MY MISCARRIAGE STORY / Losing My Baby At 7.5 Weeks Pregnant 💔

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  • Being pregnant and experiencing a miscarriage is the biggest heartbreak anyone will go through. Pregnancy loss is so common so I'm here to tell my miscarriage story in hope that it can help others.
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  • @Eltoria
    @Eltoria  2 роки тому +125

    If this is happened to you before, I’m so sorry 💔. But you are not alone in this. Hoping my video offers some help and clarity ♥️. I WILL become a mama one day xxx

    • @jeanniekartis5916
      @jeanniekartis5916 2 роки тому

      ❤️❤️

    • @carolg7281
      @carolg7281 2 роки тому

      You really will Simone, it happened to me and I was devastated, but went on to have a beautiful baby girl who is now 18. Stay strong my darling thinking of you and sending you so much love xx

    • @inathompson8293
      @inathompson8293 2 роки тому

      You will be a mama one day. I can promise You that. Unfortunately, we all go through that suffering. But... No doubts, Your day will comexxx

    • @caroldobbin7558
      @caroldobbin7558 2 роки тому

      Happend to me for 13 yrs continues, then may 2020 I found out I was pregnant , and oh boy I was scared out of my mind, at the same time I knew stress could also lead to miscarriage so I had to try and stay calm. At 16 wks I found out that I was carrying a baby boy, he was born healthy January 2021 levi was born weighing 7lb 1oz. Stay strong sweety 💞 your will have your rainbow baby 😚

    • @lorenafernanda127
      @lorenafernanda127 Рік тому

      I also had a miscarriage last year, it was so painful.. thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏼 🤍

  • @geenalizzi
    @geenalizzi 2 роки тому +80

    I’m also 1 in 4, and unless you go through it you can’t understand how it hurts.
    2 months after my miscarriage I fell pregnant again, i had a lot of bleeding throughout my first trimester and was petrified of losing that baby too,
    HOWEVER…. I gave birth to my rainbow TWINS just over 3 weeks ago and my heart is so so full.

    • @annamilenamariani3751
      @annamilenamariani3751 Рік тому +2

      I lost my rainbow twins at 10 weeks gestation. Currently hoping for a rainbow after my meant to be rainbows. ❤

    • @bethe2389
      @bethe2389 Рік тому +1

      So happy for you. ❤

  • @whatamiedid4014
    @whatamiedid4014 2 роки тому +34

    For reassurance and hope... I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks... the next month I got pregnant with my 23 month old. I then had a miscarriage at 12 weeks and 2 months later got pregnant with my now 8 week old. During the pregnancy with my 8 week old I had MASSIVE bleeds and cramping at weeks 7, 15 and 20... completely unexplained and baby is here now and fine!x

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +5

      Oh my goodness! That's so unexplained I bet you were so scared xxx

  • @1989cpartington
    @1989cpartington 2 роки тому +37

    I’m so sorry this happened to you too. I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks April last year and had to have medication to help pass everything because my body didn’t let go. It was so hard physically and emotionally. I’m now 32 weeks with the next baby and he seems perfect on all the tests and scans. Sending love and strength xxx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you so much for your reassuring comment! I'm so so glad that you now have a baby on the way! Sending lots of love xx

  • @Jazzybluemia
    @Jazzybluemia Рік тому +10

    I am going through this at the moment. I'm 37 and I really thought it was my time. It's horrible I just pray I feel better ❤ sending love to everyone whose gone through this xxxxx

  • @romy5822
    @romy5822 2 роки тому +11

    I’m so sorry Eltoria this happened to you.. 😔 I’ve been through this when I was 18 weeks pregnant my baby boy just passed away, that feeling was and is crushing, 6 weeks later I found out I was pregnant with my rainbow and I really hope you’ll receive your rainbow baby soon (and whenever you ready to try again ofc) ❤️🌈

  • @mst-pierrem5729
    @mst-pierrem5729 Рік тому +9

    When you said you feel the loss you didnt think that you could have, man I feel that ! I am currently going through this as delayed thing since my foetus stop growing at 6 weeks and 1 day but the miscaring didnt happen until I was 9.5 weeks. I somehow was very worried about this and kept telling my husband I am not feeling this. And somehow when it happened I cried/screamed like someone died and like you said the fathers go through this pain as well.... Thank-you!!

