The 3 Word Rule to Find Your Personal Style - No Shopping Required :)
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- Today I'm sharing the easiest way to find your personal style without shopping using the 3 word rule to find your personal style. Finding your personal style is the most difficult but most important part of slow and sustainable fashion. This video shares the ONE RULE you need to know to find and be confident in your personal style. I hope it helps!
On this channel, I share #slowfashion and #sustainablefashion tips that center around how to shop your closet, and restyling pieces you already own. I also spotlight brands that I believe in every now and then. I believe in #creativityoverconsumption, and that we all have the power to be conscious consumers.
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Hi, Alyssa. It took me a whole year to find my three words! I asked trusted friends, trusted relatives, took quizzes, looked up definitions, reviewed posts, videos, and blogs by influencers such as yourself. I was able to let go of (sell, donate, give away to friends and family) things that I knew were no longer me (because I turned 70 this past summer). Finally I was left with me and my closet., as you said. And today, I have been blessed to come up with the three words that best fit my style: Classic. Uncontrived. Appropriate. Thank you. You are so much younger than me, but I love your spirit and the creative encouragements I get from you. Be blessed.
Since I retired a few years ago, I have struggled to find a style which was removed from smart workwear but still stylish. To be honest my three words had become comfortable, shapeless, careless. So your videos have been very helpful in making me have a reboot. I've cleared out a lot of stuff from my wardrobe, baggy pants with giraffes on, long loose and shapeless tops, frumpy shoes. But I found that amongst all that was a core of a better style which I can build on. A baggy shirt when tucked into jeans, with a nice leather belt was transformed for example. A dress when shortened a few centimetres, looked quite different. Making careful and considered choices when shopping is giving me a more put-together feeling. But I don't want to lose that bit of myself which is unique and which those silly trousers with giraffes on reflected. It just needs a better outlet. I've loved this video and also loved reading the replies from other people. It seems that this bit of homework has been transformative for many. After some time thinking about it, I've decided my three words, which I aspire to are authentic, classy, relaxed.
@Steph Smith Still having a giggle about your baggy, giraffe-print pants. You may have needed that time out after retiring - just to relax, and depressurise - and giraffe pants were possibly your bridge. I hope the new, authentic you is coming together well now. Thanks for sharing your humor with us here 😀
Steph, I am exactly the same, got lost, having retired a few years ago. My style, while working in art and design, was very similar to Alyssa's but goingfor black, ivory and dark olive green. Now retired and living in the countryside, where I need to be waterproofed most days outside and veryone wears the baggy pants with giraffe type clothing, I sort of lost my edge - apart from when travelling on holiday, when reverted to type a bit. Unfortunately, everyone my age around me wears the frumpy "fun" prints and even more frumpy, old lady shoes, so have had a fear of standing out, or rather thinking maybe time to go with them. But not happy this way, so having to rethink things, Alyssa's advice is a lot better, although not designed for our specific age group, than the stuff that is meant for over 60s. I find a lot of those sites have just ghastly suggestions and choices.
I'd like those baggy giraffe pants, lol! I'd probably wear them with a tucked in jumper with fitted shoulder seams, sleek sandals/ boots with a cinched coat, & a shiny belt, though!
I’m living the same reality in retirement. Finding a Style that works. Help.
Love this post.
A few years ago when I found myself in a style rut, I reverse-engeneered using a similar method.
I started off by asking myself for I wanted to feel/look like in my clothes and put together a list of words, which I then reduced to the top 3. I made separate word lists for work, social and everyday because I realised I wanted different moods (E.g. confident, put-together, mysterious, eclectic, relaxed, adventurous....)
Then based on the lists I was able to identify wardrobe gaps/what changes I wanted to make. E.g. I wanted to look a bit more elegant and polished, yet I had a bunch of chunky casual sweaters, but not thinner/more fitted classic ones that would suit my 'polished/elegant ' mood, thanks to the lists I was able to avoid automatically buying yet another casual chunky sweater, but expend my wardrobe options with a black cashmere sweater which made me feel more elegant, confident and timeless...
Hah, I am right now trying to do the same. I have lots of comfy clothes, but I'd like to expand a bit more, to have different clothes for different moods. Sometimes I wake up and feel like a little gremlin, so I need to cater for that as well as for days I feel like a queen. (And those that make me feel like a gremlin queen, haha).
I love this! Thank you for the inspiration!
