BTT #17: Women With Many Male Friends
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@29:19 I completely agree. I have been in these situations and the only “insights” she gets are: “I really dig DD tits” or “Foreplay is kind of important to me” Oh and don’t forget: “I’m a gentleman. The lady should come first” If the caller is believes that these women are after some greater perspective or understanding he is deluding himself.
I dated a woman that ONLY had male friends. Turns out yup, she was screwing/had screwed all of them. A total narcissist. Women didn’t like her because she basically slept with any man that paid any attention to her and they saw how manipulative she was. A woman with lots of/only male friends is a HUGE red flag.
Bryan W me too she probably the same woman😂
100% true
Wow I had to check and see if I left this comment. Did the same thing. Never again.
Once she enters in a relationship with me there is no room for male friends up front .. I don’t need that stress
What about gay guys? Based on my personal experience with dating girls with gay guy friends. I've had her call me because the gay guy was drunk trying to screw her. So I'd watch gay guys.
Better option and one I have used. If you're in that situation, because let's be honest, most beautiful women have orbiters. Meet those guys and establish dominance and higher value. They will either respect you or get scared and disappear naturally. It's not rocket science...
Rudy casso imo if your relationship is of respect and trust why not male freinds
Agreed!
thunercattt Gay men are like women, because of their feminine nature. Women like them around because they are not a potential sexual encounter or threat like a straight man.
A woman with a lot of male friends is a problem. She might be the most loyal woman, but it's a war of attrition. Guys are really only friends with women because they want to bang them, and your girl might be against that at first, but over time those guys are going to wear her down and strike when she's most vulnerable. You have an arguement, she's emotional, and there's her "friend" to keep her company.
I have no female friends, my wife has no male friends. That's the way it should be.
Agreed 💯. Her mind unconsciously is always comparing the current bf to past and potential guys.
Gay guys I think CAN be an exception, though no guarantees. Then the risk is more akin to her having a single girlfriend who tempts her to go out and party without you.
@@6packproductions710 Gay guys can be way more persuasive and sinister than a single girlfriend. I'm sure they'd love to watch your relationship burn. I'd take my chances with an orbiter because I know his intent.
that is not true lol
Wow your mind is actually so closed it’s disgusting. Here’s the thing, the people a female decides to have something with depends on her. If you think that just because you want to bang her and that’s why you hang out with her you gonna have a chance as soon as she is vulnerable you’re not only wrong you’re stupid lol in fact because she is your friend she probably gonna go to someone she doesn’t know to have something with 🤷🏻♀️
That 1st caller is lost. HE THINKS that "the male perspective" his woman would get from her male friends would align with his perspective but that couldn't be further from the truth. Her beta orbiter has an agenda to unseat you, so he has zero intention of giving her good information. What he will give her is AFFIRMATION in order to bolster his agenda. "Why are you with a guy like that? You deserve a man who listens to you, understands you and treats you better."
Once another man gets in a woman's ear, she will start seeing the world differently and things she used to like about you, suddenly become annoying. And if you don't believe me, go ahead, roll that dice & see what happens... I'll wait.
You are absolutely right. I'm super new in the red pill and started since a hard breakup from a 5 year relationship that happened just as you described. Suddenly started having some orbiters which ended being too much and started riding one before moving out. (Not an hypergamy move just got into to the carrousel move)
So true!! The caller is delusional, her male friends are not YOUR friend, they aren't you're bros or homies so therefore they don't have your best interest in mind, they're thirsty beta just waiting for a shot at that pussy. That poor delusional shmuck!
Sean Carrington
Good points.I would add that majority of beta orbiters behave as you described.It's a naive and simple stategy like mocking you, dimishing your value ..etc. But some orbiters can be socially smart and cunning.They pretend to like you, If she is complaing about you, they will even defend you.All the time with smile and humour they will subconciously plant thoughts in her head that they are much higher value.
@@horacevu If they're beta males, they're no threats. Also if you'll act all hostile towards them, you're just going to look lower value as you'd be showing insecurity by feeling the need to attack them. To really fuck over these losers though, either ignore them all together cause why the fuck bother, they're beta bitch boy losers anyways; or try to lift them up and maybe even befriend them slightly in a way to show your superiority and showing how you're not threatened at all by those guys to the woman
100% I was going to reply with the same.
The more they demonetize you, the more I know every man should be listening.
"Dissent will be forcefully discouraged"
Women will not admit to having a back up plan.
Sometimes they dont even admit having a boyfriend in the first place.
