How to Balance Self Improvement with Friends and Dating: Work-Life Balance | Hamza Ahmed

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  • Опубліковано 2 вер 2021
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 350

  • @Hamza97
    @Hamza97  2 роки тому +1590

  • @dantepepper
    @dantepepper 2 роки тому +327

    Although it’s self improvement doesn’t mean being lonely as shit being social is apart of your self improvement journey it improve your self and others as well

    • @alec0214
      @alec0214 2 роки тому +6

      true, were social creatures, all this "lone wolf" stuff is bs. spend some time with the people around you :)

  • @steadyfoundations9327
    @steadyfoundations9327 2 роки тому +114

    Sam's editing is amazing LMAO

    • @SamHarborneUncut
      @SamHarborneUncut 2 роки тому +16

      Thank you!

    • @yeatdagoat173
      @yeatdagoat173 2 роки тому +5

      @@SamHarborneUncut yeah i really like your editing style. It really appeals to the gen z meme generation

    • @SamHarborneUncut
      @SamHarborneUncut 2 роки тому +7

      @@yeatdagoat173 thank you! thats the goal!

    • @envivo1138
      @envivo1138 2 роки тому

      @@SamHarborneUncut Teach us how to edit like that, please

    • @liam367
      @liam367 2 роки тому

      @@SamHarborneUncut 🐐🐐🐐

  • @HarryWilmington
    @HarryWilmington 2 роки тому +77

    As an introvert, even I understand the importance of finding time to socialize with other people, even if it's only 1 or 2 people at a time

  • @TheModernSamurai
    @TheModernSamurai 2 роки тому +177

    This is facts. One of the KEY pillars of self improvement is your social game. If you're neglecting it for 'self improvement', you're being hypocritical. I believe social connections are what MOST define a man's value. Focus on this aspect and you'll never regret it.

  • @titumama166
    @titumama166 2 роки тому +103

    I was just about to sit down and binge on Netflix, now after watching this video I've decided to continue working on a research paper I've been procrastinating on for a while. Delayed gratification gang for life🤘

  • @harryfeeney9249
    @harryfeeney9249 2 роки тому +376

    Safe to say Hamza’s advice has really helped. I think personally the advice on spirituality and mental health has easily been a killer upgrade. Big love man 💪💪

    • @heinzwitdasauce4710
      @heinzwitdasauce4710 2 роки тому +4

      Big time man big time man really pushes for meditation helped me a bunchh

    • @DeepRoot_
      @DeepRoot_ Рік тому

      Seriously the best strategy was taking the mornings to prioritize my mental health

  • @chimpanzee21
    @chimpanzee21 2 роки тому +18

    So we just gonna ignore that Hamza was casually choking a woman in the thumbnail

  • @charlyj1321
    @charlyj1321 2 роки тому +33

    This dude never misses

  • @iako5983
    @iako5983 2 роки тому +6

    every time i dont wanna work out i just watch a vid of yours and get motivated to do so

  • @454MI
    @454MI 2 роки тому +5

    You are literally changing my life in such a positive way its incredible man

  • @harshit9026
    @harshit9026 2 роки тому +33

    Your editor is on self improvement 🏅

  • @luketempleman1349
    @luketempleman1349 2 роки тому +6

    Ive needed this video extremely badly
    thank you Hamza

  • @moehaija6378
    @moehaija6378 2 роки тому +15

    Hamza literally changing lives without realizing the huge impact of his videos

  • @ValentinClaudiu7
    @ValentinClaudiu7 2 роки тому +401

    I have to disagree on the "staying alone doesn't make You happy'.
    It's ok to be alone, not to hide from people. Life is all about balance so solitude is a part of self love as well.
    When you are around people, you gotta enjoy their presence, and when you are in your own presence, You gotta enjoy your own company. Of course, never take this lone Wolf mentality straight up. Isolating yourself from people just to act mysterious won't take you anywhere, but neither seeking validations from randoms just to not be alone

  • @voltrbtw9158
    @voltrbtw9158 2 роки тому +16

    Best UA-cam in existence rn. No bullshit. Just straight hamza time.

