I've been living in Europe 4 months, here are style lessons I've learned in Croatia, Portugal

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  • I've been living in Europe for almost 4 months, and these are some European style lessons and observations that everyone can learn. Every European country and region has it's own style and this video isn't meant to generalize, instead I hope you enjoy these European style lessons if you want to dress like a European this summer!
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  • @zoefornoff8884
    @zoefornoff8884 2 роки тому +1081

    Tips from a European: 1. Invest in good underwear - no matter your outfit, this is key. 2. Choose good fabrics. 3. Take everything to your seamstress for a perfect fit. 4. Acknowledge when your body changes and adapt. 5. The bag goes with the shoes - gentlemen: the belt goes with the shoes. 6. Good sunnies elevate any style. 7. Make sure your hair is healthy and does not look overdone or tired. 8. Posture - no matter what, it is HOW you wear it. 9. Clean shoes, please. 10. A personal scent.

    • @Chiblie7
      @Chiblie7 2 роки тому +17

      This is good!!! Thanks for sharing these 10!

    • @y.a.4464
      @y.a.4464 2 роки тому +18

      Seamstress costs like $70 to hem a dress in USA

    • @melissaj.corbin7675
      @melissaj.corbin7675 2 роки тому +7

      Well said! Thanks for the savvy tips!

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +8

      Amazing!! Thank you for sharing!

    • @lynnwalker
      @lynnwalker 2 роки тому +5

      I love and agree with every one of these tips! Great list!

  • @lucyjones5653
    @lucyjones5653 2 роки тому +242

    I’m disabled with severe mobility issues. I spend most of my time having to lie flat in bed. I’m also single and usually on my own, as no family nearby. For the hour or so, every few days that I leave my house to go for a coffee, I make bloomin’ sure I look good, with nice clothes, hair done and a bit of makeup. I might be changing back into pyjamas after an hour or so but while I’m out, I want to FEEL I look good!! So important for psychological welfare. Thank you for teaching me so much about style and helping me to think through my purchases more carefully. xx

    • @janicevin4207
      @janicevin4207 2 роки тому +8

      I understand! I am retired and widowed and do the same!

    • @wavyjenny602
      @wavyjenny602 2 роки тому +18

      I was mostly bed- or sofa-bound last year and left my house once every 2 weeks to go to the oncologist or hospital for tests and treatment. I did exactly the same as you: I dressed in my favourite clothes to feel my best. It’s an important part of the psychology of feeling good about yourself, and creating hope. In Spain we tend to wear loungewear at home and dress only to leave the house - when I get home I change back into my loungewear, so sometimes I will only be wearing an outfit for an hour or two and put it away for another day. I kind of felt sorry for all my carefully selected, beautiful clothes that had been sitting unused in my wardrobe while I didn’t go out so I “showed them some love” and showed myself some self-care in the process. If I don’t dress to leave the house - even just to pop to the supermarket - I don’t feel good about myself and feel as if I have let myself down. We all deserve to feel our best.

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +7

      Hi Lucy! Thank you so much for sharing that is so well put - getting dressed for ourselves is psychological welfare :) So glad you are enjoying this content! xx

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +4

      @@wavyjenny602 Well said Jenny - we all deserve to feel our best! Thank you for sharing:)

    • @AngelissimaASMR
      @AngelissimaASMR 2 місяці тому +2

      I'm saying a prayer for your healing! Keep holding on to hope and dignity. Getting dressed, feeling beautiful and put-together!. I've struggled with rheumatoid arthritis and other life problems but we don't have to LOOK like we are struggling all the time. There is beauty to make of life and our present circumstances. God bless you!! 💖✨

  • @elisasilva5621
    @elisasilva5621 2 роки тому +249

    I'm originally from Spain, and one of the things that really surprised me since living here was that when I went out running errands (food shopping or a place like Target, for example) is that people were dressed in PJ pants and slippers. Like they literally got out of bed and couldn't be bothered to change. If I went out of the house like that, my mother would lock me up!

    • @04steen
      @04steen 2 роки тому

      :-D...that's funny! (I'm Spanish too)

    • @lionessawaking42412
      @lionessawaking42412 2 роки тому +49

      Born in USA and I hate seeing people wearing pajamas/sleepwear outside of the house.

    • @xtinkerbellax3
      @xtinkerbellax3 2 роки тому +20

      @@lionessawaking42412 Same. people usually claim it's for comfort but there are comfortable clothes that weren't made to sleep in.

    • @TenTenJ
      @TenTenJ 2 роки тому +2

      There’s a way to do that and look chic. Only a rare few people can pull that off.

    • @elisasilva5621
      @elisasilva5621 2 роки тому +13

      @@TenTenJ I dont think you look chic wearing pajamas and slippers when you go out. Just my humble opinion.

  • @spencepaloma
    @spencepaloma 2 роки тому +333

    México is the same way. We get dressed up everyday. When I came to the usa I was shocked. I still after 12 years get comments of being over dressed. I love style and clothes. And love you channel.

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you for the kind words and for sharing! I love learning this! xx

    • @kathrynnielson5689
      @kathrynnielson5689 2 роки тому +30

      You're so right about us here in America. It's so disheartening to see people walking around not caring about what they look like. It's not about having the trendiest, most expensive clothes. You could be dressed head to toe in Walmart (which has been killing it this year with their online fashion options) and look put together if it's clean, pressed, and your hair isn't dirty. I just don't get it, and I really believe if people made half of an effort, it would go a long way in improving their mood and outlook.

