WOMEN'S DELUSIONS!
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- Опубліковано 19 тра 2024
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In this video, I delve into the various delusions women have about polygyny.
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I care about women’s rights & polygany is a woman’s right. It would eliminate so many societal issues.
Average is NOT acceptable. This way is more honorable than just spending time whoring around. I support this video.
Average is NOT acceptable... I feel honoured to listen to the OPR family. Bringing back dignity to the family structure
Ameen, average is Not Acceptable!
I am a Muslim woman, I so enjoy your content and completely agree! You broke down the true physical nature of the man and woman, Alhamdulillah! Allaah has made polygyny permissible, who would know and understand the nature of man better than Allah the One who created him, None!
There are so many beautiful reasons for us to have co-wives! You and your blended family is one of the best and beautiful examples I have come across . And if we would focus more on our reward with Allaah (azzawajal), we could overcome our jealousy.
May Allaah(the Most High) reward you and all of your family! Aameen
Another great presentation. I watched and listened to the whole video and I'll view it again as well as share it. Average is Not acceptable!!
Big ups my guy. I’m on what y’all are. Keep it up.
Average is NOT Acceptable
Very well thought out discussion, brother.
Okay I’ve increased my vocabulary 😂. Truly now I know the differences.
🤣😂🤣 the more you know! Congrats, we all learned from somewhere 💪🏽
Average is NOT Acceptable! Continue your amazing mission. Всех благ!!!
I dated a guy briefly who wanted polygamy, but I know it’s not something I want. But this video did help me understand it more so thank you for that. Wish your and your family peace and happiness
nice screen name
If he’s not an honorable Muslim man who can’t afford to put you into your own home & fully provide for you as a second wife… RUN 🏃🏽♀️!!! I’ve seen masjid where FAKE Muslim African & African American men lie to trap 🪤 women into poverty pimp situations. Or Arabs that trap 🪤 revert women who are uneducated in the Deen into secret 2,3 🤫 wife situations. We don’t respect these men. There needs to be more done to publicly expose these kinds of lecherous men lurking at our masjids.
Watched entire video. Completely agree. Average is not acceptable AT ALL! Wanting to build my family, but need to get a few pieces in place in order to do so.
Glad to see you're being practice and getting things in place FIRST. 💪🏽✊🏽👑
I've been saying this for years in many different poly spaces. With a lot of women, I usually get the general disingenuous questions and no answers to my questions. I still have friendly debates and discussions regarding Polygyny here and there, but I tend to meander away from the pointless debates regarding this. I agree with you %100 brov.
Average is Not acceptable. Asé
I just got grilled in a forum for stating the possible desire to do so. I stated that I am not currently ready to provide financial freedom for 2 wives, nor the time given my job. I dont see it happening for years. But that doesn't mean it cant happen. Though I'm young, 23 and married, as a man while I can acknowledge I dont have the facilities, I absolutely can acknowledge that I have the mindset, emotional maturity, and romantic capacity to safeguard and care for women. I have the drive to do so, and I do the best I can already
I know i need to be better in order for it to become a reality. That has to count for something. Men are different, we always want to be better than we were the day before, so I aim to keep growing, and if there comes a time where I am able to provide well for 2 families, I will aim to do so. My capacity for love and communication is over par, i just need to match that with the material and my temporal, and that comes with time and effort. Working on what I have now to excellence is what will open up doors in the future. Average is not acceptable
Average is not acceptable
I'M TRIGGERED !!!!..Joking...... cool video and I'm in agreement....average is not acceptable
Average is not acceptable. Tks for your knowledge. Shalom!
So grateful for this content! AMEEN , Average is NOT Acceptable!
Well put together video
Average is not acceptable,whoring around is not a way to go and when it comes to what you said about women biologically that's the truth and people must stop being delusional and I've been trying to make people understand this life style but the conditioning is a problem and I've been on this journey with my significant other who would not or who won't allow it period.But thanks for the knowledge and wisdom may Allah protect and provide for you and your family,all the way from South Africa 🇿🇦
Liking the content. Look forward to seeing more.
Good to hear and I appreciate that.
🎉Thank you for speaking on this. People are so very disrespectful & brainrotted these days. Just because I’m Muslim, they ask vulgar 🤯questions like, “ Do you all sleep in the same bed 🛌?!” Instead of going to a masjid & asking an imam, they assume the grossest 🤮 things. I don’t even have a husband & they ask sick questions like that. 😒Yet, they don’t question their pastors about men of the bible having multiple wives.
