Stress? There is No Stress (says Warren Rustand)
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- Опубліковано 10 лис 2020
- One of my mentors, Warren Rustand has a long running debate with many of us. He says "show me stress... there is no stress". His view: when you are clear on your purpose, your priorities, who and what is important... there is no doubt about what action to take. Where you are not clear about your values, there is confusion. It is this confusion that we believe is stress...
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
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Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
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ABSOLUTELY. You read my mind. As a kid, i kept asking my parents, "what do you mean by stress?" and they used to say "you'll understand when you get older". I'm 38, i have long days i get angry and tired for my startup, but still i don't understand. if i'm 'stressed' (still don't get the meaning), it is for a reason, and very, very often it's just me being disorganised and unfocused.
Stress doesn't exist.
Great to hear from you Luca! Anyone who can walk all the way to Italy understands what you can accomplish in a day ;-)
I love the story about how you started the classroom discussion "Who are you?". Very true....
By contrast, ambiguity causes stress in almost everyone and meaningless in everything. Thus, clarity of purpose on a daily basis is a vehicle of gradual progression along with being a savior from all negatives/unnecessary thoughts.
Your message rings true Conor. Clarity of purpose is a powerful thing. You have inspired me to make my list!
Go for it!
Conor, this has open my eyes, yet again. "Who are you?" "What is the objective?" Very valuable questions. Thank you, Conor. All the best.
Thank you..Again another piece of wonderful video.
it is very true!!!! Conor greetings from Guatemala
It was around one year ago that I learned from you and Warren at GLA!
You got me from the first "who you are" question Conor :-) , thanks for sharing this, again valuable staff put simply. Stay safe and keep it up, looking forward to your input!
Much appreciated!
O senhor é um ser sábio. Obrigada.
Knowing the priorities & being present in the body are really powerful & can easily defeat stress whenever exists.
Stress can cause the spirit not being fully in the body which weakens our abilities & closes our energy channels.
Thank you Conor for sharing your awesome videos 🌺🔆
thanks Abeer!
Hi Conor, you're great. Keep it going, thank you.
A very deep idea. It is inspiring. Clear concepts = no stress.
If you would finish from the beach of Sitges instead, the message would be even bigger (haha...)
That's a great idea... I love Sitges ;-)
Interesting, as always, thanks brother!
Thanks Bob
Hi Porfessor ! What a wonderful and insightful video.
My pleasure
I've always loved this topic...ever since Wayne Dyer(now gone) mentioned it in one of his teachings: "If stress is real, put it in a bucket and show it to me."
Love the quote.
Yes, in fact there is no stress if we really look into the task and how we address those concerns by taking actions step by step and constantly making decisions. Problems with all of us is that we keep thinking of pending work mentally even we are not at actual place where the work is to be done, hence burdening the mind with full of thoughts on pending work and unable to concentrate on current assignments in hand. Thank you Conor sir for this wonderful insight on " there is no stress".
I am currently reading the book you have recommended ' The four agreements" by Don Miguel Ruiz, must read book. Sincerely,
Great book! glad you are reading it ;-)
I am God's best daughter. Quoting Jobs"I stay foolish...I stay hunger ". Thanks for teaching me sometimes. Muito obrigada mesmo.
Stay safe..stay sane..
Stay on the beach
The idea hit my heart
;-)
I’m your big fan Dr Conor 😻
Great, glad you are here on the journey together
Thanks for the counselling. Please make a vedio on gaining confidence to talk ko people for yourself.love from Pakiatan💚
Will do soon
Conor, you mention watching a UA-cam channel in the video. Can you put a link in the comments?
I put it as one of the cards ua-cam.com/video/ZlFhLat4kW0/v-deo.html here's Warren ;-)
In my next mentoring session with students , i am gonna try your questions ❤️. I am sure it will create a magical opening of a whole new dimension . Thank you
Hello Conor,
I love your channel. I think you should read Swami Vivekanand's books written. Karma yoga, Jana yoga etc. I hope you will get something useful from them.
Thanks for sharing knowledge ☺☺
thank you for the recommendation -> I will check out your suggestion of Swami Vivekanand's works
Hello from Bangladesh 🇧🇩
Hello Bangladesh
Perfect for the New Generation-who think too much about life!
Quote: "There is No Stress---Its just your feeling when you are surrounded by a**holes"
في القران لدينا اية قرانية تقول عن التوتر ان مع العسر يسر
Look in the mirror and ask who are you. The first answer you give they'll be anxiety in your belly. The last answer you give yourself you'll feel a calm inside.
I do not agree. There is stress in some circumstances. The body reacts to traumatic events from an accident or war.
Rustand is therefore only partially right. It is about how to deal with a situation or how to organize the own life. But some events are so traumatic that these cause stress. So, I would not say „there is no stress“, but would say „how to overcome stress“.
Keeping eye contact is not always a good thing. It can be distracting and even stressful for people with autism.
Please sadguru is shiz