This information from Chase is so much more on the mark and realistic than the dozens of self help gurus I’ve heard over the years. Well done Chase! 👍🏻
My childhood was horrific. Which has taught me my confidence goes up the more chaotic my surroundings. In normal everyday life I'm lost. In the apocalypse I'm all confident cool joe.
@@NicolaMaxwell trying to learn how to be productive in stable environments is proving to be difficult. So thankful for Chase Hughes. Somehow the way he phrases things sticks with me.
@@wulfseig1864 Same here. I'm glad you're pushing forward remember life will boot you down at times but you're getting back up and that shows your strength ❤
@@NicolaMaxwell I've have but it's hard to quiet my mind. I know that's the struggle with meditation in general. It helps to do guided meditation. Want to try biofeedback as well. I also have dogs that get me out in nature and always my art. What have you done to help yourself? Any tips or ideas?
Somehow when I was a kid, when I heard my mother call me a “ stupid b*tch “, it hurt that she could distance her maternal love for her only child from her momentary angry out burst I didn’t receive it. I did well in school , teachers liked me so in time I realized it wasn’t me, she was totally wrong. I thought I just had an inner strength. Maybe delusional but more functional in life than she was. When moments come up socially when a person sort of puts me in that place again, I have shrunk back for a while. I like learning here how to deal better. Thanks for sharing with us.
Chase's video editor must get PAID🤑🤑🤑! The base of this is just Chase standing there giving a presentation. Something we've all seen a gajillion times, and yet--- the edits made it SUPER ENGAGING. I could watch this forever. 5 Stars!
Your metaphors are SO powerful. I’ve heard the “these are just behaviors that protected you as a kid, but are now being detrimental to you as an adult” line from therapists a few times & I understand that but it never cut to the core of me like your walking with a little kid metaphor just did. Seriously, I can’t explain to you how grateful I am for how much you share with us Chase, you’re really out here changing lives. Only you could fit in such life changing knowledge and tools in a 7 minute video, I can’t thank you enough.
The most jam packed 7:36 ever! I assume you are aware of how many of us Chase groupies are on the spectrum, but you’ve changed our lives in so many ways. Also, your videos are brilliantly succinct so that it’s easy to remember. Love ya 💚🙏
Really appreciate what u are sharing, Chase. I've been doing it for a while. It has definitely made a difference! I'm still a work in progress at 67. I'm thinking, for continued progress, this will always be the deal. This is info I've learned some time ago about changing/challenging old beliefs. Get rid of limiting negative beliefs & replace them with positive, unlimited beliefs! Make it habitual. It's been a conscious concentrated practice, but it's worth it. My mind/body is better for it. Again, many thanks, Chase!
Are you the NAncy I knew from Carmel , IN years back? No, I wasn’t engaged or married just a jealous girl said that. Seems you changed your number. How are you? Rodney Marshall!
Hey Chase. Thankyou for changing the world. I’ve been watching TBP since the beginning - I had just escaped an extremely abusive 26yr marriage to a very dangerous man. From birth every kind of abuse. You (and the guys) inspired me to buy all your books and learn how to use the internet and a computer etc. every day I find a reason to go on and you have given names and logic and science and reasoning to the crazy that has been my 50+ years. My goal is (through learning from you) to one day be able to trust a human again. I think your insight and research is the antidote to my C-ptsd, agoraphobia, flashbacks, seizures, blah blah blah. I feel a little more EMPOWERED (y’know those 2mm shifts) every time I listen to you. (And the guys) Thankyou with all my heart 💙💜💙🐶🐶🐶 Tarni
Thank you Mr. Hughes for the direction I didn't get growing up. I have a LOT of work to do and cherish my next assignment. Thank God you are ok and found Dr. L. So grateful! ❤
Well done, Chase. Confidence is about 2 things: Safety and a Generalised Expectation of Positive Outcomes. This is precisely what has been missing from my mindset. Thank you 💖💖💖
You're unbelievable, the things you say, your knowledge. I'm really struggling with my life because of ptsd and although I have received therapy, my biggest wish and dream will always be to have a conversation with you. I just know that you'd be able to put my head straight in an hour. You're such an amazing and talented person.
