruence.
- Do something with your lower face. Either start shaving it, for the reasons Jamie gave, or if you're like me and naturally have some face hair going on, look into ways of making it look darker. I use eyebrow mascara.
- If you're dysphoric about your height, invest in Doc Marten-style boots, shoes with a slight platforms, anything with chunky heels, and/or some lifted insoles, depending on your style. I personally wear a lot of heeled boots, because I don't mind being a bit fem and stylish.
- Find the "monthlies" solution that works for you. Yes, that's a little vague but everyone has a different body. Try everything and find what works best as a medium between your mental health AND cycle.
- Keep other people's opinions out of your head! Never let anyone psych you out if you, say, paint your nails or wear a heel or anything else deemed "feminine". You are who you are.
can we talk...? also a pre T is here
I don't think docs will help my height I'm 4 ft 11 😭
@@Thealter919 I'm 5'1. It's more how you feel and not how others see you. I feel taller.
@@AlienWithABox hopefully I can save up for some and try them do you know if they do a size 1? I have really small feet 😂😢
@@Thealter919 You'd have to look it up. Country's sizes differ.
Thanks for including us non-binaries who want to go on T in your intro 😊 really appreciate it!
Charlie B
Yay us!
Beans
I dream of the day my non binary ass can start testosterone, but my mum tells me that nothing will change, I'll just gain weight and it'll make me look "like a fat pig"
just me that’s a load of nonsense. You’ll find that fat distribution will change, you may put on muscle more easily (and muscle weighs more than fat) but things will change! I’m sorry you’re being made to feel bad about it but I hope that when it happens it is the change you desire. Remember that you are a valid and worthwhile human being x
TIP: DO NOT JUST SHAVE YOUR HEAD! This makes people look at the femininity in your bone structure first, and you will almost never be gendered correctly no matter how hard you try if you're still pre-t.
Mine fell out after chemo, and I'm waiting for it to get long enough to get gendered correctly again :(
HEY SIR
YOU'RE HANDSOME AF WITHOUT HAIR
IT'S GONNA BE OK MISTER
YOU 👏 WILL 👏 PASS 👏
Ummm oops? I was sick of my hair and having a really bad dysphoric day and shaved my head right before my shower. When I came out to the living room, my mom shrieked. I still looked like a girl 😞
@@krabbypatty1888 it's alright m8, it'll grow in eventually! In the meantime, you probably look pretty badass though.
I've been keeping my head shaved for a long time, so I think people would misgender me even of I had short hair. If I ever told them I'm trans, that is.
Update if anyone sees this: My hair grew in and I'm now 10 months on T and have a top surgery date in May. Things get better!
"female to male" as a term is inaccurate and obsolete. I suggest *pretty to handsome* instead
But fam what if u start off as a potato
I agree that female for male is inaccurate but can’t all genders be considered pretty or handsome?
štěpán v unhappy and ugly to happy and ugly
I both love and hate this statement.
@@halle7663 I guess the most accurate way is to say you're an afab trans guy? Or just a trans guy because you can't be amab and a trans guy.
I remember when I first was developing chest flesh i heard someone saying "Excersice can make your boobies smaller" I didnt realise i was trans but i instantly said "THEN IM EXCERSICING EVERY DAY!" idk if its a true fact but it was a funny thing in my opion
Breast "volume" contains lots of fat - the lower your Bodyfat ratio typically the smaller they breasts. So in a way true 🤷♀️
Also has to do with the muscles on your chest/upper back, as they develop and get stronger, they kind of "pull" at your breast which males them flatter. Or something like that, i had it explained to me years ago and i am not an expert in this field at all :D
chest flesh
thats literally why i started working out lmao
Weight loss makes your chest smaller, since its mainly made of fat soooo technically exercise can do that :D
I'm not even trans but I watch your videos because they're interesting
Well, hello there, fellow human! i'm non-binary but they're still very interesting and helpful. btw i love your username 😂
Me too! He does really good videos. I love the sound of his voice and expression.
Would make a good teacher / lecturer.
me too , they are interesting and he's also a lovely human being
Same plus he's cute af 😅
Well, hello there, fellow human! Do u support trans tho?
