Don’t Listen To Alpha Males. Appreciate Your Girlfriend.
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Only 9% of marriages are happy and true love filled. Be part of the 9% when you find your spouse.
I would love that
the most made up statistic i've ever heard. Love isn't a measurable statistic you melonhead
Or simply just avoid the whole fiasco and not have a family. Might seem lonely sure, but in my generation, Gen z, marriage is a dead concept
@@weyjosh5213 don’t lose hope and don’t feel like you can’t succeed because others can’t
@@weyjosh5213 When you can't get beaches so you decide to not marry someone.
Treat the woman like you’d like someone to treat your daughter. If she has all the green flags and treats you right then sure treat her like a queen. She treats you good you treat her good. But if she’s blatantly disrespecting you then you don’t even tolerate it and leave the relationship.
@a Cool Teddybear then you shouldn’t be with her. well, unless you have no respect for yourself.
@a Cool Teddybear depends if she respects you or not, if she does then it'll be alright
@@zaraksgram2585 SIMP.
I dont think you understand what red flags mean. Not trying to be that guy but I think you meant green flags
@a Cool Teddybear autocorrect I meant green my bad
Its sad that we need to hear something as common sense as "Treat the person you're with, with respect"
I think the step 0 to this needs to be "Treat yourself with respect". Its only once you start respecting yourself that you can respect others, and others can respect you.
Make the person you're with feel like they're the luckiest person in the world, make them feel happy to be with you, and they'll do the same for you.
Make the person you're with feel like they're the luckiest person in the world, make them feel happy to be with you, and they'll do the same for you.
Terrible advice, and not how the world works. Don't let yourselves be taken advantage of
@@jjboss7896 but are their relationships ever fufilling bro ? I seen you comment and reply to everyone here . You could’ve used that time to improve we’re all gonna make it bro I know you can . Don’t consume the black pill
@@Arthur-Morgan42069 This guy gets it. Don't be a nice guy. I'm not saying become a scumbag but at least be a gentleman.
Because his audience is made up of people who are recommended "redpill content" all day.
@dark gaming step 1: don't date toxic people
B-b-but hamza you can’t get a girlfriend! You have the wrong eyelid - forehead ratio and angle!
B-b-but my cantal tilt !! 🙏😩
adonisss
adonis finds out that attractiveness are the rawest source of attraction. its all about height and your facial symmetry.
It's never even began.
It's already over.
Omg the cantal tilt… man you’d may as well give up now it’s over for you :(
B-but genetics!
Y-Y-Y You don't have the hunter eyes 😂
Yep the loneliest generation ever and I’m feeling it. Social media has left women with an abundance of choice and my ex of 9 years became lost in that feeling of am I really with the right guy. She cheated and regretted it, begged me back. Even tho I knew I would probably be single for years now and I loved her I couldn’t forgive her. Now I’m here trying to date and realising I’m probably going to be single for maybe forever. No one is good enough for anyone anymore so I just focus on myself. If someone comes into my life I see it as a bonus now instead of something that we should all really have. Shit generation
Never,ever, EVER take her back no matter what happens.
Shit generation
@@ninthshark9153 or maybe she got a personility disorder, anti social behavior is a red flag and a symptom
@@ninthshark9153 bro tf leave her it's not your responsibility to fix her life it's her responsibility and the way you say it you're not even happy in that relationship you know you are in a toxic relationship right so don't be some kind of a hero coz life is not a movie
@@jjboss7896 bro just go out into the world and socialise. join mixed sports teams, clubs etc.
Speculating here , but if "your girl" chastises you for showing reciprocal love, appreciation and care then she's doing you a favour by telling you she's not the one for you; YOU then have the responsibility to walk away and not tolerate that.
Truth
I needed this
Yeah bro there's no way I'm not going to be affectionate to my girl lol. If I can't do that then fuck that relationship.
I've never heard of this before who chastises their spouse for showing affection???
