Don't worry about the past you know now. 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
Married men: we really DO need you to continue these 4 things after marriage. It is heart-breaking to be pursued, protected, provided for, & prioritized....and forgotten once "won." We want you. We really do. Just as God told Eve, that her desire would be for her husband. Ever wonder why that was part of the punishment of leaving Eden? It physically hurts to be forgotten by the man who sleeps next to you every night. Do those 4 until you or she dies, seriously. Thank you, Allen for the video. I hope it helps men to hear from a man. It's much harder to hear these things from a woman.
wendy d praise God for the great reminder. I know I need to improve as well. Although I taught this message, I am well aware of areas where I need to improve as a husband. God bless you,
@Petes F Exactly. Most western women are today. And you know why ? Because it is all about the woman in this day and age . Men are NOT in control anymore . Especially in bed. They are such wimps afraid of their sexual desires , little boys afraid to offend mommy . What a turn off !
@@framboise595 You really can't blame men for being afraid of their sexual desires because some women are just not in the mood when their husbands ask for sex, and if their husbands keep asking for it and gets turned down, it can seem like the husband is bothering her.
Adam prioritised his dear Eve. You know what happened ? Go on making it all about the woman , first in sin and in transgression . Satan is jubilating. The husband is called by God to provide and protect. That's it. In no way to pursue because once you've conquerred , you OWN . You don't pursue what is yours !!
@@pashahillyard8763 A husband does not have authority in the spiritual era only but in everyway because the wife is called to submit to him in everything.
Women was made for man not the other way around and a women might have plans for a date with someone they are already with but it's the man's job to begin the relationship
@@ashleyseay2871 Woman was made for man , but in this day and age it is not about the man anymore because now it is women who are in control. That is why everything is screwed to the core , from dating to marriage ( or what we call marriage today !) .
@@framboise595 well regardless of this sad day and age God rules and expectations never change the husband is the authority over the wife but He must know that God is ultimate authority so the woman can submit to a man who is submitted to God and she is submitted to God 1st of course.
@@ashleyseay2871 God's rules never change but WE have changed them . It is now all about the woman because so called Christians pander to women like never before .
Ladies please don't let the word submit scare you. If you marry a man that truly loves God , submitting to him is a piece of cake. I have been married to my Boaz for 23 years (together 33) and I am as happy today as I was the day I meet him. I am more than happy to submit to him because he is a provider, protecter, he definitely chased me and made me a priority. Get to know the man not the fantasy.
@ Moma Lisa IF the man is like this or like that ..not like this and not like that Except that wives submit not if but EVEN IF. See the difference ? Submitting comes naturally to us women . But not to husbands . To lovers , to males in the workplace etc... Because Satan has taken plethoras of women outside the home (the protection ) in order to let them be "free" and taste the world , sleep around and have their ways .
Mallaya Diggs nah, if you find someone who is valuable then try to go after him. I've seen many women lose good men to another woman for waiting for him. And remember, not all of men are perfect. Try to help em. ;)
My mom actually made a list of what she wanted in a man and she prayed to God for him all the time. She almost got married to a man she did not pray for. Then one day, my dad saw my mom’s picture. Then, it was like the Holy Spirit guided my dad to my mom. My dad pursued my mom then. I’m really thankful for their story because our living God answers prayers and He will prepare a spouse for you. May God bless you ❤️☺️
@@nadinegomez8858 He actually did. He is a God-fearing man, tall, handsome, kind, loyal, trustworthy, and more. It's crazy how God works because my mom already had a fiance at the time, but her and her fiance made an agreement that if he (he is a seaman) did not come back within a month, then it's not meant to be and that's exactly when my dad started pursuing my mom. Make sure your future spouse is kind to your family. God bless :)
I'm 24 and I see everyone in my church and around me getting married and I tend to feel anxious like I'm not experiencing a phase in my life that I should but thankfully videos like these help to remind me that I need to trust in God and not let what I see dictate how I feel.
Guess who failed at *all* these, and then lost the girl that God told me i would marry. But God told me that he will give me another chance, so thanks for making a clear video that helped me open my eyes to the things i did wrong, and how to fix them.
@@BeybladeDbzFan mark 11: 22-26 I was single. And i never had a girlfriend in my life. So one day i prayed. "God, Ive never had a girlfriend, and i font want to deal with the bs of brake up and pain and braking hearts or getting heart broken so please, let all my feelings go to the person i will marry, and never divorce, that i will have a family" .I had 5 "candidates" that were my crushes, but suddenly all my crushes *disappeared* completly and all my feelings went to a friend of mine, and i was scared and tried to get my feelings go to anyone else but i couldn't, and i started to say: "God NO pls no, not her, shes ugly and... (Then suddenly i started to see the good side) shes genuine, kind, fun, pretty... Cute... Beautiful..." after that, 3 days later she confessed her feelings for me. And i was so glad and everything started to go perfect, but then i loved her more than i loved God. Then i distanced myself from God. Then i excluded God from the relationship, then (since God told me i would marry her) i took her for granted, and she tolerated me like that for 2 months, without me doing anything for the relationship, after that she broke up with me and went for someone else, i was heartbroken, confused, then God told me through his word to not give up. And each time i felt like moving on verses like: "keep does feelings in your heart", "i will fulfill my promises" and "i can do all things, have faith on whats happening" pop up in my notifications, then UA-cam notifications about how God does things through prayer and faith started to pop up. Then about how to have a closer relationship with HIM, and now out of nowhere this channel and other called "ApplyGod'sWord.com/Mark Ballenger" on how to have a good christian relationship started to give me notifications. And ive been here since like two weeks ago. Still having faith that God will bring her back to me, this time prepared to achieve marriage.
@@thebeatagp yeah. Thanks. The worst part is when I say i failed at all four... Im not kidding, specially on the 2nd point in the 3rd part. Im a virgin btw, and i plan to stay that way until marriage, but yeah i took sexual advantage of her. Along with failing at all the other 2 of the 2nd point, and point 1, 3 and 4... I feel really bad about it. But now my faith is stronger, and i read God's word to educate myself. Im reborn, I even stoped pornography addiction completly, i stopped masturbation completly and i also started working out and being more healthy by not drinking coke and eating better, because my body is a gift from God. And you have been a huge blessing, so thanks for allowing yourself to be use by God. All the glory for the things in my life, that is a miracle itself, belongs to God. I love God. And i can say it because the meaning of love is: "the genuine wish of someone's well-being" so i love everybody. Specially God.