I'm a cisgender man but I love how informative your videos are! They're really educating me on trans people and what they have to go through, even though it's not something I've ever been taught or educated about. Thank you!
Same! I am a cis woman but I want to seek to understand and be a better ally!
AWWWW FINALLYYYYYYYY A GOOD ONEEEEE
@@marissa8347 AAHHH YEEEAAAAA
Love the fact that you're all about educating yourself! Thanks so much for being an ally. I have so much love for straight/cis/heteronormative/What-have-you people like you.
Same however im a demigirl (born female) if anyone here dosent know what demigirl is its someone who is kinda part female but not entirely. It can be any percentage from %5 to %90 I personally consider my self to be %75 female and %25 agender.
I got a "mens bike". Its the weirdest thing but it really makes me feel great.
So a bit of explanation: I am Dutch and I bicycle everywhere (school, friends, gym etc), I used to have this typically feminine bike. And for my birthday I asked a bike swap with this old mens bike we had in our garage (originally my granddads). I liked cycling before but now I am more confident, its weird.
Also a brief explanation on the girls versus guys bike. Because of skirts girls bikes have a lower rod (construction pipe thing), but a higher rod is more stable so thats why they also still exist.
My new bike is also more sporty, and like my old one is owned by like almost every girl in my country.
Idk just tryna explain sth I do not understand.
I got a fem bike about two years ago and I just like that the rod is low because it’s hard for me (was hard) to get onto it lol because I’m bad at stretching my legs. Never have I been able to do anything *remotely resembling* a split so it’s just easier. I might recolor it though, but I don’t plan on switching it anytime soon.
absolute same here also dutch person and last week i had to borrow my brothers bike and it made me feel really happy i though i was the only one thanks for your comment
Hack: if you want to watch trans content but watching videos by trans men makes you jealous of them, watch trans women’s UA-cam channels. You can still relate to them on being trans but you don’t have to make yourself feel bad by thinking “god why can’t I be as far as x is”
Thankfully I’m not at this stage anymore but there was a time when I couldn’t handle seeing trans masc people who were really far into their transition because it made me so jealous
ALSO if makeup doesn’t make you dysphoric, contouring my forehead has been sooooo helpful. You can make your brow-bone more prominent and it makes your face look more structured/traditionally masculine
You: I can see lots of cat hairs floating around
Me, watching this video with my cat: He's onto us
I've waited 4 years to be put on a 2+ year waiting list. I break down crying over dysphoria almost every week
That sounds rough... I hope things speed up for you soon
Getting my blockers on next Thursday!!!
I know how you feel, I waited 3 years to be put on t
Yep... same
Elliott one thing that helps me is to pick something I like about my body. Pick something that makes you feel good about you
Tips to my fellow trans guys:
Try learning how to cut your own hair^^
Buy a trimmer (it'll be WAY cheaper in the long run) and learn how to do it.
While it may not look as professional, you can do touch-ups as often as you need and keep it short in the back^^
I do this and it's made such a difference, plus I've gotten more familiar with how my face looks and how to cut my hair to enhance the features I want.
And you don't have to go to the hair dresser or depend on anyone else at all, if that also gives you dysphoria for some reason. Hair dresser is definitely scary for me^^
Best of luck if you decide to try this❤️❤️
I do the same.I got better at cutting my hair with time.
Ive been cutting my hair myself since i was 13 and i can tell you its the best thing ive ever done for myself because i dont like other people touching my hair now aside from my boyfriend fixing what i miss in the mirror the sooner you start the better it gets the older you get lol
I found a queer hair salon so that’s where I’ve been going. My mom had me try great clips a couple weeks ago and that lady FUCKED my sideburns. Went back in this week and she squared them this time so that’s good but they’re like. Above the tops of my ears now. Why does this lady hate me.
cut my hair for the first time a few weeks ago and it doesnt fuck up your hair that much (if you’re careful), even if you barely know what you’re doing when you do it! i mainly do it because my hair grows too quickly for me to spend so much money on haircuts, but i’d recommend it too. watch some tutorials and take an hour or two in front of the mirror and you’ll get some relief from dysphoria and have started learning a new skill :-)
I just go straight to the barber shop lol. I wanna learn how to cut hair so I can touch up my hair when I can't afford a cut
Jammi: Haircuts!
