Female here...I have lost so many high quality hankies to men who never seem to have one. Now I just keep an inexpensive men's one in my bag, I got 3 for the price of one of mine.
I've worked in mens' wear for close to 30 years, and I still find your videos informative and even inspiring. I can't say I agree in every case, but your videos offer excellent insight and advice. Bravo!
Hi Bob. Versatile and Accepted everywhere? Maybe amongst drug dealers, but in the real world try getting your leftover South African rand accepted in a cafe in Prague
Perhaps you don't understand that different countries have different currencies and that you can't generally use them interchangeably? The point of cash is being prepared and being able to make small, or even large purchases without having to pay them back later. It also gives you a better sense of the money you're spending. Cheers!
I understand that perfectly well. I also understand that a gentleman avoids carrying cash - he either has a credit card, an arrangement with the supplier or a valet to do so.
Being a gentleman sounds expensive... (Edit: I did not realize how many people where gonna get serious about this lol. It's just a joke everyone. Being a gentleman is all about attitude and respect. Not about luxuries or expenses.)
You would invest in these for a long period of time. At 20 year you buy your first suit, at 21 your french cuff white shirt, and so on. At the end of your life you pass it on your grandson to make it easier for them to start as a gent before they can afford their own.
@@TomCreedphx only if they appear in need of it or ask politely, a gentleman should never give up his seat for those who act hoonish or unladylike, nor attempt to force it upon a lady.
Folks, he telling you something by the term “vintage”. I live in a small town in Oklahoma. You can find some stuff from a Wal-Mart. I found some stuff from a Target in the Tulsa area. I can check a resale shop for “vintage” clothing. Target is really good for some stuff at a great price. Winter tuff is fixing to go on clearance. I can check Ross in Muskogee for items. If you need a new suit, there is a really good place in Tulsa around 41st and Memorial that start at $99.00. It not like a bunch of people around this area knows what bespoke is or heard of Savoy Row in London. Raphael and creative buying here in Oklahoma would impress the mayor or a me,her of the state legislature. The Governor here doesn’t know he should where morning dress for his daytime inauguration. If you live so we like New York or LA or big cities in Europe, follow Raphael to the letter. If you live like I do in Northeastern Oklahoma/ Northwestern Arkansas, people just think you got class cause you are wearing clothing for out on the town that doesn’t have logos for OU, OSU and University of Arkansas.
1) Suit 2) Lighter 3) Umbrella 4) Trench Coat 5) Corkscrew 6) Linen Handchift 7) Fountain Pen 8) Tool Box with Tools 9) Camera 10) Welted Black Cap Toe Oxfords 11) Signature Scent 12) Watch 13) Bottle of Vintage Port 14) Great Copy of your Favorite Book 15) White Dress Shirt 16) Cufflinks 17) Quality Belt & Suspenders 18) Signet Ring or Pinky Ring
tony - if you're a guy taking a coed to a museum for undergrad fine arts credits lord or not your sleeping alone! well, unless you'er known as Anthony...then not so much a coed as...
7:38 Random fun fact about that photo, the Soviet’s doctored the photo because the guy who was holding the flag had been looting and had three watches on his wrists
RMRS is a good channel once you’re a bit more in the know, but I’d be afraid to recommend him to a new guy cause of some of his more out there stuff. Gazette seems to really strike that good balance between “this is what WE like” “this is really good advise” and “this is a fundamental rule” for people starting out. HeSpoke is also really good from what I’ve seen so far.
I love that my husband and father in law carry a handkerchief. My father in law offered his hankie to me when I was feeling ill and my husband offered his to our lady friend when she was upset. This gesture felt so nurturing to me and my friend. It is also mentioned in the movie Intern by Robert DiNero’s character for similar reasons. Little things can make a big impact.
they have some real nice stainless steel models. I can see a gentleman whipping out the stainless or the gold ingot cigar cutter swiss army knife out at a party perhaps.
Mihail Mantakas i would not specify the type of knife beyond simply "a good quality pocket knife" Leave it open for whatever knife fits their needs best. I prefer a spring loaded single straight blade with a spear style tip. Its small, but fast and sharp and perfect for any chore from cutting threads to cutting a steak.
"olho os livros na minha estante, Que nada dizem de importante, Servem só pra quem não sabe ler..." - Raul Seixas (I'd post the translation but it doesn't rhyme in English"
I love this channel. I have been looking for a proper men's channel that doesn't cater to trends while trying to sell me cheap watches and questionable skincare. Subscribed.
Call me crazy but I use a typewriter to write notes and letters to people. With my signature in fountain pen. It looks fantastic, old-world and people never forget it. Definitely a good investment for a gentleman because good typewriters appreciate in value!!
One of my favorite scores at a department store discount center was a well made lady's short trench coat. I live in a temperate climate and get a lot of use out of it during the spring and autumn. It fits perfectly and wears well. I wear it for casual evening and day wear.
I think a good pocket or pen knife should be on this list as well. It is as essential as a lighter. Nothing big or gaudy, just high quality steel, preferably with a handle made of horn, and no longer than 3.5 - 4 inches in length. I personally don't smoke, but I do not leave my home without my wallet, phone, lighter, and knife. Then again, my pocket knife was my grandfather's and he carried it into WW2, so it is something I also plan on passing on to my child as well. Overall this list is very solid and doable, even if you aren't well off.
I think think the Burberry toilet paper is another valid addition to this list starting at only $600. You can also buy it vintage at $400 if you are on a very low budget.
My "pinky" rings are my Mum and Dads wedding rings inside each other that have been soldered together and on the other hand is my late wife's wedding ring that I have had resized. The funny things the "Mum and Dad's" rings always create the most interest.
I love 14- a great copy of your favorite book. I have loved books my whole life. I love the theme of being a proper gentleman is investing in the things that really bring joy to your life.
Double breasted waistcoat is one of the most difficult thing to fit right nowadays, yours is absolutely on point. Thank you for letting us enjoying such wonderful craftsmanship. :)
The second one being a lighter? That actually blew my mind, I’m 19 and have a fairly good lighter collection going. The fact you mentioned ST DuPont is amazing
I have a pair of lapis lazuli and solid gold cuff links. They were handed down to me from my great uncle. They are simple and absolutely-beautiful and give me great confidence whenever I wear them.
