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I'm just so impressed that she's never done anything wrong. For someone who's been through bankruptcy, is in crippling debt, has children from multiple fathers, and literally wears green lipstick, that's so amazing.
You made a choice, lady. You knew he was an addict when you married him. Huge chance he would relapse. As a guardian of the galaxy, you should know this.
Shaming an addict whos been essentially sober for 4 years and holding his addiction over his head forever is a great way to get one to relapse on their drug of choice
That’s what I was thinking too, she keeps bringing it up and making it sound like he’s actively using or like he can control it and simply chooses not to. For someone that went through addiction herself and claims to love helping others overcome their own addictions, she’s not very empathetic.
@@Superstitiousobserversometimes strokes happen. Anneurysms caused mine but as a literal infant at the time it definitely wasn't my fault 🤷 the drug comments are a lot though. She either secretly hopes or thinks its inevitable that he will relapse. Your word choice always gives away you inner thoughts. She was particularly insufferable to listen to
TV is her hobby. That's probably all she does during the day while her 'deadbeat' husband works. Her grand job will be Texas Roadhouse, thinking she's getting 1200 a week - but I think she's past that wall
Well he seems like a total Fucking loser. Not a single thought in his fried brain and stays up til 3am playing video games while not taking care of his kids.
It’s just like when self-proclaimed “nice guys” have to tell you they’re nice to convince you that they are. Actions speak louder than words and if you have to announce to others that you’re nice, empathetic, loving, etc., you’re probably the exact opposite.
The more this woman talks the more I think she’s a bad dnd character. “I joined the military on a bet and I shoot first ask questions later, but now I’m a vegan who travels the jungle and speaks to dead people, I’m am its guardian.” This is the worst druid backstory ever
I was in AA for 8 years. I'm still clean, just not in AA anymore. This lady's behavior absolutely SCREAMS dry drunk, and she's a prime example of why I left that community. GIRL. She knows damn well how frowned upon and highly inappropriate the start of this relationship was. It's viewed as predatory within the AA community to start a relationship with a newcomer in the way that she did. Then she wants to sit back and shame him for his struggle and blame him for her financial situation. Yeah no shit, that's why you leave newcomers alone so they can heal instead of jumping into a toxic relationship with them and using your sober time as a crutch to be an irresponsible person with some fake moral high ground. Do some step work girl. Godspeed to those AA truly helps and engage with it properly, but this aint it.
@@stephenh9905 basically means you’re sober but you still act like a jackass (much like you would in active addiction), ie not actually working to be a better person. Just sober
@@olivia1151 I see, I’m curious what’s your opinion on being addicted to alcohol if you feel comfortable sharing. One thing I realized during being under lockdown, is I was drawn more to drinking more then normal due to being stuck inside. And sometimes I worry about that, I don’t have a thought lingering of oh I need a drink all the time. But when I’ve been asked “why do you drink?” My response has always been “I like the feeling, it feels good.” It doesn’t bad saying that I just can’t think of a better sentence.
This was so frustrating to hear lol. I totally get it. $50 for 6 months of video games is a fine outlet. He seems like his only vice is gas station BS, which isnt that bad and he could correct that.
As a veteran, we are not taught to shoot first and ask questions later. I’d really love to see her credentials that verify she is as military because oh my god. I’ve often found that people who make their military service their entire personality were either discharged early or kicked out lol
Just my personal opinion and this is NOT a fact but I was getting stolen valor vibes here. Joining the military on a "dare" is not something people normally do. Then for that person to be hair salon vegan healer is not something you normally see. So much about this just seems made up on the spot. Maybe they went on the show just to mess around and make stuff up.
She is the worst. He needs to run. Obviously he has his own issues, but she will hold every mistake he has made over his head for the rest of their marriage, and she will own up to nothing she has done.
I hate people that do this I constantly hear people admitting to mistakes while also bragging ya it was such a stupid decision to buy the new ar 15 i didnt need it i just wanted to keep my 4 yearold safe from bear attacks but i guess im pos sorry ... See i admitted some of the dept was my fault i waste to much money keeping my family safe 😏
Guy pays $12 a month for his game. Her:“Your hobbies are sooooo expensive!!!” Also her: put trips to the Amazon on a credit card to trip balls in the jungle
Thank you. I was thinking the same thing. She thinks that because hers is not enforced by the ATF its not drugs. By that logic, you can go huff green spray paint and kill your brain cells and not be a drug addict.
How can someone who deflects every issue onto someone else and treats her husband with such disdain claim to be a healer? Yikes. This was a hard watch.
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This!!! And she didn’t mention it just once. She mentioned how she’s successfully helped people several times which gets me to believe she absolutely hasn’t, because if she did, she wouldn’t have to continuously reiterate it
I was married to one of these “program” women and you’re not supposed to be “self righteous “, but Lordy was it exhausting with program being Weaponized against me.
This video is a perfect example of someone who learned therapy-speak and now weaponises it against people. This level of narcissism is so dangerous to be around - please avoid people like this if you want a happy, healthy life.
Yep, she hates on him at every turn, especially for doing anything that he enjoys. While at the same time she brags that she made $2500 this month, while charging an $100 an hour. So she only worked 25 hours the whole month. That man atleast has a full time job. Yet its all his fault. @meverly7834
My thoughts exactly!! I would happily navigate a lifetime of horrific 2C-B trips over dealing with her nagging negative ass. 🙄 There’s clearly more to this story…
She’s a vegan but eats chick fil a. She’s a higher being. Her kid can’t have sugar - by the kids get cake pops from everyone. Good grief this woman is insufferable.
It's true. And I recognize myself in that, ugly as it is. As a kid, if you get praised for helping others and told you're selfish for taking care of yourself, that's what it looks like when you're an adult. Her biggest flex is healing others but her health/money/life/relationship is such a mess, it says to me something feels *wrong* to her about getting her shit in order. Also her comments about her dad were pretty telling.
@@stillstymied you have no reason to make excuses for her without knowing her backstory. It’s amazing how women’s actions are always justified with nuance but if a man behaved like this people would have no sympathy. I think you would hate a man who behaved like this
The one time he stood up for himself and said it was her that went and got fast food she stopped him, told him to take chill pill, to be quiet and she loves him. Dude if you are reading any of these comments please for the love of god run!
