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00:00 Absolute train wreck
05:50 You have a WHAT?!
06:00 SOFI
12:00 She's doing nothing!
17:10 Just listen to me
20:39 Don't you dare blame your mom
27:30 "Work sucks... I know!"
29:55 Learn how to budget
33:28 Why are you even here?
34:40 Feeling dirty?
35:18 Show us your "home"
38:09 You make money on Twitter
40:13 BetterHelp
43:18 Are you THAT high?
46:14 All she does is beg
50:05 She chooses homelessness
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My dude, I love the content and I love how you’re so ruthless towards people who actually need a reality check, but the one thing this episode really bugged me was the state of your fiddle leaf fig in the back. Lol that baby needs some loving.
for your birthday i watched this video, you're welcome
Are you serious? I just bought the course 2 days ago at full price! Dang it. I’m using it to create a budget to pay off some terrible debts
I would love to see someone review your budgeting program
Happy belated birthday man!🍾 I think you'll hit your 1 MIL subs by end of month, let's f gooooooo 🎉
Hard to listen to someone who thinks it’s okay to abandon her daughter and live in a van. Props to Caleb for not kicking her out 15 minutes into the interview.
Truly disgusting woman. Laughing about having travelled around the US when she’s abandoned her child.
Facts I have a daughter and I could never imagine doing something like that. I’m sitting here with my daughter watching king fu panda and were laughing and just having a good time
she's living the Matt Foley life style. living in a van down by the river
She is trash. I usually don’t judge people on this show who are in need and are coming on here by their own volition, but I seriously don’t think she’s a good person
Who procreated with that landwhale
homeless with eyelash extensions is wild fr
right?! last thing i was thinking about when homeless was what i looked like unless it was how to get clean clothes and shower so i could go to work.
I don't think those super thick, catapillar lashes are a good look on anyone.
@@whosaidthat4299I agree
Yeah that was a choice, lol...especially when her fit is super casual. And she's homeless. With $90 in collections. But she saves money to buy alcohol every week.
Don’t knock someone while there down
Waking up in the morning and not wanting to go to work is not called a panic attack
Right? We all feel like that sometimes. It's normal
I usually have my panic attack on payday cuz I can't pay everybody.
@@MikeJohn-hh8no LOL
Ya it’s being lazy if you let it. Nobody wants to work.
Me going to the hospital bc I can’t breathe and thinking I’m having a heart attack is a panic attack. I doubt she was going through that lol
"Why, do I look **younger**?". I spat out my drink.
She’s even delulu about her looks. Not only does she look bad in general she looks MUCH older than 25
Rewatching this does it occur to me I bet she fuckin STANKS as well
The narcissism came out so quick
This girl is delusional on another dimension, like holy sh*t
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I don’t believe her mom is toxic. I believe her mom hassles her about working and being responsible and she calls that toxic.
Agree!
She said her mom was toxic, but also said her daughter was better off with her. She's lying about something here
Facts!
Surprised she didn't say she has narcissistic parents
Probably also the same reason the husband is toxic. He wants her to join him and get a job and is tired of being free storage.
I don’t have role models, I just see people like this girl and strive to be the opposite
A lot of anti-role models on this show like that
Me but people in my own family push me to not be like them. But she so far is up there with them.
Nothing wrong with anti-role models. At least if we learn from these people's mistakes then their mistakes have some value to the world.
Hahahaha😮
its like watching financial "hoarders". I put hoarders on to clean my house, then caleb on to do my bills.
“Im very good at networking”…..“Taking advantage of people’s kindness” 100%
That felt like her networking comments were implying SW.
@@therealcorebdefinitely got that vibe when she said she’d “pay them”
Her "travelling" is actually just her running from her warrant. Drives with drugs and alcohol in the car and in ber system, doesnt have insurance. Her doing doordash if definitely fradulent
Yeah wth, she must be registered as a bike? And she implied that she steals orders. Hows she not been turfed off that app yet lol
She is disgusting and worries me that this is a representation of the average attitude of her generation and the way they were raised
for doordash you dont need proof of insurance just proof of identity, theres a reason she doesnt use uber eats which does require it
wait till she finds out her months will be longer if she gets arrested and sent back. my cousin said yeah should have just served the two months like a grown up LOL
@@milkenthusiast9041 ohh okay thanks for clearing that up, I do uber etc but I'm not American so wasn't aware. That's crazy though
“I don’t believe in medication.”
*high as a kite*
Exactly.
Better not get sick or injured otherwise she's done for
Ya, self medicating is way more common than people realize. I had a psychology class back in college. The professor used to work in a hospital. He told me that most people that abuse cocaine have undiagnosed ADHD and are self medicating. That statement has stuck with me forever. So many drug abusers are in desperate need of real medical care but either refuse to get it, or can't get it for some reason.
@@mattbenz99 definitely common. Most homeless people have mental health issues and self medicate exacerbating their issues. It’s vicious.
@@mattbenz99 Its honestly really hard to get you have to see a doctor for most meds and visits are expensive. Same with the medication, some meds start at $250+/mo.
"I feel like i'm still young enough to make mistakes." Girl you got a criminal record.
The sooner jailed, the sooner released.
And a child.
Right lmfao mistakes are going to school for one thing and then changing your mind halfway through, not fleeing the fucking state to avoid prison and abandoning your daughter
Lmao
Driving on a suspended license isn't much of a record.
Not gonna lie my girl needs to become a trucker.
Omg facts! But I think she'll disappear or go off route with someone's stock on the first week on the job
No through Kansas though lol
She's irresponsible and not very trustworthy, so if i was a truck company, i won't trust her with a truck
If she won't stop smoking weed, she can't get a CDL to drive. You're not allowed to use ANYTHING other than alcohol (and obviously not while driving) with a CDL. My best friend's husband has one. I smoke for chronic pain, and was talking to him about getting a CDL to drive buses locally, but he told me it's either the CDL or weed. Doesn't matter if you're not driving when you're using, you can't have it in your system at ALL. So she'd have to stop smoking, and while it would probably be BEST for her to give it up, get a CDL and be a trucker, she might not be willing to make the sacrifice.