2020 Coronavirus: NOT ON MY WATCH
I am being serious. Thanks to the virus I can't get my haircut yet. I have been wanting it cut for months now.
aww hope you can soon. i cut mine off while in the closet (still am) but my mum and dad both knew it was "bothering me for some time now" so they let me cut it off for charity. Hope you get your haircut soon! the hairdressers are open in uk now if you live here. :D
Jamie I saw your Russian doppelganger in Disneyland last week it was creepy
why didn't you ask for his number or smth, I could use that, I live in Russia
@@tonytheparamorestan I don't speak Russian. He did. Also I'm socially awkward and yeah.
GEE
@@onionboi8907 yaass we love gee way
@@thiccolascage6004 Gee,eternal god of the universe
Okay and wearing shoes that aren't just taller, but heavier feels really nice. My steel-toed workboots are my most prized possessions, and that weight can really ground you and help you feel more solid, less dainty
Cis female here so I don't know if that helps, but heavier shoes like boots with a steelcap also make your feet look a bit bigger and the weight can be really comforting.
Oh, and those soles that make you apear taller are not suspicious in boots, nobody would notice and they usually have a thicker sole anyways so when someone asks why you apeared taller in boots you can just say that it's caused by the boots themselfes (what technicly wouldn't be a lie). And usually the sizes they come in start at about a european 38, I have even seen many pairs starting at a 36 what is pretty small for a person older than 15.
R4TB4ST4RD dude I never realized why I love my boot so much until just now.
Euphy Nachnamenlos I’m on the younger teen side and I wear size 40 shoes lol
Tbh, I'm PROBABLY going to find this super cringey when I'm older, but I brag about my mustache, I meannn, sure it's barely visible, and you have to look super hard to see it but it's a mustache god damnit, and people need to see how manly it is!
I seriously cannot wait to be able to start T, I'll finnally get that beard, and no one will ever mistake me as a girl again! The only thing I'm not looking forward to is possible hair loss, (My hair is my baby) and keeping my facial hair in check (Normal hair is hard to keep under control as is)
Same. I think mine looks horrible and just like a 12 year olds first beard but I can't get myself to get rid of that little bit.
I use mascara to enhance my mustache and beard. It can take a lot of practice to get the hair only and not the skin. Also I use an eyebrow brush to sweep the inevitable clumps out of the hair.
@@jacobmarley9539 dude that's genius!!!
I'm worried about losing my hair too my dad is basically bald and only 37 so the odds aren't in my favor. If I have to I'll sell my car and get a hair transplant 😂
Don't worry about moustache bragging, I brag about my neckbeard. It's extra impressive since I'm not on T yet. (PCOS ftw)
I don't think that I pass well, I'm also not out to anyone, but I've gotten called 'he' and 'buddy/bud' a couple of times by random people, so that was a bit of a confidence booster. But, this video was helpful, so thank you for posting it. :)
Edit from around 1 year later: holy shit, I wasn't expecting to find my own comment when scrolling through :P but, I'm out (I'm trans-nb) to my mom and several friends, and one of my brothers and one of my cousins, just not my other 2 brothers, or other relatives.
disclaimer: I know 'bud/buddy' isn't strictly male, but it is used most commonly to refer to males, which is why it made me slightly confident
Nice pfp mAaAn
@@melanielambrecht6530 Thanks! Yours is cool too!
Keep on keeping on Fairlyaround. Power on your journey dude.
So relatable it fucking hurts
On the face shaving thing: also when your peach fuzz starts to grow back it feels sorta like (teeny tiny) stubble, it doesn’t look any different but I feel really euphoric when I touch it and it feels stubbly.
It's weird watching this now as I've been on T for nearly 9 months. I remember desperately trying to find stuff to do and your hack videos back then really helped, but damn it was hard. Out of all the things I would do different, it would definitely be not obsessing over transition. It's so tempting to just watch trans videos all the time and compare yourself constantly but it's so unhealthy.
