Yeah, tattoos are stylish, hats are stylish. This video has kinda awful advice. Women are generally looking more for a good personality than looking like Kernal Sanders
Women don’t like men who give off an incel vibe. Condescending or hateful. Women don’t like men that smell unless it is from actually working. Women don’t like men who can’t make a joke or laugh at themselves. Women don’t like men who treat people like wait staff poorly. They don’t like handsy guys. Been married over fifty years to a guy who wears a fedora. We met when he stood up and offered me his seat.
I'm 31 years old and to be honest, I don't care anymore what women like or don't like. There are many things men don't like about todays modern women, but women never think of changing their style and behaviour.
Well hey man, you can always die broken and alone👍. Or.....take accountability for yourself and find the great ones who are out there waiting for a great guy.
I have a couple of Stetson Open Roads that I always wear. I wear them because I like them. I don’t care what anyone else thinks. I get compliments weekly on them. Wear what you want and don’t care what anyone else thinks … be yourself.
@@richardmartin4494 I concur, wear what you want, be yourself, and don't care what others think. My collection also includes Stetson, along with Akubra, Tilley, and a few others.
69-year-old male subscriber here… SoCal resident. I’m tempted to say I couldn’t care less, but actually you’re performing a great service… So I will do you a solid in return… In 30 or 40 years you will realize how absolutely ridiculous it is it is to try to please women.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
I saw a whole comment section on Instagram once where they were arguing about man or hear and women kept saying ick. Like can you please find another synonym for dislike?? There’s so many! People saying ick is a pet peeve of mine.
This correct in western civilzation. The biggest turn on is good sex, learn how to brake her ego and fuck the living shit out of her and no one with money will take her from you. Invest in good sex guys
if you talk about having sex with random women or falling in love its all about attraction aka looks so your height, face, proper body composition (not big you dont need muscles you just need proper not skinny not fat) and from "cheats" good hairstyle or rather not having bad one and good fiting clothes but something like black t shirt will be propably the best option, woman that care about money are with you only to use you and will marry you take your many and leave to good looking brokie. Look how bad Andrew Tates girls look he is simply bad looking face wise, money wont give you love. You guys try to sound you are mad that some women want money but truth is you wish and hope they will because if money wont be enough you simply doesnt have even an chance. Women are the same as men they also want good looking and their age, that cope that men peak at 35s is just cope, you look the best in 20s and you all know it because i am sure you know guys that had girlfriends from class etc in second hand oversize clothes just because they are tall and good looking. The only thing you can do is just have good diet so you look your best, and dont wear horrible looking clothes/hairstyles.
Women never stop asking for whatever they want to be changed or improved. But what about them? Have you seen the way most women go dressed? In order to ask for a Cary Grant make sure you are a Rita Hayworth.
If a woman is not going to like you because of some of the things you wear, then perhaps she is not a good fit for you. Obviously be sensible in what you wear and look your best but you also need to wear what you’re comfortable with and be who you are, most important attributes is how you treat others and how you PRESENT YOURSELF attitude wise. If it’s your clothes that she hates, or how you style your hair, again, maybe she’s NOT a good fit for you. Just my two cents worth.💁🏼♂️
I don’t agree with everything you’re saying in your videos however I do applaud your goal of teaching younger guys the basics of good manners and smart dressing.
I am a woman - Additional turn-offs include, a man of any age wearing a baseball style cap backwards. It makes them look immature and not from a good background. Plus, men who wear hats all the time look like they are hiding something. Even if they are bald, it is preferable to see them as they really are. And please gentlemen, always take your hat off indoors.
This is about the only sensible thing that I learned while in the military about 50 years ago! Hat or cap or whatever off as soon as there is a roof over the head!
I occasionally wear my cap backwards when wearing spectacles for driving and forgot to switch it back. Thankfully I am not conscious of how people think of my background. I only wear a hat indoors whilst doing activities as I sweat quite easily and said cap tends to absorb it quite well. I also have caps for different days and events, white for a clean look and dark for I don't give a monkeys. I tend to wear a cap or hat to keep the sun off of my delicate bald patch, helps with the rain also if I have forgotten my brolly. 😂
To all the comments castigating women for being superficial or shallow for judging men on their clothes - the video is literally about STYLE that women do/don’t like. He literally asked them - so why blame them for answering? I have opinions on what I do and don’t like women wearing. It’s not a demand or a reason to get a divorce, it’s an opinion. Relax. Everyone wants to look good to other people. If not, maybe don’t watch the video…..
Nooo sie. You killed me with the Golf Polo shirts. I love them and I won’t give up on them. They are fresh, need no ironing, look amazing. Forget it. I will be a walking ick then. Thankfully I am happily married.
it was about sporty one in video, also people that hate them hate the cheap bad looking ones, if you have some wool / luxurious one or maybe cotton like from Ralp Lauren you are good to go. Its like people that wear wierd green/gray 7yo tshirts or sport material tshirts or bad graphic Ts or horrible looking dress shirts or wierd pattern ones, those look horrible but that doesnt mean you cant wear t shirts, i would argue black tshirt or navy/white shirt is best thing you can wear depending on situation
I can't understand how beanie is giving anyone the "ick". I might agree if we're talking about wearing large beanies all year round like some Jesse Pinkman, but a proper wool beanie is a must-have in winter and it can be quite stylish too.
I think it's how you wear it. If it's cold out and you wear one that fits and is pulled down and then neatly folded up at the brim like a navy man's "watch cap", then it looks sharp... but if you wear it slouchy with sweats, etc. like you plan to carry around a skateboard for your entire life, then women will ignore you.
@@Leif-s9w Yes, I agree. "Beanie" in the context of this video probably refers to the type worn by skateboarders and teenagers who wear them all day, everywhere. A decent watchcap or "wooly hat" in a nice wool and colour can look very good.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
You know something? I say that EXACT phrase every single time my family discusses fasion. Unfortunantly they don't seem to agree on that point most of the time lol.
hats also look good depending on the face shape most my genetic make up is celtic (50% breton 20% irish) so my face fits pretty well with a flat cap or cowboy hat and i often wear my own "whatzit" that being cavalier hats i made and they tend to fit my face well, there are plenty of different kinds of hats in the world that can look amazing its has more to do with what fits you
If you're middle-aged or older, and especially if you're black, Latin, or Mediterranean I think you can get away with a Panama, but if you're a younger guy just be aware it's difficult to pull off and people may get a neckbeard impression even if you're far removed from that culture. Flat caps are easier, but still a bit of an odd choice if you're not like actually Irish
@@trashbird2253 Yeah, I do see your point about it being difficult as a younger person to wear a fedora...I'm a middle aged bloke and when I began to wear fedora (or brimmed hats in general) the hat wore me, not me wearing the hat! In that I mean I was so self-conscious about the hat, I got myself in a real muddle. There came a point at which I said 'sod it' I like the hat, I'm gonna wear it. I now often get compliments about my head wear and I actually enjoy being a bit different because of hat choice. Regarding the flat caps: I'm not aware of any convention about Irish nationality wearing fat caps. Historically, everyone from aristocrats and kings to working men and women have worn flat caps. I say wear what you want! regards Tony
Regarding hats, I would say it's very seasonal. I receive(d) numerous compliments for my Panama-style sun hat during hot weather and similarly for my Icelandic-wool beanie in cold weather. I think with anything style-related, there has to be some sort of deliberate thought behind the choices and not worn as a "cool thing" or a meme-piece.