There should be more men that dress in style. I really agree with what you have to say. Being in Sales, first impressions are extremely important to be taken seriously by clients and investors....Bravo!
After a recent wedding, I was reminded of just how important it is to always have an umbrella, clean and disposable handkerchiefs, and a fountain pen. (as much as I don't like letting others use my fountain pen). All of the above items were indispensable.
As a Portuguese, I invest in vintage Porto so I can drink it whenever I want. We do drink a lot of that at almost every event. Keep up with nice calming videos.
My perfect watch (on a budget): Seiko SARB035 (“poor man’s Datejust”) It’s an automatic watch that goes with everything. 332$ on Amazon I wear it every day. And it keeps pretty good time. I reset it every two days.
It's a good list but I think there's one item that doesn't belong there; the digital camera. No matter what camera you'll buy, within a few years it's going to be worth a fraction of its original price so you should think twice whether you can justify the cost, unless your photos can earn you money. Not to mention that to get high quality photos you need to learn how to use the camera and then process the photos with a computer.
On the other hand high quality vintage cameras are relatively affordable and will only rise in value. Learning how to film is also pretty easy and if you dont care about the process you can just send them to the lab afterwards and get some nice prints and/or scans that look nice without photoshop.
There are digital cameras at Best Buy for less than $500 that, assuming you care about good quality photos of special events, vacations, etc.... would definitely be worth it imo.
I use a Fenix UC35 😉. I'd suggest the newer 2019 2.0 version. A white light 🔦 with a strobe or SOS feature can signal friends or ride share drivers at night 🌃, or help in a attack...
8. Different brands have their specialty tools and what they make best, so just look around. 9. Having a good camera is only as good as the photographer.
Totally agree about umbrellas. I have a James Smith, but also agree that expensive umbrellas are more likely to go missing. Or worse, as with the Financial Times umbrella I was given many years ago, it might get left on a train or bus. On dress shirts, I recently heard about someone who only wore cream or off-white shirts because he grew up in a household where white shirts were reserved only for the servants. Not something most of us have to bother about any more, thankfully, but I do think off-white, cream and ivory have a warmer look to them than white, which can look a bit clinical and uniform. I work in an office and white shirts are a bit humdrum.
Ppl with yellow teeth can benefit from the cream color temporarily when their teeth are not white because even good expensive treatments last 3-6 months then you're stuck till you get another appointment
Ever since I was a kid, i always owned a fresh pure white shirt. I agree it should be a staple, for those occasions one dont plan for and similar; funeral, someones confirmation, job interview, etc. Dont get much use admittedly, but still an important asset. It goes with a standard dark suit and shoes. I cringe when i see someone coming to a funeral in old jeans and sneakers. Any grownup should at minimum be able to keep 1 formal outfit.
Being a watch collector I have to say a good watch is massive, the amount of people I've been near who have asked me about whatever watch I've got on when they see a nice one and the conversations you get out of it can really break the ice at a gathering or in a work environment even
Essentially everything he buys would hope to be heirloom pieces. Meaning the quality is so fine that generations after you can have them and use them if they'd like -- to remember and talk about you. Not everyone would care to do this and that is their choice. But this man has a business based upon these things so it makes sense for him to make such recommendations.
Love your shows! I agree with the tool box. I bought a 48 inch Harbor Freight tool box for approximately $378.00 and tool are something you buy only when you need it. However I customized by buying quality tools e.g Kinpex, very few Snap On and Teckton. Teckton is were you want to get the bulk. I am not associated with anybody, but really love this show and I assume really good people that also watch. Built shelves and use only Dewalt & very few Milwaukee. Keep in mind a variety of power tools would meany too many batteries that won't work in all your tools. My tools mean more to me than my Rolex.
@@stephenandersen4625 Everyone know that a true gentleman carries a Walther PPK for everyday use and a handmade Korth revolver for formal occasions and for dueling.
Laguiole is pronounced more « lye-olle » (silent g). For info, there's a Laguiole knife next to me, as an aside for those who like good cutlery (or need a good knife for picking their own mushrooms). Whether or not you should own all of these is a matter of individual taste and necessity (the pinky ring and and vintage port being my personal exceptions*), and I should stress that I place more value on being a gentle man than on being a gentleman**. I was, however, pleased to note that all of the items are primarily intended for both use and ornament (Utile et Decus for Latinists), meaning that they're practical and serve a secondary purpose into the bargain. I'd also like to add two items, 1) a solid pair of walking / riding boots***, and 2) a kilt, either full plaid or the more contemporary form (with a kilt pin, and best worn with flashes and hose, particularly for formal wear), for those whose family has its own tartan. FOOTNOTES * Less is more where jewellery is concerned, and if you're wearing a good watch, a ring can become superfluous, unless it's a wedding ring or a signet ring (i.e. with your seal for wax-sealing correspondance). As for offering alcohol, port is often an acquired taste, and in any case it's better to check the tastes of the person to whom you're making a gift. ** Style is a fine thing, but not if it's at the expense of substance, or becomes an excuse for snobbery (the measure of a man being how he treats his so-called inferiors). Rafael's videos are worth watching precisely because his definition of being a gentleman is about dressing with style as the outward expression of values such as consideration for others (e.g. his objection to wearing a backpack unless it's absolutely necessary being that you can hurt someone with it), showing respect for yourself and others, and being prepared and responsible. *** Depending on your budget, background, and form/s of rural exercise.
Laco Aachen was my first proper watch but then my Pa gave me his 1970s gold seiko quartz for my 21st. It's the emotions and stories that surround these things that make them truly worth while.
I have 4 pinkie rings 3 are 22 karat and other is silver. Can't get used to wearing them as I already wear 2 rings - one on each hand. Wife will take them out of the safe now and then and ask me to wear one, claiming its a waste to have them and not wear them. So I indulge her a few times a year. Being retired military, I tend to have an aversion to the umbrella, but keep one in each vehicle I own. Strongly agree with a good quality umbrella, they will last for a long time. Look for quality on whatever you buy, not necessarily quantity.
