I Had a Miscarriage at 13 Weeks

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  • Опубліковано 26 кві 2021
  • Unfortunately, we do not talk about this enough when it comes to #pregnancy. I hope my story helps others to start to share with each other so we all don't feel so alone. #firsttrimester #firstpregnancy #firstchild #iwishiknew
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  • @gloriaboateng5372
    @gloriaboateng5372 2 роки тому +13

    I just miscarried my triplets… I’m devastated but God knows best . Will definitely have my rainbow 🌈 babies

  • @alissahooker
    @alissahooker 2 роки тому +6

    I’m so sorry for your loss- we lost our girl at 24 weeks and it was just the most heartbreaking thing. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Sending you all the love in the world

  • @rootsofaurora
    @rootsofaurora Рік тому +1

    I know this is an older video, but I just wanted to say thank you for sharing your story. It really is a subject that needs more attention because like you say, it feels like an extremely lonely thing to go through.

  • @MichaelaEvans
    @MichaelaEvans 3 роки тому +1

    I'm so sorry for your loss!🙏🏾 I can't even imagine going through this myself! Thank you for sharing!💕

  • @theshywanderlust5691
    @theshywanderlust5691 3 роки тому +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m really glad you had a great support system. Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @AsiaSee31Thirty
    @AsiaSee31Thirty 3 роки тому +2

    My heart. I honestly cried watching this. I am keeping you in my prayers. I hate to hear this but I’m sure you will help someone else. I remember participating in my first D&C it was extremely heart breaking.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  3 роки тому

      Yeah u really don’t hear tan out this part until AFTER it happens. Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @CammyjOfficial
    @CammyjOfficial 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your loss. You are blessed to have a wonderful support system.

  • @CocoaGoddess
    @CocoaGoddess 3 роки тому +5

    Hi Jeskell! I happened to stumble across this video ironically and I’m like I know her. But I admire the transparency. Although I haven’t had a miscarriage I’m struggling to conceive-I have fibroids and endometriosis. And my mother had several miscarriages before conceiving my baby brother. I wish WE were more transparent about our stories bc it’s a lot of us that have similar stories and don’t have the safe spaces, tribes to talk to about the trauma. I’m sorry this is something you and your partner endured. Peace, love and light.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  3 роки тому

      Hey Shaquel. thank you so much for watching and sharing your story. i agree we really don’t have these conversations that’s why these things hit as hard as they do! We def need to be more transparent with one another.

  • @kellebaby
    @kellebaby 3 роки тому

    I’m so sorry that you had to go through this experience. Thank you for sharing this with us. I knew this had to be hard for you to do.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching. It’s still hard but I sincerely want to shine a light on it

  • @jacquelineneely9570
    @jacquelineneely9570 2 роки тому +5

    I just had a miscarriage two days ago..and still physically going through the pain of expelling the remnants of what would have been my first child at 42. Your story is what I went through..when I first found out they could not find a heart beat at 6 weeks. I did a pelvic ultrasound a few days later and my baby's heartbeat was as a strong as my own. At the outset the doctors had already diagnosed the pregnancy as early gestation vs. Blydum ovum. But God knows all things...I feel guilty as hell cause I was taking on so much and worrying about other things and not enjoying the fact of being pregnant...I will need that book too...putting myself first.

  • @tanayanicole
    @tanayanicole 3 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story. I know this is a touchy subject, so thank you for being vulnerable and sharing with us.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  3 роки тому

      Thank u for watching and being understanding ❤️

  • @tonya-toyareborndolls5650
    @tonya-toyareborndolls5650 2 роки тому +1

    I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing. I recently lost my baby and I am dealing with postpartum depression. My doctor don’t even deal with a lot of what I am going through and it is so frustrating for me because I have never gone through this until now. I do feel alone. My husband he listens and he hurts to but I know he wish it was something he could do for me because I have so many questions and no answers. I did call and changed my Doctor’s. So next month if the Lord is willing I will have a new doctor. My OB don’t deliver babies any way. So I just feel better by having a doctor that know these things and that can help me through this. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for sharing and May God bless you guys.

  • @shauniwarwick6091
    @shauniwarwick6091 2 роки тому +4

    I’m so sorry for you loss! I’m going through the same thing right now and like you said, I felt so alone for a while. Watching these videos of women who went through the same thing gave me the comfort and strength that I needed to get through this.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  2 роки тому +2

      I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I'm glad you found comfort in this video. And I pray you have village that is supporting you through this difficult time.

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      @crazyicecream2237 2 роки тому

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    • @crazyicecream2237
      @crazyicecream2237 2 роки тому

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  • @rosyapplekitchen635
    @rosyapplekitchen635 2 роки тому

    Sorry for your loss videos like this really helped me the last three nights. Night before last i had my miscarriage. ❤️

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  2 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s def a feeling you have to go through to know what someone is experiencing . I hope you have people around to help u get through this tough time ❤️

  • @GettingHealthyDrT
    @GettingHealthyDrT 3 роки тому

    My condolences. This had to be a traumatic experience, thanks for sharing your story.