Watch a lot of these and always miss a few things, when tf did she say this?? Timestamp? She’s insane dude. One of the worst guests to date in terms of attitude. So self righteous
31:34 - Caleb hit the nail on the head (pun intended). This lady can do no wrong in her eyes. I'm positive she just married this guy because she knew she'd look better by comparison. The only thing wrong with that strategy is that she can't stop yapping about how much of a "saint" she is, so she makes herself look worse!
How can YOU be POSITIVE on the reason why she married him 💀 This is a 1 and half hour conversation. I agree that she was annoying and projected a lot onto him, but if reaching was a profession, everyone in this comment section would be employed. He overdosed while she was giving birth and then she almost DIED.. TWICE..But YOU know why she married him, ok .
This woman is so hard to listen too. “He didn’t become an adult until 2 weeks before he met me” but you still married him and continued the relationship even tho you’re SO involved in the AA community and surely you know the rules about not dating until a year has passed right? …………..right????
That was my first thought! When I was brand new to AA/NA, I had so many old timers telling me to wait at least a year before even considering a romantic relationship! There's no way she wouldn't know this, it comes across as predatory that she saw this vulnerable guy she could control and walk over to hook into her life.
She's so full of shit in everything she says it's coming out her ears. Her base line language is dishonest and abusive, so much so there's like no beginning or end to it.
I agree, anyone in AA knows it’s a bad idea and that it can be predatory to take advantage of someone going through new sobriety. She knows that, but maybe all that happe is going to the brain
Gosh… I’m closing UA-cam. I’m gonna kiss my wife, tell her that I thank her for everything, to be so kind and loving to me despite all of my quirks and how thankful I am to have a so peaceful marriage. This woman… she doesn’t make any sense to me.
These guys are not sober, they're addicted to the lifestyle and the people. Shes using him to feed her savior complex and as a scapegoat for all their problems. It's easier to think you're doing great when your partner is constantly relapsing. Dude needs therapy and to be medicated correctly instead of self medicating to escape.this is a codependent cycle they're living in.
These are exactly the kind of people who made me stop attending meetings. My stable, consistent lifestyle wasn't exciting enough for them so I must be "hiding something" or not healed enough to "live out loud". They are like the MLMers of AA/NA
This was the roughest to watch, as a therapist, she needs therapy😂 she’s weaponizing her co-dependency and spirituality, is a martyr and is woefully lacking self awareness and accountability. Poor guy. Amazing how she’s an expert in everything.
Sounds like his 80yr old grandma & her Daddy occasionally bail them out. She's a professional manipulator & low key toxic behavior. I hate label people because I'm not a psychologist. Kid throws a chair & mom is laughing at her kids behavior. CANT EVEN FATHOM WHAT SHES LIKE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS!
It's really funny seeing her say she's thinking of divorcing him because he doesn't love her as much anymore, meanwhile she's insulting him straight for 1.5 hours. Hmmm I wonder why he might not feel quite the same way anymore.
@@Maegord and why he escapes to video games every night. I'm not excusing his behavior, but if I had someone constantly telling me why I'm not good enough and say they're doing it out of love, I'd wanna escape to a fantasy world too lol.
Omg, right…I don’t think I heard what her husband does for a living and tbh, with all the side hustle she claims to be doing she’s just an unemployed person
From my perspective having an uninvolved parent who suffers with narcissistic personality disorder . She needs to set a psychiatrist appointment asap . The husband in this video reminds me of my parent’s spouse as well . I think he’s too far deep into the delusion he can’t see how much he’s being emotionally manipulated .
narcissism is the word here, she is better than everybody , the fault is always on everyone else, talks over everybody and never shuts up, never looks at her partner when he's talking acting like he's not even there.
You don't understand this is healthy and spiritual. When she said that it's tobacco and other stuff from the Amazon I think that the other stuff is doing a lot of the heavy lifting
"no you don't understand, only people who take any drugs except the one I indulge in are addicts, but *my* addiction is just a little treat so I can cope with life, I can quit anytime"
If you have to say your a good person it usually means your not. It’s also a red flag that she’s justifying every bad decision with things beyond her “control”, but yet can blame the support system around her at the same time she’s putting them down. It’s gross.
The contradictions that come out of her mouth 🙄. She never smokes(except for the tobacco mix that puts her in contact with dead people), she's a vegan (that eats chicken), kids can't eat refined sugar(except for starbucks cake pops), she never drinks (except for a lil wine), ect.
I was wondering when someone was going to comment on the cake pops!!! Since when can't a kid have refined sugar? I have never heard of a kid being allergic to sugar. Unless the kid is diabetic or something, wtf?
@@goldenretrievermom7945 I think she was about to say she “acts up because of sugar” before stopping herself. And then went on to admit they get free cake pops “all the time” ???
As a married woman for 18 years, I cannot stand this woman. “He does drugs but mine are spiritual so it’s ok”. Give me a break. Let your husband speak! Let your husband have his own time (just like you do)! You are not his mother. The lip color was a dead giveaway.
This woman is insane. Says she loaded up a credit card to take a trip to the jungle, and then ridicules her husband for spending $78. This is a textbook narcissist. Dude, you seem like a chill guy - RUN!
Spot on. It's disgusting the way she treats him. Especially when you can read between the lines and picture how she acts behind closed doors. I guarantee she is the root cause of most of their problems, yet she only blames her husband or happenstance. She's too insecure to ever take a look in the mirror. People like her are evil. They'd rather hurt others than go through the pain of true self-help. She uses AA as a way to convince people that she's someone who has worked on themselves. Realistically she never had true alcoholism as she stated and uses AA to appear reformed, get attention, and play the hero while never actually working on herself. I feel so bad for true addicts who have to deal with her. She would be their best friend in the beginning and then the mask drops and the subtle abuse starts. Ultimately she will blame the person for not wanting help when all she did was cause problems for them. Idk how her husband isn't a full blown addict dealing with her. He looks normal, she looks like she does drugs..
@@nikkita1688she’s talking like she’s all high and mighty. baby you’re getting high in the jungle , funded off of a credit card. she is not better than he is 😭.
