WHAT CHRISTIAN MEN WANT IN A WOMAN
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What do Christian men want in a woman? In this video I share 7 qualities that most Christian men are looking for in a woman. I also hope this video encourages both single and Christian women to grow in possessing these essential 7 qualities of a godly woman. AND...next week, my WIFE will be our special guest on the BEAT as she will share from her perspective what she was looking for in a godly man...so...STAY TUNED!
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Hey BEAT family, I have a heart for singles, marriages and relationships and I believe it is so critical to choose the right person as a single. So, today's video speaks both to the men and women. Men, here are what I believe are 7 essential qualities to look for in a woman. Ladies, perhaps you will gain some insight as to what we as men are looking for in a woman. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below. Love y'all!
THE BEAT by Allen Parr I've seen your wife and I must say God has dilivered
Hey buddy, glad to know that you are able to love beyond physical. That's so important in a relationship. Do you feel like her being mentally challenged will hinder the success of your relationship? You should be very honest about this before proceeding with marriage even though you love her very much. It's something to consider. Thoughts?
Thank you Allen Parr.
I agree and hope to find her soon. Thank you.
There is no secrets. Men are everywhere. Very few quality women. Duhhhhhhhh
7 great tips, but I will add one if you don't mind. I prayed and prayed for a great woman and several of your tips were in my prayers. so my tip is to pray because God delivered me such an amazing woman and 14 years later I still get excited to open my eyes in the morning to see her. That is how great God is. Great video my brother.
SHARING THE WORD OF GOD beautiful testimony my brother!
SHARING THE WORD OF GOD yes prayer...thank you Lord
Excellent point! Praying your way to that woman is very important as well! :) Glad you where blessed with your heart's desire!
Amen
Awww thats very sweet.
I can add to one of this and say it is DANGEROUS to submit to a man unworthy of submission. Aka an abuser. I was submissive and my ex abused me physically. WAIT and keep your heart close to God without divulging too much or getting too into someone TOO soon.
there are guys who abuse there power. and that is no real man nor a man of god. thats why us christians have to wait on God
Yes that can get you killed.
yep agreed
Valerie Duckworth my ex was also abusive. We almost got married, my advice is to take it slow!
@@relentlessrhythm2774 TRUE!!!
1. Spiritual
2. Sweet
3. Sexy
4. Supportive
5. Submissive
6. Selfless
7. Solid Friendship
T J Sexy? What do you mean by sexy?
so women should basically be an s
Strawberries Blueberries its just that attractive aspect you can’t date someone that you don’t find attractive you know??
@@Ruiimai but they can be attractive to you, but not someone else. Eye of the beholder basically... so I feel it unfair or not right to use the word sexy?
Nuff Said, true stuff
It seems like you have a wonderful wife, a treasure, a Proverbs 31 woman. That's a blessing!
Amen! You can see it from how a man speaks. That indeed he speaks from experience :) God is good !
Being single my whole life, praying for the right man.
Amen Sister
All of those are excellent..And if a Christian woman has all these qualities all she needs to do is trust God and Wait..
Amen that is true. But there is nothing wrong with putting yourself in the position to be found. And there is nothing wrong with letting a guy know you might be interested in him in SUBTLE ways. Anything too overt could scare him away.
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this is quite late but are you able to give an example(s)? To be honest today's dating world has me so on guard that I've noticed I am having a hard time with understanding what is acceptable positioning and what is thirsty. Being too available vs being so "busy" aka. playing hard to get, having unrealistic standards of how I should be pursued etc. are all issues I struggle with and wouldn't mind some Godly insight on.
THE BEAT by Allen Parr | can I ask how you can let the guy know in subtle ways that you’re interested? In the past I’ve struggled with this because I just didn’t know how.
