9 Types Of Personal Style | Which One Are You?
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- Today's video shares the 9 types of clothing styles. Learn to define your personal style.
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I have watched many videos on YT on how to find your style. Some good and some bad. This was clear, concise and to the point. Great visuals and explanations. I am what I call a Feminine Classic. Sadly, I spent too many years trying to to be trendy instead of myself. I knew it though when I was 12, I was a girlie girl. Then I hit high school and from then on until I was late 30s to early 40s realized I was not happy in my clothes. I listened to all the videos and realized I was the HAPPIEST in dresses and skirts and girlie items. I would tell any young lady be yourself with style because that makes you the most beautiful no matter that style because you are being the true you.
Love this advice! 😊
@@EricaBallStyle 😄
Classic and minimalist in the winter, but feminine and a bit boho in the summer. 😂
Same. Somedays you just feel like wearing a Boho dress when the sun's out!
I've fluctuated quite a bit over the years, but currently I'm a classic feminine.
Last year I decided to banish synthetic fabrics from my wardrobe and it totally upgraded my look. Suddenly I'm obsessed with silk and cashmere.
Quality fabrics make everything feel so much more luxe! Thanks for sharing Kai 😊
Same for me 😁 ✨
Plastic sheets are a no no
I’m a feminine boho edgy vintage, with the occasional twist of preppy. Anything that isn’t boring lo.
I absolutely love this video. You’re the first person I’ve watched who has gone beyond neutrals and capsule wardrobes. I wear a lot of dresses and there are almost no videos by stylists featuring dresses.
Thanks Deanna! I LOVE dresses too. 😊
This video has helped me so much. Your descriptions and images are very clear and insightful I finally can describe my style: a mix of feminine and minimal. Thank you, I think this will help me hone my shopping choices moving forward ❤
I am so happy to hear that this video helped you know your style! ❤
I guess I defined my style during my working life as Classic with a Twist, the twist being a thrifted statement jacket or coat, or a pop of orange somewhere. 72 now and enjoying an active retirement, I seem to have morphed into a Sporty Chic vibe (with a side order of Eclectic Urban Aunt, which allows for statement thrifted pieces, being mindful that wearing vintage in my 70s can be aging).
Getting dressed is fun, made easier with quality basics. A one-in/one-out policy (no new hangers) avoids the stress of wardrobe overload as I'm not comfortable with clutter or "orphan" garments.
Am so enjoying your videos. Having just found you, I may need to indulge in a little binge watching. I promise not comment on all of them!
Hi Wendy I'm glad to have you here! I think the one-in/one-out policy works for so many people to have an intentional wardrobe. 🙂
Great comment and thank you for sharing your perspective on vintage styles being aging. I've been wondering about that. I wore a lot of vintage in my 30s, and now that I'm 65 I realize I'd better choose pieces carefully.
I’m a classic and I love monochromatic.
I’m all over the place.. but I like how you break it all down so when I dress preppy one day and boho the next and be a little more put together. Thx
You're welcome Pamela! 😊
I love combining boho bottoms with blazers and conservative tops...cardigan sweaters..almost any sweater. I love bolero jackets that show off ky small waist I have an hourglass body.
Wow! You explained these style types pretty well! I realized that I’m all over the place. Classic, feminine, mostly minimal (but I like colors), with a sprinkle of boho sometimes in the summer.
Thank you! Most of us have more than one style we resonate with 😊
I would add sporty style. Joggers, sneakers, striped tops and sweaters, hoodies, etc...
In addition, the mountain lifestyle. Some people dress like they are going hiking everyday!
Classic & feminine resonate with me and my personal style. It was fun to see your visual examples!