@@mtlicq It's a soft Boater, and it has a larger brim than usual (6cm, when most boaters have a 5cm brim), very useful for the strong sun of my city. It looks more like a 1950s boater than a 1920s one 🤝
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
A Fedora is for taller and slimmer men. I'm 172cm and an experienced hat seller in Jermyn Street, London advised me that I would " look like a mushroom" if I tried to wear one at my height. I chose a Trilby instead, which I wore if was on business ( I worked in banking at the time ) or on a night out with my girlfriend if I was wearing a suit, laced polished leather brogues etc. In her homeland in the Caribbean, I also wore a genuine Panama, which she loved as much as the Trilby (she is now my wife , incidentally ). Oh ,and I quite agree on conditioner. Never use it!
1) If you are good looking, there is no such thing as the "ick". Anything you wear will be fine. 2) If you are rich, there may be some "ick", but she will be willing to put up with it. 3) If you are short, it doesn't matter what you wear, you are ALWAYS the "ick".
Women can think whatever they want and I support them in that. I'll keep doing my thing whatever it is regardless of the opinion of majority of women - I'll wear pink skinny jeans inside out if I decide to.
Any clothing that has someone else’s name or logo is a no go, period. Do not be a walking billboard advertisement for some clothing company. Under armor is one of those brands. I would buy some of their stuff but for their name on it. They are not paying me so I will not wear it. Even then I don’t work under someone else. So h no!
Speaking as an older woman, I think this is a sign of young women being far too fashion oriented. It isn't so much a matter of WHAT men wear but HOW they wear it. I have never had a problem with how much money a man has, I earn my own. Clothes and shoes that are clean, well cared for and ironed or pressed will always say more about a man's character. It's how they treat me that matters.
I'm not in the target audience, but I'm glad to see younger men interested in looking smart. I'm an aging, retired boomer, and I still enjoy an opportunity to clean up. In the high school I attended, the dress code was coat and tie. Not uniform blazer and tie, but you had to pay attention to color coordination. I happen to be a veteran as well, so looking sharp in garrison duty made life easier. As for headwear, I wear a fedora, I wear a Homborg, in the summer, I wear a boater. If despite our host's advice, and choose to wear a dapper hat, and you can afford it, buy genuine fur felt hats. If your means doesn't allow for that, a wool felt hat will do, but it won't have a particularly long life. To extend a wool felt hat's life, I suggest an occasional coat of poly urethane on the underside of the brim, and cutting out the crown lining and poly that. You can then put the lining back in the crown when it dries, and tape it in with duct tape inside the sweat band. Perhaps its because I'm older, but I'm often complimented by a wide spectrum of people regarding my hats. Unless you're doing outdoor chores, or exercise, a wool touque is gauche. Particularly when you see detectives on cop shows wearing them with an overcoat. That will certainly slum down the look. I'll wear a ball cap if I'm laboring outdoors, or during exercise. Fifteen years ago after a sudden drop in weight, I gave up on belts most of the time. I'm even thinner now, but still have a pot belly,and wear grip belts with shorts in the summer, but with trou I wear galluses. Trousers don't ride down my waist anymore. They're not cheap, and you should get at least three or four pair of varying colors or patterns. You should usually go for those made of non-stretch fabric for longer life. For forty years I've been bemoaning logoed T's. Christ in a creche, I always though it was in bad taste! As for my drawers, I don't care what any woman thinks of my boxers or what pattern they may have. I want my junk to breathe without restraint!
I get compliments on my flat caps/ivy caps all the time from women. I'm always told its the baseball caps women don't want to see on men over 30. Beanie hats fit fine in cold weather, otherwise they look silly in warm weather. Like anything you will find women who love/hate facial hair, baldness, etc as well as hats on men, but to blanket say no hats is very wrong IMO.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
So far got to 70 without ever wearing a hat, apart from my school cap. Fortunately I’ve still got hair. I did try on a fedora and that is the way I’d go when dressing in my overcoat. Fortunately as an artist, I am aware of colour and can mix and match shirts, jackets and trousers to good effect. Belt socks and shoes to compliment. Styles to vary, depending on the venue. Scarves? Can be a bit pretentious. I think to keep it authentic, keep it weather oriented. No labels. They are for the insecure. Shorts are for playing sports or the beach only. Where are the lynx in golf? Please excuse the awful pun, but you started it. Ah ha, I prefer boxer briefs, black blue or grey. Aussie shampoo does a good job. Sorry, not wanting to set up competition, but just confirming a lot of what you say. I was stuck in suits all of my working life, so settled for jeans and a sweater in free time. Hallelujah freedom, but adhering to the classic smart casual as often as I can. All the best with the younger generation in these interesting times.
Nothing tops a suited up man better than a nice fedora. Period. YOUNG women may not like it but GROWN women appreciate it. There's a big difference between a kid wearing "Dads" hat and trying to look cool and DAD wearing his hat and owning it.
Well young women (under 35) is the future, and they don't give AF about your hat. If you are 50 and you want a woman who is also 50, you might have a chance to get some points on that hat
What part of "Suited up" did you miss? If you don't wear a hat, thats perfectly fine, if you're wearing a suit and want to wear a hat, then a Fedora tops it the best. Period! But, just like that suit, it has to FIT you properly. Besides, I'm too old for woman 35 and under and I don't care what they think.
Living in the Arizona desert, I wear a straw fedora to protect my face and ears from the sun. However, I don't wear it in a restaurant, Courtroom or at night.
+1 for the golf style. Tired of seeing people show up at the driving range in tracksuits... Also, as a barber, the 2 in 1 thing has *some* merit. The molecules in a 2 in 1 shampoo are diluted to create said product, which makes it not as effective for either washing or conditioning hair. That said, I do think that to find this a turn off is plain odd. I also agree that conditioning hair for men with short hair is utterly pointless; as I also only shampoo for a stronger, more textured finish.
Gents, If you're still "bamboozled" I'll make it real simple: They just want Chad. A woman would sooner hook up with Chad wearing flip flops and cargo shorts over an average guy in a tailored fit wool suit.
As a gentleman with significant male pattern baldness, a hat outside is a must, and a brimmed hat protecting the ears is all the better. I will wear a fedora or other large brimmed hat regardless of female opinion because the protection offered far outweighs their views on the matter.