I've thought a lot about envisioning my younger self and saying the awful things I feel about myself. I'm always unable to. She doesn't deserve it. It's us. We. Me. I'm just so sorry and so thankful to her. To me. And to you, for the reminder. Thank you. Altogether now
That’s a very healthy way of thinking! If we wouldn’t say it to our younger selves, why would we say it to ourselves now? Whenever I’ve been in a dark place, I always ask myself what my future self would tell me, or what I would say to someone else going through the same thing. Being empathetic to oneself doesn’t come naturally, does it? Anyway, sorry for my rambling! Hope you have a lovely Thursday 💚🙏
Chase needs his own forum, I have so many questions. I watch you on the behavior panel and you are always so easy going. This is a different side of you. I can see why you are so respected.
Hell ya Chase! Love to hear this info and see your passion. As a licensed psychotherapist that specializes in the treatment of trauma, I approve this message 👍
I’ve watched this several times over now. I’m used to calm and soothing Chase. This is intense, powerful Chase! It really impinges! It’s perfect! It drills it in hard! And I need this! Thankyou, Chase. ❤️
I see Chase as a very intense and very compassionate man. I have learned so much through him, and I've done more healing in my personal life since I began watching his videos, including TBP videos, than I had in the 20+ years before. I sought help because I was determined to have that kind of confidence for myself. I credit him in large part with the fact that I'm on a path toward achieving that goal.
I can't even wrap my mind around limiting beliefs, I just concentrate on resolving any issues that I face. I find what Chase covers in his content incredibly interesting because everyone around me has limiting beliefs and I have to educate and motivate the people on my team.
That was very informative and helpful, I am dealing with anxiety/depression and I love the way everything you teach is realistic and simple. Thank you Chase :)
Have you listened to a functional medicine doctor on treating anxiety and depression? They teach about the gut and problems there that can show up in a variety of symptoms. Dr. Mark Hyman has some great stuff here on YT.
I've been more intentionally studying the concept of Confidence in the last couple years and these videos (whenever Chase talks about Confidence) have really helped me to fast-track the process. It's always super helpful whenever someone has found a way to perfectly articulate the thing you've been struggling to grasp for so long. You're the best, Chase, thank you!
@@MayimHastings Oh totally, I'm a huge Chase fan! I absorb his lessons wherever I can find them. Haha. I'm in the middle of his first two books right now and they're life-altering. 😋
Chase, HOW can you think that about yourself? I am just one af MANY that thinks you are an AWSOME person. You are SO smart, clever, nerdy and your way of teaching.. is nothing less than phenomenal!
I love you, Chase. You are so inspiring and a favorite leader of mine. Thank you so much for these words and for simplifying these concepts. You are wonderful to watch and to listen to. 💜
@rynneivarsson751 - What do you think? Write down a limiting belief on paper, cut out that part of paper with that writing, and carefully burn it (in a way nothing else catches fire). This way you don't keep advertising it to yourself, and perhaps find reasons justifying the limiting belief. The limiting belief was exposed and destroyed, and your mind can dismiss it better as GONE.
When I was a kid I was not just confident, but certain of myself. Fearless and unself-conscious. I was blessed with stability at home. I assumed success. And what do you know? I excelled. Limiting beliefs didn't limit me until I was an adult. And they were others’ beliefs that I internalized. Then, they (limiting beliefs) eclipsed and occluded ME. All my goodness, skills, and abilities - "good" things both innate and acquired don't seem to count. Fear is always in my way. What can we do to bypass words and reason? Can we get back to child-like self-certainty?
I'd put "Trust before Confidence" We can all WEAR a MASK too Seem Confident" but OUR stomach is Doing back flips & palms sweating" cheeks going Red increase off blood pressure & Anxious Smiling" we look Confident- but petrified inside & only the Eye's Tell the TRUTH 🤗🌟👌🏽
Right-on Chase! Timely & Confirming. I asked hard question last week, & re-asked until I “got it”? It was embarrassing to admit struggling with concept - but once understood = total confidence! Thank you for these gems of knowledge.