    • @seriouslyinsanediva
      @seriouslyinsanediva 2 роки тому +12

      @@kathrynnielson5689 you are so right. At parent and student reunions, some other parents dress like they don't give a hoot and I've been asked why I'm dressed so nice.

    • @natalies5818
      @natalies5818 2 роки тому +4

      @@seriouslyinsanediva me too, all the time! I enjoy dressing up when I get the opportunity

    • @spencepaloma
      @spencepaloma 2 роки тому +13

      I'm from Monterrey México and it really is beautiful, even when you go to HEB everyone is so nicely dressed, you don't see people in yoga pants and sports wear unless they're literally going or coming from the gym. I love seeing people dressed up. You don't have to be in heels and look like your about to go to a club but just like Alyssa, elegant and comfortable. I do love watching this, especially the travel videos.

  • @margaretgray7131
    @margaretgray7131 Рік тому +12

    I’m 73, live in California and see the worst in fashion here. I love to dress nicely. Makeup, something fresh and pretty to wear and poof! You feel incredible even popping to the market! You can be very comfortable without looking grumpy if you just take a minute to add some sparkle. Thank you for your tips.

  • @perseagratissima
    @perseagratissima 2 роки тому +713

    Love this video, but as a “European” why don’t you say “living in this and this country” instead of “Europe”? Europe is a continent and people in Scandinavia dress totally different than in Italy or the UK for example. EDIT: the Video Title was changed to include Portugal and Croatia, which is great 😊

    • @laurarosanne
      @laurarosanne 2 роки тому +36

      Yes, I agree!

    • @majbrittkjaer6134
      @majbrittkjaer6134 2 роки тому +64

      Indeed, it would be like me, a Dane, saying that I have lived in the Americas when I have actually lived in Mexico, Canada and Idaho, USA - as an example. Or Noth America, and then only having lived in the US and ignoring Canada. I love Italian style, but not sure about the french (doesnt really seem to flatter my size and body type) but feel most at home in the Scandinavian simple, but architectural style …. so while I appreciate your video, as always, just want to support that Europe is not one country or style. But we do like to look good 😁

    • @carolinalopez3648
      @carolinalopez3648 2 роки тому +17

      Is just a title for the video. I assume she’s not living in one specific place in EUROPE. Make sense.

    • @sanjalisnjic7271
      @sanjalisnjic7271 2 роки тому +64

      As a Croatian I wish she has written "Croatia" somewhere in the title since she is now in Croatia and in this video is talking about fashion in Croatia. 🙃🙂😍

    • @perseagratissima
      @perseagratissima 2 роки тому +26

      @@carolinalopez3648 she can’t live in all of Europe at the same time now can she? So she always has to be in a specific place and since she only talked about Croatia and Italy in the video she could use that in the Titel ;)

  • @marijafodorpravdic4022
    @marijafodorpravdic4022 2 роки тому +41

    I'm Croatian and you are right about "špica" we dress up for cup of coffe with friends on terraces and adore it. It' s way of life like italian "dolce far niente" greetings from Croatia

    • @maaikezuidema8952
      @maaikezuidema8952 Рік тому +7

      Croatia is so beautiful. High on my list of countries to visit.

  • @gatamadriz
    @gatamadriz 2 роки тому +254

    Lived in Madrid for almost 6 years. Things I learned:
    Never leave the house without:
    your hair done
    Perfume
    ironed clothes
    coordinated outfits and in the summer, your fan must go with the outfit.
    Biggest style hack? Get your clothes tailored! In the U.S. we think of off the rack as it must fit perfectly to you from the start - in Europe, off the rack is the jumping off point for you to get clothes tailored to your body. There is nothing better than a shirt where the sleeves are the proper length, the length of the shirt falls perfectly when left untucked, and across the breast doesn't have a gap when you raise your arms. Same said for skirts, dress and jackets. You always look polished.

    • @surfsusan
      @surfsusan 2 роки тому +4

      I agree I tailor my own clothes - unless coats, I get a pro do those.

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +4

      TOTALLY agree with altering clothing to fit - it is a gamechanger!

    • @karenmorris1359
      @karenmorris1359 2 роки тому

      Loves it!!

    • @shannonwhitlatch5101
      @shannonwhitlatch5101 2 роки тому

      Yes!

    • @vick9895
      @vick9895 Рік тому +1

      That definitely doesn't apply to Barcelona... People here could not care less about their own looks... :(

  • @allthingswavy6420
    @allthingswavy6420 2 роки тому +421

    I LOVE this video. Seriously. The format of you "sitting local" and then showing snippets of the fashion ideas you're sharing creates a specific type of narrative. One that actually presents a "day in the life of" Croatia. Really smooth.

    • @yvonneroche3897
      @yvonneroche3897 2 роки тому +11

      You absolutely nailed it in what you said about how they style clothes in Europe.
      I am living in Portugal for a year now. The Street is where I am inspired.

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +4

      I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for letting me know! xx

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +4

      @@yvonneroche3897 ahh i feel this!

  • @rojohn4772
    @rojohn4772 2 роки тому +87

    I just returned from 2 weeks in Europe and I was definitely humbled by the grace of the women and attention to detail.

    • @rosyapplekitchen635
      @rosyapplekitchen635 2 роки тому +4

      I came from Europe and live in London and it is safe to say the majority of the time they have way more time on their hands, life is slower. Although, I agree we have become lazy here in London.

