That is an awesome comment. I was just telling my wife that my biggest first date mistake was not just wearing jeans and taking them out for coffee. Too much money spent with too few results.
Man you're style is always on point! I wish it were easier for us regular guys to dress like you. For anyone who has the means to aquire and care for a wardrobe and lifestyle you're advocating for, this channel is gold. For us regular guys who like to keep it simple, I say don't even try. Keep it simple, buy less clothes and if you can encorporate Svens fashion advice to your cheap wardrobe--great!
can you make a video where you talk about the style of some famous fictive people like mr. bean or agent 47? curious what you think about their outfits
That would be interesting. I saw another video on UA-cam about how James Bond even gets away with breaking some rules like occasionally buttoning the bottom button of a suit jacket or wearing a diver's watch with a tuxedo.
well he has a good video on questions to ask to get to know someone. could be used as date coversation material or a way to pick someone up for a date. I think it would work for both
Often times my date is suprised of me wearing a nice jacket and odd trousers, essentially a cocktail suit while they themselves are wearing a cocktail dress.
That's because fellas don't seem to pay the same attention to the impression and mood that they are creating when they interact with someone else. They are often looking at things selfishly only concerned with what they want. But fellas like you care about the person and the experience and I'm sure that's what sets you apart from other fellas.
I think one of the best pieces of advice for dressing for a date came from Aaron at Alpha M. Pick what you want to wear so you know you will look and feel great and be at the top of your game and plan a date around that.
I generally skip the jacket on the first date. At least around a college, a formal jacket on a first date can seem intimidating. I usually wear a cardigan or a sweater vest instead. It achieves a similar effect but it’s a little more casual so as to not throw your date off-balance.
You should also consider how your date is dressed when choosing what to wear. If she's wearing a dress, probably go for at least a dress shirt. If she's wearing jeans, probably wear something more casual.
Why shouldn't you pick up your date? I've always heard that picking them up was the courteous thing to do and that's one way I differentiate between dates and just hanging out somewhere.
You hair looks really good without be slicked down. It has has a nice wave and height. You should try working with the wave and maybe use a super light pomade.
Dear Raphael, thanks for the video: sensible and comprehensive as usual. I agree that a necktie or a bow tie might look stiff on a first date. That said, what about some less formal kind of neckwear, such as a day cravat or a neckerchief?
3:35 why a watch, if you have a watch is likely that you will look at it and you will comunicate that you have better things to do than being with the person at the date.
The thing I notice quite a lot of adult men forget to do before a date is floss their teeth, sometimes brushing is not enough - and the poor guys mouth smells like he needs to see a dentist, promptly. Thank you Rafael, I enjoy your videos very much.
Everything in this video is great... minus the relaxed-fit, double-pleated pants. It may just be my opinion, but I think that a maximum of 1 set of pleats is best.
Victor Gradinaru No, they're perfect on a first date, because if you're sporting lumber and she's clearly not into you, you'll want those generous folds so that you don't have to hunch over like Quasimodo just to stand up.
A question concerning the beards: You say that one should opt for a good trim, which i agree with. But what is wrong about the beard at 4:25? A guy wearing such a beard will most like not shave his beard off for a date. And for the length of the beard shown, the trim looks quite good. Sure, there are a few long hairs here and there, but it most likely would look better even if he visited his barber the day before. Also: How do you feel about about beard oils for adding a faint scent?
Dear Sven, first of all let me thank you and accept my congratulations dor all your astonishing and amazing work you have done, you are doing, and i'm sure you will continue doing on this channel. I really love your videos. But I have a question for you. I know this is a difficult possibility, but have you ever went to Venice? If yes, have you went to the Franco Puppato sartory? If yes, what can you say to me about it?
Wearing a watch during a date will give you the opportunity to check the time, which will give a negative message to someone you are trying to give the message "I have all the time in the world for you."
Depending on the date and the weather Dalton as we move into fall a vest or waist coat would be a great look with field or quilted jacket and chinos or jeans and chelsea or brogue boots. Or you could wear a dress shirt with rolled up sleeves and in that situation add a tie (again if it fits you style) with jeans (as long as the waist coat covers the belt line, and casual loafers or athletic inspired shoes. Just a thought.