No my friend this is not the right approach its kind of a toxic one ;) First of all you have to talk with that girl about it and to show her that it well wories you..becuase communicatinon is the key in relationships and then when she keeps on doing it...then you walk away
This made me tear up brother, I related to this a lot especially in my last relationship. Thank you for spreading this message. I’m going to make a video about this and my experience and I’ll tag you. To everyone out there what he’s saying is 100% true
This is his most worse Video so far and includes so much blue pill BS.
Blue pill advice got you in the feels huh?
@@q-tip1509 And also the best "bluepill" advice any blackpillers can learn
@@q-tip1509 Sounds like a jaffrey.
@@q-tip1509 blue pill this black pill that bro he’s giving advice for building good relationships
The defining traits of an amazing future partner
1. Humility, is the ability to see their own flaws and limits and improve on them if possible or just accept them if not.
2. Kindness, is the ability to look beyond their own well-being and a desire to uplift others in the long run.
3. Honesty is the ability to speak the truth or if the truth is too harsh, at least not lie because we all have to face the truth inevitably.
4. Integrity, the ability to uphold their promises and not make ones that they cant.
5. Most importantly a general love for everything. This means having an overall optimistic outlook on life and not being overly pessimistic.
If you are looking for a partner it's better to look for people's minds than anything else. As we are not our jobs, our wealth, our looks or anything superficial like that we are our the sum virtues, our past experiences and most importantly who we choose to be. Now get yourself out there and happy dating!
i dont want to be full blown PUA for you guys. My best advice for you is to enabled yourself to walk away from any bullshit. If the relationship doesn't worked out for you or you find that relationship is all bullshit...just walk away. Consider it's over and go find someone else or just be alone for awhile.
Where Machiavellism?
@@AbaddonTheDestroyer Up there with Narcissism and Psychopathy.
These are the standards I try and hold for myself, I try to be all these things, this is nice and well-written.
@@Shoegazebasedgenre0. Most girls today in the west are brainwashed by the feminist agenda. Fresh and fit are often right about most of the women.
I’ve never cheated but I’m grateful I was raised in a way to be afraid to cheat.
It takes a man to admit to his own mistakes, we all make mistakes but it's how we learn from them. I feel like it was inevitable that such a sad simple notion of common sense such as treating someone with respect can be lost. Yet hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create hard times and we are in that last phase. Be Adonis the strong man instead.
Facts bro
I can relate to this so much. I've been with my girlfriend for two years and up till about the time you posted this, I was on the same red pill bullshit that these 'alpha males' are on and that made our relationship a living hell for her. She's always been, and still is, so good to me and yet because it was so 'red pill' to treat your girl like you don't care, that's what I did. and I regret it with every ounce of my being. Since then, I've turned things around, but it doesn't make up for the damage I've done to her. Guys, appreciate the hell out of a good ass woman because they are RARE. and they LOVE YOU. LOVE THEM TOO, OR YOU WILL LOSE THEM FOREVER.
You got your reality warped my friend. Still you don't understand it. Wrong before, wrong now.
How do you know that she did not love you because you were treating her like sh_t? I was in the same dynamics, treating my girl horribly, didn't care about her and she loved me. My heart could not take it anymore so I started treating her a lot better and showing more love and appreciation and she lost interest in me and left me.
@@reezis1619no sane human being will respond to good behavior with negative feedback. either she was a bad person, or you werent "treating her alot better" as much as you think you were.
I choose you will lose them forever ♾️
@@reezis1619maybe she lost interest because you were treating her horribly. Never take acciuntibility for your actions. My bf also treated me horribly and when I was pulling away amd checking out of relationship bcuz I lost all hope he started putting in work. And now he wondered why I don't reciprocate. Like dude if you were good to me during that time it wouldn't have come to this.
this is why hamza is such a g, guy ain't even an alpha male, he's just a man with morals, guy is respectful and admirable af, been here since early 2021
This is why "the way of the superior man" book is great
Even StephisCold said: We need a balance between being a "nice guy" and an "asshole"
There's a difference between being emotionally calm and treating women like shit
I think you should treat your woman as a friend. Begin a nice guy is worst than a asshole, just be yourself and if it works it works otherwise you go to the next one.
Rise above the nice guy/asshole dichotomy, be a good man. Your character should be solid regardless of if you're around a woman or not.
