A Slice of Expat Life in Lisbon, Portugal

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  • Опубліковано 6 сер 2024
  • In November of 2022 I began the process of moving my life across the world from Bali, where I had been for the past 4 years, to Lisbon. My motivation was to build a more social and enriching life, hoping to find a romantic relationship that had eluded me in Asia.
    In this video, I share a window into a couple normal days of my life here. I am learning generally to be more self-sufficient after having been pampered and taken care of in Bali and to less degrees Thailand and Mexico. I'm mostly encouraged that I have been making friends easier here than I had in years of living in Bali.
    Living in Europe has its charms but also is a more expensive and at times more challenging life. I am hoping that eventually this investment will pay off in love and happiness.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 61

  • @biswajithota2524
    @biswajithota2524 Рік тому

    Bali seemed to be more beautiful & your house looked more cozy & unique there.

  • @seaview9948
    @seaview9948 Рік тому +1

    Aahhh , so fun to join you on your every days around Lisbon . You did great on the painting ….Well done for giving it a try !

  • @michmaxwell9897
    @michmaxwell9897 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing a piece of your life. Please keep on filming, I'm thoroughly enjoying it! 😊

  • @christineviking1578
    @christineviking1578 Рік тому +1

    The paint rollers do come in different texture levels from smooth to course. Good on you for having a go and glad it turned out fine.

  • @mandy4679
    @mandy4679 Рік тому +1

    Love to See you do all These relatable things and being more vulnerable. I think this move will be really good for your personal Development. Growth is always Hard, but that only means that you are doing the right thing by getting out of your comfortzone

  • @elsienorback7689
    @elsienorback7689 Рік тому +1

    I really like the way you make and select footage for your vlog. Very nice.

  • @tinarawson6409
    @tinarawson6409 Рік тому +2

    Always enjoy your story telling ☺️
    It'll be interesting to see how you feel when you're back in Bali again for a while. There's always going to be stuff you miss but I think you're definitely on the right track...keep on trucking & you'll get there I'm sure. 🤗

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому

      Thanks Tina 😊 i’m also curious how i’ll feel being back in my other home of bali for the next couple months.

  • @samueldifabio9946
    @samueldifabio9946 Рік тому

    Thank You. My Best memories of Portugal was the orange juice machine. Thank you for showing .

  • @latoyaapril2129
    @latoyaapril2129 Рік тому +1

    I hope you get all you ask for❤

  • @rennie2611
    @rennie2611 Рік тому

    Good to see you feeling better, go get your life 😊

  • @davetalkscryptos7451
    @davetalkscryptos7451 Рік тому

    beautiful city.

  • @suebowman7258
    @suebowman7258 Рік тому

    Fabulous video!

  • @alexanderallan215
    @alexanderallan215 Рік тому +2

    In regards, to your Portuguese landlord, Portuguese people are tremendous savers (Aka cheap ). Lol 😂. All kidding aside, I have a great many Portuguese friends ( from Portugal 🇵🇹) they are wonderful people, and will always feed you , and give you shelter.
    Once you make actual Portuguese friends, they will help you navigate life there , and will always steer you in the right direction. They are fiercely loyal.
    Please remember to play safe , you are a nice guy , I wouldn’t want anyone/anything to compromise you. I love your videos, have a wonderful trip back to Bali.
    ❤🌈

  • @elsienorback7689
    @elsienorback7689 Рік тому

    Your footage is really nice. Well done.

  • @vincenttravelsg
    @vincenttravelsg Рік тому +1

    Very glad to see you are happy in Lisbon. Home painting is not easy for the first time. If they are water soluble type of paint, it is very easy to remove using water.

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому +1

      It was indeed water soluble which made the process mostly mess free

  • @BenTropix
    @BenTropix Рік тому

    Dat lo-fi sax at the end!! 🤩

  • @elsienorback7689
    @elsienorback7689 Рік тому +3

    I’ve learned there are many different shades of white. Make sure you get the same exact color, and whether it’s flat or semi-gloss. You need to put plastic on the floor and something under the can of paint. It would be smart to wear clothes you don’t mind ruining and also a hat because parents my takes a long term me to get out of the hair.

    • @elsienorback7689
      @elsienorback7689 Рік тому

      Meant that paint takes a long time to get out of the hair.
      You need to put plastic on the floor. It’s an absolute must.

    • @elsienorback7689
      @elsienorback7689 Рік тому

      Ok, you managed to get it done without plasticity on the floor. Good job.

  • @elsienorback7689
    @elsienorback7689 Рік тому +1

    I like the shirt you selected.

  • @amandakeats4871
    @amandakeats4871 Рік тому

    I am in Bali at the moment. Rainy season. But still warm.
    So many Dutch and Russian people around!
    I think you’ve made the right decision to move to Lisbon. I wonder how you’ll feel being back in Bali…tourism is certainly kicking off again here.

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому +1

      We’ll find out next week 😅

    • @notundermywatch3163
      @notundermywatch3163 Рік тому

      Russians and Ukrainians will ruin the place. Wait and see

  • @junc2191
    @junc2191 Рік тому +1

    I feel you are happier in Lisbon

  • @hellsbells112
    @hellsbells112 Рік тому

    Haha, Adrien! You make me laugh!

  • @carlthompson8914
    @carlthompson8914 Рік тому

    This was a cool video. I have to ask, how did you decide to move to Lisbon? Did you consider other countries/cities as well? I've been living in Mexico City for 5 years and I'm really eager to move somewhere else. Right now the place that I'm most excited about is Berlin.