Style Architexts thanks for the suggestion. I usually wear a dress shirt with blue jeans and a nice pair of loafers with a matching belt. I've never actually tried wearing a tie with blue jeans. I'll be sure to give it a try on my next date.
Have a little fun with a silk knit tie and slightly askew with a tie bar. You may even initiate her touching you to adjust it ;) just a little slick move I've done a few times.
Fantastic, informative video! Unfortunately women tend to find me absolutely repulsive, so I personally will never have cause to put the information offered to use, but hopefully it will prove quite helpful for other, less hideous men.
Yeah, definitely I think he meant more so just make sure your neckline is clean and also setting your trimmer to a furthest length you can and doing a few passes will trim off just enough beard to even things out and also it tends to soften your beard up just a bit by exposing fresh hair
I disagree that you have to explicitly confirm if its a date. If the girl is just slightly interest in you, going out together to know each other is good. However if you said its officially a date and she is not very into you, you are more likely to be rejected.
I really like your videos, but Iam going to make a personal suggestion. If youre a teenager its not really a good thing if you show up to a date in a suit, or a dress shirt. The girl will probably be wearing some adidas superstars and she will feel really bad around you. So rather go for a well fitted good quality t-shirt, jeans, and maybe some clean fashion sneakers (like adidas stan smiths, or ralph lauren halfords). If you are a middle aged man than what Raphael said is perfect.
Just dressing one levels above everyone else is great. I don't think any teenager dresses like him for a date. Instead of t-shirt, maybe a casual button-down shirt, jeans are fine, maybe go with chinos, simple sneakers are definitely a way to go, although I love dress shoes, you'd definitely get compliments on a full brogue shoe, clean leather sneakers most of the time are superior.
If you wanna look modern, yet stand out a bit, nothing beats a clean polo Shirt. A suit jacket for the first date...She might think you usually go to Dates with your grandma, I fear.
There are some major flaws in some of the advices. Going on a date is still about being you 100%! You just going to show a different side of you as well to that particular person! That is all! If you look nice with a not polished haircut then that is fully acceptable.Obviously we are not the same in this category and obviously with different faces,headshapes come a different haircut that suits it! All what counts is just to respect yourself and with it take care of yourself!
And more importantly, not that Sven's reply wasn't on point, if things don't go well do you really want to share an awkward ride back to your place with someone you never want to see again? There is a special circle in Hell with that exact scenario playing out for eternity.
Nah. Too high-pressure-y. Dinner? A young man shouldn't have to do something like that until a third meeting. Just ask someone to do something much more casual--a movie, a hike, a free concert. And I'd just wear the nicer version of what you truly like to wear. If it's flip flops and a tee shirt with jeans, make sure that you got the nice flip flops on and the tee shirt is one of the snazzier ones.
Nothing says casual first date quite like dropping $800 on a hot air balloon ride and showing up in a full panama suit.
Lol
That is an awesome comment. I was just telling my wife that my biggest first date mistake was not just wearing jeans and taking them out for coffee. Too much money spent with too few results.
Lol i agree *nothing much Drops 1,000 dollars
Now thats what im talking about
I can’t stop laughing
Seeing Rafael in shirts tshirt and flip-flops startled me a bit!!!
King Geek I was traumatized
seeing him in shirt without a tie with a blazer just shocked me
I am shook
King Geek haha lol
It seems sacrilegious.
1:25 just love how he makes fun of himself, but just casually and these small things make these videos not only educational but also amusing
I like how he uses himself as an example for the doe's and don'ts😂😂, whereas other channels show random examples of other people
Gentleman's accessory idea: engraved condom case! What cries elegant better than a well-dressed tallywhacker? Bespoke condoms, perhaps?
Thy sweet lord haveth mercy xD
Made to measure! XD
Sven’s point about stepping up just one step is such a good one! I will definitely remember that.
I just love this guy!! I wish there were more polished gentlemen like him around!! 👍
My guy Sven getting it
The sound of the harp when he applied the cologne . . . I'm already subscribed, but I wish I could subscribe again for that.
