8:21 - Gather data 10:26 - Qualify the data (see if its systematic, How serious it is ) 11:20 - Dont HYPERBOLIZE (increase the significance) of the problem 12:30 - Get a 2nd opinion 12:55 - Ask "What do you think?" 13:15 - Go DIRECT or INDIRECT 14:00 - Let go of your EGO 19:00 - Let go of DeAd WeiGhT - dont deal with same problem twice Thank you for sharing Patrick.
Obstacles do not block the path, they are the path. If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere. Always remember guys that difficulties mastered are opportunities won. Strength doesn't come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn't. Hi guys! It's me again :) You might have seen me before but my desire to inspire more people is what keeps me pushing to reach out more. We own a cookie shop business in our college town. When we first started it, we just graduated college and were living in our car with very little direction, just a huge passion to be successful. I started it out of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night with my boyfriend, Bran. It was a crazy experience but it worked! We became a success! And how we have our first storefront location (a second one currently under construction but launching soon!) We started it to fund a year long backpacking trip around the world and to be successful while living the life of our dreams.
5 different ways people Handel conflicts 1) the stubborn one (lowest level) 2) the accommodator 3) avoiding 4) compromiser 5) collaborate (highest level) 8 ways to address conflicts 1) soft on a person, hard on the conflict 2) shorten the lifespan of a conflict 3) gather data -qualify the data -quantify the conflict( put a number) 4) don’t hyperbolise 5) get a second opinion 6) deal direct or let it go 7) set aside your pride/ego 8) let go off the dead weight
*Never be afraid for conflicts and be truthful to yourself. Being a pushover will result everyone wanting to ride on you. Being used builds up deep resentment, even if you are thinking that you are nice to people. Confronting on rightful reasons, ads up a zest to your character. Ultimately, be humble and rational.*
This video finds me exactly when I need it. I'm the Chairman of my networking chapter and there is a major conflict between my Vice-Chairman and another member and they both avoid each other and the member hyperbolize the conflict. Thank you
Im following this channel a long time, when I started watching i thought, well it isnt Hard to be a Entrepreneur, now i See, that I know nothing and have to learn much more! 🔥
This is gold and so many people need to hear it! Everyone avoids conflict which makes it worse. Deal with the conflict head-on, smash through the problem and create a solution. You will praise yourself in the future for doing it.
Hi Mr. Bet-David, this comment is about kai from communications. He is an extraordinary person. He has reply to all my texts and has also giving me some tips too. You have a great guy in your team. Since I ask for the PDF he has been there texting me and responding to all my texts. I just want to say thanks to your team.
That's so true, I see myself in many behaviours you said, I'm unhappy but willing to change, it's painful but it's the right way to be happier in life, it painful and feels good at the same time every time I do it reach something in my deep, it's a must if I want to do what I love to do.
I just love playing your videos in the background while I'm working. The tone of your voice is so welcoming. Thank you so much for all your knowlegde and this platform.
dead weight issues have been recurring. it is only since implementing "focus on what is important." been saying for near a decade or more "a wealthy man can indeed pass through the eye of a needle, it is just a matter of focus." five words clarified My comprehension. I have noticed a shift. food I don't need to worry about. managing money and environment I do. two months ago I focused on moving money between accounts. only adding money to card before going to the shop. all My bills are covered for the next two months. and I have no need to use this months money till next month for common daily items. I am happy with that conflict resolve : )
I loved this. We do need this examples like you showed here today. Coming up in business it's very useful to know how to manage the conflict like you did with 'Mike'. Thanks for what your doing Pat. Please keep giving us such great examples.
My heart is breaking HOW I WISH!! “The Vault” was somewhere outside the US not everyone can get a US visa but I hope and pray the next events are held in a country that is easily accessible.
Amazing video. I have a small problem at my school my principal seems not to be interested in solving any problems any suggestions on how I should approach this problem?
You are amazing Patrick. You teach us well, after that its us who has to gallop and implement it. Otherwise its useless !! Now its up to us on how we take and how we do.
This is the video I have been waiting for all these years of being a subscriber! I find most value in this because it's what I struggle with every single day. Thanks heaps as always Patty
I know this is a long stretch but how can I work for you sir. I'm tired of going to school(college) and learning stuff that wont make me rich. How can I work for you totally for free and I would do anything.
what do you do when people are being passive aggressive and when you confront them about it, they deny it and continue the passive aggressive behavior. And also they are spreading the passive aggressive behavior trying to get more people to also be passive aggressive.?? major issue I'm dealing with. I keep trying to confront them directly and they just pretend their not doing aything. It's seriously demented.