Makes sense. Its like finding a balance between chaos and order.
just be masculine and always use logic over emotions that's it.
@@TheEmolano bro fuck you honestly.
This shit is what makes guys hate life,"be yourself"
We don't need your wishy washy bullshit bro,we don't.
“Alpha males are some of the most insecure people you’ll ever meet”- David Goggins
not true
The cope is strong in this one.
This is funny. People above are literally saying Goggins' quote is "cope". When he is the exact definition of anti-cope. I don't have to explain his mindset of extreme accountability, discipline, and anti-fluff.
Some guys don’t understand that these “Alpha”/“Red Pill” tactics can’t and shouldn’t be applied when you’re already in a good relationship. If your girlfriend genuinely loves you and supports you don’t be a fool and lose her by trying to be “alpha”. If she treats you like a king, treat her like a queen. Trying to go “alpha” on your own girlfriend can only backfire.
By all means be a MAN, focus on yourself, be goal oriented, have hobbies and an active life yourself, but also by all means respect and treat your girl well.
100% agree, it's sad how many people say otherwise. Literally just treat her like a normal human being.
Agree, if you're already in a great relationship, certain red pill doesn't apply but some can still help
You don't have an back up plan for your shit your doing, once you find a good girl you think you ve won and she will forever be like that never changing. And the worst thing you do is expose yourself and have no limit on why are you treating her and how to not overdo it. You know that even in market economy it's a true thing that having a high offer when no one needs it you devalue that offer.
@@blitzrig1122 modern culture enabling all of the bullshit to happen. it sad that you have to be immoral to win the dating game
Totally agree, that's the way of a superior man
This is why I never fully dived Into the “red pill”. It’s honestly about being the best version of you and treating people well. Once you do that, I think your life would be much better. Pick up the book “3% male” by Corey Wayne. That’s a great book about relationships.
Corey wayne the og
Yeah I also never digested this. Even the black pill was easier to take. I will be the best version of myself but myself nonetheless, if I get into good relationships great, if not even better.
The red pill is about understanding objective reality, it's not about misstreating women the way Hamza paints it.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 But the only thing they do is whine about women.And who the fuck are you to say what's the reality and what's not.Nobody knows the actual truth especially the degenerate redpillers.
@@4evahodlingdoge226 maybe. But majority videos in youtube regarding redpill is sort of deregatory.
I am F and have been going through these videos to get an idea of how males view females. Some videos did show faults of women but as I explored more & more I realised that many men both audience and creator was becoming toxic and loosing logic.
Instead of trying to understand opposite gender there were double standards thrown everywhere. Yes..I agree present laws are very biased. But these people are also ignoring how men spend their youth exploring. Very few are interested in committed relationship. I myself have experienced it...so it doesn't give men right to cry about double standards of women either.
There are bad & good in both. Why don't you start treating people with respect..If they don't deserve it walk away. Simple. But nowadays toxicity is creeping in red pill too. I have heard advice that men shouldn't discuss hobbies or mutual interest with their partners, have got male bros for that ...all they want from wives is peace & quiet at home. Seriously? What a idiotic advice ? So women is basically a robot that shouldn't have any emotions or any brain ?
I have also seen a man sayin his wife is always happy. Always in a good mood. Every wife should be like that. People were saying that's how it should be. Literally impossible for a sane human to be always in a good mood.
I broke up with my gf of 2 years because I fealt I wasn't respecting my values and myself. Although I never respected myself, she was still the most kindest girl to me. She would try to make me happy and idk she would just make me laugh. We didn't see things eye to eye and stuff but I still appreciated the times we had. I'm on my own now and it hurts, but that's life I guess.
Wow never knew men also suffered with hipergamy. Let's just pray you did not trow a good future away.
What values did you feel you were disrespecting?
@@hithere9393 I think I was half drunk or half tired when I wrote this so some of this I miswrote but what I meant to say was my value were not respected as in my love for music she just was not interested in all too much (I get not wanting to get into it or not being that interested all that much but telling me to stop playing when I want to play in my room is much no?) And the fact that she didn't try to work on herself and expected things to come to her. I didn't respect myself when she pretty much cheated on me and I just said it was ok when deep down I wasn't comfortable with it. I could go on a little about it but it would be ranty. I'm happy I'm out of that relationship tho and I'm just working on myself like crazy.