I bought a straw federa for the summer. I get mixed reactions. Some like it some don't. The thing is at some point you just are going to need a hat. Your having a bad hairday or going to get it cut & need somthing to cover it. If you're wearing a suit, a baseball cap looks bad. The only options are fedora's or flat caps or newsboy caps
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
A gentleman must stay true to himself, but also take other people's feelings into account. If you want a fine lady, then don't dress like, or act like, an adolescent, or a vulgar cad. If you have standards for the women you get close to, then so should they. I don't want a woman who dresses immaturely or like a prostitute, because I don't want the relationship issues that come with such people. The shorts mentioned are for boys. I would never wear them. The shiny knit shirts for golf would be paired with compatible fabrics by anyone with an aesthetic sense; on or off the course. Undergarments should first be chosen for health and comfort, until sharing bedroom activities. I might loose the starch from my man-staff if my woman wore hideous underthings, my dear great-great grandmama wore. I want some consideration from the opposite sex, so I should give some.
What real women want in a man is kindness, gentleness, strength, humor, capabilities, protection, looks. Too much "what women want" is too much woman splaining for me and masculinity as a whole
Classic gentleman's headgear is fine, IF you are pairing it with the appropriate attire. A fedora does not look good on a man in shorts and sandals. Worn with a full suit (that term includes a neck tie) they can look sharp. Also be aware that the "classic" look was typically worn by men in an age when facial hair was not in style. Oddly I saw a homburg last winter, which I can't remember seeing in my lifetime. Even more oddly it looked good on the man. He was middle aged, had a short and very neatly trimmed beard and was wearing a full three piece suit. I was so shocked that I suspect I may have broken one of the polite rules of society by staring for a moment. Yes, classic hats can work. But usually not with contemporary fashions.
No matter what you wear there are always some people who are not gonna like it and if you prefer others opinion rather than your own liking just means you lack confidence and crave for attention which is the biggest "ick" itself. Nice suit BTW.
You intentionally clicked on a video about what women find unattractive then complain that said video gives advice on the topic. What did you expect? Attention-seeking behavior
@@evansmith2018 I commented to give my opinion. Just like everyone else. I also don't agree with what he said. Is that also not allowed? I guess all you need to be an expert on a subject is a UA-cam channel.
A) I am regularly complimented on my hats by women. A few days ago it happened three times in one store, it was very reassuring. B) The simple act of doffing one's hat is seen as both charming and gallant by many women past of the age of giggling. C) That is a trilby being shown, not a fedora.
Let's get one thing straight for the record, I ain't dressing up to impress chicks, I do it cause I like what I wear. I don't feel like greasing up my hair? I'm wearing a flat cap or my fedora (which I bought the day after my 18th birthday, it's not a hat, it's MY hat. Broads can deal with it). Socks, I don't even care to pair them up, I wear tall engineer boots, I can squat down and you'd still see polished black leather. Look at the silver buckle toots.
I don't dress to impress - or attract - anyone. I go with comfort and practicality. I live in South Africa and with my bald head, I will sometimes wear a hat - even though I don't particularly like hats. Any problem with that, talk to the hand.
You can often just use a knife (preferably a torn knife) to remove the logos from clothing. Logos are often just stiched on and I find that it simply looks better when I remove them.
It’s all about being appropriate for the situation or activity. I’d dress very different for a cycling date than a dinner date. Discussing clothing entirely as a fashion topic tells me this is all for people who don’t have lives in the real world.
If I took my wife's styling advice seriously, I'd look like a dork. On another note, when she gets compliments on her outfit, I bought it for her. Women don't necessarily have a better sense of style, let alone for menswear.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
Ironically the fedora was originally considered a casual hat but is now seen as a dress hat 🤷🤷. For daily casual wear just stick to flat caps or single color no logo ball caps.
@@kennethgates5790yes, suits were considered casual back then too, my point is that the fedora is only meant to be worn with a suit which is considered formal today (unfortunately).
I think it also depends on what style of casual clothing you are wearing. My fedora looks great with my style of casual clothing. In all honesty though, I just wear what makes me feel good.
I’m bald so I must wear a hat in the sun. And I live in cold climate so during the winter a beanie or other warm thing is needed too. When your hat has a purpose and is not only for trying to be stylish, I hope women will forgive 😄 (at least I don’t have an issue with the shampoo 😅)
It's a shame for me that the Fedora have that kind of bad fame, even if it's not my favorite hat. And even worse for me, the "Neckbeard" meme doesn't even have any Fedoras there, those are TRILBYS! (Very ugly trilbys to be honest)
I wear a Fedora, not a trilby, with a suit or blazer. I have never gotten any negative remarks, only compliments. But I don’t look like that obese guy in the snapshot. I don’t think you have to as good looking as John Hamm to make it work. Wear your fedora the way Dana Andrews or Humphrey Bogart would: properly sized, properly perched on your head, not trying to be cute. Grown men are not cute.
@@michaelblazin4093 Very well said sir! Fedoras are beautiful hats, and when they are nice sized (Brim and crown) and you carry them with a proper ensemble, they look excellent. I think the reason for me to dislike trilbys is the size, the short brim, and the short crown. For me, it looks as an incomplete version of a Fedora
A "beanie" is a utilitarian type of hat, and I see no reason for anyone to dislike it. A cashmere beanie in a classic color, like dark blue or gray, could hardly offend anyone. Speaking of underwear... in most situations, women don't notice what underwear the man is wearing. I, personally, think high quality boxers, like the ones sold by Polo RL look better than any other type of male underwear.
@@countalma9800 wear the underwear that you find to be most comfortable after all a woman doesn’t feel the discomfort of having your family jewels being crushed by tight underwear.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
Question: I almost always wear my dress shirts loose-hanging, not tucked-in, unless I’m wearing a suit, and this includes at the office. They are always ironed and neat. I do not wear a tie. I also always neatly roll up the sleeves of said shirt to my elbow, because it’s easier to work that way. Any comments?
I am married and do not care much about what women want. I don't like their obesity and tats and nose rings. I dress well and keep in shape for me, my family, and the Lord. I also think it is a sign of respect for other people and myself. Great video though and you made it interesting, James.
If you are going to wear jeans, absolutely no skinny jeans. Also, get jeans that are long enough to go down to your heel of your tennis shoes or boots. You do not want to be walking around in high-water jeans
So, beanies are ick, fedoras too. Baseball caps are apparently okay, but obviously I wouldn't wear it with anything other than street style. As a bald man, this doesn't leave me with too many options. Except for, of course, not worrying about what those women think.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want! Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
10:32 yeah, well, I wanna see them wear Victoria's Secret all the time, and it doesn't happen, though I concur with the tighty whities, unless the person is going for the Homer Simpson look
Well well well. 61yo here... and as much as I appreciate your style and tutoring, let me tell you something: I had been out when U said "Ick". It's a madeup bs word, by them. These obese, tat'ed, pierced 304's want you to style me, but they dont give anything equal in return? That's why I love my hat, my guitar and my band. Gone monk, they don't make no simp out of me.