She doesn’t want him to be better. She wants to be BETTER than him. I am a therapist and they both need help obviously, but she absolutely has them both on a narrative of she is so healed and helpful to everyone and he’s a deadbeat…and rationalizes every double standard
Therapy for her is only going to give her diagnosis to flaunt in front of him. Or make her "I'm the victim and my husband is evil" trope ten times worse with therapy talk.
No no you don't get it! She's flawless it's just that the landlord fucked her and then the insurance company fucked her and none of it could possibly be her fault! 😅
This lady has mistaken Caleb for a therapist. Like, maaam, how much are you making. Caleb does not need to learn the whole 10 years worth of family therapy😂
They are SO not a good match for each other but it's just obvious that they're also yin and yang in the only way that has kept them alive this long. You know he HIDES from her! He hides in games. Hides in drugs. Just constantly churning inward into his own belly button trying to hide from her!! She sounds like she's on SPEED! WTF is that stuff she's a "spiritual distributor" of or whatever nonsense she was yapping?! My ears hurt! She sounds like she's on amphetamines!
She declares bankruptcy, travels to the Amazon on credit card debt, appears to not pay taxes and now receives us taxpayer funded food assistance (system is irreparably broken).
I’m waiting for the follow up where dude is divorced, sober, happy, and having at least joint custody of his kids. Also playing wow with his new friends.
A weight will be lifted off his shoulders once he cuts her out of his life. I used to live with a narcissist, they drag you down in all aspects of life and you barely even realize it.
Agreed, I’m many years sober now but living with this woman would test even my resolve… life with an emotional abuser (which I kinda suspect she is) keeps you so sick, and it’s hard to even see all the ways they f*ck with you. Many times they want to maintain their overburdened martyr role, but they also can’t help but indulge their superiority. This leads to a miserable cycle of being told/encouraged to get it together, the person paying lip service to supporting your endeavors toward growth and then simultaneously sabotaging the shit out of it by being a manipulative, gaslighting nightmare. I hope he manages to escape.
This is why I actually admire the Zoomer generation for being hesitant to have children. Being a parent is a big deal and should be treated as such, especially when it comes to financial planning.
I ask myself that soooo many times looking at different disfunctional stories. Mostly they now it is shit by baby one...but there will be others born in a still shit situation. I can not wrap my mind around it.
I concur. Use birth control for Christ's Sake. I make a good living but my son is expensive to raise. I would never think to have a child if I was in a situation like this.
She thinks she's better because she puts so much more thought and effort into being a loser than he does. Ma'am, you're failing to recognize that your husband is MUCH more efficient at it than you are.
@@Revert2017 her: we are a 3, because i was practically a single mum that took care of everything... says the womon that watches the show regulary? DAFUQ? She doesn't even get that the score is meant to be about the financial situation as it is right now.
honestly hilarious that these people thought the priority is their finances right now, 10 mins in and I've heard kids, divorces, addiction, death, seems like they're just prepping to get divorced
absolutely. My first thought was these people need a mental health specialist before a financial advisor. They won't be able to fix their finances if their personal life is a mess.
The line about "my boss will never go for this" is such a used car salesmen cliche, I cant believe that 1) car salesmen say that in real life unironically, and 2) people fall for it
I spent 12 years in the military. 3 in the Air Force and 9 in the Army. Did I sleep through the class that taught us to shoot first and ask questions later??? Because I distinctly remember many hours of training on the ROE that day the EXACT opposite.
I thought this same thing. It's the opposite of that. You have to be in active war zones and not shoot until you are shot at. I know that and I'm not in the military in any way. Makes you wonder...
Yeah, I've never served, but I've read a few books written by Special Forces members (Lone Survivor, No Ordinary Dog) I get the impression that the military teaches you to do quite a bit of thinking before shooting someone, lol
I did a combat deployment in Afghanistan, and you're absolutely not told to do that. We were constantly hammered about how every round you fired had your name on it, and that you had nobody to blame for it. Every single shot we fired in combat was on an enemy we had positive identification on "Know your target and what lies between and beyond it" You learn a lot about being accountable for your words and actions with a real grunts mindset. This whole “I act impulsively and figure it out later” is pathetic and the opposite of what good shooters do
Nah, she's probably was just some clerk at the base. Now she's acting like she's a war hero, single-handedly winning the war in Ukraine and burning down the Kremlin. Haha
52:54 “you’re putting me to be this evil person and I’m not.” GIRL. I know you’re “not of this earth” but are you on the same planet? I can’t imagine how exhausted this dude is.
Her “ok, take a chill pill, bring it down” when he calls her on her shit one time….. big yikes she is emotionally abusive for sure. Poor children, they don’t have a very good chance of a happy family dynamic
@@yammabammaHe's a grown man. She might be crazy, but she's not wrong about his laziness and lack of motivation. He's 35 and needs to "go inside himself" to make important decisions. Give me a break.
This woman is so unlikable and won’t stop talking that she completely overshadows her husband. I’m sure he sucks pretty bad too but she can’t stop talking to try to make him look bad and it ironically makes her look worse than him. Great job!
This! She seems incredibly self-centered and egotistical. One of the WORST traits in someone (in my opinion) is constantly talking over others and interrupting, as if being the louder one makes you right. This episode was painful to get through.. only for at the end, this chick to say she’s so likeable and honest and how much people love her. Give me a fucking break 😐
"I've been asked countless times to be a police officer, but I refuse cuz I'm a shoot first ask questions later kind of person and I can't re wire my brain" my sister in Christ no one has ever asked you to be a police officer in their lives
If I were him I would be running away from her so fast you wouldn’t see me for dust. She does nothing but put him down and he has just given up and withdrawn from everything.
I was addicted to IV heroin/opiates for almost 10 years and I now have 1 year and 3 months sober. I got sober with the help of AA and therapy. This lady is a poor representation of AA. She is not taking responsibility for any of her actions and just throwing him under the bus
Congrats on your recovery! I agree - I have 9 years this month. Please of your struggling know, none of us speak for AA. Wishing you and others the best!