Bro why were you dating 2 year olds?
Nah I’m just playin, if you’re having trouble getting over something, face the truth head on and it’ll hurt for a while, but youll actually get over it
Self reflection is the best friend of the driven man. Well said brotha.
I really needed to hear this one! Someone amazing literally walked in to my life. Very interested in just me. Calling me, asking how my days are, saying that they miss me ect. I've been doing the typical red pill shit and not caring, not complimenting and just not being someone who she should want to be around. Thing is, i actually like her, but I don't act like it. Reason being, I'm scared. I know, people say men shouldnt be, but I am. If I let my guard down, I could develop feelings and that's an invitation for hurt and pain if things go pear shaped! Bad mentality I know. The main thing that sticks to me is everyone says "dont be a nice guy", so instead i take the advice to be the asshole and to be fair It does get results. But tbh, it makes me feel like crap. The asshole character isn't me. Im just a nice person deep down, but when people have taken advantage of you in the past, it's Shields up at all times. Damn, the more I write, the more I understand I have some funking issues to deal with. with that in mind, I try to convince myself that I don't care to protect myself. If I don't care, then I can't get hurt which is a bad mentality to have. It's literally draining to continuously act like you don't care. But then again, getting hurt sucks also. Recently only noticed that I've turned into such a cold and unloving person who just doesn't show affection or love to anyone. Tgis video has changed my way of thinking. I need to change and become me again!
so, my first bit of love goes to you Hamza. I thank you Hamza for this video, as its helped me open my eyes! ❤
I just needed to write out loud.
Hamza you're such a great guy ! You become better person everyday and it's so inspiring to see that !
Lelouch
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer Yes that's my profile picture hahahaha
Its crazy how honest you are hamza, You tell us your mistakes so we don't go the same path.
You are the true adonissssss
Bro, thank you for this. It's easy to ignore all the things your loved ones do for you and not show any appreciation for it. You just made me write an appreciation letter for my girlfriend...
This level of humility and humbleness is truly remarkable.
You can really see, hear, and feel the conviction and regret in his whole speech, that he doesn't want other men to make the same mistakes as he did. An inspiration and an idol to all of us.
"Appreciate your Girlfriend, Appreciate the People in your life and Praise them Heavily and Constantly." let no one convince you otherwise.
Thank you for spreading this on UA-cam. As a straight woman, it gives me hope that I’ll find a man who will treat me well, who I can love and support in return.
You will but I won't.
@@drakecliff8378 why not 🤔
If your single don't worry focus on you, to better yourself here are a couple of tips:
1. Meditate daily
2. Start callisthenics(because it's outside)
3. Go outside more and spend time in nature
4. Start nofap and reset the brain away from p*rn
5. Cold showers always
Have a blessed day friends!
@@prod7759 bro stfu no fap works, it worked for me
@@prod7759 it ain't a scam
@@prod7759 once a while yes, but not everyday or let stand every week more like once a month. I'm not one for retaining forever.. And ever
@@prod7759 if you want to waste your energy and seed go ahead. Jack of all you want
Hey question what’s the cold showers thing about. What’s the difference between warm and cold
Hamza, you’re a real one man. Thank you so much for the guidance you’ve given to young men like me and many others. You’ve gotten me out of a deep hole and I’m proud of the person I am because of you. Thank you bro
Bro this video is full of beta blue pill propaganda... I also like Hamza in general but this is his worse Video so far.
@@q-tip1509 Bro you're looking only at one Perspective here. Come one man you can do better than that, the blue pilling he's talking about is about someone who actually cared for him & treated him right and we should also treat them in the same way, but if we dont for one day we surely gonna regret it... trust me I'm going through it. It's also common sense that he doesnt mean we should do this to every girl we met.
@@Vinter666 In my opinion it is really dangerous to spread this beta mindset. We do not live in a world where women are traditional. I would agree with you if the circumstances would be different, but see, it is how it is...
hamza has the option to be blue pilled and girls would still try to get in contact with him because of his status (Large fanbase, financal advantage, etc). I am happy for him that he gained this success and wish him the best.