I believe that no gentleman's look is complete without a proper hat; fedora, trilby, Panama or Squire Gordon cap, depending upon the occasion. I constantly get compliments from women (and men) of all ages on the fact that I wear a hat.
I like your videos but I humbly disagree with you here. I'll be 30 next year, I don't care about the opinions of random women about something as inane as a bucket hat. I live in a hot country, and me and wife like bucket hats.
It's sad how useful item can be percieved nowadays. I've started wearing hats 2 years ago, and it has been a practical habit ever since. I'm not going to stop because of predjudice. I hope that my behavior, and spreading the popularity of men headwear will contribute to bringing back hats as an atribute of a grown person, as I usually wear them with overcoats and sometimes with a suit, during morning commute to University. To all the hatted gentleman - this is the comment you were looking for, I hope you have a great day (tips fedora).
I’ve worn a cowboy hat for 40 years with no complaints. However, I’ve lived in Texas and Wyoming most of my life. Wrangler cowboy cut are a given; glad they meet your approval.i believe women are still looking for real men and many can tell if you meet the standard by the way you dress.
Wear what you like! I don’t know what the basis of your investigation is but clearly there are numerous of styles that are appreciated by women. Nothing wrong in being a gentleman but I fear you’re out on vague territory here. Maybe not attached to the time we live in.
No woman I've known has ever had any issues with me wearing my hats, most of which are fedoras, top hats and Richard Wagner berets. Also, the solution to fix the rear flashing problem is neither a belt nor a properly tucked in shirt but high rise trousers with braces in the first place.
@@edyu21 Perhaps. But: If you WANT to wear a suit and you do and the company holds that against you, why would you even bother to work for them? The culture obviously doesn't match with you. I do not believe in corporate dress codes at all, they don't make sense, in neither way. I just want to dress in a way I feel suits me - and in my case, that happens to be classic elegant clothing. So I don't bother with people that neither appreciate that nor even tolerate it.
I can see most of those points. One does need to move away from badly outdated styles, but without being on the leading edge at all times. It can be too pretentious to be overly style-focused. I can't go with the boxer brief, though. I've never found any that don't ride up the legs after a couple of washings. It is briefs always, preferably black. They are bold and confident. It is unmanly to be excessively self conscious about what you've got.
If you are really good looking you can wear anything, hats, socks, kilts anything. If you are not classically chiseled it doesn't matter what you wear women are going to hate it.
Women covered in tattoos don't like hats.
Got it.
Yeah, tattoos are stylish, hats are stylish. This video has kinda awful advice. Women are generally looking more for a good personality than looking like Kernal Sanders
Women don’t like men who give off an incel vibe. Condescending or hateful. Women don’t like men that smell unless it is from actually working. Women don’t like men who can’t make a joke or laugh at themselves. Women don’t like men who treat people like wait staff poorly. They don’t like handsy guys.
Been married over fifty years to a guy who wears a fedora. We met when he stood up and offered me his seat.
…and these women walking around in holey and torn jeans - they probably don't like hats too. 😂
Agree, Harrison Ford looked good in a Fedora, and Clint Eastwood looked good in a western hat.
Tattoos, period, yuck. So sick of this counter-culture infection. Along with piercings everywhere. Disgusting and dirty looking.
I'm 31 years old and to be honest, I don't care anymore what women like or don't like. There are many things men don't like about todays modern women, but women never think of changing their style and behaviour.
If you want a woman you'll need to care, women who dress like this either search for simps or don't search anyone for a relationship
Why should they change? They don’t need to
@@MrMelonMan96We don't need to as well
Amen brother!
Well hey man, you can always die broken and alone👍. Or.....take accountability for yourself and find the great ones who are out there waiting for a great guy.
I will never give up my fedora hats, and have received many compliments when I wear them.
Exactly! 😉 And remember, women want their man to be dominant, not listening to anyone, including their woman.
I have a couple of Stetson Open Roads that I always wear. I wear them because I like them. I don’t care what anyone else thinks. I get compliments weekly on them. Wear what you want and don’t care what anyone else thinks … be yourself.
@@richardmartin4494 I concur, wear what you want, be yourself, and don't care what others think. My collection also includes Stetson, along with Akubra, Tilley, and a few others.
69-year-old male subscriber here… SoCal resident. I’m tempted to say I couldn’t care less, but actually you’re performing a great service…
So I will do you a solid in return… In 30 or 40 years you will realize how absolutely ridiculous it is it is to try to please women.
"Ick?" Ladies, it's called a "turn-off." We've been using that word for decades. We don't need a new one.
I'm turned off by any grown woman who uses an embicilic term such as "ick" unironically.
Indeed. An emotionally mature woman would just say "turn off". "ickiness" is a word I associate with toddlers and young children
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
Lol.
I saw a whole comment section on Instagram once where they were arguing about man or hear and women kept saying ick.
Like can you please find another synonym for dislike?? There’s so many! People saying ick is a pet peeve of mine.
Woman here who loves classic hats. 🤷♀
That's why I bought a fedora :) .. and I love them too...I couldn't take a woman seriously if she used the word 'ick' seeing a fedora!
Gentlemen don't waste their time on women so lacking in eloquence that they describe an unattractive style decision as "giving them the ick"
The biggest turn off from women is if you don't have money. Forget clothing.
This is the correct answer.
See the Crazy/Hot Matrix for explanation.
1) Looks 2) Money 3) Then clothes
This correct in western civilzation.
The biggest turn on is good sex, learn how to brake her ego and fuck the living shit out of her and no one with money will take her from you.
Invest in good sex guys
@@classicsciencefictionhorro1665 The triple 6: 6 ft, 6 figures, 6 pack
if you talk about having sex with random women or falling in love its all about attraction aka looks so your height, face, proper body composition (not big you dont need muscles you just need proper not skinny not fat) and from "cheats" good hairstyle or rather not having bad one and good fiting clothes but something like black t shirt will be propably the best option, woman that care about money are with you only to use you and will marry you take your many and leave to good looking brokie. Look how bad Andrew Tates girls look he is simply bad looking face wise, money wont give you love. You guys try to sound you are mad that some women want money but truth is you wish and hope they will because if money wont be enough you simply doesnt have even an chance. Women are the same as men they also want good looking and their age, that cope that men peak at 35s is just cope, you look the best in 20s and you all know it because i am sure you know guys that had girlfriends from class etc in second hand oversize clothes just because they are tall and good looking. The only thing you can do is just have good diet so you look your best, and dont wear horrible looking clothes/hairstyles.