Thank you for a most wonderful list of items. I wanted to share some thoughts with you and those who read the comments. I do not smoke but still think a quality lighter is a good thing to have. I have started looking into videos made by and for people who prep and the ability to make a fire in an emergency may really help you out. The cork screw is a nice item, I will be looking to get a nicer one as I want to have a small drink of red wine with dinner as I understand it does have some health benefits. I started putting an umbrella in my SUV just in case, but the thought of a nicer one appeals to me and this might also be found in an estate sale! Tools- every man should have a good set, I like Craftsman, Snap on and Matco, and they can be passed down to your kids. The fountain pen- I had an old Mont Blanc that I had dropped and it landed on the NIB and damaged it, so it sat unused for over 10 years, but after seeing your video on fountain pens I sent it to the manufacture for a rebuild and I also purchased a Pilot 74 Custom fountain pen in a see thru clear blue. I started looking at videos on fountain pens and learned that there are decent ones in all price points even under $25, and I learned about the different inks and papers! I think I will try and address 1 item per month on your list!
I've been watching your videos for quite some time. This time around I've decided to start dressing up. To own up the look I am already known for at work. This weekend I'm going all out shopping.
I'd be interested to see what he would do for someone who's a blue collar worker. A lot of what he uses and his lifestyle are for white collar, and business executives. It'd be cool to see how he would adapt the lifestyle to someone who either can't afford these kinds of items, or can't fit it into the lifestyle they currently have.
I was skimming through the comments and a lot of you are not taking the cost of the items as a heirloom. Yeah these items are expansive... but how many people spend 600$ or more for a new cell phone every year. You buy once cry once. Quality items kept for a life time. Great video. Looking for more like these.
#19; A high quality handgun. A gentlemen will want something capable of handling any risky situation quickly without much discomfort. For suffecient power but comfortable recoil and easy concealment, the best option is a .380acp pistol. A Glock 42 from Austria provides a suffecient amount of ammunition for the size without being too difficult to conceal under a jacket or in a hoster inside your waisteband. Be warned, a waisteband holster requires a quality, stiff leather belt and may not interact well with a tucked-in shirt.
@@cordulam Wrong, Germany, Poland, the Czech Republic, the nordic countries, and Italy allow citizens to own and carry weapons, just under stricter laws than the US.
Rafael is correct on the Port for the year of birth. In France it is normal to buy wine for your daughter for the year in which she was born. She can use it for her Wedding/Divorce or Graduation etc. You are laying down the core of her cellar and she will be able to toast your memory long after you have passed. As for the Port, get more than a single bottle. You want them to toast your memory and Port will last long after you die.
I love it that you included having a good quality camera. I am a huge advocate of this because taking pictures with your phone uses up precious memory. I currently use a Pentax Q mirrorless camera. The camera is not in production, but I have found that it works great and I only had to spend about $300 for the camera and all of the lenses. Also it is painted brown and not the standard black look of most cameras. Whenever I am out in public, people almost always ask me about it. Not that I am seeking attention, but they always seem curious about it. It is lighter and much more transportable than a 35mm camera.
Raphael, a very good video as usual. A gentleman is always learning, just wanted to point that the Portuguese tradition you mencioned is quite spot one. I'm portuguese and it is indeed a tradition, and the time we choose to open is quite personal, very different opinions on when to do it, Thank you for all your great content, greatings for you and your team
Your video was both informative and engaging. I appreciate how you tackled it such a unique way. I've explored a parallel theme on Illicium London. Keep it up!
Nice video as always Raphael, i am huge fan. For the signature scent, it don't have to be expensive or very unique like Creed. Ralph Polo Green is a classic gentleman scent that still stays around for more than 30 years for example.
I would add a traditional folding knife to the list. Something like a case trapper. I would also add a sidearm appropriate for self defense and a quality holster.
Actually, of all jewellery, a ring should be made out of solid metal whether gold or silver. Gold-plated items simply don't keep the gold finish due to the wear a ring gets. Gold-plated cufflinks, on the other hand, would be just fine.
Great video as always :) I fully agree with an umbrella being an essential as I live in a cold climate. I have two umbrellas, both of them are from Fulton. Look forward to the next video!
ANY umbrella is a storm, dorothy! Golfers have on in their car. I got a great huge bumbershoot from home depot that will stop asteroids! LOOKS GREAT in the rain wearing a bespoke suit!
The real items that every true gentleman should have: 1. Fedora: to tip the fine ladies 2. A good quality back brace: bending over backwards for women can be quite strenuous 3. A good $5000 cash on hand at all times: always aim to please her 4. A good portable door stopper: This can really come in handy for when multiple women are walking into the same building you are, just smile and wave as they walk by and maybe tip your fedora for a little extra gentleman points 5. A quality never used handkerchief: to wipe away her tears after her distasteful boyfriend broke her heart 6. A nice beard trimmer: to maintain your gentleman perfect neck beard 7. Deodorant: you know why you need it bud 8. A second handkerchief for personal use: To wipe away your tears after she says you’re like a brother to her
I own everything on list and I'm the button I the bracket. Bring a gentlemen on a budget is tough. I only have one suit lol But my umbrella had a hidden blade I love so so much
The video was great and on point, and I loved the outfit. I’m probably going to get the same. Also I suggest that you try Versace pour homme it is an eau de toilette but it’s a very masculine and robust fragrance.
I use to carry a Fountain pen but worry about a leak in the long run and ruining my shirt too. Now i carry this nice heavy steel victorian engraved pattern self defense pen.
Many may disagree with this, but I think when it comes to fountain pens, a bolder pen like pretty much anything from Visconti or a Pelikan with green or blue stripes are better choices than the standard cigar shaped Montblanc usually associated with gentlemen.
Last summer when I went to visit my cousint`s somelier's vila in Alaska, I spoted an eagle, however my film camera was not high quality enough, therefore I could not capture it quite the way I wanted it. If I had watched this video before, this would never had happen, I am glad my life brought me to this amazing video. Will share with my friends, thank you.
You forgot Craftsman in the tools section. A good Gentleman also needs a good wallet, a good hat, a good pair of everyday shoes, and a good winter coat.
Most need a winter coat but there’s plenty of places in America alone where that’s completely unnecessary, that’s probably why a cost wasn’t on the list. But a good wallet and every day shoes absolutely belong.