But for the majority of guys this blue pilled behaviour will lead to a deep crisis because women don't respect them.
Hamza can spread this blue pill ideology because he is in an advantage position. But this is also a bit selfish because he affects so many guys in a negative way.
@@q-tip1509 Yes I would agree on that especially for guys who literally takes all every UA-cam video advices seriously. This is quite the double edged sword for us regular viewers but a truly one sided blunt sword for the people who would first discover him through this video. But well it all comes down to choosing the right person. And i wished u success in the future bro, grind hard.
@@Vinter666 See, you also have to keep in mind this video and mindset completely ignores the truth of feminine hypergamy and many more dynamics guys have to face in real life, and within those situations this video and mindset might have a very toxic effect on young men. His video is just not clearly and well preparated and by saying this I am not trying to attack Hamza in Person, it's only a way to mention some faults...
Wish you also the best bro in everything you do and don’t get me wrong, was not meant to hurt you. 👌
I realized 2/3 into the relationship I was in I really didn't feel like we complimented each other but more over that perhaps if ever so slightly I just wasn't ready for the level of commitment and attention that comes with a relationship.
Going from silent solitude to a more busy active lifestyle didn't click with me. After roughly four months I told her that I wasn't ready for something like this and I didn't find it fair to hold her back from the life she wanted.
Remember bros being with someone is a treasure but also a responsibility and if your not ready and your partner is suffering because of that let go.
Grow some more and let them go if need be. Maybe you'll realize you both just didn't click and the next woman who comes around will be the shape that fits the correct slot. Using the word fate may be a point of conjecture but everything does indeed happen for a reason.
This video has touched my heart....you are wise bro
This is more down to earth from you bro, and I relate to this very much.. almost word-for-word your past relationship was the same as mine & the way you've rationalised your feelings is exactly what I needed to hear because I've been lowkey resentful of my ex since we broke up but I never realised how much she did for me & how much she's improved since we first met eachother & how I was the one who pushed her to do better, I never told her how proud of her I was & never actually thought about it until now.
Legit the best video you've ever made. Everyone on the alpha male/redpill/improvement side of YT is too afraid to say this stuff. Obviously if you're giving that love and appreciation to your girlfriend and it's not reciprocated or it's mocked it shows that things aren't right and maybe she's not the one, but you won't know until you try! And it's ALWAYS worth trying. Thanks Hamza!!
Let's go. Girls are precious
That's true, some idiots say to treat the person who we sleep with like shit
Well done Hamza for this video! Real men do appreciate their girlfriends and make them feel special. Thank you for this bro
This video hits deep especially coming from you - I appreciate the vulnerability it’s nice to see
This video just salitafyes that hamza is the man all men need to be like, he’s made many mistakes and bettered himself, I want nothing more then to reach his level of work ethic and dedication, I love this channel and this man (no homo)
Damn, this video really hits hard.
I never really got into the red pill, but a year ago I was an asshole with woman. I went on dates without having feelings for girls, then I just dissapeared without thinking about it. After that, one of thode girls told me what an asshole I was, and I realized how bad not taking seriously a girl's feelings is. The girls I dated that way forgave me, but I couldn't forgive me, I spent almost another year seeing myself as a bad person that didn't deserve love, until I forgave myself a month ago.
Love and relationships isn't a game of "pills", people deserve respect. If you think that being mean to people makes you desirable, you will be alone forever.
People read redpill shit and start acting that way. The idea behind these theories anyways is that you build yourself up as a man to the point where you just don't tolerate bullshit from anyone. It's not about "acting" like you're busy, or purposefully trying to make her jealous with other girls.
It's about actually being busy, actually having shit to do so you can't link up. Not faking it. Actually having tons of women head over heels for you cause of how you carry yourself, your aura, your energy. People loving you cause of how free you are. It's not about posting a story in the club to make your main chick jealous. This generation is fucked fr.
Years ago you couldn't fake it as much as now with this social media bs. Nowadays everyone is living with a distorted view of reality. But it's ok. Because the happiest of us will be those who always keep it real and don't put up an act.