My house walls are going to be completely covered with my mini billboards of my limiting beliefs...but if Chase says it works, I will do it. Thank you Chase!
I love this - It's the law of communication, one of the 7 principles of natural law. Very misunderstood and therefore underutilized. Learning from your videos is like decluttering my mind. Mussi Cho.
Really powerful presentation Chase and really made me think how our insecurities can shape our life unless we learn to un-learn them. (I hope I sounded like I made sense! 😂) ♥️
Great content! I have shared this with staff and family/friends 👪 Also, kudos to your marketing and editing team for putting out modern videos designed to capture attention. The effort involved makes a difference and is appreciated.
This is excellent advice and information, but for someone suffering from suicidal depression, it’s only going to exacerbate said severe depression. It doesn’t matter how much you’re able to intellectually realize your thinking is delusional, the severely depressed brain is wired to be drawn to anything that supports and affirms their feelings of total self-hatred and their desire to leave the world. “I’m not good enough” written everywhere, for a suicidally depressed person, couldn’t possibly be more dangerous. It sticks in the brain and reinforces the repetition that is already in full swing. I understand and really appreciate the brilliant simplicity behind this tactic (for lack of a better word), but I think it works best for people who have had some kind of foundation growing up, no matter how shaky it may have been, even for those who have struggled with confidence and perhaps lack of much outside support during the course of their lives. But there must be some form of foundation to exist. I can’t imagine how anyone with even a shaky self-image could endure negative affirmations surrounding them, no matter how cognizant they are of the strategies behind it. Mr. Hughes has a very lucid and apparent inner confidence that radiates from him, but as he said, he still questions himself constantly. But that innate confidence is still there, as he also said. I have no idea what his upbringing was, but I’m guessing that at least one adult figure did something very right for him. He was obviously deeply cared for, no matter how many difficulties he may have had to face throughout his life. This makes all the difference in the world. I would argue that this advice for someone severely depressed is potentially disastrous. It, as I said, just further affirms and exacerbates the already inherent and consistent film loop going on in the person’s mind. I just point this out because it frightens me to think of someone in an incredibly vulnerable state such as suicidal ideation who believes they can succeed with this advice (whether because they may be in a manic state and feel invincible, or are just in a suicidal state and too vulnerable to think clearly). Whatever the case may be, it only serves to augment their self-hatred, which is more than enough for a suicidally depressed person. Just something I wanted to point out.
If you do the inner work/Trauma work aka: parts work, shadow work, inner child work, IFS, if you integrate the parts of your unconsious you dont need those techniques who sound for me like cover ups for the fast run but not for the long term. Dont you ever forget that you allready was born confident you have the heal the negative shit and you become like you was as a child again!
Top video, thank you for sharing your insight. I’m working through your Ellipsis Manual and flipping through The Chimp Paradox at the same time. Very complimentary books. 👍👍👍
I have massive confidence with people and selling, people like friendly and genuine interest and I really don’t give a shit what people think of me. but, zero self efficacy I don’t have the believe I can finish what I started☹️
Quick question is Greg and Scott going to write a new book.. like The THINGS WE'VE LEARNED FRIM MARK AND CHASE ?? hehehe. I look forward to watching all your videos here , look like a man who really cares.
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"We're already delusional, so why don't we pick what we want to be delusional about?" love it.
Yea, this is perfect!
People have done this for years. They pretend to be something they're not, and somehow, they get other people to go along with it.
Gold!
Hahaha yes.
OOH, That's gold😅
This information from Chase is so much more on the mark and realistic than the dozens of self help gurus I’ve heard over the years. Well done Chase! 👍🏻
Totally 💯 agree
Wow! Thanks so much, William!
Couldn’t agree more!
My childhood was horrific. Which has taught me my confidence goes up the more chaotic my surroundings. In normal everyday life I'm lost. In the apocalypse I'm all confident cool joe.