  • @jennybroom7766
    @jennybroom7766 2 роки тому +12

    I know many women in my family and friends circle who have suffered miscarriages and who are now knee deep in dirty nappies 😃
    So Keep positive and stay healthy
    You are your partner are a team and will get through this together 🙂 xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +3

      We absolutely will

  • @quigzie19
    @quigzie19 Рік тому +7

    I’m currently going through the exact same thing…. It has been so traumatic. This video has REALLY helped me so thank you, but I’m also SO sorry this happened to you too. Stay positive and wishing you all the best, hoping you’re okay. Lots of love ❤ xxxx

  • @heathersuess9872
    @heathersuess9872 Рік тому +3

    Thank u for talking about this. I’m going thru a miscarriage. I feel like it’s a death in the family. I was so excited about this baby.

  • @ElenaTsaroucha-sv7vv
    @ElenaTsaroucha-sv7vv Рік тому +2

    I had a miscarriage 2 days ago. I’m so devastated and feel hopeless and lonely.

  • @Ajaravohora
    @Ajaravohora 2 роки тому +5

    The same exact thing happened to me in October, me and my partner finally got pregnant through IVF as we had been trying for 5 years and no result. And 5 weeks later it ended in a miscarriage...they said the same thing that the baby's chromosomes weren't healthy enough and so on. Even though we had this mentality that of it happens it happens if not then not, it was still HEARTBREAKING!
    I am so glad u shared this cause now I know I m not the only one that goes through this....❤️❤️❤️

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +2

      So so so heartbreaking isn't it! I am so sorry for your loss it's truly heartbreaking xxx

  • @chloeritchie8464
    @chloeritchie8464 2 роки тому +4

    I'm so sorry for your loss❤ I went through a very similar experience to you in October 2019. I had a horrible experience and felt so so alone for weeks, my partner didn't get affected by it that much so I felt like I had no one and at the time no one was really talking about it and the people who did kept saying atleast it was early but it was horrendous feeling like my feelings weren't valid. We then tried for another pregnancy for a full year with no success, then decided to put plans on hold and just have some time to ourselves and focus on careers etc and in July 2021, out of the blue I found out I was pregnant. I'm now due in 5 weeks💗 praying for you and Joe and your healing journey❤

  • @Ryoko007
    @Ryoko007 8 місяців тому +1

    i had a miscarriage last week, end of December 2023 i was told at my 11-12week scan that my baby has no heartbeat and i lost it at 9weeks. they said you have 3 options, naturally let everything to happen like a normal period in next 2-3weeks or tablet or mini op.ichose natural, took almost 2 weeks and then i got the worst cramp pain like contractions then i passed clots and so much blood in the toilet that i passed out. it was horrendous. i just feel dead inside now. i cant even sleep. i dont have my baby anymore.😭😭

  • @adathefirst6600
    @adathefirst6600 Рік тому +1

    😢😢 I lost my 7 weeks pregnancy today and I feel like dying ,. So scared , and don't know how to move on

  • @hitherebecky
    @hitherebecky 2 роки тому +5

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s happened to me too and at the time I wish there was someone I looked up to talking about it,
    so it’s amazing that you can talk about it because it’ll help you and it will 100% help someone else

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      I completely agree! Hoping that this video can help someone xx

  • @nichollsalazar6413
    @nichollsalazar6413 2 роки тому +3

    I'm glad I found your video... this just happened to me a couple weeks ago and I'm devastated. Nice to know I can relate with somebody and I'm not the only one. 😔

  • @tijay8507
    @tijay8507 2 роки тому +1

    Having early miscarriages happen to every woman without fail,
    7 weeks or so is from the last period so it is approx 5 weeks pregnant
    if a woman didn't test they would just think they had a heavy period.
    Testing early is setting women up for trauma.
    Having a yolk sac present on a scan is sadly not a confirmation of having a healthy foetus even with a foetal pole, it sounds like you could have had a blighted ovum ...
    I am so sorry for your loss and i do understand as I have had numerous early losses like this and miscarriages
    and my poor mum had stillborn twins full term and 5 more later losses too ...