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому

      I did an earlier video about this 😉

  • @terrence9137
    @terrence9137 Рік тому +1

    I appreciate the honesty in this video. I was in Lisbon over the summer and quickly realized that I prefer Madrid/Barca, but Lisbon has better tax incentives for remote workers. Soooooo yeah Im thinking of taking the leap to Lisboa. I'll keep watching your vids for more insight. Also, a threesome with a stiff neck is pretty adventurous lol

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому +2

      Nothing gets in the way of me and a good time 😜

  • @Alfablue227
    @Alfablue227 Рік тому +1

    Adrien, banks here are rather nightamrish I agree. I found thru trial and error, Millennium is the best. You should not have to wait 3 weeks for a debit card. Sometimes it's the CTT, or mail, which here is also quite bad. Nothing seems to work here, but it does, not easily always, but Portugal teaches you patience, and that you must develop to be happy here.

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому

      BankInter blamed the problem on CTT. I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s a combination of both. CTT also failed to deliver a basic piece of mail to my house, so I have no idea why they are so incompetent

    • @Alfablue227
      @Alfablue227 Рік тому

      @@ChatGayPT Yes, I am sure. CTT are very incompetent, BAD really... because they went private, no longer state owned, and are always short staffed. I once had a bank card undelivered for over 2 months. I made a stink, that afternoon it was suddenly delivered. Here one needs to be a pain, otherwise, it does not get done, hence why we need more people such as yourself to help slowly but surely bring about change. To be fair to them, if one lives in an Air B&B, it's often hard for them to deliver correctly, as tenants are constantly moving in and out, still.
      Be strong Adrien Portugal is not for everyone, it's certainly not for the weak. It is a Latin country with specks of Celticity in the North, No. African & Arabic in the South, and Latin ad mix everywhere else, with Lisbon being a hodge-podge. Although Portuguese can be unpredictable and cancel last minute (Latin trait) Brazilians are way more notorious for doing so, so be aware. Arroios is not the greatest neigbhorhood because of the dope and sex industries, but it's not that terrible. Anjos, Intendente, and Cais do Sodré are way more. Just go with the flow but do not accept mediocrity. Here one has to complain or nothing gets done. But, as long as we do it firmly but with the manners as you do, it's all good and in time one sees results. The effects of the Covid 19 fiasco are still being felt, but it is getting much better. The slower life does come with some of these stresses, so it bears thinking. Each country has its good and bad, and we need to sway to the changes. It is hard at first and honestly, you came at the worst time of the year...but it will get better you see. As for the scuffs on the wall, it's because of the mate type of paint used. It is the cheapest and chalkiest, as semi gloss is way more expensive, and more so colored paint. Ever wonder why insides of apt's here are always white and mate? Price. Remember, the average salary in 🇵🇹 is €1200 per month. I hate scuffs too, but no need to buy paint every x u see a scuff. Just use lemon cream scrub sold at 🛒's in a pad for kitchen use. Lightly scour the areas and presto. 98% of the time erased easily and then swipe with wet sponge to remove product fully. Owner could care less because she probably just painted it, or you wud see a color contrast upon painting now.
      Hope this helps..

  • @elsienorback7689
    @elsienorback7689 Рік тому

    Hahahaha, have to take my own dishes out of the machine. Hahahaha. Welcome to being normal like the rest of us.

  • @b.kolije5065
    @b.kolije5065 Рік тому

    Gorgeous footage! What camera do you shoot with for vlogs?

  • @francoisesaint-cyr4025
    @francoisesaint-cyr4025 Рік тому

    Mon Dieu te voila peintre ❤️bravo mon ami. J’adore ❤

  • @RjAhmed
    @RjAhmed Рік тому

    which bank do you recommend then?

  • @elsienorback7689
    @elsienorback7689 Рік тому

    Yes, I don’t like scuffed walls either. If it looks dirty I have to paint. Hahahaha. Get use to doing things for yourself like dishes, throwing garbage, etc. Did you have someone doing these things when you lived in America growing up?

  • @dy4109
    @dy4109 Рік тому

    Your friend is gorgeous, I thought he was your date:)

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому

      I’m not sure which one you’re referring to but I’m sure both would be happy to hear it

    • @SkateSpace2012
      @SkateSpace2012 Рік тому +2

      Fabrizio?

    • @dy4109
      @dy4109 Рік тому

      @@SkateSpace2012 yes

    • @dy4109
      @dy4109 Рік тому

      @@ChatGayPT Fabrizio:)

  • @philmobbsaustralia
    @philmobbsaustralia Рік тому +2

    Adrien, if you decide Lisbon (and indeed Europe) is not working for you, you would be always welcome back in Australia.

  • @teejayoz1221
    @teejayoz1221 Рік тому +1

    Fabrizio is cute 😉

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому +1

      He is, but sadly I’m not his type 😄

    • @dy4109
      @dy4109 Рік тому

      @@ChatGayPT What's his type

    • @teejayoz1221
      @teejayoz1221 Рік тому

      @@ChatGayPT aww 😘

  • @junc2191
    @junc2191 Рік тому +1

    Do you keep a beard to look more mature? Would like to see you try a new look without the moustache.

    • @ChatGayPT
      @ChatGayPT  Рік тому +1

      Sorry the mustache stays

  • @BW-kv3fm
    @BW-kv3fm Рік тому

    Should have worn gloves to protect your hands at least

  • @eduardoherrera6320
    @eduardoherrera6320 Рік тому

    ditch fabrisio