@@yoojinjan7664 Western Express will hire her
She's still begging for money on Twitter. She just went off on me today for suggesting she get a job.
That's not surprising.
yep then went absolutely mental on you for having actually decent and helpful suggestions 🙄
What's her @
@@belemcastro3393 localOnThe8
What is her handle?
"my daughter is in the spectrum, and my mom doesnt trust me" yeah, cause your daughter needs structure & specialists. You're moving from place to place and have no money; so no shit your mom doesn't trust you
I wouldn’t trust her taking care of a gold fish let alone a kid
She said even when she was making enough to take care of her child her mom didn't let her. So we shouldn't be so quick to judge her, we don't know what's going on in her life.
@@radius4914eeeh whatever
@@radius4914 i very highly doubt her mother’s distrust is primarily due to lack of funds. this woman is selfish, irresponsible, and completely unrepentant. not to mention she says she doesn’t want stable shelter that could comfortably house her daughter. and especially not to mention she’s a full blown felon evading a warrant!
@@radius4914 Don't be so quick to support her either, some people don't deserve the benefit of the doubt. If anything the fact she had the money but wasn't willing to spend it on rent shows that she is not responsible or mature enough to care for a disabled child.
The more I watch this show, the more I realize that the venn diagram of people who need serious financial help and people who need serious psychiatric help is a circle.
I forget who said this: "A man who cannot value himself also cannot value anyone else or anything he does." Good point you made!
Edit: Ayn Rand said it
I think the majority of these people use their “mental health” as a scapegoat to relieve them of any responsibility.
I made such great attempts at the beginning because I just knew I'd mess it up if wasn't extra careful. Then severe depression destroyed it all.
Being aware didn't help if I could afford the meds either.
@@themancalledx1342 most these people wouldnt even consider that they might have any mental health issues, just listen to what she says and how she says it confidently.
@@themancalledx1342 yeah doubt it seriously I think it’s a super ignorant take especially because if you have anything close to the mental health issues these people talk about you can understand how it gets that point still not excuse to run away from your responsibilities, but trust me, you do not understand the kind of headspace. These people are in when they’re making decisions like that.
Geez, this was a hard one to get through, Caleb. Props to you for not giving up on her during this. It was kind of you to not give up on her when she’s given up.
Oh god 😅
It is NOT abusive if he throws her shit out. That’s exactly what he should do. What’s abusive is her using him as a storage unit AND taking money from him
she’s choosing to mooch off people, drink, smoke weed, and travel instead of fixing her life or being there for her daughter. she’s beyond help.
She is the stereotypical liberal democrat voter.
@@beetlejuice424Bro has to make everything about politics.
@@richardw2801 sticking up for his girlfriend
@@beetlejuice424These damn liberals, am I right brotha?!
@richardw2801 well you can tell just by lookin at her and most of dems around her age act the same sooo he's just calling the kettle black
My jaw DROPPED when you started talking about her daughter. What the actual fuck. This is someone who keeps RUNNING from her problems
That really bummed me out too. And then she's talking poorly about her mom, when it seems the mom is the only thing keeping her daughter out of the system.
It almost made me wanna turn off the episode.
I’m getting the feeling this person does not want help and is taking nothing seriously at all.
Just another welfare recipient on the books for the taxpayers….
not sure if she’s running much💀
@@justinhenderson2708I almost did as well
"I don't eat a whole lot," returned with "I don't want to go down that rabbit hole" God Damn!!!
Capybara hole
I used to think Caleb was a little dramatic. Now I realize he is a much better person than me and beyond patient with absolutely horrible people.
The messed up part about this is that 2 months of jail would be the favorable option for her. 2 months of a roof over her head, 3 meals a day, free showers, free clothes, and at the end of it she gets to move back to Kansas
They may even have social programs to help her find a job and a room after the jail term.
THIS may be her best cost effective way to live 🤗 Maybe by her network of followers she can transfer to Kansas jail so she can look at the lanskapes through bars.
@@user-oh3ez5oo7z🤣🤣
It urks me when people say " free" . Nothing in life is free. Someone or something is always paying for it.
Not sure she's gonna be using these showers though
PSA: this woman and people like her are a case study for why you need uninsured/underinsured motorist coverage on your insurance. Don't let someone like this ruin your life when they hit you.
Seriously!! And she drinks and does drugs in the car, could cause a serious accident and injuries for other people
Guess I'm making a disgusted phone call today...
Uninsured drivers insurance was called out as the most cost effective insurance in my personal finance class years ago
Literally had this happen to us 1 month ago. Got t-boned and they didn't have insurance. But we still got barley any money for the totaled car and are having to pay for medical bills even tho we had full coverage. Can't bother going after them because they are obviously broke.
Thank you for making me double check that I do. (Whew!)
“I’ll do my best”
“What is your best? Do you even know?”
Caleb cutting straight to core of the matter with an offhand comment😂
She didn't show up to court because she didn't want to face the consequences for her actions. She drove down to Texas... I have zero reason to believe she has a valid driver's license. *When* she gets pulled over again, it's going to get worse. 🤦♀️
She must have since she buys alcohol.
She honestly belongs in jail. She’ll never be a functioning, let alone contributing member of society.
She just came as a "job interview". The "I want to work in Austin" and "I want to work with cameras". Yeah, I think she somehow thought youd offer her a job or give her money.
She's used to begging for money on Twitter, are you really surprised?