All the females at my work, except one, and worked years with most of them that were not married NEVER mention they have boyfriends.
While males always mention girlfriends during conversations and married women mention husbands.
@ijcn0jir3nvjn3fjcifn two different situations...
What you said happens when they are not interested and want to subtly reject someone and sometimes to prevent a man from making a move.
What I said happens because they are always open to get someone "better" if the opportunity comes.
Truth!!!
@@mok822 True, sometimes a woman will subtly reject you by saying she has a boyfriend but she doesn't. We think we are doing a kindness. Women don't want to hurt you if they are a decent and caring person.
@@dianalee603 i dont remember
Remember that hypergamy usually needs a proper cover story - " I don't get on with my female friends they are manipulative and egoistic, that's why I ve been hanging out with boys and male friends since my elementary school times".
I've heard exactly this. From few different women. over the years.
“Women are boring” is what my ex used to say. Wonder what kinda “fun” the boys showed her? 😂
You hit the nail on the head with the first caller. Male friends aren’t giving a “males” perspective, they are giving a beta orbiter perspective. They will tell her whatever she wants and whatever puts them in the best position to smash which means getting you out of the picture.
They will throw u under the bus at every chance...especially when she complains about you
Facts.
If a woman wants a male perspective she should talk to her father, brother, male cousin, or, Religious or Spiritual leader Pastor etc.
Women and Men are not friends. Period. The only time you deal with a woman outside of a relationship is with your sister or mother. If you're dealing with them at work, make sure you have a witness and stay at task at hand.
If she's staying at Stacey's house, then you know for a fact that Chad has been there, too.
Congrats to Steve for getting the promotion to VP of sales. The reason he gets the lay, is simply because he puts himself as his own mental point of origin. The advancement in his career shows it!
Been bit in the ass by this one myself personally with a women I actually did care about. When she started her new program at school she met this guy “friend”, he started flirting with her but he’s a beta type guy. I was blue pilled at the time and didn’t set the boundaries properly at that point although she knew my displeasure. We were in bed one night and this guy snap chats her sweet dreams around midnight, to which she got upset and told me it’s not how it looks, he’s a nice guy and this was just for a streak. I told her you don’t send sweet dreams as a streak. She flipped it on me being insecure. Anyways I broke up with her a week later and then following week she was having coffee with him. They are now dating and I learned my lesson. Don’t ever deal with that shit again.
I would argue setting your foot down and setting boundaries is the exact opposite of insecure, your telling someone what you won’t stand for and if they disrespect that then you are willing to walk away and not look back
great video, was out with a woman yesterday, I asked her was she dating other men she said no, but she did maintain contact with an ex she was with for 2 1/2 years. I asked her why they weren't together she said guy did not want a committed relationship. I asked her were they smashing she said no just casual phone conversation. I told her how could she be in a relationship for 2+ years with regular smashing to not smashing at all I just don't believe that. In addition she also told me she has a lot of male friends. Needless to say I gotta move on
A girls guy friends are the vultures circling above the relationship.
The more circling vultures the more concerned you should be about your relationships life expectancy.
This is one of the best topics that you have covered, Rich. Great show, I hope that you continue to do more topics like this because they are extremely relevant in today’s dating culture. .
The first guy calling must be trolling or he's high on something. Having many male friends (or even just a few) is a HUGE red flag and no man should discount it or be ok with it. They are all there because they want a piece of her once you two break up or are in a crisis. They will constantly try to undermine your relationship with her by instilling doubts in her, by criticizing you, by always agreeing with her where you two have a disagreement, by telling her she can do better.....and eventually she falls for it when she's the most vulnerable, especially if many "guys friends" tell her the same things over and over.
How do I know it? Because I do that myself if her boyfriend is so dumb (or spineless) to let her girl talk to other guys. And sometimes I'm successful. I become the rebound guy or the one to get a piece of her when she breaks up with her boyfriend. If it's not me, it's someone else.
Never, ever allow her to have male friends especially if they are single or are kind of new friendships. If she knew him from 20 years then maybe you can tolerate him at the right conditions.
Wish you all a happy relationship!
Rich on point as always. Shawn lost me at "a woman in a happy relationship doesnt look for options"
you see women in happy relationships on tinder all the time.
Shawn is purple pilled, an attractive woman's basic personality, consciousness and social skills are all wrote and programmed into her head from the basis of being attractive. She'll know instantly a guys intentions because she's had 100s if not 1000s of samples to go off of. She then formulates the level of usefulness this interaction can have. Never believe they don't know men want to bang them.