Thanks Janita!🙂
I’m definitely in the Classic camp, but with a lot of soft fabrics and textures, like silk and suede. I like to push toward Preppy/Academic a bit, except that I don’t like Preppy novelty prints, like those with anchors, hearts, lobsters, etc. I don’t like lace, embellishments or frou-frou details, I like to keep things tailored/structured, but soft. I could hardly find a single dress last summer that wasn’t prairie style, with all those tiers and ruffles, but I wore those when I was 10, in 1970! Once was enough to get the Laura Ingalls out of my system. As a Californian, I tried the super-popular Boho/Coachella style for a while, but never really felt at home in it, so it’s back to my classics. No high heels, ever. If a woman wore high-heeled, pointed pumps here, people would treat her with scorn and laughter, we know how absurd and pretentious they are. San Francisco is a major walking city, shoes like that haven’t been seen for at least three decades. Only recently have we really adopted sneakers for city wear, though, our insider rule was that residents wore proper, but practical, leather footwear, usually booties, and only tourists worn sneakers (and sweatshirts). Tourist logo sweatshirts and windbreakers sell like crazy here because tourists show up in summer, logically expecting and packing for summer weather, but they always freeze!
I love 70s and 80s style. I was a child/teenager in the 70s and a young professional in the 80s, and clothes are so fun at those ages. Growing up in the 70s, I loved everything the college girls wore: bell-bottom jeans, boots, turtlenecks and a brown leather jacket was a great look that became classic then, as did a great skirt suit in the 80s. Nearly everything looks great on a slim, youthful figure!
Same!
My outfits are preppy/classic. My jewelry and accessories are always boho mixed with classic. Shoes are Clarks mostly. ❤
Great video🌺❤️
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I definitely love classic and feminine style!
Me too! 🙂
Feminine, minimal, vintage. Thank you for this video. It has put to words what i personally love and will help me stay focused when I am shopping.
I'm glad it was helpful Gwenn ❤
I love this! Turns out I am a preppy, vintage, feminine woman. Thank you for being concise and giving so many examples ❤
Love that Celeste! You are welcome 😊
Best video I’ve seen in understanding styles💞
Thanks so much Marion!
This was enlightening. I realized I can be a little bit of all the styles. But most strongly influenced by boho and classic. I love cowboy boots and frindge and flowing skirts but also tailored clothing depending on the occasion. Other times an edgy jacket or over sized blazer works. It often depends on the occasion. Where was the sporty look? I am in my late sixties and oftentimes find a sweat shirt and sweat pants comfy and appropriate. I have found all of these styles useful and fun over my life I have leaned more towards one or another but still embrace them all. First time viewer will view a few more before I subscribe. Thanks for a great video.
Thanks Yvonne for your comment! I find too that my personal style has changed over the years as I believe most peoples do. A sporty/athleisure style could definitely make this list, but I wanted to focus on the 9 that I think are most common.
I find the sporty look has become common, especially after the 'Rona. Leggings, etc are ubiquitous...not just at the gym.
@@bernitajenkins3180 Yes, agreed Bernita. Athleisure has become very popular. Thanks for your comment 😊
Classic, minimal, n sometimes edgy n vintage❤
My personal style is based on the uniforms I wore to school.
Blazer.
White Shirt.
Skirt.
This is the foundation of my basic wardrobe.
Navy blazers are a mainstay and a couple of good ones never go out of style.
White oversized button downs or a solid white v-neck tee. ( sometimes black or navy tee)
No prints except for plaid in the winter and in summer a brightly printed Lilly Pulitzer dress.
A good investment is a camel hair coat for winter.
Shoes: Weejun loafers; Repetto Ballet flats. Rondini sandals for summer.
Nothing ostentatious.
Enjoyed seeing all the styles. I have been Most of my adult life a classic+preppy with feminine sprinkled in. Now though I see the Minimalist as an evolution of classic; especially due to the pandemic experience. It resonates - easy to wear and natural materials.
That's a great observation Millie. It does look like a lot of the classic style type moved more toward minimalism.
Me too
So I would say I’m 80% feminine 10% classic and 10% trendy. At the end of the day I just wear what speaks to me and I love. Great video ❤
Thanks Vicki!
