I have been happily married to my Balinese wife in Jimbaran for over 16 years. We simply respect each other's cultural differences - everything is positively normal - no big deal.
Hi Joshua. it takes some maturity to understand these types of relationship dynamics and you seem to have it under control. Well done! Thanks for dropping by.
Marriage is a very personal thing. But ive been married to a Malaysian Chinese for 24 years. Ive never been happier. You just have to be open to different ideas, different cultures and communication is very important. Keep up the good work mate. Im also a middle aged Aussie.
Fiasco you are a breath of fresh air. We massive Bali visitors and go to Lembongan island twice a year. Absolutely love the people and culture.we started watching Bali vlogs when warren Maclean waz on earth channel was active. Since he passed there has been a major hole in the real Bali vlogs so many wanabees .you like myself have embraced bahasa and it’s so magic to converse in their language. I love your videos and have been watching them all. Keep up the good ol fashion vlogs. Keep it simple and wholesome. Look forward to more😊
Hey David, really appreciate your kind words and fully plan to keep it simple and real. Thanks for coming along for the ride. And I hope your next trip to lembongan isn't too far away. Cheers.
@ waz actually played in the divinyls with chrissie amplet at some stage. And one more comment my favourite in the grabs is lalu lintas buruk Mantaaaap
I was married to a Balinese woman and can not recom that. Yes nice and pretty, I still grateful for the two kinds we have but at the end it turns sour. She messing around, burning through my money and her behavior became rude. Now I married a Java woman and things turning much better. She keep the money, she care about me and the kids and help me with my construction project. Sometimes she even more German like then me. I´m now 10 years with her and could achieve so many things. The 10 years before was a hard time, not say waste of time, I´d learn a lot about human, especially Balinese. Think trice before you go this step.
I'm sorry your experience wasn't a great one, goodmood. And I'm really glad you're now happy with a person who helps and supports your with your interests. Thanks for offering your opinion.
Where is in Ubud? I use to live in Ubud. But now I live in USA. And we go home to Bali every year for 3 months. I love Australia. I been there many times. Thank you for sharing. Greetings from Tucson ,Arizona
Gday from nsw mate. Loving the vids and also like the interactions and subtitles. Keep up the good work and dont let those negative people get you down. Cheers mate 👍 👌
So tefreshing your vids compared to all the Canggu vloggers. You show the real Bali as it is. I am a bule living in Bali for +30yrs and married a true Balinese 25yrs ago. Still happy and all good but hah .. It is somethinh. What an experience.
Hi putrisekar. After thirty years of living here you probably understand things a little better than most. Congratulations on 25 years marriage! And thanks for the kind words and saying hi. Cheers
@@fiascodagama1 yes a Herbie fan, I'm so old school 😂 old enough to remember him, love my jazz. Love the short content with some music, I don't feel guilty about spending too much time on the tube 😂 Respect for your content,coming your way from Margaret River 🍇
As someone that married a Balinese woman I can definitely recommend. But dont get your hopes up about being accepted as one of them. My wife still after 8 years, makes me stay outside the market as if I am with her the price goes up.
@@fiascodagama1 Hehehe I dont see it changing. It is one of those things you have to accept living in Bali. We save a lot of money splitting up at the market
I like your work. I've been to Indo several times, I've had that same feeling haha. Before you do anything silly, it would be cool to see you travel to some more out of the way places on some of the other indonesian islands.
Hi Gary. I've travelled overland from Sumatra to Timor twice, and seen Muluku, Sulawesi etc. You're right, these out-of-the-way places are something special. now you've got me thinking of doing it again. Cheers.
Hello from CA. Kenapa tidak tetapi hati-hati? Just remember u marry the whole family. Once thought I would marry & actually tried living with family in Denpasar. Loved the family but didn't like restrictions. The family is No. 1. Leaving for a hike in Nepal might not be in the cards! If you're ready to settle down, commit to the family & have found love, kenapa tidak?