True. I know when a woman wants to bang me, and guys usually are way more obvious
if shes secretly talking and texting to some dude ,... shes boinking him
But how to know if it's secret?
If you’ve been that guy who’s the secret
or about to....
I really agreed, when they said that women cannot have male friends!!! ...In my experience I never had a close one because they always wanted to get into my pants. And, we as women, if we want to learn about men..we listen to this kind of shows, not other males..
Rich, Kevin from Sales! There’s got to be a t-shirt sales opportunity there. Looking forward to it. Stay frosty😎
And I'll take a 'Steve from marketing' one 😁
Donovan sharpe has a merch store with that
Awesome job, keep fighting the good fight.
I realize this is old, but will remain relevant forever. Just awesome. Your shows, videos and content are so spot on. You’re a smart, articulate, interesting guy. Thank you.
No point in having female friends. Unless they're unattractive to you and honestly not even then. Do not be okay with your gf having male friends you're serving her up.
Per your second line... so basically you'd stick it in anything? And all men are like this?
I was once that nieve. A coworker will talk about work at work but once the conversations get personal then it's going somewhere that he wants. It's a test that guys do. The first one is that he talks about in appropriate things or talks inprofrain. If she is cool with that or if she listens to him talking like that then she is ok with them going to the next level
Congratulations to Steve from accounting on his promotion!!! 🤜🏾
The comment about steve from accounting being promoted was gold
Definitely. These two do work very well together.
If she meets with "all of them" at once in a motel room major red flag gents!
Nah they just having poker night... pokeer... poke er... POKE HER 😂
“Men and women can never just be friends! They always end up jumping each other’s bones!” Billy Crystal in one of his roles
Not true. Maybe a woman in her 20’s who’s on the carousel, or partying, or whatever...but as a woman myself, I have had two very good male friends since I was young (one I’ve known since grade school, and one since high school) and there has never been anything sexual between us. Both friends call me “the sister they never had”. They are close to my family and vice versa, and to me - THEY ARE FAMILY! Just take things on a case by case basis. Richard and Dr. Shawn usually give very good advice...but remember...they are generalizing. Life, people, and situations are not as black and white as they make things seem.
Again if you’re attractive and opened your legs he’d stick it inside you duh
Friendship between men and women is not possible. There can be passion, enmity worship and love but never friendship. Oscar Wilde
THE WHOLE JIST OF THIS comes down to one thing !
Women are pursued in the sexual game and men are the pursuers.
So a woman in an LTR who has alot of male friends, is trying to play both sides of the fence, have her cake and eat it too
Shes in the LTR but still wants 400 backup plans on her phone or social media.
PICTURE THE OPPOSITE.
No woman is gonna let her LTR man keep going to the club every weekend both nights without her and trust that hes not fukking around on her ! Its so obvious he would still be playing the pursuer part of the game, its so wrong only italian mobsters on tv shows would even try to get away with this.
Chad? From sales, right?
@@MdubFrederson I dont watch much tv, is that an office tv joke?
Are you saying you're ok with your scenario ? You're ok with women having male friends ? I'm asking.
@@myst93 Im ok with it as long as she agrees its ok for me to only see her sun to wed nights so i can keep ladies/thurs night and the entire weekend open for GUYS nite on the town 3 days a week.
Otherwise a good honest loyal woman serious about your relationship, should voluntarily destroy her social media accounts that have/had any non family males on them and change her number so every guy she gave her former number to can no longer contact her too easily.
Its a sign of faith. No backup plan means shes all in on your relationship and less likely to do anything to ruin it. IE cheat, flirt, lead on orbiters etc
Tyrone Tripod I agree for a guy I truly valued and loved, I would absolutely do this. Even though I’ve never had “friends” that are male. The only time I’ve ever even slightly entertained other guys (not cheating or sexual talk, but even just harmless chatting) is when I wasn’t satisfied in the relationship. I had an ex bring it up that he did not like the social media, so we had a discussion and immediately deleted everything. Sometimes talking honestly is helpful. I told him I was feeling he was bored, and he didn’t give me the same attention he used to. We worked on it together and it helped, but social media should be deleted or modified for relationships.
I was naive in my 20s to think I had male friends. I was a very immature and thought women and men thoughts were the same. It was until those friends were complaining about doing me favors and stuff and not getting anything back. I said to them I was confused, I was grateful but what else do they wanted?? That broke my heart cause I really thought they were real friends. Fast forward I don’t believe in male and female friendships. I don’t allow male friends in my life. I have job colleagues and acquaintance. If a man has an interest in me if he is not direct and forward and plays the friend card I am completely turn off.