  • @ghettoasmrexposed54
    @ghettoasmrexposed54 2 роки тому +2

    Having had 3 miscarriages there is always hope my first baby I lost through miscarriage and I felt like my world had ended I kept seeing people with newborn baby's it was like they were taunting me even though I knew they weren't but it was utter torture and thought why me but after a few months I went on to have 1 healthy boy then i lost 2 other children due to miscarriage then last year I was finely blessed with my second baby never give up hope you will have your beautiful baby ❤️

  • @welovebam
    @welovebam 8 місяців тому +2

    Bless you. I found out i was pregnant on Christmas and it was my own perfect little gift. I ended up finding out im miscarrying almost a month later on my anniversary with my partner. I too never thought this would happen to me, i relate to your story so much and ive never felt so alone until i found these videos of you all who have been through this. Thank you to everyone for sharing ❤ it truly does make a huge difference in someones life. Thank you for making me feel less alone

  • @toriplayssg
    @toriplayssg 2 роки тому +1

    The statistic is not that 1 in 4 women will have a miscarriage it is that 1-4 pregnancies will end in miscarriage. This is because a woman who has had an 1 miscarriage is more likely to have more.

  • @karenhorrocks4216
    @karenhorrocks4216 2 роки тому +3

    Sending you love and hugs. I too had a miscarriage at 20 weeks and it truly is one of the most heartbreaking experiences of my life. Like you i also wanted the lights to go out,but with the right support you will get through this and when the time is right you will be a wonderful Mummy. I believe talking about your experience will definitely help you to come to terms with your loss.My baby boy was also due on the 26th September. Maybe you could light a candle for your baby on this date. Stay strong sweetheart💔❤

  • @brj0906
    @brj0906 2 роки тому +14

    So sorry this happened to you, sending you big hugs and all my love. Thank you for being so brave in sharing your story with us, you truly are an incredible woman xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much lovely for your support xxx

  • @mollyjaybooks
    @mollyjaybooks 2 роки тому +3

    I’m so so so sorry Simone!!! Sending you the biggest hug to you and Joe!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 Thank you for sharing your story, I know it will help so many who have experienced this as well!! Love and hugs again to you both! xxxx

  • @EstherrZ
    @EstherrZ 2 роки тому +4

    It happened to me too when I was around 6 weeks pregnant. But 2 months later I was pregnant again and I am now I'm getting twins! It happens a lot and I hope you will be pregnant soon too ❤

    • @geenalizzi
      @geenalizzi 2 роки тому

      I just had my rainbow twins 3 weeks ago. I was also around 6 weeks when I went through my loss

    • @annamilenamariani3751
      @annamilenamariani3751 Рік тому

      ​@@geenalizzi I lost my rainbow twins at 10 weeks gestation 😢 currently hoping for a rainbow after my meant to be rainbows. ❤

  • @user-dg7ju4ps5b
    @user-dg7ju4ps5b 2 роки тому +2

    I’m so sorry, words can’t explain how hurtful something like this is. I just lost my baby today at 7 weeks & 2 days. My heart is broken, its hard when something you really wanted is taken away from you. I hope you have a good recovery.

  • @amymulvenna4690
    @amymulvenna4690 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry to hear this! We started trying last year and unfortunately had two miscarriages. One at 9 weeks and a missed miscarriage. No break in between. 8 months of last year either pregnant or miscarrying has been horrendous. I completely know how you feel. Talking has really helped me and we took a few months off to fully recover. Trying to stay positive for this year. 💕

  • @staceyslimmings8531
    @staceyslimmings8531 2 роки тому +3

    I really feel your pain 😞 I experienced this 5 years ago and it was the worse thing ever it’s took me all that time to get pregnant again 5 years of trying it just wasn’t happening and on Christmas Day I found out I was pregnant I’m now 14 weeks lots of love to you xxx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому

      Thats wondeful news!! Sending lots of love and positivity xx

  • @percydoeseverything
    @percydoeseverything 2 роки тому +2

    It's absolutely heartbreaking. But it's such a common thing, especially nowadays it seems, at least from what I hear from people. Or it could just be that more people talk about it. But it's still one of those taboo subjects, and it really shouldn't be.
    If you go through this it's so so imortant that you talk to someone about it. Your partner, family and friends, professionals, or even if you want to be super anonymous then strangers on the internet. Just getting it off your chest and hearing about other people's stories helps so much. You think it wouldn't, but it really does.

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      Talking has been my absolute therapy on this one! 100% agree :) xx

  • @nadya3052
    @nadya3052 2 роки тому +1

    I sympathize with you and really understand your feelings. You are not alone in this situation! This is very sad. I know for myself. I was helped by the thought that if a sick child was born, or died immediately after birth or in the later months of pregnancy, I would be more hurt, more offended. Now, probably, no words will help, but you are very strong if you can talk about it! hold on!