I'm right there with you x
@@NicolaMaxwell trying to learn how to be productive in stable environments is proving to be difficult. So thankful for Chase Hughes. Somehow the way he phrases things sticks with me.
@@wulfseig1864 Same here. I'm glad you're pushing forward remember life will boot you down at times but you're getting back up and that shows your strength ❤
@@wulfseig1864 have you learned any type of meditation?
@@NicolaMaxwell I've have but it's hard to quiet my mind. I know that's the struggle with meditation in general. It helps to do guided meditation. Want to try biofeedback as well. I also have dogs that get me out in nature and always my art. What have you done to help yourself? Any tips or ideas?
Somehow when I was a kid, when I heard my mother call me a “ stupid b*tch “, it hurt that she could distance her maternal love for her only child from her momentary angry out burst I didn’t receive it. I did well in school , teachers liked me so in time I realized it wasn’t me, she was totally wrong. I thought I just had an inner strength. Maybe delusional but more functional in life than she was. When moments come up socially when a person sort of puts me in that place again, I have shrunk back for a while. I like learning here how to deal better. Thanks for sharing with us.
Thank you, sent this to my son. He started listening to you at 12, he's 14 on Thursday. ♥️ Thank you so much 😊
Chase's video editor must get PAID🤑🤑🤑!
The base of this is just Chase standing there giving a presentation. Something we've all seen a gajillion times, and yet--- the edits made it SUPER ENGAGING.
I could watch this forever. 5 Stars!
🤣
I found it distracting. Wanted to focus on the message and was distracted by the graphics.
Interesting. I find it annoying haha
Your metaphors are SO powerful. I’ve heard the “these are just behaviors that protected you as a kid, but are now being detrimental to you as an adult” line from therapists a few times & I understand that but it never cut to the core of me like your walking with a little kid metaphor just did.
Seriously, I can’t explain to you how grateful I am for how much you share with us Chase, you’re really out here changing lives. Only you could fit in such life changing knowledge and tools in a 7 minute video, I can’t thank you enough.
The most jam packed 7:36 ever! I assume you are aware of how many of us Chase groupies are on the spectrum, but you’ve changed our lives in so many ways. Also, your videos are brilliantly succinct so that it’s easy to remember. Love ya 💚🙏
Really appreciate what u are sharing, Chase. I've been doing it for a while. It has definitely made a difference! I'm still a work in progress at 67. I'm thinking, for continued progress, this will always be the deal. This is info I've learned some time ago about changing/challenging old beliefs. Get rid of limiting negative beliefs & replace them with positive, unlimited beliefs! Make it habitual. It's been a conscious concentrated practice, but it's worth it. My mind/body is better for it. Again, many thanks, Chase!
Confidence fills the voids in others. People always follow the Confident... so true!
Love that so much! 💚🙏
Are you the NAncy I knew from Carmel , IN years back? No, I wasn’t engaged or married just a jealous girl said that. Seems you changed your number. How are you? Rodney Marshall!
makes me think of Dr. Who
Hey Chase. Thankyou for changing the world. I’ve been watching TBP since the beginning - I had just escaped an extremely abusive 26yr marriage to a very dangerous man. From birth every kind of abuse. You (and the guys) inspired me to buy all your books and learn how to use the internet and a computer etc. every day I find a reason to go on and you have given names and logic and science and reasoning to the crazy that has been my 50+ years. My goal is (through learning from you) to one day be able to trust a human again. I think your insight and research is the antidote to my C-ptsd, agoraphobia, flashbacks, seizures, blah blah blah. I feel a little more EMPOWERED (y’know those 2mm shifts) every time I listen to you. (And the guys)
Thankyou with all my heart
💙💜💙🐶🐶🐶
Tarni
Chase, one day soon I'm going to have the words I need. To tell you how you've changed my whole world. For now 🙂thank you so very much. 💜
Thank you Mr. Hughes for the direction I didn't get growing up. I have a LOT of work to do and cherish my next assignment. Thank God you are ok and found Dr. L. So grateful! ❤
Well done, Chase. Confidence is about 2 things: Safety and a Generalised Expectation of Positive Outcomes. This is precisely what has been missing from my mindset. Thank you 💖💖💖
This is 100%, pure, f***ing GENIUS. To compress these ideas into < 8 min is quite amazing. Beautiful video too. 💓
In the soil is where it matters 🥰 So true, as this is what is feeding us 🌱
Thank you Chase, for cutting through the BS and getting straight to the honest point. You cut to the Chase!