Amen!!😁
stop being subtle...Find what his interested in and make it such that he finds all that in you. Faith without work is dead, so if he's not coming to you go to him...keeping to point 4 and 5
I can not speak for others, but we just celebrated our 59th wedding anniversary, and I got the best one 59 years ago. The rest of you will have to pick from what is left. She knows it to because she introduces me as her lucky husband. She is so right. LOL God must have picked her for me because I could not have done as well. She is not perfect, because none of us are, but she is way beyond all my expectations. She is my help mate, my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend.
Who could ask for more. I am so blessed. We were high school sweet hearts and were married as soon as she graduated. I was a year older. She was 17, and I was 18. Now we are inseparable.
Wow God bless you both ❤
Congratulations
cute 😂
U ar so lucky
Did u take time to pray for her??? b4 u met???
I've watched a few of these and have really enjoyed them, especially since what he says lines up w the Bible. I am a woman and am still praying for a man who believes and loves/obeys the Lord. I don't get offended about God wanting me to be submissive to my husband (once I am married), because I hope to find a man who is following God. God expects husbands to be submissive and obedient to Him and naturally the wife should follow her husband and submit to him and God. God expects husbands to love their wives as Jesus loves the church. Both husband and wife have instructions from the Lord in their relationship and since God created man and woman He knows what both need to do inorder for the relationship to be full of joy and not end in divorce or fall apart.
Well said!
Jesus is the truth I feel the same in a Christian women
Agreed
Thank you once again! It really is great to hear what Christian men are looking for. I can remember being desperate at one time in my life but then I learned that there was no reason for me to put myself on "The Discount Rack" when I serve a true and Mighty God who wants to be my First Love!
Wow, the way you talked about your wife has inspired me to do more just as an overall Christian! Praise God her your rib! 🙏🏾💛
One of the big things in my wife that made me feel like she was the one was her gentle spirit. The way she treats children and animals. I saw a mother and an aunt in her before she became either. She was so genuine with the way she cared for children and animals. This may sound corny, but it really made me look at her in a different light than my exs. That same gentleness was felt in the relationship. All the women I dated before her..yeah they lacked that gentleness. That caring spirit. Now when I watch her with our son and pets, I stand back in awe and say "thank You, Lord. I could not ask for a more loving woman." My wife was also my best friend before we got married. I could.spend hours upon hours with her. It really didn't matter what we did. We just connected. We would spend hours on the phone. We would talk till one of us passed out. So I will say it like this to all of my single brothers out here watching this video. Wait until you are certain! The biggest thing for me in considering her to be my wife was her love for Jesus. Our relationship would not work if He was not in our marriage.
That's so beautiful. I hope one day a man will be saying that about me..there doesn't seem to be a lot of Christian men available though.
I still feel the same. Even more so actually. She's one of my greatest earthly blessings.
I can still remember when my ex-boyfriend told his friend that I was never his ideal woman but I don't dwell on that anymore, it just hurts everytime I'm reminded about it.
I'm sorry you were treated that way, that's the right attitude to have not to dwell on it. You're always gonna have people who don't think before they speak, I just try to ignore them and go on with my day.
it's good he told you the truth. He wasn't your ideal man. I hope you find the man who's right for you.
Amen brother! I agree 100%. My old youth pastor said similar. And I'm glad you mentioned that looks DO matter. Yes you can have a super model but if she has the personality of a wet mop you have a problem. But if you have a women with an amazing personality but can't stand to look at her there's a problem. My father used to tell me there was no secret my taste of women was one who had a lot of junk in the trunk with the girls I'd bring home lol. But also God works in amazing ways. My wife had the traits I was looking for when we first met but wasn't Christian at the time which was a bit of a problem at first. But honestly I claimed to be Christian but certainly didn't show it with my actions. But God used me and what we both had to make a strong, loving, Christ honoring marriage. And I 've never seen a more beautiful woman inside and out than the one God sent me.
Well said John! Thanks for sharing this. You are so right. You must get the total package.
Amen!
My Brother, YOU NAILED IT... in Jesus' Name!!!!