I agree you should settle down and marry an Indonesian lady soonest. My advice you marry a Sundanese ethnicity, from Bandung, sukabumi or Cianjur region. They are the kindest and most loving Indonesian people. Mine is from Bandung, been married for 12 years and I love her more everyday😊
Oh I forgot to mention, the Sundanese also famous as a more sexually active people, like four times per week is usually their bare minimum. I had many Sundanese girlfriends before, so be prepare to hit the gym more often😂
The Balinese are definitely attractive although over the years I have had some attention which I ignore as much as I love the culture&warmth of the people I never entertain the idea as I love the idea of yearly time in Bali but not permanently and have a lot of travel to go&entertaining getting Italian citizenship as my idea would be splitting time between places whilst exploring more on flexible passport. I do not have confidence for solo in such places like India though&only been once&wish I could explore more with help&it is lovely to soak in a culture whilst not limiting options& locals can tell when westerners appreciate their aesthetics.My sister married an Asian man in Oz&the financial expectations from his family in his homeland made it complicated to visit regularly However,wouldn't it be lovely to have a partner in crime with similar values? If you are destined to settle with Balinese beauty it will naturally come to fruition&you would instantly get all the yummy local cuisine&extended family you could possibly wish for&never ending ceremonies Apologies,I waffle too much but hope you get all.your hearts desire whilst on your exploring quest,Ciao for now
Hi betty. i think you bring up a valid point in that some places can lose their allure if you're always there. Wow, how great if you're able to get Italian citizenship. yes, it's be lovely to have a partner in crime with the same interests, values etc. thanks Betty.
@fiascodagama1 Hi Wayne&by the way my name is Stephanie but BettyBoop is from cartoon🐒 I suppose one needs to know if you would be happy to stay put in one country.My friends have suggested Bali to me as I love going yearly,however I also love exploring other places¬ confident in medical or emergency situation in most countries to be honest. I also noticed from my first time decades back, it is assumed mostly westerners are wealthy. I think balance is key as pros&cons to every country,Cheers
Husband and I are really enjoying your videos. It seems like you have been going to Bali for a long time but how long did it take you to converse in Indonesian?
Hi Sue. It was just a word here and there, then a fumbled sentence...I guess it's taken a couple of years. I know of people my age who decided to learn Indonesian and studied to be conversational in a few months. As far as languages go,.Indonesian is one of the easiest to learn apparently. Thanks for watching the little vids. Cheers.
Awesome . I’m an ‘older person’ 😂 I’m going to give it a shot. I did read somewhere it is one of the easiest to learn. I hope I can learn fast . Cheers
I,m baliness ,but i was born in soutb sumatra ..,and growing up in yogyakarta ..,i never meet bakilines girl ..,in 1984 ..,i maried my girl freind. from yogya .,,,at now i live in bandung ..,but i starting ny busnis in yogya .,i ,ve never life in bali ..,,sory ..,ican speak anglish well..😂😂
Hi Nyoman, i think your english is OK, I can understand what you're saying so it must be getting good. Thank you for saying hello and good luck with your business.
Marry a Bali girl, I did trust me you marry a Bali woman you don’t have to settle down. Start enjoying your life with a great woman and you will not look back. Good luck
I married a Bali girl I knew for 15 years or so, she came back to Australia with me. We both work. We both travel together, prospect for gold together, fish together. We have land in Bali and about to build and live between Australia 🇦🇺 and Bali, what a lifestyle
Enjoy your blogs had a long history in Bali myself built a house there 30 years ago had some lady friends loved it all then health issues and forced me to return to Perth.. just a little advice like most women from poorer countries they like the look of your wallet 😊
Sorry to hear health issues forced you back Alan. The health care aspect of living into old age in some places is definitely something that has to be considered. Thanks for dropping by.
Omg I love eating of the carts. I remember back in the early 80's they use to say dont eat off them you will get sick. I always ate off them still do and have never been sick. They say the porridge is healthy and makes you lose weight lol I use to always wonder how the hell they got anything done with so many ceremonies going on. I use to speak Indonesian but now only a few words you lose it if you dont every few months Might see if I can take lessons here.
It's great meeting people on here from the same era as I relate to everything you say, aussiejos. And yes, those harsh warnings about the street carts were never listened to. :) cheers.
@@fiascodagama1 Yes I love talking to people who went to Bali in the very early days. To be honest I miss those days so simple and easy going. You werent harassed to buy stuff you dont want. The locals would rather sit with you under a tree and learn english and where you came from. I learnt how to make the offerings on the beach by helping the locals at the age of 14 and I still do it on the beach if someone is doing it. I love the local treats as well. I do get weird looks when I am eating them. Not sure why though
If marriage would lead to hapiness, you should go for it. But well..remember happiness would only materialise when you never had to endure future intolerable risks. Have a nice day!