I rewatched the beginning so many times. Your eyes go wide and you just say "whoops"
Now that you've pointed it out I can't stop replaying😂
Erik Stevens lmao same
0:01
Me too 😂
Put it on slow mo
I GOT MY REFERRAL TO THE GENDER CLINIC IN LONDON!!!!!
My wait is about 10 month but I AM SO EXCITED AHHHH!!!
That's awesome! The time will fly by :D
Jammidodger thank you so much!!!! I’m so scared but so excited. Any tips on what will happen there? :) xx
How did it go?
I hope it went well! ^^
How'd it go
If you happen to live in Brighton in the UK there's an organisation called trans can sport. Theyre an organisation for trans people who feel they cant go to the gym/feel uncomfortable there but want to exercise. They run a large variety of classes and are free (but do suggest a donation of £5). I haven't personally been to any of their classes but I might in the future.
SunArctus Brighton is the gayest city in the UK of course they have something like this 😃
I so wish I lived in the UK now
@@evanderembassies4874 same
@@evanderembassies4874 no you don’t, it takes years to get on hormones.
Just got home from school 😄. I pass fairly well but I still can't wait to start T. I worry that my hip bones are too wide and that sucks.
Dartt Dont worry, the fat will stop going to your hips when you start T and it will begin to go to other places of your body, you may thin out around the waist 🙂
I have big hips always have but with my stomach you cant even tell idk how it is for skinny people but i have a beer belly
A fair amount of guys cis and trans have wide hips. I know its a struggle and I struggle with it too but I also constantly keep in mind that I had to teach several cis guys around me to wear pants from the female sections to wear more comfortable pants that fit and look better on their body types. That may or might help and I'm truly sorry if it doesn't help at all
I've been on T for 2.5 years my hips still give me dysphoria but I think I need to lose some fat.
i’m on puberty blockers and my the density of my hip bones are decreasing OOF
Coming from a gay male in Ohio. I wanted to say you are very inspiring and educational. I’m so happy to find your channel and the Mrs. I totally enjoy watching and learning and seeing a wonderful couple. I hope to meet you someday to say hello
Dean Lybarger O H!
I’m a trans male and gay as helllllll but yeah we do
I’m a nonbinary bisexual from Ohio, and I agree!
AAAAaaaaAAAAAAAhhhHhHhH
I finally cut my hair after wanting to for years and I feel amazing and so relieved. My hairstylist was awesome. Sucks though I was only able to after moved out of my parents' house (my dad still won't look at me). I wore a buttoned-up shirt when they saw me next with the haircut and my mom said "I don't mean to be rude, but you look like a boy, so we gotta change something, cause I don't want that for you," but I was too happy she said I looked like a boy to be offended.
"I want to be a Dorito." -Jammi
You may not like it, but dorito is peak male performance.
I came out to my hair stylist and she was so proud of me and was excited to give me a cut that would make me more confident and look more masculine. Bless her!
Doc Martin's are great shoes to wear if you want a couple inches and they look really nice.
East is up
Their Jadon boots are great especially if they're something that fits your personal style! They're Docs with an extra chunk sole
Trans masc culture is big clompy boots confirmed
some people might say that theyre expensive (and theyre right) but theyre good quality and will serve you years, theyre worth the price imo ^^
Ive wanted them for about a year or so now ugh.
“I want to be a Dorito.” -Jamie 2019
Something that helps me is having regular fantasies about being post everything. Like watching a movie that fulfills your fantasies it can work with dysphoria as well.
UK waiting lists is a joke. It’s been over a year and I’m still waiting for my first appointment. It’s frustrating and painful
alexarder202 same
At least it’s free /: Sorry dude
oh no. thats something to look forward to.
Almost 2 years here, gids couldn't see me in time so they are trying to get me a consultation to transfer me to an adult gender clinic of my choice. Luckily they are taking into consideration how long I've been waiting. But still waiting for that to happen. I've decided going private and paying for Testosterone is a better and quicker option for me whilst I wait for the gender clinic.
@@AshtonKnight oh after two years from making that comment they still hadn’t gotten back to me! I went private a year ago and now I’m 1 year on T 🤣 so I’d recommend going private even if it costs a fortune
I sew, lots.