Thanks so much Mickey. God bless,
Thank you brother Allen! Excellent video and it was great to see you share what you looked for in a woman. When a woman has a personal relationship with God, walking in obedience to His will and to His Word, she grows in the Lord and in the things of God, she wont have any issues with submitting (respecting) to her husband as the head of the home and marraige. Submission is never about being a doormat but rather having a respectful attitude for the husbands leadership in the home, being prayerful and supportive of his leadership, trusting that he will make the right decisions.
Interesting video.
It's often difficult to find or be found by the right Christian spouse. Too many name Christians today who have learned to appear like Christians. I think prayers is a very important quality that should be added to her virtue.
favoured I agree w you! I have come across so many Christian men who claim to be Christian, but don't even know where their bible is, or only go to church once or twice a year. God has shown me to pray for these men and part from them in a christ like way. At first I was getting upset at these guys, but now I've learned to see them as people I need to pray for and not just accuse of being liars. It is very frustrating, but their lack of knowing and having a true relationship with the Lord is far more upsetting than me knowing the Lord and still not having a husband. While the Lord prepares me to be a Godly wife for whoever He does have planned for me, I hope to be a light and used by God to those men I meet along the way. I don't date anyone who isn't TRULY a Christian, but that doesn't mean I need to be nasty to them or that I can't invite them to church and pray the Lord will work in their life.
@@jesusisthetruth8529 Hi, do you tell them what you're thinking about them.. not being committed enough as Christian?
Great tips I have entered into a relationship recently and I am learning to be the woman my man wants me to be.
Right on. Good balance, and honesty. Thanks for admitting that SEXY is an important quality, even for Christians! (at least for HONEST Christians!) There are way too many women in church and singles ministries, that have just let themselves go, and go around in frumpy T-shirts, mom jeans, and old tennis shoes. Then they grouse about how it should be 'ONLY the HEART that matters!'
Way to open a can of worms! Haha. God made men to be highly responsive (HIGHLY responsive) to the beauty of a woman. Women tend to discount this, much to their detriment.
First of all, I love the advice you always give pastor, and I always follow your channel...that said, I've been married to a very contentious woman, who is making my life a world of torture and unrest! I need some support and prayer Sir, even though I live so far away, I believe God can do all things.,....thanks again for making these awesome videos!!
2:19 👍. Thank you for keeping it real.
LOL. he's bold
Hi Brother Parr. I've enjoyed and have been blessed by your illustrations of the Word Of GOD ALMIGHTY. You always keep in context with the Word and not fit it to your our interpretation. That's very big of you and as a viewer of your channel I appreciate your effort to clarify the Word Of GOD. Your topic hear I find is true and ideal. Many Believers I feel need to do the work and take an honest assessment of if they are ready for what the Word Of GOD says about marriage because too many ppl come to marriage with hidden agendas and twist them into the word of God...how sad. We rob ourselves of a tremendous blessing when we do that. Marriage is a ministry and to think that's scripture states that Christ will one day return for His Bride, how He is Married to the Church, but yet we take marriage for granted..how awful. Men and women are to examine their own hearts in all things especially this most sacred ministry... Enjoy your day.
I agree 100 %.
Thank you Allen. You are doing a great job.
You deliver godly wisdom in a clear manner, and you are very talented in communicating your message.
I really appreciate your work. Thanks again. God bless you. Peace Bro.
Waiting for next week.
Cheers!!!
Thanks so much Famous! By the way, where are you from? I'd love to get to know my subscribers more.
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In this sense of my identity and purpose, your channel has been a tremendous blessing to me.
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that's a very solid statement, and that's something I've never thought about when it comes to who I'm looking for in a woman, I suck at dating and I'm scared of rejection but wanted to spend my life trying to improve my confidence while overcoming my shyness because I'm still painfully shy but barely open myself up to new opportunities and it's easy for me to stay in my comfort zone until I keep my anxiety in check and also I'm very cautious and observant but often look before I leap and not leave anything to chance but rather wait for the right time and the right opportunity to put myself back out there only this time with confidence, but I don't see myself with a woman in my future, well, I may have a higher calling and was meant to use my gifts and talents to reach my potential instead of casting them aside in order to live a normal, depressing life.