I'm a hat wearer and I don't care about what they think
Wearing a plain white T-shirt to me is like wearing an undershirt, so I prefer dark colored T-shirts.
Women never stop asking for whatever they want to be changed or improved. But what about them?
Have you seen the way most women go dressed?
In order to ask for a Cary Grant make sure you are a Rita Hayworth.
Hmm. This list seems a little shallow. Any woman who nitpicks on these kinds of things about a man is not worth any kind of attention.
These dislikes go into the garbage bin when Chad is 6 feet +, 6 pack abs, and a 6+ figure income.
If a woman is not going to like you because of some of the things you wear, then perhaps she is not a good fit for you. Obviously be sensible in what you wear and look your best but you also need to wear what you’re comfortable with and be who you are, most important attributes is how you treat others and how you PRESENT YOURSELF attitude wise. If it’s your clothes that she hates, or how you style your hair, again, maybe she’s NOT a good fit for you. Just my two cents worth.💁🏼♂️
Agreed, be true to yourself, and find a woman that appreciates you for what you are.
Absolutely right!
I stopped wearing polo shirts because I hate to keep telling people "I don't work here!"
That happened to me all the time when I worked my old job...
I don’t agree with everything you’re saying in your videos however I do applaud your goal of teaching younger guys the basics of good manners and smart dressing.
I am a woman - Additional turn-offs include, a man of any age wearing a baseball style cap backwards. It makes them look immature and not from a good background. Plus, men who wear hats all the time look like they are hiding something. Even if they are bald, it is preferable to see them as they really are. And please gentlemen, always take your hat off indoors.
This is about the only sensible thing that I learned while in the military about 50 years ago! Hat or cap or whatever off as soon as there is a roof over the head!
Love your points. I would just point out those of us without coverage up there need to protect our scalps from the sun.....
George Carlin had a great bit about just that thing. ua-cam.com/video/oIk4RkjEOAc/v-deo.htmlsi=p3uvPkITAylk6QHA
I occasionally wear my cap backwards when wearing spectacles for driving and forgot to switch it back. Thankfully I am not conscious of how people think of my background. I only wear a hat indoors whilst doing activities as I sweat quite easily and said cap tends to absorb it quite well. I also have caps for different days and events, white for a clean look and dark for I don't give a monkeys. I tend to wear a cap or hat to keep the sun off of my delicate bald patch, helps with the rain also if I have forgotten my brolly. 😂
To all the comments castigating women for being superficial or shallow for judging men on their clothes - the video is literally about STYLE that women do/don’t like. He literally asked them - so why blame them for answering? I have opinions on what I do and don’t like women wearing. It’s not a demand or a reason to get a divorce, it’s an opinion. Relax. Everyone wants to look good to other people. If not, maybe don’t watch the video…..
Very well said.
I favour a sombrero, hot pants and skis.
Nooo sie. You killed me with the Golf Polo shirts. I love them and I won’t give up on them. They are fresh, need no ironing, look amazing. Forget it. I will be a walking ick then. Thankfully I am happily married.
it was about sporty one in video, also people that hate them hate the cheap bad looking ones, if you have some wool / luxurious one or maybe cotton like from Ralp Lauren you are good to go. Its like people that wear wierd green/gray 7yo tshirts or sport material tshirts or bad graphic Ts or horrible looking dress shirts or wierd pattern ones, those look horrible but that doesnt mean you cant wear t shirts, i would argue black tshirt or navy/white shirt is best thing you can wear depending on situation
I can't understand how beanie is giving anyone the "ick". I might agree if we're talking about wearing large beanies all year round like some Jesse Pinkman, but a proper wool beanie is a must-have in winter and it can be quite stylish too.
Probably this is more about guys who wear beanies all of the time including indoors and all year round like you said.
I think it's how you wear it.
If it's cold out and you wear one that fits and is pulled down and then neatly folded up at the brim like a navy man's "watch cap", then it looks sharp... but if you wear it slouchy with sweats, etc. like you plan to carry around a skateboard for your entire life, then women will ignore you.
@@Leif-s9w Yes, I agree. "Beanie" in the context of this video probably refers to the type worn by skateboarders and teenagers who wear them all day, everywhere. A decent watchcap or "wooly hat" in a nice wool and colour can look very good.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
@@Leif-s9w yeah like i wear a tuque or beanie in the winter with a scarf and jacket its standard winter clothes
Logos? The company is not paying me to wear their advertising. Never have, never will!
Nice video.
You know something? I say that EXACT phrase every single time my family discusses fasion. Unfortunantly they don't seem to agree on that point most of the time lol.
exactly.
I concur. Logos make people look like tools.
James, you need to invest in undershirts when you’re going to wear a jacket
"She don't like my hat, she can't ride my horse." Roy Rogers
I'll wear what I want.
Fedoras can be very attractive. I wear Panamas in summer and a mix of tweed baker boy/flat cap and fedoras depending on the weather...
Me too! 👍🏻
hats also look good depending on the face shape most my genetic make up is celtic (50% breton 20% irish) so my face fits pretty well with a flat cap or cowboy hat and i often wear my own "whatzit" that being cavalier hats i made and they tend to fit my face well, there are plenty of different kinds of hats in the world that can look amazing its has more to do with what fits you
If you're middle-aged or older, and especially if you're black, Latin, or Mediterranean I think you can get away with a Panama, but if you're a younger guy just be aware it's difficult to pull off and people may get a neckbeard impression even if you're far removed from that culture. Flat caps are easier, but still a bit of an odd choice if you're not like actually Irish
@@trashbird2253 flat caps are also the male version of berets for the french so it's more an Irish uk and french thing
@@trashbird2253 Yeah, I do see your point about it being difficult as a younger person to wear a fedora...I'm a middle aged bloke and when I began to wear fedora (or brimmed hats in general) the hat wore me, not me wearing the hat! In that I mean I was so self-conscious about the hat, I got myself in a real muddle. There came a point at which I said 'sod it' I like the hat, I'm gonna wear it. I now often get compliments about my head wear and I actually enjoy being a bit different because of hat choice.
Regarding the flat caps: I'm not aware of any convention about Irish nationality wearing fat caps. Historically, everyone from aristocrats and kings to working men and women have worn flat caps.
I say wear what you want!
regards
Tony
I like hats - fedoras, trilbies and flat caps - and my wife likes them on me. That’s the only validation I need!
Thank you for helping me filtering out superficial women.
Regarding hats, I would say it's very seasonal. I receive(d) numerous compliments for my Panama-style sun hat during hot weather and similarly for my Icelandic-wool beanie in cold weather. I think with anything style-related, there has to be some sort of deliberate thought behind the choices and not worn as a "cool thing" or a meme-piece.
Me too! I have received so many compliments for my Boater hat. The entire thing is to know how to style your garments.
@@elmanur8820 is it a 1920's kind of boater hat?
