How to Make a Guy Crazy About You (Marilyn Monroe Flirting Breakdown)

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  • @sirkingjulio3704
    @sirkingjulio3704 6 років тому +1997

    My grandmother said: The man is always the HEAD of the house. Remember that. That said, the woman is the NECK, and she turns the head in the direction it needs to go.
    GENIUS

    • @simamkelesogoni3258
      @simamkelesogoni3258 5 років тому +29

      In order for the neck muscles to turn the head around, the brain(in the head) tells the neck what to do ..

    • @Meli-mn2dc
      @Meli-mn2dc 5 років тому +14

      Sima Sogoni32 you got that from a movie xD My big fat Greek wedding Ha

    • @simamkelesogoni3258
      @simamkelesogoni3258 5 років тому +3

      @@Meli-mn2dc actually I never watched a movie of such a name..weird coincidence. But if it correlates to my point then so be it

    • @MysticalCheshireKat
      @MysticalCheshireKat 5 років тому +11

      Sirking Julio my grandma always said that too 😭she’s passed away three years now but thank you so much for this comment ❤️😭

    • @simamkelesogoni3258
      @simamkelesogoni3258 5 років тому +6

      @@MysticalCheshireKat I'm sorry about your grandma

  • @crissw2471
    @crissw2471 7 років тому +1119

    "Never let him see who you really are" Maybe this was part of why MM was so deeply unhappy. I think she could attract men, but the men she attracted were not the ones who could love once they found out who she really was. It's better to attract someone who knows and loves your deepest self. To be known and loved is often more satisfying than to be worshiped by bewitching men.

    • @ramonaliong6624
      @ramonaliong6624 6 років тому +5

      Crys Wooten I

    • @sunshinexoxo20
      @sunshinexoxo20 6 років тому +35

      You said it... extremely well said

    • @sweetczz
      @sweetczz 5 років тому +53

      Exactly what I am thinking. Do you want to just be sexual or do you want to be respected, sexy, but individual?

    • @librascorner2271
      @librascorner2271 5 років тому +39

      Exactly! And that's one reason she stayed sad and depressed. She couldn't get the love she wanted and I know alot of us woman today understand. It's easy to have sex with different, its another thing for them to take you seriously when you want more or long term!

    • @belladonna5904
      @belladonna5904 5 років тому +20

      Joe DiMaggio came to her rescue repeatedly, even when they were not together, and even laid Rose's at her grave everyday after her passing

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 6 років тому +528

    One thing about Marilyn Monroe is she's very confident. She believes that she's attractive, so it makes her become attractive. Our mind is very powerful, what we think, is what we become. If we just bring positive thoughts in our mind, we can also bring positivity in our life.

    • @realtalk675
      @realtalk675 5 років тому +4

      Well said

    • @LadyPinkster
      @LadyPinkster 5 років тому +7

      Did she really believe that, like is it in a book? I would love to read it.
      Because I believe that what we think we become but you wonder about the models that hate their nose. Yet, others love it. Is is because they only hate it consciously and subconsciously they really loved or like their nose?
      Or is it because they loved their overall face and other people accepted and said what they have always believed?

    • @jiensuyang3915
      @jiensuyang3915 4 роки тому

      all those "sexy ladies" are dudes in drag. every single one. search you tube for #transVestigation

    • @sabrinamourih5251
      @sabrinamourih5251 4 роки тому +1

      @@LadyPinkster i actually read that in a book that people see you how you feel

    • @gurll-fn4ul
      @gurll-fn4ul 4 роки тому +11

      She was the opposite of self confident. I read her biography, and most of the Times she felt insecure, mostly at the Film Sets, where she forgot her part..

  • @SleepyCity0001
    @SleepyCity0001 6 років тому +1522

    "Some women choose to chase men, and some women choose to chase their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore"
    ~Lady Gaga
    Id rather be alone my whole life, than to be loved only for the mask I wear.

    • @Mynameisdarkxxo
      @Mynameisdarkxxo 6 років тому +6

      jaanthenymph holy shit

    • @srich3399
      @srich3399 5 років тому +5

      jaanthenymph awesome

    • @Jess-zm5xt
      @Jess-zm5xt 5 років тому +3

      Dwight Kurt Schrute lll damn dwight 🤧🙏🏼

    • @derekxiaoEvanescentBliss
      @derekxiaoEvanescentBliss 5 років тому +48

      Same can't be said about you. You may one day wake up and wish you had a partner next to you. Or find that your life is nothing without your work.

    • @sulivel
      @sulivel 5 років тому +11

      Dwight Kurt Schrute lll Do we want to end up like Marylin?🙄🤔. Did not end well.

  • @Morgana5886
    @Morgana5886 6 років тому +490

    OMFG all the people complaining about why Marilyn is used as an example of charm. The guy is talking about SEDUCTION, not about HOW TO BE TRULY LOVED. This video is about sexuality, charm, attraction, and not about deep love or commitment. Even the love or your live can be discouraged if you don't arouse his sexual desire, no matter how good person you are, or if you're saving children in Africa or discovering the cure for cancer. These are two completely different things, and you'd better understand the difference soon because, sadly, it will define your success on relationships. Don't fool yourself.

    • @assikamei2558
      @assikamei2558 5 років тому +6

      preeeach !

    • @meganevlst
      @meganevlst 5 років тому +5

      THANK YOU.