Cut to the Chase - I love that! 💚
You're unbelievable, the things you say, your knowledge. I'm really struggling with my life because of ptsd and although I have received therapy, my biggest wish and dream will always be to have a conversation with you. I just know that you'd be able to put my head straight in an hour. You're such an amazing and talented person.
I've thought a lot about envisioning my younger self and saying the awful things I feel about myself. I'm always unable to. She doesn't deserve it. It's us. We. Me. I'm just so sorry and so thankful to her. To me. And to you, for the reminder. Thank you. Altogether now
That’s a very healthy way of thinking! If we wouldn’t say it to our younger selves, why would we say it to ourselves now? Whenever I’ve been in a dark place, I always ask myself what my future self would tell me, or what I would say to someone else going through the same thing. Being empathetic to oneself doesn’t come naturally, does it? Anyway, sorry for my rambling! Hope you have a lovely Thursday 💚🙏
Thankyou Chase,just what I needed,love the Behaviour Panel.
The BEST 8 minutes I’ve spent in a very long time. Thank you so much!
This could be one of the most badass trailers that present a kickass spymovie on theaters. 💯🔥
Chase needs his own forum, I have so many questions. I watch you on the behavior panel and you are always so easy going. This is a different side of you. I can see why you are so respected.
Hell ya Chase! Love to hear this info and see your passion. As a licensed psychotherapist that specializes in the treatment of trauma, I approve this message 👍
A home run Chase. Thank you for everything. Working to carry it forward. ❤
Explaining the Inner Child in the shortest and most brilliant way I´ve ever heard. Thanx.
Outstanding editing! Can't believe this doesn't have more views.
I’ve watched this several times over now. I’m used to calm and soothing Chase. This is intense, powerful Chase! It really impinges! It’s perfect! It drills it in hard! And I need this! Thankyou, Chase. ❤️
Straight forward right-to-the-point....that's why listening to Chase works for me. Thank you Chase!
I see Chase as a very intense and very compassionate man. I have learned so much through him, and I've done more healing in my personal life since I began watching his videos, including TBP videos, than I had in the 20+ years before. I sought help because I was determined to have that kind of confidence for myself. I credit him in large part with the fact that I'm on a path toward achieving that goal.
Good stuff, Chase!!!! Great editing and presenting it succinctly, while still having personality!!!
Loved this!!! I needed to hear it-be reminded. Thank you!! ❤
Right!!! 💖💖💖
I can't even wrap my mind around limiting beliefs, I just concentrate on resolving any issues that I face. I find what Chase covers in his content incredibly interesting because everyone around me has limiting beliefs and I have to educate and motivate the people on my team.
The roots change we needed. thank you
That was very informative and helpful, I am dealing with anxiety/depression and I love the way everything you teach is realistic and simple. Thank you Chase :)
Have you listened to a functional medicine doctor on treating anxiety and depression? They teach about the gut and problems there that can show up in a variety of symptoms. Dr. Mark Hyman has some great stuff here on YT.
Priceless information.
Oh I LOVE THIS SO MUCH!!!!!
I've been more intentionally studying the concept of Confidence in the last couple years and these videos (whenever Chase talks about Confidence) have really helped me to fast-track the process.
It's always super helpful whenever someone has found a way to perfectly articulate the thing you've been struggling to grasp for so long.
You're the best, Chase, thank you!
That’s so awesome! Have you watched/listened to his podcasts on other channels? He’s done a few new ones recently, too! Happiest Thursday to ya! 💚🙏
@@MayimHastings Oh totally, I'm a huge Chase fan! I absorb his lessons wherever I can find them. Haha. I'm in the middle of his first two books right now and they're life-altering. 😋
Chase, HOW can you think that about yourself?