Hey rufftoj. Life itself seems to be a bit of a risk with the guarantee of not making it out alive so rolling the dice might be worth it - then again. :)
Sorry to say but from my Perspective if you are in Bali, you will find very hard to marrying a Balinese Woman since they usually tend to be more conservative and choose Balinese Man... Every Balinese woman / Balinese Girl I saw on the streets, Campus, School they are probably 85% have a boyfriend and ready to marry after graduated, and the Balinese Parents tends to "ENCOURAGE" the children to marry fellow Balinese to preserve Culture and Hinduism... My advice to you is you can live in Bali , but in terms of Relationship, choose other ethnic than Balinese Woman, such as Javanese / Manadonese / Sundanese... They tend to be more open minded than the Balinese... Bali isn't really suits for Single Man Traveller in terms of finding Relationship
Hi Denny. Thanks for your insight into Balinese women and their alternatives, I appreciate it. I also think Balinese women would prefer a Balinese man who is aware and familiar with customs and traditions. Thanks for saying hi.
@@fiascodagama1 if you're really serious, go do at least a month full time as a monk & practice the religion for a year before committing to any marriage. I believe the more authentic your devotion the more your whole experience deeply resonates.
I' know a few people both male and female who have married Indonesian people and they've had very caring and secure relationships.I'm happy for you, meran..Thanks for dropping by.
I Wayne my name is Peter my wife's name is Merri. We did start a UA-cam channel a few years ago called merandpits life adventure hence the name. Just thought I should clarify😊
Hi nattydread. Didn't get to try the porridge today but it's goinf to be included in a street food vlog I'm hoping to do if I can get organized. Good to see you and congrats on 25 years!
Stay single, enjoy your life. If you marry a Balinese, there is an expectation that you will have money and that you will provide for them and their family and all their ceremonies with your money. You will always be a tourist, you will always be a Bule, its called Racism. Balinese are beautiful people, but they want what you have, your money and many will sacrifice anything for money. True love without any expectations in Bali is a rare thing to find. Legally you own nothing, and never will. If there is any dispute, you will always be in the wrong, remember you are not local. We have visited every year since 1993, know lots of wonderful locals, and some of the best are of Muslim faith. We sponsor countless thousands of $, and we are always referred to as Bule, Sponsor. If you are thinking of marriage, advise your lovely that you are poor like them, they will soon walk on you. Money is the driver.
What about the elephant in the room which is are they entitled to your assets etc if things go pear shaped? I've got no idea how all that works in Indonesia
I say go for it. Indonesians make the best wifes. My wife of 17 years is the best partner. Her forthright attitude and will is beautiful. She is not a pushover and her anger is impressive. I call her a little banshi and pointed at rude backpackers in Darwin they chose to dive into the window of a taxi to avoid their destruction. We still laugh about it years later(:-)
I think it's a misconception that Southeast Asian women are submissive or subservient - most all the ones i know are really assertive. Happy for your long partnership, MrT.
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I have been happily married to my Balinese wife in Jimbaran for over 16 years. We simply respect each other's cultural differences - everything is positively normal - no big deal.
Hi Joshua. it takes some maturity to understand these types of relationship dynamics and you seem to have it under control. Well done! Thanks for dropping by.
Marriage is a very personal thing. But ive been married to a Malaysian Chinese for 24 years. Ive never been happier. You just have to be open to different ideas, different cultures and communication is very important. Keep up the good work mate. Im also a middle aged Aussie.
Thanks, MB06. You seem to have the right approach or attitude which makes for a greater chance of marriage success in Asia, I think. Nice one, mb06.
Fiasco you are a breath of fresh air. We massive Bali visitors and go to Lembongan island twice a year. Absolutely love the people and culture.we started watching Bali vlogs when warren Maclean waz on earth channel was active. Since he passed there has been a major hole in the real Bali vlogs so many wanabees .you like myself have embraced bahasa and it’s so magic to converse in their language. I love your videos and have been watching them all. Keep up the good ol fashion vlogs. Keep it simple and wholesome. Look forward to more😊
Hey David, really appreciate your kind words and fully plan to keep it simple and real. Thanks for coming along for the ride. And I hope your next trip to lembongan isn't too far away. Cheers.