May God Bless this man and his Family What a blessing you gave us father❤
Yup I agree on those qualities that a Christian man are looking for in woman.
Your wife is blessed to have you sir.
I agree with most of these except for #3. As a Christian woman (single) I am more attracted to a man for his personality and good character traits, yes looks are definitely a plus but I’d rather have an “ugly” guy with an amazing personality than an attractive guy who is arrogant.
May God bless you for knowing what the weightier matter is.
Proverbs 31:30
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Charm can lie, beauty can vanish,
but a woman who fears Adonai should be praised.
This video was about what men want in women, not the other way around.
@@douglasmcnay644 She just stated her opinion as a woman. Nothing wrong with that.
@Relentless Rhythm Thanks for stating your opinion. I do agree with what your saying that the personality is definitely what counts and not the looks! May God bless you so much. :)
Video quality is so much better. Good job, man!
Amber Roberts thanks Amber, I'm always working on how I can improve.
LOL THATS AWESOME ALAN. I SMILED TGE WHOLE WAY THROUGH, BETTER KEEP THAT WOMAN HAPPY NAH......
I've just recently started watching your videos, and I like them all, and so far, agree with them. I've not found anything I consider wrong in what you teach or in your behavior/attitude. I love how you're humble, and I never see any arrogance nor do I hear any sarcasm about others, even those you would disagree with. I see that with other Christian UA-camrs, but not you. And I love that! I see pure motives from you. I, also, love how you communicate so clearly. Anyway, I told my husband about you and that he ought to look you up and watch and listen and how you had many videos of different topics. If he watched this video, especially, the first 3 things, he would say, "I like that guy!". Lol. I'm working on it. Phew! But, it is work! Especially, when you have physical problems, because everything you do, even trying to look nice for your husband, is a BIG job and harder and bigger than if you're healthy and doing these things. It takes more work and is more of a struggle. You don't just do things. You struggle to do them. But, yeah, he would like you!!😊
Another great video, looking forward to the one next week. One point that could have been stressed a bit more is under the spiritual that they need to be grounded in Biblical truth.
Angus Taylor very, very true. That is the most important quality of ALL!
Exactly what I'm looking for. But those woman are really rare these days. I really hope God answers my prayer.
Thanks for keeping it real. Sometimes in focusing on living a life of purity you forget the importance of connecting and expressing your femininity aka sexiness lol. Thanks for the reminder☺️
Chanelle A Wilson don’t confuse femininity with glamour. Femininity is how God designed us not how man defines us. All of the feminine traits men define are all shallow and superficial. This is one of the few times Pastor Parr has stepped out of bounds in his teaching of the Word. He specifically and intentionally spoke against what scripture says about the matter.
This is rock solid stuff. The one I am falling short in is my sexy. I hate to admit it but a sistah has dropped the ball a bit in the last 6 mos. I was very sick a year ago. Then left my fiance of 2 years also 6 months ago. I kinda just let myself go. Not eating right, gained weight, no make up. Smh. The last few weeks the men have become beautiful to me again. Lol. I took my time, had a few months of Godly therapy and now I just want to have a flirty conversation with a man again but I don't feel sexy like I use too. Good thing I started working out again. Eating wayyyy better, and won't take the trash out without my eyebrows on and some lip gloss. So hopefully I'll get my swag/sexy back up and be able to have that fairly innocent exchange with Mr. Handsome. I'm 44 by the way. We as women are often instructed to wait and I agree. I've never approached a man. But I find that alot of men are not in the mindset of pursuing. Some think a woman should be approaching them and they shouldn't put in the effort. Probably just my personal experience. I live in DC. The ratio is about 12 single black women to 1 single black man. But I've never paid much attention to that stat because whoever God has for me will be for me. It could be 100 to 1. Great channel! FABULOUS content. Just enough to get you interested in wanting more. God bless you and thank you for giving an old lady like me a sprinkle of hope🙂
All of that is cool but I wouldn't make sexiness a priority, cause the man/woman God may have for you may not always be what you normally find attractive ,when God joins two people together he factors in the attraction aspect, for the the first time in my life I love someone based on how great of a person he is and his genuine love for God made him attractive to me ,that's a first for me cause I looked for Sex appeal in the past and was always disappointed,,let God chose and he'll work out all the details including attraction.