But when I came out as trans to my dad he stopped taking interest in my hobbies such as drawing, sewing, ukulele or singing even though he helped me get into them because he finally had a "daughter he could teach stuff like that" when I was younger and it sucks because it was out only way of bonding. I mean, on the plus side he's helping me get into fitness and stuff and overcome dysphoria and depression enduced binge eating. So at least we have that, but I miss when we would stick some classical music on and just sew for the pure joy and company.
Your dad sounds lowkey awesome and I want him
-destryinaraincoat-
He can be sometimes. I mean, he can be alright, but he can also be a manipulative little git with no real understanding of how his words can hurt. So, I mean, alright.
Aw, I'm afriad to transition because even though I know my dad loves me I dont want him to change how he acts with me. I've always looked up to him and hes the reason I took up learning the ukulele; and I'm scared he might just get akward around me like he used to. I've always wanted a good relationship with my family but I cant have that for some reason
@@idiomatic444 I'm so sorry, I'm in the same place too. Please don't think that what my story is will be yours. And if it is, remember that it's nothing but a chapter in the story that is your life.
@@sunrisesyndicate8650 Thanks, I really needed that :D
I have wide "child baring" hips, as do all the other female bodied humans in my family. I have learned to accept this as a fact I can never change, but my biggest problem with my hips is... my right hip is higher than my left. Curse you crooked spine that makes me have crooked hips.
If it can helb someone
Easier? way to get better abs :
1) Sit down, Raise your head and your legs at ≈ 90°. Move your hands under your ass, move your legs up and down
2)In the same position, try to catch your legs with your hand, moving your hands and your back
3) Same head position, try to make the conventional abs exercise but with feets who doesn't touch ground and at 90° (like a chair maybe). It's easier. Don't keep your hand under your head but move them, or it could damage your cervicals
4) Now an exercise for the side abs, the same position like if you wanted to do conventional abs, but your head is up, now, try to catch your ankles by moving very fast.
These are great ways to have good abs. Sorry for the English, I'm French and the translation is a Google one so...
You are looking so broad in the shoulders
Your weight gain/working out seems to have given you visible results so fast
“Pre-T hacks”
**immediately proceeds to click so aggressively it nearly breaks my phone in 2**
I'm not transgender I'm a cisgender male but I find your videos very interesting to watch. Keep up the great work.
What actually helped me the most, was wearing tighter sports bras, baggy sweat pants, and sweaters. (Mostly zip up ones, hides boobs better) as well as normal t shirts a tiny bit big
Hell yeah! Sweat pants and cargo pants are literally the _best._
Just what I needed right now!
I wanna come out to my parents but I'm afraid :c
Edit: It's been three years, still not properly out to my parents but pretty much everywhere else! This was one hell of a journey and looking back on the first times I actually came in touch with the trans community is absolutely magical
Theres nothing to lose m8, go tell them how you feel. You got this
Korey Attitude
Thanks, I'll get this, somehow
German Amiko you will be ok it took me a while to do so it takes a lot of nerve you will be ok if they react badly there are places to help
You can do this strong boy.
I believe in you! *even if they aren't supportive, YOU ARE STILL VALID*
A quick tip, if you can't cut your hair because of your parents like me, just try a man bun. I feel so euphoric whenever I have my hair up.
Edit: it's a year later. I'm happy to say that I finally got there, I cut my hair. Always remember to keep trying.
Do you know, or know of anyone who knows about struggling with having had you sex chosen for you when you were born... By them lopping off your peen and crowning you female?... And maybe... The struggles of just wanting your penis back while being able to keep the rest of your authentic self in tact?..... Maybe?.... I'm sorry. I dont know who to ask and your post was the most frequent that actually had advice on it.....
Ive asked generally and from the other two peole who have posted within the week.....
Sorry to have bothered you, btw. Thank you.
This is literally the most affirming; helpful; genuinely appreciated content I have ever seen on the internet. Period. Thank you.
I helped a ftm friend of my daughter with his eyebrows, plucking above the arch and darkening them just a little really helped
I have the most supportive parents ever! I am currently 13 years old and have almost been out for a year now. I’m on puberty blockers, which is amazing! I am willing to be taking hormones as soon as possible!