Get the PDF here: valuetainment.com/8-conflict-resolution-tips-for-entrepreneurs/
8:21 - Gather data
10:26 - Qualify the data (see if its systematic, How serious it is )
11:20 - Dont HYPERBOLIZE (increase the significance) of the problem
12:30 - Get a 2nd opinion
12:55 - Ask "What do you think?"
13:15 - Go DIRECT or INDIRECT
14:00 - Let go of your EGO
19:00 - Let go of DeAd WeiGhT - dont deal with same problem twice
Thank you for sharing Patrick.
Obstacles do not block the path, they are the path. If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere. Always remember guys that difficulties mastered are opportunities won. Strength doesn't come from what you can do. It comes from overcoming the things you once thought you couldn't. Hi guys! It's me again :) You might have seen me before but my desire to inspire more people is what keeps me pushing to reach out more. We own a cookie shop business in our college town. When we first started it, we just graduated college and were living in our car with very little direction, just a huge passion to be successful. I started it out of a local bagel shop in their off hours at night with my boyfriend, Bran. It was a crazy experience but it worked! We became a success! And how we have our first storefront location (a second one currently under construction but launching soon!) We started it to fund a year long backpacking trip around the world and to be successful while living the life of our dreams.
You are absolutely correct
You're right. Also congrats 😄
5 different ways people Handel conflicts
1) the stubborn one (lowest level)
2) the accommodator
3) avoiding
4) compromiser
5) collaborate (highest level)
8 ways to address conflicts
1) soft on a person, hard on the conflict
2) shorten the lifespan of a conflict
3) gather data
-qualify the data
-quantify the conflict( put a number)
4) don’t hyperbolise
5) get a second opinion
6) deal direct or let it go
7) set aside your pride/ego
8) let go off the dead weight
It seems the most important part of a conflict is to shorten the conflict lifespan. This allows more room for more urgent higher importance events.
*Never be afraid for conflicts and be truthful to yourself. Being a pushover will result everyone wanting to ride on you. Being used builds up deep resentment, even if you are thinking that you are nice to people. Confronting on rightful reasons, ads up a zest to your character. Ultimately, be humble and rational.*
Nowadays...with feminism...it's getting difficult....The law are making less and less real men who stand up for themselves
This video finds me exactly when I need it. I'm the Chairman of my networking chapter and there is a major conflict between my Vice-Chairman and another member and they both avoid each other and the member hyperbolize the conflict. Thank you
Your son is lucky to have a dad like you. You’re raising a winner for sure
Im following this channel a long time, when I started watching i thought, well it isnt Hard to be a Entrepreneur, now i See, that I know nothing and have to learn much more! 🔥
This is gold and so many people need to hear it! Everyone avoids conflict which makes it worse. Deal with the conflict head-on, smash through the problem and create a solution. You will praise yourself in the future for doing it.
Hi Mr. Bet-David, this comment is about kai from communications. He is an extraordinary person. He has reply to all my texts and has also giving me some tips too. You have a great guy in your team. Since I ask for the PDF he has been there texting me and responding to all my texts. I just want to say thanks to your team.
Great to hear. He’s a stud.
That's so true, I see myself in many behaviours you said, I'm unhappy but willing to change, it's painful but it's the right way to be happier in life, it painful and feels good at the same time every time I do it reach something in my deep, it's a must if I want to do what I love to do.
I just love playing your videos in the background while I'm working. The tone of your voice is so welcoming. Thank you so much for all your knowlegde and this platform.
Wow dude your maturity level is through the roof in just a few years of Valuetainment. I'm inspired to be a better entrepreneur.
dead weight issues have been recurring. it is only since implementing "focus on what is important." been saying for near a decade or more "a wealthy man can indeed pass through the eye of a needle, it is just a matter of focus." five words clarified My comprehension. I have noticed a shift. food I don't need to worry about. managing money and environment I do. two months ago I focused on moving money between accounts. only adding money to card before going to the shop. all My bills are covered for the next two months. and I have no need to use this months money till next month for common daily items. I am happy with that conflict resolve : )
#3 was me. Avoider til absolutely necessary to engage in conflict.
Respect to you and this timeless piece of content.
Always be respectful of the other person, don't be rude. If you are mean it will just get more frustrating for everyone.
That's an amazing video! Mr Patrick Bet David, your advice help me a lot and I want to say thank you for what you're doing.
This content should not be free. Thank you PBD
I loved this. We do need this examples like you showed here today. Coming up in business it's very useful to know how to manage the conflict like you did with 'Mike'. Thanks for what your doing Pat. Please keep giving us such great examples.
This video reminds me of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, habit 4 Think Win-Win.
My heart is breaking HOW I WISH!! “The Vault” was somewhere outside the US not everyone can get a US visa but I hope and pray the next events are held in a country that is easily accessible.
waiting every Tuesday to hear you
Thank Patrik for your help and support
Thank you very much .
