How To Love Your Wife Like Jesus (Part II) | Ephesians
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How can you love your wife as Christ loved the church? Boy is it a challenge, right! I mean that is a heavy responsibility. How do you love her in times when you may not like her? In this video we look specifically at three ways that Jesus loved the church and how we can learn how to love our wives in the same way.
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I’m just starting to understand the anointed position of a husband and a father. Without our leadership by servitude and taking the low place, we are limiting God’s work and power for our family. It’s been amazing to see how having the right mindset of loving my wife like Christ loves the church and starting with even small acts makes a huge difference not just in my wife but also with my kids as well, parenting becomes much more effective when you and your wife work in one accord.
Man o man! That part about being consistent in showing and giving love even when they crucify us ooof that couldn't have come in at a better time. I needed to hear that!
awesone video brother !! MY marriage needs so much work!! I DO LOVE MY WIFE!! GOD BLESS YOUR AWESOME CHANNEL!! THANKS ALLEN!! YOUROCK!
And all the Wives said...
Amen! 🙏😁
By the way... your video production is stunning! Love it!!
Now off to watch how to Submit to my husband!
I just love how Gods way works so beautifully when put into practice! 💕💕💕
Envoy Of The All-Terrifying you too! Blessings! 🙏
Barbie Figueroa: Amen, sister!
Peter Vanko 🙏🙏🙏🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
You are such a great teacher! I've been killing my fleshly ways and becoming a better man. But now I know better I'm going to do better. My wife is in a place where she doesn't want this marriage anymore but my family is worth fighting for I'll suffer and sacrifice for as long as needed until the Lord softens her heart and changes her mind. I love her so much wish she could feel my heart. I haven't been putting mush effort in my relationship with God and my Wife. Since I've started to draw near to the Holy Spirit my life has started to change for the better. I couldn't love my wife properly without loving myself first with the help of Christ. I'm not giving up I'll come back to this comment in a few months to show the faith and work Jesus Christ can do in a person and a marriage. Thanks for making this video!
how is it going now. i am in this situation too. i feel like quiting
Those things are well & good, but coming from someone who's been married for almost forty years, unless whatever you do, or refrain from doing corresponds to the needs, hopes & dreams of your wife, they don't mean a thing. Loving your wife doesn't mean checking off the mechanics of listening IE: eye-contact-check, nodding-check, repeating back what she just said-check, but the desire to REALLY listen; loving your wife doesn't mean acting like you care about her hopes & dreams, but investing YOUR heart in them; loving your wife doesn't mean wanting her to be what you want, so YOU can be more, it means the willingness to be less, so SHE can be more. THAT'S what sacrificial love looks like, it looks like dying to yourself, an IMPOSSIBILITY without Jesus Who went 1st.
I’m in this situation also, I’m frightening to the end. God restore me 4 months ago, I might be too late. I’m not going down with a fright. I’m learning to wife my wife even more
@@patricianabunya2416, Don’t quit brother keep on pulling to the end. If you’re wife is worth frighting for don’t quit.
I am often hearing people talking about Ephesians 5:22-24, where wives are commanded to submit to their husbands and obey them. I find it funny that they forget this verse you're talking about Ephesians 5:24 where we are to love our wives like Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Way too many people read the Bible for what they want to see in it, and then miss the point. Thank you for your video.
True indeed, many at times we read the Bible for what we want and misunderstand the whole point.
I say basically living in a world, even in America, where both genders in "Christianity" are anti-female, especially because of Eve, and women are thought of as Evil Eve, when shoot Adam had a right to say no, and if he witnessed what took place with serpent, could have stopped it. And thing was, it was not just men in ministry to Jesus. Women were as well, and women were making preparation spices and such for His burial.
A lot of men and you be surprised how many women forget Eve was made out of Adam's side rib, not back rib or soles of his feet. I don't mean literally forget, but forget they were made equal and women not subservient or lower class.
I put Christianity in quotations since too many claiming to be in the Church ( not building, mind you )but not really living Church.
Evil men who don't deserve to be married.
i have a wife.. and i thank you for this message..