Where was this lesson when I was 14?! Teach it brother! Guys you better listen! . . and teach your sons!! Yes, Boaz was the MAN! 1. Pursue, 2. Protect, 3. Provides, 4. Priortizes his woman
Great video I've realized not many males know how to be men nowadays and that's not our fault most of the times but the word of God is the best teacher and what could be more important for a male than to become not only a man but a man of God aswell
Jose Hernandez so true! Many of us did not have the best role models for this and so we had no idea of what to do and how to do it and what it looked like to be a godly man until we came in contact with Christ.
I def agree every time I’m on my purpose it’s always a pretty girl trying to thro me off the one who keeps u on track is the one it’s just most dudes cry babies want a girl so bad and don’t know what they want in life
I really want my husband to be my best friend. To understand certain things, to be on the same wavelength, to have the same vision for our lives and our futures and after all of this to really treat me well - with kindness, forgiveness, patience, generally not making a big drama of things. I really want that.
essennagerry well, it starts with not settling for just anyone just because you desire to be married. I waited until I was 40 to marry. But I’m so glad I waited.
@ essennagerry I want a wimp , a Mr Nice Guy Guy who will never resist my childish whims and will have sex only when I WANT it. Not when HE wants it. Because women must be in control. Satan wants it and everyone must do his will. Husbands must be YES MEN who never confront our potential rebellion. Isaiah 3:12 WOMEN are running the show . It is a CURSE . Take a deeper look at the Bible and you will notice that it is the WOMAN made fort he man , not the man for the woman. Marriage in the Bible is about the man first . Proverbs 31 cannot be clearer. You have NO PROVERBS 31 equivalent for us women .
Isabelle M I don’t think that’s what the person meant at all, both the husband and wife should have good qualities. A woman shouldn’t settle for a man who isn’t Godly just because the woman is “less”. We are less than God but God treats us with great care, so anyone who has authority should be using it well as Jesus does with us.
I look through comments on post like this and I ask myself why are so many Believers not married. Why is it taking us just as long to get into marriage like those of the world who’s values do not reflect that which we believe. In my opinion more Christians who desire marriage should be married. The Bible does not call for the extra long engagements, fancy weddings, expensive rings. Paul says it’s better to marry than to burn. While I do believe it is very important to use wisdom and seek God while searching for a spouse. I often wonder more of us are not married. If you scroll through comments on videos like this you constantly see men an women saying they desire a spouse. Anyway I think that’s something to ponder and an observation I’ve been having lately. Great video!
I can attest that it could be because God wants relationships/marriages to last and work for His Glory. He doesnt want to produce microwaveable marriages or relationships these things must be "cooked and baked" for some time that way it will have a Lasting effect in comparison to what the world is pushing out. The worlds way is microwaveable and tend to not last or hold. God is INTENTIONAL and he wants things done in a specifc way. Could be the reason it seems many in the church are single. God is trying to raise up Kingdom Marriages not fickle things. Grant it some folks are stubborn, have high and unreasonable expectations, and harbor worldly mindset on love and marriages, so it may take longer so God allows them to remain single to teach them . Nancy leigh demoss was single up until 58 i believe and recently got married maybe about couple yrs now and i dont think she thought she would have been married but God still had that for her! So we mustn't lose hope! But i agree with what you're saying too!🙏🏾💜
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As the gospel preached in churches goes more and more toward what we can get in this life, we're not learning it's us who need to change, so we're always looking for someone who is what we want them to be. But we don't change. As God is love and His ways are love, if we leave the true gospel by the way we live our lives, we can't expect to see love of God from others, because we're living according to feelings. If we live according to the Spirit, God will bless us.
Good luck. I'm 53 and can't seem to find him. Maybe God is keeping me single. At the same time I am not giving in to the wrong men anymore all in the name of trying to find the right man. I want to honor God this time and respect for myself.
Amy P being single isn’t sinful unless we cannot control our passions, as Paul writes in 1 Cor.7. What can we say? Married folks crave single life and singles long to find “the one”. The heart and eyes of a human are never full but always coveting when there may be other paths God is trying to lead us onto. That is, of course, not applicable for all situations. God bless
@@grumpysquid In this day and age we could not care less about God's will for young women at all. Nothing is more scorned and debased than Sound doctrine and so called chrsitian women just do what they feel and want. They are not married anymore , they sleep around , they kep saying like proud fools that they have ownership of their bodies . EVEN WITHIN MARRIAGE. And those wimps called husbands today are told that it is ABUSE to let them know that they have no control of their bodies anymore .If you see what I mean. Is it any wonder that Satan wins today ? Marriages are a joke today , controlled by women's emotions , will and whims MEN's will does not exist anymore . And Satan is happier than ever.
@ weenieboys 2 You can wait until the end of the world because fake Christianity is all about woman today as if it was the man who was made for the woman . Women are NOT taught their duties anymore and are portrayed as little victims . The tyranny of the weaker is at work . Satan is behind all those watered down teachings that do NOT teach wives to submit FIRST . Men are emasculated in the name of " love" . If they get married , it is in order to avoid sexual immorality but they are denied sex in marriage and do nothing against it !!!!!! How can it be so ? They are unable to reassert their authority anymore . Totally unable . They are not men anymore .
Thank you Brother Allen. I'm praying for a Godly man in my life. I'm asking for your prayers also. I would love to be married and have a family before I'm "too old." I'm 38, I haven't had much experience with relationships. I am still a virgin and sometimes I'm afraid that I'll be taken advantage of and it hinders me from getting to know a guy. I'm praying God helps me to be more brave so that I'm able to receive the Godly man He has just for me. Then you again for sharing the Word with the world.
Just let God guide you and the person will come without you expecting it; and getting to know someone as a complete friend at first is the only way to see if they're a good match for you and true christians, then you advance things to dating and relationship
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You have the upper hand in this. You save your virginity because you want to glorify God. A man should lead you in maintaining your purity, if he tempts you or pressure you to break your virginity. Flee like Joseph. As soon as men discover I am not having sex before marriage, they stop calling 🙌🏼 I even tell them we will not be alone ever while dating, they stop calling 🙌🏼 I’m not being in any environment conducive to temptation. If he cannot respect that nor lead and support me in my purity. Goodbye
Some major context was missing. Bias actually didn’t make the first move. Ruth did. Ruth was the one who knew who’s field to work in. She knew that boaz would have a duty to marry her since he was related to her husband. She pursued him first. Then, eventually her came to respect her and her situation enough that he pursued her.
Thank you brother for sending home the truth into our men. We women are the weaker vessels was why God made us after men (Adam and Eve). I hope men are listening. Women need attention from our men to give submission to our men. God bless you Amen.
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We submit first and then he will give us attention. Right ? But of course , no one cares for the truth anymore. It is all about goddess woman unable to be like Proverbs 31 anymore .