This is a lovely idea! I’m struggling to find myself right now so I like the concept of deciding how I want to feel first
Very well said!
THIS is the cherry-on-top advice that I needed to add to this video. I have a 20yo wardrobe built on hiding my full-figured "motherly frame" that expanded well beyond the slim feminine style I was used to in my pre-maternal years. So, I can't look at my current wardrobe to find "my style" bc it's basically a survivalist wardrobe. But to consider what I want NOW and how do I want to present myself to the world on any given day is the ticket for me. I'm excited to build my "three-word" lists for different sides of my life. Thanks so much for sharing this!!! 😊 🤗
my sunday morning "must do" is watching your newest video! really tough for me to find three words. why? i live in scrubs at least 4 days a week. i needed to really look at my life outside of the hospital setting. difficult to do as the days off i mostly veg out at home. so...how to come up with them, i guess i had to look at when i go on holiday and travel. what do i look for there....how do i like to dress on a cruise or going to visit family. so for me, i had to look at life outside of "every day" life as i tend to gravitate to certain things that i can pack in one carry on bag no matter if it is for a long weekend or 3 weeks away. you have really helped me hone in on: classic, comfort, minimal. this video was very helpful as i am in the process of trying to let go of pieces i have spent tons of money on, but never ever reach for.
Ah that is a challenge! So glad this video helped! xx
I am a nurse too and have similar needs as yours. So I have a "house uniform ": black jazz pants, black short sleeve and black long sleeve t-shirts. I am looking for organic material. I have numerous items of them and keep them rolled up in IKEA SKUBB boxes in a drawer. They fit my adjectives: classic, basic and comfortable, thank you Alyssa, what a great idea, I love categorizations. And the adjectives fit my clothes for leaving home or when I feel to be "dressed" as well. I do not need many pieces, so classic works for me to look and feel alright and without thinking about dressing too much. That goes for basic as well, it's just simple. And 'comfortable' is a must for me. I have my seasonal items on hand, going through my closet twice a year. That's enough for me. And I hang my clothes organized by colors, pleasing to my eyes. ☺
Wearing scrubs is so great at work, but I found it made me incredibly lazy when dressing outside my work life. All I wanted to wear was comfy clothes and then felt sluby even thought my clothes were clean, but they fit similar to my scrubs. Definitely hard, but I really like how you've look outside the box for your words and am going to try the same.
I'm a nurse too 😇 and wear scrubs 3/4 days a week, but I sew alot of my closet...so always recreating looks....love fashion, but it's always edgy and Quirky 😉
At 74, I am still bubbly, attentive to detail, and impetuous. However my 3 style words are subtle, minimal, neutral. I wear mostly black, navy, deep camel. Solid colors. So I wear knits which have ease. You taught me to balance with a third piece, which I prefer to be architectural to create tension.
I love this idea! My three words would be contemporary, minimal, Bohemian. I do not dress like most people my age (76), but always stay stylish. I like to stay current and follow trends, but I also know what looks good on my body. As an example, I love off-the-shoulder tops. They are considered a little Boho, but are very flattering on women "of a certain age." They cover the tops of your arms, and just reveal the skin that doesn't age (shoulders/collarbone)!
Classic, Boho, Casual. I have 3 shopping weaknesses; shoes, logo/band tee shirts, white shirts/tees. I love linen, blue jeans, cut off denim shorts. I’m 65 now, live in Alabama where we have brutally hot and humid summers. I’m retired, no longer even own high heels or even a dressy pr of trousers. No longer color my hair, rarely wear much if any makeup. I use shoes, purses, jewelry, sunglasses to add color and texture to classic and casual outfits. I know there are lots of women who probably identify as I do. But we’ll all do it in a different way. I like neutral colors, navy, gray, blush pink…..but these colors don’t have to be boring. I have never, ever been called boring. I get boho, even hippie, a fair amount. Also get asked where I bought a specific item when I’m in classic mode. I know how to dress my frame/shape.
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Classic, minimal and comfort. I often struggle, as I feel my looks are boring. Your idea about the need for a opposite word, really resonated.
So I pulled this video up again after a weekend of shopping but only purchasing one pair of sneaks yet had a wish list to pull from. I told my husband I just don’t know my style.
I’m working the following words:
- [ ] Effortless
- [ ] Sporty
- [ ] Casual / undone
- [ ] Comfort
- [ ] Functional
I have three lives: professional fitness educator, outdoor adventurer, fashionista wanna e who loves brunch and city tours.
