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Hello, Can you do a video of the opposite side? I mean, guys who married quality women and how their life is going. So people can see the difference and to know what to expect. So they can see clearly when they have meet a good women. Because let's be honest, some guys may interpret all this as: "If she doesn't please me, then she ain't no quality women!". I am a woman, but i do want to understand men more! As far as i have seen in your videos and comments, we are very very different!
Entrepreneurs in Cars Rich, can you talk about situations where men are tied to their ex through a child. Some men didn't get married but have kids with a female who decides the grass is greener on the other side.
@Entrepreneurs in Cars - God is the ultimate gangster and will get his glory and reciprocity one way or another. For as long as we men don't submit to him he will cause us to submit to women. Because men have disobeyed him to walk after the lust of our own flesh because of women he has brought all of this misery upon us. If men stayed loyal to God women will either get only bad boys that will hurt and torment them continuously or Women are whores by nature. Yet if we men submit to God and remained loyal to each other and respected one another to not sleep with another man's woman, they will not be able to play the whore because men know that we must marry a woman of which she won't be able to do if she's with another man. Likewise, a man can never cheat if women had respect for themselves and required men to marry them before they open their legs. Women have caused all of this chaos in the world in the world because of their own promiscuity. If we refuse women that are divorced as the law of God mandates women would learn to be more careful in their selection of men and having kids by these men. At the same time, women will wait until they marry before making the mistake of being with a man that is not fit and above all not godly. We men can bring women into submission by submitting our own selves back to the Father and Christ to keep his commandments. This is what the law says about women that are divorced. The Bible is the ultimate source where a man can become red pill, for it is the original red pill. 1. "But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery." Matthew 5:32 2. "And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery." Mark 10:11-12 If a man divorces his wife and marries someone else he commits adultery, and by this cause her to commit adultery because she will marry someone else as well, and if any guy comes along an marries her he commits adultery. Since women are the first to file for a divorce they have always been guilty of committing adultery in this fashion. Why is that you may ask? Read the following verses! 3. "For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law ( her vowels ) to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man." Romans 7:1-3 Since women are so quick to divorce their husbands so that they can run free to ride to cock caracal and also prone to rebound, this red pill law puts them in check. She has to remain unmarried until her husband dies and what is the likely hood that her husband will die while she's young and fresh face? lol This is what the Bible says about them rebounding. "When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife; Her former husband, which sent her away, MAY NOT TAKE HER AGAIN to be his wife, AFTER THAT SHE IS DEFILED; for that is abomination before the Lord: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance." Deuteronomy 24:1-4 We men can not reject God and live the way we want and overcome these self-exalted women and feminism but by submitting to God and with his help will we put them back into their place.
There no biased laws in divorce court. If blm is wrong because if feels oppressed by number of blacks in jail then so is mgtow. There are no laws that says blacks must be arrested instead of whites and there is no law that says men cannot get custody. Adultery is the leading cause of divorce and men cheat more. Over 50% of custody is mutally decided in favor of the mother without the court.
Entrepreneurs in Cars .....my brothers ..this shit is the same across all lines I’m black and I can’t believe what I’m hearing!! Theses bit%ches is all the same......
As a well-known divorce and child custody lawyer in PA, I would strongly recommend that you book an hour with an experienced family law attorney in your jurisdiction BEFORE you decide to get married. Do it BEFORE you send out wedding invitations. Do this whether you are a man or a woman. Most people do not fully understand what they are actually getting into when they marry.
You're right no one realizes this, 99% don't intend to keep wedding vows, and the state could care less in asset or child divisions. Marriage is just a waste of resources, time and energy these days. Worst deal i ever made in my life, I'm glad I didn't have human kids with the skank.
I find it interesting that in many jurisdictions when you file a divorce complaint you must include with the Complaint a "Notice of Counseling" which notifies the defendant that they can ask the court to order the parties to attend counseling in an effort to preserve the marriage. Yet, there is no statute or requirement that people who are contemplating marriage get counseling so they can understand their rights and potential responsibilities in the event the marriage becomes non-functioning. Most people do more research when they buy a car then when they get married. Think about it.
you need training and experience to get pretty much any kind of license..you name it. ..yet any two people can walk into city hall and get marriage license which has the potential to wreck your whole life.
@ Bryan Charles yes you're right, that's why I said the state could care less in asset or child divisions, the vows don't mean a GD thing to most, and most importantly the state, so why waste time and even make the BS vows? There is no logic for it.
This is 100% true. Married to a woman who pretended for two years to be wild in the bedroom while we were dating. Once we were married it, intimacy, all went away like she shut off a faucet.
Damn! I told my 66 yr old mother who was dedicated and marriage to my dad. That I don’t think I’ll ever get married. It’s just not a good move. She actually replied. I don’t blame you for your decision. Even she’s sees the truth. 👍🏻 great material again. Thanks
I worked with a lady that had been married and divorced I think 3 times. She told me, "You never really know someone until you divorce them.". How true!
the wedding is all about romance /love etc...... fast forward the divorce is ALL about money and assets. REMEMBER BOYS THAT HOT PIECE OF ASS YOU THINK YOU LOVE NOW...VERY GOOD CHANCE YOU WILL COME TO RESENT HER IN THE NEXT 5-10 YEARS.
working shlub. Great analysis and comments man! Women make up their own --- "WOMEN INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX": marriage/divorce, cosmetics, plastic surgery, fashion; "family" AND: high-end: travel, jewelry, furnishings, Real Estste.
I got divorced in 1986. The laws were completely effed up THEN. I can't even imagine how effed up they are today for you young men. Don't play the game, go MGTOW.
Off course, I am fully Red Pill'd, I will never marry! I was referring to Rich's 18-24 vetting period. Many women can hold a good visage for 18-24 months, but by 3 - 5 years the red flags should be out and flapping in the wind as even the best actresses start to show their.... unfortunately most simp men are already under complete control by then and are simply (or simp'ly lol) pressured into marriage.
Global Man Backup Well, you are clearly a 100% MGTOW brother, and of course that is your choice. I prefer having my choice to pick and choose. I will keep my women out of my living space, out of my head, and without ring or child (I do have one from a previous, but he a teen so nearly out of those woods), and that suites my happy fulfilling life.
No amount of time makes the risk worth the reward because either the man or the woman changes and some changes lead to divorce. Marriage is only a deal worthy of a chump.
Time To Thrive so what are we veting her for then? Vetting her to be president or a job? If we all agreed on marriage isn't a possibility because of our mindset is fully against it, there is no vetting period.
Was married once, worst period of my life. My parents bought us a house (which they kept in their name) so she felt she didn’t have to get a job and could sit around on her ass all day while I was at work. We ended up getting married only because it’s what you’re supposed to do and within 10 months she ran off with my best friend. I learned a valuable lesson very cheaply, we didn’t have kids and she couldn’t touch the house because I/we didn’t own it. I told my current girlfriend from day one; you will not be moving in, I don’t ever want kids and we will never be married - 13 years later we’re still together and going great. We meet up on weekends and maybe during the week but we have our own lives. I can play xBox, go fishing, camping or hunting whenever I want. If I want a new guitar or gun or car I don’t have to ask permission I just go and do it. Do not ever get married, learn from the misfortune of others in this video and in the thread comments. No matter how much you think you’re in love you’re being scammed. Just don’t do it.
You made a poor decision in the woman you first married because the reasons you did it arent the ones that produce a happy union. What you want is a partnership not a wife, and thats fineeeeee but the issue is not marriage. It was the woman you chose to marry. And it seems as though you started this relationship with clear communication which is key. I hope you and ur girl continue to stay happy.
Buck's Outdoors I've seen a case of a couple that were together for over 40 years, once they got married guess what happened? The relationship ended in less than a year There are hidden energetic archetypical forces that screws your relationships once you marry, it's the same thing with the guy in the video, 5 years of relationship, ended cause they got married
Aspiring family lawyer for men here. From what I can gather the way to prtoect yourself from divorce rape is to put your pre marital assets into a trust. Buy your first marital home using the trust and in the bylaws of the trust indicate that in the event of a divorce, for the the beneficiary ( your kids to have access to the house) there has to be 50/50 custody. The courts look at something called "the best interest of the child" so you'll most likely get 50/50 custody so that your kids get there inheritance. Secondly when your house is owned by a trust you don't just lose your house, since it was never yours to begin with. So your trust can decide who'll be the tenant within the house after the divorce. I'm trying to learn as much knowledge as possible and I'm not a lawyer yet so please don't take this as legal advice.
