I’m never going back.. Being with him was hell. Sweet then evil. Important than unimportant. Sick games for 5 yrs. Worst experience of my life. I’m on my way back to me.
All too familiar the ups and downs, the on and off. Makeup and breakup. I said no more 5 months ago and he remains blocked. I'm hurt and I so wanted it to work but.. He just wasn't worth the trouble and heartache.
They never change, right?! OMG...it's like when they're sweet, that's what gets us hooked! But once that evil side comes out, it's like "This is exactly why I left you alone!" Been doing it off and on for 13 years and every time he comes back, I swear he seems like he's finally got it and really changed. Saying everything I want to hear. How he's been denying his flesh and really tapping into God....then I start to see old patterns and his actions don't align with his words. Then of course when I say something, he says I'm too sensitive and we're not on the same page and he feels like he can never win with me. It's funny to me now tho! I realize my love I once had has faded away. It's more of an unhealthy attachment at this point. Going back to therapy so I can never go back because it's exhausting.
Where are all the male empaths??? Who believe in honesty, providing and protecting in a mutual loving relationship. Who are aware of the evil world we live in. With all these fake narc, monsters running around destroying people. Taking everything while abusing you at the same time.
It's the petty vindictiveness for small slights and the mind games in an effort to "train" the person, along with being irresponsible, unreliable, and no integrity that makes me RUN FAST from these guys!
So true I left and went back he was good for a few months then went right back to his old self again but this time when I left I said enough is enough I'll never allow myself to be pulled back into that horrible trap all Praises belong to God 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He would always blame the devil. He always thought he could outsmart God. God knew I would continue to try to believe him and in him. God HAD to turn my heart away...all of a sudden the lies, manipulation was evident. The lies, his presence made me physically sick. He tried to give me all I wanted in the end, but I saw the ugly and knew I could never return. Excessive behavior is an understatement. Leon, u on point with this one! Ty ty ty
My hands are on the plow pushing forward. NEVER TO RETURN! Hell, no....Access, Deniied to ever coming back! Indefinitely! My Glow Up NOW.... will burn the hell out of him!
Take notes that the "I didnt mean it" is a form of covert gaslighting. They are trying to advocate to your empathy. They meant it. TY Leon for opening eyes.
Hi Leon. I did exactly this more than several times. Then after two weeks it happened again . Same bs . No accountability . We could’ve had a good life . But happiness is not a narcissist trait. To me God is love. Peace . Joy , etc . And if someone hasn’t got these . They need to go. These narcissist need deliverance. It’s a spiritual battle we are fighting. The devil was the first one Jesus encountered. Resist the devil and he will flee from you . Never will I again let any entity dim my God given light . Psalm 91 over anyone that is suffering from this . Get out . Stay out.
I changed my number, moved without him knowing, deactivated my social media & thank God I never told him where my new office is at & he doesn’t know where any of my family stays or anything!! So thankful for Leon & Lee (mentalhellness), because of y’all I was able to leave for good and do it the right way with the right tool! He no longer has ANY access to me and that chapter of my life is closed. I’m so thankful!!
So how do they reach you if he was blocked?? I will never go back. He is forgiven, but I will never forget what he did! Yes, thank goodness, I was able to move on with therapy and God.
Yes, this is so true. My soon-to-be ex husband. Emailing, every other day. Saying he will do anything to get “his” family back. He wants to give me gifts but won’t pay his child support. I’m SMH
Good, good, good Leon is good! Thank you for sharing your testimony and knowledge with the World! You are very brave and a blessin! Don't bite the hand that feeds you! God bless you!❤
No, mine is just pure angry....still blames me for the breakdown of our marriage. Main problem was when i called his mum out, when he let slip they had been talking about me. I pray he will reach out to God and get help.
I was approached by a familiar Spirit. And it scared Me for a split second, but l had to cut it off. I know that was not my Emperor. I don't have any time to waste on something or someone l have no interest in......🦋😊
Once again you come through with an uncut reality check message KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK many need these messages and Pray that they apply them to there life and Start an healing ❤️🩹 journey 🙏🙏🙏
Something is wrong with them. My ex narc sent our daughter a text message. Asking her to give a message “Tell you mother I love her and what happened between us. What?? He can not call or text me, because I changed my number. No Contact with him. But when he discarded me, the day he had a new supply. It’s only day 2 of being discarded.
The new supply was not new. You know that narcissists maintain sexual and "romantic" relationships with more than one person at the same time. The new supply was already there. As hard as it is for our egos to admit it. Therefore, the battle with the narcissist is essentially a battle with ourselves, our wounded egos and our traumas. However, it is assumed that as mentally healthy people / unlike they/we must deal with and escape these demonic codependent relationships.