I am just one af MANY that thinks you are an AWSOME person.
You are SO smart, clever, nerdy and your way of teaching.. is nothing less than phenomenal!
Such a brilliant video! And the production values are out of this world! Fabulous!
Chase explains in such a clear genuine manner, I get it right away because I never have intrusive thoughts like "this guy is full of s!&#".
Content, Graphics, Music, and Delivery is top notch
Getting to the core of shame is key to me getting out and being the rock star that I was when first born. Thanks @chasehughes
Damn, ‘you’re already delusional’. Never looked at it that way but it’s spot on! If we can believe we’re crap, we can believe we’re great. Brilliant
I love you, Chase. You are so inspiring and a favorite leader of mine. Thank you so much for these words and for simplifying these concepts. You are wonderful to watch and to listen to. 💜
Thank you! 🎉 Are you making another video about MK Ultra soon? I have seen it more than five times - so hoping for a “to be continued” 😃
"It does not go away" fr fr. Quality content as always Chase!
FIRST COMMENT AWARD!
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Limiting beliefs... it's like cracking a safe, this stuff. Sometimes, something clicks, this did. Thanks much.
@rynneivarsson751 - What do you think? Write down a limiting belief on paper, cut out that part of paper with that writing, and carefully burn it (in a way nothing else catches fire). This way you don't keep advertising it to yourself, and perhaps find reasons justifying the limiting belief. The limiting belief was exposed and destroyed, and your mind can dismiss it better as GONE.
Your content has set me free. I'm so grateful to have found you. Thank you so much for sharing!
Wow - again, something to actually put into action. Thanks
Exactly! There is zero fluff with Chase, and all action! 💚
I see you Chase! Preaching truth without the scripture address. Well done!🙏👏 Thank you for the excellent interpretation.
You're amazing Chase!
All clear for take-off!
When I was a kid I was not just confident, but certain of myself. Fearless and unself-conscious. I was blessed with stability at home. I assumed success. And what do you know? I excelled.
Limiting beliefs didn't limit me until I was an adult. And they were others’ beliefs that I internalized. Then, they (limiting beliefs) eclipsed and occluded ME. All my goodness, skills, and abilities - "good" things both innate and acquired don't seem to count. Fear is always in my way.
What can we do to bypass words and reason? Can we get back to child-like self-certainty?
I'd put "Trust before Confidence"
We can all WEAR a MASK too Seem Confident" but OUR stomach is Doing back flips & palms sweating" cheeks going Red increase off blood pressure & Anxious Smiling" we look Confident- but petrified inside & only the Eye's Tell the TRUTH 🤗🌟👌🏽
This video might've changed my life. Thank you.
We're blessed Chase gives this information for free ❤️
I really got a lot from this. Thank you Chase!
Right-on Chase! Timely & Confirming. I asked hard question last week, & re-asked until I “got it”? It was embarrassing to admit struggling with concept - but once understood = total confidence! Thank you for these gems of knowledge.
Love this! Awesome explanation!
My house walls are going to be completely covered with my mini billboards of my limiting beliefs...but if Chase says it works, I will do it. Thank you Chase!
Wow! This is like goldust - thank you for your generosity in sharing this. 🙏🤩
This is amazing information, thank you so much Chase!💜
WOW!!! You just blew my mind. ❤ Bless yer heart, thank you.
Thank you Chase for sharing this topic with the public. Listening from Munich/ Germany
Thank you kindly Chase .... Its all in the soil 🌷i got it, and i will write it down
This is bloody brilliant. This is food for the soul.
I love this - It's the law of communication, one of the 7 principles of natural law. Very misunderstood and therefore underutilized. Learning from your videos is like decluttering my mind. Mussi Cho.
Blown away by the content obvio! But that editing ..🤯🤯🤯
Wow! Chase! This one is awesome!!! 😃
@chasehughes thank you. This is one of the most helpful videos I’ve come across to change lives, starting with mine! Awesome.