Totally agree with all this. But why aren't there a band of male lawyers and judges trying to change the BS laws? The child support tables are just complete BS!
Child support is designed to corrupt families from the top to the bottom. I have a lot of videos on my channel talking about how to get the effects of it. If you feel it may help you out. Good luck to you.
good point..when we are young and broke we tend to settle...as we mature we get wiser and build more wealth there is no need to settle on cars or woman.
My list of red flags for an LTR : Feminist, Vegan, Blue/Pink Hair, Tattoos, "I'm bored", "I am an atheist", Social media junkie, Mobile phone junkie, Has kids, Keep contact with ex's, never call her parents, has bad relationship with her family, Jobless, travels a lot, Gets crazy when you touch her phone, doesn't share food, has condoms, likes to go to clubs, did drugs before, Lady's night, She smokes, likes to be choked, has no female friends, has a lot of male friends, etc. . Feel free to add more.
Tattoos are fine for men...but not for women. Tattoos are a sign of low inhibition and are sign of subversive mentality, which are qualities for men but bad signs for women: If a girl show signs of low inhibition, they are most of time sluts who also have no objections for taking several cocks. Traveling is also a bad sign. Girls travel to exotic location to taste local dicks and are not genuinely interested in the local culture or history. I met girls who travel alone who do not know what language the country she's in has, nor the history of it. They were there just to taste local chad's cock without being seen by her friends back home. Choking...it is obvious.
Like drugs and alcohol marriage makes a bad situation worse and a good situation challenging. There is an old maxim that goes “ the best way to lose a lover is to marry her.”
As a man, I find it hard to cut my losses. I am learning to cut my losses with stocks. Not to totally give up on a company, but to realize that bailing on the stock at lets say 98 is okay as it might soon be 94. So if I really like it, I can buy it back lower and save money. Sadly many men want to make a marriage work, that simply will not work!
Bryan Charles Strong Independent woman, well those are most likely to demand lifetime alimony. Also when they start making money, they don't want to marry for fear a man will divorce rape the woman!
Well, my uncle and his woman never married and they're still together. My aunt on my father's side is happy not being married to her man. Marriage only complicates leaving each other. A contract, expensive party, and a ceremony ain't gonna improve a life. Luckily here in Norway (Scandinavia, Europe) the legal system is kind of more gender neutral. Getting a prenup agreement is quite easy and what you bring into the marriage is what you take out of the marriage in terms of assets.
Boah love the intro men. You're speaking out of my soul! Im currently in a break up where I broke up and my girlfriend with who I was 13 years and ignore plenty of red flags won't accept it. Currently she's trying to force marriage with the help of her mother and things are going pretty ugly, Hope it will end soon. Anyway thank you for this Chanel and for your words brother!
Once she shows you shitty behavior,she’s basically showing you who she is, once someone show you who they are please believe it and get the hell away from them.
Its crazy that its a cycle; the marriage goes bad and the mother alienates the father basically guaranteeing beta status for a son and certainly daddy issues for a daughter, setting them up for the same future.
Those red flags are very, very real and the friction and pain of cutting things off them is far less vs dealing with them in a divorce. You can’t and won’t fix those flags later.
I was lucky enough for her to leave me 4 months before the wedding. Found out later that she was cheating on me with a drug dealer. We were together for 3 years but had a history of 12 years. The thing that hurt the most was losing my second family. I was very close with her family before we got together. The last year of the relationship was me working full time and going to school full time, trying to prepare for the future. A ton of red flags in hindsight. Went through some ptsd. I stumbled on your channel which caused me to look deeper into the red pill. The only thing I lost was $7,000 from the ring.
That is another thing worth discussing on this channel . How much u lose on weding rings . 2000 USD ring with 0.5 D carat bought in HK looked as a good deal when in Europ it was at least 5000 USD . When try to sell back in pawnshop the guy told me he doesnt want to tell me how much he will pay as he knows i get angry ( 270 lbs 6.6 ft). He said its worth at most 500 USD . He said other people get very angry on him beacouse for somthing they payed 5000 he can give 500 . They think he wants to cheat them .
Never sell a ring to a pawnshop, take it to a jeweler. You will still take a hit just not as bad. I sold mine to the jeweler for 1600. He even tried to sell it for me at price for 20% commission. Jeweler said people are not buying rings like they used to.
I find it frustrating that you give a woman a conditional gift of a engagement ring, she fails to meet the condition, you have no legal recourse to recoup your loss.
Rich, Canada is still descending... Jan 2020 Alberta passed legislation that common law has same legal standing as full on marriage. Aka full division of assets. No asset exemptions etc. There are 0 reasons to ever cohabitate.
Great work Rich. No men should get burned anymore if they just listen to your content. Ky just passed a 50/50 law and I’m very curious to see how that works out.
Private marriage sounds a lot like defacto marriage in Australia, here after one year of cohabitation she can still take you for half same as traditional marriage.
Regarding not wanting to die alone: my great grandfather died in his mid-50’s. His wife lived until her mid-90’s. She does alone despite having been married.
My wife knows how to treat me right, for the most part, at least she brings me "Cowboy Ribeye" steaks for me from the store, a steak just for Daddy! No woman is perfect, the system is totally not perfect and does favor women and also works against the wage earner. All that said, choosing a woman thru dating, avoiding red flags like single mothers and such, dating not for sex, but for character and what you want overall in a wife is the key. Who you marry is the greatest decision of your life! Either marry right or don't get married at all. Marriage is for life or at least impacts you for life!
I agree! Marriage is not a joke. Date as much as you want, as long as you want. But marry only when completely ready and sure for the one you have by your side. Think well, if not for your own happiness, but for the children happiness. Family is the building cel of a society! It needs to be very strong and compact!
Lmao boi are u aware that now she has u by the nuts??there is no incentive for her to keep behaving.she can flip the script at any point on you then u r truely screwed..but ok have fun buddy
Hi Richard, I’m a 41 year old who’s going through the divorce meat grinder and have been dating the last 18 months. Some of the older gents have said that they are worried about T levels etc. one thing I have done is gone to a mostly meat based diet, cut almost all carbs, eat very little crap food and take fish oil, glucosamine & chondroitin and vitamin D supplements. What I’ve noticed is that my libido is higher now than my early 30s and my lifting at the gym is going great. My recovery times are awesome. I have had date nights where I’ve had sex with a girl 3-4 times in a night. Haven’t done that since my late twenties. As we get older eating healthy proteins and fats seem to really help with the aging process and I think other guys can really benefit from it. I’m still a bit chubby but I’m strong and still leaning out despite my injuries (car accident and ruptured Achilles late last year).
my ex wife got the house, the kids and 22 yrs of child support from me, she made bank and stuck most of that child support in her retirement account over the years so now she can retire at 55 next year. 240k worth of child support on 3 kids over 22 yrs. Kids i didnt want, a marriage i didnt want but i was a fool and allowed myself to be pushed and badgered into "being a man and stepping up". Worked great for her, not so much for me. Heed my tale boys and don't make the mistakes this old man did.
Same is happening to me, right now. I was a good father, and husband. Still ended up like this, just because she decided she wanted a change, 7 years later.
I walked away already, and told her I don’t want see the kids. She send photo to my mom, and I told her stop or i will bury her. She finally stopped. I have a new partner, will start again. New kids - If she want fuck the kids, was her choice, not mine. Just have to delete them from your life, is hard at first. I already through that process now. I was sperm donor, they can go hell.
I have a plan for that. I am going Philippines. I bought a house in China, where I use to have a small business. I’m going to get one young Filipina, promise her the world, get her pregnant, and then have her turn into a drugged up 🐀. I will have child custody, and she will have nothing. She won’t even be able to afford a lawyer, or a flight home. I learnt my lesson. Just do what women do to men, and do it in a non feminist country. I will make sure I have two kids before, I get rid of her. Cost me 12k a year, cheaper than alimony in west. Hell, I will benefit from child benefit here once I get the kids back to Europe.