Yes Lord!!!! I'm praying for God to continue to work on me so that I'll be ready for my husband when he arrives! I pray for a God fearing man, a Kingdom minded man, a provider, a protector, a leader and a man that puts God above all things, in Jesus' name I pray!!!! 💜🙏🏽💜
Can you explain the difference between having godly standards/not compromising and allowing grace for them to grow where you see they fall short? I'm single, but I just want to be sure my standards are right and that I'm not being too picky..
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽this word is sooo much needed, YES, man should be interested in everything concerning the woman and not only in their body, even in marriage 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻, our man should provide, protect and love is unconditionally the same way that we obey them. And patient is a key 🔑 .💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽God richly bless you for this powerful word.
@ Grace For Living Marriage is about sex first and foremost. We get married in order to be free to have sex without indulging in immorality. But who cares today ? SATAN wins .
@ Grace For Living "man should be interested in everything concerning the woman and not only in their body , even in marriage " Well , wll dear. If he was only interested in her body , why would he marry her ? There are so many women who sleep around now you see what I mean ? Sorry but your words make no sense.
Thank you , because honestly as a single woman walking on in the Lord I need to stop entertaining attention from worldly men and need to guard my heart. And know I what godly characteristics to look for in a man.
I waited three years and then I thought I found a man of God and ironically enough he's who turned me onto your videos...he ended up being very abusive and is not a man of God after all. But, I'm blessed to have found you in spite of what I went through! I still pray for him
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted I trust God and believe in him
Thank you, I'm actually working on myself to be the best husband for my soulmate, we've been together for a year and I really want us to get married. She's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I thank God for blessing me with her. I just want to be the best man for my sweetheart and these videos are helping. Thank you
I randomly saw this video. There some points in my life that I felt desperate to find a Godly man. Rushing myself sometimes lead me to wrong relationship and I really thank God for this video that enlightened me to continue to seek the Lord and wait for that right moment if it's God will to give me a Godly man who genuinely loves God first, and a man who pursues the woman that he loves and knows his purpose why he wants to be in a relationship in the first place. So ladies don't be in a rushed and wait for God's perfect timing, seek God first it is so nice to be loved by King, because we are God's princesses and knows our worth. God always wants the best for us. thank you Brother Allen that you'd been used by God to remind single ladies and mens to pursue a Godly relationship. Godbless you! greetings from Philippines 🙂🙂🙂
Wow confirmation is real! I'm so glad I found this video. Thank you Jesus! My son's father has been trying so hard for us to be back together, to the point he is now willing to jump into marriage. We have been going back and forth as to why I just won't marry him for months now. I would love for my son to have me and his father in the same household, but we are not on the same level spiritually and it's so evident that he can not lead me. He says he "believes" in Christ but it's so obvious that Christ is not head of his life. Thanks for the great video!
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Its impossible to submit to or follow a man with no direction. Please before you think of marriage make sure you know where your going and that you know how to be a leader and spiritually lead your wife and the family. If you were never taught how to be a man (biblical man) or leader then please learn, pray, fast and seek the Lord so you grow in that area BEFORE you even think of getting married. And have a genuine relationship with God, no woman wants to feel like she has to remind her adult husband child to spend time in scripture. Your passion for God should be noticeable and your relationship with Him should be solid. We’re not looking to marry someone who is inconsistent or desires worldly things more than time with God.
I feel really blessed by this right now. It feels like growing up, all we learn is how to be perfect for a man. And I feel that women want to find a man who is also working on himself to be the best for his woman and ultimately his wife. I hope that I can meet someone on this wavelength. So many thoughts after listening to you. Thank you!
@ Vear This video is not inspired by the Bible. The woman was made for the man but not the opposite. In the Bible you have Proverbs 31 but NO male equivalent. Modern preachers just made it all up in order to pander to women and make marriage an unreachable burden for men . DOCTRINE OF DEMONS
Hi Isabelle, I'll invite you to listen to the teachings of Paul Washer on biblical womanhood. If you can, find RC Blakes as well and listen to his queenology and kingology series. I hope you will be blessed and enriched with quality relationships 🙏🏽
@@orchidpanda Washer who tells wives that they don't have to love their husbands ? Well , well . Sounds he is another one who has skipped Titus 2:4 ! In the Bible , you never have any passage that tells any man to be "the best for his woman" . This is all made up and inspired by the feminist idolatry of our modern times. In Exodus 21:10 it is about the duties of a husband to provide for his wife food , clothing and sex. But that's all. All that is added today comes from the devil , especially all this emotion-driven sermons who turn marriage into a BURDEN for men. If marriage as the Bible says is allowed by God in order to avoid sexual immorality (very serious) , those so-called men of God just do the work of the devil by turning marriage into something almost unreachable for men . Because they all are after men today. The Bible says , if you burn get married . You realise how grievous it is and how devilish their modern sermons are ?
Thank you for this. You are speaking the truth. A true Godly man. May God bless you for spreading this message. I hope more men will abide by what the Bible says and help implement a foundation for a strong marriage.
A respectable Queen does not obsess over a man.A man knows what he wants .He then pursues it.Bottom line. This is not debateable.Never ever chase a man.
What you said is right. But most of the times what happens is the right man does approach you but some girls just shrug him off. Too much of ego. Then they go ahead and ask where did all the good men go? Well they were right there but perhaps you rejected them. ( I'm talking about most Christian women here). Feminism has filled God's daughters with fake empowerment and entitlement. Only Jesus can provide strength no one else. Christian women don't need modern movements they just need Jesus. Maybe thats why good guys don't approach because they are just scared. Your thoughts?
@@apurvanair2056 My thoughts is that from your comment, even if the guy is known to be a player or R word, abusive or ungodly, we should still go ahead, right? Is that what you are trying to imply? Sort your issues, bro.
Thank you for this. This is really good energy. There are a lot of things I need to work on, but doing my best to be this type of man. Also, subscribed!
Mr Allan I have no idea how I found yo page but now I believe God did it for me,not only this video but others too and trust me iam blessed,thanks so much for the time and effort you put into it,blessings * Iam a Ruth waiting for a Boaz*,much love🙏
Thank you brother Allen! This video is very helpful. And I agree that these are important things to look for in a man, when considering marriage. So wonderful that you used Boaz as an example. Well, one of the reasons I am still single, is because I did not meet a Christian male like this, yet. But I remain hopeful that even at 54, I will be connected to such a male soon. Thank you and God bless!
Before you asked God for a Godly man,make sure you are a Godly woman.God always give your self reflected husband.if you are a sinner,you will attract a sinner.be a version of yourself of the type of man you want n God will give to you.
Christmas is not more godly than what the rant of the man in this video . Christmas and the video sounds godly on the surface but in fact it is devilish.