@@mtlicq It's a soft Boater, and it has a larger brim than usual (6cm, when most boaters have a 5cm brim), very useful for the strong sun of my city. It looks more like a 1950s boater than a 1920s one 🤝
i wear cavalier hats that i make and there are versions of hats for summer you can use often made of straw
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
A Fedora is for taller and slimmer men. I'm 172cm and an experienced hat seller in Jermyn Street, London advised me that I would " look like a mushroom" if I tried to wear one at my height. I chose a Trilby instead, which I wore if was on business ( I worked in banking at the time ) or on a night out with my girlfriend if I was wearing a suit, laced polished leather brogues etc.
In her homeland in the Caribbean, I also wore a genuine Panama, which she loved as much as the Trilby (she is now my wife , incidentally ).
Oh ,and I quite agree on conditioner. Never use it!
1) If you are good looking, there is no such thing as the "ick". Anything you wear will be fine.
2) If you are rich, there may be some "ick", but she will be willing to put up with it.
3) If you are short, it doesn't matter what you wear, you are ALWAYS the "ick".
Women can think whatever they want and I support them in that. I'll keep doing my thing whatever it is regardless of the opinion of majority of women - I'll wear pink skinny jeans inside out if I decide to.
Two-in-one shampoo conditioner???? Any woman who would judge a guy on that ain’t worth it.
Any clothing that has someone else’s name or logo is a no go, period. Do not be a walking billboard advertisement for some clothing company. Under armor is one of those brands. I would buy some of their stuff but for their name on it. They are not paying me so I will not wear it. Even then I don’t work under someone else. So h no!
Speaking as an older woman, I think this is a sign of young women being far too fashion oriented. It isn't so much a matter of WHAT men wear but HOW they wear it. I have never had a problem with how much money a man has, I earn my own. Clothes and shoes that are clean, well cared for and ironed or pressed will always say more about a man's character. It's how they treat me that matters.
I'm not in the target audience, but I'm glad to see younger men interested in looking smart. I'm an aging, retired boomer, and I still enjoy an opportunity to clean up. In the high school I attended, the dress code was coat and tie. Not uniform blazer and tie, but you had to pay attention to color coordination. I happen to be a veteran as well, so looking sharp in garrison duty made life easier.
As for headwear, I wear a fedora, I wear a Homborg, in the summer, I wear a boater. If despite our host's advice, and choose to wear a dapper hat, and you can afford it, buy genuine fur felt hats. If your means doesn't allow for that, a wool felt hat will do, but it won't have a particularly long life. To extend a wool felt hat's life, I suggest an occasional coat of poly urethane on the underside of the brim, and cutting out the crown lining and poly that. You can then put the lining back in the crown when it dries, and tape it in with duct tape inside the sweat band. Perhaps its because I'm older, but I'm often complimented by a wide spectrum of people regarding my hats. Unless you're doing outdoor chores, or exercise, a wool touque is gauche. Particularly when you see detectives on cop shows wearing them with an overcoat. That will certainly slum down the look. I'll wear a ball cap if I'm laboring outdoors, or during exercise. Fifteen years ago after a sudden drop in weight, I gave up on belts most of the time. I'm even thinner now, but still have a pot belly,and wear grip belts with shorts in the summer, but with trou I wear galluses. Trousers don't ride down my waist anymore. They're not cheap, and you should get at least three or four pair of varying colors or patterns. You should usually go for those made of non-stretch fabric for longer life.
For forty years I've been bemoaning logoed T's. Christ in a creche, I always though it was in bad taste!
As for my drawers, I don't care what any woman thinks of my boxers or what pattern they may have. I want my junk to breathe without restraint!
Glad to hear about the skinny jeans, They were always a fashion crime on men. Basically leggings.
Skinny jeans are unwearable for men who have a large package. If women are too dumb to figure this out, let them be happy with their choice, lmao.
Leggings are comfy and stylish though. I want a man that wears something sexy like that
I get compliments on my flat caps/ivy caps all the time from women. I'm always told its the baseball caps women don't want to see on men over 30. Beanie hats fit fine in cold weather, otherwise they look silly in warm weather. Like anything you will find women who love/hate facial hair, baldness, etc as well as hats on men, but to blanket say no hats is very wrong IMO.
Every guy with a full head of hair thinks this but in time they will appreciate not getting sunburnt on their head 🤷🤷🤣🤣🤣.
@@kennethgates5790 As a mostly bald man, I heartily agree!!!
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
I would prefer fedora hat, because I hate baseball caps…
We should mention style mistakes that women make.
When I drove a Rolls Royce, it didn’t seem to matter what I wore.
Well I assume you were wearing a black suit And peaked cap. Rolls owners seldom drive their own cars.
@ I love driving fine cars, including my Bentley, Jaguars, Mercedes S class, BMW 740i...sometimes my wife would be the chauffeur 😀
I am surprised you didn't mention cargo shirts.
"No one wants to see this side of the moon." I need to remember that :)
So far got to 70 without ever wearing a hat, apart from my school cap. Fortunately I’ve still got hair. I did try on a fedora and that is the way I’d go when dressing in my overcoat.
Fortunately as an artist, I am aware of colour and can mix and match shirts, jackets and trousers to good effect. Belt socks and shoes to compliment. Styles to vary, depending on the venue.
Scarves? Can be a bit pretentious. I think to keep it authentic, keep it weather oriented.
No labels. They are for the insecure.
Shorts are for playing sports or the beach only.
Where are the lynx in golf? Please excuse the awful pun, but you started it.
Ah ha, I prefer boxer briefs, black blue or grey.
Aussie shampoo does a good job.
Sorry, not wanting to set up competition, but just confirming a lot of what you say.
I was stuck in suits all of my working life, so settled for jeans and a sweater in free time. Hallelujah freedom, but adhering to the classic smart casual as often as I can.
All the best with the younger generation in these interesting times.
Nothing tops a suited up man better than a nice fedora. Period. YOUNG women may not like it but GROWN women appreciate it. There's a big difference between a kid wearing "Dads" hat and trying to look cool and DAD wearing his hat and owning it.
Yes. Who cares for young women. They are frivolous.
Amen to that 💯
SO true. Nothing sexier than a grown man in a fedora!
Well young women (under 35) is the future, and they don't give AF about your hat. If you are 50 and you want a woman who is also 50, you might have a chance to get some points on that hat
What part of "Suited up" did you miss? If you don't wear a hat, thats perfectly fine, if you're wearing a suit and want to wear a hat, then a Fedora tops it the best. Period!
But, just like that suit, it has to FIT you properly. Besides, I'm too old for woman 35 and under and I don't care what they think.
He’s wrong on the fedora. Pay $300+ for a fur felt fedora and women will compliment you.
Living in the Arizona desert, I wear a straw fedora to protect my face and ears from the sun. However, I don't wear it in a restaurant, Courtroom or at night.