    • @realtalk675
      @realtalk675 5 років тому +4

      True

    • @Introvertsan
      @Introvertsan 5 років тому +5

      Totally they are being daft on purpose

    • @LOLA-kr7vn
      @LOLA-kr7vn 5 років тому +10

      BRILLIANT REPLY! someone who understands comprehension! 🤗

  • @mayaportland8805
    @mayaportland8805 7 років тому +987

    Let's not forget the danger of faking all this sexuality and beauty and playing this role of sexual goddess was so high pressuring for her that she became depressed, addicted to drugs, never happy in long term relationships and took her to an early and lonely death...Ironic for a woman who was loved and adored by millions of men, to die alone, no loving one around her, don't you think?

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +319

      Isabelle Layla as long as u do it for the fun rather than for the "need" for validation, you're good. but it's a very dangerous Game cus the attention is addictive

    • @mayaportland8805
      @mayaportland8805 7 років тому +17

      Very true. You're so wise for your age

    • @mayaportland8805
      @mayaportland8805 7 років тому +27

      Why do you think that someone who had it all: fame, money, beauty, adoration and love was sad and depressed? Cause beneath that glamour, her life was damn pretty tragic.
      Can't understand why. I mean she had it all. We, regular people think that becoming famous and rich will make us happy forever. Isn't it so?

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +50

      the outcome is always anticlimatic. They just cover up your pain until it's done and you're back to your pain. I like that idea and i should make a video about that #question

    • @mayaportland8805
      @mayaportland8805 7 років тому +19

      M.A. 2.0 I would definitely watch it. In special because she wasn't the only famous person that suffered. We see even nowadays so many famous singers, actors going insane, behaving out of control, getting nasty addictions and destroying themselves. So money is not the answer to unhappiness? ! ...

  • @Jirouu_kyoka
    @Jirouu_kyoka 10 місяців тому +24

    so basically :
    - Accepting and embracing your sexuality
    - Giving a hint of innocence : mesmerizing voice
    - Chilled aura : not talking or moving too fast
    - Giving and illusion that he is the one controlling you when in reality it is the other way around
    - Appear as something forbidden/ wrong
    - Clothing : hint the sexual (suggesting it rather than screaming it)
    Extra
    - Create fear : suddenly changing moods
    (hope this helps my ladies 😻🫶)

  • @POISONIVORY
    @POISONIVORY 7 років тому +352

    This was helpful on multiple levels. Not just as a woman but as a business woman. I don't think there is anything wrong with woman knowing their Power and using their womanly wilds. Bravo!

  • @TheJesusfreak7777777
    @TheJesusfreak7777777 6 років тому +343

    Hey guy, one if marilyns lines in a movie was "It takes a smart brunette to play a dumb blonde".I think she came up with that herself

    • @jiensuyang3915
      @jiensuyang3915 4 роки тому +3

      all those "sexy ladies" are dudes in drag. every single one. search you tube for #transVestigation

    • @rayneadriana1251
      @rayneadriana1251 4 роки тому +16

      she had to. she was brunette & dyed her hair blonde

    • @goddessglow6996
      @goddessglow6996 4 роки тому +1

      jiensu yang true

    • @danif.9414
      @danif.9414 4 роки тому +6

      @@rayneadriana1251 she was a redhead actually ;)

  • @madisonj5136
    @madisonj5136 7 років тому +364

    The truth was that was an act and it was part of her brand, Marilyn Monroe hated it, all men wanted from her was for her looks and she was hoping to find a man that would love her for her heart hit her body, and people thought she was dumb and she always had to prove people wrong. Her personality was fake for the public because that's what selled but we can't deny that she was beautiful

    • @1Skorpia
      @1Skorpia 7 років тому +22

      madison j yes. she was repeatedly told her job was to play the "dumb blond bimbo". to shut up about learning anything and she would be so doped up and depressed she hated to come out of her trailer. I also believe it was a big "fk u" to studio execs when she was angry.

    • @rouhesham839
      @rouhesham839 6 років тому +1

      skorpia g b

    • @britishbird1949
      @britishbird1949 6 років тому

      madison j of

    • @britishbird1949
      @britishbird1949 6 років тому

      Whoops

    • @britishbird1949
      @britishbird1949 6 років тому

      Thank you for your wonderful advice love listening to you

  • @PrincessEnie
    @PrincessEnie 6 років тому +590

    My husband called me a siren and now I'm figuring what he meant. My great grandmother was a geisha so I learned a few tips. My voice is extremely soft and I like to talk focusing on my lip movements to slow myself down and make my lips appear sexy but keep my eyes big and innocent. I never smile too wide; very subtle-shy smiles.
    I always play dumb because (this isn't good) but I'm manipulative and like to see how people react to innocence and see if they'll take advantage of it.
    I always told men about my about my sad past and depression to see their reaction (but don't tell them everything) and they naturally feel bad for me and want to nurture me. Then I usually wear skirts and dresses so when they come to comfort me ill rub my leg or sit my hand on theirs and look the other way pretending it was an accident. Then I'll leave and not talk to him for days and then pop up and pretend everything is fine.
    Plus, im a gemini!

    • @dulcevera1613
      @dulcevera1613 5 років тому +59

      ting ting it’s a Gemini ♊️ thing 😉

    • @Bodangers
      @Bodangers 5 років тому +85

      Dangerous woman with good advice! It definitely helps to talk softly and act innocent.

    • @kayranger1
      @kayranger1 5 років тому +41

      I"m a Gemini as well, as was Marilyn Monroe, and I have natural sexuality as well. Angelina Jolie is a Gemini as well. I think it jut comes naturally for us Gemini women.