  • @TheKniperlight
    @TheKniperlight 2 роки тому +5

    16 minutes of straight facts. Glad I found your channel. Not many likeminded individuals around

  • @afshaar1703
    @afshaar1703 2 роки тому +4

    You are the true honest UA-camr ever! Hamza you are really changing our lives🖤🔥

  • @lrdorsek5620
    @lrdorsek5620 2 роки тому +18

    Sending chats to other people who i know who also go to the gym to lift together was indeed a good choice. You get stronger and also talk to people who you normally wouldnt talk to anymore because everyone goes its own way. Great tip hamza

  • @tommyvasilev5012
    @tommyvasilev5012 2 роки тому

    Thank you,Hamza
    Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it

  • @JonathanDoku
    @JonathanDoku 2 роки тому +17

    This is so crazy! Literally the problem I have been having. I tried to 0 in on my UA-cam goals and yes I am very ahead on my metrics this quarter - But I was lonely as hell.
    I realised human connections and friends are a huge element of self improvement. Great video bro.

  • @bzrk3r614
    @bzrk3r614 2 роки тому

    just recently found your channel thanks to the algorithm and i don't regret it congrats on 100k!

  • @fxayoub
    @fxayoub 2 роки тому +2

    Again, Nice video bro! Thank you soooo much

  • @aiko23XIX
    @aiko23XIX 5 місяців тому

    I love you hamza thank you so much I really needed this frl I don’t know why I didn’t come here sooner I’ve been overthinking on friends and shit but you always have the answer

  • @ProphetZherkha
    @ProphetZherkha 2 роки тому +1

    You've become my favorite youtuber over the last 2 weeks, love this vids man.

  • @shreeyashkayastha3338
    @shreeyashkayastha3338 2 роки тому

    Banger video hamza. Thanks buddy.

  • @AhmadMarwanFerri
    @AhmadMarwanFerri 2 роки тому

    The confidence i get when the tips he gives are literally me

  • @A1-Act
    @A1-Act 2 роки тому +1

    Bro hamza really reframing my mind with these videos

  • @aquamlk6111
    @aquamlk6111 2 роки тому

    absolutely banger of a video bro, really appreciate your content!

  • @noahjp7090
    @noahjp7090 2 роки тому +2

    The gym is becoming my instant gratification, that sick pump is a feeling like nothing else💪

  • @jams9463
    @jams9463 2 роки тому

    favourite yt channel atm

  • @ilyaus8383
    @ilyaus8383 2 роки тому

    Thank you for giving such valuable information for us, big man!

  • @lorddoge0
    @lorddoge0 2 роки тому +1

    Sam's editing gets better and better each video!

  • @isaacsteiner164
    @isaacsteiner164 2 роки тому

    Great work Hamza!

  • @brazucabros6130
    @brazucabros6130 2 роки тому +8

    Thanks so much for releasing this. For the past year I’ve felt bad for socialising when I could be working

  • @conersmart2210
    @conersmart2210 2 роки тому +2

    Haven’t watched but title sounds like a banger

  • @olatorsvik8671
    @olatorsvik8671 11 місяців тому

    Right video at the right time

  • @user-yy4rq4nb4i
    @user-yy4rq4nb4i 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Hamza for this valuable knowledge . I am 15 and have applied it . Thank you , god bless.

  • @Robert-gr1cl
    @Robert-gr1cl 2 роки тому

    just what i needed

  • @theash1111
    @theash1111 2 роки тому +1

    Exactly what i needed

  • @Zoomin69
    @Zoomin69 2 роки тому +13

    Spending time with your loved ones is some of the most important shit I've ever done

    • @no_e3948
      @no_e3948 2 роки тому

      Who are your loved ones if I may ask

    • @Zoomin69
      @Zoomin69 2 роки тому +7

      @@no_e3948 no I'm spending time with your loved ones. Leave mine out of this.

  • @LeonXvoN
    @LeonXvoN 2 роки тому +42

    the editing has gotten SO GOOD, 1 second rule baby no dull moments

  • @travisstewart3879
    @travisstewart3879 2 роки тому +14

    The editing is honestly unreal now Sam, so good

  • @lagerregal6561
    @lagerregal6561 2 роки тому +3

    Good video! I think there is a big difference between being alone and being lonely.

  • @barakamaru124
    @barakamaru124 2 роки тому +1

    paused the vid at 1:45 already knowing its gonna be a great vid, love the content man keep it up bro.

  • @tiptom4459
    @tiptom4459 2 роки тому

    Really great value

  • @mikalgibbs715
    @mikalgibbs715 2 роки тому

    I don’t think this is talked about enough, I especially liked the part of the vid where you talked about preparing for instant gratification rather than just screwing your future self.
    Great video!
    Better than the new oversaturated with edit videos even though those are better than the phase before that.
    This earlier hamza had the most value

  • @kushbokhiriya571
    @kushbokhiriya571 2 роки тому

    im grateful for this video

  • @ricoco7891
    @ricoco7891 2 роки тому

    Yo just the video I needed. Always on time Hamza lol

  • @ricoco7891
    @ricoco7891 2 роки тому +1

    True, the more you spend time with people who aren't improving themselves, the more they rub off on you, and not in the fun way

  • @yusufs6517
    @yusufs6517 2 роки тому +12

    Great advice as usual bro, class editing from Sam aswell keep it up!