  • @collinamacfoy7998
    @collinamacfoy7998 Рік тому

    😢I too experienced this. Mine however was a full natural miscarriage and passed my baby in the toilet. Happy you had your partner there with you. I had to go at it alone. I’m so sorry you had to experience this as well. We will have our rainbow babies God willing.

  • @siyaradobbs4831
    @siyaradobbs4831 3 роки тому

    I admire your courage and strength. Thank You for sharing your story. 🤍

  • @krislatoya7556
    @krislatoya7556 2 роки тому +1

    Sigh...Went for a check up at 1 day shy of 14 weeks...no heartbeat 💔. The most hurtful part I was told the baby had passed away 2 to 3 days prior. Having the procedure done this week, Lord knows I feel like I have failed.

  • @thebusolaade
    @thebusolaade 3 роки тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss💔

  • @jdawk7433
    @jdawk7433 Рік тому +1

    Going through this now at 10 weeks. So sorry for your loss

  • @Nienie007
    @Nienie007 Рік тому +1

    My doctor's office isn't listening to me either. They canceled my appointment for an ultrasound and said we will have you take more blood work. When I looked on my portal they put spontaneous abortion without checking me and getting the blood work done. Broke my heart when I saw it. I have faith that God will prove them wrong.

  • @sharalli3112
    @sharalli3112 3 роки тому +5

    I know this videos a few months old… but I am so incredibly sorry. I’m currently just shy of 12 weeks and am still scared to announce it because of this very reason. I learned my lesson in my 20s, announcing a pregnancy and later having a miscarriage.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  3 роки тому

      Thank you for watching and your condolences. I pray you have a safe pregnancy and labor. As I’m sure you know, do it when you’re ready… and not a minute before!

    • @rosyapplekitchen635
      @rosyapplekitchen635 2 роки тому +1

      Hope you everything goes very well for you. I just had one and i feel the same. If it happens again i wont tell anyone until i really have to.

    • @tijay8507
      @tijay8507 Рік тому

      Did your pregnancy end up with a healthy baby?

  • @ebonyevaughn
    @ebonyevaughn 3 роки тому

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @greechebrew5211
    @greechebrew5211 2 роки тому

    Yooo sorry sister, may God comfort tou and see you through. M 8 week running but very scared bcoz they say until 18 weeks you have to worry,,🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @erikagardea8334
    @erikagardea8334 2 роки тому

    I’m very sorry and so sad that this happened. Were you not able to get an ultrasound between the 7th and 13th weeks?

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  2 роки тому

      No, because I am an otherwise healthy person and I never had any prior pregnancies

  • @mslov3ly20
    @mslov3ly20 Рік тому

    Had my miscarriage at 11 weeks. Im so sorry.

  • @tijay8507
    @tijay8507 Рік тому +4

    Sorry to correct you but you had a missed miscarriage and your embryo was seven weeks gestation ... sorry for your loss xxx

    • @sarah29880
      @sarah29880 Рік тому +1

      Yeah that’s true, it’s when it last grew

    • @commonomics
      @commonomics Рік тому +2

      Yes the title makes me think the fetus grew until 12 weeks

    • @Kelly101Girl
      @Kelly101Girl Рік тому +1

      @@commonomics that’s what I was thinking as well because I’ve noticed a lot of women say the week of when they find out but usually the actual fetal development had stopped weeks prior. So in essence shouldnt it be counted as a “miscarry” as the week it officially stops moving forward to give more of an accurate time line to gauge when miscarriages are more likely to occur.

    • @commonomics
      @commonomics Рік тому

      @@Kelly101Girl yes it should be the week it stopped growing imo. I’m currently 12 weeks and it scares me bc I’ve had so much loss but when I find out it was 8 weeks or earlier it eases my mind.

  • @laurahimesekai
    @laurahimesekai Рік тому

    For me its a bit confusing. And sorry for your loss ❤ In my country its mandatory to go 12 weeks ultrasound where they check the baby all of the size. Like every part of the baby. For extra money they check also many genetic diseases. How its possible in 13th week the doctors realized the baby was a 7th week diameter? Or in USA its not mondatory in 12th weeks this ultrasound test? Or I missed some information? 😮😢

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  Рік тому +1

      Hey yes i had the 12/13 week checkup scheduled and experienced the miscarriage right before the checkup

  • @worldofalankrutha7205
    @worldofalankrutha7205 2 роки тому

    Hi mam i am having cramps without bleeding is this misscarriage sign

    • @tijay8507
      @tijay8507 Рік тому +1

      Don't ask a youtuber!

  • @maryellenblount6376
    @maryellenblount6376 Рік тому

    Why didn't they put you to sleep for the DNC? Sounds horrible that you were awake for that. Sorry for your loss.

    • @sitwithskell9734
      @sitwithskell9734  Рік тому

      They said they don’t put you to sleep for the procedure

  • @mvanghlubkoj
    @mvanghlubkoj Рік тому

    Healthcare in the 🇺🇸 suck
    I paid for my Healthcare but I feel like thet don't wanna help. Even when I ask for a hcg blood drawn only blood drawn they were 50/50 on giving to me.....