Love the way you organize & present. Even in description you have given details of items with brief desc *with time stamp* !!! Appreciate it... a *detailed* list of very important items. Thank you for this video !! :)
This is great and all, but say I want to dress well but don’t have that sort of money. I’d like to see how to achieve a gentleman’s look with each item costing no more than £100. Shoes, shirt, trousers, tie, blazer, jacket, casual trousers, sweater, coat, casual shoes, watch, wallet, accessories. Can you do it?
I buy high street or supermarket immitations of styles I like to bolster my wardrobe, then replace them with quality items over time when I know what items suit me. If I Jumped straight in at high end boots/cufflinks/watches I'd have ended up with styles I didn't like, now I've upgraded items that worked with my height and frame to quality, handmade or top tier bespoke things. Takes years but you get to have fun and experiment without breaking the bank.
You can dress well even while not being dressed formally. If you pull it off well and that’s what you love to wear, great! Dressing well is dressing appropriately- you don’t wanna out dress the groom at a wedding, you don’t wanna be in a T-shirt and jeans at a funeral, you don’t wanna wear a suit to a skate park.
What you also should invest in is an upright posture. It is first more healthy, raises your self-esteem and also impresses those around you. But I'm certainly none to ask how to be a gentleman. I was quite surprised you brought on a tool box. Very good I think everyone should own that.
Five things every man should know how to do: Cook a great meal from scratch, tie a bow tie, ride a horse, change a flat tire on your vehicle and undo a woman's bra in the dark with one hand . . . :)
RockaBilly I mean just any navy sports jacket with chinos or flannels. I think a casual enough jacket and a casual enough bow tie like seersucker and something a little more casual in the bow tie would work though. But a black bow tie with a navy sports coat and chinos is wrong.
![Chris Langan - The Interview THEY Didn't Want You To See - CTMU [Full Version; Timestamps]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/9miVG2xT5jY/mqdefault.jpg)
gentlemans gazette drinking game: take a shot every time Rafael says he has big thighs
lol
And sloppy shoulders 😂
He got those from riding horses.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Is it wrong for a well-mannered gentleman to have thick, voluptuous thighs?
I love using my linen handkerchief to dry my tears from all the money I spent on it
Jajajajaja, you made my day with that comment............
Legendary
LOL
Some of those square pockets are more expensive than the suit itself Hahahaha
Female here...I have lost so many high quality hankies to men who never seem to have one. Now I just keep an inexpensive men's one in my bag, I got 3 for the price of one of mine.
What you can also hand down to your children:
1. Good manners
2. Respect
3. Love of a father
And a good beating
I approve, only if nessecary
If you beat your children, you are trash, and should jump into a running woodchipper.
Only if your child is willing to take it
beating children just teaches them to get more clever at hiding things from you and not getting caught
When you see someone sitting on an umbrella: "Ah, I see you're a man of culture as well."
Yes bit of a Dwain Dibbly Vibe lol
@@brucecharlie8613 Or John Sneed
@@kendallevans4079 Sneed?
SNEED??
(turn in your bowler hat sir.)
I've worked in mens' wear for close to 30 years, and I still find your videos informative and even inspiring. I can't say I agree in every case, but your videos offer excellent insight and advice.
Bravo!
I also work in men's clothing. I'm less conspicuous that way.
@@azy63 I've made a similar joke, I work in mens' clothing... because I look silly in a dress.
The 19th item is a wallet full of cash.
A gentleman never carries cash
Shane Wright
A gentleman always carries cash. It is far more versatile and accepted everywhere.
Hi Bob. Versatile and Accepted everywhere? Maybe amongst drug dealers, but in the real world try getting your leftover South African rand accepted in a cafe in Prague
Perhaps you don't understand that different countries have different currencies and that you can't generally use them interchangeably? The point of cash is being prepared and being able to make small, or even large purchases without having to pay them back later. It also gives you a better sense of the money you're spending. Cheers!
I understand that perfectly well. I also understand that a gentleman avoids carrying cash - he either has a credit card, an arrangement with the supplier or a valet to do so.
Being a gentleman sounds expensive... (Edit: I did not realize how many people where gonna get serious about this lol. It's just a joke everyone. Being a gentleman is all about attitude and respect. Not about luxuries or expenses.)
It's the admittance fee, a lot of this stuff won't need replacing for a while
If it was cheap, everyone would do it.
You would invest in these for a long period of time. At 20 year you buy your first suit, at 21 your french cuff white shirt, and so on. At the end of your life you pass it on your grandson to make it easier for them to start as a gent before they can afford their own.
Actually it's not as expensive as you think most of the things mentioned I already own.
Right? I got some snap on tools and a nice Beavis and Butthead zippo, and im out like $400
Nothing says gentlemen like sitting on an umbrella? Lol
Tyler Jacobs then by all means don't pay money for a custom umbrella that has that added. Problem solved
Samwise Gamge Of course, no need to tell me that, I never planned on it.
Looked like he was shoving it up his arse.
as long as you give up your umbrella for chicks if they forgot their sitting umbrella
@@TomCreedphx only if they appear in need of it or ask politely, a gentleman should never give up his seat for those who act hoonish or unladylike, nor attempt to force it upon a lady.
Great. Now do a video for us non-millionaires!
terrydrums vintage suit?
This guys sense of reality is distorted. Who wants to live like we're all always in a meeting or a party.
The term "gentleman" means different things to different social classes.
haha exactly my thoughts
Folks, he telling you something by the term “vintage”. I live in a small town in Oklahoma. You can find some stuff from a Wal-Mart. I found some stuff from a Target in the Tulsa area. I can check a resale shop for “vintage” clothing. Target is really good for some stuff at a great price. Winter tuff is fixing to go on clearance. I can check Ross in Muskogee for items. If you need a new suit, there is a really good place in Tulsa around 41st and Memorial that start at $99.00. It not like a bunch of people around this area knows what bespoke is or heard of Savoy Row in London. Raphael and creative buying here in Oklahoma would impress the mayor or a me,her of the state legislature. The Governor here doesn’t know he should where morning dress for his daytime inauguration. If you live so we like New York or LA or big cities in Europe, follow Raphael to the letter. If you live like I do in Northeastern Oklahoma/ Northwestern Arkansas, people just think you got class cause you are wearing clothing for out on the town that doesn’t have logos for OU, OSU and University of Arkansas.
'You can use the handkerchief to dry your tears' I guess while sitting on that umbrella seat, right?
puppet I searched specifically hoping for a quote making this connection!