    • @rojohn1014
      @rojohn1014 2 роки тому +2

      @@rosyapplekitchen635 I appreciate that point out a slower lifestyle for women there. I do all my landscaping and gardening which is almost a full time job these days with an acre of land. Also a large house to care for.
      My son and his family live in an apartment in Basel, Switzerland. They are on the street and riding trams to their destinations, where I have to drive 45 minutes over mountains to get to my frequent destinations.
      I rambled there, but you had me thinking of the contrast. 🙋🏻

  • @celinescuisine259
    @celinescuisine259 Рік тому +15

    This is so refreshing. I am French living now in Southern California where people are so casual and do not care how they look they just want to be comfortable. I used to live in NYC and it was a completly story people usually dress very nicely and want to look unique. Going to France in a few weeks I can't wait to catch up these vibes again : nicely dressed, good food, elegance, beautiful archictecture, history....

  • @kathleenrichardson6695
    @kathleenrichardson6695 2 роки тому +179

    So refreshing not to hear about French style. There are lots of other countries in Europe that dress just as well, if not better. Very interesting video. Thank you.

    • @teriwhite4151
      @teriwhite4151 2 роки тому +2

      Spot on

    • @karatechick306
      @karatechick306 2 роки тому +10

      Totally! Italian style is my personal favorite, and obviously why I follow Alyssa. Mediterranean styles feel so playful.

  • @andreab9351
    @andreab9351 2 роки тому +111

    My philosophy when it comes to getting dressed each day is, ‘Dress like you’re going somewhere better later.’ I keep very few clothes for ‘best’, as I like to get my price per wear out of everything. People at work often tell me that I look more dressy than they do when they go out for the evening, which used to make me feel a like they thought I was trying too hard, but now I just tell them that I want to get the wear out of my clothes, and they generally say, “Hmm, I suppose you’re right”. I enjoy putting outfits together and everything I do buy (not too much or too often) goes with everything else in my wardrobe which is so helpful. I live in England, and although there are many stylish women, the majority are very casual and not ‘put together’.

    • @ahumanaperson
      @ahumanaperson 2 роки тому

      My philosophy tends to be “what won’t get damaged at work and will be easy to launder”. Idk how well dressed people deal with laundry. Sheets, towels and blankets already take up half the week, how am I supposed to wear a variety of ironed colours and fibres and have time to live?

    • @dreamer6943
      @dreamer6943 Рік тому +1

      @@ahumanaperson personally I think most washing programs are unnecessary. I have two piles for clothing: pale and dark. Both get washed on a "Quick wash" setting at 40°C which takes just under an hour. Everything goes in there: underwear, all fabrics, things which say hand wash only or dry clean only. Very few things are ever damaged. In winter if I can't line dry it all goes in the tumble dryer too except things with a high percentage of wool because those are most likely to shrink and the drying setting I use is 90°C for 90 minutes. It comes out slightly damp but shaking out the steam from the clothes with the window open is enough to dry them (except jeans and thick jumpers which need finishing off on the radiator). Doing it this way means I damage the occasional item due to incorrect care but it's worth the loss for the sake of a simplified life whilst still being able to look good.

  • @nadiamar9339
    @nadiamar9339 2 роки тому +132

    Bella figura ❤ you're right. My mother always tried to look at her best, also in the worst moments ( my brother was a disabled person, my mother was always elegant, no matter what). I learnt from her and I try to do my best, but many people think that it is a superficial attitude. No, now I understand, it is not only an outfit, it is also a sort of protection, a "coat of armour ". Lots of love from Italy, ciao! 😘

    • @BadassBitchProject
      @BadassBitchProject 2 роки тому +21

      @Nadia Mar Well said! It's truly like a coat of armour but also a coat of self love and a way to support yourself when you face the life.💛

    • @nadiamar9339
      @nadiamar9339 2 роки тому +7

      @@BadassBitchProject I totally agree with you, thank you

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +3

      thank you for sharing and well said Nadia! xx

    • @nadiamar9339
      @nadiamar9339 2 роки тому +2

      @@AlyssaBeltempo 🌸🌸🌸

    • @mmcs4973
      @mmcs4973 2 роки тому +9

      I SO agree! There's something about "putting your best foot forward" that prepares you to deal with whatever you have to, especially if it's painful

  • @obscurity7
    @obscurity7 2 роки тому +28

    The longer I watch your videos, the more I'm struck by just how well you explain fashion concepts.

    • @lisbetsoda4874
      @lisbetsoda4874 2 роки тому +5

      Alyssa is not the typical fashion UA-camr. ☺️ She is seriously intelligent and so well spoken and able to explain things so well. The fact that her fashion sense is top notch, she is a vision to behold and her videos are a visual treat, makes her my daughter's and my absolute favourite.
      Just wish her videos were 20-30 minutes. They always seem too short. 😁

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +2

      ahh this is too kind, thank you. I feel like I'm very wordy lol so I appreciate this!

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +2

      @@lisbetsoda4874 Lisbet thank you so much for this high praise, it means a lot! xx

    • @cltinturkey
      @cltinturkey 2 роки тому +1

      She is the master at breaking down the elements of an outfit so you can use the concepts (rather than shopping for more) to maximize the versatility of your own wardrobe. She also owns the hardest-working and most beautiful scarf, which she has worn in every possible way. Bravissima!

  • @OliviaSilvaCompositora
    @OliviaSilvaCompositora 2 роки тому +51

    Me and my brother (we are from Portugal) were kind of shocked when we went to the US and people just don't care about what they wear. It's like people don't know how to put clothes together? The idea we got is that people just don't care. And it was very confusing to us because even in our casual wear we pay some kind of attention to details, shapes, accessories. Wearing some perfume can go a long way, for example. We can look casual without looking like we got dressed in the dark.

    • @janicevin4207
      @janicevin4207 2 роки тому +3

      agree completely! but they don't care about a lot of things like food, interior decor,.....it is perpetuated by the lack of home education...