I agree with you...
I have recently met an extremely godly man who is interested in courting me. At first I wasn't sure if I was all that sexually attracted to him. He is not what I normally find attractive. But as I get to know him, I think he is becoming more attractive to me. Plus, I have been praying just that if he is the man God has for me, that God would cause me to become very attracted to him.
@@okEorB ,Amen ,I hope the best for you and him be blessed
I encouraged my husband for about the first 8 years of our marriage to start his own business and he never would because he doubted himself. Finally, when he did and when he stepped out bam 💥 he hit it out of the park. Just because of his character people was calling him and we couldn’t even book everyone. We was actually turning down jobs of $4-6K to be made clear in a weeks time because we was so busy. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼. My husband is a very gifted man with home remodeling and renovations, unfortunately Covid changed a lot for us in our somewhat of a small town and he hurt his back and shoulder and we both got Covid all at the same time. We was a family only run business and our son, our daughter in love, my husbands twin brother and our daughter all ended up with Covid oh and our nephew didn’t but he obviously couldn’t work alone. After that with the economy in our community and my husband hurt we had to close it down. We lost our home, vehicle and so much more but we still have each other. Even with all that my husband learned he could do it ❤ and that’s all I wanted him to see in himself.
7 hours!! You should be one blessed couple. Praise God
Love the honesty and transparency brother!! Keep fighting the good fight. Thank you so much for this
This is more than great!! Praise GOD!! Thank you, Ptr Allan Parr!
Amen!
PRAY FOR ME, I desire a Proverbs 31 and Titus 2 woman.
I know it must work both ways.
Lol the 7 hour screenshot😂 too funny; great video
Well done bruther this is amazing... Praise THE LORD JESUS CHRIST to bless you and your family and bless us all 🙏
The side is good,I'm going to take great heed to this!
Loved it #royalpriesthood #newattitude #godlywoman #sharing #amen
This was so helpful! Great teaching.
So where are the Godly Men ???
I have met none ☺️
Nicole C. Oh they're out there !
Nicole C. I will agree that there seems to be a shortage of good solid Christian men out here when compared to the Christian women. But, the good news is, as I always tell my single friends, we only need to find one or be found by one.
Lol...havent met a godly woman either
+The Father's Love For You HAHA! I mean, I agree with Nicole, I haven't met any either. But as a man, I can't help but agree with you too XD
it aint easy outchea knight 741 XD
Wow yall spent u hours on the phone? Thats great. I definetly understand this. I feel that you'll know just trust god. He will show u
Hey man. Loving these videos no matter the topic. I’m struggling in a relationship myself. Looking to your Bible inspired word to help guide me in a direction that pleases god. I pray health and resilience in your life Mr.Parr!
7 hours!?! You're really good at this man...
I remember in my early 20s wanting so bad to meet my soul mate, so I prayed to God, and I mean prayed, got down on my face and prayed my heart out and did this for years, probably 5 years, down on my face. I would pray that God would bring me a solid Christian woman that I could experience God's love with, and once day he answered and the most beautiful, adorable, Christian woman walked into my life and I was changed forever, and we've been married now for 33 years and still in love and obedient to Christ. She is the most devoted Christian woman, a true gift from God. When I hear/read of single men and women pining for this same thing it hurts my soul because I know your pain and desire. I pray that every one of you gets this desire of your heart! And Allen is spot on with every one of those characteristics, make sure you have every one of those in your relationship.