So yeah…. I’m in my 46th year trying to figure it all out while really scaling down to save $ and live a more sustainable lifestyle.
I think my three words are romantic, edgy and soft 😊 my primary focus is generally to be warm as I live in the uk and feel the cold, but I don’t want to spend my time in just jumpers and jeans - I want to feel feminine and attractive. But, there is absolutely an edge to my personality, my aesthetic, my tastes and my Pinterest board! They feel quite contrasting but I’m excited to play with it!
my 3 words are cozy, academic, unexpected. thanks for this video!!! love your philosophy and the way you present concepts!! thank you❤
I’ve learned so much from you. I love skirts, mostly silk, satin or flowing but I like to combine them with button down shirts, comfortable flat shoes and minimal jewelry and I’m 75! I never close my mind to learning. I have a bridal shower and a wedding coming up and I’ve shopped my own closet for both. Have kept old evening bags (my Mom used to love to thrift) and it’s surprising what I have. Some are treasures. I also have crochet skirts and blouses and sweaters which she made but all in soft colors - none of the patchwork and loud color stuff. stuff. My three words might be feminine, comfortable, mixture of very old and new. Your videos are great.
You will look fab at those events! Thanks for watching! xx
YES!!!
Thank you both. I finally feel confident in my own skin. it took me a few years to pull myself together after my husband’s passing. Now I’m finding me at last, dressing for me and watching Alyssa has taught be to experiment and find my style. . I have heard so much negativity from family about you should wear more makeup, cut your hair this way and that, you should wear this and that. They mean well but I realize I have to be me with no apologies to anyone. Thank you both for the encouragement. It helps!
can I come over and raid your wardrobe
Love this method! Even though my overall style is classic, my three descriptive words would be: structured, effortless, powerful. They speak to my love of looking put-together with minimal pieces, with high-end impact.
I am stealing your words!!! :)
I asked my husband. He thought eclectic was my style. Hmm, I would say minimal ( only 2 colors, and hardly any pattern) , classic, and sporty. ( working as a PT). This was a fun exercise. I agree with everyone loving that black dress. But everything looks beautiful on you. 🍃
Nice! Glad you liked it! xx
This is one that I’ve actually been thinking about for a while. I recently settled on the three “C’s”, which describe me well at this stage of my life: classic, creative and comfortable!
My style keywords for years have been “earthy, edgy, light.” I’ve really enjoyed this combination and have found them to be applicable to a wide variety of interpretations. I’m currently playing with a combination of boho, rock chic, and clean girl aesthetics which really connect to my keywords beautifully.
Loved this video! My three words don’t seem to make any sense but after many years of reflection I know that they are colourful, edgy and feminine. I love bright colours and dresses ( feminine) but I also love jeans and leather jackets (edgy). So funny that you bought that black dress which I find dramatic in style. I actually just thrifted a similar looking Georgio Armani long violet linen dress with a slit. I feel amazing in it! I thought I would hardly wear it but I have already worn it 4 times., dressed up lady with heels and dressed down with a denim jacket and sneakers. When you know your style, you know what you are going to wear a lot! Thanks for another amazing video! Hugs from Montreal 💚💚💚
My words are Grandchildren-Peanut Butter-Jelly-seriously. I love your style and the three word concept is a genius way to pin point a persons style. Thank you Alyssa.
ahhh love this!
That is a beautiful vibe! You could could also add playful!
I have four words, Sophisticated, dramatic, functional and versatile. I like my clothes to be well cut and well tailored, made out of good fabric that will last and suited to my elongated frame, (hence Sophisticated). I can’t relate at all to wearing what looks like gym sweats or PJ ‘s out in public. However exercise clothes, and hiking shoes, rainwear etc, have a place of course in my wardrobe, so practical functionality is important too. I’m quite extroverted, so I like my clothes and accessories to have just enough of a dramatic element to stand out in a sea of same same predictability. Lastly, versatility is important to me. I like every piece to earn its keep, so I like separates that can be mixed and matched and layered with many other different pieces in my wardrobe to combine a greater number of different outfits. I’m not very keen on the individual stand alone piece, that doesn’t work with anything else I own.
I really love this guide and found it so helpful in refining the description of my style.
My 3 words are “ non-conformist, utilitarian, and roguish “
Great words! They speak to me too. Will spend some time after work today to come up with mine.
Great choices!!