Thank you for this comment because I felt more lost after watching these videos since i don't fit into any of them specifically. I think I get confused between my appreciation for cute clothes and fashion in general vs what I actually like to wear and flatters me. I also live in a very hot area so it eliminates half of my wardrobe preferences adding to the confusion lol
Loved this video. I’m basically a minimalist with touches of boho (flowy but streamlined , no fussy fringe or busy prints) and sporty (sneakers and sporty bottoms). I’ll add some interest with accessories and color.
Thank you for your comment ❤
Thank you thank you thank you 🙏 .. I’ve been looking for a such detailed video for a decade ❤❤❤❤❤
You are welcome Marea! ♥
As a guy i do a street/ preppy thing i started with in the late 70s. Hip hop did a version with polo and timbs in the 90s and called it original but i did the same thing it 2 decades earlier. I still do it today. Still get compliments. A good eye and a good body does it. Im not bragging. I dont make these fits...that's the designers who are amazing....i just buy the shit and wear it right.
This really helped because a lot of the advice on UA-cam is to choose timeless pieces and to figure out you're season/what colours you are and sort of make you feel bad for buying 'trendy' pieces but actually that's just my style and I enjoy keeping up with fashion and ongoing trends!
I'm glad this was helpful for you Kelli! Knowing what style you feel best in is key.
Really enjoyed this spot-on video. Great summary of all the styles. I am somewhere between classic and minimalist. New category? Love this video. Great job.
Thanks so much Nikki! Most of us fall into a couple of these styles. ❤
Haha girly girl. My best friend remarked of my summer closet “it looks like a bunch of bridesmaid dresses!” 💞🤪😍
😂 Love it!
I am currently wearing an all in one outfit. Black flowy floral A line dress, fitted on too with puff sleeves, midi length and sleek heels and jean jacket.
Love it Bree! Sounds like feminine mixed with preppy style 😊
The most useful style video for me so far. Thanks!
I'm so glad! 😊
Sooooo inspiring! I love this Video!
Thanks so much for your comment Gaby ❤
So I've always been all over the place (and yet it feels cohesive) with my style. I take parts of edgy, vintage, classic, preppy and feminine to create my style. Classic, feminine 'sex appeal' I love. Crop tops, mini skirts, body con styles, heels, pencil skirts, tied up button ups, mini dresses etc
If it works for you Mariah and you feel great in your clothes then that's the most valuable thing 😊
it is a mixture of classic, preppy, and minimal for me. I especially like that you focus on style and not on things like color analysis
Thanks Rosa! 😊
I really liked this video
It was very simple to the point and no nonsense !!!!
A lot of fashion videos are chaotic or too personally opinionated !!!
This video felt very objective!!!
Which is really what I love personally!!!!
So good job !!!
I hope you keep making such videos!!!
Thank you AG! I really appreciate you taking the time to write this comment 😊
Great video and excellent examples! I’m a feminine preppy with a boho twist. My colors are bright tints and I love florals and my core wardrobe is lots of navy bottoms and white button downs in fitted cuts and flirty fabrics. I love embellished camis worn with clean cut bell bottom jeans and moto style jackets with lace details. Shoes and purses are good quality Coach pieces in chocolate brown, navy and cream. I’m always having fun with my look and adjusting it to my moods ❤
Thanks for your comment Jo! 😊
I thought I was an edgy minimalist style type but just took the quiz and it turns out that I’m the classic style type! I can definitely see that making sense so now I’m thinking I’m a classic minimalist style type with a sprinkle of edgy thrown in. Looking forward to the video about the classic style type! 😊✨
Love this Amber! ❤
This was very helpful! Thank you so much!🙏🏻
You're welcome Corina! I'm glad it was helpful 😊
My style is classic, feminine and playful 😊 I do add touches of edgy and sporty depending on my mood. I love this video presentation style👍🏽Well done!
Thanks so much! 😊
A fantastic breakdown of styles Erica! I am a mixture of androgynous, edgy and minimal….I think! 😉
Thanks Andii! What a great mix of styles.😊
Definitely classic and so minimal. Loved your video
Thanks Maura!