I would like to know, do the Northwest played as they sleep and call yourself. Dreamin and don't know what they dream about. Kicking fighting yelling that sounds like trauma.
I meant to say naughtiness playing Sleep dreaming. Thank you that they are fighting chicken yelling out. I think they're playing but again. I think they had trauma and they liked.
Leon can you please make a video that addresses why a narcissist can seem to only go 3 months before self sabotaging a relationship, you've touched on this briefly before in a few of your other videos but never really went into dept of the reason why narcissist people seem to struggle beyond this point, guess I'm curious because I noticed this pattern with my ex, seemed he would be do good for a few months and then back to the races he goes with the ghosting and silent treatment, have you come to believe that this is simply a trait within most narcissistic people? also another pattern is the fact how easily they become bored, he even stated the word bored himself before, but at the time I didn't take heed to what he was saying, he would say things like he had racey thoughts, and he did share in the beginning that he was bipolar, even heard him say he wishes he could learn to not be codependent and learn to not self sabotage, it seemed he did know something was wrong with his behavior at times, but didn't really deeply talk about it, your childhood story reminds me of what he shared with me in the beginning, I don't know if it was simply to reel me in for sympathy, or was he simply being vulnerable, and felt comfortable sharing certain things with me, even the video you made about can a narcissist love, you stated watch how they act around children, and yes you were absolutely right, I did get to witness that caring side, and how kind he is with children, were both intellects, and one of the characteristics I truly admired about him, along with some of the same unique traits such as both being left handed, it's funny because I never dated a left handed man before, were both Libra's, both youngest in family, both took care of our parents, both even have an obsession with shaking our leg before going to sleep😂 sounds crazy I know, but it blew me away to see this with my own eyes, like what the hell is this🤔 forgive me for rambling, but I just wanted to know about why narcissistic people can only last about 3 months before beginning to panic, thank you Leon, for all that you do to help others.
Mine barely lasted two weeks. They get scared when they find someone they "could" like if they were in their right mind and they get bored very fast. I don't do "street" men. I like the laid back, homebody types. My ex husband was like this and I always felt that if he ever cheated, she'd have to come to our home, because he wouldn't leave it, unless he was at work ..and we worked at the same place too.
They don't panic after 3 months... their internal demons don't allow them to PRETEND to be nice and be you past 3 or 4 months. It's only but so long a person possessed with demonic entities can pretend. Do yourself a favor a stop idealizing this man. If he's a narcissist he's a horrible person who, more than likely will never change. Mine was bipolar a well too! That's just a disaster waiting to happen. Once they become manic they are WAY out of control and you will lose your sanity if you stay in that relationship. You cannot love the trauma and the evil out of them. Period.
I’m confused am I narcissist or anxious codependent, he discarded me and verbally insulted … for 2 weeks I been learning and listening and thinking I’m bad person and sent him million emails with an apology.
Ooh honey, please stop thinking about him and think about yourself instead. Narcissists are like robots. They are not programmed to care - they are programmed purely to get you to do things for them, to treat them like royalty, and to accept any ill treatment they dish out as part of the deal. Never, ever, even once were your feelings important to them. I hope this helps a little bit xx
Trust and believe, if you were a Narcissist you would’ve never apologized Lol … Even asking this comment section means you’re a good person who is co-dependent and empathetic. Narcs have no heart and sometimes no soul 🤷♂️
I’m never going back.. Being with him was hell. Sweet then evil. Important than unimportant. Sick games for 5 yrs. Worst experience of my life. I’m on my way back to me.
All too familiar the ups and downs, the on and off. Makeup and breakup. I said no more 5 months ago and he remains blocked. I'm hurt and I so wanted it to work but.. He just wasn't worth the trouble and heartache.
Facts
They never change, right?! OMG...it's like when they're sweet, that's what gets us hooked! But once that evil side comes out, it's like "This is exactly why I left you alone!" Been doing it off and on for 13 years and every time he comes back, I swear he seems like he's finally got it and really changed. Saying everything I want to hear. How he's been denying his flesh and really tapping into God....then I start to see old patterns and his actions don't align with his words. Then of course when I say something, he says I'm too sensitive and we're not on the same page and he feels like he can never win with me. It's funny to me now tho! I realize my love I once had has faded away. It's more of an unhealthy attachment at this point. Going back to therapy so I can never go back because it's exhausting.
Where are all the male empaths??? Who believe in honesty, providing and protecting in a mutual loving relationship. Who are aware of the evil world we live in. With all these fake narc, monsters running around destroying people. Taking everything while abusing you at the same time.