    • @dellchica2373
      @dellchica2373 5 років тому +8

      Awesome! Start ur own channel :)

    • @isatabaj2430
      @isatabaj2430 5 років тому +22

      You should’ve just said you’re a Gemini.

  • @lilaah7
    @lilaah7 7 років тому +837

    He has such a beautiful voice himself. Or is it because he's channeling a little bit of Marilyn? 😂

  • @DJ-ij2sy
    @DJ-ij2sy 6 років тому +433

    Men destroyed this woman

    • @EcoworksFL
      @EcoworksFL 5 років тому +50

      They sure did...Sad but true

    • @sydneyalexander2067
      @sydneyalexander2067 4 роки тому +36

      Not entirely true. Her mother and absent father, and the scum bag foster parents she had. A bunch of narcissistic abusers.

    • @millyv8787
      @millyv8787 4 роки тому +6

      sydney alexander true!

    • @Stormy867
      @Stormy867 4 роки тому +11

      Yes and no one talks about this! Thank you!

    • @Stormy867
      @Stormy867 4 роки тому +5

      sydney alexander yelp we cant forget about her mother and what she did to her

  • @detruth
    @detruth 7 років тому +609

    Very smart woman. I loved how she played the whole "submissive" role all the while pulling the puppet string lol

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +67

      exactly... now don't get any ideas lol

    • @eleanoretchu5061
      @eleanoretchu5061 7 років тому +34

      Deb Trott but we forget that Marilyn hated her dumb blonde role and wanted to be taken seriously. She also was severely depressed and committed suicide.

    • @madisonj5136
      @madisonj5136 7 років тому +2

      Eleanor Etchu exactly I'm actually doing a project on her

    • @chocolatecharley99
      @chocolatecharley99 7 років тому +24

      Deb Trott Pretending to be submissive would just be too depressing

    • @madisonj5136
      @madisonj5136 7 років тому +24

      Rudolph Rudolph she was depressed

  • @stargazerlily8451
    @stargazerlily8451 5 років тому +111

    To the people saying that Marilynn was a depressed, sad, lonely woman, ok yes that's true. However, Alex's message is meant to be taken with a grain of salt. You cant do the siren at work or church etc. But when you're out, it doesn't hurt to take the time to do your makeup (the right way), wash and style your hair, wear feminine soft colors, beautiful accessories, flattering, and fashionable clothes and shoes. I can't tell you how many times I go out and see women and girls with no makeup, in sweats and tennis shoes, messy bun, looking like they just rolled out of bed. It's depressing really. So when men see a woman who displays at least certain aspects of a siren, they cant help but want to take care of her. I've experienced it and seen it.

    • @catricehawkins4958
      @catricehawkins4958 3 роки тому +2

      I understand your perspective. As stated in the art of seduction...a completely put together look is boring...you need to have something that suggests the bedroom in your look...something messy.

    • @annerittwage1401
      @annerittwage1401 3 роки тому +3

      I think why people comment on her depression is because people who are like her have a very hard time with love and life in general. We don't know what love is and the partner we attract don't know it either. It's a really sad life to live. And then you find people you click with, vibe with, on an emotional and sexual level, but the other person always is emotionally immature and can't commit. It will always be that way. How can you find fulfillment in life when all you are valued for is your body, but nobody really appreciates you for who you are as a person as well? They come to you with their problems, but can't see you as anything more than that.

    • @isaacmendez5
      @isaacmendez5 2 роки тому +2

      Me as a boy always felt as a siren. And yes boys get crazy for me and wants to "catch" me and protects me hahaha

    • @MedusssssaChristo
      @MedusssssaChristo 8 місяців тому

      Absolutely something disheveled

  • @MaraMarieBeauty
    @MaraMarieBeauty 7 років тому +176

    Marilyn was. a Master of the game. She was with Sinatra too. Great video💋

  • @iknowwhatsup2880
    @iknowwhatsup2880 3 роки тому +36

    Get in touch with you feminine, be confident with your sexuality, proud of who you are, happy, fun, sometimes moody (because your human) flirty, playful but have boundaries!!! Don't try to be something you're not, embrace you and the rest will follow. There will never be another Marilyn, give it up! And there will also never be another ME, 😉😉

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach 4 роки тому +39

    Make him crazy by ignoring him...dissappearing. Sometimes. Don't respond to calls or texts. For a whole day. He'll go crazy. Then send him a beautiful Good morning message.

  • @DivineFeminine_1111
    @DivineFeminine_1111 7 років тому +234

    I think Aaliyah would be a good video to do! She was so sexy, and sang very soft, but also had a masculine quality to her as well. And damn she could dance!

    • @chinenyekalu7179
      @chinenyekalu7179 7 років тому +8

      Christina yess

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 6 років тому +7

      True

    • @trinity.6655
      @trinity.6655 6 років тому +5

      Christina I agree!

    • @yeyeejaimelamusique
      @yeyeejaimelamusique 6 років тому +6

      Is there others women who wants to be not just more Charismatic, but also a good social Dancer, Martial artist & Parkour, Fit, Funny, Well dress and to be a Problem Solver? Or Am I the only women who would like to learn all of this ?!

    • @profoundseeker8654
      @profoundseeker8654 6 років тому +2

      Yes she was a dandy

  • @catricehawkins4958
    @catricehawkins4958 7 років тому +86

    I'm addicted to this channel...CAUSE he is the TRUTH. The art of seduction book is marked up in my library with notes but he puts everything into perspective!! Keep up the great work. Youre a great teacher...