You are a real genius😂😂
While looking in your wallet after you have all the items you must have
1) Suit
2) Lighter
3) Umbrella
4) Trench Coat
5) Corkscrew
6) Linen Handchift
7) Fountain Pen
8) Tool Box with Tools
9) Camera
10) Welted Black Cap Toe Oxfords
11) Signature Scent
12) Watch
13) Bottle of Vintage Port
14) Great Copy of your Favorite Book
15) White Dress Shirt
16) Cufflinks
17) Quality Belt & Suspenders
18) Signet Ring or Pinky Ring
19) Subscription to Hustler.
@S4SuperStarSteveSavage And a army surplus rucksack to carry it all. 😀
The umbrella handle seat looks a little embarrassing when one is sat upon it....
Jellyfish 703 agreed
😂 yes
tony - if you're a guy taking a coed to a museum for undergrad fine arts credits lord or not your sleeping alone! well, unless you'er known as Anthony...then not so much a coed as...
7:38 Random fun fact about that photo, the Soviet’s doctored the photo because the guy who was holding the flag had been looting and had three watches on his wrists
The classiest men’s “how to dress” channel. Lot of other channels are tacky.
RMRS is a good channel once you’re a bit more in the know, but I’d be afraid to recommend him to a new guy cause of some of his more out there stuff.
Gazette seems to really strike that good balance between “this is what WE like” “this is really good advise” and “this is a fundamental rule” for people starting out.
HeSpoke is also really good from what I’ve seen so far.
The best channel is Sartorial Talks - it is phenomenal. This one is also very good and RMRS is great, also.
I love that my husband and father in law carry a handkerchief. My father in law offered his hankie to me when I was feeling ill and my husband offered his to our lady friend when she was upset. This gesture felt so nurturing to me and my friend. It is also mentioned in the movie Intern by Robert DiNero’s character for similar reasons. Little things can make a big impact.
19. A Swiss Army knife.
Mihail Mantakas this isn't the boy scouts.
a real gentleman will never use a swiss army knife
they have some real nice stainless steel models. I can see a gentleman whipping out the stainless or the gold ingot cigar cutter swiss army knife out at a party perhaps.
Mihail Mantakas i would not specify the type of knife beyond simply "a good quality pocket knife"
Leave it open for whatever knife fits their needs best. I prefer a spring loaded single straight blade with a spear style tip. Its small, but fast and sharp and perfect for any chore from cutting threads to cutting a steak.
Michael for what ?
"I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany." - Ron Burgundy
once mahogany is french polished it has no smell.
"olho os livros na minha estante,
Que nada dizem de importante,
Servem só pra quem não sabe ler..."
- Raul Seixas
(I'd post the translation but it doesn't rhyme in English"
ArsynZ that sounds fancy..
I'm kind of a big deal, people know me
🤣😂🤣
I love this channel. I have been looking for a proper men's channel that doesn't cater to trends while trying to sell me cheap watches and questionable skincare. Subscribed.
Call me crazy but I use a typewriter to write notes and letters to people. With my signature in fountain pen. It looks fantastic, old-world and people never forget it. Definitely a good investment for a gentleman because good typewriters appreciate in value!!
One of my favorite scores at a department store discount center was a well made lady's short trench coat. I live in a temperate climate and get a lot of use out of it during the spring and autumn. It fits perfectly and wears well. I wear it for casual evening and day wear.
I think a good pocket or pen knife should be on this list as well. It is as essential as a lighter. Nothing big or gaudy, just high quality steel, preferably with a handle made of horn, and no longer than 3.5 - 4 inches in length.
I personally don't smoke, but I do not leave my home without my wallet, phone, lighter, and knife.
Then again, my pocket knife was my grandfather's and he carried it into WW2, so it is something I also plan on passing on to my child as well.
Overall this list is very solid and doable, even if you aren't well off.
I think think the Burberry toilet paper is another valid addition to this list starting at only $600. You can also buy it vintage at $400 if you are on a very low budget.
So glad that my grandfather owned most of these items and passed them down to me. Very grateful
My "pinky" rings are my Mum and Dads wedding rings inside each other that have been soldered together and on the other hand is my late wife's wedding ring that I have had resized. The funny things the "Mum and Dad's" rings always create the most interest.
I love 14- a great copy of your favorite book. I have loved books my whole life. I love the theme of being a proper gentleman is investing in the things that really bring joy to your life.
The pocket knife and the korkscrew could have been easily solved with just one "quality" swiss multi-tool.... That's just my opinion.
gonna open a nice bottle at the fine dinner party with that? o.o' im gonna stay with my rosewood corkscrew
My experience is that the corkscrew on a SAK or other multi tool is adequate for occasional use but doesn't eliminate the need for a proper corkscrew.
Victorianox Swiss army knives.
There is nothing attractive or stylish about a Swiss army knife.
Michael There isn't, it's just a useful tool to have.
2:40 nothing more gentlemanly than appearing to have an umbrella poking out from your a
Double breasted waistcoat is one of the most difficult thing to fit right nowadays, yours is absolutely on point. Thank you for letting us enjoying such wonderful craftsmanship. :)
The second one being a lighter? That actually blew my mind, I’m 19 and have a fairly good lighter collection going. The fact you mentioned ST DuPont is amazing
how to spot a gentleman i a museum... Its the guy who looks like he has a umbrella up his rear end
😂😂😂😂
hahahahahaha!
What do you think about wearing clout goggles and a suit
SilencerM4
I think a man of culture...
You gave me a great idea
No no no
I have a pair of lapis lazuli and solid gold cuff links. They were handed down to me from my great uncle. They are simple and absolutely-beautiful and give me great confidence whenever I wear them.
They would not be solid gold as gold is soft. I would estimate 80-90% gold, with enough harder metals to resist marring and scratches
@@KeithRichards-o9y Sorry, I meant 14 karat, ie not gold-plated.
There should be more men that dress in style. I really agree with what you have to say. Being in Sales, first impressions are extremely important to be taken seriously by clients and investors....Bravo!
After a recent wedding, I was reminded of just how important it is to always have an umbrella, clean and disposable handkerchiefs, and a fountain pen. (as much as I don't like letting others use my fountain pen). All of the above items were indispensable.
You go to weddings often?