I think in my analysis what it really is is that it's not that guy's necessarily think they can change a woman or vice versa woman can change a man, it's not that they think things will get better, I really think that it is that most people just do not realize and want to admit how important those red flags really are.
15 years in divorce court. Divorce is a business for a long time, a way for women to get enriched and slaving you. Above all, there is a whole industry which will such your lasy penny. Make yourself a huge favor, stay out of marriage !
Absolutely agree, that is what happened with my first marriage, we're men, we can & have molded the world, I can "fix her" NMMNG is like my autobiography
I always feel bad for the fellas who crave the family life. 99% of the men I’ve watched have failed horribly to have long term success with a family and wife. It ALWAYS burns down sooner or later. It’s not 1950 anymore gents. Keep them out of your house and you’ll keep the peace. 👍
Vetting a potential partner for marriage seems to have its benefits over a long period of time before jumping in however they can still change into a nightmare at any given point, what I'm gathering from the discussion is and most importantly is anyone who is entering in such a contract must dominate their situation from the very beginning and throughout its must be your way gents and nothing else no compromise as you will be dominated as she will ware you down till you relent and if it doesn't suit what you are attempting to build a life together then you have no choice but to let her go on her way I say this because if she resists your leadership (Not controlling her) how can it work I don't believe it can. Empowering your partner is one thing however allowing her green cards she will miss use them and take the piss it's in their nature to do so.. You must be a man about everything you do say your actions everything you believe in and hold your values and standards, these are the only two things that will power you through a relationship just my opinion.
Have you seen the new papillon movie remake? There is a scene in the old movie where the prison guard gives the inmates advice on how to survive and he says "masturbate as little as possible, it drains your energy".
THE KEY POINTS: We must all spread the message as much as possible if we want to help things change. To be successful with women you need an abundance mind set and to first really know what frame is and then to hold the frame, even if you end up in a marriage. To do this you must learn REAL game, not the RSD stuff. One final point, we all know men and women are different, one great difference is men can be with women MUCH younger, the reverse doesn't work. But to do this you need real game. Good books not mentioned here are Mode One, Sperm Wars and The Power of Habit. In current law things are HEAVILY stacked against you, game will help you flip the script and give you a HUGE advantage over her and other guys. She wants you in the driving seat in any case:)
I have a big request: would you organize a talk with Karen Straughan ("Girl Writes What") some time in the future? She is very red pilled and just has a brilliant mind!! Thanks!!
Stephen C. NO dude! You could be very wrong. Use the "Trust but verify" rule. Many feminist collaborators, SAY they are MGTOW NAWALTS - but are REALLY here gathering "INTEL" on us MGTOWS - to use against us later.
When I was a young man I had a jewish friend who's father was a senior cleric. He told us that when you get with a girl the guy says to himself, I like her & hopes she won't change. The girl thinks she likes him but she can make him better. He was correct! A recipe for disaster, enough said
I saw the red flags. She saw the red flags. The problem is, I was like: "Well, there's always going to be red flags with someone.. I'm ready to face myself & accommodate these challenges." Hahaha.. No. Those red flags were forrest fire warnings. Truth be told.. I hold one person (& one person only) responsible for my actions: Me. I knew I wasn't ready to be married. I didn't have a craft mastered of any sort. But, I listened to people who told me: "You'll never be 'ready.'" Well, *fk* . What I've learned: Be(come) a Real Man (one who has a Real Life specialized & tangeable craft.. Who, has found & refined their "Why" in life.. And, who doesn't see women like nano~tech conscience sex toys.. Rather, as complimentary partners.. Or, else, why complain if she sees you like an ATM machine!?). Then, and *only* then, get married to the most compatible Woman (one committed to growth). The vetting process is imperative. I Love the 12-18 month get to know time frame idea... You *have* to see each other when you're ugly... And, realistically *know* whether or not you're good with it. Cuz... Everybody poops. Peace & Bless.
Damn, I was the same! I was thinking that there will always be red flags and that it was normal. Kept trying to make it work, not wanting to fail. Really don't like to feel like a failure. Even now, when I'm finally getting the divorce, I still sometimes feel like a failure. However, when I think about it logically, there is no other alternative.
Just keep calm and don’t rush into anything. Date 13yrs and then plan a wedding if you’re serious and in your 20s . If you’re 30 and have been divorced, date 13 yrs because you already been they the process. Now if she fakes for 13yrs she really played herself and if she not down for dating that long drop her and move on.
I truly believe I escaped a living hell when driving from Arizona back home to Chicago in a 750 with most of my life in the trunk and in a POD being shipped back to Chicago. I left her the furniture and I settled on my financial obligations and to this day its by far one of the best decisions I ever made. Rich Cooper and all his time and energy is like gold! This is the best life advice any young man could get! Treat it that way. I am single with an occasional plate spin and never will I think that oneitis is a fact when its nothing but part of the system and the matrix of western civilization and the ultimate handcuff that ends up in court where men get raped. Stay single. Its freedom!
My dad and rap music told me the real life lessons on 99% of women. My mom and sisters even showed me by their actions, my problem was thinking I found someone real when I actually found the fakest person I've ever met in life. I know the risk isn't worth the reward now. I failed to react accordingly and throw her in the trash where she belonged when I seen the red flags. Keeping it simple is the best, meaning never marry her, pump and turn her off so much she will dump you and then do it to the next chick, also never love them. That is the easiest way to survive this game with your sanity and your money. Also realize the government isn't fair or your friend. Never marry anyone or a license from a government authority that is basically legalized prostitution.
Fellow Torontonian ..I have never been married I was lucky as a kid my Pops owned a Ripper bar so I got to figure out women at a young age ......needless to say Social engineering is working women are awesome at being the majority shareholders in Familydestroyers R Us ....Holy Hypergamy Batman! ....and that being said ....love your work and agree with ya 100% I'm for dating younger birds ...and I'm in the driver's seat ! :P
Under NO circumstances if you date a single mother should you ever allow her to move into your home. If you do, there is is whole host of legal & emotional problems that come your way, at huge speed!
Spectacular session Richard and team, very informative and well done to all the contributors. Would you consider doing a session for the European audience? 9 pm EST 2 am GMT in the morning during the working week was too late for me to watch/participate real time
One of my mates in particular is so blue pills I can't even tell him about the red pill he's married fathering 2 kids that ain't his and 3 of his own so far gone now. So sad
one of my neighbors married a woman who already had 5 kids with 2 different men....then he had 2 more with her...he is in his 60s now and he is a beaten down guy..nice guy but a total fool.
Dx health yeh it's tragic the whole group is blue pilled it's making me angry, I'm going out with the whole group tomorrow night and I dont think I can hang with them after that I'd rather have my own company that a bunch of blue pill zombies.
yup...few years back i helped him put a new roof on his house and he told me everything..i thought all the kids were his...she had her first kid at like 16 .what a mess. ..he was telling me all he wanted was to be an air force pilot that was his dream but instead he played captain save a hoe..i have met the wife and she seems nice enough she is in her late 60s..who knows how she was 30 years ago....never give up your dreams for ANYONE..that is lesson i took.