I've prayed about this today, God revealed to me that I'm only asking for a wife for my sexual desires and not for his glory. I'm praying that He changes my heart desires
@ Kevin Gonzalez "To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife" 1 Corinthians 7:4 The Lord , in his word makes it crystal clear that the reason why we get married is because of our sexual urges. Now , everything we do should be for his glory . So , I don't understand what you're getting at.
I have this quality, I love appostle paul and preach the gospel of grace, and reach out to all relegious, works based churches as I am a pro-and ex mormon.....see my facebook darryl kirky,. I would luv friendship with you in christ jesus........From Perth Western Australia.
I'd like to add that men need to learn to SERIOUSLY hold back on sexual advances when perusing a woman. It's ok to let her know you think she's attractive, but if you are one week into the relationship and pressuring her for sex, you are making her feel UNSAFE and USED. Self control and the ability to hold back sexual desire is a quality I have yet to find in a single man yet. I want to feel loved for who I am, not my body.
Yassss!!! So difficult to fun into a leading Godly man! I know my husband is being worked on just like im an by God thru Jesus Christ! I cant wait! Naw..yes i can..lol because I know he will come in Gods divine timing!
I pray to marry a Godly man we can worship together! A man that is the leader and we can support each goals. Can we go on some Joseph Prince conferences?
Way to be Boaz! You had me laughing when you said" yes they spent the night". Excellent video, almost teared up when you talked about not just using women for sex even within a relationship that's how I failed in relationship. But God is greater than any sin, love conquers all and believes all.
@ eric brown Marriage is for sex first and foremost. The man in the video is a dangerous quack . Marriage is for sex in God's eyes as much as celibacy is for abstinence. Saying that marriage is not for sex is preaching a doctrine of demons.
@ eric brown Once Boaz had Ruth , he did not have sex with her you know . He was one of those mommy boys afraid of their own desires !! Have you ever read what the Bible say instead of listening to such a quack ? According to the Bible , we have to get married in order to avoid sexual immorality , so the use of the wife for sex is a good thing in God's eyes. God does not speak the way this showman speaks. He tells married men to go and drink the waters from their own cisterns (Proverbs 5:18) , which is the wife's body. God wants married men to enjoy their wives , to rejoice in their wives and have their sexual needs met so that they can be free from temptations. God's goodness and wiseness vs the crap coming from so called "preachers".
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I think a big one is can he lead you.....I would not advise a woman to marry someone they feel like can't lead them spiritually.
Wish I'd knew this 23 years ago.. Ugh!😣
Don't worry about the past you know now. 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!
Amen.
Kevin B ain’t that the truth! That’s what I’ve tried to tell so many women but they unfortunately need to learn the hard way.
Torri Howard hindsight is always 20/20 isn’t it? God bless you Torri,
Married men: we really DO need you to continue these 4 things after marriage. It is heart-breaking to be pursued, protected, provided for, & prioritized....and forgotten once "won." We want you. We really do. Just as God told Eve, that her desire would be for her husband. Ever wonder why that was part of the punishment of leaving Eden? It physically hurts to be forgotten by the man who sleeps next to you every night. Do those 4 until you or she dies, seriously. Thank you, Allen for the video. I hope it helps men to hear from a man. It's much harder to hear these things from a woman.
wendy d praise God for the great reminder. I know I need to improve as well. Although I taught this message, I am well aware of areas where I need to improve as a husband. God bless you,
You better preach that!
Wendy the Cake Lady but a woman can’t be desperate for a mans attention
@Petes F
Exactly. Most western women are today. And you know why ? Because it is all about the woman in this day and age . Men are NOT in control anymore .
Especially in bed. They are such wimps afraid of their sexual desires , little boys afraid to offend mommy .
What a turn off !
@@framboise595 You really can't blame men for being afraid of their sexual desires because some women are just not in the mood when their husbands ask for sex, and if their husbands keep asking for it and gets turned down, it can seem like the husband is bothering her.
1. He Pursues her
2. He Protects her (physically, emotionally and sexually)
3. He Provides for her
4. He Prioritizes her
He leads her to God
Lacking sir.
@@papitatz6632 I would challenge that...if he exhibits these characteristics of God, he most absolutely is leading her spiritually. Just my thoughts.
Adam prioritised his dear Eve.
You know what happened ?
Go on making it all about the woman , first in sin and in transgression .
Satan is jubilating.
The husband is called by God to provide and protect. That's it.
In no way to pursue because once you've conquerred , you OWN .
You don't pursue what is yours !!
@@pashahillyard8763
A husband does not have authority in the spiritual era only but in everyway because the wife is called to submit to him in everything.
A man that finds a wife, Finds a good thing.( man) (finds)!
Women was made for man not the other way around and a women might have plans for a date with someone they are already with but it's the man's job to begin the relationship
@@ashleyseay2871 haha random
@@ashleyseay2871
Woman was made for man , but in this day and age it is not about the man anymore because now it is women who are in control.
That is why everything is screwed to the core , from dating to marriage ( or what we call marriage today !) .
@@framboise595 well regardless of this sad day and age God rules and expectations never change the husband is the authority over the wife but He must know that God is ultimate authority so the woman can submit to a man who is submitted to God and she is submitted to God 1st of course.
@@ashleyseay2871
God's rules never change but WE have changed them .
It is now all about the woman because so called Christians pander to women like never before .
Ladies please don't let the word submit scare you. If you marry a man that truly loves God , submitting to him is a piece of cake. I have been married to my Boaz for 23 years (together 33) and I am as happy today as I was the day I meet him. I am more than happy to submit to him because he is a provider, protecter, he definitely chased me and made me a priority. Get to know the man not the fantasy.
"Get to know the man not the fantasy!"🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
@ Moma Lisa
IF the man is like this or like that ..not like this and not like that
Except that wives submit not if but EVEN IF.
See the difference ?
Submitting comes naturally to us women . But not to husbands . To lovers , to males in the workplace etc...
Because Satan has taken plethoras of women outside the home (the protection ) in order to let them be "free" and taste the world , sleep around and have their ways .
All of thi5 goes against their femini5t Je5ebel 5pirit.
I'm not praying for a perfect woman, I'm praying that I'll be a perfect man for her someday.
Simp
Amen 🙏🏽 you are not a “simp” for wanting to be a good husband for your future wife👍🏽
Same bro
@Emanuel Teklu Yes it is obvious. That’s how healthy relationships work. With both putting in the work and effort not just one person.
J A C You'll be waiting a long time because there's no such person as a Perfect man & I notice you said man not Husband December 21,2020
Basically described the perfect guy. Boaz where you at 😂
Im here lol
Yes lol but we got to be patient and serve the Lord while in the waiting season don’t go looking for him he will come to us ! 😊
Mallaya Diggs nah, if you find someone who is valuable then try to go after him. I've seen many women lose good men to another woman for waiting for him. And remember, not all of men are perfect. Try to help em. ;)
Right here
Boaz wasn't perfect by any stretch of the imagination. Study your bible and letting your emotional itching ear desires fool you.