My thought exactly. She came thinking he was going to save her
She probably saw the episode where Caleb bought the one guy some supplies and wanted to get in on it. Props to Caleb for being able to see the difference between someone looking for handouts and someone who actually needs help
Thought the same
Well, she literally got paid to appear, so...
I’m damn near speechless. She’s one of the most self-centered, entitled, delusional person I have ever seen.
She abandoned her daughter. She uses everyone around her for money. She refuses to work. I’m just…every time I feel like I’m a shit person, I just need to rewatch this episode.
I wouldn't be surprised if she had a personality disorder.
how many times have you felt like a shit person in the last two days?
This channel has downhill, it used to be about auditing regular folks, but now he is going for the Jerry Springer style content.
@@Podzhagitel they say that everytime they feel like they're a shit person they just NEED to watch this episode. Context clues, dude, they're saying "in the future"
@@reallygoodgirl thanks! i had no idea!
I was homeless for 2 years with a heroin addiction for 10 years. It ws the worst 2 years of my life. I'm 5 years sober own a house two boats cars etc. It's possible. Don't give up.... This world is full of opportunities and before you know it, you will be 50 years old in a broken down car saying, "where did my life go." if I can quit heroin and obtain the life I want, you can too.
Now I know you weren't talking to me but this is such a nice comment to hear. I wss kicked out of my house after going to get psychiatric treatment. They said I was too much and I wasn't following their religion. They told me I had 3 months to get ready and figure it out but also said earlier that if I didn't have the talk with them they'd kick me out. So I just decided to leave after they called me a burden under god and themselves ans now I'm living with my bf. I moved in when I had known him for 1 month. I could only find a part time job at the time and to keep a good job record have stayed there. I could get a second job but I'm also trying to apply for college and help take care of my bf and his family. I won't get into details about his issues but his mom is in the hospital and has been for a few years. I'm trying to get my cna but with really stupid complications will have to wait till next quarter so I'm getting a second job/finding a new one because this one I can't become full time or go anywhere but stay a busser or try somewhere else. Due to recent illness I haven't been able to work for 2.5 weeks. It's a complete shitshow and the thing is im really working on getting it better. I might not be doing absolutely everything I can but thats because if I do I think by the time I get somewhere comfortable I will be fully burnt out. Burnt out to the point I'd do something I regret. I also can't keep living like this though so slowly I'm working at it. Trying to not take life so seriously because if I do I definitely will do something that my bf would always miss me for and I can't do thay to him. And honestly if it wasn't for him and my future kids I would have just quit by now. I'm only 19, I have so much life and that sounds so awful but so exciting. Because maybe something will change, maybe I won't feel guilty relying on people so much. Hell I even buy my bf gifts but I can't afford to live. I'm just like yeah, you're keeping me alive, here's a soda. Here's some sushi it's all I can afford. I bring home food from work every time I work, there's that. I need that cna certificate.
you're 5 years sober and have a house and two boats??? what do you do for a living and can I have a job??
She didn’t even appreciate caleb dedicating his birthday wish to her well-being! Man is an angel
"I'm young enough to make mistakes" if you know you're doing it it's not a mistake it's a choice.
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Thank you!! That sentence confused me so much. Mistakes are when something doesn’t go as planned, not choosing to throw your future away at every possible moment
And she stopped being “young enough to make mistakes” when she had a kid.
Not even trying to be mean but this is the type of person that won't learn until life has fucked em up one too many times. If they even still have a support system after they fall even farther, then they will have a chance at turning their life around, but only then. Reality slaps hard and that's just what some people need to grow up.
@@criticalt3most never learn
Her drinking in the car, with keys within reach is enough for the police to give her a DUI even if the car is parked, even if the bottle is not in her hand. This is probably the worst situation you’ve interviewed Caleb
You’re exactly right
especially in texas
Yep this happened to my coworker
Open container in most states is all you need to charge.
She's one welfare check while asleep in her car away from a DUI in whatever state she's in plus extradition to Kansas and then California. A nightmare waiting to happen
Caleb, you probably won't see this, but when she is talking about the financed vehicle that she cannot register, the problem is not that it is financed the problem is that she hasnt been paying the note at all so they are holding the title.
This woman has absolutely no desire to change. She's coasting through life on the kindness and hard work of others and until that stops there is no way she will change
caleb’s disgust when she tried to shade her mom when her mother has taken in her granddaughter despite an able bodied mother…i felt that deeply
imagine shaming your mom, who is actively taking care and raising your child while you aimlessly drive around the country begging for money with no aim or purpose in your life, and then being upset because your mom thinks "You can't take care of your child" ... 0 self awareness, 0 sense of responsibility, 0 ability to take accountability for her actions
The fact that she took a jab at her living in a hotel when SHE is living in a CAR!
Honestly, that kid is better off being adopted. That's no life to live. I don't care if blood relation is involved. Any fool can have a kid. It's being an actual parent that matters
@@sodA282 She can't, the fake eyelashes cover her eyes
(Everyone is joking about her weight, and whilst that's funny too, I had to point out how bad her makeup is... she also does not have the money for fake eyelashes... or piercings, etc)
Able bodied is debatable, I’m surprised her kneecaps haven’t shattered by now.
Caleb!! Something I’ve noticed is that people tend to just say “yes” when they don’t understand. I think you should start asking them to repeat the logic back to you in their own words. This will allow them to make sense of it on their own terms and make it more real and tangible, rather than letting them get away with it by just being agreeable!
This is a great idea!
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That's such a good point! I have the same thing at work, where I'll ask someone a complicated tech question, and they respond back yes before they could have possibly checked, and that usually means I have to reword my question so it's not a yes/no question.
That's called actively listening and it is a therapy approach. I agree it would be helpful here.
Good idea!
This is hard to watch. My sister is like this. She’s refused to work and has lost every good thing she had going for her. She lives with a family member who enables her with a broken down car. Her daughter does not live with her. I wish Caleb would yell at her and it would get through to her.