Amazing content. Real and practical. Thank you soo much for investing your time in us and making a great,positive impact in our lives❤💖💜
PBD thank you for all of the great content that you provide to entrepreneurs.
it is possible to be at different levels with different people.
sheer excellence! thank you
Pat thank you for this video
Thank you, Valuetainment
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Wow thanks
Awesome tips...i love this channel, you are really changing my life in a good way....i love my future truth.
Great content Part, thank you !
Man I will have to admit I am the stubborn type and that has kept me at the same spot. So it is time to ake changes
Thank you!
Thanks for sharing
you are Awesome Patrick, thanks for all your time to sharing all of these wonderful contents
*******. Great stuff. Hopefully politicians and others listen to this****
Amazing video.
I have a small problem at my school my principal seems not to be interested in solving any problems any suggestions on how I should approach this problem?
Thanks Patrick
You are amazing Patrick. You teach us well, after that its us who has to gallop and implement it. Otherwise its useless !! Now its up to us on how we take and how we do.
Very practical , genius.
Please do more of these conflict simulations such with the painting company. Priceless!
Another awesome video right to the point
Very helpful Patrick! Can't wait to hear and learn more at the Vault conference! :)
Who else is going?
This video is just dope.
This is the video I have been waiting for all these years of being a subscriber! I find most value in this because it's what I struggle with every single day. Thanks heaps as always Patty
Hey Mr. Bet David is there any way I can watch the webinar you talked abt?
I either avoid it or fight against it , fight or flight
Valuable!!!
This makes me think about the book you recommended a long time ago: Crucial conversations. I did buy it and it was a great read.
Brilliant advice! Fantastic video!
Excellent ~ Thank You
Notification squad ! I grow my mind with this channel. Thanks !
Love it Mate! Useful Tips
Pat Gangsta!! 16:35
Another great video Patrick! Thanks!
Hi Pat.
*IMPORTANT*
Sir, where was the Webinar in INDIA. And how can we participate from next time??
great advice!
All that info is great but what I want to know is what is in his right hand?
Good one PBD
2:58 damn, you know how to sell well af!
How can I exercise sales as a teenager? I wanted to make some money online but what I really want is to specialize as fast as I can in sales.
GREAT STUFF!
Thanks Patrick, your content is amazingly useful and practical :)
Amazing
I want to see the event. But I want to see it live from my home
Im speechless
Hey Patrick, today is Roger Omar Rodríguez Lopez Birthday 🎂
*_Yayyy I want these tips!!_* 🙌
I am number 3. I don't like confronting people. I feel I am bothering them. Not sure why I think that?
Uh really ? Nice I want to see it friend😮
I can be kinda stubborn and I hate conflict I can avoid it sometimes
God, parents, children and myself the only four people I trust 🙏🏾
Maybe it me but the number doesnt work when I text it. I always look forward to the pdf. I add the highlighted points into my notes.
Good video..
Best content!
What’s the name of your podcast? Is it on Spotify?
There’s no more pdf is it?
The link to the PDF opens up the same video on VT website.
How to deal with conflict
WAR
Video Starts At 3:50
Arman Mehrad every minute is useful bro
Thank you for this content.
Hey Pat great vid. just one little thing. I'm from India how do I get the pdf??🙈🙈🙈🙈
Marriage and family relationships
Here's a tip. Trust your enemies the most and watch those closest to you. They are the ones to be weary and suspicious of. Not the enemies.
14:00 - 19:00
#NotificationSquad #VaultConfrence
Trump & Patrick 2024 who is with me? This would be the Ultimate dream team for America!!
Can we get the pdf on your website too?
What if you notice a bunch of these tendencys at verying times in yourself
Hi sir can you tell me the movie name which scene you have taken in Qualify the conflict
So there's really only 2 levels with a higher level of accommodation that only works with others who are accommodating. Got it.
You made the coach apologize to your child. He's the coach , authority, way to cut his nuts off . Great lesson
Can I buy the online live stream event?
We will not be offering a LIVE stream for this conference.
*No one can be sad when they have a balloon. ₩*
I know this is a long stretch but how can I work for you sir. I'm tired of going to school(college) and learning stuff that wont make me rich. How can I work for you totally for free and I would do anything.
what do you do when people are being passive aggressive and when you confront them about it, they deny it and continue the passive aggressive behavior. And also they are spreading the passive aggressive behavior trying to get more people to also be passive aggressive.?? major issue I'm dealing with. I keep trying to confront them directly and they just pretend their not doing aything. It's seriously demented.
hi, is there any way to contact with you from other countries, such as telegram or whatsapp?
I probably could have watched this 10 years ago.
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