@@thebespokecyclist3624 hopefully done with the 2 to 3 a year routine that hits between about 27 and 37 years old...
As a Portuguese, I invest in vintage Porto so I can drink it whenever I want. We do drink a lot of that at almost every event. Keep up with nice calming videos.
All of these videos are super helpful for finding things for my boyfriend, thanks y’all!
My perfect watch (on a budget):
Seiko SARB035 (“poor man’s Datejust”)
It’s an automatic watch that goes with everything.
332$ on Amazon
I wear it every day. And it keeps pretty good time.
I reset it every two days.
5:45 "loved one OR a child"
dooterscoots HAHAHAHAHHA
He kid !
Want to buy a pen?
I'm giving my heirlooms to a preschool child near my street.
"18 must have item's every gentleman should own"
7:38 ah yes. The glorious flag of motherland. A must have for every gopnik gentleman
It's a good list but I think there's one item that doesn't belong there; the digital camera. No matter what camera you'll buy, within a few years it's going to be worth a fraction of its original price so you should think twice whether you can justify the cost, unless your photos can earn you money. Not to mention that to get high quality photos you need to learn how to use the camera and then process the photos with a computer.
On the other hand high quality vintage cameras are relatively affordable and will only rise in value. Learning how to film is also pretty easy and if you dont care about the process you can just send them to the lab afterwards and get some nice prints and/or scans that look nice without photoshop.
There are digital cameras at Best Buy for less than $500 that, assuming you care about good quality photos of special events, vacations, etc.... would definitely be worth it imo.
After the wallet full of cash, I would suggest a high power quality pen size flashlight. I use mine every week.
+ pen size Fleshlight
iLoveTheseRemoras LOL
I use a Fenix UC35 😉. I'd suggest the newer 2019 2.0 version. A white light 🔦 with a strobe or SOS feature can signal friends or ride share drivers at night 🌃, or help in a attack...
How about that.
@@DavidLLambertmobile
I'd rather have a Convoy. Much less overpriced and equal quality.
8. Different brands have their specialty tools and what they make best, so just look around.
9. Having a good camera is only as good as the photographer.
it's the glass not the camera
The camera quality certainly helps though
another drinking game: take a shot everytime he says "quality"
In 2019 some business & manufacturing firms rarely say: "quality" or quality control... 😏
I don't want to get alcohol poisoning
Oh I be ded
quality comment
Totally agree about umbrellas. I have a James Smith, but also agree that expensive umbrellas are more likely to go missing. Or worse, as with the Financial Times umbrella I was given many years ago, it might get left on a train or bus.
On dress shirts, I recently heard about someone who only wore cream or off-white shirts because he grew up in a household where white shirts were reserved only for the servants. Not something most of us have to bother about any more, thankfully, but I do think off-white, cream and ivory have a warmer look to them than white, which can look a bit clinical and uniform. I work in an office and white shirts are a bit humdrum.
Ppl with yellow teeth can benefit from the cream color temporarily when their teeth are not white because even good expensive treatments last 3-6 months then you're stuck till you get another appointment
Ever since I was a kid, i always owned a fresh pure white shirt. I agree it should be a staple, for those occasions one dont plan for and similar; funeral, someones confirmation, job interview, etc. Dont get much use admittedly, but still an important asset. It goes with a standard dark suit and shoes. I cringe when i see someone coming to a funeral in old jeans and sneakers. Any grownup should at minimum be able to keep 1 formal outfit.
I would say that all depends on the quality of the shirt. Cheap ones definitely do look very humdrum.
You forgot a good quality Axe, for chopping wood.
Being a watch collector I have to say a good watch is massive, the amount of people I've been near who have asked me about whatever watch I've got on when they see a nice one and the conversations you get out of it can really break the ice at a gathering or in a work environment even
In the future the umbrella seat will be looked back on as a regret..
why would you by a $150 cork screw? utterly ridiculous
D R people who have to much cash to put it in their italian leather wallet or gucci purse.
People who work at 3 star restaurants.
Like the saying goes, if it must be explained to you, then you wouldn't understand.
@@slappy8941
Well, guess pretty much nobody really understands math beyond additions and subtractions...
Essentially everything he buys would hope to be heirloom pieces. Meaning the quality is so fine that generations after you can have them and use them if they'd like -- to remember and talk about you. Not everyone would care to do this and that is their choice. But this man has a business based upon these things so it makes sense for him to make such recommendations.
Love your shows! I agree with the tool box. I bought a 48 inch Harbor Freight tool box for approximately $378.00 and tool are something you buy only when you need it. However I customized by buying quality tools e.g Kinpex, very few Snap On and Teckton. Teckton is were you want to get the bulk. I am not associated with anybody, but really love this show and I assume really good people that also watch. Built shelves and use only Dewalt & very few Milwaukee. Keep in mind a variety of power tools would meany too many batteries that won't work in all your tools. My tools mean more to me than my Rolex.
2:37 OMG lmao, I have nothing more to say I can’t.
Everybody knows the most important item is a army issued colt m1911
With ivory handles
@@stephenandersen4625 Everyone know that a true gentleman carries a Walther PPK for everyday use and a handmade Korth revolver for formal occasions and for dueling.
@@offbeatbassgear
[laughs in P99]
Wooden handles are the best
Mines got mother of pearl grips
Laguiole is pronounced more « lye-olle » (silent g). For info, there's a Laguiole knife next to me, as an aside for those who like good cutlery (or need a good knife for picking their own mushrooms).
Whether or not you should own all of these is a matter of individual taste and necessity (the pinky ring and and vintage port being my personal exceptions*), and I should stress that I place more value on being a gentle man than on being a gentleman**. I was, however, pleased to note that all of the items are primarily intended for both use and ornament (Utile et Decus for Latinists), meaning that they're practical and serve a secondary purpose into the bargain.
I'd also like to add two items, 1) a solid pair of walking / riding boots***, and 2) a kilt, either full plaid or the more contemporary form (with a kilt pin, and best worn with flashes and hose, particularly for formal wear), for those whose family has its own tartan.
FOOTNOTES
* Less is more where jewellery is concerned, and if you're wearing a good watch, a ring can become superfluous, unless it's a wedding ring or a signet ring (i.e. with your seal for wax-sealing correspondance). As for offering alcohol, port is often an acquired taste, and in any case it's better to check the tastes of the person to whom you're making a gift.