    • @charlierogertango1055
      @charlierogertango1055 2 роки тому +10

      I have found that I would be bullied if I made too much effort to look good. Now that I'm older I dont care what they think. If I want to wear a dress I do. I can be very frusrating...

    • @OliviaSilvaCompositora
      @OliviaSilvaCompositora 2 роки тому +5

      @@charlierogertango1055 I can understand, I was told by americans I had an arrogant european demeanor and that I paid too much attention to how I dress. I was like "y'all know nothing" haha

    • @mia.v1711
      @mia.v1711 2 роки тому +20

      My opinion: grew up in Croatia, lived in Canada for 23 years now. People don’t have time and energy here. Everywhere is far, time spent commuting is crazy. Then at work you are severely overworked, you come home and still work for family. No time to live, sleep, eat, breathe. No one cares about the looks as long as you show up to work the next day.

    • @rosyapplekitchen635
      @rosyapplekitchen635 2 роки тому +3

      Time…life is slower in Europe most people aren’t as worried about bills to pay either. Although, things are changing as it becomes more and more westernised there too

  • @suzanner3894
    @suzanner3894 2 роки тому +155

    This was a great video. I love knowing the styling “hacks” from other counties. So many of these deal with the French esthetic and while that’s nice. I think it’s been done to death. There is more to Europe than France.

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +4

      Im glad you enjoyed it! xx

    • @Ingrid0410
      @Ingrid0410 2 роки тому +11

      I agree. So many videos and channels about the French capsule, Trench coat, Marinere Breton top etc, do we all want to look the same in a uniform? Don’t think so. Actually very few women in France dress in these stereotypical pieces

    • @BlackCoffeeee
      @BlackCoffeeee 2 роки тому +16

      Absolutely. The French are the best at self-promotion, which means that they usually get all the attention. But, in reality, the Italians are sheer masters at style. Croatia, Spain, Portugal and many others are hidden style gems.

    • @mysticheart1049
      @mysticheart1049 2 роки тому +1

      And there is much more to the world than Europe.

    • @mysticheart1049
      @mysticheart1049 2 роки тому +1

      @@BlackCoffeeee In fact, Eurocentrism is a huge problem in our world, because they love to make the rest of us think everything should center around Europe and Europeans. There is a massive global colonial mentality at play there. Sorry, but I think there is plenty of over-hype when it comes to Italians as well. There is so much more beauty in this world to be explored in every possible subject you can imagine. There is so much in various European cultures that have been influenced by non-European cultures, from food to fashion and a lot of those Europeans (who are masters of cultural appropriation and exploitation) would turn around and take credit for those things.

  • @christaballerinarukavina6034
    @christaballerinarukavina6034 2 роки тому +124

    What a FANTASTIC post! And love that you included Croatian style (that's my heritage on my father's side). I remember teasing my Mom when she was ironing my undies during a visit home. She said, "Growing up during the Depression, we learned that you can always look presentable if your clothes are clean and well pressed." I, frankly, have lamented the state of "slob-ism" in the U.S. and yet, so many people overreact about such criticism, when, in fact, it takes little $ to present well. This is particularly ironic, given how much money most people spend on the contents of their closets. I toured Europe numerous times as a dancer, and was often embarrassed about many in the troupe giving such a bad impression of American style. Even the everyday routines are elevated by tending to your grooming and style.

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +6

      youre so right about how it doesn't take much to look well dressed and stylish! Thank you for sharing!

    • @margaretgray7131
      @margaretgray7131 Рік тому +2

      I too am Croatian, fathers side. And my mother did the same ironing everything. We even ironed wrapping paper to reuse. I learned from my English mother to always leave the house nicely dressed. It has carried me through 73 years. Her biggest imprint was saying, “Be sure to have on clean panties in case you are in an accident”. 🙄🤣

  • @imo.124
    @imo.124 Рік тому +7

    Just got back from Croatia after my second time there. I love love it! I want to move there. I agree with everything you said.

  • @littlecitygirl
    @littlecitygirl 2 роки тому +86

    Loved the format and loved your observations, Alyssa. As a Brit living in Canada (Vancouver Island) I've struggled for years with coming to terms with dressing more casually in order to feel like I fit in. Since Covid hit I've re-embraced my inner European and started 'dressing' again and I feel so much more like me while still enjoying the lifestyle here on the beautiful west coast. I think my biggest epiphany was that I don't have to 'fit in' in order to fit in.

    • @CorinnaOnTheRun
      @CorinnaOnTheRun 2 роки тому +5

      Well said

    • @fdsqueen5375
      @fdsqueen5375 2 роки тому +3

      I live in Ontario, Canada and I feel the same! I come from a different culture and we always dress up. I’m always over dressed in Canada but that’s who I am and it makes me feel like myself. I can’t do the sweats/jeans/shorts outfits lol

    • @Jen-zk9se
      @Jen-zk9se 2 роки тому +2

      I’m born and raised and live on Vancouver island too and can imagine the cultural change in dressing would be shocking. Very casual and “outdoorsy” here. If you aren’t in pyjamas your “dressed” lol