I really feel like we live in the twilight zone. Nothing is as it seems… NOTHING people!
It's the petty vindictiveness for small slights and the mind games in an effort to "train" the person, along with being irresponsible, unreliable, and no integrity that makes me RUN FAST from these guys!
So true I left and went back he was good for a few months then went right back to his old self again but this time when I left I said enough is enough I'll never allow myself to be pulled back into that horrible trap all Praises belong to God 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
He would always blame the devil. He always thought he could outsmart God. God knew I would continue to try to believe him and in him. God HAD to turn my heart away...all of a sudden the lies, manipulation was evident. The lies, his presence made me physically sick. He tried to give me all I wanted in the end, but I saw the ugly and knew I could never return. Excessive behavior is an understatement. Leon, u on point with this one! Ty ty ty
All praise! Give Him Glory daily!
LEON HE LOST SOMEONE WHO REALLY LOVED HIM. BUT NOW I RELEASED HIM TO GO FIND MY HAPPINESS.
"Still rusty and cold on the inside."🔥🔥🔥
What a line!
I never went back thanks to my Mom. She never went back. She was my example.
My hands are on the plow pushing forward. NEVER TO RETURN! Hell, no....Access, Deniied to ever coming back! Indefinitely! My Glow Up NOW.... will burn the hell out of him!
Take notes that the "I didnt mean it" is a form of covert gaslighting. They are trying to advocate to your empathy. They meant it. TY Leon for opening eyes.
This is just sad
There are always foreshadowing Quakes and Tremors just before the Volcano erupts...
You never bite the hand that feeds you.
Hi Leon. I did exactly this more than several times. Then after two weeks it happened again . Same bs . No accountability . We could’ve had a good life . But happiness is not a narcissist trait. To me God is love. Peace . Joy , etc . And if someone hasn’t got these . They need to go. These narcissist need deliverance. It’s a spiritual battle we are fighting. The devil was the first one Jesus encountered. Resist the devil and he will flee from you . Never will I again let any entity dim my God given light . Psalm 91 over anyone that is suffering from this . Get out . Stay out.
I changed my number, moved without him knowing, deactivated my social media & thank God I never told him where my new office is at & he doesn’t know where any of my family stays or anything!! So thankful for Leon & Lee (mentalhellness), because of y’all I was able to leave for good and do it the right way with the right tool! He no longer has ANY access to me and that chapter of my life is closed. I’m so thankful!!
Discarded her, leveled up, tried to get her back and said we could do a lot of good for the people, but too many times pride is the devil.
Whew this is so much to make sense of. This is too much for me. And I’m never return
Every time I watch these narc videos. I get it but then I DONT GET THESE PEOPLES MINDSET.
So how do they reach you if he was blocked?? I will never go back. He is forgiven, but I will never forget what he did! Yes, thank goodness, I was able to move on with therapy and God.
Be on the lookout for his car because they will definitely stalk you....
Just evilllllllllll
Yes, this is so true. My soon-to-be ex husband. Emailing, every other day. Saying he will do anything to get “his” family back. He wants to give me gifts but won’t pay his child support. I’m SMH
It's been 2 months since I left him now all of a sudden his grandma commented on my Facebook picture. SMH
You are so right that’s exactly what he did to me 9 months counting it’s all over never ever going back 💯👍✅
Good, good, good Leon is good! Thank you for sharing your testimony and knowledge with the World! You are very brave and a blessin! Don't bite the hand that feeds you! God bless you!❤
Thank you. I appreciate that 🙌🏾
Hey, they do work on you, but I'm still here,,
Just Sick . 😩😩😩
No, mine is just pure angry....still blames me for the breakdown of our marriage. Main problem was when i called his mum out, when he let slip they had been talking about me. I pray he will reach out to God and get help.
All true
THANKS FOR THE INFO💝 BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR LOVED ONES ALWAYS GRACIAS GRATEFUL💖
Thank you Leon new to your channel
You’re welcome. I appreciate you 🙌🏾
That was very well said Leon and I've watched countless videos on the subject 4 the past 3 years...
I was approached by a familiar Spirit. And it scared Me for a split second, but l had to cut it off. I know that was not my Emperor. I don't have any time to waste on something or someone l have no interest in......🦋😊
Once again you come through with an uncut reality check message KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK many need these messages and Pray that they apply them to there life and Start an healing ❤️🩹 journey 🙏🙏🙏
Well said!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!! It's what I'm currently going through to the letter
Thank you for this ♥️
Very good video, Leon! You are doing amazing work. Love the authentic style you use in your delivery of your messages. ❤🙏🙌
Something is wrong with them. My ex narc sent our daughter a text message. Asking her to give a message “Tell you mother I love her and what happened between us. What?? He can not call or text me, because I changed my number. No Contact with him. But when he discarded me, the day he had a new supply. It’s only day 2 of being discarded.