My mom actually made a list of what she wanted in a man and she prayed to God for him all the time. She almost got married to a man she did not pray for. Then one day, my dad saw my mom’s picture. Then, it was like the Holy Spirit guided my dad to my mom. My dad pursued my mom then. I’m really thankful for their story because our living God answers prayers and He will prepare a spouse for you. May God bless you ❤️☺️
Did he have all the qualities your mom prayed for though?
@@nadinegomez8858 He actually did. He is a God-fearing man, tall, handsome, kind, loyal, trustworthy, and more. It's crazy how God works because my mom already had a fiance at the time, but her and her fiance made an agreement that if he (he is a seaman) did not come back within a month, then it's not meant to be and that's exactly when my dad started pursuing my mom. Make sure your future spouse is kind to your family. God bless :)
@@joyven8591 how have things been for you?
I'm 24 and I see everyone in my church and around me getting married and I tend to feel anxious like I'm not experiencing a phase in my life that I should but thankfully videos like these help to remind me that I need to trust in God and not let what I see dictate how I feel.
You still young dont get married
Read 1 Corinthians 7. It is a blessing to be single in the Lord at least for a season. :)
Be patient and focus on your relationship with God and self love
Guess who failed at *all* these, and then lost the girl that God told me i would marry. But God told me that he will give me another chance, so thanks for making a clear video that helped me open my eyes to the things i did wrong, and how to fix them.
emma cruz how do you know god wanted you to marry your ex ? I’m extremely curious
emma cruz we serve the God of another chance! I’d love has missed you then let’s pray it comes back around even stronger!
@@BeybladeDbzFan mark 11: 22-26
I was single. And i never had a girlfriend in my life. So one day i prayed. "God, Ive never had a girlfriend, and i font want to deal with the bs of brake up and pain and braking hearts or getting heart broken so please, let all my feelings go to the person i will marry, and never divorce, that i will have a family" .I had 5 "candidates" that were my crushes, but suddenly all my crushes *disappeared* completly and all my feelings went to a friend of mine, and i was scared and tried to get my feelings go to anyone else but i couldn't, and i started to say: "God NO pls no, not her, shes ugly and... (Then suddenly i started to see the good side) shes genuine, kind, fun, pretty... Cute... Beautiful..." after that, 3 days later she confessed her feelings for me. And i was so glad and everything started to go perfect, but then i loved her more than i loved God. Then i distanced myself from God. Then i excluded God from the relationship, then (since God told me i would marry her) i took her for granted, and she tolerated me like that for 2 months, without me doing anything for the relationship, after that she broke up with me and went for someone else, i was heartbroken, confused, then God told me through his word to not give up. And each time i felt like moving on verses like: "keep does feelings in your heart", "i will fulfill my promises" and "i can do all things, have faith on whats happening" pop up in my notifications, then UA-cam notifications about how God does things through prayer and faith started to pop up. Then about how to have a closer relationship with HIM, and now out of nowhere this channel and other called "ApplyGod'sWord.com/Mark Ballenger" on how to have a good christian relationship started to give me notifications. And ive been here since like two weeks ago. Still having faith that God will bring her back to me, this time prepared to achieve marriage.
@@BeybladeDbzFan its been like 6 months since the brake up, and 10 since his promise. And the relatinship lasted 4 months and 15 days
@@thebeatagp yeah. Thanks. The worst part is when I say i failed at all four... Im not kidding, specially on the 2nd point in the 3rd part. Im a virgin btw, and i plan to stay that way until marriage, but yeah i took sexual advantage of her. Along with failing at all the other 2 of the 2nd point, and point 1, 3 and 4... I feel really bad about it. But now my faith is stronger, and i read God's word to educate myself. Im reborn, I even stoped pornography addiction completly, i stopped masturbation completly and i also started working out and being more healthy by not drinking coke and eating better, because my body is a gift from God. And you have been a huge blessing, so thanks for allowing yourself to be use by God. All the glory for the things in my life, that is a miracle itself, belongs to God. I love God. And i can say it because the meaning of love is: "the genuine wish of someone's well-being" so i love everybody. Specially God.
Where was this lesson when I was 14?! Teach it brother! Guys you better listen! . . and teach your sons!! Yes, Boaz was the MAN!
1. Pursue, 2. Protect, 3. Provides, 4. Priortizes his woman
Boaz did not pursue Ruth ! He did not prioritise her !
Great video I've realized not many males know how to be men nowadays and that's not our fault most of the times but the word of God is the best teacher and what could be more important for a male than to become not only a man but a man of God aswell
Jose Hernandez so true! Many of us did not have the best role models for this and so we had no idea of what to do and how to do it and what it looked like to be a godly man until we came in contact with Christ.
Thats so true.
Amen sir.
Jose Hernandez - That’s so true the word of God is the best teacher.
Jose Hernandez boys can’t be taught how to be a man from a women.
A godly man pursue purpose. He knows who he is, where he came from, the reason he exist, what he can do and where he is going.
Ladies, Genesis chapter two, state the qualities of a Godly man. It's discover it together
I def agree every time I’m on my purpose it’s always a pretty girl trying to thro me off the one who keeps u on track is the one it’s just most dudes cry babies want a girl so bad and don’t know what they want in life
I really want my husband to be my best friend. To understand certain things, to be on the same wavelength, to have the same vision for our lives and our futures and after all of this to really treat me well - with kindness, forgiveness, patience, generally not making a big drama of things. I really want that.
essennagerry well, it starts with not settling for just anyone just because you desire to be married. I waited until I was 40 to marry. But I’m so glad I waited.
@@thebeatagp Thank you! I wanted to marry young but I've come to see the timing itself is not that important.
#1- A man who puts god first 👍🏽
@ essennagerry
I want a wimp , a Mr Nice Guy Guy who will never resist my childish whims and will have sex only when I WANT it. Not when HE wants it.
Because women must be in control. Satan wants it and everyone must do his will.
Husbands must be YES MEN who never confront our potential rebellion.
Isaiah 3:12 WOMEN are running the show . It is a CURSE .
Take a deeper look at the Bible and you will notice that it is the WOMAN made fort he man , not the man for the woman.
Marriage in the Bible is about the man first . Proverbs 31 cannot be clearer.
You have NO PROVERBS 31 equivalent for us women .
Isabelle M I don’t think that’s what the person meant at all, both the husband and wife should have good qualities. A woman shouldn’t settle for a man who isn’t Godly just because the woman is “less”. We are less than God but God treats us with great care, so anyone who has authority should be using it well as Jesus does with us.