    • @swisschalet1658
      @swisschalet1658 2 роки тому +6

      Dressing up is great and saying no to yoga pants and sweatshirts every day is great too, but people need to realize in some parts of America, it really is just not practical to dress even semi-nice on a regular basis, and I'll tell you why. When you live on a farm or have a lot of land, especially in the Midwest, and you actually LIVE ON and INTERACT WITH the land, you are dealing with a lot of mud! You are dealing with grass, burrs, weeds, walking up and down uneven hills, etc. Boots are a must...but they are too hot for summer, so you need sandals that can handle it, not cute little kitten-heels. You need jeans or a denim skirt unless you want your clothes ruined in short time. Not everyone lives in a city apartment. (hardly anyone does). Even suburban life requires clothes that need to be functional and durable. When you mow your own 3 acres, maintain your own house, possibly have many animals (livestock or otherwise), then yeeeeessss, you sometimes throw on whatever you can find at the time that is clean vs look for a "stylish" outfit. I'm just mentioning this in defense of a large portion of America...it's not necessarily about being a slob. If you lived the lifestyle of someone maintaining land, and you're not wealthy enough to hire out al your dirty work, you would quickly understand. The weather extremes here are so different than in many parts of Europe. Sometimes they just do not understand how different our winters or summers are compared to milder versions. That can really impact your wardrobe choices.

  • @cindyboughen9933
    @cindyboughen9933 2 роки тому +51

    Loved this, Alyssa! I wasn’t always a “get dressed even for errands” person, but I am now. I think people wearing yoga pants everywhere are missing out! Thank you 😍

    • @polishtheday
      @polishtheday 2 роки тому +1

      It’s not the outfit but how you put it together. I’ve seen well-dressed people in yoga pants. There’s a woman in my neighbourhood who goes for morning runs looking fabulous. Everything is coordinated and looks good on her and it’s running gear. I don’t throw just anything on to go to the gym or to yoga and pay attention to what I’m going to wear over it on my way there and back. I don’t leave the house without some subtle makeup that enhances my appearance. I remember that one of the things I thought about after getting a dog was what outfits I would wear dog walking. They had to be functional for the dog park - wellies were an obvious choice for footwear - and still look good enough for weekend shopping and coffee at a local cafe with the dog. Yes, I went shopping with the dog when I lived in Vancouver. I’m not European. It’s just the way I was brought up to dress. I’ve recently been watching videos of people walking downtown in the city of Montreal, where I currently live. It had me cringing, that is until I saw videos of Toronto where people dress even worse.

  • @jimandjudyc48
    @jimandjudyc48 2 роки тому +9

    The outfit you're wearing is a perfect example of "bella figura" and utility. Thanks for an inspiring video!

  • @marijagrandov5712
    @marijagrandov5712 2 роки тому +17

    Hvala for this blog! My family is from a coastal town in Dalmatia & Croatians love fashion for sure. Street photography has been a thing in that region since the 1950s looking through my friends & family's photo albums though. Photographers tried to make money giving locals the star treatment according to my dad. Enjoy your stay in Šibenik! ☺️

  • @theresaanstett51
    @theresaanstett51 2 роки тому +11

    Loved this video. A lady from Latvia came to visit for a while and I couldn’t help but notice how classy she looked in casual, yet classy clothing. I used to dress this way when a young child to church and school and kept the grubbies for play. Perhaps we could learn a good lesson from Europeans and ourselves from our youth. I am 70. What a refreshing video. Anxious to see what else you can tempt us with!!!

  • @sandramatic158
    @sandramatic158 2 роки тому +10

    For us Croats, fashion is everything. We adore fashion. The event of the week is a dress up for the "Špica".

  • @SingYourselfWell
    @SingYourselfWell 2 роки тому +51

    Born and raised in Europe, this jacket over the shoulder thing was everywhere. I think it's terribly chic, AND terrible for the posture, as we curve our backs to keep the darn thing on. 😀 Anyway, loved this video, Alyssa. Homesick. 💖

    • @hollyramsey235
      @hollyramsey235 2 роки тому +1

      As a child in the 1970s, in the US, I recall seeing the more mature ladies wearing a jacket over the shoulders. Glad to know it's coming back around.

    • @Rachel-lo6if
      @Rachel-lo6if Рік тому

      For that trend, I think it would be best to sew a chain (made out of metal, leather, what have you) that attaches to a button on the other side. With the chain below the collar, the coat can sit on the shoulders without falling off!

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet 2 роки тому +37

    Loved the format of the video & great tips. Lovely seeing the city and especially loved the look you have on 🫶🏽

  • @veselagrigorova9032
    @veselagrigorova9032 2 роки тому +14

    Having grown up in Europe (Bulgaria) for my first 22 years and then moving to Canada (GTA) in 1996, I love your take on how to carry yourself with grace, pride and enjoyment in wearing comfy clothes in style! You have been such a wondeful inspiration 👍

  • @kat.5927
    @kat.5927 Рік тому +13

    As a European who lived in a few different countries, elegance and simplicity are definitely key. Simple clean-cut clothes, neutral colors - nothing too showy or matchy-matchy, nice fabrics, sleek hair, jewellery is a must! but keep it thin and dainty, good healthy skin and hair are a big part of looking nice!, not many accessories but a nice bag goes a long way and it doesn't have to be a designer bag, italian leather bags look quite clean and sophisticated. Red or neutral nail polish. Kinda like Alicia Vikander's style, she's amazing.

  • @SJPortelli
    @SJPortelli Рік тому +9

    I've lived in Zagreb (on and off) for a year now and my goodness... The first thing I noticed when I walk down my street, which is Ilica, the most trendy catwalk for fashionistas, is how immaculately dressed people are. Most of the time they have shopping bags and heels !!! Just to get around and do some shopping. I feel guilty every time I wake up and put my boho everyday clothes on and head to the market on foot, like a criminal.

    • @ivankazeleznjak4825
      @ivankazeleznjak4825 Рік тому

      🙂 Some will invest in those boots, shoes and bags with little to spend on food. My Italian uncle said how well women are dressed in Zagreb.