Sadly, honor and dignity is a strange thing which many people have no desire to experience.
Although I accept and respect polygyny. It is difficult for a man to fulfill the Islamic conditions and I don't want to practice it. For me one wife and children are idea. But I do understand that there are exceptions when polygyny is a solution.
This is true and why we say polygyny is for exceptional men and men should strive to become exceptional and outstanding so they qualify even if they don't intend to practice it.
@@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Haven't watched the video yet but it totally agree it's for exceptional men - its no easy thing.
I awe of the this type of people who have money & time but don't think to foster care a special child or even a normal child. Don't want to volunteer in Syria & Gaza & in their community. Don't want to pray whole night in prayer & day in zikr. Like, how they manage their work, prayers & multiple wifes & children uh what a materialistic life it would be .
Who are you talking about 'this type of people?" Be clear.
I will do polygamy soon, in shaa Allah.🎉
Average is not acceptable. I truly believe it now for 10 years. Thank you.
Lot of good points in there; i'll be honest, I learnt some things.
Average is not acceptable 👍🏿☝🏿
Amin brother. Average is NOT acceptable
The PH of a polyandrous woman gotta go crazy 🤧
@coleensmith1663 no it doesn’t that’s a myth… A shower washes us clean of any fluids but doesn’t for a woman
@coleensmith1663 unfortunately most people look at the salacious nature of sleeping around and compare it to being sexual within marriage, where there are guidelines, trust and understanding.
What a vulgar thing to say! People have lost all their personal dignity, manners & decorum.
Well. That's 16 minutes of my life I'll never get back. And to think I came with such an open mind😢
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Average is NOT Acceptable 🙏
Great content, is this life acceptable to those who are past child bearing years? I feel that honoring multiple wives should be. I am basically asking about those women who cannot find a suitable mate but would still like the covering of a man that honors them as co-wives. Id love to hear some feedback. Shalom
Indeed it is and those who are unable to bear children have found benefit as well. Salaam/Shalom.
@outstandingpersonalrelationshi Todah for the reply. I've subscribed to your channel.
Thank you for the comment, it's something we want to dig further into.
Average is not acceptable!
Average is NOT acceptable
Average is NOT Acceptable! 🔥
Average is NOT acceptable.
AVERAGE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE
5:30 I agree. Too many woman dress in white thinking they still virgen for the wedding. I bless the man for the drama that is to come.
Crazy how they wear white while having body counts in the dozens, smh. So true!
average is not acceptable
Some people are legal marriage ready, where most are not. Therefore, men & women consider being additional spouses to others as support and to meet their individual & family needs.
Men can't obey for themselves alone and need help according to Most High 🤷🏾♀️
But before she becomes a wife, I’m sure there is a period of “dating” or whatever to see if you’re compatible with said woman. While this is going on, wouldn’t that be considered cheating???
There is a courting phase which in Islam includes a male chaperone, usually from her family, who is involved early. There is no dating in Islam in the commonly known let's go on a date him and her.
But OPR you know thats not wjat happens in reality. People are not following the appropriate process and guidelines these days so yes! In most cases, therr is some sort of cheating that then becomes legalised and as a woman you gotta accept the legal one and forgive the cheating anyway I guess. Its really a damned of you do and damned of you dont situation Imo 🤨
Thats a problem we have to address as an ummah, because we seem to forget that Allah knows best. Strictly speaking, scholars will say if you validate your zina or fornication by getting married, without taking the steps to sincerely seek forgiveness, though your marriage may seem to the public eye as halal, you have actually just continued with fornication. We need to let people know this. Ive seen so many monogamous marriages fail because they didn't address the importance of deen before getting married, or just used their religion as a cultural means of justifying and validating a relationship that started without Allah in mind. The irony is, alot of them never seem to understand why the marriage failed. Its truly a shame
We have been given guidance, Allah has made things so easy for us if we just follow. Its really not a religion you can pick and choose, its all encompassing. I went through a similar situation before actually getting married the right way, according to the Quran and sunnah, with an exgirlfriend astaghfirullah but i learned my lesson then are there with thanks to Allah. Im so grateful that it happened on earth rather than in the hereafter. For some the lesson is learned by toxic marriage, dissatisfaction, divorce, or even in the here after. May Allah protect us from these things
I think this was a good video when all parties are on board, but i still dont see the benefits for a woman. I think yall are the exception to this lifestyle. I have heard horror stories from co-workers of growing up in this lifestyle. Thete is good and bad in both polegemy and monogamy relationships depending on the people thats involved.