@ waz actually played in the divinyls with chrissie amplet at some stage. And one more comment my favourite in the grabs is lalu lintas buruk Mantaaaap
Was thinking myself how much Fiasco's vlogging style reminded me of Waz, a great entertainer, RIP Waz🙏
@@ausjen What was warren's channel name again, please?
@@fiascodagama1 Bali Life Me it's called😊
Good to see you in Ubud my home I share with my Balinese wife and Daughter Angela 8yrs, Iv'e been married 14yrs and loving it.
Hi rex. Great to have a local expat watching and commenting.Hope to bump into you one day. Cheers.
I was married to a Balinese woman and can not recom that. Yes nice and pretty, I still grateful for the two kinds we have but at the end it turns sour. She messing around, burning through my money and her behavior became rude. Now I married a Java woman and things turning much better. She keep the money, she care about me and the kids and help me with my construction project. Sometimes she even more German like then me. I´m now 10 years with her and could achieve so many things. The 10 years before was a hard time, not say waste of time, I´d learn a lot about human, especially Balinese. Think trice before you go this step.
I'm sorry your experience wasn't a great one, goodmood. And I'm really glad you're now happy with a person who helps and supports your with your interests. Thanks for offering your opinion.
wish you make a family in Bali
Maybe a bit too old now to start a family but it's a nice idea. Thanks.
Where is in Ubud? I use to live in Ubud. But now I live in USA. And we go home to Bali every year for 3 months. I love Australia. I been there many times. Thank you for sharing. Greetings from Tucson ,Arizona
Miost of my vlogs are made in Ubud Central.
Gday from nsw mate. Loving the vids and also like the interactions and subtitles. Keep up the good work and dont let those negative people get you down. Cheers mate 👍 👌
Very kind of you, stacey. Thanks so much for taking the time to say, g'day. Cheers.
Wayne, I love the demeanour of the women they love to flirt. I think beyond that could be complicated. Have fun.
Yeah, it's a big step to say the least. Not sure, but it's tempting. :)
You’re having way too much fun as a single bloke. Enjoy. 😊
You raise a very valid point, Marisayoung. :)
So tefreshing your vids compared to all the Canggu vloggers. You show the real Bali as it is. I am a bule living in Bali for +30yrs and married a true Balinese 25yrs ago. Still happy and all good but hah .. It is somethinh. What an experience.
Hi putrisekar. After thirty years of living here you probably understand things a little better than most. Congratulations on 25 years marriage! And thanks for the kind words and saying hi. Cheers
You are genuinely interested and the people enjoy your friendliness…
Hi Victor. I am interested in people, and hopefully people don't mind me saying hello. cheers
Great choice
Thank you. :)
Another fun one, thanks. Have a great day. Loved the Herbie Hancock vibe 🎶🎶👍🙏
Another Herbie fan, great! Thanks, Sandie.
@@fiascodagama1 yes a Herbie fan, I'm so old school 😂 old enough to remember him, love my jazz. Love the short content with some music, I don't feel guilty about spending too much time on the tube 😂 Respect for your content,coming your way from Margaret River 🍇
Just watching a few of your previous Ubud vlogs with a coffee or 2 and here you are with a new one.
Time for another coffee 🙏💙🙏
It's a problem, Vicko. A problem embraced wholeheartedly.
😂 YES....AGREED
You are more than half way there Wayne, with the language and culture.
Hi Jonesy. There's a lot to learn. Cheers.
Another great video mate. Getting your rizz on with the Warung owner at the end there haha. Nice one. Have a great Sunday.
Thanks for making it to the end, rc. She's married and lives below me with her family and becoming a local friend.
As someone that married a Balinese woman I can definitely recommend. But dont get your hopes up about being accepted as one of them. My wife still after 8 years, makes me stay outside the market as if I am with her the price goes up.
Ha! The old bule inflation is alive and well even after marriage, hey?
@@fiascodagama1 Hehehe I dont see it changing. It is one of those things you have to accept living in Bali. We save a lot of money splitting up at the market
Been married to a Balinese girl for 21yrs and speak fluent Indo and she still leaves me outside the market😂😂😂
I like your work. I've been to Indo several times, I've had that same feeling haha. Before you do anything silly, it would be cool to see you travel to some more out of the way places on some of the other indonesian islands.
Hi Gary. I've travelled overland from Sumatra to Timor twice, and seen Muluku, Sulawesi etc. You're right, these out-of-the-way places are something special. now you've got me thinking of doing it again. Cheers.