** Style is a fine thing, but not if it's at the expense of substance, or becomes an excuse for snobbery (the measure of a man being how he treats his so-called inferiors). Rafael's videos are worth watching precisely because his definition of being a gentleman is about dressing with style as the outward expression of values such as consideration for others (e.g. his objection to wearing a backpack unless it's absolutely necessary being that you can hurt someone with it), showing respect for yourself and others, and being prepared and responsible.
*** Depending on your budget, background, and form/s of rural exercise.
Laco Aachen was my first proper watch but then my Pa gave me his 1970s gold seiko quartz for my 21st.
It's the emotions and stories that surround these things that make them truly worth while.
I have 4 pinkie rings 3 are 22 karat and other is silver. Can't get used to wearing them as I already wear 2 rings - one on each hand. Wife will take them out of the safe now and then and ask me to wear one, claiming its a waste to have them and not wear them. So I indulge her a few times a year. Being retired military, I tend to have an aversion to the umbrella, but keep one in each vehicle I own. Strongly agree with a good quality umbrella, they will last for a long time. Look for quality on whatever you buy, not necessarily quantity.
Why do former military have an aversion to umbrellas? I've heard this from multiple people.
Thank you for a most wonderful list of items. I wanted to share some thoughts with you and those who read the comments. I do not smoke but still think a quality lighter is a good thing to have. I have started looking into videos made by and for people who prep and the ability to make a fire in an emergency may really help you out. The cork screw is a nice item, I will be looking to get a nicer one as I want to have a small drink of red wine with dinner as I understand it does have some health benefits.
I started putting an umbrella in my SUV just in case, but the thought of a nicer one appeals to me and this might also be found in an estate sale! Tools- every man should have a good set, I like Craftsman, Snap on and Matco, and they can be passed down to your kids. The fountain pen- I had an old Mont Blanc that I had dropped and it landed on the NIB and damaged it, so it sat unused for over 10 years, but after seeing your video on fountain pens I sent it to the manufacture for a rebuild and I also purchased a Pilot 74 Custom fountain pen in a see thru clear blue. I started looking at videos on fountain pens and learned that there are decent ones in all price points even under $25, and I learned about the different inks and papers! I think I will try and address 1 item per month on your list!
Although of course Raphael said you must have one with a gold nib
Two other items. 1. A quality hat such as a fedora or Homburg. 2. A quality pistol, preferably a Smith &Wesson revolver.
I prefer my HK P2000sk, but a S&W is definitely something I would consider a "gentleman's sidearm" any day of the week!
I'd argue a well kept Colt detective special or old production Smith.
I've been watching your videos for quite some time. This time around I've decided to start dressing up. To own up the look I am already known for at work. This weekend I'm going all out shopping.
I'd be interested to see what he would do for someone who's a blue collar worker. A lot of what he uses and his lifestyle are for white collar, and business executives. It'd be cool to see how he would adapt the lifestyle to someone who either can't afford these kinds of items, or can't fit it into the lifestyle they currently have.
I was skimming through the comments and a lot of you are not taking the cost of the items as a heirloom. Yeah these items are expansive... but how many people spend 600$ or more for a new cell phone every year. You buy once cry once. Quality items kept for a life time. Great video. Looking for more like these.
#19; A high quality handgun. A gentlemen will want something capable of handling any risky situation quickly without much discomfort. For suffecient power but comfortable recoil and easy concealment, the best option is a .380acp pistol. A Glock 42 from Austria provides a suffecient amount of ammunition for the size without being too difficult to conceal under a jacket or in a hoster inside your waisteband. Be warned, a waisteband holster requires a quality, stiff leather belt and may not interact well with a tucked-in shirt.
unironically if you do own such nice things, you had better be prepared to ward off people who want to take them
It is illegal in most European countries to own a weapon, let alone carry it around (with few exceptions for hunters etc).
@@cordulam Wrong, Germany, Poland, the Czech Republic, the nordic countries, and Italy allow citizens to own and carry weapons, just under stricter laws than the US.
Rafael is correct on the Port for the year of birth. In France it is normal to buy wine for your daughter for the year in which she was born. She can use it for her Wedding/Divorce or Graduation etc. You are laying down the core of her cellar and she will be able to toast your memory long after you have passed. As for the Port, get more than a single bottle. You want them to toast your memory and Port will last long after you die.
This channel's videos are incredibly addictive.
My one leather bound book I invested in “Rommel Papers”. Never a better purchase on my book shelf
Man, that umbrella is straight up kingsman stuff lol. Great video as always! Watching from Hong Kong
I love it that you included having a good quality camera. I am a huge advocate of this because taking pictures with your phone uses up precious memory. I currently use a Pentax Q mirrorless camera. The camera is not in production, but I have found that it works great and I only had to spend about $300 for the camera and all of the lenses. Also it is painted brown and not the standard black look of most cameras. Whenever I am out in public, people almost always ask me about it. Not that I am seeking attention, but they always seem curious about it. It is lighter and much more transportable than a 35mm camera.
Raphael, a very good video as usual. A gentleman is always learning, just wanted to point that the Portuguese tradition you mencioned is quite spot one. I'm portuguese and it is indeed a tradition, and the time we choose to open is quite personal, very different opinions on when to do it,
Thank you for all your great content, greatings for you and your team
Your video was both informative and engaging. I appreciate how you tackled it such a unique way. I've explored a parallel theme on Illicium London. Keep it up!
Nice video as always Raphael, i am huge fan. For the signature scent, it don't have to be expensive or very unique like Creed. Ralph Polo Green is a classic gentleman scent that still stays around for more than 30 years for example.
I would add a traditional folding knife to the list. Something like a case trapper. I would also add a sidearm appropriate for self defense and a quality holster.
"It doesn't have to be made out of solid gold." Ahh thanks for clarifying that, I was just about to go into overdraft.
Actually, of all jewellery, a ring should be made out of solid metal whether gold or silver. Gold-plated items simply don't keep the gold finish due to the wear a ring gets. Gold-plated cufflinks, on the other hand, would be just fine.
2:32 - You've got to be kidding me.
omg, i totally missed that fast forwarding through his verbose video!!
I'm female and loving these Gentleman videos. Wish there was a proper female version :(
Me too!