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What if a woman has a higher sex drive then the husband?! If the husband only wants to be intimate once a week and the wife every night? What is she supposed to do?
I find little reason to address anomalies, there's a reason they're exceptions to the rule.
There's not much sense in addressing something that is so rare in fact, that it tends to be only brought up when discussing polygyny. Go figure 🤔
How can u have multiple wives in the USA if it’s illegal ?! I thought islam can’t contradict the laws of the land?! Salams brother ❤❤❤❤
Salaam,
If you're a Muslim, it'd be wise to recognize that two of the names of Allah are Al-Hakim 'The Legislator' and Al-Hakeem 'The All Wise/The Judge of Judges'.
Islam itself means submission to Allah. Muslim itself describes a person who submits to Allah.
There are so many ayah in Quran that clearly the following;
"And whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those who are disbelievers"
"And whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those who are oppressors"
"And whoever does not judge by what Allah has revealed - then it is those who are rebellious"
"The rule belongs to none but Allah"
Its the other way around, the laws of the land should not contradict Islam.
Imagine being questioned on the Last Day and saying that you obeyed those who made harm what Allah made halal... sick. Sadly, many people fall for this orientalist and colonist conditioning.
But to the point, the law of the land claims to allow the free practice of religion and the pursuit of happiness.
Still doesn't mean much because the land belongs to the Creator just like we all belong to Allah and will return.
What's illegal is having multiple marriage licenses, there's an entirely different discussion regarding fictions, property, and title including the Federal Reserve Bank which isn't the topic of this post.
Meanwhile plenty of non-Muslims are getting along just fine without caring about what people who can't determine what a woman is nor a genocide. 💪🏽✊🏽👑
Its no difference when it comes to a woman or a man. Its just a man that wants his cake and wants to eat to. Men in polegemy only loves themselves that's why they added another woman because they are not complete within themselves. He loves what both women bring to the table. He got tired of the first wife and went and got someone else. Jealousy is jealousy. No one wants to share their spouse. Farrakhan doesn't even believe that a man should have multiple wives. Its hard to please two women. Marriage is about sacrifice and serving each other. The bible states no man can love two people. You love one and hate the other. Polegemy i thought was during a time of war when men died in war and left the women and children with no help, so thats how men ended up with an extra wife? This is not the case
Thank you for proving my point with the entirety of your comment.
Completely disregard our clear differences then quickly start projecting based upon your desires and yep, delusions.
Perhaps you didn't watch the full video or simply don't care and like many, just spouted something so you'd feel like you'told me'.
Either way, thank you for demonstrating my point. It's almost like we rehearsed it.
@outstandingpersonalrelationshi I get your point but I don't see a benefit for a woman. Waiting for her turn to be with her husband? A man can provide equally but can he truly love you from his soul? Why can't one woman satisfy you? Are you not complete within? I watched so many of the videos and all I see is the wives rearranging thier thinking to make it work. And the husband not changing anything about himself. He lays with someone every night. The wife doesn't. So where are the benefits? Some women have high sex drives. Why can't she get it every night and not have to wait for her day??? I want companion ship every day. I want to get off work and cook for my husband. I don't want to wait for my day.
Did you know that Samia Sulu Hassan is the President of Tanzania? Do you know that she's the 3rd wife of her husband?
Isn't the incoming 2nd, 3rd, or 4th wife a woman? Because you asked how does it benefit a woman?
It appears you are only thinking of sex and yourself as an 'only wife', not women nor the family which includes others like children.
If you thought of others, you'd clearly see how it benefits women and children.
Does polygyny benefit the society as a whole by allowing men who are capable to marry multiple wives (up to 4), leading them, providing for them, and taking care of his children?
If you answered yes, then I also ask, are your individual feelings more important than the benefit to society or do your feelings have a larger net positive impact on the society?