Having a family member like this is so hard. It puts such a burden on everyone else in the family, especially if a child has to be rescued from a bad situation. I’m crying watching this episode because it’s like watching my sister, and it hurts. People like this won’t wake up and see how they’re hurting everyone around them in addition to themselves. And then they wonder why their family isn’t nice to them.
❤ that sucks, sorry you’re going through that!
She reminds me so much of my sister that I had a hard time getting through the whole episode.
Imagine living in a car and not wanting to live in an apartment or house WHEN YOU HAVE A CHILD LIVING WITH SOMEONE ELSE because they think you are an unfit mother.
And that 'someone else' is their mother. O boi
@FableCountry who is also living in a hotel.
She describes her mom as toxic yet has her raising her daughter.
AND has the audacity to say her mom doesn't trust her! Of course, the mom doesn't trust her with her own child. She has a proven track record of unreliability.
She also said that her mom isn’t a good person, but isn’t her mom the one taking care of her child?
I feel like she was fishing for Caleb to giver her a handout and employ her. It goes with her whole personality.
totally agree. when she mentioned going to school for film/video production and somehow scraped the money together to see Caleb...
This! She was "hinting" at how she wants to work in Austin, how she does video and photography, it felt too obvious, yet her whole attitude is not going to help get her ANY jobs
My thoughts too
She’s a wanna be scammer but she’s not smart enough
I was thinking the same thing since he has been open about helping people out
I think it’s the first time i’ve genuinely been angry at one of these people because the irresponsibility and entitlement is wild.
When she says “if i don’t like to work then i won’t stick to it, i have anxiety” what does she think the rest of us are doing out here??? I have had times in my career where i was in a project i hated and would cry every morning while getting ready for the office AND I STILL DIDNT QUIT MY JOB BECAUSE I HAD RESPONSIBILITIES AND THINGS TO PAY
Shes admitted to smoking, but theres no dispensary charges/or transfers out to people. Shes doing shady stuff to survive. Also we all know how shes paying people to do car work for her...
Yes! Thank you. Her food payment wasn't making sense. She's doing other stuff as payment.
Weed ain't free
Dispensary charges wont show under visa / mastercard
@@asmrwzrd164 they would be cash withdrawals at least
@@asmrwzrd164Dispensaries, in my state of IL is only cash no cards.
Hello its me the brother or also known as based department. I have not watched this video because of the second hand embarrassment I get but from what I got from those who have seen this in its entirety and In this comment section its nothing but tragedy and delusions. Sad reality about this situation is that she wont change. Regarding the kid, my mom, my little brother and myself are taking care of her and she is in good hand with us. My mom is a good person but they cant get along so she doesn't see it that way. I would like those who are digging into my sister to please not include me or my family, things are starting to look up for us and I would hate for this to impede on our progress we have made.
No idea if you are actually the brother but if you are I hope you and your family keep going into a life that is looking up for you all and keep taking care of that little girl! I hope watching this video and reading the comments don't discourage you and your family. Separate yourself from this toxic behavior and keep moving forward!
@@tiffanybrown7147 I appreciate the kind words. my niece is everything to us and we're absolutely taking the best care of her that we possibly can, we love her. As for all the comments mentioning CPS...no, there is no need, she is in the best hands as she can be and this is causing unnecessary stress on all of us.
Hey dude, I would highly recommend not sending ur sister anymore money. She needs to learn that she HAS to face the consequences of her own actions.
I’m glad your niece is growing up alright despite all this
Damn bro that sucks I only want to laugh at her I hope you guys get kept out of the drama imma dig into later
Imagine going on camera on a hugely popular show and admitting you have a warrant out for your arrest
Kansas City won't pay for extradition so she's safe
She has multiple lmao
@@jerrystauffer2351 well I did see on UA-cam Judge Webster from the state of Kansas along with police help locate and arrest another person with a warrant from a driving issue who lied about her location claiming she was in Alaska while being in Colorado. I mean, it's possible if they want her bad enough.
22:23 baby you don’t have a choice…and then talks about wanting to be in media wit a degree she didn’t finish to get
I would be surprised if the IRS and law enforcement agencies weren’t all subscribers to Caleb at this point. Between everyone with warrants and/or admitting to not paying their taxes, you’d think Caleb was a honeypot,
This isn’t a budgeting show anymore… the ones I’ve seen are all people who just don’t want to work but want high income. What is this world coming to?
To be fair I'd love a high income job where I didn't have to work very hard. If it exists, someone let me know 😅😅
As a father to a child on the spectrum, this was so hard to watch. As a parent in general, how do you just not care about taking care of your child.
She seems neurodivergent herself. I hope she gets help, clearly she is not mentally well.
“My mom is a toxic, terrible person”. ….. Yet you’re having your kid live with her?
Something tells me her mother is probably rational and reasonable, that's why they don't get along.
I'm wondering why the dad in Pennsylvania doesn't have custody or care? Poor kid. At least, send grandma money for child.
41:32 says it all.
@@user-tl8zt9yz6oexactly. Grandma is the real person here who needs the help
Cycle of bad parenting. Im terrified for that little girl
I kinda prefer the episodes where Caleb audits someone's finances, and not the ones where broken sociopaths get platformed.
I actually love both for different reasons. The actual audits are informative, and can help people recognize their own financial patterns/pitfalls. When it comes to episodes like this one, that is so outside of my personal experiences, I watch it almost sociologically. It shows a way of life within my own society that I have never seen or experienced. It has been one of the most eye-opening things I have ever watched.
Older episodes were a bit more informative
Yeah I prefer videos that are more informative. I hope this channel doesn't devolve into Jerry Springer "freakshow" guests who are here just to be a trash fire spectacle
@@MultiCosmosis there's not much more he can inform the audience on, so that would be boring
I do too. So many of the recent people haven't had or known their finances. It's just Jerry Springer on UA-cam.