Hello from CA. Kenapa tidak tetapi hati-hati? Just remember u marry the whole family. Once thought I would marry & actually tried living with family in Denpasar. Loved the family but didn't like restrictions. The family is No. 1. Leaving for a hike in Nepal might not be in the cards! If you're ready to settle down, commit to the family & have found love, kenapa tidak?
Hi Liz. it is very much family first, isn't it? This could be hard for some to get used to.
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Really appreciate that, Tye. Thank you.
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Hey hey, Stephen. Looking forward to it! See you tomorrow.
Interesting question, it’s a personal life choice and sometimes it happens when you don’t really expect it!
Hi Bruce. Some of life's best experiences are unplanned, it's true.
NEW Subscriber thank you mate, I make Videos mostly in Thailand but have been to Bali many times
Hey AussieOutlaw, thanks for the sub, I appreciate it. I'll go over and check out some of your vids. Cheers.
I agree you should settle down and marry an Indonesian lady soonest. My advice you marry a Sundanese ethnicity, from Bandung, sukabumi or Cianjur region. They are the kindest and most loving Indonesian people. Mine is from Bandung, been married for 12 years and I love her more everyday😊
Hey ahmadfahmi, congratulations on finding a great partner, and thanks for the advice.
Oh I forgot to mention, the Sundanese also famous as a more sexually active people, like four times per week is usually their bare minimum. I had many Sundanese girlfriends before, so be prepare to hit the gym more often😂
Rick Stien ( chef )was a huge fan of Borrbor ??? When he did an episode in Bali....
Is that right? might have a look if I get time.
Burbur - it’s like congee and my gosh it’s my favourite - so delicious
Go for it brother
Cheers. I will. :)
These guys are VERY RELIGIOUS😀
The culture and heritage of the Balinese is really important to them it's true.
The Balinese are definitely attractive although over the years I have had some attention which I ignore as much as I love the culture&warmth of the people I never entertain the idea as I love the idea of yearly time in Bali but not permanently and have a lot of travel to go&entertaining getting Italian citizenship as my idea would be splitting time between places whilst exploring more on flexible passport. I do not have confidence for solo in such places like India though&only been once&wish I could explore more with help&it is lovely to soak in a culture whilst not limiting options& locals can tell when westerners appreciate their aesthetics.My sister married an Asian man in Oz&the financial expectations from his family in his homeland made it complicated to visit regularly However,wouldn't it be lovely to have a partner in crime with similar values? If you are destined to settle with Balinese beauty it will naturally come to fruition&you would instantly get all the yummy local cuisine&extended family you could possibly wish for&never ending ceremonies Apologies,I waffle too much but hope you get all.your hearts desire whilst on your exploring quest,Ciao for now
Hi betty. i think you bring up a valid point in that some places can lose their allure if you're always there. Wow, how great if you're able to get Italian citizenship. yes, it's be lovely to have a partner in crime with the same interests, values etc. thanks Betty.
@fiascodagama1 Hi Wayne&by the way my name is Stephanie but BettyBoop is from cartoon🐒 I suppose one needs to know if you would be happy to stay put in one country.My friends have suggested Bali to me as I love going yearly,however I also love exploring other places¬ confident in medical or emergency situation in most countries to be honest. I also noticed from my first time decades back, it is assumed mostly westerners are wealthy. I think balance is key as pros&cons to every country,Cheers
Husband and I are really enjoying your videos. It seems like you have been going to Bali for a long time but how long did it take you to converse in Indonesian?
Hi Sue. It was just a word here and there, then a fumbled sentence...I guess it's taken a couple of years. I know of people my age who decided to learn Indonesian and studied to be conversational in a few months. As far as languages go,.Indonesian is one of the easiest to learn apparently. Thanks for watching the little vids. Cheers.
Awesome . I’m an ‘older person’ 😂 I’m going to give it a shot. I did read somewhere it is one of the easiest to learn. I hope I can learn fast . Cheers
It's never too late! 😅
Also, its just a change in perspective when you hook up ... one begins observing from the inside! 😂
It feels like the time's almost right. A bit daunting having been single all your life. Thanks, Sudden.
Married Javanese girls 😊
I've known some women from java and found them to be really nice.