Congrats mate! Agreed with your sentiment, I've seen this exact template of a person so many times in AA?NA before. They will hijack the whole meeting, speak for a whole hour without taking a breath, commit extreme trauma dumps, act like the world revolves around them, talks about how incredible they are now combined with a fetish for glamourising their rock bottoms ("I literally died" like in this video). Their identity is also so tired up in the X amount of years of sobriety they have and the really love to patronise and speak to newly sober people like they're babies. In essence, they LOVE to hear themselves speak and they do not give one single fuck or bother to actively listen when someone else in AA is speaking. I had someone like this offer to be my sponsor before and I couldn't get away fast enough.
Probably because she's not even an addict or alcoholic. She probably started to go to AA after she got a little wild at a few parties and the AA system consumed her. I've seem it happen several times when I was in the rooms.im just at the very beginning but I get the sense that she would call herself a "fixer" but has never done any real work on herself. I'm sorry but you're not an alcoholic if went crazy a couple times. Now she's with a real addict and thinks she knows everything because she quit something that wasn't even a real addiction and makes his life miserable I'm sure. I've only watched 4 and a half minutes so we'll see I guess lol
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I'm just so impressed that she's never done anything wrong. For someone who's been through bankruptcy, is in crippling debt, has children from multiple fathers, and literally wears green lipstick, that's so amazing.
Why am I not surprised when you put it that way? 😂
Hahhhahhhahaha never once
ah someone mentioned the lipstick🤣
LMAO
Thought that was eyeshadow misapplied
You made a choice, lady. You knew he was an addict when you married him. Huge chance he would relapse. As a guardian of the galaxy, you should know this.
Guardian of the galaxy is killing me 😭
LMAO true
This comment should be number one 😂😂😂😂😂
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She acts like she is a saint, and he is a fuck up. There is no respect from her, so he needs to just run.
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Omg im on the floor. Those are hilarious
Love love love this comment!! 🏆 😂
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Shaming an addict whos been essentially sober for 4 years and holding his addiction over his head forever is a great way to get one to relapse on their drug of choice
That’s what I was thinking too, she keeps bringing it up and making it sound like he’s actively using or like he can control it and simply chooses not to. For someone that went through addiction herself and claims to love helping others overcome their own addictions, she’s not very empathetic.
She's also a vegan aka eats nothing but carbs, salt sugar and seed oils and is surprised she had a stroke
@RR-us1lt but no there's nothing lifestyle related that caused her stroke at all
@@Superstitiousobserverthats a retarded statement
@@Superstitiousobserversometimes strokes happen. Anneurysms caused mine but as a literal infant at the time it definitely wasn't my fault 🤷 the drug comments are a lot though. She either secretly hopes or thinks its inevitable that he will relapse. Your word choice always gives away you inner thoughts. She was particularly insufferable to listen to
This woman takes every opportunity to throw her husband under the bus to make herself look like the responsible one. So embarrassing
And to bring up that she does hoppe or however you spell it.
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@@Homer7921 that’s the spelling of the drug?
And she’s the kindest, nicest person you’ve ever met.
@@EagleSpireGaming yeah, it’s a Peruvian snuff, thats how I’ve seen it spelled at least.
Shes so harsh on her husband for any substances, yet shes a professional dealer of hallucingens. So hypocritical
I get what you're saying but that's kind of a false equivalency
@@omghalo3rocksno it really isn’t. You’re just a sumo defending this awful hag
@@omghalo3rocks Yeah, what she is doing is far worse. She's quite literally scamming people for a living and is emotionally/verbally abusive.
Psychedelic drugs help you get sober. Heroin doesn't
Yessssssssss lmao 100% and she talks like the abstinence only type of person in recovery
She’s making me want to relapse and I’m not an addict
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Same.. i would be wasted every day living with that
Nasty + Narcissistic + Abusive + Gaslighting
Perfect comment
Best comment 😂
In my experience, people who constantly say "I'm really nice" over and over again, are the exact opposite.
…and there’s a difference between nice and kind😂
Her: "My hobbies are free"
Also Her: Puts an entire journey to the jungle on a credit card.
But she was saving lives so it doesn't count
@@OBaegloich3 saving lives by charging $111 to pass on messages from the dead
@@andrewhardwick4480girl just saw the sixth sense while tripping balls and now she has “powers” 😂😂
But it's not a hobby, she has a gift 😭
TV is her hobby. That's probably all she does during the day while her 'deadbeat' husband works. Her grand job will be Texas Roadhouse, thinking she's getting 1200 a week - but I think she's past that wall
She got caught buying chick fil a and then deflected to his amazon charge so fast that Caleb didnt even register it. True narcissist behavior.
And calling herself a vegan 😂
I bet it's still in the back of her mind..."I got away with it"(rubs hands)
Then halfway through says shes a vegan!😂
I bet he would be sober if he wasn’t with her. She would be an alcoholic if she didn’t have someone to boss around
As soon as it's brought up: "Take a chill pill. Let's bring it down." What a gross human being.
This lady's horse is so high I'm surprised she hasn't forced it to go to rehab.
Amazing comment
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this comment is soooo underrated
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I chocked on this! Lmao!!
It's embarrassing that she thinks we can't see through her. It's sad that her husband actually can't.
I think the husband lowkey enjoys Caleb roasting her.
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@@0HxB0Yhe was 😁😁😁😁😁 every time Caleb went at her
To an extent, she enjoys it too lol
You can tell she runs that house...
Yeah he’d crack up each time
I guarantee she’s going to read the comments section and blame her husband for all of the hate she’s getting
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I feel bad for him bc other than the drugs he seems like he's not a bad person
@@nymaddieaz I concur
Except for when he laughed about his child acting out
Because she is the definition of a narcissist
The lip color told me everything I need to know
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beat me to it
Facts
Gave Shrek some head on the way in
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🤡 Hi I'm dog-name and I'm over the wall and self conscious about it
She says she wants to learn as much as she can, but she won't shut up and take constructive criticism
How did u comment that
this!!!
Just like a woman
The father of the 8 year old has to be using this video for the next custody hearing.. No kids should be subjected to this mess.
The fact that he already HAS the kid says everything bout her.
The poor kids...