Thank you! Great input ❤
Thanks Jo! 😊
This video is concise and easy to follow. I've discovered that I am a blend of minimalist and edgy yet have several outfits that are perfect for various moods or activities as sporty, feminine, or classic. I have mostly natural fibers, wools, cashmere, and blends for one season, and linen, silk, cotton, or ramie for the hotter months. My capsule is neutral but I love to add splashes of color. When I stand in front of my closet in the morning I love the spontaneity of putting together an outfit to fit my mood and how I'm going to spend the day. I feel like I am a blank canvas ready to add ME.
Love this Sheila!
Minimal Edgy Vintage here :) which sounds like an odd combination, but definitely minimal with touches of the other two coming through, pending on the day, season and occasion.
Love that!
Excellent work. So useful!😊
Thanks Colleen ❤
Thank you! This was helpful! :)
You're welcome Melissa! ❤
I was expecting one style to be casual. I see myself as classic and casual. My clothes have to be comfortable - flat shoes, nothing too tight etc. it’s a lifestyle thing that overrides style really.
I think you could put casual under minimal. Minimal has an effortless unfussy ease to it just like casual style. Something to consider.🤔
This is so helpful. Thank you
You're welcome Tobi!
Very thorough. Thank you!
Thanks Violet! 😊
So I’m classic with sides of edgy and minimal, but certainly not trendy or feminine!
This is such an eye opening video, thank you so much! I can see how intentional these celebrities are, they mostly stick to their style and what suits them, their style is not all over the place..interesting 🤔
Glad you enjoyed it Caroline! Most if not all of them have Stylists that help. 🙂
thanks for the video, really interesting and helpful
You're welcome! Glad it was helpful 😊
That is very useful ❤❤❤❤ thank you ❤
You are welcome Noon! 😊
Some styles overlap, like minimal can also be classic. And the bohemian style existed long before it became popular at coachella. And I see some ballerina's like the two tone Chanel ones also as classic not so preppy. Loafers can also be preppy and classic. It just depends
Totally agree! They are definitely more fluid. That's why I think it's helpful to consider yourself as several of these styles. Thanks for the insight.
This was very useful, thank you
I'm so glad! 😊
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Im an Edgy Classic 🥰
Where is the tie dye? Is it Vintage or Boho? I like something about many of these styles depending on mood, weather, occasion, etc.
If it's a tie-dye maxi dress I'd say Boho. If it's a tie-dye crop top then trendy. Tie-dye has been around for so long that I think it depends more on the style of the item.
@@EricaBallStyle I have tie dye tops, two dress, and even a pair of yoga pants. I guess that makes me an old hippie 😉 but, I also love classic and romantic. It's fun to experiment.
@@lose999%22 The key is to find the style you feel confident and happy in. It seems like you've done that! 😊
Omg. I see myself in a few styles. Maybe 2 definitely strongly. Minimal and Bohemian. What. Stark contrast huh? Thanks a lot for this information and explanation of the 9 styles. Love it.
Thanks Susan! I'm so curious about your style types. Do you gravitate towards minimal one day and bohemian another day or have you found a way to wear them together?
Well I am going to have to say yes. One day I’m totally boho and feel beautiful and so comfy in my skin. The. Other days I’m so minimal with just a plain tee shirt white or black solids. And a pair of jeans. In summer it’s a midi modest dress that bliiowy and flows in a breeze while I garden and wear a low casual Birkenstock sandal or barefoot. Or I will pick a pretty small floral shirt mostly in neutral colors and sometimes a pop of feminine color. And. Pair of worn in denim shorts or overalls. I’m so me when I dress like this. So carefree and yet feeling beautiful. I love all natural materials like brushed double cottons or linens and plain cotton or flax. In winter it’s a wool or blend sweaters with a pair of jeans with booties and. Thin wool or alpaca socks I know it sounds plain but that’s how I’m wired I guess. I also love the dresses like prairie kind or that trend from a show I can’t remember the name of. I really am not a trendy person. But occasionally if a piece catches my eye I will try it out. One day I want a capsule wardrobe so bad. I don’t know where to start with that though.