She was my friend on Facebook and I saw alot of this first hand. Cannot feel bad for her.
“I love Kansas”
Caleb: “I don’t think anyone has ever said that in their life” 😂
Maybe Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz
Kansas gave me anxiety. Miles and miles of wheat fields. I love trees.
The poor daughter. Mom lives in a car and grandma lives in a hotel 🤦🏽♀️ all kids deserve parents but not every person should be a parent smh
That kid should be a ward of the state and put into a foster home, preferably with a family that has their own biological kids and a knowledge of how to properly take care of a kid. These people sound like absolute trash, and the daughter is probably going to go down the same route. Single mother with a life in shambles by 25. Absolutely a shame.
"I can't justify spending $1400 a month on rent" shows exactly how much she cares about her daughter. This is a tough watch.
As the husband of a teacher, oh boy... It's *bad* !!!
This comment is FACTS
Texas has hotel rentals that are like apartments. They have ovens, fridges and etc so hopefully that’s where they are living. The grandmother seems to care because they are moving into an apartment which is what matters. She doesn’t care about her daughter at all
"I have anxiety, any time I have to do something I don't like I panic."
I have a 15-month-old who has the same problem.
Literally. When she described "I'll get a job, and then some day I'll wake up and not feel like going in and it stresses me out" WELCOME TO BEING A HUMAN
The problem I have with many of these people who advocate for mental health awareness is that they validate feelings too much.
Her feelings are not valid. Doing things that you don’t like is called being an adult.
I make a very good living and I’ve reached millionaire status before age 40. Do people like this think I like having to do all of the things I do to get here? I’d love to sleep in until noon, eat like crap, and play video games all day. But I have to wake up, I have to put in at least 8 hours at my desk, I have to eat a proper diet, and I have to exercise. After all of that, you can still have 3-4 hours to do whatever you want. We aren’t on this planet in order to mindlessly consume.
Same
I remember a quote I think that was loosely on the topic of gentle parenting, which is that everyone needs to be taught how to handle distress, because life is distressing! I think about that a lot when people come on who are just avoiding their problems and then say it gives them anxiety. We all experience discomfort around difficult things, that’s not what anxiety is
@@hornetguy9063Of course not. We're on this planet to fulfill our true purpose, which is delivering healthy dividend. Obviously
😂😂😂 “have you ever done a responsible thing in your life” has Bianca Del Rio vibes “what do you do successfully?”
quickly
my heart breaks for the child who is going to grow up wondering why her mother abandoned her and prioritized all these terrible decisions over her.
Completely lost respect for her when she abandoned her daughter and only cares about “traveling” and “fun”. Kudos to her mother for stepping in.
@@Romerix11because you wanted the dog, not saying its right or anything but who said she wanted the child?
@@Ricciroc It's called birth control... if she didn't want it then she shouldn't have made one.
@@Romerix11 thats what you would do because you care. she clearly doesn’t so expecting her to go above and beyond for a child when she wont even do it for herself is wild.
@@Riccirocit could have aborted it
well the mother failed her daughter, it is only right that she steps in to take care of her granddaughter after failing miserably, unfortunately she'll probably fail the granddaughter too.
I think “my mom is not a good person” is code for she won’t put up with my crap and calls me out for my selfish, self destructive choices.
“My mom is toxic”
“My mom isn’t a good person”
“My daughter is better off with my mom”
Girl WHAT
@@Nashville4N6 yeah, doesn't take a genius here to figure out what's going down. Hilarious that she thinks she's in the right here. But also sad. I feel bad for everyone in her life, especially her mom and daughter.
Not always you shouldn’t throw away the baby in the bathwater. There’s some bad and good parents. That doesn’t mean hers is bad or good. You’re just making assumption because you don’t like her, I don’t like her either but I’m not gonna say her mother is or not toxic we don’t know that
@@Sibbyym I’m just connecting dots. She’s a completely irresponsible adult who blames everyone else for her problems. I’d need some evidence to see why her mother is awful because all signs point towards this woman being the problem. Gonna go out on another limb and say when she got bad grades in school it was because the teachers hated her. She just seems like the type.
@@Nashville4N6you let a woman talk long enough she’ll tell ya the truth on accident
it always cracks me up when someone says they "don't believe in medication or therapy" but will say they have anxiety. How do you know you have anxiety if you have never seen a therapist/psychiatrist? I have yet to meet a person that calls therapy and/or meds useless or stupid who hasn't desperately needed it lol.
If their condition is treatable then they can't use it as an excuse any more, so they simply refuse to accept that treatment exists
The whole "do I really want to go" is not anxiety... or panic attacks. I have major anxiety and panic disorder from ptsd and I still run my business. Even when I am dizzy and going to pass out from the attacks, I do it. Sounds like a lack of drive!
This episode really shows me that having a stable job IS good for anxiety. It's not just paychecks, it's seeing the same people every day, having the same responsibilities everyday, going to the same place everyday. Even though career progression takes work, risks and projects, it's just so much MORE reliable and consistent to just go to work rather than bump around in a car from debt to debt and substance to substance
My sister works in tourism, sees all kinds of different people, her hours are crazy and very dependent on season and the tourism sector in Spain is absolutely precarious with very short term contracts.
I work in tech and as you said, work the same hours every week, see the same people, know what to expect from my responsibilities, i am a permanent employee etc… and i can’t put in words how much inner peace and mental stability having a decent stable job can bring you in general. My anxiety is at an all time low, and when i compare it to my sister’s, i kinda guess why she’s so stressed and sensitive all the time, she simply doesn’t know what to expect nor can plan for anything
Every single point you made there is a reason why I hate working/jobs and why I want to do my own thing. I can't stand any of that
I was doing good, felt good and liked my job, got laid off and was unemployed for about a month. I started having so much anxiety but wasn’t really thinking about anything specific just in general. Then I got a new job that’s great 10x better than my old one and after the first couple days I felt great again. It’s crazy how your mind works.