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Just practicing😆
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Wow very true my Brother Love your Wife as Christ Love the Church, its raising our unconditionnal Love to new heights; make sure you dont have a Jezabel wife!!!
After the day my wife and I had, on our anniversary of all days 😂...I needed this message.
Wow! Struck a chord with me at 1:17. Could it be God wants to use me as an instument to bring healing to my wifes life. I can't believe I never thought of it like this.
Ego and pride should not be set aside. It should be dead to all people. Ego is the caterpillar.
Exactly, also men are supposed to lead us spiritually not take control of decisions. We are equal in decision making
I'm a wife for 20 years and I'd never experienced to be bossed around by my husband. To be honest, I'm waiting for him to bossed me around, like others who demands coffe just after entering the house or ask for their slippers to be handed to them while removing their shoes, LOL. One thing is that although he doesn't boss me, he neither share his thoughts or problems at work to me. He kept that alone for himself without sharing so I think that's not healthy either. For the husbands out there, wives do love to know your struggles and problems at work and co workers even if we can't be of any help, we just want to listen and pray for you.
Possibly the reason he doesn't share that (going on what I think I might do if I were married) is because he might not want to rehearse the whole drama of the day. For myself, I'd want to come home, check my wife's status, give her a big hug as appropriate, maybe...MAYBE...share some general information, but then get on with family life at home and leave work in that separate box. If you haven't seen Laugh Your Way to A Better Marriage, check out his talk on male and female brains. You'll understand, possibly, better why your husband might not be as open to sharing :) It has to do with how men are wired
markomus,
I understand where you are coming from. We did finish a 13 episodes seminar about husbands. Most men are monominded wherein they are focused on their current responsibilities while women are stereo minded. Women also think loud while men think silently.Women especially wives are radar type, you know, wherein they want to pick up everything that's happening to their family at home and even outside. That's why the Bible commanded women to be sober because they are prone to hysteria when not in peace. While men are warrior type, they are focus on what they are doing maybe that's why Jesus chose men as disciples. I'm still trying to accept and love my husband's personality until now. Have a Blessed day!!
And some of us don't open up about everything because sometimes information gets used as ammo against us. Or we end up hearing things we've only tolds to our wives come out of the mouths of friends and relatives.
Encourage your husband to share more
Just be happy your husband gets his own slippers and not boss you.
Many women would love a man who leads but not boss or talk down like he is fathering her and nag at her.
Whew this was truth..... but it ain't easy. 😆
I know God will place the right man in my life. Someone I can trust and love with all my heart. Someone filled with the Holy Spirit. If I rely on myself to find a man then I know I will end up with someone disrespectful. It’s all Gods plan, not mine.
I really hope I'm attractive to him. I don't want to be with someone I'm not attractive too. Specially sleeping with them 🤮. It's like sleeping with a stranger.
I love how you explained this topic. Truly with love. I understood what a godly man is and at the same time I seen it from a different perspective. Thank Allen.
In agreement with this whole message I loosen the word of ephesians 5:25, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 over my life, loosening myself of every unequal yoke and common share with any unfaithful and uncommitted husband, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!
I'm going to let my husband hear this...oh I love this..😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️
Lol. As a male I loved this.
That’s not how it works. Unless it’s him who WANTS to hear this, you making him hear it might have the opposite effect.
Thank you for this series brother! Also... I don't know if this is just me but you look a lot like Denzel haha take that as a compliment!
Another awesome video topic, and well done! This one has been on my mind a lot lately as my wife and I have been struggling with a few issues.
I feel like God has been explaining to me that the irrationality I see in her is the same He deals with in His Church. Fickle, quick to change their mind, and moody.
He also has been stressing the SERVICE side of marriage. It is beautiful to give ourselves to a woman, and, by doing so, watching her blossom.
I love my wife so much!!!! Thank you, Lord.
Wow wow wow. Thank you Allan! I love listening to your sermons daily
Amen brother!🙏🙏🙏 Happy Wife Happy Life. Happy life, Happy family.🙏🙏🙏
Amen...u bring tears to my eyes
Be kind to her.