We are out there but extremely rare. I'm sorry thus happened to you
Male Friends are lovers who are currently being interviewed for a side piece or a full switch, orbiters are men who failed the lover interview and are still serving some purpose.
I’ve done all of these and now? I generally like being the side piece, sex and coffee with me and she can go home and have an existential crisis with the boyfriend or husband. Sad,brutal but still true.
Men don't want to play this game of tug of war anymore. Men and women can't be friends period point blank. They'll always see us as success objects and we'll always see them as sex objects you're fooling yourself if you're trying to blurr those lines to have relationships/friendships with them. With women the juice is never worth the squeeze so yea "just dump her" seems selfish af but ultimately it's the safest bet.
Yep I agree. This usually happens when both have relationships. I had a few girls I was waiting out their relationships, and they were secretly waiting out mine.
They'd message me once they became single to see what my situation was. But we were "friends"
Grow up thus us bulls hit
Facts
No male friends at all NEVER guys.
Don't be jealousy abut but mark your ground no appologe never
A shoulder to cry on is a u know what to ride on!!! Any woman who talking to another man about your relationship is a immediate deal breaker!
Rich has so much patience
Guys, thanks for posting the topic in advance, gave me something to think about in advance. I definitely updated my beliefs a bit tonite on the subject.
In my experience, women with large groups of guy friends are usually insecure about their looks and seek refuge in male spaces. And if she's flirty with you, she's likely also been just as flirty with some of them.
you are right about women "insecure about their looks" who seek refuge in males spaces.
I feel that way about Karaoke at the Irish-Catholic bars in NYC area. The women are usually a 5 or less on average while the good looking women at on a date at a real restaurant.
@Top Gadget lover it's her perception of her own looks.
great show again!
Something like a mutual love of the opera can establish an emotional connection which all too often leads to an affair
lol yeah that dude was clueless. the other guy doesn't like opera either, he thinks it'll just make it easier to bang your woman
First off, great topic and thank you both, you have both helped me a LOT.
Bald, bearded and beautiful; Your Mic kept going in and out at one point, just an fyi cause it looked like a fancy setting issue.
And I would love to have some of that soap/beard oil but the $8 shipping on a $10 bar of soap made me cringe...Anyone in the middle class that has it and feels that this is more than worth it?
Shawn, loved your book listened to it twice and will almost certainly again...wish you would have narrated it, but Chris did alright... i guess.
Thanks again and keep it coming
Same with the guys being a woman’s friend...I mean why be a woman’s back up plan?
They're vultures not hunters.
Either so incapable or so lacking in confidence so much that they'll pick over the carcass left behind by apex predators.
It is quite pathetic really.
Some of us honestly just want friendship. Even when she shows interest I told her I wouldn't fuck her. She was shocked
Not every guys be friend with a girl and only look for hook up with her , you guys are care too much about sex , there are some very decent people in this plannet , they have moral in their life , but i also agree there are too many asshole people in this world as well , that why some guys are worry .
Is it a red flag , it’s a massive red flag as I’m sure the princess wouldn’t like it the other way around. Hmmmm why would that be!!
It’s amazing how many biblical truths are confirmed in modern times
I need a shirt that says “I’m Kevin from sales” 😂
DItch the callers. Answer emails. These people do not know how to formulate a question and drone on explaining / rationalizing their situation. Then Rich just makes the same answer over and over.
Some of these dudes are pretty fucking pathetic. And. Pretty damn dumb. Not with the mistakes they made just them trying to explain what the issue is. You called into the show. You didn't even think about your question before you called. Probably explains why they are clueless.
Excellent!
Male friends are just a backup plan
This is great
Rich your mic is probably fine. The problem is that yours softens when another audio feed is active. Yours goes to shit for a few seconds after Shawn or a caller says something.
Not a hardware problem, probably a problem with a setting in the mixer.
1:17:00 - I wish I heard this 6 months ago - also - 2 years 6 mo ago - also... lol
When a woman is acting naive, proceed with extreme caution if at all.
I believe the caller @ 1:18:04 is missing chromosomes.
“Uuuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhh”
“Yeah so uuuuuuuuuuuuUUUUUHHHHhhhhhhhhh”
Listening to this last caller is agony. Rich. Can you break through to him? You have tremendous patience.