Bro where is Oklahoma DCFS
@@23kurtzy agreed
What do all those cash register rings in the background signify?
“I’m the most loving person in the world”
Absolutely SHITS on her husband relentlessly for an hour straight between complimenting herself.
Well he seems like a total
Fucking loser. Not a single thought in his fried brain and stays up til 3am playing video games while not taking care of his kids.
It’s just like when self-proclaimed “nice guys” have to tell you they’re nice to convince you that they are. Actions speak louder than words and if you have to announce to others that you’re nice, empathetic, loving, etc., you’re probably the exact opposite.
Well she thinks she’s literally the best and it’s not her fault her husband is so shitty 😂😅
But he’s a drug binging fool. So.
The more this woman talks the more I think she’s a bad dnd character. “I joined the military on a bet and I shoot first ask questions later, but now I’m a vegan who travels the jungle and speaks to dead people, I’m am its guardian.” This is the worst druid backstory ever
LMAO CHILL CHILL ahahahahahaha, but yea it fits perfectly
lol. Would make a pretty fun character if you really play up the "I'm here to annoy my entire team as much as I can until they snap and kill me"
Sounds like somebody who is desperate for attention!
She looks like a communist. I’m drinking while I watch Caleb
100%
She's got a CRAAAAAZY hero complex and she hates her husband so much. This is nuts.
She doesn’t even hate her husband. She hates herself and takes it out on him to deflect.
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I was in AA for 8 years. I'm still clean, just not in AA anymore. This lady's behavior absolutely SCREAMS dry drunk, and she's a prime example of why I left that community. GIRL. She knows damn well how frowned upon and highly inappropriate the start of this relationship was. It's viewed as predatory within the AA community to start a relationship with a newcomer in the way that she did. Then she wants to sit back and shame him for his struggle and blame him for her financial situation. Yeah no shit, that's why you leave newcomers alone so they can heal instead of jumping into a toxic relationship with them and using your sober time as a crutch to be an irresponsible person with some fake moral high ground. Do some step work girl. Godspeed to those AA truly helps and engage with it properly, but this aint it.
This! 👆
What is a dry drunk? I’m sure I could google it but haven’t heard the term before.
@@stephenh9905 basically means you’re sober but you still act like a jackass (much like you would in active addiction), ie not actually working to be a better person. Just sober
@@olivia1151 I see, I’m curious what’s your opinion on being addicted to alcohol if you feel comfortable sharing. One thing I realized during being under lockdown, is I was drawn more to drinking more then normal due to being stuck inside. And sometimes I worry about that, I don’t have a thought lingering of oh I need a drink all the time. But when I’ve been asked “why do you drink?” My response has always been “I like the feeling, it feels good.” It doesn’t bad saying that I just can’t think of a better sentence.
@@stephenh9905 that's pretty much why I drink. I'm an introvert and it helps me with that human connection.
“His brain is fried… anyways, I’m not from this earth”
Yes! the all green reminded me of an alien 👽
She was a friendly reminder to never stick your pool noodle in a wasps nest 🥲 RIP that poor guy
😂😂
@@mayelephant721She admitted that she was one!!!
Holy shit I thought I you were exaggerating. She’s literally delusional.
I used credit cards to go to the jungle. Husband accidentally spends 50 bucks on a game. “*sigh, my hobbies are free.”
This!
This was so frustrating to hear lol. I totally get it. $50 for 6 months of video games is a fine outlet. He seems like his only vice is gas station BS, which isnt that bad and he could correct that.
Wastes money "helping" the Amazon. Can't even afford a few hundred dollars to get to her daughter in Florida.
Thought this exact same thing
@@NomadOverNormalhis only vice isn’t gas station bs?? did you miss the part where he does drugs??
As a veteran, we are not taught to shoot first and ask questions later. I’d really love to see her credentials that verify she is as military because oh my god. I’ve often found that people who make their military service their entire personality were either discharged early or kicked out lol
Just my personal opinion and this is NOT a fact but I was getting stolen valor vibes here.
Joining the military on a "dare" is not something people normally do. Then for that person to be hair salon vegan healer is not something you normally see. So much about this just seems made up on the spot. Maybe they went on the show just to mess around and make stuff up.
Def giving stolen valor vibes
I did a double take at that too! And then saying she'd been offered a million cop jobs 🫠
She sucks. “I wanted a nicer bed because I wanted him to have a nicer bed so it’s really his fault for existing”
She is the worst. He needs to run. Obviously he has his own issues, but she will hold every mistake he has made over his head for the rest of their marriage, and she will own up to nothing she has done.
@@DocJerkyhe will never be able to figure out his life until he leaves her
@@colind1637 Yup. Though he seems to live passively, allowing things to happen rather than making things happen, so I doubt he will change anything.
I hate people that do this I constantly hear people admitting to mistakes while also bragging ya it was such a stupid decision to buy the new ar 15 i didnt need it i just wanted to keep my 4 yearold safe from bear attacks but i guess im pos sorry ... See i admitted some of the dept was my fault i waste to much money keeping my family safe 😏
Everytime I buy an AR15 to protect my kids, I don't ever go into debt for it, and bankruptcy is a dirty word for me. 😂😂😂😂😂@@basstfestivalvlogs7684
Guy pays $12 a month for his game. Her:“Your hobbies are sooooo expensive!!!”
Also her: put trips to the Amazon on a credit card to trip balls in the jungle
😂
You can't even make this shit up!🤣
For REAL 😂😂
Yea but it’s a work trip so it’s tax deductible 😂
@@TeddyPainnthey don’t even pay their taxes 😂
“His drug problem is the problem but my drug problem is okay cuz I went to the Amazon once” 🥰
I'm getting strong narcissist vibes from this lady.
Thank you. I was thinking the same thing. She thinks that because hers is not enforced by the ATF its not drugs. By that logic, you can go huff green spray paint and kill your brain cells and not be a drug addict.
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Was looking for this one. You could really dig a lot deeper into this, because she is wild…
Well, she is a guardian you know /s
How can someone who deflects every issue onto someone else and treats her husband with such disdain claim to be a healer? Yikes. This was a hard watch.