@fiascodagama1 yup 👍
Love will find you when it does ❤️
Yeah, i agree I think. No point rushing it - doing that could lead to trouble. :)
I,m baliness ,but i was born in soutb sumatra ..,and growing up in yogyakarta ..,i never meet bakilines girl ..,in 1984 ..,i maried my girl freind. from yogya .,,,at now i live in bandung ..,but i starting ny busnis in yogya .,i ,ve never life in bali ..,,sory ..,ican speak anglish well..😂😂
Hi Nyoman, i think your english is OK, I can understand what you're saying so it must be getting good. Thank you for saying hello and good luck with your business.
Yes you should. Just find one. If you get 2, give me one. 😊
Ha! Sure, i'll keep you in mind. I'm not sure how a person goes about these things these days. :)
Marry a Bali girl, I did trust me you marry a Bali woman you don’t have to settle down. Start enjoying your life with a great woman and you will not look back. Good luck
I guess there's no reason to settle down if you meet someone interested in travel also. Cheers, Tim.
I married a Bali girl I knew for 15 years or so, she came back to Australia with me. We both work. We both travel together, prospect for gold together, fish together. We have land in Bali and about to build and live between Australia 🇦🇺 and Bali, what a lifestyle
Enjoy your blogs had a long history in Bali myself built a house there 30 years ago had some lady friends loved it all then health issues and forced me to return to Perth.. just a little advice like most women from poorer countries they like the look of your wallet 😊
Sorry to hear health issues forced you back Alan. The health care aspect of living into old age in some places is definitely something that has to be considered. Thanks for dropping by.
I'm married to a Sundanese. If we go to Bali markets, they try and rip her off too, when they hear her accent.
Oh, OK. that's interesting that even become Indonesian doesn't restrict being over-charged.
I support 100% for marriage
It's an attractive idea at times, Eril. :)
Omg I love eating of the carts. I remember back in the early 80's they use to say dont eat off them you will get sick. I always ate off them still do and have never been sick. They say the porridge is healthy and makes you lose weight lol I use to always wonder how the hell they got anything done with so many ceremonies going on. I use to speak Indonesian but now only a few words you lose it if you dont every few months Might see if I can take lessons here.
It's great meeting people on here from the same era as I relate to everything you say, aussiejos. And yes, those harsh warnings about the street carts were never listened to. :) cheers.
@@fiascodagama1 Yes I love talking to people who went to Bali in the very early days. To be honest I miss those days so simple and easy going. You werent harassed to buy stuff you dont want. The locals would rather sit with you under a tree and learn english and where you came from. I learnt how to make the offerings on the beach by helping the locals at the age of 14 and I still do it on the beach if someone is doing it. I love the local treats as well. I do get weird looks when I am eating them. Not sure why though
Come on Wayne take the plunge, you can't be free and happy all your life 😂
The suffering is worth it they tell me, SEAescape - sometimes.
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Mark agrees 🤔👍
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Terima kasih telah berlangganan, saya menghargainya.,manufjamar.
If marriage would lead to hapiness, you should go for it. But well..remember happiness would only materialise when you never had to endure future intolerable risks. Have a nice day!
Hey rufftoj. Life itself seems to be a bit of a risk with the guarantee of not making it out alive so rolling the dice might be worth it - then again. :)
@fiascodagama1 oh the dice rolling game, the game we all ought to play. But it could be fun though. Haha.. Life is fun. Enjoy, mate.
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Sorry to say but from my Perspective if you are in Bali, you will find very hard to marrying a Balinese Woman since they usually tend to be more conservative and choose Balinese Man... Every Balinese woman / Balinese Girl I saw on the streets, Campus, School they are probably 85% have a boyfriend and ready to marry after graduated, and the Balinese Parents tends to "ENCOURAGE" the children to marry fellow Balinese to preserve Culture and Hinduism... My advice to you is you can live in Bali , but in terms of Relationship, choose other ethnic than Balinese Woman, such as Javanese / Manadonese / Sundanese... They tend to be more open minded than the Balinese...
Bali isn't really suits for Single Man Traveller in terms of finding Relationship
Hi Denny. Thanks for your insight into Balinese women and their alternatives, I appreciate it. I also think Balinese women would prefer a Balinese man who is aware and familiar with customs and traditions. Thanks for saying hi.
Drink a huge mushroom smoothie, make offerings to Garuda & go somewhere quiet. Give it an hour or two you'll know.
A little meditation with medication. ha!
@@fiascodagama1 this stuff is crazy real though bro. A little sincere humility & openness, a hero dose of shrooms & Bali makes sense all of a sudden.