Brilliant video. God bless you and your family brother.
Thanks as always Falcon! What is your real name by the way? Lol.
Hi brother. Sorry I've just seen your reply, I am Bahman from Iran.
I love your videos so much!! They are always so upbeat and very knowledgeable!! I love how you share Christ in this way!
I played league of legends tonight and listened to I think 4 of your videos, man I was impressed
As a believer you must have and follow the Spirit of discernment in order to know who is real or not because Satan comes appearing as Light doing and saying all the right things sexy and all. He knows what we like ... Watch and Pray!
God created woman from Adan's rib, not from the head to be above, not from the feet to be lower, but from the middle to be equal, I love that. Allow me add something else I heard once: "from the rib, to be equal, under the arm to be looked after and near the heart to be loved 💖"
I was so glad that you said sexy.Number one genuine Christian number two sweetness. I was not going to take you serious if you didn’t. And I’m glad that you said sexy not beautiful. My wife had all these qualities when I met her in high school. She had just become comfortable in her skin and so did I. Meaning that we were a bit awkward just before we met. I was adjusting to my physique and she was dressing and highlighting her feminine qualities in a godly way. She was the only girl at the pool party wearing a one piece bathing suit. She had committed her self to being a genuine Christian that same year. I had not. I had strayed from the church since I was 12 and now I was 17. Those first two qualities, genuine and sweetness blew me away though. When you meet a woman that is sexy to you, you do not expect the trifecta. Sexy, genuine and sweet. Christian women also list a man’s Genuine Christianity as top priority also. Well he was no dummy and 40 years later we are still thick as thieves. Non-Christian women use sex to get what they want. They manipulate with it. They punish and torture you with it. Christian women who are genuine only use it to bless their husbands. And I dare say common they bless their husbands a lot.
I hope me searching for the one God set down for me doesn’t take my attention away from him completely…
Thank you, it’s so true both must be in the same page when it come to following Jesus. Christ Today most relationships, either the wife or husband have parted
Seven hours is pretty impressive! The longest I’ve ever been on the phone was around six hours.
I was looking for the same type of quality and a godly woman. Sometimes... You don't quite get what you looking for. Women can be very subtle
someone emotionally/mentally/hormonally healthy
easy going
no issues with jealousy, control, angel
i would add all of these things in the video
I prayed for God to choose me the right spouse. I came to faith 2.5 years ago and I have known who my future husband is just few weeks after I came to faith.. God knows all things better than me and knows what I like.. so I don't need to worry about anything or go dating anyone to find my spouse! God chose my future spouse, I gave Him the power to choose for me! He chose the best one, I'm sure about that, cause this man has everything I have ever wanted in a man. God is the best match maker.♡ This has been extremely difficult 2.5 years to wait and pray and to work for God, but it has been worth it. Now God is finally getting us together. God gives you the best when you wait! Don't just settle with someone, cause God has that best one waiting for you! Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added to you! Be blessed.♡
I hope whoever reads this listens to this sister, because it's the truth. NO ONE knows better than God (that means you) who is right for you. Pray, and wait.
I'm really sceptical to point 3. "Sexy" and also sceptical to point 5. "Submissive". I don't want a woman who dresses up just to satisfy my eye/sexuality, or who submits under me. What matters is the heart, not the appearance. There's difference between taking care of one's body and dressing it up to satisfy someone's desires. And I believe that men should be equally submitting themselves to the wisdom their wives may carry. In a healthy marriage, I believe that both man and woman are submissive to each other, and that both help each other to lead.
God only says that women should submit (Ofcourse not for something wrong) He didn’t say that for men. If you are a believer, you should know that God knows better.