+1 for the golf style. Tired of seeing people show up at the driving range in tracksuits... Also, as a barber, the 2 in 1 thing has *some* merit. The molecules in a 2 in 1 shampoo are diluted to create said product, which makes it not as effective for either washing or conditioning hair. That said, I do think that to find this a turn off is plain odd.
I also agree that conditioning hair for men with short hair is utterly pointless; as I also only shampoo for a stronger, more textured finish.
Remind me to make a video called: "Style decisions l don't give a toss whether women HATE". Oh no, it would be too long to fit UA-cam standards.
The military issued me white briefs, if they are good enough for the military they are good enough for women.
Gents, If you're still "bamboozled" I'll make it real simple: They just want Chad. A woman would sooner hook up with Chad wearing flip flops and cargo shorts over an average guy in a tailored fit wool suit.
As a gentleman with significant male pattern baldness, a hat outside is a must, and a brimmed hat protecting the ears is all the better. I will wear a fedora or other large brimmed hat regardless of female opinion because the protection offered far outweighs their views on the matter.
Plain clothing are best with no logos
I bought a straw federa for the summer. I get mixed reactions. Some like it some don't. The thing is at some point you just are going to need a hat. Your having a bad hairday or going to get it cut & need somthing to cover it. If you're wearing a suit, a baseball cap looks bad. The only options are fedora's or flat caps or newsboy caps
Who gives a toss what these "never enough" creatures want. Stop putting men on the back foot to justify your channel.
Great reply ! Be an individual - your persona is you - something to be prouid of.
@@Chris-we7jx I do like your channel but it needs to be men first. Also different classes and cultures suite different hats!
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
A gentleman must stay true to himself, but also take other people's feelings into account. If you want a fine lady, then don't dress like, or act like, an adolescent, or a vulgar cad. If you have standards for the women you get close to, then so should they. I don't want a woman who dresses immaturely or like a prostitute, because I don't want the relationship issues that come with such people.
The shorts mentioned are for boys. I would never wear them. The shiny knit shirts for golf would be paired with compatible fabrics by anyone with an aesthetic sense; on or off the course.
Undergarments should first be chosen for health and comfort, until sharing bedroom activities. I might loose the starch from my man-staff if my woman wore hideous underthings, my dear great-great grandmama wore. I want some consideration from the opposite sex, so I should give some.
What real women want in a man is kindness, gentleness, strength, humor, capabilities, protection, looks. Too much "what women want" is too much woman splaining for me and masculinity as a whole
Classic gentleman's headgear is fine, IF you are pairing it with the appropriate attire. A fedora does not look good on a man in shorts and sandals. Worn with a full suit (that term includes a neck tie) they can look sharp. Also be aware that the "classic" look was typically worn by men in an age when facial hair was not in style. Oddly I saw a homburg last winter, which I can't remember seeing in my lifetime. Even more oddly it looked good on the man. He was middle aged, had a short and very neatly trimmed beard and was wearing a full three piece suit. I was so shocked that I suspect I may have broken one of the polite rules of society by staring for a moment. Yes, classic hats can work. But usually not with contemporary fashions.
As a lady , i agree about hats on men. Some men even wear then inside! Let us ladies wear the hats !
No matter what you wear there are always some people who are not gonna like it and if you prefer others opinion rather than your own liking just means you lack confidence and crave for attention which is the biggest "ick" itself.
Nice suit BTW.
I love hats. I also love the fact that as a grown adult man I can decide for myself what I like and don't like.
You intentionally clicked on a video about what women find unattractive then complain that said video gives advice on the topic. What did you expect? Attention-seeking behavior
@@evansmith2018 I commented to give my opinion. Just like everyone else. I also don't agree with what he said. Is that also not allowed? I guess all you need to be an expert on a subject is a UA-cam channel.
Men in skinny jeans just never works. Style disaster. Just don't do it.
I could not care less what women want. Men should never make themselves subservient to the ever changing whims of bird
A) I am regularly complimented on my hats by women. A few days ago it happened three times in one store, it was very reassuring.
B) The simple act of doffing one's hat is seen as both charming and gallant by many women past of the age of giggling.
C) That is a trilby being shown, not a fedora.
Let's get one thing straight for the record, I ain't dressing up to impress chicks, I do it cause I like what I wear. I don't feel like greasing up my hair? I'm wearing a flat cap or my fedora (which I bought the day after my 18th birthday, it's not a hat, it's MY hat. Broads can deal with it). Socks, I don't even care to pair them up, I wear tall engineer boots, I can squat down and you'd still see polished black leather. Look at the silver buckle toots.
I don't dress to impress - or attract - anyone. I go with comfort and practicality. I live in South Africa and with my bald head, I will sometimes wear a hat - even though I don't particularly like hats. Any problem with that, talk to the hand.
In my opinion ripped skinny jeans doesn’t belong on a man
I find beanies or baseball caps generally don’t belong on a man once you leave high school
You can often just use a knife (preferably a torn knife) to remove the logos from clothing. Logos are often just stiched on and I find that it simply looks better when I remove them.
It’s all about being appropriate for the situation or activity. I’d dress very different for a cycling date than a dinner date.
Discussing clothing entirely as a fashion topic tells me this is all for people who don’t have lives in the real world.
If I took my wife's styling advice seriously, I'd look like a dork. On another note, when she gets compliments on her outfit, I bought it for her. Women don't necessarily have a better sense of style, let alone for menswear.
Right! Don't take menswear advice from women. If you do, you will look like your mother bought your clothes.
If I like it and think it looks smart, from there on its her problem
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
I think the real problem with fedoras is using them with casual clothes. dress hats do not belong with casual clothes.
Indeed.
Ironically the fedora was originally considered a casual hat but is now seen as a dress hat 🤷🤷. For daily casual wear just stick to flat caps or single color no logo ball caps.
@@kennethgates5790yes, suits were considered casual back then too, my point is that the fedora is only meant to be worn with a suit which is considered formal today (unfortunately).
@ I totally agree and like I said in my daily casual outfits it usually a flat cap of some kind or a plain ball cap in a single color with no logos.
I think it also depends on what style of casual clothing you are wearing. My fedora looks great with my style of casual clothing. In all honesty though, I just wear what makes me feel good.
I’m bald so I must wear a hat in the sun. And I live in cold climate so during the winter a beanie or other warm thing is needed too. When your hat has a purpose and is not only for trying to be stylish, I hope women will forgive 😄 (at least I don’t have an issue with the shampoo 😅)
Ankle socks 😂😂 give me a break bro, they trippin.
I don’t use one as it only covers the tip😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ankle socks are what I wear to the gym - hells no to the crew socks.