  • @Vanya3342
    @Vanya3342 2 роки тому +3

    So sorry for you gorgeous, Simone! There are no words to express how sad this is. Simply no words ... Sending lots of love and positive energy.

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your kind message xxxx

    • @Vanya3342
      @Vanya3342 2 роки тому

      @@Eltoria it's deeply from my heart. My heart as a mom. The very best first moment in a mom's life in my eyes was not when the baby was born. Too much stress, hormonal storm at this moment and during the entire pregnancy in a pandemic era. The best moment for me is when you hear "Mama" for the first time.
      I wish you from the bottom of my heart to experience this magical moment soon. ⭐✨⭐✨

  • @ivalee1958
    @ivalee1958 2 роки тому +1

    Ya know at 5-7 weeks most people don't even know their pregnent and lose the pregnancy befor the even know there was one it seems to that you were going to lose this one anyway my best advice to you is to just keep doing what you did to get yourself pregnant and you will be pregnant befor ya know it....hang in there

  • @chloeswatton5010
    @chloeswatton5010 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry for your loss. My mum had two miscarriages, one before me and one after me (I’m an only child). You will come out the other end shining brighter than the sun. Love to you and your family.

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому

      Thanks so much for your support xxx

  • @Footballmumandson
    @Footballmumandson 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry for your loss ❤️ thank you for sharing your experience. I never thought I would be lucky enough to have a baby as I have endometriosis and had tried for years but I found out I was pregnant just before I turned 31 and now have a 2.5 year old boy. Praying it will happen for you too ❤️ stay strong xxxx

  • @danl5961
    @danl5961 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for posting this. Sending all the love, really helped me as I suffered one last year. I am the same age as you and we also got pregnant the first month too! So similar.. sending hugs 💕

  • @zoegreen9432
    @zoegreen9432 2 роки тому +1

    hey, just got the courage to watch this. just wanted to say something, the moment you mentioned your birthday and your fears for you birthday and future birthday. it maybe hard for the 1st couple of years. But i lost a baby many years ago, and a week after my due date. i found out i was pregnant again. that baby is now 14 years old, and as much as i still had moments for 1st couple of years, was it a boy or girl, who would he/she look like etc. I wouldnt have my son now. of course we will never forget that baby. but something one day will happen, that will just make this horrible experience abit easier for you. i hope you're doing ok. lots of hugs to you both xx

  • @just1_millyboo632
    @just1_millyboo632 Рік тому +1

    I just had a miscarriage at 14 weeks and I’m devastated I’m so sorry this happened to you 💔😔

  • @irishtatted-uptink6733
    @irishtatted-uptink6733 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry this happened to you . You are very brave for talking about it so openly . It needs to be talked about though . Good job bringing up you are keeping the pregnancy test . You have a little box . It's ok to acknowledge all of your pregnancies. I see a great mom in you 💜 I myself have had multiple losses and multiple gains.

  • @Fayes-world
    @Fayes-world 2 роки тому +2

    I am truly sorry this happened to you!! You are incredibly strong for sharing your story with us 💞 my prayers go out to you!!

  • @Martina9323
    @Martina9323 2 роки тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss hun 🤍 both of you. I'm glad you shared your story with us , this will help so many people trust me. You're incredible person , stay strong and positive ❤️ sending love to you both

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks so much lovely xxx

  • @monsesoto3074
    @monsesoto3074 2 місяці тому

    Past the age of 30 you are most likely to miscarriage, genetic disorders ect..
    For me Im not sure if I would want another baby in my 30s.

  • @anniesammy5991
    @anniesammy5991 5 місяців тому

    Hi I came across your video, which helped me a lot because I know you recently had a baby. I had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago and I still feel empty. I'm hoping it goes away. The baby would of been due on my husband's birthday. But thank you for sharing.

  • @anniesammy5991
    @anniesammy5991 5 місяців тому

    Hi I came across your video, which helped me a lot because I know you recently had a baby. I had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago and I still feel empty. I'm hoping it goes away. The baby would of been due on my husband's birthday. But thank you for sharing.

  • @corpselizzy
    @corpselizzy 3 місяці тому

    I miscarried last month at 7 weeks 2 days it was so painful I kept puking cause of the pain my doctor said because it was fraternal twins it made it harder

  • @cookinggardeningaustralia6525
    @cookinggardeningaustralia6525 6 місяців тому

    Im currently going through a miscarriage and know exactly how you feel.