Allen Parr 👍 This is awesome but in this new age it's hard seriously brother it's so hard to find a person with most if not all those 7 things we are looking for in a relationship
I will keep that in mind. Thanks for sharing.
Please do a video about how to be a better gf / wife, how to help your man grow without judging him. This is so hard sometimes. :)
Alleluia. Handsome, tall , love the Lord , funny and a great talker financially stable.
why to make it complicated when it can simple? AWSOME VIDEO and really good tips thanks god bless you
Well us Christian women want the same thing, he doesn't have to be submissive to me BUT he must be obedient and cooperative.
If it is only going to be about him and what he wants then we are totally not going to work out. We should be constantly focused on serving each other and doing our part. I appreciate this I will do my best to be the best for the man I want to marry and he must be as well.
I'm 56 and hope to find the right godly man someday.
This is GOLD!
I really love this one Mr. Parr. Please continue your good work.
Will do Carrington. Thanks so much,
This is great! Just splendid! I was truly blessed!
Thank you for that teaching, I hope and pray that I find a wonderful wife like that. He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtain favor from the lord
the sexy part is where most men go wrong, if you care more about your woman being sexy, you will miss on all the women who are beautiful on the inside. That is why famous men date models because that is the epitome of beauty but miss on all the other qualities you are talking about. Its the same, women centre on men who can provide and miss on godly men. The man who truly loves you like Jesus does, loves you anyway. In your worst days, when you are a mess. You know you are loved when you are loved at your worst, not when you are most sexy! I world with older people and its not the sexiness that keeps a marriage, its what is inside
Stop being delusional and recognize that God made men visual. That's the way it is. Due to biology them being attracted to beauty is what makes them want to mate.
Incorrect! A man who truly follows Christ will do everything in his power to provide for his wife.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV The comment does not deny that. It's about men caring about looks alone, as if looks are the only thing that should matter.
@@AmaLoveGoddessTV True. But the comment is talking about women looking for men who will provide for their own selfish needs I.e. women who only want money.
PrincessAmandaTV you need to chill cause you aren’t even all that visually pleasing ma’am
Allen this is GOLD
Great channel! God bless your family and ministry.
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wow what a great video, thanks for sharing with us Alan sir.
My pleasure Sam! Thanks for commenting and getting engaged on this channel. I appreciate you my friend!
Thank you. Loved every word.
That sassy whisper of "bad attitude" 😏🤣
*love that screenshot at the end of the video, there's the proof* 😂😂 great video!
Brother I was actually in a toxic relationship and I want to talk about what it is like to be with a contentious woman. Last year I met what was soon going to be my ex fiance. She had all the qualities at that time that I was looking for but I didn't know what would happen later on. When she lived here Chi wanted it all her way every weekend I would have to go see her I remember one time it was a Saturday and I went out with my friends fishing and I told her and she got upset mind you this was like April so we've had a few months together and so we got into an argument. She moved to Atlanta in July and that's when things started showing up in her. She wanted to get married right away or for me to move there and get the basic job and live with her parents mind you I work at an airport and I make decent amount of money at that time now I have full time but in order to see her I had to take up another job and she needed me for it this was back in August she wanted me to see her every weekend and I told her no so we got engaged and she wanted to marry within three months when she had no job she wanted me to sell my car which is the car I like and I'm familiar with she wanted me to leave my grandmother and my mother who I live with and she also spread lies about my mom saying things and I witnessed her yell at my grandma on the phone. It was so bad that when we would argue I would have to pray for the spirit to guide me. the spirit told me to tell her that we were not ready for marriage but really it was her. Now I look back and within a month of us breaking up she had a new boyfriend and she's planning on marrying him next year. she is not a citizen and I believe she was using me to get out of the house because her family always fights. I do not believe she loved me at all by the way she treated me and she did not want to put any effort to come and see me and I had to do all the work. Men stay away from women like this they're corrupt and though they may have a pretty face their heart is wicked she used to listen to sexualized music and cursing music she claims she was a Christian but she was not. God saved me because he saw what she was and I didn't because I was blinded by love.