@@fiascodagama1 if you're really serious, go do at least a month full time as a monk & practice the religion for a year before committing to any marriage. I believe the more authentic your devotion the more your whole experience deeply resonates.
@@Ghekko-kw3zz i liked your first idea, I remember the shrooms
@@ausjen I've done them a few places in the world, nowhere like Bali.
I am married to an Indonesian from Toraja I would recommend it.
I' know a few people both male and female who have married Indonesian people and they've had very caring and secure relationships.I'm happy for you, meran..Thanks for dropping by.
I Wayne my name is Peter my wife's name is Merri. We did start a UA-cam channel a few years ago called merandpits life adventure hence the name. Just thought I should clarify😊
HinWayne 25 years married to a Javanese lady,got no complaints ,just remember it's the family your marrying , did you review the porridge?
Hi nattydread. Didn't get to try the porridge today but it's goinf to be included in a street food vlog I'm hoping to do if I can get organized. Good to see you and congrats on 25 years!
Have a great but I'd love the government out of it. The worst contract you'll sign.
Love your videos, watching from Port Macquarie Australia
Bloody spell check .... have a gf but leave the
Hey Dwayne. Great to hear someone from PM watching the little vids. thanks for dropping by. Cheers
Only your Hindu wife can guarantee your English Heaven or American Haven.
Jump on Royal Man, you're in a win win situation. Harry Om!
Thanks to taking the time to say hi, syedalam. :)
If I ever meet you in person I would advise you but not here. Suffice to say: hati-hati Pak!
Thanks David. I have an inkling toward things and get what you might mean. Cheers.
Stay single, enjoy your life. If you marry a Balinese, there is an expectation that you will have money and that you will provide for them and their family and all their ceremonies with your money. You will always be a tourist, you will always be a Bule, its called Racism. Balinese are beautiful people, but they want what you have, your money and many will sacrifice anything for money. True love without any expectations in Bali is a rare thing to find. Legally you own nothing, and never will. If there is any dispute, you will always be in the wrong, remember you are not local. We have visited every year since 1993, know lots of wonderful locals, and some of the best are of Muslim faith. We sponsor countless thousands of $, and we are always referred to as Bule, Sponsor. If you are thinking of marriage, advise your lovely that you are poor like them, they will soon walk on you. Money is the driver.
Hi sivio. Integrating and being accepted into another culture has significant challenges, it's true. Thanks for saying hi.
No
Ha! Now here's a man with conviction. Thanks for your input, George.
Marriage is for making babies , otherwise it's pretty pointless , it's not always a good idea 🙄🤔🤗
The idea of company sounds OK, and someone to edit videos..Joking. :)
What about the elephant in the room which is are they entitled to your assets etc if things go pear shaped? I've got no idea how all that works in Indonesia
I'm also not sure exactly how that side of things work, tw. I think you'd have to understand things before taking the plunge.
come on man If ask that question that means no
Maybe you're right.
Pakailah bahasa indonesia jika membeii sesuatu dibali,mungkin anda akan diberi harga "lokal",bukan harga "bule" ... 😁😆
Itu akan menyenangkan. Terkadang saya mendapatkan harga yang bagus tetapi tidak selalu. Thank you for saying hi.
Well, keep being sugar Daddy...if you married you can't flirting anymore ..
For sure there's no flirting if taking on the serious business of a partner.
@fiascodagama1 you can't be serious... Not the real you...just being you...the avonturir..
Hhhmmm ... Not recommend for me... In the end people just love your money money money 💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑
But if you want just some fun, I can help you ❤❤❤
If you find yourself with people only after your money, you maybe attracting the wrong people for some reason. have fun.
Stop teasing and wear a white shirt 😅
Ha! Once you put one of them on...
I say go for it. Indonesians make the best wifes. My wife of 17 years is the best partner. Her forthright attitude and will is beautiful. She is not a pushover and her anger is impressive. I call her a little banshi and pointed at rude backpackers in Darwin they chose to dive into the window of a taxi to avoid their destruction. We still laugh about it years later(:-)
I think it's a misconception that Southeast Asian women are submissive or subservient - most all the ones i know are really assertive. Happy for your long partnership, MrT.
What's the point? None...
I think there a few things going for it, buddyhell.
"how many sunset can u watch"?..dirty n boring....
Bali isn't for everyone, it's true, raymond.