This!!! And she didn’t mention it just once. She mentioned how she’s successfully helped people several times which gets me to believe she absolutely hasn’t, because if she did, she wouldn’t have to continuously reiterate it
“I had 32 credit cards and paid them all off on time and never had any interest on any of them” Caleb, “you went through bankruptcy”💀
😂💀
I've never had a credit card and I can't imagine all the work she went through to apply for 32 credit cards.
Yea even disregarding the bankruptcy, having 32 credit cards is NOT a sign of financial health or stability lmao
@@violet18 nowadays if youve got everything set up on your phone it takes like 3 min via online validation and your good to go
32 credit cards is fucking insanity
I'm not even married to her, and I'm exhausted. The high and mighty routine gets annoying, and this is just the part on camera.
Right! I want a divorce from her!!
I don’t even think I’m a great wife, but my husband hugged me 😂
Yes buddy is out of his mind for marrying this chick, and she already had a kid going into it too?
That’s how I feel 15 minutes into the video
I was married to one of these “program” women and you’re not supposed to be “self righteous “, but Lordy was it exhausting with program being Weaponized against me.
This video is a perfect example of someone who learned therapy-speak and now weaponises it against people. This level of narcissism is so dangerous to be around - please avoid people like this if you want a happy, healthy life.
My ex did that type of talk and I saw a lot of it here too
This 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💯
Worded perfectly 👌
PLUS she knows the Caleb phrases, too. “Toquitoes!”
Yes!!
I usually use this channel to fall asleep. After this lady came on, my blood pressure is through the roof and have never been so annoyed in my life.
I love how she immediately started painting him as a deadbeat drug addict when he's been hard drug sober for like 4 years 😭
Any kind of drug even if it’s weed or psychedelics, means you’re not sober. He’s abusing psychedelics, he’s a drug addict.
And he has a job while she doesn't.
Yep, she hates on him at every turn, especially for doing anything that he enjoys. While at the same time she brags that she made $2500 this month, while charging an $100 an hour. So she only worked 25 hours the whole month. That man atleast has a full time job. Yet its all his fault. @meverly7834
But he's addicted to Jamba Juice! /s
@@AmandaJ209 oh my heavens, better start searching his sock drawers for rewards cards from them
This guy is no saint but I couldn't be sober with this awful woman either
I know! I wouldn't last 4 years sober with her. He definitely better than me for sure
My thoughts exactly!! I would happily navigate a lifetime of horrific 2C-B trips over dealing with her nagging negative ass. 🙄
There’s clearly more to this story…
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I would need all the drugs. ALL
He needs to get a job. Simple as that. He had children & lot's of men are not taking care of them.
Something tells me he would heal a lot quicker being single
Agreed!!!
He probably gets high to cope and deal with her insane ass
Totally. She’s got a foot on his neck. He will never heal with her.
Yes. He doesn’t need illicit drugs or this toxic woman.
He needs a good decongestant and to live the single life
@@amyeastman8764 Sudafed and single bed. Sounds like a song.
She’s a vegan but eats chick fil a.
She’s a higher being.
Her kid can’t have sugar - by the kids get cake pops from everyone.
Good grief this woman is insufferable.
The guy who almost died from drinking the rubbing alcohol has more sense than the Grinch that stole the rainforest
this comment is so underrated, I spit may drink out 😂
This needs to be on the top please
The Grinch who stole the rain forest 😂
@@EtheralAnxietythere is food all over my kitchen now 😂😂😂😂
Don't think it was rubbing alcohol, was probably everclear which is 190 proof and can kill u for sure. My mother used to use it for ear infections.
I feel like she is trying so hard to be praised as a hero and a savior. Its like her entire world is wrapped up in performative heroism.
I’m pretty sure she got together with him, knowing he was an addict, for this very reason.
It's true. And I recognize myself in that, ugly as it is. As a kid, if you get praised for helping others and told you're selfish for taking care of yourself, that's what it looks like when you're an adult. Her biggest flex is healing others but her health/money/life/relationship is such a mess, it says to me something feels *wrong* to her about getting her shit in order. Also her comments about her dad were pretty telling.
She’s the type of person that says she needs gluten free bread while eating a bowl of spaghetti.
The grandiosity from her is intensely suspect, I don't buy the majority of what she says or claims
@@stillstymied you have no reason to make excuses for her without knowing her backstory. It’s amazing how women’s actions are always justified with nuance but if a man behaved like this people would have no sympathy. I think you would hate a man who behaved like this
Poisonous creatures usually use bright colors to warn others of their danger. This man didn't heed the warning.
LMAO
Goddddammmm😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Bro you are WILD for this 🤣 💀
DUDE you nailed it 💀💀💀
Caleb: "So, tell me about your-"
Her: "My husband is an addict and relapsed X amount of times. But I am sober and i smell my own farts!"
😂😂
The one time he stood up for himself and said it was her that went and got fast food she stopped him, told him to take chill pill, to be quiet and she loves him. Dude if you are reading any of these comments please for the love of god run!
That was a major red flag!!
Didn’t she say she was vegan? I wonder what she got at Chik fil a
She literally told an addict to take a chill pill.
@@LynneHasThingsToSayHe was probably thinking “damn, that sounds good right about now”
Amen!
Leaving a dealership with a 72 month loan @ 12%APR thinking you pulled one over on the salesman is a new level of delusion for this show.
And increasing her child’s life insurance to 100k because she takes flights is insane…
Maybe it's just ignorance 😭 I have no idea what a good car loan is
Hey at least it wasn't 84😂😂😂
12 percent interest is insanity. Especially on a 45k car. I don't even want to know how much it'll cost by the end of that loan.
Damn. I just calculated it and they are gonna spend over 70 thousand dollars for that car.
when she tells Caleb "Honey, I own a business. That's me buying and selling products" was sooooooooo condescending. Caleb your patience is admirable
Right, As if Caleb isn’t a very successful business owner
Watch a lot of these and always miss a few things, when tf did she say this?? Timestamp?
She’s insane dude. One of the worst guests to date in terms of attitude. So self righteous
Hahaha I was fuming for him! Also when she is questioning how he takes care of his plants and then admits she kills plants like girllll
It’s less of a business and more of a hobby that doesn’t make any money. She’s broke AF.