@@susanpunako8590 It sounds like you really enjoy your personal style and that it works for you Susan! I think that's great. I have a free ultimate capsule wardrobe checklist for women that you can grab here: ericaballstyle.com/ultimate-capsule-wardrobe-checklist/
My style is minimal, casual, and a pop of egdy.
Classic minimal with some preppy thrown in, usually in the winter. What style is it when we always consider "comfort" when picking out textures and design ? Minimal? In the winter I have (for years) invested in long high quality cardigans and worn them over leggings or fitted pants, either cashmere knee length or Pendleton knee length cardigans ...I have a much harder time dressing for spring and summer. I certainly struggle with vacation dressing in the summer!
I think comfort can fall more into the minimal category. But really any of these personal styles can be comfortable and casual too. They don't need to be dressy. Like for me, I am classic and edgy. When I want to feel casual and comfortable I'll wear my black joggers and a cool t-shirt with chic sneakers.
Im a easy style with natural fibers summer wardrobe mixed with 50s vintage /and for the fall I bring a bit military and easy style mixed with victorian high flat collars and military like details (double breasted brass buttons tab shoulders and lace up boots sprinkled in .
Another great video 🦋thanks
Thanks so much Denise! 🙂
@@EricaBallStyle I look forward to seeing your videos! Still figuring out what style I am. You are a great help 🦋🤗
@@deniseyounger6004 Thanks Denise! I'm glad I can help you figure out your personal style.
I think my wardrobe is feminine-minimalist… dresses, skirts and blouses in easy, natural fabrics and mostly solids (but not necessarily neutrals)… magenta, yellow, orange, etc.
Thanks
You're welcome Darry!
Thanks. This is very helpful. I have a little of all the styles. I love them all. I just want to look good in my clothing no matter what style it is. I want it to flatter my figure.
Thanks for your comment Denisa!
I’m smart casual with a touch of country
I suggest its a matter of occasion- edgy minimalist for everyday and work; Italian/ French feminine for special occasions like weddings and birthdays.
Love that! That makes total sense too. 😊
Thank you
You're welcome! 😊
100% feminine style. I might be able to add (or would that be subtract?) Some minimal style because I do like to keep things fairly simple while still being mostly feminine.
Styles I have observed in addition to those mentioned are the funky/avantgarde style, the hipster look, the girly look using lots of cute prints and the styles of sub-groups (punk, grunge, gothic, etc.).
Oh, and I forgot the sporty/casual type.
Yes, those are def ones to add. Thank you!
I wouldn’t say trendy is a style because each trendy piece can fall into different style categories. Leather coats could be trendy and that’s edgy whereas sweater vests could trend and that’s preppy. Someone who (only) wears trendy styles is choosing what to wear based on others vs their own personal style which is what these categories are trying to help you find. I would replace trendy with avant garde or maximalist.
Preppy and Coastal Grandma 😊
Love it! 🙂
Overtime my style has evolved to 50% classic: 25% feminine: 10% edgy: 15% minimalist
I'd have to say mine is pretty close to that too. 😊
Mine Also
You should add Streetwear / hip hop style. It really isn’t covered here bc it relies so much on sports wear.
I figured out that my person style is old lady!
😂 😂 😂
😂❤ some days for me too!
I love this! I was also told I dress old lady like but very nice looking. I took it as a compliment.
Excellent...thank you. New subscriber. Would you consider doing a Kibbe body style
so we know what really looks good on us for our body type.?
Thanks Rana! I am working on a video series that will help women know what works for their body shape. ❤
I’m minimal style!