Eh, swings and roundabouts. My 9-5 is horrid for my anxiety. Its too samey that my body finds things to be worried about. I'd much prefer something a bit more irregular that I really believe in that has real things to focus on.
I could do something a little more stressful
That said, unemployment is not the vibe for anxiety. Having some structure is good, even if it's not consistent.
Idk bumming around and substance abuse sounds far more appealing than an office job 😂
Finding out she has a kid escalated this situation from silly and embarrassing to downright despicable.
"My mom thinks I'm not mature enough to take care of my own child because she's on the spectrum" which is then followed up eventually by "Oh I don't believe in taking medications and I don't think therapy actually helps". Her mom is correct, from an autistic adult's perspective, she is NOT fit to care for an autistic child
thank you for being unfiltered. thank you for saying EXACTLY what we all wanted to say.
Future 27 club member right there if she doesn’t change, easily.
She refuses to work, sponges off random people and apparently gorges on a mixture of fast food, pot, and alcohol, dodges warrants from multiple states, and lives on the road in her deathtrap of a car. She claims her mom is "toxic" but was more than happy to dump her autistic daughter on her. It's obvious who the toxic one really is. I truly feel for her little girl and hope she has a better life with grandma than she ever could with "mom."
Birthing person at this point.....
@@austinjacobsen7689stop trying to make everything political, nobody uses that term, not even most wokies
@@gleebybooer”nobody uses… not even most…” so some people do use it then
@@basictrainer I’m talking about real life not internet
@@gleebybooer so people do use the phrase unlike what you said. Interesting.
She doesn’t do doordash with a suspended license and no insurance. She just uses that as a “yeah I’m totally working” shield.
IF ANYTHING she probably door dashes under someone else's name, I've heard of ppl doing this. either way its so sketchy.
Actually yeah that could be some of the cash app payments. 🤔
@@yoyoyosiieI recently heard about people doing that, they sign up and let someone else use their name and app, and that person gives them a percentage! Not sure how true that is but . . people with no license? Bad driving record? Illegal citizen?
They say they are riding a bike to get around putting their insurance and license information. I had 3 drivers all say they were arriving on a bike on 1 recent order.
@@chellabella5707in densely populated areas like here in DC, it's completely viable to do food deliveries on a bike. It's called "Bike Dashing." Don't get me wrong, I'm not supporting her, but simply playing the devil's advocate here
I’m honestly not shocked. I knew her when I was younger. And I saw over socials literally half of this she’s talking about. She hopped through so many relationships I remember seeing her talk about her daughter then she went fucking ghost. Seeing her like this is honestly so sad. I hope she can turn this shit around
I was stressing out about my financial situation but this one made me look like a financial wizard.
Honestly, she needs to sit in jail for a few months. She is perfectly comfortable doing nothing, abandoning her child to a mother that she says is “toxic”. The poor child. This gal is selfish beyond belief. People need to stop giving her money. I have no sympathy for people that are too selfish not to get car insurance, as my children and I drive on those same roads. Sickening.
The time spent in jail detoxing from drug use, even something as supposedly mild as marijuana, will definitely be enough to give her the wake-up call. She is living in a high haze.
When he said she has a daughter, I lost it. So you can afford to smoke weed, but your daughter is living in a hotel?
I’m sure that money sent by her “husband” was meant for the daughter that she doesn’t even take care of.
For real, I hope the husband takes this to the court and gets custody of that kid. He’s probably no prize either. But at least he works.
I doubt that is his kid. Probably from a different relationship.
She sure has plenty to eat for herself...
What did you lose?
It's the same husband that was living off her while he didn't want to work... Not sure he's much better on the long run 😅
As a parent myself, It’s wild that someone like this brought an offspring into the world just to pawn her off to her mom.
Caleb I absolutely Love your personality bro, I love how you look out for other people who need someone to yell at them and you even go the extra mile man, what you do Is Awesome
It's heartbreaking to see someone prioritize their own desires over the well-being of their own child. I hope that little girl finds stability and love in her life.
Bro why does your channel have 1.2M subs but no videos?
@@theuser810There’s one video there. That’s so weird right? Maybe she deletes them.
@@chrisp9046 I swear the profile picture was different this morning, it was of an ethereum logo.
@@theuser810 That’s weird. Is it a bot account with a bunch of bot subscribers? 😅
@@chrisp9046 Yep, sounds like it. The video is actually from another channel and has more dislikes than likes lmao.
“You’re an adult now” - a lot of us need to hear this. My therapist said it to me when I was 30. You can’t say “boo my childhood or boo my mental health” and make zero effort to grow or fix it. We believe in you, but you gotta get up!
Exactly. Because otherwise you are the person that was the bad spot in your life. Imagine the issues her daughter will have now because of her.
damn can you be my life coach. This was so kind
You're an adult when you hit the age of a legal adult. I hate people that think "I'm in my 20s, I'm still young"
@snakabuz there's literally scientific papers written about the fact that the adolescent stage is being extended. It's a combination of a lot of things so feel free to look it up if you want the specifics.
Like I don't disagree with you in principle about people needing to be more responsible for themselves and their choices, but characterizing it as "well your 18 so you're a fully fledged adult now good luck" is a shitty take.
You're right. Many adults have trauma from earlier years. That's been the case for all of human history. At some point, you have to suck it up and move forward. If you can afford therapy, do it to help you move on with life.