@@doublet_inthemorning28:50
31:34 - Caleb hit the nail on the head (pun intended). This lady can do no wrong in her eyes. I'm positive she just married this guy because she knew she'd look better by comparison. The only thing wrong with that strategy is that she can't stop yapping about how much of a "saint" she is, so she makes herself look worse!
How can YOU be POSITIVE on the reason why she married him 💀 This is a 1 and half hour conversation. I agree that she was annoying and projected a lot onto him, but if reaching was a profession, everyone in this comment section would be employed. He overdosed while she was giving birth and then she almost DIED.. TWICE..But YOU know why she married him, ok .
“I had a massive stroke” “I smoke an unprocessed tobacco” great decisions being made
didnt even connect the dots there.... and she had the nerve to say she dosent smoke lmao
Not only that, the Amazon jungle stuff?! Like girl what
They don't smoke it. They blow it up their nose lol.
😂😂😂
Lmao
If he’s looking to stay sober, he should play the “drink when your wife lets you finish a sentence” game. He’ll never have a drop.
Lmaooooo lmaooo hold on 😅😅😂😂😂
😂 "smoke every time she let's you say something is her fault"
*sober for the next 35 years*
😂😂 im cracking tf up at these comments
This woman is so hard to listen too. “He didn’t become an adult until 2 weeks before he met me” but you still married him and continued the relationship even tho you’re SO involved in the AA community and surely you know the rules about not dating until a year has passed right? …………..right????
That was my first thought! When I was brand new to AA/NA, I had so many old timers telling me to wait at least a year before even considering a romantic relationship! There's no way she wouldn't know this, it comes across as predatory that she saw this vulnerable guy she could control and walk over to hook into her life.
She's so full of shit in everything she says it's coming out her ears. Her base line language is dishonest and abusive, so much so there's like no beginning or end to it.
No joke. I'm only 7 min in and already about at my limit
Agree take your time and learn about the person
I agree, anyone in AA knows it’s a bad idea and that it can be predatory to take advantage of someone going through new sobriety. She knows that, but maybe all that happe is going to the brain
"I ended up saving a lot of people". OH MY GOD. SHE IS INSUFFERABLE.
She really is putting off the annoying "I studied abroad" vibes, except hers is "I went to Peru and smoke beans and trip balls".
"yet I'm sober"
lol "I've been to a 3rd world country" stfu
Her yapping is insufferable. Miserable woman to be around
It gives off white trust fund baby vibes, but they're broke lol
@@IchiEyesand she's Hispanic.
Gosh… I’m closing UA-cam. I’m gonna kiss my wife, tell her that I thank her for everything, to be so kind and loving to me despite all of my quirks and how thankful I am to have a so peaceful marriage.
This woman… she doesn’t make any sense to me.
This poor mam😭 I've never heard anything so stressful.
Good call. I'ma go do that now too
“Thank you for wearing normal lipstick”
“Idk I thought this bright red was kind of bold, are you being sarcastic…?”
“Look at this video”
“…OH”
this episode can single-handedly stop any petty domestic argument
I'd be a drug addict too if I was married to this woman
These guys are not sober, they're addicted to the lifestyle and the people. Shes using him to feed her savior complex and as a scapegoat for all their problems. It's easier to think you're doing great when your partner is constantly relapsing. Dude needs therapy and to be medicated correctly instead of self medicating to escape.this is a codependent cycle they're living in.
Nailed it.
These are exactly the kind of people who made me stop attending meetings. My stable, consistent lifestyle wasn't exciting enough for them so I must be "hiding something" or not healed enough to "live out loud". They are like the MLMers of AA/NA
That’s it.
Yep dry drunk
@@oxoxTwinklexoxoyes
This was the roughest to watch, as a therapist, she needs therapy😂 she’s weaponizing her co-dependency and spirituality, is a martyr and is woefully lacking self awareness and accountability. Poor guy. Amazing how she’s an expert in everything.
Sounds like his 80yr old grandma & her Daddy occasionally bail them out. She's a professional manipulator & low key toxic behavior. I hate label people because I'm not a psychologist. Kid throws a chair & mom is laughing at her kids behavior.
CANT EVEN FATHOM WHAT SHES LIKE BEHIND CLOSED DOORS!
SERIOUSLY! The thinly veiled aggression and toxicity… she reminds me so much of an emotional abuser I know, which isn’t a good sign to me.
The way she incessantly insults him for long periods of times and then she'll say "but I love you". That's so tiring, no wonder he's so dejected.
It’s abusive.
It's psychological abuse
And abusive!
It's really funny seeing her say she's thinking of divorcing him because he doesn't love her as much anymore, meanwhile she's insulting him straight for 1.5 hours. Hmmm I wonder why he might not feel quite the same way anymore.
@@Maegord and why he escapes to video games every night. I'm not excusing his behavior, but if I had someone constantly telling me why I'm not good enough and say they're doing it out of love, I'd wanna escape to a fantasy world too lol.
Does this lady ever shut up…… holy hell. She blames her husband for everything, she takes ZERO accountability. And so self centered it’s insane
Omg, right…I don’t think I heard what her husband does for a living and tbh, with all the side hustle she claims to be doing she’s just an unemployed person
@@2112jpan unemployed GUARDIAN OF THE AMAZONIAN HERBS and HEALER! Have some respect. 😂
Right even criticizing Caleb’s plants. She’s insufferable
From my perspective having an uninvolved parent who suffers with narcissistic personality disorder . She needs to set a psychiatrist appointment asap . The husband in this video reminds me of my parent’s spouse as well . I think he’s too far deep into the delusion he can’t see how much he’s being emotionally manipulated .
narcissism is the word here, she is better than everybody , the fault is always on everyone else, talks over everybody and never shuts up, never looks at her partner when he's talking acting like he's not even there.
Smoking anything and calling yourself sober is peak delusion
She does drugs for spiritual reasons so it's OK 👍
You don't understand this is healthy and spiritual.