May I make a video suggestion? One that shows different outfits that you would make with the minimal style! Looking to buy some staple pieces for my closet. I need to start all over building my closet as what I have doesn’t ‘feel like me’ wearing them
I’m more on the preppy and feminine style…in the Phils where the weather is always warm or hot you can’t dress well like layering. It’s either dress/skirt or shorts/tshirts
That makes sense Aba! Thanks for your comment 😊
very helpful
Thank you! 😊
Looking in Amazon for color palette for my season colors . Have you any idea?? Great job, love it all ❤
Thank you! I don't follow color theory very closely so I don't have any recommendations for you.
I believe I'm feminine, vintage, and minimal ❤
Im minimal classic, skinny jeans, black, grey, white with blue or green pastel tops..only wear a dress in hot weather or an event
sporty minimalist through and through
How about a few of this? And mixing and matching? I guess I am not sure, I’ll wear what looked good and feel good at the time 🤷🏻♀️🙏🌺
Your style doesn't have to be just one of these. It can be several that feel like YOU. 😊
I wear all of these styles depending on how i’m feeling that day…
If it works for you and you love your wardrobe then go for it! 😊
Love classic style; however, given my body shape (petite hourglass), and my outdoor lifestyle, classic style does not work for me. Love my minimal style with feminine touches. Have dressed in this manner for years. Thank you for this video! I never knew I had a style. I just know what works for my body, my life, and what I feel good wearing. New subscriber. Looking forward to watching more videos.
Welcome Tracy! Thanks for introducing yourself. I love that you already know what works for you and what you feel good in.
I think I am feminine style . Lots of prints on my tops .
I have multiple styles.
I still can't decide if I have a style or not. I know that I am definitely not androgynous or trendy.
I have a lot of blouses, and some of them have that sort of rounded sleeve. Is that vintage perhaps because it is associated with the Victorian times?
I also have a lot of slim trousers, which I never saw in these type of videos related to style. Is that vintage as well? Or edgy?
I can somehow relate to the colourful pastel part in the feminine style but I normally gravitate towards trousers rather than skirts except for occasions where I wear a dress.
Then my casual dresses are more of a boho style.
I am not sure if I relate to the classic or not. I was with you with the timeless and high quality fabric pieces. Then you mentioned neutral colours and tailored pieces which is not me. And I do have a few patterned pieces so I'm semi-classic I guess?
Preppy, not sure again. I do have one shirt which I like to dress under cotton tops during winter to have a more elongated top. So I guess I'm semi-preppy as well.
Perhaps my trousers are edgy? And I do have a QUEEN black t-shirt which I like to wear with black trousers which I feel edgy in.
And finallyyy, if minimal is simple, then I am definitely NOT IT!!!
So you have a vintage, feminine, semi-boho, semi-classic, semi-preppy, semi-edgy gal 😂😂 that's 6 out of 9 categories. 😂😂😂
Jokes aside, I still think your video is well-explained. I just don't think I have a style. It's whatever I think is appropriate and comfortable I guess.
Thanks for sharing Elise. As long as you love what your style is (even if it falls into 6 of these types) that's the goal. Maybe your style is eclectic and you love experimenting with many types of styles. That's not a common one, so it isn't highlighted here. But if that's the style you feel great in, then I'm all for it. 😊
Dear Erica, I was thinking about this a lot and I dont know what to do in case I really like different styles that are almost the opposite of each other - I like romantic vibes like French romantic aka Sezane cardigan + jeans vibe, tea dresses, and then masculine outfits such as jeans, loafers and oversized blazer. And I feel like I can be one person one day, and another - another day and it['s like I have these different personnas that dont allow me to form a cohesive style.. Any tips?:) I would appreciate your input! :)
Hi Aina my question for you is, does it work for you to dress in different styles on different days? If your answer is yes, then keep doing what works and makes you happy. You don't have to have just 1, 2, or even 3 styles. BUT, if you are not happy with your wardrobe and style then I would take time to really think about what clothing styles feel like YOU and embracing more of those. ♥
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thank you for this video,,it's the bestt ,, could you tell me please what is the difference between tomboy and androgynous?