I look through comments on post like this and I ask myself why are so many Believers not married. Why is it taking us just as long to get into marriage like those of the world who’s values do not reflect that which we believe. In my opinion more Christians who desire marriage should be married. The Bible does not call for the extra long engagements, fancy weddings, expensive rings. Paul says it’s better to marry than to burn. While I do believe it is very important to use wisdom and seek God while searching for a spouse. I often wonder more of us are not married. If you scroll through comments on videos like this you constantly see men an women saying they desire a spouse. Anyway I think that’s something to ponder and an observation I’ve been having lately. Great video!
I can attest that it could be because God wants relationships/marriages to last and work for His Glory. He doesnt want to produce microwaveable marriages or relationships these things must be "cooked and baked" for some time that way it will have a Lasting effect in comparison to what the world is pushing out. The worlds way is microwaveable and tend to not last or hold. God is INTENTIONAL and he wants things done in a specifc way. Could be the reason it seems many in the church are single. God is trying to raise up Kingdom Marriages not fickle things. Grant it some folks are stubborn, have high and unreasonable expectations, and harbor worldly mindset on love and marriages, so it may take longer so God allows them to remain single to teach them . Nancy leigh demoss was single up until 58 i believe and recently got married maybe about couple yrs now and i dont think she thought she would have been married but God still had that for her! So we mustn't lose hope! But i agree with what you're saying too!🙏🏾💜
In the right season and TIMING, God will bring that special person
I agree!! There are so many single women/men in the church which I find disturbing as well.
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As the gospel preached in churches goes more and more toward what we can get in this life, we're not learning it's us who need to change, so we're always looking for someone who is what we want them to be. But we don't change. As God is love and His ways are love, if we leave the true gospel by the way we live our lives, we can't expect to see love of God from others, because we're living according to feelings. If we live according to the Spirit, God will bless us.
A God fearing man who will lead me spiritually. Amen🙌🏾
This just moves me to tears. I love a kind good hearted man that got his love from God.
More emotional insanity that leaves behind the real reason why God made marriage.
Growing from boys to men is a lot and a lot of us men don’t know how to grow. Great video. Share with a friend.
Good luck. I'm 53 and can't seem to find him. Maybe God is keeping me single. At the same time I am not giving in to the wrong men anymore all in the name of trying to find the right man. I want to honor God this time and respect for myself.
Amy P being single isn’t sinful unless we cannot control our passions, as Paul writes in 1 Cor.7. What can we say? Married folks crave single life and singles long to find “the one”. The heart and eyes of a human are never full but always coveting when there may be other paths God is trying to lead us onto. That is, of course, not applicable for all situations. God bless
@@grumpysquid Yes that's true. Right now God is having me do other things to honor him.
@@grumpysquid
In this day and age we could not care less about God's will for young women at all.
Nothing is more scorned and debased than Sound doctrine and so called chrsitian women just do what they feel and want.
They are not married anymore , they sleep around , they kep saying like proud fools that they have ownership of their bodies . EVEN WITHIN MARRIAGE.
And those wimps called husbands today are told that it is ABUSE to let them know that they have no control of their bodies anymore .If you see what I mean.
Is it any wonder that Satan wins today ? Marriages are a joke today , controlled by women's emotions , will and whims
MEN's will does not exist anymore .
And Satan is happier than ever.
@@framboise595 speak for yourself and your own experience. No need to paint the whole town red.
@@EdMcCornhole
I don't speak for myself but for what I notice.
Great video and message! I would like to see the other side of the story with women.
YES
He has one
@ weenieboys 2
You can wait until the end of the world because fake Christianity is all about woman today as if it was the man who was made for the woman .
Women are NOT taught their duties anymore and are portrayed as little victims .
The tyranny of the weaker is at work .
Satan is behind all those watered down teachings that do NOT teach wives to submit FIRST .
Men are emasculated in the name of " love" .
If they get married , it is in order to avoid sexual immorality but they are denied sex in marriage and do nothing against it !!!!!!
How can it be so ?
They are unable to reassert their authority anymore .
Totally unable .
They are not men anymore .
@@framboise595 I’m surprised it’s coming from a woman. I never thought a woman would be this open minded to the truth
@@Poop-sr9sn
Well , Christians are supposed to love the truth and be truth seekers.
Thank you Brother Allen. I'm praying for a Godly man in my life. I'm asking for your prayers also. I would love to be married and have a family before I'm "too old." I'm 38, I haven't had much experience with relationships. I am still a virgin and sometimes I'm afraid that I'll be taken advantage of and it hinders me from getting to know a guy. I'm praying God helps me to be more brave so that I'm able to receive the Godly man He has just for me. Then you again for sharing the Word with the world.
Just let God guide you and the person will come without you expecting it; and getting to know someone as a complete friend at first is the only way to see if they're a good match for you and true christians, then you advance things to dating and relationship
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You have the upper hand in this. You save your virginity because you want to glorify God. A man should lead you in maintaining your purity, if he tempts you or pressure you to break your virginity. Flee like Joseph. As soon as men discover I am not having sex before marriage, they stop calling 🙌🏼 I even tell them we will not be alone ever while dating, they stop calling 🙌🏼 I’m not being in any environment conducive to temptation. If he cannot respect that nor lead and support me in my purity. Goodbye
@@truthandbeautyco Amen! Thank you for sharing.
Some major context was missing. Bias actually didn’t make the first move. Ruth did. Ruth was the one who knew who’s field to work in. She knew that boaz would have a duty to marry her since he was related to her husband. She pursued him first. Then, eventually her came to respect her and her situation enough that he pursued her.
Why is this so hard for some men to figure this out?? This is the perfect man!!! YASS!!!
Definitely Good Qualities
1. Pursue
2. Protect (create a safe environment)
3. One who provides
4. Prioritize
Thank you brother for sending home the truth into our men. We women are the weaker vessels was why God made us after men (Adam and Eve). I hope men are listening. Women need attention from our men to give submission to our men. God bless you Amen.
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We submit first and then he will give us attention.
Right ?
But of course , no one cares for the truth anymore.
It is all about goddess woman unable to be like Proverbs 31 anymore .
Love your videos, we need help , marriages and families are in big trouble! We need a marriage crusade! A Rent out stadiums crusade!
D. Lewis Amen
D. Lewis amen to that! We definitely need help.
@ L Lewis
Marriages and families are in big troubles because of WOMEN .
But of course , the truth must be silenced ...
Yes Lord!!!! I'm praying for God to continue to work on me so that I'll be ready for my husband when he arrives! I pray for a God fearing man, a Kingdom minded man, a provider, a protector, a leader and a man that puts God above all things, in Jesus' name I pray!!!! 💜🙏🏽💜
Can you explain the difference between having godly standards/not compromising and allowing grace for them to grow where you see they fall short? I'm single, but I just want to be sure my standards are right and that I'm not being too picky..