Great Man "Hood" topic. My marital foot print is as follows, married at 20 (for 14 years) which also ushered into this world 3 children (all Girls). Divorced Once. I've Since been remarried (5 year wait period in between) to the same woman AND her children (2 Girls) now for nearly 19 years. We are now empty Nester's. All but one are "Happily" married with one foot note she's still in in her "Internship" finishing her Doctorate while her husband is still trying to figure out what He wants to Master. That said, this is simply One mans opinion. My disclaimer, because I've only been divorced ONCE I it would be lie to SELF to even TRY to consider my SELF a "Divorce Professional". My thoughts and hopefully positive contribution to the Hood are as follows. 1) NEVER fall for lies which suggest or even remotely hints towards a Happy Wife = Happy Life or Husband. 2) Insist at ALL times whether guilty as charged or NOT, CONTINUALLY Arguing requires two. 4) Don't believe the Lie or drink from the same punch Bowl until you do have solid understanding of what it means to BE "Punch Drunk" 5) Never say anything during a MEANINGFUL argument if you're NOT living Proof of same. 6) NEVER Mention Divorce if YOU truly want your spouse to BELIEVE You're 100% invested in YOUR marriage. 7) Refuse to accept that Fight or Flight are your ONLY choices in Life 8)Never make a Life changing decision based on Bad Intel or whatever it is that only One of your 5 senses would have you to believe. Why? Your either ALL in or you're NOT 9) Never forget "Integrity" breeds True Confidence that is also NEVER afraid of consequences that also require YOUR full consent and cooperation. 10) When reflecting the PROGRESS of your marriage know that denial has many faces, Just study what facts look like before Deciding to Join the Crowd. 10) There is NO one fits all success formula for "BLENDED Families" so don't waste valuable time searching as if for the ONE right example to follow because you're the one who's going to give your marriage it's FINAL Grade and hand pick its "Student of the Year". I hope these help some ONE else in the mix on either side of the drama of DIVORCE~
Marriage is totally not necessary. Not with kids not anyhow. To pay partner alimony has to be avoided at any time. To pay child support is evident but you don't need marriage for it.
and now imagine that the answer to all those guys problems with their spouses was one word "NO" - whenever they saw any bratty behaviour/clash for dominance/shit test/testing the boundaries and self esteem ...and without this strategically placed magic word they had to go trough so much crap
I have one for you. I was married for 4 years. Great relationship then she left .out of the blue. I still have a relationship with my step daughter through her. Ex and I hate each other. What’s the best way to act around her? I’m over her but still saddened by the fact that we used to be so close and now don’t have a relationship at all. She’s very cold around me and very emotionless. I made the mistake of trying to win her back and acting like a lost puppy. Should I just stonewall her or treat her with the contempt she treats me? Side note, I never do or say anything to or In front of my stepdaughter. Hard because my step daughter wants us to figure things out but no chance. Any suggestions guys? Thanx in advance and keep taking the red pill guys! These videos are a real eye opener.
Hi Rich, regarding betaization, this is really a profound topic and you guys should dive deeper into that, i suggest you to invite blackdragon (caleb jones) over, he's one of the guys in the manosphere who talks about this subject the most, it'd be great to have him on the show
One guy there - THE RACK, the 24yr old's story got to me. Like him,! I was a serious idealist - came from a VERY stable and happy family life from 1950s. Naively thought I could find the NAWALT MY ALPHA DAD HAD - until she died after nearly 60 years of marriage. Dad died heartbroken 2 years later. He always falsely thought HE would be first to die. My "trophy wife" was a disaster. I didn't have these MGTOW sites for HELP in 1980s- until I just found them at 68 yrs old. I found out too late, I had ay least 4 potential NAWALTS over the years - but didn't appreciate them then.
I had a great opportunity to listen to your show last night and a lot of the things that you and the other gentleman said I have to agree with. Now mind you I am speaking as a divorced woman going on almost for 5 years now. However, I didn't ask for alimony I didn't ask for anything from my ex-husband the way we went into the marriage is the way that we left a marriage with nothing. But I do have one quick question as a red pill guy I want to make sure I heard you correctly? Were you saying that red pill men should only date women that don't have tattoos and no real sexual experience in bed? I am asking only because well... As a female I might not have a lot of sexual experience in bed but what's wrong with a tattoo or two especially if one of them is based in the spirit of God... Something that you felt convicted to finally Express?
Leodanys Perez to be honest with you I don't understand why there are people that feel entitled to other people's stuff either. The only time that I would feel like someone should receive something from another person is if they have both worked together to produce that result. So for instance if there were two individuals that work together to build a business then they both should reap the benefits of that business. But the whole entitlement thing is not my cup of tea anyway😕
Ralph Furley now that I can completely understand and agree with. I have seen tattoos that are commonly referred to as tramp stamps and I completely understand why a guy would not to be bothered with that. Yeah I think the reason why I posed the question was it seemed like he was saying all tattoos are out and I figured he probably mean that exactly I figured the guys were probably saying more along the lines of what you were saying which is you don't want women who have tattoo their bodies up and down and look less than presentable.
Why ruin GOD's masterpiece with permanent ink?, just a question not judging, 3 out of four of my kids and two grandkids have Tatts, I still love them the same ;) .
Lol, I married one - church every Sunday, and the she switched church to El shadai, a cult ran by child abusers, and months later, made false allegations on me for slapping her. Lost all visitation rights, a criminal record, express divorce, lost my home, lost my job, and now she is singing kumbaihai in her new church, every Sunday. Leaving my kid around these lunatics.
@@carlhash6540 OMG, what a nightmare, all that loss, missing the kids. You must be strong to make lemonade out of lemons. This church business cause so much grief, especially Evangelicals, it’s a scam and cult.
1:15 take her out to McDonald's and when you talk to her again lie to her and tell her you took out a different girl to Red Lobster or Olive Garden. Tell her your new date looks like Carmen Electra. You should be able to get all your red flags after that.
Guys have interesting hobbies, )shooting, aircraft, motor sports etc), women interest is group girlie stuff, (talking during coffee, dinners, dancing presentation of themselves & flirting). Might be of the same species but act different like cats vs dogs!
I don’t regret getting married. I was married for 11 years. Marriage was a great adventure with the love of my life and I brought my son into the world. After 11 years my wife’s hypergamy came through after she made wealthy friends and she divorced me. That was not right and not good for the life we built but I don’t regret that chapter in my life. It’s just time to move on. Thanks for the tips, I don’t agree with everything here. Live your life
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Hello, Can you do a video of the opposite side? I mean, guys who married quality women and how their life is going. So people can see the difference and to know what to expect. So they can see clearly when they have meet a good women. Because let's be honest, some guys may interpret all this as: "If she doesn't please me, then she ain't no quality women!". I am a woman, but i do want to understand men more! As far as i have seen in your videos and comments, we are very very different!
Entrepreneurs in Cars Rich, can you talk about situations where men are tied to their ex through a child. Some men didn't get married but have kids with a female who decides the grass is greener on the other side.
@Entrepreneurs in Cars - God is the ultimate gangster and will get his glory and reciprocity one way or another.
For as long as we men don't submit to him he will cause us to submit to women.
Because men have disobeyed him to walk after the lust of our own flesh because of women he has brought all of this misery upon us.
If men stayed loyal to God women will either get only bad boys that will hurt and torment them continuously or
Women are whores by nature.
Yet if we men submit to God and remained loyal to each other and respected one another to not sleep with another man's woman, they will not be able to play the whore because men know that we must marry a woman of which she won't be able to do if she's with another man.
Likewise, a man can never cheat if women had respect for themselves and required men to marry them before they open their legs.
Women have caused all of this chaos in the world in the world because of their own promiscuity.
If we refuse women that are divorced as the law of God mandates women would learn to be more careful in their selection of men and having kids by these men.
At the same time, women will wait until they marry before making the mistake of being with a man that is not fit and above all not godly.
We men can bring women into submission by submitting our own selves back to the Father and Christ to keep his commandments.
This is what the law says about women that are divorced.
The Bible is the ultimate source where a man can become red pill, for it is the original red pill.
1. "But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery."
Matthew 5:32
2. "And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
Mark 10:11-12
If a man divorces his wife and marries someone else he commits adultery, and by this cause her to commit adultery because she will marry someone else as well, and if any guy comes along an marries her he commits adultery.
Since women are the first to file for a divorce they have always been guilty of committing adultery in this fashion.
Why is that you may ask?
Read the following verses!
3. "For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law ( her vowels ) to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man."
Romans 7:1-3
Since women are so quick to divorce their husbands so that they can run free to ride to cock caracal and also prone to rebound, this red pill law puts them in check.
She has to remain unmarried until her husband dies and what is the likely hood that her husband will die while she's young and fresh face? lol
This is what the Bible says about them rebounding.
"When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.
And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife.