  • @ScorpionVixen35
    @ScorpionVixen35 6 років тому +41

    I too have always been an admirer of Marilyn Monroe since I was a little girl!!! Outside of her obvious beauty, I've always been mesmerized by her confidence and femininity💖💖💖

  • @GNICHO
    @GNICHO 6 років тому +46

    This is called Kitten/Beta programming very powerful for spywork. She was coached by Anton Lavey, and was student of philosophy.

  • @lolalolita3537
    @lolalolita3537 7 років тому +64

    this is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AMAZING!!!! I KNEW ACTING INNOCENT WAS POWERFUL

  • @user-od4op6ng9y
    @user-od4op6ng9y 7 років тому +193

    She was very seductive because she suffered from "Borderline Personalty Disorder". Most women who have it are very attractive and can seduce just about anyone. They also suffer from a slue of other problems, substance abuse, impulsive behavior, feeling of emptiness, lack of empathy to name a few. I dated a women who had it and let me tell you I've never met another women in my life who was as seductive as my ex. These women also destroy just about every man that comes in their lives. They are unable to have a healthy emotional attachment.

    • @aislingying9971
      @aislingying9971 6 років тому +7

      That's so true I have BPD too

    • @MrJayman2828
      @MrJayman2828 5 років тому +7

      Borderline Personality Disorder is the biggest crock of shit of a “diagnosis” in this society. Don’t even go there dude. Not a real thing.

    • @originalstel
      @originalstel 4 роки тому +2

      LOOOOOOL ITS ALL MAKING SENSE

    • @ADayToRemember123456
      @ADayToRemember123456 4 роки тому +6

      Lol you’re very uninformed. Anything that came from her psychiatrist was fraudulent and use to manipulate her. she was not sick the way they made her sick and diluted her. that is not a credible diagnosis at all. you make accusations with doing little to no research to see the real her outside of a mans narrative. the doctor needed her to be sick to keep her close.

    • @Joythealchemist
      @Joythealchemist 3 роки тому

      lmao oh.

  • @Blando7887
    @Blando7887 7 років тому +59

    Marilyn was beyond gorgeous, men are visual. it probably didnt take much efforf

  • @leslibarker6461
    @leslibarker6461 6 років тому +164

    This morning, I took a call from a man...I spoke in a slow relaxed and deeper voice just like you said...It was so funny because he was like I've never heard you speak like that...you sound delicious...he even stopped rambling on and said say something. I don't care what...read something...I just wanna hear you...Lol He was totally captivated....he said my voice was magic...☺️

  • @diarrareed
    @diarrareed 5 років тому +42

    This shit really works!!!! Not only for seduction purposes, but for relating to men in the work place with ease. Leaving conversations feeling good and making guys around you feel good too 😉

  • @graceaqua
    @graceaqua 5 років тому +26

    Btw Marilyn also said she had a stutter when she was a kid so she had to train her voice to speak slower. I can totally relate cos I had to do that too & it helped lol

  • @shanellsplace
    @shanellsplace 7 років тому +139

    Marilyn Monroe was a sad woman. She may have been able to seduce all of these men but she was also disrespected by them. She used to get abused by some of these same men physically and mentally.
    And there is nothing cute about being with other people's husbands but she found that out in the end also.
    She may have been a Siren and She may have made good movies and was beautiful but she was very sad.

    • @shanellsplace
      @shanellsplace 4 роки тому

      @Ocean Flower I'm 7 Months late but EXACTLY!

    • @shanellsplace
      @shanellsplace 4 роки тому +1

      @Ocean Flower
      I agree. I wasn't a fan of hers but then I started to really look at her story and things that happened to her and I also feel sorry for her.
      I believe everything that you wrote is true.
      I can't imagine living nor dying the way that she did.
      .

    • @shanellsplace
      @shanellsplace 4 роки тому

      @Ocean Flower I was just talking about a guy who was delusional and living in his own world but after reading your comment I feel bad for him too.
      I don't want to feel bad for him lol but you really made me realize that might be his issue. Thank You for making me look at it another way.

  • @sarahst.lawrencemusic3918
    @sarahst.lawrencemusic3918 7 років тому +158

    Keep in mind, Marilyn was excruciatingly depressed and probably never got to have an actual orgasm a day in her short life. Have fun, but it's an act. Men who love you, will want you when you're gross.

    • @jbjjbb
      @jbjjbb 7 років тому +17

      Sarah St. Lawrence Music Marilyn said in the tapes of her therapy sessions with her one psychiatrist that she was only able to orgasm with women. She had sex with Liz Taylor, Barbara Stanyick, Joan Crawford and her acting coach.

    • @misshouda1740
      @misshouda1740 7 років тому +1

      J omg are you serious ??

    • @jbjjbb
      @jbjjbb 7 років тому +3

      Houda Bouraya Yes! Here's one of the articles from Daily Mail -
      www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2176657/Marilyn-Monroe-The-ultimate-sex-symbol-men-But-did-love-women.html

    • @earthangel6858
      @earthangel6858 7 років тому +10

      J How'd this get out...isn't there something called patient confidentiality

    • @jbjjbb
      @jbjjbb 7 років тому +6

      earthangel I'm not sure when the patient laws were passed, but I believe when Marilyn was in these therapy sessions, those laws weren't enacted yet. Read the article at Daily Mail for more information.