Great question
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽this word is sooo much needed, YES, man should be interested in everything concerning the woman and not only in their body, even in marriage 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻, our man should provide, protect and love is unconditionally the same way that we obey them. And patient is a key 🔑 .💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽God richly bless you for this powerful word.
@ Grace For Living
Marriage is about sex first and foremost.
We get married in order to be free to have sex without indulging in immorality.
But who cares today ?
SATAN wins .
@ Grace For Living
"man should be interested in everything concerning the woman and not only in their body , even in marriage "
Well , wll dear. If he was only interested in her body , why would he marry her ? There are so many women who sleep around now you see what I mean ?
Sorry but your words make no sense.
Thank you , because honestly as a single woman walking on in the Lord I need to stop entertaining attention from worldly men and need to guard my heart. And know I what godly characteristics to look for in a man.
This man knows what he is talking about! Great video!
Please pray for me to connect to my husband soon. Thank you brother Allen P.
sorry if im wrong but is that him in your picture!?
A genuine godly man.. What a blessing from the Lord
I waited three years and then I thought I found a man of God and ironically enough he's who turned me onto your videos...he ended up being very abusive and is not a man of God after all. But, I'm blessed to have found you in spite of what I went through! I still pray for him
First time watching your videos. As a christian women all I can say is SPOT ON!
Not dating anyone but this helped me to think about what I want my future boyfriend to have.
God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted I trust God and believe in him
Thank you, I'm actually working on myself to be the best husband for my soulmate, we've been together for a year and I really want us to get married. She's the best thing that's ever happened to me and I thank God for blessing me with her. I just want to be the best man for my sweetheart and these videos are helping. Thank you
I randomly saw this video. There some points in my life that I felt desperate to find a Godly man. Rushing myself sometimes lead me to wrong relationship and I really thank God for this video that enlightened me to continue to seek the Lord and wait for that right moment if it's God will to give me a Godly man who genuinely loves God first, and a man who pursues the woman that he loves and knows his purpose why he wants to be in a relationship in the first place.
So ladies don't be in a rushed and wait for God's perfect timing, seek God first it is so nice to be loved by
King, because we are God's princesses and knows our worth. God always wants the best for us.
thank you Brother Allen that you'd been used by God to remind single ladies and mens to pursue a Godly relationship. Godbless you!
greetings from Philippines 🙂🙂🙂
Wow confirmation is real! I'm so glad I found this video. Thank you Jesus! My son's father has been trying so hard for us to be back together, to the point he is now willing to jump into marriage. We have been going back and forth as to why I just won't marry him for months now. I would love for my son to have me and his father in the same household, but we are not on the same level spiritually and it's so evident that he can not lead me. He says he "believes" in Christ but it's so obvious that Christ is not head of his life. Thanks for the great video!
I love this its what I want in a husband.
Pie Face if he also puts the kingdom of God first in his life, than me too 😁
Pie face right!! I want the same thing
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Same
Your a blessing thank you God for this word from a Godly man Amen stay blessed u and family ❤️🙏
Pray for my marriage please!
This is Perfect! Thanks 💕
Pursue
Protect
Provide
Prioritize
Its impossible to submit to or follow a man with no direction. Please before you think of marriage make sure you know where your going and that you know how to be a leader and spiritually lead your wife and the family. If you were never taught how to be a man (biblical man) or leader then please learn, pray, fast and seek the Lord so you grow in that area BEFORE you even think of getting married. And have a genuine relationship with God, no woman wants to feel like she has to remind her adult husband child to spend time in scripture. Your passion for God should be noticeable and your relationship with Him should be solid. We’re not looking to marry someone who is inconsistent or desires worldly things more than time with God.
Very true
This vid has the scriptures quoted on the screen. I like that
I feel really blessed by this right now. It feels like growing up, all we learn is how to be perfect for a man. And I feel that women want to find a man who is also working on himself to be the best for his woman and ultimately his wife. I hope that I can meet someone on this wavelength. So many thoughts after listening to you. Thank you!
@ Vear
This video is not inspired by the Bible. The woman was made for the man but not the opposite.
In the Bible you have Proverbs 31 but NO male equivalent.
Modern preachers just made it all up in order to pander to women and make marriage an unreachable burden for men .
DOCTRINE OF DEMONS
Hi Isabelle, I'll invite you to listen to the teachings of Paul Washer on biblical womanhood. If you can, find RC Blakes as well and listen to his queenology and kingology series. I hope you will be blessed and enriched with quality relationships 🙏🏽
@@orchidpanda
Washer who tells wives that they don't have to love their husbands ? Well , well .
Sounds he is another one who has skipped Titus 2:4 !
In the Bible , you never have any passage that tells any man to be "the best for his woman" . This is all made up and inspired by the feminist idolatry of our modern times.
In Exodus 21:10 it is about the duties of a husband to provide for his wife food , clothing and sex. But that's all.
All that is added today comes from the devil , especially all this emotion-driven sermons who turn marriage into a BURDEN for men.
If marriage as the Bible says is allowed by God in order to avoid sexual immorality (very serious) , those so-called men of God just do the work of the devil by turning marriage into something almost unreachable for men . Because they all are after men today.
The Bible says , if you burn get married .
You realise how grievous it is and how devilish their modern sermons are ?
Thanks for your reply Isabelle. I respect your point of view. I hope that you find the kind of companionship you are looking for. Blessings 🙏🏽
@@orchidpanda
Blessings to you as well.
I'm glad that you understood my point because the topic is very serious.
Thank you for this. You are speaking the truth. A true Godly man. May God bless you for spreading this message. I hope more men will abide by what the Bible says and help implement a foundation for a strong marriage.
Listen ladies, I’m the exact man Allen is describing in the video, I’m also handsome. Comment for inquiries.
Nathan hilarious! Hey I don’t fault you bro. The Bible says “he that’s finds a wife...” I like your aggression.
He he bro I don't think so
Humble as well.
☺️
Uhh...yeah so, are you married yet? Cause im not! Lol
Praying for the right man
A respectable Queen does not obsess over a man.A man knows what he wants .He then pursues it.Bottom line. This is not debateable.Never ever chase a man.
I remember a preaching from Pastor Paul Washer saying: everytime in the Bible a woman persues a man, it is a sin.
Well that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make yourself available to be pursued by the right man.
What you said is right. But most of the times what happens is the right man does approach you but some girls just shrug him off. Too much of ego. Then they go ahead and ask where did all the good men go? Well they were right there but perhaps you rejected them. ( I'm talking about most Christian women here). Feminism has filled God's daughters with fake empowerment and entitlement. Only Jesus can provide strength no one else. Christian women don't need modern movements they just need Jesus. Maybe thats why good guys don't approach because they are just scared. Your thoughts?