It's a shame for me that the Fedora have that kind of bad fame, even if it's not my favorite hat. And even worse for me, the "Neckbeard" meme doesn't even have any Fedoras there, those are TRILBYS! (Very ugly trilbys to be honest)
I wear a Fedora, not a trilby, with a suit or blazer. I have never gotten any negative remarks, only compliments. But I don’t look like that obese guy in the snapshot. I don’t think you have to as good looking as John Hamm to make it work. Wear your fedora the way Dana Andrews or Humphrey Bogart would: properly sized, properly perched on your head, not trying to be cute. Grown men are not cute.
@@michaelblazin4093 Very well said sir! Fedoras are beautiful hats, and when they are nice sized (Brim and crown) and you carry them with a proper ensemble, they look excellent. I think the reason for me to dislike trilbys is the size, the short brim, and the short crown. For me, it looks as an incomplete version of a Fedora
The kneckbeard meme guy isn't wearing a real hat. It's a cheap costume hat
A "beanie" is a utilitarian type of hat, and I see no reason for anyone to dislike it. A cashmere beanie in a classic color, like dark blue or gray, could hardly offend anyone. Speaking of underwear... in most situations, women don't notice what underwear the man is wearing. I, personally, think high quality boxers, like the ones sold by Polo RL look better than any other type of male underwear.
@@countalma9800 wear the underwear that you find to be most comfortable after all a woman doesn’t feel the discomfort of having your family jewels being crushed by tight underwear.
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
Question: I almost always wear my dress shirts loose-hanging, not tucked-in, unless I’m wearing a suit, and this includes at the office. They are always ironed and neat. I do not wear a tie. I also always neatly roll up the sleeves of said shirt to my elbow, because it’s easier to work that way. Any comments?
I am married and do not care much about what women want. I don't like their obesity and tats and nose rings.
I dress well and keep in shape for me, my family, and the Lord. I also think it is a sign of respect for other people and myself.
Great video though and you made it interesting, James.
If you are going to wear jeans, absolutely no skinny jeans. Also, get jeans that are long enough to go down to your heel of your tennis shoes or boots. You do not want to be walking around in high-water jeans
So, beanies are ick, fedoras too. Baseball caps are apparently okay, but obviously I wouldn't wear it with anything other than street style. As a bald man, this doesn't leave me with too many options. Except for, of course, not worrying about what those women think.
Top hats are a timeless classic ...
Women 😄_ are they really know what they want!
Beanie is a good option for winter as a practical gear, they don't have to go outside so they can find such stuff ugly but if men catch cold then they'll die without food. Outfits aren't just for looks, clothing is mainly a practical thing. 😆 small brain has small vision.
10:32 yeah, well, I wanna see them wear Victoria's Secret all the time, and it doesn't happen, though I concur with the tighty whities, unless the person is going for the Homer Simpson look
Well well well. 61yo here... and as much as I appreciate your style and tutoring, let me tell you something: I had been out when U said "Ick".
It's a madeup bs word, by them. These obese, tat'ed, pierced 304's want you to style me, but they dont give anything equal in return? That's why I love my hat, my guitar and my band. Gone monk, they don't make no simp out of me.
This is why so many women are single and complaining that they can’t find a man.
I believe that no gentleman's look is complete without a proper hat; fedora, trilby, Panama or Squire Gordon cap, depending upon the occasion. I constantly get compliments from women (and men) of all ages on the fact that I wear a hat.
I like your videos but I humbly disagree with you here. I'll be 30 next year, I don't care about the opinions of random women about something as inane as a bucket hat. I live in a hot country, and me and wife like bucket hats.
It's sad how useful item can be percieved nowadays. I've started wearing hats 2 years ago, and it has been a practical habit ever since. I'm not going to stop because of predjudice. I hope that my behavior, and spreading the popularity of men headwear will contribute to bringing back hats as an atribute of a grown person, as I usually wear them with overcoats and sometimes with a suit, during morning commute to University.
To all the hatted gentleman - this is the comment you were looking for, I hope you have a great day (tips fedora).
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If you want to be taken seriously button your shirt. Never have more than the top button open!!
I’ve worn a cowboy hat for 40 years with no complaints. However, I’ve lived in Texas and Wyoming most of my life. Wrangler cowboy cut are a given; glad they meet your approval.i believe women are still looking for real men and many can tell if you meet the standard by the way you dress.
I'm in PA. It was 80 degrees today. Yes, I was rocking my Carhartt shorts.
Wear what you like! I don’t know what the basis of your investigation is but clearly there are numerous of styles that are appreciated by women. Nothing wrong in being a gentleman but I fear you’re out on vague territory here. Maybe not attached to the time we live in.
No woman I've known has ever had any issues with me wearing my hats, most of which are fedoras, top hats and Richard Wagner berets.
Also, the solution to fix the rear flashing problem is neither a belt nor a properly tucked in shirt but high rise trousers with braces in the first place.
A fashion designer from 1960s or 70s time travelled to 21st century.👍
Designers in the 60's and 70's had far far more interesting designs and colors than what he wears.
Let them hate, I wear whatever I feel like, they will never be satisfied or happy, the biggest turn off is moaning women
Funny you should say that, lots of guys get turned on when women moan....
If a fedora is not suitable, I will move a step forward and wear a homburg hat or a silk top hat!
I like Y fronts, they are comfy. As for footwear, if you are wearing shoes, make sure they are polished and shiny.
In California, it's weird to see you tuck in polo shirt or t shirt. I'd say even to tucking in shirt are weird unless you are wearing suits.
Thankfully, a bad reference does not compromise the fact itself.
@DJOttmar the interesting part is that if you wear suit to a job interview at a startup it can go against you.
@@edyu21 Perhaps. But: If you WANT to wear a suit and you do and the company holds that against you, why would you even bother to work for them? The culture obviously doesn't match with you. I do not believe in corporate dress codes at all, they don't make sense, in neither way. I just want to dress in a way I feel suits me - and in my case, that happens to be classic elegant clothing. So I don't bother with people that neither appreciate that nor even tolerate it.
Thankfully, I don't dress to attract or impress women.
I can see most of those points. One does need to move away from badly outdated styles, but without being on the leading edge at all times. It can be too pretentious to be overly style-focused.
I can't go with the boxer brief, though. I've never found any that don't ride up the legs after a couple of washings. It is briefs always, preferably black. They are bold and confident. It is unmanly to be excessively self conscious about what you've got.
Shoot, skinny jeans give me the ick too
If you wear a baseball cap it should not be on backwards. Especially once your age no longer has a 1 as it’s first digit.
I saw somebody who cut a hole in the top of his baseball hat so his man-bun could stick out the top.
@@awalton9024Capital punishment for that jackass.
100 year olds are going to be looking fly.
Never let a woman dress you; but do know how to dress.
If you are really good looking you can wear anything, hats, socks, kilts anything. If you are not classically chiseled it doesn't matter what you wear women are going to hate it.