  • @alexandraschuster9700
    @alexandraschuster9700 4 роки тому +12

    What it's odd to me everyone mostly women are focusing in all her flaws, instead of seeing her achievements. She fought the big movie companies by starting her own with equal pay, she was a deep thinking woman, intelligent, beautiful on the outside and more beautiful on the inside

  • @annesobb1675
    @annesobb1675 2 роки тому +2

    She speaks slowly and with confidence and calm, decontracted

  • @good1125
    @good1125 3 роки тому +14

    This is me, I have been like this my whole life unintentionally, sometimes I used this character to manipulate the minds of men, yes it works.
    I found it to be so mysterious and seductive, men fall at my knees, but actually when we are talking seriously they want to date ‘real’. I didn’t want to be just a fantasy anymore.
    I would only take aspects of the siren personality. Men like smart articulate women as well, who speak confidently and have big aims in life. Using the siren as an aura and not literally.
    It is great for TV/on camera personality.

    • @helenmark1206
      @helenmark1206 3 роки тому

      +1 2136309451..... this is the number of a v ery pow erful man wh o hel ped bring me my ex-hus band, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has returned to me, 👌💗💗

  • @LindaLucia17
    @LindaLucia17 5 років тому +17

    Marily Monroe is a classic representation of Borderline Personality Disorder. She was beautiful, yet in much pain. That is where the unpredictability of her personality stems from.

  • @iamsaztak
    @iamsaztak 7 років тому +39

    i've been trying to accept my femininity lately. it's painful in some ways, as there are so many lies we believe, but it also helps me learn to love myself. it's sad how women are enticed to hate the feminine within themselves. thank you for these vids. I think men have a gift of helping women see their own natural beauty. it's incredibly powerful, it can be overwhelming to accept, but in doing so, we resonate our wishes and our true self more beautiful into the world. whether it's through our looks, our character, our kin, our career, etc.
    it's funny too, I never realized how much we have in common with men too. we both seem to like the same thing out of the other, but because of our biological differences, we want it communicated in different ways. thank you, your sensitivity and openness make it much easier to hear loving Truth!

  • @kaalabrooks4613
    @kaalabrooks4613 7 років тому +116

    I see you were flustered trying to talk about her lol!

  • @lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424
    @lalmuankimichhakchhuak5424 7 років тому +13

    Is it just me or your voice sound much deeper, more subtle and a bit more playful than your other channel 😉 another great video

  • @sheilahawkins8861
    @sheilahawkins8861 4 роки тому +5

    I love this Alex, I see your eyes are dreamy talking about Marylin, She's adorable.

  • @rn2511
    @rn2511 4 роки тому +5

    I’m socially awkward. And a total geek. But somehow attract a lot of men. The ones close to me would tell me it’s because I’m not aware of it all. My mentor tells me to lower my voice a bit to sound a bit deeper because I have a soft voice. So it can be soft but lower and what I’ve noticed is when I remember to do it, It tricks my brain in a way that I become a bit more confident. And I also like looking into people’s eyes and reading lips and body language. Not for nefarious reasons but I tend to automatically watch your lips move when you’re talking and I look into your eyes and read your body language to understand you better. Keep in mind I’m also an INFJ. So I tend to connect to people in some weird way because of my empathy. Can make people tell you stuff too. But I don’t exactly know to do all this mindfully. The book enlightened me about my charm cause I’ve always been confused about what it is exactly since I don’t see what people see. In a way I’m thankful cause I’m very introverted and clueless about seduction lol. I would have been hopeless otherwise.

  • @MsAlexis
    @MsAlexis 6 років тому +46

    Why we gotta be so many things to keep a Man...Sounds sexy but it sounds like too much effort!But I will take the soften my voice and act innocent advise and run with it!! lol

  • @Elena_PS91
    @Elena_PS91 5 років тому +28

    Ladies be feminine....and watch the men go crazy :P

  • @tracitereska9655
    @tracitereska9655 7 років тому +13

    u are an old soul homie with new school swag...love it...I never listen to stuff like this but i was feelin it....u got something within u...u are definitely goin places. for real!

  • @HallmarkRocks
    @HallmarkRocks 6 років тому +39

    Look pretty, play dumb and innocent

    • @CS-pl1re
      @CS-pl1re 5 років тому +6

      I've never payd for anything 😂

  • @MadAboutRAE
    @MadAboutRAE 7 років тому +14

    Let me start off by saying this is a great video. But I think that you should of touched on the fact that Marilyn was drunk or tipsy about 99.9% of the time which really helps with not giving a fuck and thus being more alluring. I wonder if this level of sexuality and charisma would be sustainable for those of us who are mostly sober.

  • @suzihines6450
    @suzihines6450 4 роки тому +12

    The book Art of Seduction is a must read! It’s even available as an audiobook.

  • @gracelikerain5039
    @gracelikerain5039 5 років тому +5

    Ive been asked if my voice was fake because i naturally have an innocent childlike voice and men always tell me my voice turns them on i use to think that meant they were pedophiles because ive always been told i have a soft babylike voice but now i understand i guess god knew what he was doing

  • @belleamourphed1111
    @belleamourphed1111 7 років тому +29

    I suppress it when I'm out most of the time BC I dont want anymore stalkers. At least until I have a bodyguard. Men stare at me while they're with their wives. Some are rude just for my attention. I ignore them. I speak soft & kinda slowly & ppl have always asked was I a phone sex operator 😩 I will be tho I can use the coins lol

  • @byNicolii
    @byNicolii 7 років тому +10

    Alex, you are my favorite coach. I watched almost all of your videos (some of them maybe twice :D ) and now I am definitely a better version of myself, when it comes to confidence and dating. My crush finally started to chase and respect me! If it works out with him, I owe you a big chocolate :D stay awesome!