Really powerful presentation Chase and really made me think how our insecurities can shape our life unless we learn to un-learn them. (I hope I sounded like I made sense! 😂) ♥️
Valuable information!
Wow .... I've got some freaking practicing to do.
Very powerful delivery, Chase
Again Chase invaluable information, you have helped me any more ways then you know cobbber, thank you
Amazing Chase! No fluff just material! Thank you
My favorite!! thanks, Chase! You are inspirational
Great content! I have shared this with staff and family/friends 👪
Also, kudos to your marketing and editing team for putting out modern videos designed to capture attention. The effort involved makes a difference and is appreciated.
Wonderful; thank you!
Chase your presentations always have a fascinating Flair! I love learning from you🤩
Highly recommend. Not bullshit.
you are so wise chase!! thank you!!
This is excellent advice and information, but for someone suffering from suicidal depression, it’s only going to exacerbate said severe depression. It doesn’t matter how much you’re able to intellectually realize your thinking is delusional, the severely depressed brain is wired to be drawn to anything that supports and affirms their feelings of total self-hatred and their desire to leave the world. “I’m not good enough” written everywhere, for a suicidally depressed person, couldn’t possibly be more dangerous. It sticks in the brain and reinforces the repetition that is already in full swing.
I understand and really appreciate the brilliant simplicity behind this tactic (for lack of a better word), but I think it works best for people who have had some kind of foundation growing up, no matter how shaky it may have been, even for those who have struggled with confidence and perhaps lack of much outside support during the course of their lives. But there must be some form of foundation to exist. I can’t imagine how anyone with even a shaky self-image could endure negative affirmations surrounding them, no matter how cognizant they are of the strategies behind it.
Mr. Hughes has a very lucid and apparent inner confidence that radiates from him, but as he said, he still questions himself constantly. But that innate confidence is still there, as he also said. I have no idea what his upbringing was, but I’m guessing that at least one adult figure did something very right for him. He was obviously deeply cared for, no matter how many difficulties he may have had to face throughout his life. This makes all the difference in the world.
I would argue that this advice for someone severely depressed is potentially disastrous. It, as I said, just further affirms and exacerbates the already inherent and consistent film loop going on in the person’s mind.
I just point this out because it frightens me to think of someone in an incredibly vulnerable state such as suicidal ideation who believes they can succeed with this advice (whether because they may be in a manic state and feel invincible, or are just in a suicidal state and too vulnerable to think clearly). Whatever the case may be, it only serves to augment their self-hatred, which is more than enough for a suicidally depressed person. Just something I wanted to point out.
I love everything you do Chase, thank you so much.
Excellent content! Just discovered this channel, and am looking forward to catching up.
What a man!
Powerful.
Bravo !!!
Thank you.
Added to favorites!
Reminds me of the Brainwave Sensing Headset it can give you your confidence score, if the score goes down write down the thought and analyze it.
If you do the inner work/Trauma work aka: parts work, shadow work, inner child work, IFS, if you integrate the parts of your unconsious you dont need those techniques who sound for me like cover ups for the fast run but not for the long term. Dont you ever forget that you allready was born confident you have the heal the negative shit and you become like you was as a child again!
Wow!! Thank you so much; this helps me so much! Would you please? Make an audiobook of your book, The Ellipsis Manual!! Please please?
Ah so that's how it's done!! Loved this. Thanks Chase! 🙏✨
Top video, thank you for sharing your insight.
I’m working through your Ellipsis Manual and flipping through The Chimp Paradox at the same time. Very complimentary books. 👍👍👍
I have massive confidence with people and selling, people like friendly and genuine interest and I really don’t give a shit what people think of me. but, zero self efficacy I don’t have the believe I can finish what I started☹️
Quick question is Greg and Scott going to write a new book.. like The THINGS WE'VE LEARNED FRIM MARK AND CHASE ?? hehehe. I look forward to watching all your videos here , look like a man who really cares.
Beautiful! Thank you so much ❤️