@@anasc9579 they'll only put up with that for a year or so and will walk away.. so worries if you're on your grind and want a different woman every few months or years..
@@anasc9579"tons of women"
"main chick"
i think i see the underlying issues here
Thanks my guy this is the push I didn't know I needed🧡 time to switch off all this media and live in the present
I'll never get tired of saying that I'm grateful that that I stumbled upon your videos
6:20 being so open and honest about who you were in the past, especially before starting self-improvement, shows how much you've grown. Keep it up.
"don't be vulnerable with your girlfriend"
"Don't validate her"
The second I heard that from 'alpha males' I verbally said "bro shut up!"
My girlfriend is my best friend and I love her. She loves me and the relationship is beautiful. There's no reason to treat relationships like a strategy game
This is mainly due to social media and how toxic Relationships are normalized also
There are some women who will truly leave you for being "too" vulnerable
@@ryder4313 being vulnerable with a girl doesn't sound like a good idea .
Being vulnerable to her is a mistake fam, you’ll realize when she uses it against you
@@Adonis573 Too me it sounds like the best idea. If she really loves you and she's the one, your relationship will only grow and you'll get closer, but if she's not the one, then that's a way to tell.
@@DestopLine men and women are not equal, woman are meant to be vulnerable to you, but they will lose respect for you if you have the same emotional level, its nature.
you are genuinely meant to do this! raising the masculine energy one video at a time. As a female I appreciate this alot
Her reaction is actually amazing I’m surprised how well she took that that’s really sweet!
This touched my soul man. Good on you that takes courage to say that in this community. I love my girl even though it's been 13 years since I have seen her. Always show appreciation and love. Jesus says love others as you love yourself and I genuinely love her and am happy for her and where she is in life and the beautiful family she has. Treat others how you want to be treated. Maybe one day someone will reciprocate that for me, but even if they don't that's just how I want to be. I want to show love to people and be that light that doesn't extinguish in circumstance.
If you want a girlfriend stop being a jerk and start to educate and discipline yourself, education and discipline only work togheter
@sip of binnis?
@@TigerWill it means win, he's agreeing :). I'm with you too, only starting to notice female attention after dropping the whole 'trying to be funny and cool' bs.
@@brillywilly2998 also if your high standards will be available even 4 urself, u have 2 Achieve your goals and fullfil ur standards if u want the type of female that you want, not what you deserve, if you aren't fullfiling u get what u deserve
Awesome video!
Really nice take on relathioships and a great example
Needed this video today. Thank you Hamza for making our lives better ⚡️
Observe the sun as it sets behind Hamza.
That is some beautiful stuff right there.
Thank you so much for this. I am glad my boyfriend is not like this at all, he doesn't listen to those "alpha males".
💯real talk my girl started to understand my dark side or dark nature already
old style vids are the shit. Truthfully I used to not watch your vids anymore even though you still talked your shit, but it no joked hurt my eyes to see all that extra stuff in em. Anyways nice vid man
I really needed to hear this. I've struggled with my view on masculinity when it comes to women and relationships and it made me a worse person tbh. I've always known you should be yourself - that is, the best version of yourself, but still I have always ended up trying to fake things and act colder / more indifferent than I actually am. Of course you can't go putting women on pedestal and become a simp for anyone but still. It's so easy to try to play some kind of a game with a woman instead of treating her as just another human being.
We lack emotional connection by design.
It is the key to save us all. .
Amazing advice. Thank you for this message Hamza
Hamza you are seriously a role model to young men it takes infinite courage to be this open and you have nothing but respect from me
Hamza you've helped me so much
Love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 💓
I'll report you to shadaya lol
@@relaxology1239 huh?
Missed the joke.
Weirdly enough, I literally relate to what Hamza had with that relationship. This girl was a great person, but things went sideways because I didn't give her enough attention and appreciate her enough... But we live and we learn right.