  • @grassroots8165
    @grassroots8165 2 роки тому +6

    Dressing for coffee reminds me of going out for brunch in the deep South. Although the general style base is completely different, it is common to dress with purpose and style for brunch.

    • @polishtheday
      @polishtheday 2 роки тому +1

      It is here too, at least for some of us.

  • @seriouslyinsanediva
    @seriouslyinsanediva 2 роки тому +3

    Having grown up in Chile 🇨🇱, I remember no one leaving the house without brushing their hair, putting on lipstick and changing shoes. Even to go buy a loaf of bread. There's no "schlepping around". The weather was always a little cooler in the morning and again at night because of the mountains, so you carry a sweater or jacket with you for later, and you wear it on your shoulders or tied around your waist or shoulders. Now, living in Toronto, I always carry a scarf with me, even in summer, to wear in the air conditioned spaces or later at night if I'm staying out late. Occassionaly, a pair of socks in my bag in case I get chili.

  • @javius2000
    @javius2000 2 роки тому +4

    Yes, Alyssa, we love this format! Thank you so much for sharing the tips :)

  • @lorivitro9389
    @lorivitro9389 2 роки тому +4

    Loved everything about this!! Enjoyed the different format of you basically sitting down with us for a chat. More please!!♥️♥️

  • @freidazavurov9592
    @freidazavurov9592 2 роки тому +1

    This was a wonderful format! Casual yet classy and to the point.

  • @LASmithBuxton
    @LASmithBuxton 2 роки тому +4

    Loved this video! Casual, conversational, and creative.

  • @rozbickad
    @rozbickad 2 роки тому +1

    living in New York I remember when going to the office was in a suit and ladies had to wear pantyhose. Than came casual Friday during the Summer since people were leaving to their beach houses right after work. Now casual Friday is decent and in New York is black, on black on black all year round. :(((((, so when you see glamour street wear from NY those are fashionistas. Regular people are constantly in rush, no style only black even during the Summer. I love colors, whole black may be elegant but not everyday. thanks to this channel I am refreshing on a style, on shopping your closet. As my husband mentioned - for a whole month I hadn't repeat a clothes. ( and I didn't buy anything I just style them with more thoughts, with more inspirations, looking at pictures and with time and practice it is getting easier). Thank you Alyssa, you are so creative anything is great. Maybe "shop your closet " of an European lady, or maybe European lady come to your place and she dress you using your clothes and her style - that will be great.

  • @wannabe41
    @wannabe41 2 роки тому +9

    Love, love love this! The concept of putting your best self forward everywhere you go is such a mood lifting, life affirming perspective! It’s such a bummer to go a local grocery store or coffee shop and see patrons who look like they literally just rolled out of bed. It doesn’t take that much effort if you put some work in upfront and it makes you feel fantastic! Makes me want to up my game even more.

  • @jonettedecamp408
    @jonettedecamp408 2 роки тому +11

    Love, love , love Bella Figura concept! Making every day life a celebration and dressing the part. Feeling special, fresh, best foot forward is such a gift to one's self. Thank you Aylssa for reminding us to celebrate life's simplicities = being in the moment.

  • @kitstar5221
    @kitstar5221 2 роки тому +1

    Love! this format & how you've absorbed & imparted the cultural clothing nuances. Lovely to see your old, familiar garments styled in your new environment. 😍

  • @chickenleg002
    @chickenleg002 2 роки тому +2

    Loved this style of share! Thx for bringing us along on your travels. You are creating a whole tribe of ‘vicarious gypsies’. And we are here for it!

  • @aileer467
    @aileer467 2 роки тому +1

    More! I love seeing the everyday style of women (and men) of Italy! So inspirational!

  • @mobe494
    @mobe494 2 роки тому +2

    Loved the format Alyssa! I felt like you were super excited to share the latest fashion update w/ yiur friends! Way to go chica!👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @e.magana8420
    @e.magana8420 2 роки тому +1

    I’d love more of these videos, it’s absolutely fantastic!

  • @gracef3693
    @gracef3693 2 роки тому

    Such a great “chat”, with some wonderful insights. Love this format, Alyssa.

  • @ThrivingByHisGrace
    @ThrivingByHisGrace 2 роки тому +2

    I really enjoyed the format... It was fun to see local street style and some beautiful scenery around the city in Croatia where you're staying. I love how looking a little more put together helps to romanticize life... That's one of the reasons I enjoy vintage fashion as well

  • @TheDriftwoodlover
    @TheDriftwoodlover 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing these ideas from across the pond. I do like this format, especially because it allows us to get a glimpse of where you are living.

  • @malladosenica
    @malladosenica 2 роки тому +9

    I love your European videos, it's nice to see a change of pace, I am from Croatia myself and live in Zagreb and I love people watching in the city center and seeing all the fun outfits, tnx for the inspo!

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +3

      Ahhh I am excited to visit Zagreb! Thank you for sharing!

  • @karenchristenson4004
    @karenchristenson4004 2 роки тому +3

    Yes! This format is a great addition 👍

  • @Maya-si9vx
    @Maya-si9vx 2 роки тому +1

    Wow this video was rich in info! Great tips and observations, with memorable stories or context. Thank you! Ready for my coffee outing now ;)

  • @moidutoiphotography8427
    @moidutoiphotography8427 2 роки тому +1

    I like all your videos but I really LOVED this one, so wonderful to get an insight into how other countries approach dressing and fashion.