  • @Saturn_xxo
    @Saturn_xxo 10 місяців тому

    THE DESCRIPTION OF AFTERS WAS SO SPOT ON IM CRYING

  • @okayranks
    @okayranks 2 роки тому +2

    You attack points that ALOT of UA-camrs are missing. Sneakiest Self improvement channel I’ve ran into 🔥

  • @user-wf8nr3ju3b
    @user-wf8nr3ju3b Рік тому

    One of the underrated videos in hamza channel

  • @t0ny.g611
    @t0ny.g611 2 роки тому

    great video… been on self improvement for a while and still cant fully balance relationships and self improvement

  • @A1-Act
    @A1-Act 2 роки тому +4

    Damn edits definitely improved

  • @notkamara
    @notkamara 2 роки тому +74

    Thanks for this man, often I and many others struggle to juggle all elements of our lives together rather than thinking of those elements as pieces of a very big puzzle that can all fit together perfectly when experienced in a healthy way.

  • @christianhammand2895
    @christianhammand2895 2 роки тому +1

    Nice editing. gj

  • @pioneerrocket22
    @pioneerrocket22 2 роки тому +1

    I was on the fence about hamza’s content before, but after watching this video, I’m fully on board. I dont disagree with a single word he says here.

  • @jonnythan
    @jonnythan 2 роки тому +1

    Hamza is truly the older brother/dad I needed

  • @r0fLc0pt3rf0rtHewiN
    @r0fLc0pt3rf0rtHewiN 2 роки тому

    good video schmamza

  • @EmilKadabell
    @EmilKadabell 2 роки тому +5

    Great video as always.. Although i do disagree with the notion that you shouldn't be comfortable alone.. There is a difference between being alone voluntarily or being alone because no one wants to be around you.. The latter is obviously not great but if you can't stand just being alone with yourself, it's because you have internal issues that you don't want to look at.. This is another reason why meditation is so important.. Anyways, keep up the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it💪

  • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
    @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 роки тому +1

    Nice edit Sam on that Skyrim leveling pic

  • @marcusgaming3274
    @marcusgaming3274 2 роки тому

    How are your videos so well timed always i am dealing with this exact situation

  • @shawn4507
    @shawn4507 2 роки тому +3

    The beginning of story is exactly how I feel right now. Is it weird to think that without friends self-improvement feels pointless?

  • @itsjessewilson
    @itsjessewilson 2 роки тому +1

    Daym hamza’s almost 1 month ahead in his videos,

  • @thegrowthguy3681
    @thegrowthguy3681 2 місяці тому

    Yo this video was super impactful, probably your best one yet. You should make this an intro video to most of your self improvement videos because the tendency is just to isolate and actually just become a dick. This is really important and healing

  • @kylepetrovic1296
    @kylepetrovic1296 2 роки тому +1

    we love adonis

  • @BTATATV
    @BTATATV 2 роки тому

    Your videos is instant gratification
    Your edits is so attractive you're controlling us

    • @joeltaylorthethird5443
      @joeltaylorthethird5443 2 роки тому

      are you okay?.... do you need help

    • @BTATATV
      @BTATATV 2 роки тому

      @@joeltaylorthethird5443 it's a joke jeffry calm your tits

  • @prod.MRBLOXY
    @prod.MRBLOXY 2 роки тому

    6:41 you slapped tf out of my ego right there

  • @heinzwitdasauce4710
    @heinzwitdasauce4710 2 роки тому +2

    Regarding video games try to switch from online multiplayers to single players. They have less commitment and you can track and stop yourself easier. Hope this helps and lets enjoy our hikes everybody😁👍🏽😤

  • @shatitis
    @shatitis 2 роки тому

    ahh another good one

  • @ArtimusBlackk
    @ArtimusBlackk 2 роки тому

    YEAH become that fun confident guy!!!!!

  • @MFKST
    @MFKST 2 роки тому +2

    Well freaking said brother 👏🏾 Great video.