There's a 2 year + waiting list just to speak to a GIC, then ever longer before you can talk about treatment. Then even longer for T and surgery
Fuck the Tories
Fund trans healthcare
Tax the rich
🌹
yeah i had my first phone call assessment last wednesday and now i'm just forever waiting lol
Where do you live??
I'm getting concerned I got referred to a GIC in 2017..first appointment in 2018 and now it's 2019 and I've heard nothing
@@benjibluebird Devon.. been referred to the laurels
I haven't started testosterone yet but I haven't shaved my legs in like 2 and a half years and they are very hairy. I mostly stopped shaving my legs because of depression and not wanting to really take care of myself but it actually made me feel better about myself and less like a girl if that makes sense.
Yeah after I stopped caring about being fem, I stopped shaving. It's been so nice not having to spend like an hour everyday shaving my legs.
Honestly growing up, my mum and grandmother kept trying to get me to start shaving and I refused so they just gave up LMAOOO
Honestly growing up, my mum and grandmother kept trying to get me to start shaving and I refused so they just gave up LMAOOO
The mate at the co op called me sir today (until I spoke lol) and goddd yes it felt so good
I've fairly recently figured out myself and that I'm trans. I've been binge watching a lot of your videos and they have helped me so much to accept myself. So anyway just thank you for being your cute, goofy self!
Still pre-t at 27 and it is a rough time my dude. Wearing a nice fitting binder that forces me to square my shoulders is a good, small confidence booster and slow and steady voice training really works (went from helium level soprano to androgynous alto over the course of a few years). I also like wearing sleeves that cover my wrists because they are skinny and dainty af but when the flannel sleeves sit near the base of the thumb and give those flimsy things a more solid look it is a fabulous feeling. I guess I'm that weird guy though who doesn't care about being short or having a curve to my hips. I've seen some cis guys with wide, shapely hips and I've seen plenty of cis guys under 5'4" so those things never bothered me.
Love your videos, bro; keep up the weird nicknames for your viewers
TazCatMatt have you been able to go on t yet?
@@Ava-cw3jf nope not yet. Still sucks but I'm hanging in there! I'll be moving to a better area soon so I'll be setting up an appointment shortly after I get there to see about starting. No insurance plus living in an unaccepting house in a heavily conservative area doesn't really allow for easy transition ^^;
It's been really hard being pre- t. I came out at sixteen, was told to be who I wasn't, and didn't come back out until 20. I have to save up for T, and alot of the nights I just lose it- but these videos help me so much. When I want to do something stupid, these videos give me hope. Thank you so much. You have no idea how many times I was brought back into reality seeing you happy.
im here watching this video, 1 year on testosterone and pretty happy with how far I've come
I'm not even trans but I watch your channel for information on the trans community and what they really go through, love your channel ❤
I used to dread getting my haircut once it was short because even when I showed reference photos the stylist would try to make it feminine. I was fortunate, though, to have my therapist recommend me his hairdresser who clearly understood what it meant to be trans. That small change in who was cutting my hair made a big difference :)
wow I got an alert that you had uploaded 4 minutes ago and there were already several comments here!! BTW you are looking particularly handsome today x
That shirt is very slytheriny... I approve.
I mean I'm actually hufflepuff too but still😂
I'm hufflepuff too! :D
Noah Southgate Slytherin 😌
hufflepuffs unite
Everyone secretly wants to be ravenclaw but let's be real, we'd all be Hufflepuff.
I'm a hufflepuff too :D
When the ADD kicks in
“I can see loads of cat hair, floating around...”
Just noticed your industrial piercing and it looks really cool :D.
Cool video :>
I needed this!! We love a good dysphoria hack x
Thanks for the tips, Jamie!!
Jamie, I love your videos so much! Thanks for your work and contributions!
i love platforms, they are probably the shoes you where talking about (=
thanks for the tips, its very nice of you!
These are SO helpful! I'm not sure if I'm going to start T since I'm genderfluid and sometimes flip between modes in the same day (so fun lemme tell you), but whenever I'm in "boymode" I experience some SERIOUS dysphoria.