  • @missafultonfulton1292
    @missafultonfulton1292 6 місяців тому

    I’m going though this no baby just sack iv scan to tell me Tuesday 3 days to go but it looking that way I’m bleeding craning now it so traumatic to all women so sorry for loss mamaxxxxx

  • @IvanahDperry
    @IvanahDperry 6 місяців тому

    I found out I was pregnant 3 days ago today I got news Im misscarrying today

  • @merlefontanares
    @merlefontanares Місяць тому

    It's been very sad story especially if it's first baby 🥲

  • @deliglow
    @deliglow 2 роки тому

    💔I lost my 1. And 2. Baby but a few years ago i have a 2 healthy girls now!❤️ its horrible but its normal in this world😢
    You will be a perfect mom🍀in the right time☀️

  • @AnneAndCamel
    @AnneAndCamel 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry for your loss. Speaking out is brave and necessary to help yourself and others.

  • @sonalishinde7245
    @sonalishinde7245 4 місяці тому

    I lost my baby boy at 6 month pregnancy😢

  • @sarahbudd1623
    @sarahbudd1623 2 роки тому +1

    Aw, bless you. It’s awful. I have had 2 miscarriages before my first and third pregnancies ended this way. I have five lovely children now and there is life after this. Sending you so much love at this heartbreaking time. 💕💕💕

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for commenting! So reassuring that you've gone on to have lovely babies xx

    • @sarahbudd1623
      @sarahbudd1623 2 роки тому

      @@Eltoria You WILL have your baby! I cried with you in your video. It brought back so many memories. That awful, heartbreaking feeling. It's totally devastating. I have boxes with my baby bits in too and always remember the dates, would be birthdays etc. It's never goes away but it does get easier. It will start to hurt a little less and will start to heal. I'm sure you have alot of support and I'm sure you talking so openly and honestly will help others who are going through the same. We'll done, it must of been so hard to film, thank you for doing that. Lots of love to ou and Joe too. X

  • @doodlebob1898
    @doodlebob1898 2 роки тому +1

    im sooo sorry sweet Eltoria . my love and warmth is with you

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for your support xxx

  • @amyjones6028
    @amyjones6028 2 роки тому +1

    I’m so sorry for you lovely. I also had a miscarriage when I was between 7-8 weeks. 😢 I can sympathise with you. Sending you lots of love, xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      So sorry this happened to you too xxx

    • @amyjones6028
      @amyjones6028 2 роки тому

      @@Eltoria Thanks lovely, it happened when I had a 9 month old, so it would have been a challenge, but still it was as horrific to go through! 😞 xxx

  • @hayleysimpson7498
    @hayleysimpson7498 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry this happened to you, your feelings are 100% valid and I relate 😔 when I lost Rowan it was so hard I now hate Christmas because I lost him Xmas day x

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому

      Oh I am so so sorry to hear this babe

    • @hayleysimpson7498
      @hayleysimpson7498 2 роки тому

      @@Eltoria ❤❤ you never forget even now I have another child I will always remember xxx

  • @michelle10150
    @michelle10150 2 роки тому +4

    I had my miscarriage on literally the same day as you at 7 weeks 3 days. Thinking of you so much! X

  • @happyjayne2724
    @happyjayne2724 2 роки тому +1

    MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND JOE ON THE LOSS OF YOUR FIRST BABY. BLESSINGS TO YOU. LOVE FROM 🇨🇦

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому

      Thank you lovely xx

  • @jarrettenaope7038
    @jarrettenaope7038 2 роки тому

    Im Sooo Sorry Angel...🌹😢...I Hope there are Solutions In theFuture...Heal for now...And Look at Many other Options Available...I Have faith
    One Day you will become A Wonderful Mother...You Chose to Speak and Not give up...So it IS DESTINED

  • @kellymoore5221
    @kellymoore5221 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry for your loss 😔 well done for finding the strength to share your story you will definitely help lots of people with similar experiences wishing you the very best x

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      I really hope it does help xxx

  • @katalinapaz95
    @katalinapaz95 Рік тому

    I'm 6 weeks 6 days pregnant and I'm SO scared something bad happens to my baby 🥺🥺🥺
    I'm so so sorry for your loss 🥺🥺💖

  • @julieescalante4491
    @julieescalante4491 Рік тому +4

    I found out my baby didn’t have a heartbeat this past Wednesday and I am devastated. But reading all of your experiences and how you all have had your rainbow babies it gives me hope. ❤️