I'm so glad you liked it Lia! Your 3 words aree amazing!!! 🤩 ❤️
Roguish is a fabulous word!
Oooo! Laa Laaa!
My three words are comfort, effortless, and impactful. I like clothing that allows me to move freely while still looking feminine and a statement piece that's a conversation starter.💃🏾
This is maybe my favourite of all your videos, just so good! My three are comfortable, feminine and effortless like I just threw it on. Thanks again for explaining personal style and helping us get to our own style without over consumption.
wow thank you so much! It's my pleasure - love effortless!
My 3 words are multitasking, transitional and polished. I’m in healthcare pretty much wear scrubs on the daily. But outside I’m always on the go so I wear clothes that is corresponds to my life but yet still looks and feels polished because that is when I feel my best.. so I’ve been living linens and flowy texttures
My 3 words: creative, quirky/whimsical (an ethnic vibe w dab of fun), romantic. I usually say my style is: bohemian chic meets romantic steampunk goth with a dash of relaxed sportswear. Together it is quirky or whimsical. I use a lot of vintage costume jewelry and scarves for color, pattern, texture and cohesiveness.
Thanks for your great pointers and ab-fab location background.
I turn 50 I’m a few weeks and have really been reflecting on where my style is and where it goes as I head into this next phase of my life. I’ve felt a bit at a loss (body changes, lifestyle changes, career changes) but your videos are helping me flesh it all out. ❤️
Omg! I am turning 50 in December and I have been wondering about this myself! I don’t think I have ever found my style and now it really feels like I am lost! I am overwhelmed with so much information and styles! Good luck!
I’m with you..50 is coming up and it’s a beautiful chance for resetting, elevating and aligning. @alyssa
I'm 50, and embracing it. My 3 words are edgy, creative, magpie...(I love silver jewelry 😍)
This was a fun experiment...I'm very comfortable with my individual style.
Same here! Love this comment and these videos. Helping redefine for the next chapter….
50 is by no means old so don’t get me wrong BUT your comment made me think about this comedian talking about what her “old lady uniform” is going to be😂 it’s hilarious, you should look it up here on UA-cam… it’s only like a 3 minute video, it’s so funny
Iʻve known for years that one of my words is "rustic." I prefer things like imperfect, bumpy linen; indigenous imperfect handmade bracelets and earrings, and necklaces with stones that I imperfectly hand-wrap and wear for their healing purposes. I prefer leather to plastic; I prefer stone, ceramic tile and real wood to linoleum and laminate.
I am 55, retired and living in Florida. My style in my working years was much like yours today, tailored and classical. Now I am on island time and in a very warm and humid environment. The words I am choosing today are casual, colorful and fun!
Watching your videos brings so much pleasure, it’s a combination of the amazing background, your soothing voice and the valuable content.
Pure Joy!!!!
ahhh thank you!!
Like many others who have commented, I have been going through a style identity crisis. I just turned 60 and it feels like I need to breathe some life back into my style. I have recently gone down the Kibbe rabbit hole more than I care to admit. I mostly thrift shop, which is good and bad (good to recycle, but bad because I end up with a lot of "cheap stuff" that I don't wear). But this video was really what I needed (all your slow fashion content is what I need now to be honest). Your advice helps me to simplify and relax, and lean into what makes me me. My three words (today) are nostalgic, simple, and guileless. As you suggested, I'll try it out for a while and see if it sticks. Thanks for making this all so much more approachable. Peace.
I came up with Conservative, Timeless, Understated as a first cut. Thank you so much for your awesome content. I feel like I'm finally finding myself at age 58 and without a struggle.
Thank you for this video! If someone doesn't make it to the end of your videos they are not worthy of your effort! You are the BEST youtuber of all youtubers! My words are classic, comfortable, and me!
Yes, the 3 word method has definitely helped me to not add certain pieces to my wardrobe. For me, the idea of tying the three words to my own personality or essence helped. My words are casual, straightforward, and off-beat.
Some great 3 words on here! I think I am pragmatic, eclectic and dramatic. I very much favour functional, weather appropriate clothes, but enjoy lots of different influences, including retro, vintage pieces and often have something dramatic or statement in an outfit.
i like what you said about minimal being simple w impactful, visual elements... this made me pause. i have always thought minimalism as being somewhat "boring" yet i find myself gravitating towards a less fussy, unembellished style which i have been resisting because i didnt want to lose my " flavor." you have just helped me to rethink my view on a simpler style and given me " permission " to embrace this new look for myself. Thank you. I always glean so much from your teaching. I so appreciate how you break things down and thoroughly explain and introduce new concepts... my life has been care giving for the last ten years so what i like no longer suits my daily life style... i'm not sure what my words are because i'm still clinging to my fantasy life but i do wear a lot of striped cotton button downs w either pencil skirts or jean skirts and sandals, so maybe i am tailored, casual, sophisticated? hmmm.... i like the sound of that. effortless ease... Huge Thanks Alyssa!!!