    • @safaathalia6388
      @safaathalia6388 3 роки тому +1

      hey I know this comment is 4 years ago but Im just curious. Did it work out with your crush?

  • @floraeflora
    @floraeflora 2 роки тому +4

    I discovered I’m a siren naturally and I’m living all my live trying to change my way of being because I think it makes people think im weak, or too inocent, and then when I realize it can be happening, I get reactive. Buttt I also realized that try to change my persona is so painful… I think I just have to master it.

  • @debrawairimu5812
    @debrawairimu5812 4 роки тому +12

    Joe DiMaggio's last words were " I'll finally get to see Marylin".

  • @lindaallie5333
    @lindaallie5333 6 років тому +4

    I loved this video. Now I understand myself a little better. Men have always said to me you ooze sex, your sexy, and I found this offensive. Now that I'm older, I understand it. I cut back my appearance, elegant sexy clothes because it pushed female friends away.... Well look out world, cuz here I come again! Thank you so much for this fantastic video! I love you!

  • @marycelestegriffin5305
    @marycelestegriffin5305 4 роки тому +1

    I saw you yesterday at Roosevelt/Wabash! I was in complete disbelief and you knew it. The universe is cray. I love your artwork.

  • @CynthiaWithLove
    @CynthiaWithLove 2 роки тому +3

    I practice being feminine everyday. It's my super power. I love men and men love me. Every age. It's wonderful. (I'm 51)

  • @abonds93
    @abonds93 7 років тому +49

    She got depressed because she could never truly be herself too much expectation to be someone she wasn't probaly

  • @dkisha100
    @dkisha100 6 років тому +11

    Funny thing is that I was sitting in my car listening to this while twirling my hair and this guy walked up struck a conversation with me

  • @yahsvaseofhonor
    @yahsvaseofhonor 7 років тому +32

    I don't understand why waste time by being fake so that a man will fall in love with the illusion of you ... ? Why not just be yourself, live your life and be loved for who you truly are ? Isn't it so much more fulfilling ?

    • @goddessqueennita1516
      @goddessqueennita1516 6 років тому +11

      Predator or Prey, that's what it boils down to. Men are never truly being themselves, when they first meet you they always have a different underlying motivation.

    • @monakool1708
      @monakool1708 3 роки тому +1

      How many guys fell for you by being yourself?If many then good going for you but since you are listening to him that means none.So change your tactics

  • @katherinemysteries4973
    @katherinemysteries4973 5 років тому +44

    Scorpio women are great at this 🤣 ;)

    • @MrSnowleopard4u
      @MrSnowleopard4u 5 років тому +1

      Scorpio here. I think so too.

    • @crmeladwn6957
      @crmeladwn6957 5 років тому

      Douaa Nada yass 🖤♏️

    • @Rontlc3317
      @Rontlc3317 4 роки тому +1

      Facts

    • @haydi6905
      @haydi6905 3 роки тому +7

      I don’t think so ! They are more of masculine than feminine

    • @kaytified
      @kaytified 3 роки тому +1

      we’re naturals

  • @Lolamola333
    @Lolamola333 4 роки тому +1

    this is one of your best videos , Some people have all those qualities by nature while other are born differently , I personally knew women naturally like tha and always been with the best guys ever

  • @FizzMovies
    @FizzMovies 6 років тому +4

    This my fav Dalexis - and here he speaks so softly (like Marilyn) Fast forward a couple of years and his videos scare the shit out of me and make me never wanna go out again. Either way, still entertaining

  • @mirzamay
    @mirzamay 6 років тому +16

    Remember though that in the end Marilyn wanted love and the men she loved did not love her back. It was quite tragic. Being the siren is so fun but it doesn't necessarily offer the substance that lasts.
    I want a relationship that has the real but can sustain the siren, so that things can get and stay hot hot hot but include deep love. Are those two exlusive? Because I'm going to try like fuck to get that. escape/create reality together. I'm done with being bored.

  • @B89Stranger
    @B89Stranger 5 років тому +5

    Love how you approach your audience in this video. Your voice is calm, speaking in a steady pace, and overly aggressive like your talking to a dude.... Sexy

  • @zoiahargrove9681
    @zoiahargrove9681 3 роки тому +4

    Can you make this video again break it down again 😩😂I need more examples on how to make them siren's go off lol frfr no joke please please please

  • @hollywoodhoneyz2748
    @hollywoodhoneyz2748 2 роки тому +2

    Muhammad Ali and Marilyn certainly knew the finesse of how to, " Float like a butterfly; sting like a bee," and each has their own interpretation. Marilyn was stunning, aloof, alluring with mystery, and gave a lighter than air presence & personality. Yet, she knew & mastered the art of seduction! Nothing she did, wore, or said wasn't planned! She planned & mastered it to perfection!
    Bravo 👏

  • @nuckey8941
    @nuckey8941 6 років тому +11

    HEY DO PART II WITH OTHER EXAMPLES ON HER OR ON ANOTHER ONE LIKE HER PLEASEEEEEEE!!!!!!

  • @andrajulie
    @andrajulie 3 роки тому +2

    I don't know if it was just me...but wow this video was so relaxing...loved the whispered voice.

  • @elsandinda
    @elsandinda 7 років тому +30

    I liked the video but I'm not sure why Monroe would be used an example for emulation. Marilyn died alone and suffered from depression among many things. She could seduce men but not keep a single marriage for long her life was actually kind of sad 😕 #justmyopinion

    • @Lalalu74
      @Lalalu74 6 років тому +5

      Not all your soulmates are meant to be in your life forever,how many women can say that they can be adored by anyman they want.