Bell button? :)
I dont know why but that comment was somehow really funny :)
Man you're style is always on point! I wish it were easier for us regular guys to dress like you.
For anyone who has the means to aquire and care for a wardrobe and lifestyle you're advocating for, this channel is gold.
For us regular guys who like to keep it simple, I say don't even try. Keep it simple, buy less clothes and if you can encorporate Svens fashion advice to your cheap wardrobe--great!
Wow, this channel is more than I was expecting!!!
can you make a video where you talk about the style of some famous fictive people like mr. bean or agent 47? curious what you think about their outfits
That would be interesting. I saw another video on UA-cam about how James Bond even gets away with breaking some rules like occasionally buttoning the bottom button of a suit jacket or wearing a diver's watch with a tuxedo.
I feel that approaching a woman and asking her out on a date comes before this. I would love if you cover this step.
well he has a good video on questions to ask to get to know someone. could be used as date coversation material or a way to pick someone up for a date. I think it would work for both
I think the idea is that if you can pull off his advise, the ladies will come
4:15 Sven sounded french xD
fragrance reaction is so funny :D
Your quality is getting better and better, keep it up :)
Often times my date is suprised of me wearing a nice jacket and odd trousers, essentially a cocktail suit while they themselves are wearing a cocktail dress.
That's because fellas don't seem to pay the same attention to the impression and mood that they are creating when they interact with someone else. They are often looking at things selfishly only concerned with what they want. But fellas like you care about the person and the experience and I'm sure that's what sets you apart from other fellas.
I know that I feel special when I'm gussied up in a nice cocktail dress.
Make sure credit cards are all valid LOL
Hey Rafael great video for a date I usually go with a mocha suit blue oxford knit tie and casual boots
7:23 When preparing for a date, you might want to lose the wedding band. Just an idea.
Date night. M.
Best channel on UA-cam
Thanks!
I think one of the best pieces of advice for dressing for a date came from Aaron at Alpha M. Pick what you want to wear so you know you will look and feel great and be at the top of your game and plan a date around that.
I appreciate your outfit recap/explanation at the end
I generally skip the jacket on the first date. At least around a college, a formal jacket on a first date can seem intimidating. I usually wear a cardigan or a sweater vest instead. It achieves a similar effect but it’s a little more casual so as to not throw your date off-balance.
Excellent advice.
This.. however the outfit Raphael put together is definitely not for a college date. And I love dressing up but it's just the way it is.
You should also consider how your date is dressed when choosing what to wear. If she's wearing a dress, probably go for at least a dress shirt. If she's wearing jeans, probably wear something more casual.
Why shouldn't you pick up your date? I've always heard that picking them up was the courteous thing to do and that's one way I differentiate between dates and just hanging out somewhere.
You hair looks really good without be slicked down. It has has a nice wave and height. You should try working with the wave and maybe use a super light pomade.
Dear Raphael, thanks for the video: sensible and comprehensive as usual. I agree that a necktie or a bow tie might look stiff on a first date. That said, what about some less formal kind of neckwear, such as a day cravat or a neckerchief?
3:35 why a watch, if you have a watch is likely that you will look at it and you will comunicate that you have better things to do than being with the person at the date.
Great video Mr. Schneider (as usual). Just the perfect time to watch this video, because I have an upcoming date. :)
I love how the biggest stain that he could find was this tiny translucent spot that you need to look for 😂😂😂
To be honest, the t shirt and shorts look is pretty good on you Sven.
Shouldn't you have the button before the top one buttoned? I think it would be a better look for you. It looks untidy.
How to get a date? LOL
Real social dynamics is the answer
Your smile brightens up my day =)
Justine Leconte's channel is pretty similiar and she seems well informed on the subject.
thank you so much for your answer =)!
+Ba Nana glad to hear that. Unfortunately, I am not aware of a similar channel for women, sorry
Ba Nana Justine Leconte UA-cam channel is excellent
Ross Packer I follow them both, but Justine is more just fashion than a dapper channel for women.