So, thank you for this! I'd say you have no idea how much I appreciate it..... but you probably do. ;)
Thank you for doing these videos. Please don't ever stop.
been watching tons of videos on the ftm experience to educate myself and better understand what my pretty pre-t friend is coming through and I find your videos very helpful! thank you and keep up the good work!
Thank you so much I been doing these things even since I came out two years ago. I will be starting T this summer ❤️ I really love your UA-cam channel 😘😘😘 alll love goes to you
This is really gonna help! Thanks!
Greetings fellow TWDG fan 😂
Jamie, I’ve gotta say that this definitely helped. Thank you so much ♥️♥️
Thank you. I feel very dysphoric about everything and this really helped! Appreciate your tips man!
I have more leg hair than my cismale family members so that always makes me feel good
Ayy nice
I love your hair. I've been going to a barbers a lot but they're a bit savage with the clippers. I'm 48 and its far too late for me to transition so any hacks for pulling lumpy bits in would really help. The gym REALLY intimidates me and well :(
Idk why but your videos make me really happy and I want to give you a hug
I really appreciate the fact that you showed a time of your life that can make you feel dysphoria just yo help teach us
Tip when growing a beard:
Make sure you wash your face with warm water everyday and try to massage around the area.
Hope this helps!
I was kinda doing the voice training thing already lmao. My voice is like really high pitched so I started lowering it myself and it worked and I am slightly happier. plus I have a 6 pack so, I work out. I like my medium length hair because man buns are epik. EPIK. And keeping busy? I can't focus on something for more than 5 seconds so i'm set!
Thank you so much, Jamie. This helped me a lot and I want you to know, that you are one of my favorite youtubers and your videos have helped me, go through a lot. You are amazing. Keep that in mind :)
I'm here to get ahead! I'm 1 week on T this friday! Your videos are so epic and funny! You honestly helped me in my efforts to pass and that helped me so much before I started T. Keep being SUPER EPIC!
I as a ftm feel very blessed with my wide/broad(?) shoulders.
though everything else looks much more feminine
I'm not trans but Your video's are interesting,well done and well spoken. Btw you are a handsome man and love your fiance she is very sweet. Also you were a very pretty girl. I'm very happy for you and your transition
Sincerely: not a rude American
It's amazing how far you've come, the you pre-everything to the you of now. You give me hope. Starting T just next week but this is all still golden advice. :)
Bless that u uploaded this on my birthday, which, incidentally, is the day I came out to my family. Good tingz
I really want to start testosterone but I also don’t want to be stabbed with a needle every other day.
You feel me?
There is not a type of testosterone that would require injections that frequently. The injections can range from weekly to every 12 weeks, depending on the type. But there are also gels that are applied daily (a bit like applying a cream)
Jammidodger thanks that helps💙
Thank you so much! Super helpful for people who can't get on T yet :')
I’m starting T this year or sometime early next year and this video was great! It’s so true the little things that boost confidence help so much. The haircuts really do it for me, I absolutely love haircuts. I canceled my last one thinking I didn’t need it but I was so wrong so I’m really looking forward to the next one 😔🙏🏻 I love your channel!! Keep making great videos and being a fantastic guy : )
your hair was the first thing i noticed in this video! it looks great!
I'm 25 and trying to build up the courage to attempt coming out again and actually transition this time
I love being a spud 😊 gives me a happy glow every time! 🥔 🥔 🥔
This is a great video! :) I hope these are of great for those who need it the most.
So glad you talked about shaving & shoe lifts! Those have helped me soo much.
When I find myself thinking too much on what I lack, I like to loom baby hats for hospitals while watching or listening to something. Just an idea for those that like to craft 💚
I dropped everything to watch this 😂
Dysphoria : H A C K E D
Your face changed so much lately, you look so beautiful! 🙃🙃🙃
Thanks for the video, I'm watching you for almost two years now. Your video helped me, when I was pre t.
👍 another interesting vid. Loving the new hair, clean and sharp but still retaining the Jamie messy-ness. Having the button open I thought "lounge lizard in Florida keys bar" 🤣😂🤣😂 . Seriously if your advice helps one person to feel confident and comfortable in their own skin, you've done a wonderful thing.