That made so much sense to me. Thank you so much and keep up with the great work girl. 👏🏼🔥
Effortless, masculine, flamboyant
What a cool exercise!! ♥️
So much wisdom. Thank you, Alyssa
I really like the idea of looking more at your personality rather than aesthetics for 3 word inspiration. I’m thinking about smart, modern, approachable. For me I think smart works better than classic because I’m not one for nostalgia or romantic dressing, modern I like better than minimal because I like clean lines but not really a statement and then approachable because that’s really important to me in terms of how I show up in the world and it also suggests causal and comfort which Are important from a lifestyle perspective. Wow, that’s a lot and fun!
Thanks so much for this video Alyssa! I just love how you break down the process! I thought I had my three words down but will look at it all again using the steps you mentioned :)
Love the breakdown and your approach to helping us refine our items in our closets into a personal style. Can't wait to experiment and find my words:)
Ahhhh this video and the examples you gave with the dresses were so helpful ✨ that black dress is a stunner 🖤 can't wait to dive into my closet and find my own three words. Grazie Alyssa ❤️
Best video ever for really explaining this concept! Thank you Alyssa!
I stumbled on this video while trying to pack and not overpack for a 10 day vacation. Love the 3 word idea, still working on it, but so far, I've come up with creative, bold, sassy. I'm now a new subscriber.
Simple and yet impactful! I love your style! Everytime im looking for an outfit i go here! ❤ You inspired me!
I LOVE this! Thank you this is really helpful. I've just started questioning my style, I feel like it needs to evolve after going into a new life phase. I have always been into slow fashion and I agree knowing your personal style is very important to achieve this
Love this video. So straightforward and easy to understand and follow! I love the breakdown of steps and that you made the video so concise and didn’t overcomplicate it!
Wonderfully helpful video! Love that final dress on you! Perfect choice!
Classic, flowy, flattering. Thank you!
This is so helpful to both think through & have in mind for future wardrobe additions! My clothing is classic, feminine, natural.
I watched this twice. I think my three words are effortless, comfort and versatile 😁
This was so helpful. I didn’t even have to get anything out of my closet! I’m minimal and classic but edgy. Thank you so much! I think keeping these words in mind when I’m shopping will help me a lot
Very helpful tips! I like that you showed at the end what you meant with examples out in the wild 😊
I absolutely loved this video, thank you for posting. I am definitely still cultivating my personal style. It's fun to me to see how my style has evolved through the years. Now at 35 years old, the clothing bits that excite me are something my 20 year old self would scoff at. My 3 words are androgynous, timeless, elevated. What a fun exercise!
Love this idea!! Thank you!! Mine are Classic, bohemian and easy. This has made me look at my wardrobe in a new way.
Loved this. Now on to finding my 3 words. You have really inspired me!
Always love your style & commentary 😍
Flowy, layered, unexpected - brilliant method! Great filter and diagnostic tool. This is the distinct value of your channel, Alyssa. You teach and give us real concepts and tools we can apply! Thank you.
Kathy
Erie, Pa.
Thank you so much Kathy - I really appreciate it and love your words! xx
Love this!
As someone who lives in a climate with very cold winters I'm loving the word layered.
I love the word "unexpected"! I think I might have to steal that one as one of my three words.
Your three words are awesome. I can picture you.
Three words: Quite a challenge! Chic, casual with a funky touch!
This was great! I've identified my three descriptors and it puts "bella figura" back into the joy of a curated wardrobe!👏😄👏
I'm a little late in the game here, but a friend of mine recommended this video. Excellent! I've recently discovered your vlogs and am binging them. Thanks for the thoughtful content. My three words for now are classic, coastal and flirty. I hope that lot's of other folks find this video from a year ago. It's a keeper for the archives.
i love this. i know what style i like but i never really thought about it to make it my own. now i know how to to do it thanks to you! i describe my style as minimalistic, earty toned, lace edgy/casual
Love this!! I’ve been really experimenting on my 3 words for the past several years and currently landed on refined, relaxed, and soft edge (I guess that’s more like 4 words 😋). These have lasted the longest so far so I think I’m on the right track. Always love learning from and getting inspired by you 💕
What a great video - love the examples you gave for your words. So much to think about now for my words! Thank you!