The new supply was not new. You know that narcissists maintain sexual and "romantic" relationships with more than one person at the same time. The new supply was already there. As hard as it is for our egos to admit it. Therefore, the battle with the narcissist is essentially a battle with ourselves, our wounded egos and our traumas. However, it is assumed that as mentally healthy people / unlike they/we must deal with and escape these demonic codependent relationships.
I would like to know, do the Northwest played as they sleep and call yourself. Dreamin and don't know what they dream about. Kicking fighting yelling that sounds like trauma.
I meant to say naughtiness playing Sleep dreaming. Thank you that they are fighting chicken yelling out. I think they're playing but again. I think they had trauma and they liked.
This stuff is a science. I mean.. it’s so accurate!!!
Real 👄 Talk
Leon can you please make a video that addresses why a narcissist can seem to only go 3 months before self sabotaging a relationship, you've touched on this briefly before in a few of your other videos but never really went into dept of the reason why narcissist people seem to struggle beyond this point, guess I'm curious because I noticed this pattern with my ex, seemed he would be do good for a few months and then back to the races he goes with the ghosting and silent treatment, have you come to believe that this is simply a trait within most narcissistic people? also another pattern is the fact how easily they become bored, he even stated the word bored himself before, but at the time I didn't take heed to what he was saying, he would say things like he had racey thoughts, and he did share in the beginning that he was bipolar, even heard him say he wishes he could learn to not be codependent and learn to not self sabotage, it seemed he did know something was wrong with his behavior at times, but didn't really deeply talk about it, your childhood story reminds me of what he shared with me in the beginning, I don't know if it was simply to reel me in for sympathy, or was he simply being vulnerable, and felt comfortable sharing certain things with me, even the video you made about can a narcissist love, you stated watch how they act around children, and yes you were absolutely right, I did get to witness that caring side, and how kind he is with children, were both intellects, and one of the characteristics I truly admired about him, along with some of the same unique traits such as both being left handed, it's funny because I never dated a left handed man before, were both Libra's, both youngest in family, both took care of our parents, both even have an obsession with shaking our leg before going to sleep😂 sounds crazy I know, but it blew me away to see this with my own eyes, like what the hell is this🤔 forgive me for rambling, but I just wanted to know about why narcissistic people can only last about 3 months before beginning to panic, thank you Leon, for all that you do to help others.
Mine barely lasted two weeks. They get scared when they find someone they "could" like if they were in their right mind and they get bored very fast. I don't do "street" men. I like the laid back, homebody types. My ex husband was like this and I always felt that if he ever cheated, she'd have to come to our home, because he wouldn't leave it, unless he was at work ..and we worked at the same place too.
They don't panic after 3 months... their internal demons don't allow them to PRETEND to be nice and be you past 3 or 4 months. It's only but so long a person possessed with demonic entities can pretend. Do yourself a favor a stop idealizing this man. If he's a narcissist he's a horrible person who, more than likely will never change. Mine was bipolar a well too! That's just a disaster waiting to happen. Once they become manic they are WAY out of control and you will lose your sanity if you stay in that relationship. You cannot love the trauma and the evil out of them. Period.
May as well keep that option option bc idgad if they eat sleep, sleep it off, nothing...dont even speak to me bc its not needed or wanted.
Thank you, Leon
So how do a narcissist decide who was the most genuine person when he has multiple supply
❤❤❤❤ I enjoy listing to your shares Leon so much emotion and feeling always. Are you single 🤔🤷♀️
Ty ❤
I’m confused am I narcissist or anxious codependent, he discarded me and verbally insulted … for 2 weeks I been learning and listening and thinking I’m bad person and sent him million emails with an apology.
Ooh honey, please stop thinking about him and think about yourself instead. Narcissists are like robots. They are not programmed to care - they are programmed purely to get you to do things for them, to treat them like royalty, and to accept any ill treatment they dish out as part of the deal. Never, ever, even once were your feelings important to them. I hope this helps a little bit xx
@@cmmontrose1469 awww thank you so much !! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Trust and believe, if you were a Narcissist you would’ve never apologized Lol … Even asking this comment section means you’re a good person who is co-dependent and empathetic.
Narcs have no heart and sometimes no soul 🤷♂️
#lovebombing
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would you ever or tried to get back with the ex wife? or as you said it was too late?
Very insightful. Thank you for all of your edifying videos and work, Mr. Walker! 🫠🫂🫠