And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife;
Her former husband, which sent her away, MAY NOT TAKE HER AGAIN to be his wife, AFTER THAT SHE IS DEFILED; for that is abomination before the Lord: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance."
Deuteronomy 24:1-4
We men can not reject God and live the way we want and overcome these self-exalted women and feminism but by submitting to God and with his help will we put them back into their place.
There no biased laws in divorce court.
If blm is wrong because if feels oppressed by number of blacks in jail then so is mgtow. There are no laws that says blacks must be arrested instead of whites and there is no law that says men cannot get custody.
Adultery is the leading cause of divorce and men cheat more. Over 50% of custody is mutally decided in favor of the mother without the court.
Entrepreneurs in Cars .....my brothers ..this shit is the same across all lines I’m black and I can’t believe what I’m hearing!! Theses bit%ches is all the same......
This video is a must see for men who think the ultimate goal in life is getting married
The ultimate goal for men is to become the best versions of ourselves. 🤗
As a well-known divorce and child custody lawyer in PA, I would strongly recommend that you book an hour with an experienced family law attorney in your jurisdiction BEFORE you decide to get married. Do it BEFORE you send out wedding invitations. Do this whether you are a man or a woman. Most people do not fully understand what they are actually getting into when they marry.
You're right no one realizes this, 99% don't intend to keep wedding vows, and the state could care less in asset or child divisions. Marriage is just a waste of resources, time and energy these days. Worst deal i ever made in my life, I'm glad I didn't have human kids with the skank.
I find it interesting that in many jurisdictions when you file a divorce complaint you must include with the Complaint a "Notice of Counseling" which notifies the defendant that they can ask the court to order the parties to attend counseling in an effort to preserve the marriage. Yet, there is no statute or requirement that people who are contemplating marriage get counseling so they can understand their rights and potential responsibilities in the event the marriage becomes non-functioning. Most people do more research when they buy a car then when they get married. Think about it.
you need training and experience to get pretty much any kind of license..you name it. ..yet any two people can walk into city hall and get marriage license which has the potential to wreck your whole life.
the guy cheats..he loses at least half of everything....woman cheats men still lose half..sounds fair right??
@ Bryan Charles yes you're right, that's why I said the state could care less in asset or child divisions, the vows don't mean a GD thing to most, and most importantly the state, so why waste time and even make the BS vows? There is no logic for it.
This is 100% true. Married to a woman who pretended for two years to be wild in the bedroom while we were dating. Once we were married it, intimacy, all went away like she shut off a faucet.
Damn! I told my 66 yr old mother who was dedicated and marriage to my dad. That I don’t think I’ll ever get married. It’s just not a good move. She actually replied. I don’t blame you for your decision. Even she’s sees the truth. 👍🏻 great material again. Thanks
I worked with a lady that had been married and divorced I think 3 times. She told me, "You never really know someone until you divorce them.". How true!
Thaddaeus Bappe I have said the exact same thing about my divorce!
the wedding is all about romance /love etc...... fast forward the divorce is ALL about money and assets. REMEMBER BOYS THAT HOT PIECE OF ASS YOU THINK YOU LOVE NOW...VERY GOOD CHANCE YOU WILL COME TO RESENT HER IN THE NEXT 5-10 YEARS.
working shlub. Great analysis and comments man! Women make up their own --- "WOMEN INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX": marriage/divorce, cosmetics, plastic surgery, fashion; "family" AND: high-end: travel, jewelry, furnishings, Real Estste.
I got divorced in 1986. The laws were completely effed up THEN. I can't even imagine how effed up they are today for you young men. Don't play the game, go MGTOW.
"Now she is a lesbian", sorry I cant stop laughing. Great channel brother
It would be hilarious if you piped a woman an then she went lesbian 🤣
The 18-24 month vetting period is waaaaaaay to premature! 3 - 5 years and you're close to knowing someone.
Off course, I am fully Red Pill'd, I will never marry!
I was referring to Rich's 18-24 vetting period. Many women can hold a good visage for 18-24 months, but by 3 - 5 years the red flags should be out and flapping in the wind as even the best actresses start to show their.... unfortunately most simp men are already under complete control by then and are simply (or simp'ly lol) pressured into marriage.
Global Man Backup Well, you are clearly a 100% MGTOW brother, and of course that is your choice.
I prefer having my choice to pick and choose. I will keep my women out of my living space, out of my head, and without ring or child (I do have one from a previous, but he a teen so nearly out of those woods), and that suites my happy fulfilling life.
No amount of time makes the risk worth the reward because either the man or the woman changes and some changes lead to divorce. Marriage is only a deal worthy of a chump.
Yes, we are all agreed on marriage, Les
Time To Thrive so what are we veting her for then? Vetting her to be president or a job? If we all agreed on marriage isn't a possibility because of our mindset is fully against it, there is no vetting period.
Was married once, worst period of my life. My parents bought us a house (which they kept in their name) so she felt she didn’t have to get a job and could sit around on her ass all day while I was at work. We ended up getting married only because it’s what you’re supposed to do and within 10 months she ran off with my best friend. I learned a valuable lesson very cheaply, we didn’t have kids and she couldn’t touch the house because I/we didn’t own it. I told my current girlfriend from day one; you will not be moving in, I don’t ever want kids and we will never be married - 13 years later we’re still together and going great. We meet up on weekends and maybe during the week but we have our own lives. I can play xBox, go fishing, camping or hunting whenever I want. If I want a new guitar or gun or car I don’t have to ask permission I just go and do it. Do not ever get married, learn from the misfortune of others in this video and in the thread comments. No matter how much you think you’re in love you’re being scammed. Just don’t do it.
Buck's Outdoors you’re one of the few men that are doing it the right way!
Buck's Outdoors I'm envious brother. Enjoy yourself. I'm sure you earned it
You made a poor decision in the woman you first married because the reasons you did it arent the ones that produce a happy union. What you want is a partnership not a wife, and thats fineeeeee but the issue is not marriage. It was the woman you chose to marry. And it seems as though you started this relationship with clear communication which is key. I hope you and ur girl continue to stay happy.
i agree gotta be upfront..no interest in marriage or kids or living together. .let them get all pissed but you were upfront now its on them.
Buck's Outdoors I've seen a case of a couple that were together for over 40 years, once they got married guess what happened? The relationship ended in less than a year
There are hidden energetic archetypical forces that screws your relationships once you marry, it's the same thing with the guy in the video, 5 years of relationship, ended cause they got married
Aspiring family lawyer for men here. From what I can gather the way to prtoect yourself from divorce rape is to put your pre marital assets into a trust. Buy your first marital home using the trust and in the bylaws of the trust indicate that in the event of a divorce, for the the beneficiary ( your kids to have access to the house) there has to be 50/50 custody. The courts look at something called "the best interest of the child" so you'll most likely get 50/50 custody so that your kids get there inheritance. Secondly when your house is owned by a trust you don't just lose your house, since it was never yours to begin with. So your trust can decide who'll be the tenant within the house after the divorce.
I'm trying to learn as much knowledge as possible and I'm not a lawyer yet so please don't take this as legal advice.
Totally agree with all this. But why aren't there a band of male lawyers and judges trying to change the BS laws? The child support tables are just complete BS!
Child support is designed to corrupt families from the top to the bottom. I have a lot of videos on my channel talking about how to get the effects of it. If you feel it may help you out. Good luck to you.
Never ever settle down. Why would you settle? When buying a car, do you Settle? Or get what you really want?
good point..when we are young and broke we tend to settle...as we mature we get wiser and build more wealth there is no need to settle on cars or woman.
An excellent way to think of it.
My list of red flags for an LTR : Feminist, Vegan, Blue/Pink Hair, Tattoos, "I'm bored", "I am an atheist", Social media junkie, Mobile phone junkie, Has kids, Keep contact with ex's, never call her parents, has bad relationship with her family, Jobless, travels a lot, Gets crazy when you touch her phone, doesn't share food, has condoms, likes to go to clubs, did drugs before, Lady's night, She smokes, likes to be choked, has no female friends, has a lot of male friends, etc. . Feel free to add more.
I’m curious as to the reasoning behind tattoos, traveling, and choking?