@@apurvanair2056 My thoughts is that from your comment, even if the guy is known to be a player or R word, abusive or ungodly, we should still go ahead, right? Is that what you are trying to imply? Sort your issues, bro.
@@graciouslexxie2003 I said the right man aka the nice guy and not some known player. Did you even read my comment?
Where are you Boaz? Lol, patiently waiting (maybe...lol) Lord, give us patience even when we've felt we've been. Our standards are not high.
This is the most solid video on what men of God should look like in a dating/potential marriage scenario
Good stuff. I would like to see a video on finding a woman to marry, now that we have covered the men.
Thank you for this!! I am waiting on A Godly man to walk into my life and i know what look for!
Thank you for this. This is really good energy. There are a lot of things I need to work on, but doing my best to be this type of man.
Also, subscribed!
Mr Allan I have no idea how I found yo page but now I believe God did it for me,not only this video but others too and trust me iam blessed,thanks so much for the time and effort you put into it,blessings * Iam a Ruth waiting for a Boaz*,much love🙏
The four P's
Pursuit
Protection
Provides
Priorities
Thank you brother Allen! This video is very helpful. And I agree that these are important things to look for in a man, when considering marriage. So wonderful that you used Boaz as an example. Well, one of the reasons I am still single, is because I did not meet a Christian male like this, yet. But I remain hopeful that even at 54, I will be connected to such a male soon. Thank you and God bless!
Before you asked God for a Godly man,make sure you are a Godly woman.God always give your self reflected husband.if you are a sinner,you will attract a sinner.be a version of yourself of the type of man you want n God will give to you.
This is a very good video. Now can you address the strong independent women that say they don't need a man
Men push women to be independent you forgot so stop the bs. You guys no longer to be providers so dont complain with the mess you created
Great advice- thank you. I have been losing sleep over a lady lately.
Boaazzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!!!!! Where you at?? 😹🙌
Thank you.I hope 1 day I find a god fearing man like that..you are speaking facts bro
Great teaching :-) Triple AMEN Boaz is needed glory
Praying for this kind of man 🙏
This is a video that I need to follow thank you and have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
Tanner tesseneer merry Christmas to you as well friend.
Christmas is not more godly than what the rant of the man in this video .
Christmas and the video sounds godly on the surface but in fact it is devilish.
Man of God thank you for this. I celebrate the God in you
I've prayed about this today, God revealed to me that I'm only asking for a wife for my sexual desires and not for his glory. I'm praying that He changes my heart desires
@ Kevin Gonzalez
"To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife" 1 Corinthians 7:4
The Lord , in his word makes it crystal clear that the reason why we get married is because of our sexual urges.
Now , everything we do should be for his glory .
So , I don't understand what you're getting at.
This was awesome! I got my Boaz!
Good info and I totally agree with it!! Ladies, don’t settle, please!
Unfortunately I did not find any men with his quality
But god is big and love
If u pray u shall receive
Amen
I have this quality, I love appostle paul and preach the gospel of grace, and reach out to all relegious, works based churches as I am a pro-and ex mormon.....see my facebook darryl kirky,. I would luv friendship with you in christ jesus........From Perth Western Australia.
I'd like to add that men need to learn to SERIOUSLY hold back on sexual advances when perusing a woman. It's ok to let her know you think she's attractive, but if you are one week into the relationship and pressuring her for sex, you are making her feel UNSAFE and USED. Self control and the ability to hold back sexual desire is a quality I have yet to find in a single man yet. I want to feel loved for who I am, not my body.
Ah ! Ah ! That female hypocrisy !
Modern women who are into free sex like never before LOL
This is a really great video. I have always loved the story of Boaz and Ruth.
God I want this Godly Man! These days that we are living it’s so hard to find selfless Godly Man but, I know there is someone out there.
Lol Boaz really smooth, he finally laid down with Ruth really slick
1. Pursue
2. Protect
3. Provide
4. Prioritize
Great video, right on time for me too see. I just had that talk with my Heavenly Father. Thank you 😊
Thank you so much, I definitely look for these qualities before saying any "YES" to a man 🙏
May The Lord Jesus Christ bless you and keep you. Have a blessed day! 🙂
Great video. Just sent this to my 21 year old daughter.
Very nice 👍🏻 was really blessed. It’s very much true.
I wonder how many women are godly that are worth pursuing.
APTTMH
Beautiful....💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙂
God is awesome!!!! 🤗💕
Yassss!!! So difficult to fun into a leading Godly man! I know my husband is being worked on just like im an by God thru Jesus Christ! I cant wait! Naw..yes i can..lol because I know he will come in Gods divine timing!
Boaz is an example of how Christ treats his bride (the church)
You are preaching to me!! Thank you for this teaching!! I needed it.
Thank you brother, I have some things I have failed to keep up doing.
Right on time message!
I'm glad you feel comfortable with me,I feel safe and comfortable with you
Great video my guy! Great work and this is much appreciated in time of need and perseverance.
Very, very informative!!
I pray to marry a Godly man we can worship together! A man that is the leader and we can support each goals. Can we go on some Joseph Prince conferences?
Amen brother. Thank you for the teaching.
Way to be Boaz! You had me laughing when you said" yes they spent the night". Excellent video, almost teared up when you talked about not just using women for sex even within a relationship that's how I failed in relationship. But God is greater than any sin, love conquers all and believes all.
@ eric brown
Marriage is for sex first and foremost. The man in the video is a dangerous quack .
Marriage is for sex in God's eyes as much as celibacy is for abstinence.
Saying that marriage is not for sex is preaching a doctrine of demons.
@ eric brown
Once Boaz had Ruth , he did not have sex with her you know . He was one of those mommy boys afraid of their own desires !!
Have you ever read what the Bible say instead of listening to such a quack ?
According to the Bible , we have to get married in order to avoid sexual immorality , so the use of the wife for sex is a good thing in God's eyes.
God does not speak the way this showman speaks. He tells married men to go and drink the waters from their own cisterns (Proverbs 5:18) , which is the wife's body.
God wants married men to enjoy their wives , to rejoice in their wives and have their sexual needs met so that they can be free from temptations.
God's goodness and wiseness vs the crap coming from so called "preachers".
Very well explained💐👍, so spritual 🙏😊
YOU HAVE GOT A LOT OF WISDOM FROM GOD.. GREAT TEACHING. GOD BLESS 🙏
Thanks so much +Faye Collins, I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thanks again for taking the time to watch. God bless +Faye Collins,
These are great tips! Amen!!!
Great message thanks for the advice God bless
The pattern is good. Great message