  • @kyreniabell1605
    @kyreniabell1605 2 роки тому +1

    Aww crying for you, so sorry you have had to go through that, I have never been pregnant before, me and my partner have been trying for 5 years, we are now with a fertility clinic, and been given the go ahead for IVF, the road to being parents might not be easy for some but keep your head up, stay strong and know there is always people to talk to, sending you both the biggest hugs xx

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      It's not easy is it! So glad you've been given the green light

    • @kyreniabell1605
      @kyreniabell1605 2 роки тому

      @@Eltoria xxx

  • @courtneybutcher7823
    @courtneybutcher7823 2 роки тому

    It's actually even more common than you think. 1 in 4 pregnancies not 1 in 4 women. So odds are could be as many as every other woman (myself included). Awful awful awful but everything will be okay I promise ❤

  • @agatiki777
    @agatiki777 2 роки тому +1

    Happened to me as well last year. I was absolutely heartbroken. Anyway, I started an in-depth digging and based on my blood test results, I have a sticky blood and I am now on blood thinners and I have problems with absorbing folic acid and have to be on folate. I didn't give up and will never give up x

  • @asmaa4721
    @asmaa4721 Рік тому

    I just go through that today, It's to painful, but it's ok, I waited for this baby for like 4 years, It's really hard to go through this, I am feeling you too much today,

  • @jennarainford7159
    @jennarainford7159 2 роки тому

    My 1st pregnancy was a miscarriage, I was 17 still living at home and my dad was kind of urging me to have an abortion because the father bolted as soon as I told him. So I made an appointment (which I didn't want too but I was being told I'm too young, I won't have any money blah blah)
    I went to the appointment and they have the screen facing away from you to see how far along you are, I'm laying on the table and I asked her to show me the screen, she asked ate you sure? And then I seen my baby u was 9 weeks and I knew no I can't do this. So I got sent to a Councillor.
    Then at 18 weeks I started spotting, I was screaming at my mam to take me to the hospital but no one cared because of my age and she was like if your loosing it your loosing it the hospital can't do anything.
    So I went to my friends and I was sat at the back door smoking a cigarette one after the other and I was doubling over in pain... Then my friends mam said your miscarrying your in a kind of labour and took me up the hospital.
    I went to the hospital and got settled, they did a scan and confirmed I had lost the baby which I believe was a boy and scheduled me for a c section the next day.
    I felt like I needed a poo so I went to the toilet and I was squeezing so hard and screaming with every squeeze I was so scared I had no idea what was happening, the nurse was banging on the door let me in but I couldn't move then the placenta came out and the pain stopped.
    They still had to give me a d and c to make sure everything had come away.
    I got home and sat under the shower for hours crying, I had no one to comfort me.
    26th of January 22 he would of been 19 years old.
    I now have a 16 year old boy a 12 year old boy and a 3 year old boy, we're going to start trying again in june, hopefully I get a girl but I don't care either way as long as they're healthy.
    I've left quite a few details out, 1) so it's not really long and 2) because their not very nice memories
    You will go on to have more, keep your chin up and just know that next time it will happen XxX

  • @neeshapurvis9382
    @neeshapurvis9382 2 роки тому

    I just randomly come across your video, I am 27years old, and me and my partner have been ttc for nearly 6years with us having 5mc and 1ectopic and I am currently going through a mc now. I can't talk about mine at all. 💔 💔 I feel the same way that I have let my partner down xxxx

  • @pamparapapam
    @pamparapapam Рік тому

    I went to my ultrasound appointment and I was so excited, but there was a little embryo with no heartbeat 😢 I wanted to wait and have a natural misscarrige, I am waiting for 3 weeks already, some spotting started about 2 days ago, but there is not much bleeding. I wonder how long it will take, waiting is getting really hard for me..

  • @jeniilee8158
    @jeniilee8158 2 роки тому

    The NHS will give you a scan for free if you request it, I had my 12 week and 20 week one and asked just yesterday if I could have another one (I’m 28 weeks now) and they are always happy to do so

  • @thetoonfamily9066
    @thetoonfamily9066 2 роки тому

    There just is no where near enough support there should be for child loss. I was disgusted with the lack of support when I went through this. You would expect to be offered some sort of counselling. I also never spoke to anyone about it because anyone who hasn’t gone through it doesn’t really understand, I was being told it’s ok your still young you can try again or you’ve already got a daughter you don’t need anymore really. So sorry for your loss ELTORIA, each day gets better but you never forget. “I carried you for a moment but you will be loved for a lifetime”

  • @ChanzTales
    @ChanzTales 2 роки тому

    You must live close to me. I'd love to know where and if you had the same experience with thexearly pregnancy number as I did. If you need someone to talk to, message me xxxx

  • @amandadutcher5854
    @amandadutcher5854 2 роки тому

    I hope nobody makes any unneeded comments. I lost a baby and now I can't have another one. I have a beautiful girl and boy. My Mom and mother in were upset I didn't say anything. Thank you for sharing your story I feel like you're sharing mine and many woman's.