The thing I notice quite a lot of adult men forget to do before a date is floss their teeth, sometimes brushing is not enough - and the poor guys mouth smells like he needs to see a dentist, promptly. Thank you Rafael, I enjoy your videos very much.
Everything in this video is great... minus the relaxed-fit, double-pleated pants. It may just be my opinion, but I think that a maximum of 1 set of pleats is best.
Victor Gradinaru No, they're perfect on a first date, because if you're sporting lumber and she's clearly not into you, you'll want those generous folds so that you don't have to hunch over like Quasimodo just to stand up.
Advice I will not need but still take into consideration
Could you do a getting ready for a interview Video ?
+Jack Molin we did a whole series on it ;)
Learned all this the hard way
1:38 "Do not offer to pick her or him up."
As a bisexual man I just went 👀👀👀
A question concerning the beards: You say that one should opt for a good trim, which i agree with. But what is wrong about the beard at 4:25? A guy wearing such a beard will most like not shave his beard off for a date. And for the length of the beard shown, the trim looks quite good. Sure, there are a few long hairs here and there, but it most likely would look better even if he visited his barber the day before.
Also: How do you feel about about beard oils for adding a faint scent?
Dear Sven, first of all let me thank you and accept my congratulations dor all your astonishing and amazing work you have done, you are doing, and i'm sure you will continue doing on this channel. I really love your videos.
But I have a question for you. I know this is a difficult possibility, but have you ever went to Venice? If yes, have you went to the Franco Puppato sartory? If yes, what can you say to me about it?
Can you wear a mahogany coloured belt (dark Brown) with black leather shoes?
Raphael the video volume is low...
I absolutely love that brown belt. Where can I find it? Thanks
I'm wondering what do you think about the bowler hat? (i'm new so i don't know if you have already make a video about that)
Wearing a watch during a date will give you the opportunity to check the time, which will give a negative message to someone you are trying to give the message "I have all the time in the world for you."
mrtodd3620 this is only correct if they see you check the time when you shouldn't be
Better to check the time than answer a phone call.
Thankyou ,
Video is relevant
I currently don't own a sports jacket or a blazer. Would a fitted vest be a good alternative?
Yes
Depending on the date and the weather Dalton as we move into fall a vest or waist coat would be a great look with field or quilted jacket and chinos or jeans and chelsea or brogue boots. Or you could wear a dress shirt with rolled up sleeves and in that situation add a tie (again if it fits you style) with jeans (as long as the waist coat covers the belt line, and casual loafers or athletic inspired shoes. Just a thought.
Style Architexts thanks for the suggestion. I usually wear a dress shirt with blue jeans and a nice pair of loafers with a matching belt. I've never actually tried wearing a tie with blue jeans. I'll be sure to give it a try on my next date.
Have a little fun with a silk knit tie and slightly askew with a tie bar. You may even initiate her touching you to adjust it ;) just a little slick move I've done a few times.
Style Architexts I'll have to write that one down
4:53 Glorious! :D
I love that Sven calls A-shirts by their true name!
Fantastic, informative video! Unfortunately women tend to find me absolutely repulsive, so I personally will never have cause to put the information offered to use, but hopefully it will prove quite helpful for other, less hideous men.
Great video as always =)
Rafael shaves his legs?
Well that's something I wasn't aware of.
At least he didn't share "special grooming" tips.
But he needs a pedicure.
Nobody wants to see his hairy calves
Great video, but how is the beard at 4:25 bad? I Love it, i wouldn't mind my date comming with that. (Just my preference)
Yeah, definitely I think he meant more so just make sure your neckline is clean and also setting your trimmer to a furthest length you can and doing a few passes will trim off just enough beard to even things out and also it tends to soften your beard up just a bit by exposing fresh hair
Could the next video be : '' HOW to get a date ? ''.
Why would t-shirts say that you don't care about your appearance or respect yourself?
How does a hot air baloon flight usualy cost?
Where do you get your gentlemanly drawings from?
We respect women on this channel.
"(...) do not offer to pick her or HIM up (...)". Little details that really show the quality of this channel.
2:28 looks like an old Bogart movie, like Casablanca.