I know what happens when men aren’t.
What happens..?
This was good! Thank you I shared it with my husband and on social media to everyone! Have a splendid day! 👍🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾👌🏾🕊
Amen. Love the teaching❤
Thank you for this i have a wife and this is awesome amen 🙏
Totally spot on Allen.
Amen brother. Thank you for the wonderful and insightful information.
This is so powerful!
Allen umenisaidia sana. Nimepata fundisho zuri maishan mwangu.
Awesome break down!
I love that you see equality in a relationship. Is this rare in Christianity?
What do you mean equality?
@@freespirit7450
That Eve was taken out of Adam's rib and not his feet. True enough, she was not taken out of his head.
Edit: That neither are superior to the other.
Awesomeness
Yes. That is all. Yeeeessss!!!!!!😂😂😂
Great video
God bless you 😊
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
This is so good !!!!
Is visioning biblical? Can a people today have a gift of visioning?
Nice one
Hey Allen.!great video as always.. I was just wondering if you could please make a video on how to control or lead our thoughts. My thoughts r really really bothering me they're not pretty.. Like they show up on their on n i can't make them stop. The more i push them away the more they get stronger .. I hope u can help me with this. Thank u.
Woooooohhhh!!!! Amen🎉😊
Back in the day, we used to slow-drag on the dance floor when a slow song was played. If the man knew how to lead, the woman would follow. In fact, she wanted the man to lead. If the man didn't know how to slow-drag, a good woman would show him. Black women helped Black men survive slavery. Why are we all prideful now?
#Preach!
Thank you
I have a question that maybe you can speak on in another video. Does God reveal things about other people's lives to us?
Very important Q. Makes you wonder, say for instance, if seeing Whitney Houston in Hell are really authentic vids. Not that it is any of my bees, I'm not close to heaven myself, but making example.
wish i had such a husband.
I know the reality is very slim, that is why at nearing 47 I no longer am bothered with if I ever have my first time marriage or not. It takes a super strong women to submit and do domestic work for a man who has a bad attitude towards women and no compassion.
Great info
It says DONT DEPRIVE EACHOTHER
Gd one
Agree
See this is why Jesus is the man
My wife can be a demon sometimes. I really need the Holy Spirit to pull this off.
Where does accountability come in?
They would know that we love them by our fruit
You so right I want to get off the cross
My wife sits at home , watches tv all day, and then wants me to cook dinner when I come home from work.
Sorry brother, if only both husbands and wives did their part like it says in the word.
I don't really love my wife. Sometimes I wish we hadn't met. She cool as a friend, but I just can't get into her like that. The reason why I married is because we had a child and we was living together. Even after been married 30 years I'm not in love with her. I care for her as a friend. Please 🙏 me
What is love? Learn how God defines love. Seek scripture. Pray and humble yourself as a student of Jesus. He will reveal to you what Biblical love is - true love. ❤ There is hope for your marriage. Also read the book Marriage by Tim Keller and his wife Kathy Keller. They teach biblical love and marriage.
Wow! Really? Dude good luck that, there is a reason WHY didn’t have a wife.. I prefer to be single like Paul.
Rwandan MGTOW That is your choice! God bless you,
Might consider your real reasons for being single. Paul was single (possibly widower) by choice for the sake of devoting more time to the spread of the gospel message--not because he was rejected by a lot of women or had any ax to grind against them.
markomus Not all Men who are going their own ways are or were rejected by women or society. We chose not be utilities. We have callings, missions, high paying jobs and kids we love and care for. So your perception of MGTOW is wrong or you simply don’t understand why many men are opting out marriage and women. As for Paul, he had his calling and he was more productive than other disciples combined, he had more time and freedom to move around doing what he was called to do.