    • @monakool1708
      @monakool1708 3 роки тому +4

      Focus on her seduction techniques not on her life coz you ain’t gonna be as famous as her neither you gonna end up like her.

  • @elizabethrodriguez8945
    @elizabethrodriguez8945 4 роки тому +6

    Lexx this video is definitely a big help for me...you know the movie Gone With The Wind I’m more like the Melanie character and when I was a teenager I judged Scarlett but subconsciously wanted to be more like her. Now at 47 and divorced I’m embracing my beauty and sexuality. I’m learning how to be more independent less vulnerable but definitely have to learn from Marilyn but I want to be my own Marilyn I see to many wannabes it irks me. I got a little ghetto some class some confidence a lot of shyness some independence but never liked asking for help but with help from you and Marilyn I’m sure to seduce my Clark Gable thank you.

  • @lucee553
    @lucee553 7 років тому +35

    I like the way you speak! I'm an audio learner , I would be a Student all my life if you were my teacher 👨‍🏫

  • @thatglamb1035
    @thatglamb1035 3 роки тому +3

    i have men following me around and sometimes gets sexually assaulted at my job. i notice when a man cant take his eye off me or cant keep distance with me constantly. during im working they try to help me so damn much like they dont allow me to do stuff alone. like im a kid. probably i look so weak, and its kind of sweet that they help me a lot with what i was trying to do but, sometimes it gets anoying at some point. and they cant concentrate on their own work which is given like he forgets about it , but they are fully about to take my job instead, like suddenly they appear and helping me like, please i can do it by myself thats how i feel. and sometimes when he is trying to talk to me, i notice he gets hard so he bends forward and rushes to the toilet. upon all these i really dont feel respected and feel safe at all.like this attention is unneeded thats my personal thought. i wish men are more respectfull. like if you are interested to me, please ask me more questions instead of touching me, or just taking my job or sticking around wherever i go. so please teach me how to be respected as a person.

    • @helenmark1206
      @helenmark1206 3 роки тому

      +1 2136309451..... this is the number of a v ery pow erful man wh o hel ped bring me my ex-hus band, who left me for years and now my ex-husband has returned to me, 👌💗💗

  • @redsea0501
    @redsea0501 6 років тому +3

    She melts my heart❤️❤️
    Excellent video my dear

  • @horrorcops
    @horrorcops 7 років тому +53

    i've read the art of seduction several time, and last night i was listening to the notes on youtube something similar to your video.
    It's true I love to play the siren men love fantasy so much. When men meet me the first comment i get is on my voice :)

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +13

      shame on you for being a siren :)

    • @annelansang1225
      @annelansang1225 6 років тому

      Mindful Attraction 2.0 I want to know you more..😆

    • @salomesaudade1529
      @salomesaudade1529 6 років тому +5

      I love to play too, and not ont only men love fantasy but as a woman I love it too, to be creator and artist in life. Life is so much more interesting that way :) I think about myself as a work of art- my body language voice apperance, the way I think, the way I express myself..I really enjoy playing whit that

  • @southsydesasha7268
    @southsydesasha7268 7 років тому +36

    Good job! Ive been in love w Marilyn since my bff's mama had them movies fell in love and i was 10 im 33 now& the woman was very feminine, very unlike women of today. And yes the helpless act really works bc men WANT to be the hero i say let them! Everybody wins!!!❤Marilyn Monroe💋💋

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +7

      exactly. Well said, "everybody wins". That's pretty much the gist of it.

  • @theresachung703
    @theresachung703 3 роки тому +1

    You’re super smart. You have cultural understanding that’s deep and profound.

  • @claudinemingoa9209
    @claudinemingoa9209 5 років тому +7

    I feel sad about norma jean, she studied an art that led to her untimely demise

  • @Alexi-pj4yb
    @Alexi-pj4yb 3 роки тому +1

    The take away for me is: tap into my feminine energy & explore new ways of presenting myself. Offer variety and adventure and look good always, don't over do it just be a sweeter version of me 🙂

  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +42

    Am I the only one who finds the audio delay annoying? Please let me know because if it doesn't bother you, i'll keep it. If it's annoying, i'm fixing it and reuploading. I think I have a compulsivity to making these vids perfect lol

    • @Ms..Sunshine02
      @Ms..Sunshine02 6 років тому +1

      I luv ur Voice and whole entire message on the Art. I suggest maybe lowering just a bit the rap music part to hear ur voice/message better. The rap plays a strong point on what your explaing. Thank you for the video. It's Great.

    • @mb4692
      @mb4692 6 років тому +2

      Haha didn’t notice until you mentioned it

  • @princessmandy1757
    @princessmandy1757 2 роки тому +2

    I am a marylin monroe fan, but I appreciate the real woman. I have a lot in common with her with her problems with men/mental. Being lonely... She was very beautiful inside.

  • @Lovejoyful606
    @Lovejoyful606 6 років тому +13

    I'm a true siren! Also a Gemini.. I started charming seconds out of the womb..lol

  • @lindsayspohn1760
    @lindsayspohn1760 5 місяців тому +2

    I hear you, and have been watching your videos a long time. This is my analysis of those clips… I feel like to men.. she gives off hyper sexual, breathy, I can’t help myself, take me energies but then her contrast is that she has an aura of self control, and restraint, and an ability to redirect that sexual energy other places. I think that makes men competitive and confused because she seems so eager but yet in control (they know her lustful eagerness can be taken from them and turned towards another man at any given time). The competition and confusion creates mystery, excitement. Her restraint on giving away too much about herself adds to it, as she plants a lustful seed in their imagination through her body language (swaying her breasts, walking with her hips, and slow graceful cohesive movements) and in the time spent away from her ideas and fantasies come about in their minds and a passionate obsession grows.