I will keep it short, you spoke rightfully , thank you Hamza like truly ✌🏻
This was such a relaxing, peaceful, as well as informative thing to listen to! Thank you so much Hamza 😄
Hamza I’m from New York, you’re content is literally killing the charts I’ve shared some of your advice to my friends. Your gonna see fast growth coming your way ADONISSSS 🕴🏻
Why do americans spell your as you're and you're as your??
Can i do the same thing??
@@devansh173 1 person = america 😂
@@Dukyie 😔👍
Man I have so much respect for you hamza. You vocalize in such an elegant way true experiences that we men face as we go through life. I honestly feel like we live parallel lives because every time you describe your experiences with relationships and other things I cannot help but resonate with your words. You're a much needed person in these times and a true breath of fresh air in this toxic space on the internet where "red pill" youtubers try to force their ideologies for nothing but cheap clout and views. Never met you bro but i feel like i know you personally. Solid Vid.
Stale and Sheet podcast. THANK YOU!
Best vid by far from you and your team, Hamza. Great work.
This is one eye opening video my dude
Had tears lol
If I didn’t have the supportive, loving wife that I have I wouldn’t be anywhere near where I am today. A good women by your side is worth 1000 side chicks 👍🏼🚀 thanks for inspiring me so much hamza! (She even supports me with my trash videos 😂)
Did you just say "One good girl is worth a thousand bitches" but respectfully 😂? Haha I love it!
lmfao idk about being worth 1000 side chicks but i respect your opinion.
@@GLITCHED1 you know what I mean 🤣 I was gonna say worth ‘a thousand lying whores’ but idk if you’d all get the Game of Thrones reference 😂
The whole "side bitch" thing is so disgustingly stupid
@@Zero2Hero- Good thing you did not use the GoT reference because I have never watched it before haha
Sneako goes back to self improvment
Bro sneaky can’t take criticism
Thank you, this content is precious to so many women ❤️
Watching your channel is like you are going into my mind and vocalising what I think. I had a similar experience and totally agree.
Listening to redpillers will only attract those women that have been raised poorly and don't respect you as a partner either. When you level up on self-improvement and learn the necessity of treating your girl and your relationships with care and respect, you'll end up with a girl who loves and respects you as well. That genuine connection and mutual love is ALWAys found through respect, never through neglect.
but....when do red pill channels encourage men to treat good women like shit? show me specific vids of even clips of them telling men to do that, its very disingenuous to say that tbh 😅
Read the Rational Male, you are over here with fingers crossed thinking 'the one' is just going to appear in your life, LMAO. Nice cope bro.
@@mohamedadan6678 cope
@You’re Fat that’s a Biological Phact dont underestimate software my brother i am running xubuntu on a 17 year old laptop and its running fine. w10 would probably not even run on it.
the problem with these "redpill community" guys is that they say that you should treat grills like shit because thats what they like it but they should be telling people that they should be treated that way because thats what they deserve
Sighh one day we'll become one of the top 10%, boys!
this video touched my soul man, thank you
Glad to see youre back Hamza, It’s good to see your videos having more of the older long format
I have always told my friends and family yt dating advice is bullshit (mainly relating to red pill/alpha male stuff). Glad to see this video prove me right.
I think its good when it's about self improvement but the dating aspect quickly goes overboard.
@@digitalcthulhu143 Exactly. Self improvement is really important, and society tells me the opposite today. I completely agree with the red pillers there.
But then they get super negative/misogynistic about women which does not good.
@@northernu.s.a3995they tell other young, insecure men that in order for women to be attached/attracted to them, they need to negatively treat them. that isnt love, thats manipulation and toxicity.
its hilariously easy to see who is mature and who isnt by reading these comments (not saying youre immature lol, i agree with you actually)
As a girl who watches your content, I'm really happy to see a video like this. If you do come across a good woman, make sure you treat her right, because listening to these "alpha males" will lead you to losing one of the best things that can happen to you.
I don't think so but I don't appreciate love and relationship with girls I'm living better life without these girls
u have the best character on youtube. also good luck on your fight. i had my first and i lost but im still determined to go on
This channel is getting so good.
The amount of growth shown in this video!!! And such a good lesson.