I can barely handle the stress just watching these vids, i wish you the best caleb I’m genuinely surprised that your hair hasn’t gone sheer white with stress.
did she just come on a show and say she is running from a warrant??? Also she doesn't care about having a kid if she wants to live in a car and just traveling.. I feel sorry for her daughter.
"Yes, KC police Chief? I have some helpful information for you" Wild
“I’m going to Georgia right after this”
@@fleshy420???? There is no reward
@@Moon_Presence is this you on the show?
@@Moon_Presence Never heard of crimestoppers?
She says her mom is toxic and not a good person, yet she is taking care of her daughter because she is too lazy to put herself to work.
Both could be true.
Nope. I don't believe what the people qho come on here say about their parents.
They never take accountability for their actions. It's easier to blame someone else because the self reflection would make them explode.
@@MPPG663yes, at some point one has to take accountability. However, a parent has an outsized influence in how children develop life skills because they’re responsible for raising children into adulthood. If the parents don’t set them up for success in that sense, this is the end result and it will be that much harder for them to reverse course once they are adults.
@TheFireGiver if her mom is that toxic then she should be working her ass off to get her daughter out of her mother's custody wtf
You show some respect!!! A land beluga whale in the wild all alone . These type of whales evolved from water whales too quickly some say it’s an evolution wonder .
"What even is your best? Do you even know?" That is a hard truth that I think she needed to hear.
"I have panic attacks cuz of work. I wake up some mornings and say do I REALLY want to go in?" - That not a panic attack. That's utter and complete self coddling LAZINESS pure and simple.
It's amazing how I don't even need to hear about someone's finances.. I can see just by looking at someone that they have no self control. And it's amazing that just about everyone on this show appears to have the same degree of a lack of self control.
“Working sucks though. I don’t like to work. But if I don’t like it I won’t stick with it.” That’s not anxiety - that’s a lack of discipline and sense of responsibility. Mental health is no joke, so don’t use it so flippantly and conflate the the issue at hand.
This.
Most people don't like to work ...lol.
@@deirdrekiely6187 Yes, but most suck it up and work to pay their bills. She has a daughter she isn’t supporting and that’s not funny.
@@deirdrekiely6187 meh i dont get this, sure when u arent there its not like im raring to get into work but when im there and working away you go into a wee trance state and it can be very peaceful.
Everything she does follows this mantra. She doesn’t like Eating healthy and exercising and so she doesn’t do it. She even already has a planet fitness membership and nothing but time but yet doesn’t take control of her obesity.
Her car isn't just a danger to her, but everyone else on the road. If she did cause an accident, the other people would be screwed because she's uninsured. In addition to not caring about her daughter's life, she doesn't value anyone else's life either.
that uninsured motorist part insurance covers
@@smalltheresa1 it does but had this happen to me 1 month ago. Not my fault at all got t boned and they totaled the car didn't give us much for it and were actually having to pay for some medical bills.
Not only uninsured, she has brake* and axle* problems. It's illegal to drive around knowing of these problem.
@@smalltheresa1it does but not all insurances do full coverage, you have to make sure you specifically ASK for it. It’s not something that it’s handed to everyone when they get insurance. I used to be a paralegal at a law firm (now becoming a law enforcement officer) and I can’t tell you the times many people failed to have uninsured motorists. Most car accidents are caused by people who don’t have insurance so you get screwed if you don’t have it. People need to be more aware of it.
Yes this!!
Discovered you on tiktok really like your videos. Great content man
Even through my opiate addiction, my life has never been like this. My my attitude towards bettering my life has never been this bad.
I feel like she wanted Caleb to offer her a job. She hinted and pushed multiple times that she started film school, that she edits videos, and that she wants to work in Austin
Could have worked if she also wasn’t complaining about working at the same time😂
did she really think he was gonna take pity on her and offer her a job? she is clearly $CAMMIN 😂
Well it doesn’t help when you’re potential employer views you as a pathetic and selfish stoner
I was getting that feeling too! But obviously she's too delusional to see it's not going to happen
I guess it went over my head due to how insane the request is. Showing up smelling like weed, fleeing criminal record, and disregard for her daughter. How completely and utterly shameless.
Has a daughter but says her first priority is traveling without a second thought. And wonders why her mother won’t give her the kid.
saying her moms a toxic, genuinely bad person then right after saying her daughter is better off with her mom………………. fascinating!
Jesus, from my job, I’ve seen ppl who don’t have the luxury of dumping their kid or having a caring person to take care of their kid because they are irresponsible . Nothing pisses me off more than kids who suffer as the result of their parent who brought them in this world.
You're 25?? "Why do I look younger?"....... No lol
this.
🤣🤣
Better than a SNL skit lol
😂😂😂
LOL 😂
“I don’t like working” yes, that’s why it’s called work and not fun
As my associate is fond of saying "If work didn't SUCK, they wouldn't have to PAY you to DO IT!".
I really like my career. Not lying! At least once a week I have a GREAT time at work, and the rest of my time is anywhere from tolerable to enjoyable! But my time off is MUCH more enjoyable. I absolutely agree that Americans are generally overworked and underpaid, and drawing boundaries with your workplace is good (declining unplanned overtime without compensation, not working without pay, demanding basic respect like legal breaks that you actually get to take, etc.). But refusing to work at all is weird to me. Some of the most enjoyable jobs I've had have been part-time casual, like a second job. If I were to take 2 or 3 of those, work 15-20 hours each, I could make a decent schedule and life, and make good money. I wouldn't let a sup guilt me into working over ("sorry, I have other plans"), work was left at work, and everything was scheduled at least a week in advance!
@@toda2638what do you do? Asking as someone who is in college and has no clue what to major in lol
Work can be fun if you find the right job and the right people. It seems some people have forgotten that bit.