  • @gidzboxbox8839
    @gidzboxbox8839 3 роки тому +4

    So basically, act shy, vulnerable, calm. Ie. An easy target.
    My personality is talkative, loud, friendly and I still get guys. But true I guess being 5ft0 I'm still seen as a little girl that's vulnerable even though I'm fiesty af.
    I would like to lower my voice though but I can only do that in bed.
    Otherwise I naturally talk like I'm excited all the time. I can't help it Coz my personality is that I'm funny and sociable. I would like to learn how to stay like that but with a calmer voice

  • @blue_pullover
    @blue_pullover 7 років тому +5

    I love to be the vulnerable one.. but I never dare to, cause nowadays you need a dominance to get anywhere (other than a guy's bed)

  • @billylee580
    @billylee580 7 років тому +87

    You're a very intelligent man

  • @sezzyforreal4744
    @sezzyforreal4744 6 років тому +53

    Three words. ..Lana Del Rey ♡

  • @asf-xj6xz
    @asf-xj6xz 3 роки тому +3

    *This is so interesting... I wanna try ALL of this but the scary part is what if what happened to Marilyn happens to me? Like what it once the guy "has" me and sees me as myself he leaves? That's gonna suck.* 💀

  • @MindfulAttraction2.0
    @MindfulAttraction2.0  7 років тому +5

    Videos that I recommend to watch
    1) How to Heal Emotional Pain And Let Go of the Past ua-cam.com/video/LiuVWrhsAwU/v-deo.html
    2) 4 Easy Ways to Stop Attracting the Wrong Guy & Attract The Ideal Guy ua-cam.com/video/HbDb8vdgRqY/v-deo.html
    3) How to Improve Your Self Image - Body Image & Self Esteem - Nip Tuck Scene Breakdown ua-cam.com/video/cSUxOMvqAvk/v-deo.html

  • @flyandshy00
    @flyandshy00 7 років тому +23

    Some men fall in love with the opposite like geek kind of girl and stuff. And all these clothes are from the movie, she didn't dress like that in real life.

  • @lamiaaal2283
    @lamiaaal2283 7 років тому +23

    haha I am innocent and calm because I don't know how to speak in hurry, not a siren 😁

  • @deloto8004
    @deloto8004 6 років тому +6

    Interesting, I do a lot of this naturally. In fact I'm terribly introverted and I don't act for anyone. Yet I do have a strong effect on men, I didn't understand it as well as I do now.

  • @nashonharris7805
    @nashonharris7805 4 роки тому +4

    Watching in 2019, reinventing myself for 2020

  • @arleneduran2347
    @arleneduran2347 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for encouraging who we are. Sirens of this world. always connected to your great videos.

  • @rayneadriana1251
    @rayneadriana1251 4 роки тому +2

    Everyone who is complaining about Marilyn Monroe not having genuine romantic companionship needs to READ THE ROOM. This video is about how to seduce a man using charm & sensuality, not how to find true love. & y’all don’t know what Marilyn truly wanted out of her romantic/sexual relationships. Marilyn is rich & a seductress. you think she’s as emotional as Y’ALL when it comes to dating? Marilyn could’ve been sleeping & charming her way to the top for all we know, but y’all swear she was miserable. Stop it.

  • @mikekinnison6990
    @mikekinnison6990 7 років тому +11

    I REALLY like his voice...whoa!

  • @Galaxyfi3nd_
    @Galaxyfi3nd_ 6 років тому +2

    We fear just being looked at as sexual too.. and not anything being more to who we are

  • @mdh9247
    @mdh9247 4 роки тому +8

    13:55 "Neither Cleo nor Marilyn were known for their beautiful faces." Lol WHAT? What a lie. Look at Marilyn.

    • @misshouda1740
      @misshouda1740 3 роки тому +2

      But Grace Kelly and ava garner had way prettier faces .but they are not as magnetic to men like her and they weren't Internationally famous as her .

  • @DavidRodriguez-iy6zt
    @DavidRodriguez-iy6zt 2 роки тому +1

    Ptttttt 2 pleaseee this is gold

  • @50hellkat2
    @50hellkat2 7 років тому +6

    Marilyn had a beautiful face. No illusion. With or without makeup. With or without clothes.

  • @Buety12002
    @Buety12002 4 роки тому +2

    Sooo am I the only one that noticed how you was using the M.M. voice through out this video, lol

  • @user-js1gw1sx9i
    @user-js1gw1sx9i 7 років тому +17

    I've been a siren my entire life
    It was until then I recognize that goddess energy) even now! I disappear for days,I
    Change like a. Chameleon!
    When they see me,I'm casual
    Sexy,are going to workout to
    Take a walk,the traffic I. The
    Neighborhood starting getting busy,they are on their
    Cellphones,then the girlfriends
    Roll by,I use hedge trimmers
    Like a pro,while being sexy) their men,I don't wont period )
    The men love looking,staring
    What if) I act like I don't know
    He is watching !

  • @Abbatiello053i
    @Abbatiello053i 6 років тому +2

    Ty! So true that we do control them when they think they are controlling us.

  • @CosmetologyNFashion
    @CosmetologyNFashion 7 років тому +5

    She was a Classic Beauty that really wanted be loved.. Everyone wants love. We are not designed to be Alone!!