  • @giadazanella4080
    @giadazanella4080 2 роки тому +15

    The sweater on the shoulders brought back memories! I grew up in Italy and grandma always told me to bring a "golfino" in case it gets chilly.. This is in July with 35° 😂 definitely enjoyed this video, you expressed the 'philosophy' behind Bella figura very well. I think Italians can be dressed casually (like jeans and tshirt) but it's always put together, ironed, good fit, etc. And comfortable!

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +2

      hahaha omg my nonni and zias would ALWAYS make me bring extra layers when going out side - in SUMMER! Thanks for hte memory!

  • @halliebass
    @halliebass 2 роки тому +2

    Like this perspective! People do dress up more in Europe, to go for coffee or shopping. I love that. When I retired, I made sure to not hang out in slob clothes. When we wear sweats and T-shirts or hoodies all the time or those dreadful flannel pj bottoms, it sends a message…..Making an effort to perk yourself up a bit does good things for your whole outlook!

  • @physicianskitchen
    @physicianskitchen Рік тому +3

    It's so interesting to see my country from perspective of someone of other nationality. This was really thoughtful and sweet, love it 😌

  • @sylvierozon3402
    @sylvierozon3402 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video. I definitely enjoy ‘dressing up’ even to go for a coffee. Thanks Alyssa for sharing your view of style of other countries.

  • @norawotton5440
    @norawotton5440 2 роки тому +3

    Loved this backdrop and type of video. I want to spend next winter in Portugal and Croatia! Enjoy!

  • @kathysteele3071
    @kathysteele3071 2 роки тому +2

    I love seeing how others dress and enjoy seeing you in the places you are visiting.

  • @marshamiller6176
    @marshamiller6176 2 роки тому +2

    I like this format and I like seeing the fashion on people and seeing what they are doing!

  • @valeriehowden471
    @valeriehowden471 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful format... like a best friend chatting about their travels. Enjoy your new location.

  • @heathercosh5582
    @heathercosh5582 2 роки тому +2

    Love this format - keep up the great work and enjoy your time in Europe!

  • @lindatyler4331
    @lindatyler4331 2 роки тому +3

    I love all your ideas, locations, and suggestions. I dress your suggestions almost every day. As a matter of fact. I was dressed for work and it is going to be 90 degrees today so I added the sweater/long sleeve t-shirt as a scarf to change my look. Thank you

  • @Sandraadee1
    @Sandraadee1 2 роки тому +2

    A GREAT video full of great ideas and thoughts! ( I love how you included handbag limitations with a 'cape' blazer look!). Love the location too - Beautiful! As always, thank you!

  • @thepreppygigi8216
    @thepreppygigi8216 2 роки тому +5

    Yes, like the format very much and seeing the environment, street style, and architecture where you are...

  • @Laurasaurus5
    @Laurasaurus5 2 роки тому

    I really loved this video! I appreciate how versatile this advice is, even for those of us with a much different style than Alyssa! The "third dimension" vs "third piece" observation really sparked a lot of fun ideas for me!

  • @nicoleedmonds9155
    @nicoleedmonds9155 2 роки тому +2

    LOVED THIS!!! Wait.. this couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. I’m traveling to Croatia on Tuesday , and it’s my first time in Europe. I’m confident with my style but I know LA and EU are so different. Thanks for the tips 💕👌🏼

  • @randyebastian8186
    @randyebastian8186 2 роки тому +3

    You are definitely in the styling zone! Please keep them coming!!!

  • @caseyyoung8330
    @caseyyoung8330 2 роки тому +3

    Loved this video and all the insight you have gained while living overseas! Thank you for sharing

  • @angelablackburn6268
    @angelablackburn6268 2 роки тому +19

    I do love this video and format but what would make it even better would be more images of actual people walking around in Europe!

    • @karenhumphries9376
      @karenhumphries9376 Рік тому

      Try “What people are wearing in Italy on UA-cam. I love it. Better than Paris, definitely!!

  • @lee2492
    @lee2492 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you, as always you are full of enthusiasm and helpful advice. Really nice to watch on a Sunday afternoon 😊 x

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +1

      Ah so glad you liked it thank you for watching!

  • @jspann6812
    @jspann6812 2 роки тому +2

    This was GREAT! a quick 'snapshot' of a few simple BUT effective styling techniques. Great visuals with street stylers examples. AND loved your "on the street" location for this video. A, you seem so content and comfortable in your new surroundings... Wishing you many good memories and magical moments during your current sojourn. XXXOOO J

  • @LucyStokesOceansofNotions
    @LucyStokesOceansofNotions 2 роки тому +4

    I was chatting to some Americans I met at a bar here in Dublin, and they all commented that “people really dress up here (in Ireland)” maybe they thought the vibe would be more rural, I’m not sure😂

  • @jegno2243
    @jegno2243 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this video, not only seeing outfits but also hearing about style concepts through different languages and cultures.
    I changed my glasses recently and no-one noticed, someone suggested it was because they were so 'me'. I took it as a compliment, I've understood my style and what suits me. I can't afford different options and as I wear glasses all day I was pleased they don't make a too much of a statement. Instead I can choose where or how to add emphasis. For example I unusually wore a red lipstick that did get noticed in a positive way. An even smaller change you'd think yet more impactful. But I also learnt it's important how you react to the comments you get, or don't get. Thank you for nudging me to see and think differently without rigid formulas.

  • @esgwat
    @esgwat 2 роки тому +2

    Love this video! We are headed to Italy this fall, and will have to prepare for weather from the north down to Rome. Thank you for the layering tips!

  • @irairod5160
    @irairod5160 2 роки тому +2

    Lovely location, and yes, I like the format. It feels like chatting with a friend!