Thank you, Alyssa! My style words for this season in life are Adventurous, Comfortable & Happy.
Loved this video and went through the exercise with my daughter. Having to search for words that aren't typically used was a helpful challenge. My words are uncomplicated, movement & classic. I've recently turned 60 and find myself getting comfortable with a certain style but didn't know how to describe it. I think it's important to stay "modern" but you can still do that within your three words. I appreciate the comments Trisha333 made below. My daughter's words are comfortable, earthy & detailed. They really come into play when we go shopping together. This was a really fun exercise! Thank you.
Love this! I'm going with... Assertive, romantic, kind. There is so much to learn in this video, thank you. I'm subscribing!
This was a lovely video, loved the outfits, advice and setting! For now I think my 3 words might be classic, minimal, flowing. I’m in my 50s now and your advice is savvy and very helpful, thank you!
Thank you for another great video! I always appreciate your tips.
Yay! So psyched to have found your channel! I've heard of the 3-word rule before, but your guidelines for how to choose them really helped my verbose, song-writer brain to narrow things down a LOT. Also, I realized that my naturally curly hair gives me a romantic, almost bohemian vibe regardless of my clothing, which really freed me up to eliminate those words as options. For now, I'm trying out Pragmatic, Playful and Natural.
I love this concept and keep rewatching this video, lol! I’ve saved it to my favorites. It’ll take me a while to think of my words. I need a cheat sheet. ❤️
Showing the example of how you applied this in the dressing room was so great. Thank you, Alyssa!
I love watching and learning from your videos. I share them with my teenage granddaughter! My words (today) classic, comfortable, practical.
Great exercise! I think mine are Natural (easy-going styling, relaxed fit, natural fabrics and earthy colors), Artistic (play with silhouettes, colors and textures) and Polished (I love both my wardrobe and outfits to be highly curated and fine-tuned). Thanks for the challenge 😉
Classic -Sophisticated - Designer
Wow... Molto grazie, Alyssa! You three word rule is such a great help for me to re-consider my personal style 🌻🌲🌹
I am very late to the 3-word party! I’ve really struggled with styling myself as I never really matured out of student clothes. A few years ago I moved countries and in the process downsized hugely (think one big suitcase). This gave me the opportunity to really start from scratch but I fell into old patterns. However within the mess I’ve identified my 3 words as tailored (streamlining), natural (anything even vaguely polyester never gets worn), and edgy (always a little something sharp, or bolder). Thank you for this video ❤
So I purged through my closet 2 days ago. It felt really elevating that I made my husband purge through his. We are first-time parents, and time management is important to use. Less laundry for both of us and for me, less time thinking about what I'm going to wear. Based of my wardrobe now(after so many videos, past pictures, my new daily life and time in the closet😂), i realized my style Is polished + functional + romantic. I'v grown to love dresses over the past 2 years. I love color but I love black. So it's like a Edgy Romance when I'm not wearing to much color. It's also fun mixing masculine and feminine. Iv been drooling over Blazer dresses for a while now😂 These videos help so much! ❤
Your examples and try-ons were really helpful - i've been learning more about essence systems lately which has been helpful for my style but sometimes simple is better (especially when making shopping decisions). Will be brainstorming about my three words this week!
Love the videos and this one in particular as I’ve left a full corporate world but still work in an office and my work and non-work clothes are more interchangeable. Watching the way to use different items is great. Best “accidental” find on style. Keep the ideas coming!
Loved this video! I really liked this approach and how you gave outfit examples afterwards! I LOVE your black flowy dress! My 3 words would be classic, casual, and fun! Thanks!!
I've been doing this for years, it is so fun! I could use a variety of words but I think that my core three are clean, organic, and whimsical. I use clean to describe my general overall technique--I don't dress in loud or visually cluttered pieces, and I use variations of classic pieces that capture the polish but not always the sharp tailoring and structure. I use organic to describe my colors, the soft lines, drape, patterns, and fabrics, as well as the more natural earthy elements of my style. I use whimsical as the catch-all for the fun details and playfulness of my style--I love vintage elements and pieces (more on the antique end) and there's sort of an imaginative tone to my pieces. I settled on these because classic is too formal, boho is usually too western/worn, and minimal is too simple for what I wear, although I see elements of all three in how I dress.