It's hard to believe that Dr. Shawn was an asshole when he was younger. He's a really nice guy! I'm a fan and read his book, though, don't agree with everything he says. As a caller implied, Richard is hard red pilled which we all love, while Shawn is not exactly a blue pilled man but he has a unique perspective with a slight spin of a nice guy. Thank you BOTH!
Chuck Myers you mean good cop bad cop? Which doesn’t guide anybody anywhere.
Shawn is a blue pill beta. He doesn't understand modern relationship
@@TheDipset1233 maybe you are triggered because he is smarter than you. Plus has a successful life and relationship. He knows how to deal with people where you are unsuccessful and lonely. Like Rich says, you probably discovered this channel after some trauma and sucky outcomes. Red Pill helps avoid trainwrecks but doesn't help you if you don't understand how to build a good relationship at the same time. I'm sure your mental capacity is zilch and probably can't control the mental rage you have reading this. 😆 red pill up yours
Last caller is a rambling bore, no wonder he’s having woman troubles.
I had the urge to punch this dude as soon as he started rambling on about the same stuff over and over again. Dude, get to the point.
My ex had a bunch of male orbiters and I asked her if she understood that they just wanted to bang her. She dead ass looked at me and said "yeah I know they want me, so what?" Unfortunately I was still blue pilled and things lasted a few more months until I found evidence of cheating.
Thank you Sir.
My advice is don’t bother. I once dated a girl that had a guy friend. To her merit, they were friends long before I met her and started dating her but once we started dating his true colors showed. He would hang out with her girl friends and constantly bad mouth me and then her female friends would share with me. I confronted him a couple of times and he would scatter like a true beta. Finally I confronted her and told her it’s either me or him but if she chose me she would have to stop all contact with him. She chose me but suddenly she would complain to her female friends about it and then the same female friends that told me about her guy friend would now tell me how it was wrong what I did and that I was controlling. Whenever we’d hang out with her friends they’d all get passive aggressive about things like at a birthday party one of her friends told her she had to pick between cake or ice cream but couldn’t have both. After a few months she basically asked me if she could hang out with her guy friend once in a great while at which point I told her she could see him whenever she wanted. She gave me this dumb look and asked what I meant and I told her just that because we were officially done. She started crying, made a huge fuzz, her friends would call me in the middle of the night to say nasty things. What surprises me the most is how to her friends they made it all out to be that she was in the right all the time.
Years later I did hook up with another girl who had a lot of guy friends but it was a FWB situation and I knew it would stay that way so at which point I really could care less about her friends. But had it been someone I was considering for a LTR I would’ve skipped completely.
Your ex’s friends sound toxic as hell. Glad you ended it.
remember these trains are never late
Men better be vigilant with women these day, especially the currently mentioned
My wife and I have been together 23 years we started dating when she was 15, she went to an agricultural college so 90% of her friends were Male.
Luckily it was before social media and mobile phones so the only time she interacted with then was at college, during the day, she came home at night.
Though I did trust her it was hard at the time.
@Toxic Stoic yes if it were today I'd be more cautious and I'd give her a choice me or them.
Ducking eh! Boom. Mr Smith the the slam dunk! First 5min.
There’s no such thing as “Just A Friend”
Any woman that says she "cant" make friends with other females is red flag.
No. Red flag for me and it would be the beginning of the end of the relationship.
Agreed, same from a woman's perspective BTW.
Dated a guy who took yearly motorcycle trips with his "friend," Nancy. He thought it was amusing that they were mistaken for a couple, when they totally weren't. I objected, he thought I was being ridiculous. I bolted.
I will never compete with other men for the attention of my woman. If I have to do that, she ain’t mine!
First caller is a fool.
These callers blow
One the one hand, tossing a woman to the curb just because of an occasional, rare, instance of passive-aggression, or he's confused covert communication with passive-aggression seems like a dysfunctional relationship approach, however the idea that a guy is going to be able to lead a woman who can't express herself other than prodominantly passively-aggressively, all I can say is good luck with that misery, if you are committed to her, because even when working with people who want to change, it is not as if such behavorial changes are guaranteed, and don't seem to often take many months, or even years, assuming she stays with it, and has the capacity to alter her capacity to communicate healthfully.
Hey Mr DJ. There is a consent app you can download that you can have a potential hookup sign and boom! Your covered.
How much is his coaching per hour? Legit he said "brrrhundred bucks an hour"
$1100
I don't think a lot is good but my father has been friends with a woman since childhood and they are almost like siblings, but like the families are really close
Every female friend I ever had is an ex.