  • @swpnlg
    @swpnlg 2 роки тому +1

    You are so creative with presenting your content. Truly inspiring!

  • @shaleighreynolds3494
    @shaleighreynolds3494 2 роки тому +1

    Great info, love your view on fashion, and seeing all these places you are exploring!

  • @sherikennedy4117
    @sherikennedy4117 2 роки тому +2

    love love love the format. would love to see more examples of what you are seeing "over there". so great...thanks.

  • @marf1999
    @marf1999 2 роки тому +2

    I loved all those tips - it resonates with how I was brought up with my Maltese heritage. Thanks for the sunnies, bag and shoes combo - love, love, love. Thanks Alyssa! XOXO 😘

  • @carolynm.8868
    @carolynm.8868 2 роки тому

    Love the format of this video. You look fabulous !

  • @magalazambrano7991
    @magalazambrano7991 2 роки тому +2

    Love this kind of format!!

  • @ankehuhle-koorevaar4466
    @ankehuhle-koorevaar4466 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice! Thank you for sharing your observations!

  • @daedredecker5830
    @daedredecker5830 2 роки тому +6

    I learned some fun new fashion words in other languages today! This video of you just chillin' on the steps...so good.

  • @maryfitzpatrick3252
    @maryfitzpatrick3252 2 роки тому +1

    My first visit to your presentations. And I really like 👍 this format. No wasted intro talk time. Straight to informative content. A+

  • @rosemaryfromrhodeisland-usa
    @rosemaryfromrhodeisland-usa 2 роки тому +1

    Been binge watching your videos. Love them all. Keep them coming. ♥️🌹

  • @EllaTravelsAround
    @EllaTravelsAround 2 роки тому +5

    I love this video! What a refreshing and interesting approach to unpacking style in a new way. I’m so intrigued and inspired by the things you talked about here. Please consider doing more videos like this. Happy travels!

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому

      Hey Pamela! Love to hear this thanks for letting me know! xx

  • @geraldineterrell4694
    @geraldineterrell4694 Рік тому

    Love this video! Love inspiration from other places! Thank you for sharing! Love your channel!❤️❤️❤️

  • @patmccullough5885
    @patmccullough5885 2 роки тому +5

    Love your content, your perspective, and the comments of others in the community that you have created.
    Love the perspective of local street styles. Had my own moment recognizing the way my own style (hardly trendy, but I make an effort to dress with purpose) showed up on the local landscape. I recently moved 1600 km within the US. My short white cowboy boots that wouldn't have made a statement in Kansas were saying a lot poking out from under my maxi dress in Michigan. It felt fun, not awkwardly conspicuous.
    Thank you for sharing and inspiring during your extended stays in the European countries you are visiting. ❤

    • @AlyssaBeltempo
      @AlyssaBeltempo  2 роки тому +1

      oooh love hearing that - and how you've simply changed the way you've styled an item for a different environment. Thank you for sharing!

  • @beckyscheller9358
    @beckyscheller9358 2 роки тому +2

    Loved this video and love your white jacket. Fun to see others places around the world. Love the colorful houses also

  • @ashlynnkaplan680
    @ashlynnkaplan680 2 роки тому +8

    What a beautiful presentation and backdrop for this video! The color and texture of this backdrop is just stunning and warmly welcoming. These tips are excellent, thank you so much for sharing them! I aspire to be like a European in our more slobbish US culture. It’s amazing how careless so many are about their daily habits and luxe. I have on occasion been criticized for looking my best just to go to the grocery store as a type of insecurity, but I understand this is just a rude compliment 😬

  • @mariabarnes9197
    @mariabarnes9197 2 роки тому +9

    Loved this video style & content. Also love how you incorporate the style of the country you're in & allow it to influence your outfits. Cool!

  • @rebecahernandez4920
    @rebecahernandez4920 Рік тому +2

    I need to visit Croatia now!!! jaja thanks for the tips, so helpful.

  • @patriciapajares6185
    @patriciapajares6185 2 роки тому +9

    I love this format, we can hear your natural surroundings, and also thanks for sharing these new fashion accounts ❤

  • @anniest-georges3690
    @anniest-georges3690 2 роки тому +2

    J’adore cette capsule ! Merci beaucoup pour les trucs! Tu me donnes envie de voyager en demeurant longtemps à un lieu en particulier. Plein d’inspirations!🤩

  • @flamingofan5411
    @flamingofan5411 Рік тому +1

    Loved everything about the video!
    Format, location, your outfit….. perfecto! 😎

  • @littlegeo1
    @littlegeo1 2 роки тому +4

    Love this video!! Such great tips and observations. I also find it funny that I literally sat at that same table in that same restaurant in Sibenik like 2 weeks ago! 😆

  • @caroera-rea9138
    @caroera-rea9138 2 роки тому +1

    Love the video... Great observations!!

  • @thebessyeung
    @thebessyeung 2 роки тому +1

    I really like the video background settings, make me feel like I was there with you too and the relaxing and quietness location make me feel very relaxing to watch too. yes you are right, shoes, bags and sunglasses especially sunglasses are the fundamental items for styling in Europe, even though in rainy days people likes to put the sunglasses on top of the head like hair accessories:) x

  • @kimberly21
    @kimberly21 2 роки тому

    I love the process of getting dressed. I always take into consideration the weather, venue, and comfort. ♥️

  • @DGsa1661
    @DGsa1661 2 роки тому

    Absolutely LOVE the location & format- like chatting to a friend in front of her flat 😍

  • @dianevarga4976
    @dianevarga4976 2 роки тому +3

    Love this format and the content!