Make one!
That's easy. Just cook, clean and keep quiet.
DISCLAIMER: THIS IS A JOKE!!!!
I have run across at least 2 by Gentelmen's Guide
Great video as always :) I fully agree with an umbrella being an essential as I live in a cold climate. I have two umbrellas, both of them are from Fulton. Look forward to the next video!
ANY umbrella is a storm, dorothy! Golfers have on in their car. I got a great huge bumbershoot from home depot that will stop asteroids! LOOKS GREAT in the rain wearing a bespoke suit!
The real items that every true gentleman should have:
1. Fedora: to tip the fine ladies
2. A good quality back brace: bending over backwards for women can be quite strenuous
3. A good $5000 cash on hand at all times: always aim to please her
4. A good portable door stopper: This can really come in handy for when multiple women are walking into the same building you are, just smile and wave as they walk by and maybe tip your fedora for a little extra gentleman points
5. A quality never used handkerchief: to wipe away her tears after her distasteful boyfriend broke her heart
6. A nice beard trimmer: to maintain your gentleman perfect neck beard
7. Deodorant: you know why you need it bud
8. A second handkerchief for personal use: To wipe away your tears after she says you’re like a brother to her
this got more and more ironic towards the end, where i finally realized this was a joke.
thank you for not making this an actual comment
@fellhat what joke? ;)
M'lady M'rning to you M'am
I own everything on list and I'm the button I the bracket. Bring a gentlemen on a budget is tough. I only have one suit lol
But my umbrella had a hidden blade I love so so much
The video was great and on point, and I loved the outfit. I’m probably going to get the same. Also I suggest that you try Versace pour homme it is an eau de toilette but it’s a very masculine and robust fragrance.
pranav herani I agree! I own that one and it’s amazing!
I use to carry a Fountain pen but worry about a leak in the long run and ruining my shirt too. Now i carry this nice heavy steel victorian engraved pattern self defense pen.
Many may disagree with this, but I think when it comes to fountain pens, a bolder pen like pretty much anything from Visconti or a Pelikan with green or blue stripes are better choices than the standard cigar shaped Montblanc usually associated with gentlemen.
Last summer when I went to visit my cousint`s somelier's vila in Alaska, I spoted an eagle, however my film camera was not high quality enough, therefore I could not capture it quite the way I wanted it. If I had watched this video before, this would never had happen, I am glad my life brought me to this amazing video. Will share with my friends, thank you.
You forgot Craftsman in the tools section. A good Gentleman also needs a good wallet, a good hat, a good pair of everyday shoes, and a good winter coat.
Most need a winter coat but there’s plenty of places in America alone where that’s completely unnecessary, that’s probably why a cost wasn’t on the list.
But a good wallet and every day shoes absolutely belong.
Love the way you organize & present. Even in description you have given details of items with brief desc *with time stamp* !!! Appreciate it... a *detailed* list of very important items. Thank you for this video !! :)
This is great and all, but say I want to dress well but don’t have that sort of money.
I’d like to see how to achieve a gentleman’s look with each item costing no more than £100.
Shoes, shirt, trousers, tie, blazer, jacket, casual trousers, sweater, coat, casual shoes, watch, wallet, accessories.
Can you do it?
Perhaps this guide can help. :) www.gentlemansgazette.com/gentleman-dress-suit-budget-15-tips-guide/
It does help :) Many thanks!
I buy high street or supermarket immitations of styles I like to bolster my wardrobe, then replace them with quality items over time when I know what items suit me. If I Jumped straight in at high end boots/cufflinks/watches I'd have ended up with styles I didn't like, now I've upgraded items that worked with my height and frame to quality, handmade or top tier bespoke things. Takes years but you get to have fun and experiment without breaking the bank.
@@deanobeany
That's one heck of a strategy. Love it.
A lot of those things but not the suit, sorry.
Thank you for the great info! Just ordered an umbrella by Brigg..been looking for a well-made umbrella!
I'll stick to my signature Batman Tshirt and Skater chains.
You could always pick up a pair of vintage JNCO jeans to complete the ensemble.
You can dress well even while not being dressed formally.
If you pull it off well and that’s what you love to wear, great!
Dressing well is dressing appropriately- you don’t wanna out dress the groom at a wedding, you don’t wanna be in a T-shirt and jeans at a funeral, you don’t wanna wear a suit to a skate park.
Johnny Rotten usually had a plain white shirt...often with French cuffs (no links tho).
I am a great fountain pen and proper camera fan!
You make quality videos Sven.
High quality pocket knife. A must have for every well prepared man.
I’ve grown to love you videos
What you also should invest in is an upright posture. It is first more healthy, raises your self-esteem and also impresses those around you.
But I'm certainly none to ask how to be a gentleman. I was quite surprised you brought on a tool box. Very good I think everyone should own that.
"you can use them to dry your tears". loved it hahha
A guide please for US based bespoke suit makers. Great suit you are wearing!!
Five things every man should know how to do: Cook a great meal from scratch, tie a bow tie, ride a horse, change a flat tire on your vehicle and undo a woman's bra in the dark with one hand . . . :)
lol why would you need to ride a bloody horse?
Except the horse thing, luckily, I can do the other 4 things. XD
RockaBilly bow ties with a regular sports jacket is wrong. It’s a little too flashy
RockaBilly I mean just any navy sports jacket with chinos or flannels. I think a casual enough jacket and a casual enough bow tie like seersucker and something a little more casual in the bow tie would work though. But a black bow tie with a navy sports coat and chinos is wrong.
I am able to do all but the last, and that one doesn't apply to me anyhow. I'm not particularly fast at changing tires though.
Yes, the belt should always match the colour of your shoes just like the socks should always match the colour of your tie.
I had this feeling that something was missing in my life. I just learned that it was a fountain pen.
A quality fountain pen (they all leak eventually) is an excellent way to destroy a quality suite and shirt.
Glad you showed the James Cameron Deep Blue Rolex - I have the very same!
Can you do something related to health and fitness, as I think it's important for gentlemen.
very
A good pair of Chelsea boots is a must in mans wardrobe especially in the UK ever since the 1960’s
what a gentleman should own
1. Gentleman personality.
Great well researched and presented video (I live in England and it rains a lot so I own quite a few umbrellas!)