Looe the way you have explained your words. I can really relate with this line: ' classic is too formal, boho is usually too western/worn, and minimal is too simple'.
I love the use of Clean here vs Classic. I’ve been trying to find a different word for Classic b/c Classic can tend to sound older and a bit too generic for me. Clean nails it for me for the exact reason you illustrated. Thank you!
You and I are style twins Mary 😊
Another great video!! I’m stealing your words bc they all describe me, which may also be why I LOVE your channel! Thank you for always putting out wonderful content!!
Classic, Edgy and Romantic. Time to build a mod board! Thanks for the great inspirational video! Obsessed with that black maxi! 😍
Did this for fun and I settled on timeless, straightforward and understated.
This video is very helpful Alyssa, thank you. I have been contemplating my 3 words for a while (you have spoken about them before). I was stuck on simple, but your explanation of how you came to minimal has me claiming that as one of mine. I think the other two are elegant and effortless.
This is a great method! I came up with airy/cozy (depending on the season), mobile, and polished. These words feel full of contradiction, but I’m excited to use them in my styling!
Alyssa, I really resonated with this video with my whole being. You really spoke to me as I have been evolving in my personal style in the last year especially. You inspired me to write down my thoughts about my personal style. Your video helped me unpack, compartmentalize, & categorize my style in ways that surprised me. My words are Earthy, Free-spirited, Minimalist.
This was very helpful! Thank you so much. My 3 words- retro, minimal, and chic.. Classic too.. 🙂
I’ve been thinking about this for a while, so thanks for this video! I’m leaning towards classic, colorful, and unfussy. I like simple, classic shapes and not too much detail, but I like to wear mostly non-neutral colors (fall colors mainly).
Classic elegant fun...these are off the top of my head as I wstched this. I am going to live with these for awhile and see where they take me. Love this method!!
Wow love this, my three words that came to mind before I heard yours were Classic, Minimal and Creative. I’ve started watching recently because I wanted some Italian style inspiration (and I’m hooked). I realised I aspire to and love your style and we have very similar prices but I have a more artistic, creative and maybe flamboyant twist to my style as well as the classic minimalist pieces I am drawn to and wear over and over. Thank you for your video’s I will be a regular watcher going forward:-)
this is such a fabulous way to characterize your style! this video itself is well produced and explained. I have just finished doing a deep decluttering of my wardrobe and will likely embark on another one soon, but questions about where my style will go next have been stirring within me. this has been such a reassuring and beautiful guide. the last dress you tried on at the end while explaining how it fits your three words looked absolutely stunning on you.
Just found you today. Love your style, your advice and your videos!
Great job!👏👏👏
I love your videos, the vibe of your vlog and your joy, all of it is flowing down on me, thank you!
Ahhh what a compliment thank you Aneta!
Comfortable, Creative, Romantic. My sister has shared many of your videos with me, and now I am sharing with all my friends who compliment me on how I mix patterns and textures in my outfits. I have always done this, but your tips have helped me to shop less and give away all my disjointed and uncomfortable pieces, which almost always resulted from binge shopping. Thank you!!
Since transitioning to fall and winter soon, I wanted to take inventory of my closet and really hon in to what my personal style is. I like the three word method that you suggested and once I wrote those down I immediately could see a common theme in my style before even pulling clothes out of my closet. This video helped me to simplify what my style is. This is key as I search/shop for key pieces that my wardrobe is missing! Thank you for making this video!
That was so helpful! Thank you so much! I have been trying to understand personal style for a year and nothing was clicking in my head. Your explanation helped me understand it in 12 minutes!! Wish I saw this video sooner haha
You nailed your personal style words! I’m really embracing your method as it’s a way to be both creative and focussed. I’m classic, feminine/girly & polished.
@ Juanita, for polished my synonym is “chic” , where I like to ‘update’ my polished looks.
Great tips. I need to work on my Three words. I think classic would be one. Loved the examples of styles you showed. Very helpful.
Thank you for doing this video it really helps your viewers determine their style to stay true yourself. My 3 are classic with a twist feminine and unconventional
you're a mind-reader! I've been trying to figure out these words forever and now I'm inspired to give it some reflection. right now I think I'm natural-simple-comfortable, but I think I can refine it. thank you Alyssa!