  • @michaeladolphus5827
    @michaeladolphus5827 2 роки тому +4

    Hamza never misses, always puts up real practical advice

  • @curiousme7353
    @curiousme7353 Рік тому +3

    12:10 Your not supposed to be okay with being alone/Spending time with low value people & high value people
    14:00 Instant gratification buddies (Fun people) & why its hard to spend time with high value people

  • @anujpatel3773
    @anujpatel3773 2 роки тому

    Great video Hamza, got yourself a new subscriber. Are you based in Warrington? I have a feeling I may have jogged past you once in the morning and only recently came across your channel.

  • @scv1956
    @scv1956 2 роки тому +3

    I don't agree with the "women on self-improvement are always gonna work less than men on self-improvement" part. I know women who are much closer to the ideal of Adonis than many guys who claim to be on self-improvement.

  • @rawgrave_
    @rawgrave_ 2 роки тому

    Hamza is officially an Adonis at this point

  • @adriansupercars82
    @adriansupercars82 2 роки тому +6

    7:55 I said to my boy we should hit the gym and he said I gotta grind on warzone, I said bruh you play that all day long and he said I only play 1 hour

  • @youssefrezekallah6852
    @youssefrezekallah6852 2 роки тому +5

    aye hamza thanks for the great content, its been 3 months and i lost 30 pounds this summer. i learned to be better and self improve on my own. your videos are real and are not full of bullshit. you keep making good content bro

  • @satyam168
    @satyam168 2 роки тому +3

    No No No man, you were not going
    off-track. Please tell us about that event. We want to know more about that.
    If possible please make a video in depth about that 🙏

  • @miltonzetino4553
    @miltonzetino4553 2 роки тому

    10/10 Thumbnail

  • @Kavz67
    @Kavz67 2 роки тому +5

    for the longest time I always thought I was wasting time when I was hanging out with people and so I would isolate myself during first year of uni. I regret that now but all I can do now is not make the same mistake

    • @NathanJohnnyVilla
      @NathanJohnnyVilla Рік тому

      Same with me but now go to the gym and ask. Other people there to workout together and push one another further get friends that like self improvement to

  • @lukasbobek1127
    @lukasbobek1127 2 роки тому

    The the hard work, especially when you dont feel like it- me every morning before a cold shower

  • @colbyzero4678
    @colbyzero4678 2 роки тому

    The point about would you like her if she was a guy friend makes so much sense

  • @jendrik_ae
    @jendrik_ae 2 роки тому

    I love you Hamza

  • @fesix1661
    @fesix1661 2 роки тому

    spitting facts

  • @KyngD469
    @KyngD469 4 місяці тому

    Brilliant

  • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
    @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 2 роки тому

    You talking facts

  • @srikrsnahimself.7470
    @srikrsnahimself.7470 2 роки тому +4

    when you said "people on self improvement is on some crystal and manifestation shit", bro that hits hard, i need to take action and responsibilities more instead of doing that woo woo shit, because action speak louder than words
    "If the source of happiness is from the daydreaming and sleep, it's also starts and ended with daydreaming and sleep."
    -Bhagavad-Gita Chapter XVIII

  • @BF-eb4xs
    @BF-eb4xs 2 роки тому +1

    Tbh, I’ve never been to a club, or done anything like that and I’m 22. It’s never been my thing. I’d much rather go for a nice meal with friends and have a chat.
    Tbh even now... when I engage with others it’s either to exercise (cycle or hike), talk or get food... and talk.
    Never been a party person, tbh I’m glad.

  • @Unknown-dh3ei
    @Unknown-dh3ei 2 роки тому

    I always laugh watching your vids bro.

  • @awoken3220
    @awoken3220 2 роки тому +2

    Man the editing and the wojaks are top notch

  • @carb0rg
    @carb0rg 2 роки тому

    Ong this man can read minds vro

  • @ezra5629
    @ezra5629 2 роки тому +1

    The thing is in my situation I don't have a lot of friends that's ok I don't care I have my family so I communicate with them and I have friends outside of family and I don't get to see them alot but that makes me more greatful for the time I get with them

  • @swaagat4395
    @swaagat4395 2 роки тому

    5:26 life changer !

  • @peace2all163
    @peace2all163 Рік тому +2

    Imagine having that one homie who sends Hamza videos in the group chat, imagine that one homie who invites all the homies to go to the gym or to play sports. Sad that its me, and sometimes even if you try to elevate with your homies they don't listen, they laugh at you. ''It is what it is''

  • @snakemont
    @snakemont 2 роки тому

    All areas of our life!

  • @jack.1.
    @jack.1. 2 роки тому

    This is the key part that soulless productivity gurus miss