... and I hope you get one.
Nice outfit I think I would have gone with Some wingtip brogues
Another good tip is if you are a smoker refrain from smoking for awhile before your date
Thank you for this video. Why are so many single men so sloppy? I’m starting to hate my life!
I disagree that you have to explicitly confirm if its a date. If the girl is just slightly interest in you, going out together to know each other is good. However if you said its officially a date and she is not very into you, you are more likely to be rejected.
3:50 HAVAIANAS
Thank you! As a Lady (counterpart of a Gentleman ;-) I second every single thing you say here!
I really like your videos, but Iam going to make a personal suggestion. If youre a teenager its not really a good thing if you show up to a date in a suit, or a dress shirt. The girl will probably be wearing some adidas superstars and she will feel really bad around you. So rather go for a well fitted good quality t-shirt, jeans, and maybe some clean fashion sneakers (like adidas stan smiths, or ralph lauren halfords). If you are a middle aged man than what Raphael said is perfect.
Just dressing one levels above everyone else is great. I don't think any teenager dresses like him for a date. Instead of t-shirt, maybe a casual button-down shirt, jeans are fine, maybe go with chinos, simple sneakers are definitely a way to go, although I love dress shoes, you'd definitely get compliments on a full brogue shoe, clean leather sneakers most of the time are superior.
If you wanna look modern, yet stand out a bit, nothing beats a clean polo Shirt. A suit jacket for the first date...She might think you usually go to Dates with your grandma, I fear.
tips im probably never gonna use
This guy looks like his idea of getting ready for a date a spiking a drink
The "concert" image is Molotov jajaja
Why not offer to pick her up on the first date? Is that a sign of the times?
That $2 bill = Instant second date. 😆
omg the guy at 5:57 is intense
There are some major flaws in some of the advices.
Going on a date is still about being you 100%!
You just going to show a different side of you as well to that particular person!
That is all!
If you look nice with a not polished haircut then that is fully acceptable.Obviously we are not the same in this category and obviously with different faces,headshapes come a different haircut that suits it!
All what counts is just to respect yourself and with it take care of yourself!
I always try to look shittier than I normally look on a date because I want her to like me for my personality.
$2 bill in the wallet, $30 bill in the check
How to get ready for a date....drink a gallon of whisky.
Or not.
I wish you wore glasses. I need some new ideas for mine.
lts insulting to want to pay the whole check,totally no no
I don't think polo shirts and chinos are a step above flipflops and short, I'd say jeans and sneakers would be.
My man Sven gonna leave the nutz hangin out ......yeahhhhhhhhhhh
❤
hey Sven did I just saw you wearing flip flops !!
I don't get why you shouldn't pick her up. I think it's a big plus for a girl if the guy can drive and it will set a good vibe.
+Mongolsky Mongol because she doesn't know you. After all you could be a weird creep.
I guess it depends on how you met her and if you've known each other before.
And more importantly, not that Sven's reply wasn't on point, if things don't go well do you really want to share an awkward ride back to your place with someone you never want to see again? There is a special circle in Hell with that exact scenario playing out for eternity.
Buttoning the bottom button!? :O (2:54)
Traditionally both the buttons should be fastened in a double breasted jacket.
Pleated chinos???
They are comfortable, and they look great when creased.
Ricky V he's old fashioned and literally lives in the past, both good and bad i guess
Hook up Rafael keep you composure
6:40 steamy
2:45 Казалось бы...
Can't prepare for a date If you don't have a date
Esse cara é engraçado demais kkkkk
In case you guys were wondering the man should always pay on the first date. Regards.
Why the new silly noises on the bullet points? They really made me uncomfortable.
Nah. Too high-pressure-y. Dinner? A young man shouldn't have to do something like that until a third meeting. Just ask someone to do something much more casual--a movie, a hike, a free concert. And I'd just wear the nicer version of what you truly like to wear. If it's flip flops and a tee shirt with jeans, make sure that you got the nice flip flops on and the tee shirt is one of the snazzier ones.
gosh that outfit is so geeky
No way have I ended up being the 15th commenter