Tattoos are fine for men...but not for women. Tattoos are a sign of low inhibition and are sign of subversive mentality, which are qualities for men but bad signs for women: If a girl show signs of low inhibition, they are most of time sluts who also have no objections for taking several cocks. Traveling is also a bad sign. Girls travel to exotic location to taste local dicks and are not genuinely interested in the local culture or history. I met girls who travel alone who do not know what language the country she's in has, nor the history of it. They were there just to taste local chad's cock without being seen by her friends back home. Choking...it is obvious.
Thats nearly all women unfortunately :/
thats just for starters lol
Dammmmm you jus described my friends wife....... I NEED HIM CALL HIM ASAP AND SHOW HIM YOUR POST AS YOUR 100% RIGHT WITH THR RED FLAGS
This is content every single western male should watch.
Like drugs and alcohol marriage makes a bad situation worse and a good situation challenging. There is an old maxim that goes “ the best way to lose a lover is to marry her.”
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As a man, I find it hard to cut my losses. I am learning to cut my losses with stocks. Not to totally give up on a company, but to realize that bailing on the stock at lets say 98 is okay as it might soon be 94. So if I really like it, I can buy it back lower and save money. Sadly many men want to make a marriage work, that simply will not work!
Bryan Charles Strong Independent woman, well those are most likely to demand lifetime alimony. Also when they start making money, they don't want to marry for fear a man will divorce rape the woman!
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Well, my uncle and his woman never married and they're still together. My aunt on my father's side is happy not being married to her man. Marriage only complicates leaving each other.
A contract, expensive party, and a ceremony ain't gonna improve a life. Luckily here in Norway (Scandinavia, Europe) the legal system is kind of more gender neutral. Getting a prenup agreement is quite easy and what you bring into the marriage is what you take out of the marriage in terms of assets.
Damn where were you when i was in my early 20s...you LITERALLY just told my life story...
Amazing show. Men need more like this
These talks are really excellent. Very informative and helpful.
Boah love the intro men. You're speaking out of my soul! Im currently in a break up where I broke up and my girlfriend with who I was 13 years and ignore plenty of red flags won't accept it. Currently she's trying to force marriage with the help of her mother and things are going pretty ugly,
Hope it will end soon.
Anyway thank you for this Chanel and for your words brother!
Thank you for sharing your stories. I hope you continue to inspire more people. You guys are life-changing.
Once she shows you shitty behavior,she’s basically showing you who she is, once someone show you who they are please believe it and get the hell away from them.
Totally
Its crazy that its a cycle; the marriage goes bad and the mother alienates the father basically guaranteeing beta status for a son and certainly daddy issues for a daughter, setting them up for the same future.
Those red flags are very, very real and the friction and pain of cutting things off them is far less vs dealing with them in a divorce. You can’t and won’t fix those flags later.
I was lucky enough for her to leave me 4 months before the wedding. Found out later that she was cheating on me with a drug dealer. We were together for 3 years but had a history of 12 years. The thing that hurt the most was losing my second family. I was very close with her family before we got together. The last year of the relationship was me working full time and going to school full time, trying to prepare for the future. A ton of red flags in hindsight. Went through some ptsd. I stumbled on your channel which caused me to look deeper into the red pill. The only thing I lost was $7,000 from the ring.
Michael Reeves go get that ring back . Right now .
Got it back but you can't ever get back what you paid for it. Took a huge loss on it
That is another thing worth discussing on this channel . How much u lose on weding rings . 2000 USD ring with 0.5 D carat bought in HK looked as a good deal when in Europ it was at least 5000 USD . When try to sell back in pawnshop the guy told me he doesnt want to tell me how much he will pay as he knows i get angry ( 270 lbs 6.6 ft). He said its worth at most 500 USD . He said other people get very angry on him beacouse for somthing they payed 5000 he can give 500 . They think he wants to cheat them .
Never sell a ring to a pawnshop, take it to a jeweler. You will still take a hit just not as bad. I sold mine to the jeweler for 1600. He even tried to sell it for me at price for 20% commission. Jeweler said people are not buying rings like they used to.
I find it frustrating that you give a woman a conditional gift of a engagement ring, she fails to meet the condition, you have no legal recourse to recoup your loss.
The caller @44min was spot on.
Rich, Canada is still descending... Jan 2020 Alberta passed legislation that common law has same legal standing as full on marriage. Aka full division of assets. No asset exemptions etc. There are 0 reasons to ever cohabitate.
Great work Rich. No men should get burned anymore if they just listen to your content. Ky just passed a 50/50 law and I’m very curious to see how that works out.
Some brutal honesty from the guys here.
You should do these more often!
I like your advice that if a man sees too many red flags, it's time to bounce and cut his losses. Very true, but VERY difficult for men to do.
Love how the guy said he loved Big beast. Amen. That’s it bro!!
Yuuppp lol
From Jamaica. Great forum here. Great things happening here?
Private marriage sounds a lot like defacto marriage in Australia, here after one year of cohabitation she can still take you for half same as traditional marriage.
Regarding not wanting to die alone: my great grandfather died in his mid-50’s. His wife lived until her mid-90’s. She does alone despite having been married.
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My wife knows how to treat me right, for the most part, at least she brings me "Cowboy Ribeye" steaks for me from the store, a steak just for Daddy! No woman is perfect, the system is totally not perfect and does favor women and also works against the wage earner. All that said, choosing a woman thru dating, avoiding red flags like single mothers and such, dating not for sex, but for character and what you want overall in a wife is the key. Who you marry is the greatest decision of your life! Either marry right or don't get married at all. Marriage is for life or at least impacts you for life!
I agree! Marriage is not a joke. Date as much as you want, as long as you want. But marry only when completely ready and sure for the one you have by your side. Think well, if not for your own happiness, but for the children happiness. Family is the building cel of a society! It needs to be very strong and compact!
Charles Granata You won the lottery with women. YOU GOT A NAWALT.
Marky Hursh More like Forest Gump getting the million dollar wound in the ass. But thanks! I ain't never seen any million dollars!
Lmao boi are u aware that now she has u by the nuts??there is no incentive for her to keep behaving.she can flip the script at any point on you then u r truely screwed..but ok have fun buddy
Great content. Great video. Thx guys.
Hi Richard, I’m a 41 year old who’s going through the divorce meat grinder and have been dating the last 18 months. Some of the older gents have said that they are worried about T levels etc. one thing I have done is gone to a mostly meat based diet, cut almost all carbs, eat very little crap food and take fish oil, glucosamine & chondroitin and vitamin D supplements. What I’ve noticed is that my libido is higher now than my early 30s and my lifting at the gym is going great. My recovery times are awesome. I have had date nights where I’ve had sex with a girl 3-4 times in a night. Haven’t done that since my late twenties. As we get older eating healthy proteins and fats seem to really help with the aging process and I think other guys can really benefit from it. I’m still a bit chubby but I’m strong and still leaning out despite my injuries (car accident and ruptured Achilles late last year).
my ex wife got the house, the kids and 22 yrs of child support from me, she made bank and stuck most of that child support in her retirement account over the years so now she can retire at 55 next year. 240k worth of child support on 3 kids over 22 yrs. Kids i didnt want, a marriage i didnt want but i was a fool and allowed myself to be pushed and badgered into "being a man and stepping up". Worked great for her, not so much for me. Heed my tale boys and don't make the mistakes this old man did.
Same is happening to me, right now. I was a good father, and husband. Still ended up like this, just because she decided she wanted a change, 7 years later.
@@carlhash6540 worst part is when they get a new man and start trying to cut you out if your kids life and turn them against you
I walked away already, and told her I don’t want see the kids. She send photo to my mom, and I told her stop or i will bury her. She finally stopped. I have a new partner, will start again. New kids -
If she want fuck the kids, was her choice, not mine. Just have to delete them from your life, is hard at first. I already through that process now. I was sperm donor, they can go hell.