- Even those men who became MGTOWs due to various abuse, rejections or any other reasons, they don’t need you or anyone else to shame them. Shaming language and manipulation are one
of the main reason many men are walking away. We don’t shame you for doing what you believe is right
for you, the rest leave it to God, He will handle it.
markomus If you want learn more about MGTOW check this simply explanation. What is MGTOW? ua-cam.com/video/6-QagCHpY1s/v-deo.html
Rwandan MGTOW No, you're very wrong and have completely misunderstood what I wrote. I didn't say all were, did I? No. Clearly not. So maybe read more carefully. But to be sure, I understand all about MGTOW and all that red pill stuff. Mostly it is bitter men and that's sad. I wasn't shaming anyone. If you feel ashamed, that's you, not me. As for you, you're the one who came on here trying to set Allen straight, wishing him good luck (more tongue in cheek, though, obviously). Look...I totally get that many women--especially in western culture--have gone crazy. But the solution isn't JUST red pill philosophy. The solution is love and truth--which isn't what MGTOW/red pill always engenders. The truths they espouse have the effect of making men bitter and suspicious. The very term Men Going Their Own Way implies what, exactly? Finding neutral ground? Walking together? Learning to love each other? It's rather selfish. Again, I get not bowing down to cultural idols like "Women are Perfect and Brave and Amazing." I really do get that! But red pill often goes gunwale the other direction and makes self-centered men
I hear what he saying and I know he's right but the alpha mail in me Wars with the truth he speaks. I'm just being honest
You mean male*?
Tell him the disrespect and treat us like dogs, We'll see how successful they are!!!😂 smh, Jah Jah 😊
Good advice but there is one important thing you completely misunderstood.
A man does not and should not submit to his wife.
Eph 5:21 is just an introduction to Eph 5:22.
Eph 5:22 is now a breakdown /proceeding of how Eph 5.21 is to be implemented.
If man should also submit to woman then: 1 it's a contradiction. 2 in that case when do you decide who's turn it is to submit. 3 this situation will bring more disorder that the concept of submission was meat to eradicate in the first place. 5 the concept of submission / mariage is deeper than carnal mariage it is the same concept that governs the relationship between Christ and the church.
Should Christ also submit to the church from time to time?
Submission in mariage got nothing to do with who has a better idea.
DUDE these advices are crazy abusive advices that may get you land with a narcisist
Well there religious men out here abusing their wives and bossing them around always in the name of submission, and wives have to suck it up. We barely get these videos of Ephesians in the favor of a wife and when finally one comes out all hell brakes loose.
What if I told you you can love your wife without submitting to her? The bible actually says for wives to submit to their husbands. This video is false prophet teaching esp since Jesus himself never married. Men, you can love your wife without submitting to her. It's mutual understanding. Put everything on a business contract so that she understands.
Sadly men hate this.
The biggest thing is getting over yourself.
man stop yall doing this for likes!
Genesis 3:16 says "your husband shall rule over you"..this video just ignored God's curse to women
So you want women to be curse in your house? 🤦🏻
@@wilsncz7197 thats the thing about obedience, it doesn't matter what i want. God decides
Basically this simp 2.0 is overriding all Proverbs 31:10-31...
As far as we know, Jesus never got married. So what does he know about having a wife?!?! I really don’t buy it.
He is all knowing God. As simple as that and point blank.
That is too many levels above the fact I am a lifelong 45 year never did drugs but I know how pot is not healthy.
@@holyexperience1976 except pot has been shown to have medical benefits for chronic pain, depression and anxiety, epilepsy, sclerosis and even cancer. Over half of the states legalized jt for medical use. This dude has point Jesus never got married.
More thumbs up then down, not a good signs. The Lord Jesus and His Apostles were killed for the REAL truth. Sounds to me u mixing worldly women stuff that women want men to do, worldly suggestions. That's why so many women applauded u, I just stick with old school Preachers
I hope after 5 years you took the time to actually study what it says in Ephesians smh
@@wilsncz7197 my views have not changed The Lord GOD has created man to cater to women selfish narcissistic desires The Lord GOD created man to serve Him ( 2 Samuel 6:20-23) Satan the fallen one has preacher's just like The Lord GOD Jesus Christ has preacher's and this guy is one of Satan's ministers. 2Corinthians 11:13-15