Cole, you sidestepped a lifetime of misery, my friend. It’s really difficult for us guys to see beyond the outward appearance of a beautiful woman. It seems so incongruous that a beautiful face could have a rotten core; it’s so hard to reconcile. Don’t look back! Allen’s 7 “S”s are dead-on.
WoW, great video Allen...
That’s exactly everything I’m looking for in a Wife!!!
This is a wake-up call to me last January I dated a girl who I thought was a Christian well God had other plans she moved to Atlanta in July and things changed instead of being supportive she was being narcissistic telling me I should move there so my car leave my career in aviation which I love and look for something up there and I told her I said no God wants me here cuz he put a vision in my mind about that one day I would be one of the heads of that airport and so she was very selfish wanting me there wasn't looking at the bigger picture and wasn't focused on what my passion was and we fought and then she wanted nothing to do with me and we broke up last month and she sent the ring back ladies if anything you need to support your husband as he said understand who he is because this girl I was dating wasn't a woman she was a child wanting her own selfish way and if I wasn't there she was going to dump me and find the next one Godly men don't like that and personally I've moved on it was hard cuz I really love the girl and I saw her as a wife and I always called her that and she would say no but do not get discouraged there are plenty of Godly single men out there and I'm one of them you just got to look at what they do how they act to tell if their Godly or not
I agree completely as a man.
Well said.....Amen, and Amennnnn!
I agree with everything except for the sexy thing. I don't think I understood you correctly. showing her body would or could make a guy sin. can you explain it?
I do not remember him saying for a lady to show her body. I will never use the word sexy in regards to christian lifestyle other than between spouses. so i believe if he responded he would elaborate on his definition of the word sexy, but i dont want any single women Of God being sexy. Stylish, elegant, classy, sophisticated and having pride in her appearance explain enough.
Man was just being honest, even a big girl can be sexy, so it's not about body type always,it's how a woman takes care of and highlights what she has.
I believe he meant physically attractive, not "slutty "
He was referring to femininity
He's simply speaking of physical attraction.
All but the pride thing I think this is spot on.
This is great. I thought something was wrong with me because the men I reallyyyyyyyy liked a lot didn’t pursue me and I’m everything on your list! Thank you for sharing. I feel good knowing I’m doing right, I’ll continue to walk with god. Great video.
9ice video, i luv it...
How do I handle it as a mother of a 20 year old son who is dating an unbeliever? How do I walk the line between being respectful and showing the love of Christ, but not condoning?
Indeed brother..Amen!
LOL, what was that finger snapping head role thing Alllen did :)
Agree, couldn’t have said it any better.
I don't really agree with the sexy part because if sexiness doesn't matter to God why should it matter to His children... the problem with paying attention to sexiness and physical appearance in general is that it fades away and something might happen, like an accident that changes the way she looks(for an example she gets into a car accident and then she ends up walking in a strange way) it's quite obvious to me that you won't love your wife the way you would before the accident and that shouldn't be.Focus on her inner beauty and no matter what happens to her on the outside won't impact on the way you feel towards her.
Loved this, Thank-You
Hey Allen, love your vids. I'm currently with this young christian lady and she is a wonderful woman. She is strong minded and very mature. But I honestly go back and forth on whether I'm truly in love with her. We have been together for a while and her family loves me. My friends think I would be really stupid to break up with her but there are days when I don't even feel like being around her. What do you think I should do?
Nice video. But sexy is misleading. May be you didn’t mean it literally, but sexy word is definitely not related to beauty or grace or elegance. My understanding of sexy means the way someone dresses and their body language. If someone advertises their beauty to attract men by highlighting their body, then I think it is not appropriate it God’s view.
Classic Fitness yea thats what i thought at first but he was referring to attractiveness and having a good look you know
Bethany R , okay, nice 😊