  • @theresaschuebel5151
    @theresaschuebel5151 2 роки тому

    Of my 4 sisters and I three of us have had one. My oldest Judy lost one between her youngest so and her daughter she has 3 kids. My baby sister lost 2 her first baby and a little girl between her son and oldest daughter. I lost my first one as well and I was pregnant with twins in my last pregnancy I lost one due to the fact that one stopped developing. My mom lost one between my 3rd sister and I. It may be normal but it still hurts. I still mourn those 2 babies, heck honey my youngest daughter told me at 12 years old that she feels guilty to be the surviving twin. I was almost 2 months when I lost my first.

  • @roxannerobinson9173
    @roxannerobinson9173 2 роки тому

    Its an awful experience, so heartbreaking. I went through 3 rounds of ivf the last one they implanted 2 embryos & was positive i was so happy as didnt think it was going to work but a cpl wks later the levels didnt increase. I didnt want to accept it hadnt worked so continued with the meds but then i started bleeding, clots etc, it really is the most horrible feeling knowing deep down its unsuccessful im sure i saw the sacs come out too. Im 36 so just really hoping at some point we have some luck, hope you do too! I continue to stay positive, tell myself maybe it wasnt the right time & believe it will happen when the time is right, stay hopeful ❤ xx

  • @tammyjohnson648
    @tammyjohnson648 2 роки тому

    I lost my baby at 14weeks pregnant. I absolutely broke down, I had to deliver my baby girl Harmony Rose.
    I have my rainbow 🌈 baby he is 7yrs old.
    My partner didn’t cry about our loss, I still blame myself and I think I’ve never spoken to much about her as I felt no one cared as my partner just didn’t care. I’ve had no support. I grieve everyday 😭😭

  • @yestovanilla
    @yestovanilla 2 роки тому

    Sorry to hear that 😟Don't loose hope🤗.my friend miscarriage s triplets..now she has a boy and a girl they go to school..other friend she lost her baby and 2 years later now has. a 7 months old boy 💙

  • @samanthahunter1759
    @samanthahunter1759 2 роки тому

    I don't know you but I wanted to hug you watching this. I'm so sorry for your loss and I think you are so brave for sharing your story.
    I don't know if you will find any comfort in this but I've had 4 miscarriages and I have also had 3 healthy children. Sadly we don't know too much about why miscarriages happen, give yourself time.

  • @Miss207
    @Miss207 2 роки тому

    there is an association that focuses on dads of miscarriage. they are dads from around the world offering each other supports. they offer support for the dads. maybe your fiancé is interested?

  • @justdanie7613
    @justdanie7613 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing something so vulnerable. I am sorry for your loss 🥺🙏🏾 i want to give you a hug

  • @joannejoiner387
    @joannejoiner387 2 роки тому

    Currently experiencing the dreaded wait to confirm if I've lost my baby. I've had heavy bleeding since Tuesday 10.30pm. I went to the hospital and baby was in the womb but no heartbeat. Bleeding got worse sounding exactly like your experience I have another scan booked for next Wednesday, the wait is horrendous.
    So sorry for your loss but just know your story is helping ❤️

  • @pendlelancashire
    @pendlelancashire 2 роки тому

    *When the law of abuse and effect, comes back to collect. No mischief goes ignored.*

  • @bethansaul7172
    @bethansaul7172 2 роки тому

    Hello I'm sooooo sorry this has happened to you or anyone we have recently suffered a missed miscarriage it was truly devastating!! We was 11 weeks and 1 day pregnant and we went to our private scab appointment and there was no heart beat and our baby had possibly had Downs syndrome 😢

  • @elladick3045
    @elladick3045 2 роки тому +4

    I love you so much I'm sorry this happened I've been through it trust me it gets better 💛

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому

      Im sorry to hear that it happened to you too xxx

  • @followthemoney9521
    @followthemoney9521 Рік тому

    I had a friend like you. She was so shocked she had a miscarriage… she even said to me “This isn’t supposed to happen to people like me” I’m like do I sense arrogance or am I tripping? Needless to say it’s a sad and humbling experience

  • @shonoo2009
    @shonoo2009 2 роки тому

    Did your Doc told why this happened? Reason for that ?