One of my best friends back in highschool had a girl that he was with for two years, he never ONCE said that he loved her. She didn't care though, she said it to him all the time and was absolutely head over heels in love with my boy. I asked him once in a class that we had together senior year how he felt about his girl, he explained how he felt but it was an unnecessarily long explanation so I just outright asked him "So you love your girl?" He said "Yeah." But he never told her so he wouldn't seem soft. Fast forward a few months to right after we graduated and he was unfortunately shot in the head by some lowlife that was trying to rob him the night we picked up our diplomas. Before the funeral I called his girlfriend and told her how he really felt, so that she never needed to wonder. So yes, tell your girlfriend's you love them guys, you never know if you'll see her again. His family was gonna cremate him but she put events together that raised money for a proper funeral, that was about 6 years ago and to this day she has his name in her fb bio.
you made a brazilian depressed now.
Bro it's like you said.
With self reflection comes self improvement.
To you and to the sister in question,I hope you find peace and the right partner.
Keep up the grind bruh and brahette.
I feel you… had a similar experience, always appreciate a great quality girl when she’s there
I fell down the red pill rabbit hole 2 years ago. It’s thanks to content like yours that I’m starting to wean myself off that stuff. I’m not there yet, but I’m working towards having a healthier mindset.
¿Algún hispanohablante que vea estos videos también? BTW Hamza is almost 500k🔥🔥
sehh
Si pero no estoy el nativo jaja
Owning up to who you were is important. Good on you mate.
nah this video is one of the biggest W’s ever
Am I the only one who noticed that Hamza's beard immigrated to his head?
"self fulfilling prophecy" exactly. and i was smart enough to figure out that idea for myself a year ago. in a much better place now, and im glad u r putting that idea across to your viewers hamza, the idea that your mindset and way you regard relationships will bring out different partners or a small substrata of partners from all the women out there. im sure not many guys want a shallow girl that is inappreciative of emotion
Yo this video came right on time. Thank you Hamza, been watching you for a while and you’re honestly a breath of fresh air in this space ❤️
You know, I appreciate your videos, your lessons and your experiences, all that you said has helped and keeps helping a lot of people but, for me at least, it’s always inspiring to hear that you as well have some kind of regrets just like all true men, I respect you more for this, be well and stay strong bro
I deadass cried a bit.
Get those tears out and then STOP being a little bitch, MAN TF UP.
We guys should use *hopium* instead of copium
You've earned a new subscriber.
This video is something I can relate to I broke up with my ex months ago bc of how toxic it got between us and I couldnt bear to hate her so I let her go and grow and still to this day I miss her but I know I cant go back and relive it bc I haven’t changed yet I’m still miserable and stuck with my struggles so I am coming to terms with it slowly started talking to more people again held on to my job and school and just did things even though I was miserable things are slowly getting better so I’m happy with that progress in my life
I needed this a year ago. My ex broke up with me because I spent all time to myself with self improvement. Not minding her issues when she needed me the most. She broke up with me and I agreed. She went back a couple of days later and did not take her back because it was the rp teachings. I have lots of regrets now, but life goes on.
Tell Her
Tell her what you think and feel!
Don‘t come off as needy or pushy but just be genuine, if she doesn‘t appreciate your honesty then you can move on with a clear mind and don‘t have any regrets later on.
Just don‘t chase her!
The transparency in your videos gets a much more significant message across, great enlightening video bro💪🏼
Thank you for sharing this. A lot of women want these things but we been burnt but alpha makes who are emotionally stunt stopped us from pursuing anything anymore.
Women CREATED those "alpha males" by hand. Burn THEIR hearts. And then complain when those men do it back. Ironic.
Couldn't be a more perfect time for this video, thank you hamza
Cheers to us finding a perfect woman when we become perfect men 🥂
guts are perfect
@@muhammadaulia5298 *cultured*
I’m simply not there
@@superkevv3305 same here to be honest, but we gotta keep working brother
I see you doing a lot of Videos where I feel like you're not really honest.
It feels like you're still hiding parts of your deep inner self.
This Video is not part of them.
I think this is the most hones, most vulnerable video I saw of you.
Keep it going
I am 13 and this guy has literally motivated me so much
This is one of the best videos you have ever made Hamza