@outstandingpersonalrelationshi There are many African countries with a 2nd or 3rd wife (Senegal). Not because the women desire to be 2nd or 3rd. I'm sure the benefits are the fame and lifestyle. These people have been conditioned to polegamy through up bridging and religion. The women deal with it because they are doing it for the sake of God. Men are doing it for lust and self fulfillment. bet if you asked women in polegamy what they think and how they feel, I bet it would be a different response. Polegamy marriages are hard and stressful, and that is why you hear so many bad stories. your excuse is religion and saving the world. But you are not demonstrating sacrifice towards your first wife. You only care about your needs. You subject her to things you would not except. That's why I don't see the benefit. In the bible, many people like to talk about polegamy in the bible, but if they go back to the stories, none of those marriages worked out. Because there can not be two queens in one house and no man can truly love both women equally. He can provide equally. They have qualities that he loves, but he only love himself. why do men who are in polegamy end up with high blood pressure and diabetes its high stress? There are a few polegamy marriages that work out, a large amount dont. When I travel to my husband's country, I speak with women who have grown up or know of the friends or relatives that are in the marriage and nothing but horror stories. Again, if the adults are okay with it, go for it. But I don't see any benefits. I love I have my husband to myself. He sleeps in my bed at night. I'm a different woman for him. I try my best to keep it spicy. We meet each others needs. We work together as a team. Why Farrakhan is against this type of marriage? It's a stressful task
You know, you never answered my questions regarding the benefit to society over your personal individual benefit. I see you're still projecting which means that this topic is one of serious cognitive dissonance for you. That's fine, you're an adult, but I won't let you act like you care about other women, when you're only concern is for yourself as a woman. I have a responsibility to call it out and hold up a mirror.
You say I only care about my needs and attempt to dismiss polygyny as something simply based on lust. It's funny how deluded your statements are and how they're the same old talking points of other deluded women.
See, if it were simply my lustful desires as you put it, isn't it much easier and cheaper to get an 'escort' aka high price prostitute, jump down, mistress, girlfriend, get addicted to porn or Only Fans, or just use a 'hook-up' app like Tinder or whatever the names are of the rest of the gang of apps are? I mean the West has changed the name of degeneracy to something that sounds respectable like 'sex worker'... So you can kick rocks with the insults and projecting.
Look, to be frank, your arguments are not only self-centered (the very thing you accuse polygynous men of), but they're so far-reaching that it's almost laughable as it is pitiful. Heart-disease of which high-blood pressure is a big indicator is the number one cause of death in the US... is it because all of those men practice polygyny? See how retarded that sounds? Diabetes is also included in the top 5 according to the book Life Force where it's called Diabesity mixing diabetes and obesity. Is it because so many men are practicing polygyny that they have diabetes as you suggest? C'mon, that's hella delusional.
You talk of the horror stories, yet fail to recognize that negative news spreads at least 13 times faster than positive news and the most horror stories you will ever hear are from monogamous marriages, like every 18 seconds a woman is admitted to the ER due to domestic/intimate partner violence, the murders of spouses on Dateline 20/20 and other shows are from monogamous couples, divorce rates over 50%, child abuse, molestation, neglect, drug addiction, and more with data and stats come from monogamous homes. Does that mean we are anti-monogamy? No, we are pro-morals and don't feel the need to shoot down monogamy due to these issues while trying to prove our point. It's idiotic to talk about all the 'horror' stories you hear when we can do the same and testify to our own parents' homes being dysfunctional and broken.
It is not from my own lustful lack of discipline that our children are traveling the world with more stamps in their passports than most Americans and even have residency cards from multiple countries. I don't have to prove that to you or anyone. Why would my wives work when they have a husband who loves them and leads them and his entire family toward success in every area of life starting with our spiritual life?
Furthermore, you mentioned Farrakhan twice, I don't know why, we don't follow him nor care about anything he says. He doesn't not follow the Quran or sunnah of the last Messenger and Prophet Muhammad (sws) so what does anything he says matter to us? Now Malcolm X left the NOI and followed Islam the same as we do, in case you were wondering.
For those wondering why I took the time to respond in such detail, it's because we are educating people. The person who commented isn't likely to change her mind and that wasn't the purpose of this discourse, it's for the other readers to analyze how people think and inspect themselves for any potential delusions they may harbor and analyze it.
Again, thank you for allowing me to shed some light on your perspective and how it continues to prove my point in the video.
I am planning to a video on how many women, like you, think your thoughts and feelilngs are far above the benefits to society and would rather see it burn to the ground than become that village who protects its children and families because many women only see value through the use or weaponization of their vaginas.
On UA-cam everyone is a teacher. Everyone on UA-cam has an opinion. The dimwits have taken over! When it comes to love people do as they please then deal with the consequences later
What is this comment suppose to mean? It's pretty ambiguous.
Average is not acceptable
Average is not acceptable.