One of the hardest hurdles that pretty much every single person (aside from those who for whatever reason don't need to work and those that enjoy what they do) on planet earth has to get through is the understanding that the world will keep turning and money will keep being needed regardless of your attitude or willingness to work. What I do isn't that hard but physically takes a toll and literally every morning I wake up thinking "shit, not this AGAIN" but we've all gotta do it!!! I don't know how's she's kidded herself into thinking that her not wanting to work means she can just avoid it, especially with big plans for moving and having a daughter
It’s insane to me that the child wasn’t even mentioned by her until like half way through
I can see why her mom wouldnt want her to have the child. Finances aside, she doesnt believe in medication and thinks therapy is a waste of time. She said her daughter is in the spectrum, so these things might help her a Lot - but her mother probably wont approve.
Holy shit my heart broke when I found out she's a mom. Like none of her ambitions ever mentioned her daughter. God, that poor kid. Not only does she have bad influences, but I can't imagine she'll grow up without abandonment issues. Also, she says her mom is a terrible person... like why the fuck are you letting thus "terrible person" raise YOUR kid!? Jfc
She’s not a mom, she has a daughter. Big difference in my opinion
more so for who had the courage to sleep with her...
@@felipefn88So harsh! ❤
Right! Like I'd feel sympathy for her if she was in a bad financial spot but was clearly trying to earn money & be better for her kid
The whole interview and she never mentioned her child or wanting to turn her life around for the benefit of her child. It was all about her and what she likes and wants. She doesn't deserve to be a mother, the poor child
This is by far the saddest and most depressing episode I’ve watched. To be 25 years old with a child and being content with not working, collections, debt etc…is disheartening.
I hope her daughter has a wonderful life and doesn’t allow her upbringing to send her in a negative spiral.
First time I’ve actually been on the verge of tears during an audit. So sad.
There are a few episodes that are impossible to watch and this is one of them…nothing about her actions say she wants help in any way possible
I rolled my eyes so much I think they're permanently stuck in place.
She really went from 'My mom doesn't think I can take care of my autistic child' to 'I don't like to work and I want to travel in a van'.
Yeah obv the mum is right and she can't look after a child, which is harder than working a job as it's 24/7
@@sheviperplus the fact that you need a job as well lol, shes at the mental age of like a 16 year old maybe
Caleb was too nice. I would've lost my shit. She acts like she is living her best "van life" traveling the country, but left her daughter with mom who she says can't even care for her daughter.
Autistic kids really need routine and stability more than neurotypical kids. Her "van life" is 100% a bad idea for her kid. Her kid is at least better off with grandma than with her mom.
@@anarcatzI was a lot smarter than this at 16. Maybe an 8 year old.
As someone who had a daughter at 19, sacrificed a lot to make sure my daughter has a good life by finishing school, working, and still being a single mom (at the time), this pisses me off so F****** much! I work with kiddos that are on the spectrum with parents that are single and they are doing all they need to for their kid. Your kid is always priority!!! You don’t get to say “I’m young and get to make mistakes.” You gave up that privilege when you decided to give birth.
baby daddy?
Congrats. How old is she now?
All things she said just makes her lazy, she doesn't want to take accountability or responsibility for anything. Thinks living a drifter life is 'awesome' and 'ok'
Sadly, having to give birth is not necesarrily a decision in some states anymore..
@@cyndeya Oof. Too real.
Gia has the mental and emotional age of 10. Scatterbrained. She's just in the moment. Too selfish to be a parent. Thankfully her young daughter has stability and nurture from her grandmother. Kudos to the grandmother for taking on child rearing responsibilities, especially a child with a disability. The young child could so easily have entered into foster care with strangers.
My son has Autism and l know every day there is a spotfire to put out - a meltdown because of a trigger or sensory overwhelm.
I'd be having panic attacks if l had to live in my car.
Gia came on to raise her Twitter profile and 30 seconds of infamy.
Immaturity is a curse.
Sad.
It’s crazy to see other people that live in their car bc I use to be in this situation and it was the best time of my life. Paid off two credit cards and got an apartment within two months. Grinded hard af. Survived off of apples, packaged tuna,rotisserie chicken and bread.
Gave me so much time to reflect and plan.
Did a lot of hiking, journaling, and WORKED LIKE CRAZY
Also kicked a gnarly sugar addiction. The first day I moved into my apartment I treated myself to a subway chocolate chip cookie and felt so sick afterwards 😂 anyway I’m trauma dumping. But if you’re living in your car think of it as a clean slate. Plz don’t give up.
As a dad soon to be 25 this is disgusting behavior. Truly haven’t disliked somebody on the show until today, just shameful.
The guy who invested in crypto based on astrology was really unlikable and Caleb abruptly ended the show because the guy was just trying to plug stuff and get some clout
I was thinking the same thing. This episode was seriously infuriating for her child. Who would have their child raised by someone they think is toxic and a bad person. I feel so bad for her child.
yeah she's genuinely detestable
@@Alex-nh7clthat one was equally infuriating
u should watch the guy who has a degree in information systems
The way my jaw DROPPED when they said she has a child. I'm livid.
I was thinking the whole beginning "Geez, at least she doesn't have kids." and then they dropped that ... horrible.
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SAMEEEEE How awful 😞
Congrats on 1 million Caleb!
As someone who used to be a father and no longer am a father, seeing someone have a daughter and want nothing to do with her should be a crime.
You'll always be a father, regardless of where your children are. Thinking of you ♥️
Aw man that's so heartbreaking. You're still a father, keep your head up bro!
...she might not have really wanted her to begin with. Can't make anyone be a parent.
@@kiaharper7172 she abandoned her daughter 3 times to live with her estranged lover. But threatened me with death and legal action and kidnapping if I tried to be there for the daughter in that time. It was a control thing. Not a love thing.
@@MossyOakFreak no honey, I was talking about the chick in the video... not your situation. Sorry, I wasn't clear.