Thank you! I think tomboy is an older term that isn't used as much anymore.
@@EricaBallStyle thank you so much for your reply🙏🏻
Great video. I did the quiz. Very helpful.
Only thing is all the women showing the styles have long thin legs more so than other women who aren't models or style icons.
Thanks Barbara! I focused more on personal style types than body types for this series. I wanted to show the celebrities that most clearly define these style types in my mind. But all personal style types are not dependent on body shape.
Yours is the best video I have seen about personal style. I'll definitely watch more.
@@havana2banana I really appreciate you saying that Barbara! My purpose with this channel is to help all women feel great in their clothes and love their style. ❤
18:02 👂 What’s MY style?
Listen up! 😊
These personal style videos never work for me because they use “aesthetics”. It’s the thing I hate about fashion, that they try to fit you into an aesthetic. But every aesthetic has different versions that come from different elements. I like the style influencers that focus on the elements that create that aesthetic. Once I was able to do that I basically created and named my own aesthetic. I’ll never like or fit into the aesthetics that are popular. I wish influencers would focus on individualism instead of categories. I think a lot of lost girls like myself struggle because we keep trying to find the style or aesthetic that works for us. Very few “stylists” know how to get to the core of why an aesthetic appeals to us but never seems to work and always feels a little “off”. It’s because the aesthetic isn’t the style at all. We call something “goth” but for some people that means one thing and for others it means a different thing. Same with grunge or any other style. If you can’t get to the core of what it is about a specific look that appeals to you, you’ll keep trying aesthetics and always feel lost. That’s what trend followers do. And so many style quizzes just feed into that. Over the years I’ve watched stylists claiming to help people find their personal style but they are always wearing whatever is trendy. Theres nothing personal about it. They are following trends because they actually have no idea what drives people’s decision making and whether or not an outfit works or doesn’t. (Like the dressing for body shapes which also fails many people). To me this video represents why fashion fails so many women, and why “experts” are often the worst to listen to because they think in terms of aesthetics instead of helping women create their own style aesthetic. It makes women look put together or acceptable to others, but they will never quite feel right in the outfit and they won’t know why. I used Elle Jeans style roots and Style Thoughts by Rita Style Key and others to make my own aesthetic. Those two influencers helped me realize why all the other fashion advice failed me. Then I adapted my own aesthetic for my color season palette and my Kibbe body type and Kitchener essences and put it all together to make my own aesthetic that fits my coloring and body type (NOT body shape!) and now videos like these that categorize style types drive me insane because saying “feminine” or “minimalist” is meaningless. There are different meanings to those words and if you don’t get at the core of what it is about a feminine look that appeals to you or works for you, you’ll always be lost! Just my opinion. I think a lot of stylists don’t even realize they are just following the mainstream trends rather than helping people find a unique style. These videos are “which box do you fit into” and then they tell you to put your own unique spin on it, but the core of what you chose isn’t defined so that will never work.
Fashion and style is a journey for most women. It sounds like it was a hard path for you like it is for many women (including myself) to get to where you are today, where you have found the style and ideas that work for you. As someone in my 40's who has been styling women, men, and teens for over 16 years and who uses my MA in Psychology (I used to be a therapist) as a foundation in my work with my clients, I definitely do not define myself as someone who is an influencer/trend follower etc. or am driven by those things.
As this is a video platform and I'm unable to work with women and their individual style struggles 1-on-1, I can only offer style advice in a general sense. For some women knowing what their personal style is helps them curate a closet of clothes they'll actually love to wear while saving time, money, and frustration. This video will not work or apply to everyone and like most things in life, I think it's valuable to take the information that works for you and leave what doesn't behind. I am happy you have found what works for you to love your style and wardrobe. That is my hope for all women. ❤
I've been all over the place. Started out boho, became minimal, then edgy, classic and now feminine. Does everyone do this?
I think a lot of people over time may change their personal style ❤
I appreciate most styles but my least favorite is boho style. My favorite is classic.