@@carlhash6540 that's how I feel too. No more kids in my future tho, screw having more
I have a plan for that. I am going Philippines. I bought a house in China, where I use to have a small business. I’m going to get one young Filipina, promise her the world, get her pregnant, and then have her turn into a drugged up 🐀. I will have child custody, and she will have nothing. She won’t even be able to afford a lawyer, or a flight home. I learnt my lesson. Just do what women do to men, and do it in a non feminist country. I will make sure I have two kids before, I get rid of her. Cost me 12k a year, cheaper than alimony in west. Hell, I will benefit from child benefit here once I get the kids back to Europe.
I think in my analysis what it really is is that it's not that guy's necessarily think they can change a woman or vice versa woman can change a man, it's not that they think things will get better, I really think that it is that most people just do not realize and want to admit how important those red flags really are.
15 years in divorce court. Divorce is a business for a long time, a way for women to get enriched and slaving you. Above all, there is a whole industry which will such your lasy penny.
Make yourself a huge favor, stay out of marriage !
Absolutely agree, that is what happened with my first marriage, we're men, we can & have molded the world, I can "fix her" NMMNG is like my autobiography
This video is golden
I always feel bad for the fellas who crave the family life. 99% of the men I’ve watched have failed horribly to have long term success with a family and wife. It ALWAYS burns down sooner or later. It’s not 1950 anymore gents. Keep them out of your house and you’ll keep the peace. 👍
Good one Richard
Vetting a potential partner for marriage seems to have its benefits over a long period of time before jumping in however they can still change into a nightmare at any given point, what I'm gathering from the discussion is and most importantly is anyone who is entering in such a contract must dominate their situation from the very beginning and throughout its must be your way gents and nothing else no compromise as you will be dominated as she will ware you down till you relent and if it doesn't suit what you are attempting to build a life together then you have no choice but to let her go on her way I say this because if she resists your leadership (Not controlling her) how can it work I don't believe it can. Empowering your partner is one thing however allowing her green cards she will miss use them and take the piss it's in their nature to do so.. You must be a man about everything you do say your actions everything you believe in and hold your values and standards, these are the only two things that will power you through a relationship just my opinion.
Be aware that u are forming a corporation when u get married...why do u think u have to get a marriage "License" beforehand?
Thank you for all you do
Have you seen the new papillon movie remake? There is a scene in the old movie where the prison guard gives the inmates advice on how to survive and he says "masturbate as little as possible, it drains your energy".
THE KEY POINTS:
We must all spread the message as much as possible if we want to help things change.
To be successful with women you need an abundance mind set and to first really know what frame is and then to hold the frame, even if you end up in a marriage. To do this you must learn REAL game, not the RSD stuff. One final point, we all know men and women are different, one great difference is men can be with women MUCH younger, the reverse doesn't work. But to do this you need real game. Good books not mentioned here are Mode One, Sperm Wars and The Power of Habit. In current law things are HEAVILY stacked against you, game will help you flip the script and give you a HUGE advantage over her and other guys. She wants you in the driving seat in any case:)
I have a big request: would you organize a talk with Karen Straughan ("Girl Writes What") some time in the future? She is very red pilled and just has a brilliant mind!! Thanks!!
Stephen C. NO dude! You could be very wrong. Use the "Trust but verify" rule. Many feminist collaborators, SAY they are MGTOW NAWALTS - but are REALLY here gathering "INTEL" on us MGTOWS - to use against us later.
That's called paranoia!!!
When I was a young man I had a jewish friend who's father was a senior cleric. He told us that when you get with a girl the guy says to himself, I like her & hopes she won't change. The girl thinks she likes him but she can make him better. He was correct! A recipe for disaster, enough said
Sounds like death by a thousand cuts!
Great vid! Very informative.
I saw the red flags.
She saw the red flags.
The problem is, I was like:
"Well, there's always going to be red flags with someone.. I'm ready to face myself & accommodate these challenges."
Hahaha..
No.
Those red flags were forrest fire warnings.
Truth be told..
I hold one person (& one person only) responsible for my actions:
Me.
I knew I wasn't ready to be married.
I didn't have a craft mastered of any sort.
But, I listened to people who told me:
"You'll never be 'ready.'"
Well, *fk* .
What I've learned:
Be(come) a Real Man (one who has a Real Life specialized & tangeable craft.. Who, has found & refined their "Why" in life.. And, who doesn't see women like nano~tech conscience sex toys.. Rather, as complimentary partners.. Or, else, why complain if she sees you like an ATM machine!?).
Then, and *only* then, get married to the most compatible Woman (one committed to growth).
The vetting process is imperative.
I Love the 12-18 month get to know time frame idea...
You *have* to see each other when you're ugly...
And, realistically *know* whether or not you're good with it.
Cuz...
Everybody poops.
Peace & Bless.
Damn, I was the same! I was thinking that there will always be red flags and that it was normal. Kept trying to make it work, not wanting to fail. Really don't like to feel like a failure. Even now, when I'm finally getting the divorce, I still sometimes feel like a failure. However, when I think about it logically, there is no other alternative.
Same here. My life to the explained right now.
Just keep calm and don’t rush into anything. Date 13yrs and then plan a wedding if you’re serious and in your 20s . If you’re 30 and have been divorced, date 13 yrs because you already been they the process. Now if she fakes for 13yrs she really played herself and if she not down for dating that long drop her and move on.
I truly believe I escaped a living hell when driving from Arizona back home to Chicago in a 750 with most of my life in the trunk and in a POD being shipped back to Chicago. I left her the furniture and I settled on my financial obligations and to this day its by far one of the best decisions I ever made. Rich Cooper and all his time and energy is like gold! This is the best life advice any young man could get! Treat it that way. I am single with an occasional plate spin and never will I think that oneitis is a fact when its nothing but part of the system and the matrix of western civilization and the ultimate handcuff that ends up in court where men get raped. Stay single. Its freedom!
My dad and rap music told me the real life lessons on 99% of women. My mom and sisters even showed me by their actions, my problem was thinking I found someone real when I actually found the fakest person I've ever met in life. I know the risk isn't worth the reward now. I failed to react accordingly and throw her in the trash where she belonged when I seen the red flags. Keeping it simple is the best, meaning never marry her, pump and turn her off so much she will dump you and then do it to the next chick, also never love them. That is the easiest way to survive this game with your sanity and your money. Also realize the government isn't fair or your friend. Never marry anyone or a license from a government authority that is basically legalized prostitution.
Fellow Torontonian ..I have never been married I was lucky as a kid my Pops owned a Ripper bar so I got to figure out women at a young age ......needless to say Social engineering is working women are awesome at being the majority shareholders in Familydestroyers R Us ....Holy Hypergamy Batman! ....and that being said ....love your work and agree with ya 100% I'm for dating younger birds ...and I'm in the driver's seat ! :P
Under NO circumstances if you date a single mother should you ever allow her to move into your home. If you do, there is is whole host of legal & emotional problems that come your way, at huge speed!
Spectacular session Richard and team, very informative and well done to all the contributors.
Would you consider doing a session for the European audience? 9 pm EST 2 am GMT in the morning during the working week was too late for me to watch/participate real time
Great stuff!
Really good. Thank you.
dude, I love your channel and very helpful content, -- but man the commercials are excessive.
One of my mates in particular is so blue pills I can't even tell him about the red pill he's married fathering 2 kids that ain't his and 3 of his own so far gone now. So sad
one of my neighbors married a woman who already had 5 kids with 2 different men....then he had 2 more with her...he is in his 60s now and he is a beaten down guy..nice guy but a total fool.
working shlub I'm not even mad at woman, guys like that deserve it
Timothy Cunningham shit.. 5 kids
Dx health yeh it's tragic the whole group is blue pilled it's making me angry, I'm going out with the whole group tomorrow night and I dont think I can hang with them after that I'd rather have my own company that a bunch of blue pill zombies.
yup...few years back i helped him put a new roof on his house and he told me everything..i thought all the kids were his...she had her first kid at like 16 .what a mess. ..he was telling me all he wanted was to be an air force pilot that was his dream but instead he played captain save a hoe..i have met the wife and she seems nice enough she is in her late 60s..who knows how she was 30 years ago....never give up your dreams for ANYONE..that is lesson i took.
Just don't get married. Don't do it. Just don't.
Fun to listen to..doesn't affect me...cause I'm never getting married. Still useful stuff.