  • @siobhancoffey6240
    @siobhancoffey6240 2 роки тому

    I am so sorry to you, I had a miscarriage around same gestation beginning of last year and it broke our hearts, there isn’t enough professional support and I had the same with the midwife I spoke to, we were lucky to conceive again and I am currantly 35 weeks pregnant with are rainbow but it’s been so tough so if/when you are blessed please seek help and support because pregnancy after miscarriage is hard too, sending lots of love and light ❤️

  • @serenacarpenter4435
    @serenacarpenter4435 2 роки тому

    I'm so sorry that this is happened to you. It is very hard having a miscarriage I have had seven. I was 4 months along on each knowing that I had five boys and two girls. And finally one day I was blessed with a beautiful daughter she is now 15. Keep trying and have faith and stay strong. It is very hard emotionally and mentally and physically by talking about it it really helps. My heart goes out to you in this time.

  • @kirstchaplin2837
    @kirstchaplin2837 2 роки тому

    You will get over this does take time but I'm sure with support you will get through it and I'm sure that you will have a happy healthy baby next time xx

  • @GalwaygirlTravel
    @GalwaygirlTravel 2 роки тому

    Sending you love from another Angel Mum. Xx

  • @crichards3533
    @crichards3533 2 роки тому

    Bless you I truly hope your both healing now. I had a miscarriage without realising I was pregnant ( was told I would never be able to have children ) I was around 3 months pregnant. It was a complete shock! My periods were never regular so being late was just the norm. I had never experienced pain like what I went through the night it all happened! I took what I passed to the doctors who confirmed what I was holding wrapped in tissue was a foetus.
    Unfortunately I will never become a mom as I’ve had to have a full hysterectomy for medical reasons. I do think of what could have been but I do not dwell on it. I’m a mom to three feline babies.
    Your chance I’m sure will happen again. Lots of love to you Eltoria

  • @nicoladobson7161
    @nicoladobson7161 2 роки тому

    Thanks you for this video I have 2 miscarriage it was the hardest thing to go though I am so sorry for your loss x

  • @hollyjohnson2571
    @hollyjohnson2571 2 роки тому +1

    The timing on this video, I’ve literally just been through a missed miscarriage this week and it’s been the most heartbreaking and painful thing ever❤️

    • @Eltoria
      @Eltoria  2 роки тому +1

      I am so sorry to hear this babe but I promise it gets easier and it will happen one day

    • @hollyjohnson2571
      @hollyjohnson2571 2 роки тому

      @@Eltoria Thank you so much❤️

    • @shayleigh6019
      @shayleigh6019 2 роки тому

      ❤️

  • @tammraakhimiona768
    @tammraakhimiona768 2 роки тому

    I’m very sorry this happened to you. I’ve had 8 miscarriages and a stillborn daughter. I do not have any surviving children. I wish nothing but the absolute best for you & your hubby. May you be blessed with a beautiful rainbow baby soon.

  • @ednagordner9061
    @ednagordner9061 2 роки тому

    I’m so sorry for your loss, I lost my first baby at 4 months pregnant 28 yrs ago and it was so hard and still is hard some days. I have 2 wonderful sons.

  • @norwich208
    @norwich208 2 роки тому

    It's sound like you had the same thing I had when I lost my little one

  • @shelbyehrhardt8421
    @shelbyehrhardt8421 Рік тому

    Im so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago and my baby was supposed to be born on my birthday as well.

  • @meganc5273
    @meganc5273 2 роки тому

    It happens a lot especially if it’s the first pregnancy. I have so many family members that it happened to and they are on 2 plus kids. Give it time. Let the body heal and in no time you will have a beautiful baby. I know it will still never take away what happened and how you feel.

  • @SF-cj2hy
    @SF-cj2hy 2 роки тому

    I miscarried in February 2021, then fell pregnant again in July 2021 and now due April 2022!! It'll happen for you too!
    I bled for about 6 weeks and that was overwhelming.

  • @katiejasukow9122
    @katiejasukow9122 2 роки тому

    Omg I'm so sorry that's absolutely horrible stay strong keep trying to have a baby

  • @juliejones2991
    @juliejones2991 2 роки тому

    My name is Louisa Jones #saveneighbours tv show I love you