Vikram Dileepan see? So an ex can be a friend lol
Great content Rich, but one peeve. Can you speak at roughly the same distance to your microphone on a consistent basis please? Your guest was loud most of the time, and your voice volume was very up and down, and I had to keep making adjustments. I prefer to get on with other tasks while listening in the background. Keep on keeping on fella. ;)
they can't be friends unless one of them is attracted to the other and the other is not.
By definition relationships are tricky enough to negotiate. A girlfriend with lots of guy friends is something you dont need. If she is getting everything from you there is no place for it. Most of these guys have ulterior motives
The first caller keeps using shaming tactics to push his viewpoint. Is he a woman disguise?
First callers girlfriend has all male friends
Did I hear that right...$1100/hour
An hour is a loooong time
Can you please make an episode about sexual abuse victims, and/or pathological liars. I broke up with my girlfriend because she was a sexual abuse victim and a pathological liar
Anyone else got problems with the text number ?
About vetting women for 2 months...a DJ can't do that. It's a bunch of hot women throwing themselves at the DJ and soft of casting a spell on the DJ. Men always fall under their spell...probably because they know the woman will not wait. They only have one shot at it. It's a lose/lose situation.
Mr Dj that’s not a real problem man
The only male friend I'm comfortable with is a family member
Just recently met a woman that has loads of gay male friends (and a few femal ones)... they give her attention but don't hit on her (she says)... what's your guess on that one?
My perspective is that you have to surrender some control to exude your confidence. Pursue your excellence and purpose while being aware of the male friends. I'm not sure it's something you need to over react to. If these are historical friends, and she introduces you to them, I think that's positive. You can assess whether or not they're a threat. If they're a bunch of beta males and you know that she is living in your frame, even if they have the strongest desire for her, she will not give in because she's in your frame. That is why frame is so essential. It allows her to be with many male friends, who she goes out for coffee with, who she vents to, who she sees as a woman. Let them be her therapist, it won't turn her on. After her coffee therapy session, she comes home to you and you're swinging from the chandelier in no time. You can be aware of her having male friends while still maintaining frame and showing her you're the man to be with. If she does end up cheating on you then, on to the next! She won't if you're the best version of yourself.
Caller spelled Datsik wrong
Speaking from my own experience (I know that not everybody is like this) - when we have guys night out (we're all in our early 40s.), we don't go out to pick up women. We go out to drink beer and talk. Most of us moved out of the city and don't get to see each other much.
It’s universally known that Men are more loyal though so that’s plausible.
the difference in audio volume between the interlocutors is really distracting
Rich's volume seemed to start low and then increase everytime he spoke.irritating.
Man it was painful to hear the second caller try to cling on to his blue pill mindset and justifying it with not being insecure. His main point about her getting a male perspective is easily debunked: A dude who wants to get in your gf's pants, will not help her to keep her relationship intact.
The gay guy friend that rings all the time ,but you are never allowed to me 😂🤣😂🤣😂
A guy will see how far he is allowed to go. If she listens with out saying anything to stop it. Then she is ready to go to the next level. Where he will try to get personal. The master question. Are you happy? A married woman is the easiest one. They may have problems. It just makes it easier for them to talk into doing anything they want. They can and will do and what I can't understand is that they will do with them and experiment with them all the things that they have never even done with their spouse.
When there is sex involved - no one is pure, no one is above suspicion.
Hey guys so I’m on 17:23 and I get the callers logic when he says that if she’s friends with Steve from accounting you’re gonna be more on your toes and on your shit. One thing that came to mind as I literally paused it to comment, there’s no guarantee that you being on your shit is enough for Steve not to Fuck your girl. Lol women fuck for all types of reasons, especially when they’re mad at you. She can have her “friends”, but it’s when the “friendship” becomes personal that I have a problem with it. Especially when home boy is clearly trying to hang out outside the workplace.
I actually do talk about going to the range and guns 😂; as well as outdoor stuff and concerts with my guy friends. That’s because my husband and I have a huge network of friends from the military (which is where we met) and our first responder family. These are the things we do when we hang out with friends! All my guy friends are also my husband’s friends. And for my husband, all his female friends are also my friends. We have a of friends and hang out often with them. But I totally see your side, and your great points!! I do know some single women that “orbiters” though so I don’t blame men for being concerned. *Richard love your content, been subscribed to your channel for about a year now!”
Neo Lee yuck! Damaged
@@snowiepuppy5453 YUP!🤣
"what was your relationship like with your mom growing up?".... careful you don't cross over into Stefan Molyneux territory.....
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