So many of these young guys... worried about marriage.millnials!!!
Which is a good thing. Stay away from the slaughter called marriage
Hey. I am a former software engineer. I'm interested in how the rise of digital networks has changed the dynamic between men and women. Any thoughts?
Marriage it's like closing yourself in cage just cause you want sooo...
Great Man "Hood" topic. My marital foot print is as follows, married at 20 (for 14 years) which also ushered into this world 3 children (all Girls). Divorced Once. I've Since been remarried (5 year wait period in between) to the same woman AND her children (2 Girls) now for nearly 19 years. We are now empty Nester's. All but one are "Happily" married with one foot note she's still in in her "Internship" finishing her Doctorate while her husband is still trying to figure out what He wants to Master. That said, this is simply One mans opinion. My disclaimer, because I've only been divorced ONCE I it would be lie to SELF to even TRY to consider my SELF a "Divorce Professional".
My thoughts and hopefully positive contribution to the Hood are as follows. 1) NEVER fall for lies which suggest or even remotely hints towards a Happy Wife = Happy Life or Husband. 2) Insist at ALL times whether guilty as charged or NOT, CONTINUALLY Arguing requires two. 4) Don't believe the Lie or drink from the same punch Bowl until you do have solid understanding of what it means to BE "Punch Drunk" 5) Never say anything during a MEANINGFUL argument if you're NOT living Proof of same. 6) NEVER Mention Divorce if YOU truly want your spouse to BELIEVE You're 100% invested in YOUR marriage. 7) Refuse to accept that Fight or Flight are your ONLY choices in Life 8)Never make a Life changing decision based on Bad Intel or whatever it is that only One of your 5 senses would have you to believe. Why? Your either ALL in or you're NOT 9) Never forget "Integrity" breeds True Confidence that is also NEVER afraid of consequences that also require YOUR full consent and cooperation. 10) When reflecting the PROGRESS of your marriage know that denial has many faces, Just study what facts look like before Deciding to Join the Crowd. 10) There is NO one fits all success formula for "BLENDED Families" so don't waste valuable time searching as if for the ONE right example to follow because you're the one who's going to give your marriage it's FINAL Grade and hand pick its "Student of the Year".
I hope these help some ONE else in the mix on either side of the drama of DIVORCE~
Great content
Marriage is totally not necessary. Not with kids not anyhow. To pay partner alimony has to be avoided at any time. To pay child support is evident but you don't need marriage for it.
and now imagine that the answer to all those guys problems with their spouses was one word "NO" - whenever they saw any bratty behaviour/clash for dominance/shit test/testing the boundaries and self esteem ...and without this strategically placed magic word they had to go trough so much crap
I have one for you. I was married for 4 years. Great relationship then she left .out of the blue. I still have a relationship with my step daughter through her. Ex and I hate each other. What’s the best way to act around her? I’m over her but still saddened by the fact that we used to be so close and now don’t have a relationship at all. She’s very cold around me and very emotionless. I made the mistake of trying to win her back and acting like a lost puppy. Should I just stonewall her or treat her with the contempt she treats me? Side note, I never do or say anything to or In front of my stepdaughter. Hard because my step daughter wants us to figure things out but no chance. Any suggestions guys? Thanx in advance and keep taking the red pill guys! These videos are a real eye opener.
She may come back. I feel these men would tell you to send her away if she does. Hypergamy is real
Hi Rich, regarding betaization, this is really a profound topic and you guys should dive deeper into that, i suggest you to invite blackdragon (caleb jones) over, he's one of the guys in the manosphere who talks about this subject the most, it'd be great to have him on the show
One guy there - THE RACK, the 24yr old's story got to me. Like him,! I was a serious idealist - came from a VERY stable and happy family life from 1950s. Naively thought I could find the NAWALT MY ALPHA DAD HAD - until she died after nearly 60 years of marriage. Dad died heartbroken 2 years later. He always falsely thought HE would be first to die. My "trophy wife" was a disaster. I didn't have these MGTOW sites for HELP in 1980s- until I just found them at 68 yrs old. I found out too late, I had ay least 4 potential NAWALTS over the years - but didn't appreciate them then.
We Mexican said .if you bring a woman from Mexico,be careful full because after 2 years .the jaws will came out.
39:00 a book I would like to read is " Donkey Punching my Bitch."
I had a great opportunity to listen to your show last night and a lot of the things that you and the other gentleman said I have to agree with. Now mind you I am speaking as a divorced woman going on almost for 5 years now. However, I didn't ask for alimony I didn't ask for anything from my ex-husband the way we went into the marriage is the way that we left a marriage with nothing. But I do have one quick question as a red pill guy I want to make sure I heard you correctly? Were you saying that red pill men should only date women that don't have tattoos and no real sexual experience in bed? I am asking only because well... As a female I might not have a lot of sexual experience in bed but what's wrong with a tattoo or two especially if one of them is based in the spirit of God... Something that you felt convicted to finally Express?
Tara A. McCallum we need more women like you
I don’t understand why most women feel entitled to a man’s stuff after marriage is over, it’s ridiculous.
Leodanys Perez to be honest with you I don't understand why there are people that feel entitled to other people's stuff either. The only time that I would feel like someone should receive something from another person is if they have both worked together to produce that result. So for instance if there were two individuals that work together to build a business then they both should reap the benefits of that business. But the whole entitlement thing is not my cup of tea anyway😕
Ralph Furley now that I can completely understand and agree with. I have seen tattoos that are commonly referred to as tramp stamps and I completely understand why a guy would not to be bothered with that. Yeah I think the reason why I posed the question was it seemed like he was saying all tattoos are out and I figured he probably mean that exactly I figured the guys were probably saying more along the lines of what you were saying which is you don't want women who have tattoo their bodies up and down and look less than presentable.
Why ruin GOD's masterpiece with permanent ink?, just a question not judging, 3 out of four of my kids and two grandkids have Tatts, I still love them the same ;) .
Marriage is 100percent for lawyers
Still married, 36 years. Maybe marry a Catholic girl, like I did.
Lol, I married one - church every Sunday, and the she switched church to El shadai, a cult ran by child abusers, and months later, made false allegations on me for slapping her. Lost all visitation rights, a criminal record, express divorce, lost my home, lost my job, and now she is singing kumbaihai in her new church, every Sunday. Leaving my kid around these lunatics.
@@carlhash6540 OMG, what a nightmare, all that loss, missing the kids. You must be strong to make lemonade out of lemons. This church business cause so much grief, especially Evangelicals, it’s a scam and cult.
Anyone note all these guys are terrified of using the term "making love"?
1:15 take her out to McDonald's and when you talk to her again lie to her and tell her you took out a different girl to Red Lobster or Olive Garden. Tell her your new date looks like Carmen Electra. You should be able to get all your red flags after that.
What are the 7 must books to read for man. Thanks
The cps and this actress should have picture in the media and on the tv and shamed so many lies and seems to get way with it
anyone seen The Orville ? the pilot episode Seth MacFahlen was cheated by his wife and ruined his career
these are worse case scenarios. I have 3 friends married. And 3 out 3 are very happy, and such stuff doesn't happen
You think the worst case scenario can't happen to anyone? Shits not always gonna work out well
In my case, it's the opposite.
This was good
Just got 100$ worth of tactical soap and cologne
Guys have interesting hobbies, )shooting, aircraft, motor sports etc), women interest is group girlie stuff, (talking during coffee, dinners, dancing presentation of themselves & flirting). Might be of the same species but act different like cats vs dogs!
And NEVER go full Beta Curtis...NEVER go full beta...
Only advantage is if you marry up
I don’t regret getting married. I was married for 11 years. Marriage was a great adventure with the love of my life and I brought my son into the world. After 11 years my wife’s hypergamy came through after she made wealthy friends and she divorced me. That was not right and not good for the life we built but I don’t regret that chapter in my life. It’s just time to move on. Thanks for the tips, I don’t agree with everything here. Live your life
He is just saying his opinion
Lol! Sniffing fest dating is what it is thank RC
lucky no kids😏you will regret it later...In my point of view at least one child to experience parental emotions would influence you in a good way.