When she said that it's tobacco and other stuff from the Amazon I think that the other stuff is doing a lot of the heavy lifting
@@kyledefreitas8506 no I understand perfectly Mr. Healthy and spiritual. That’s not sobriety regardless of whatever justification you find for it
@@SlugSniffer73like many other people have said, you snort it not smoke it. it’s likely what gave her two strokes at like 37 lol
"no you don't understand, only people who take any drugs except the one I indulge in are addicts, but *my* addiction is just a little treat so I can cope with life, I can quit anytime"
If you have to say your a good person it usually means your not. It’s also a red flag that she’s justifying every bad decision with things beyond her “control”, but yet can blame the support system around her at the same time she’s putting them down. It’s gross.
This lady thinks she is all high and mighty over her husband because she was able to get sober. lol.
That’s what I was thinking.. she literally is blaming everything on him 😂”I never go to Chick-fil-A” literally first statement CFA 😭😭
Technically sober, but she sounds delusional
That is very common with people who get sober
Someone take the kids please lol
And she missed the parts about ego and resentments.
Shes the kind of person that when asked their biggest weakness says shit like "I care too much" or "I try too hard" 😂
😂 "I love too deeply and it makes me give too much"
🎯
“I am too smart”
_Guess what, I have flaws. What are they? Oh, I don't know. I sing in the shower. Sometimes I spend too much time volunteering…_
The contradictions that come out of her mouth 🙄. She never smokes(except for the tobacco mix that puts her in contact with dead people), she's a vegan (that eats chicken), kids can't eat refined sugar(except for starbucks cake pops), she never drinks (except for a lil wine), ect.
Thank you! Wondering if anyone else caught all that. Geeze this was a rough one to get through.
I was wondering when someone was going to comment on the cake pops!!! Since when can't a kid have refined sugar? I have never heard of a kid being allergic to sugar. Unless the kid is diabetic or something, wtf?
@@goldenretrievermom7945 I think she was about to say she “acts up because of sugar” before stopping herself. And then went on to admit they get free cake pops “all the time” ???
She's a real ass narcissist
All their stuff was ruined but the moving truck was $2000
Get a divorce! Get a divorce! Get a divorce!!
"I am the most loving person in the world" as she publicly shames her husband in front of the entire internet.
Right!!
Relentlessly, too
And then she has the audacity to complain when Kaleb calls her out on a BS
She also said "shoot first, ask questions later."
I feel like Caleb was nicer to this woman than he should have been.
Nah the best way to go with these types is to pretend to care and play them down. If you engage, the dogs of the apocalypse are unleashed.
He had a contact high, and was just vibing 😂
He's always nicer to women
The lipstick scared him
@@JP-zx7mxabsolutely not true lol
As a married woman for 18 years, I cannot stand this woman.
“He does drugs but mine are spiritual so it’s ok”. Give me a break.
Let your husband speak! Let your husband have his own time (just like you do)! You are not his mother.
The lip color was a dead giveaway.
This is what happens when you spend an entire generation telling women they are infallible.
Me too. Her husband should get a credit for putting up with her
@@SeiyaSoiya-un4jj this has never been the case. Y'all's lives must really be miserable.
@@sopheaseng2921you aren't kidding the IRS should give him a tax credit for a couple thousand every year for doing charity work for the rest of us
Right!? If I were him I’d fry my brain with drugs and zone out on video games too.
"Its a score of where youre at, not like, how powerful you are or whatever".
"I went to the Amazon to spend 2 weeks in the jungle", half a breath later, "my hobbies are free"
She "LIVED" there ok? For 2 whole weeks.
I legit thought the same thing!
This woman is insane. Says she loaded up a credit card to take a trip to the jungle, and then ridicules her husband for spending $78. This is a textbook narcissist. Dude, you seem like a chill guy - RUN!
He's just a chill guy
Amen to this comment, seriously run a mile...
She needs to be better than him. Absolutely
Spot on. It's disgusting the way she treats him. Especially when you can read between the lines and picture how she acts behind closed doors.
I guarantee she is the root cause of most of their problems, yet she only blames her husband or happenstance. She's too insecure to ever take a look in the mirror. People like her are evil. They'd rather hurt others than go through the pain of true self-help.
She uses AA as a way to convince people that she's someone who has worked on themselves. Realistically she never had true alcoholism as she stated and uses AA to appear reformed, get attention, and play the hero while never actually working on herself. I feel so bad for true addicts who have to deal with her. She would be their best friend in the beginning and then the mask drops and the subtle abuse starts. Ultimately she will blame the person for not wanting help when all she did was cause problems for them.
Idk how her husband isn't a full blown addict dealing with her. He looks normal, she looks like she does drugs..
@@nikkita1688she’s talking like she’s all high and mighty. baby you’re getting high in the jungle , funded off of a credit card. she is not better than he is 😭.
She doesn’t want him to be better. She wants to be BETTER than him. I am a therapist and they both need help obviously, but she absolutely has them both on a narrative of she is so healed and helpful to everyone and he’s a deadbeat…and rationalizes every double standard
Therapy for her is only going to give her diagnosis to flaunt in front of him. Or make her "I'm the victim and my husband is evil" trope ten times worse with therapy talk.
He’s like another child of hers who doesn’t really have to be an adult yet.
First time I’ve seen a guest take over the show 😂. Caleb looks exhausted from this woman
"We were good with our finances before bankruptcy."
Does she know what bankruptcy means lol
"I was good at being alive before I died of illness." 😂😂😂
"I have a clean record except for that one murder I was convicted of."
is it even relevant? her dad is a multi millionaire, all she needs to do is wait till he dies and cash her part and 50k is nothing.
No no you don't get it! She's flawless it's just that the landlord fucked her and then the insurance company fucked her and none of it could possibly be her fault! 😅
This lady has mistaken Caleb for a therapist. Like, maaam, how much are you making. Caleb does not need to learn the whole 10 years worth of family therapy😂
Omg… she just yaps and yaps and I’m only 15 minutes in. She just throws him under the bus the whole time.. I want a divorce from her
She owes us all restitution.
6 mins in and my word, she's beyond annoying
I hate her. Not even half way through and might not make it much longer. 😳🙉
They are SO not a good match for each other but it's just obvious that they're also yin and yang in the only way that has kept them alive this long. You know he HIDES from her! He hides in games. Hides in drugs. Just constantly churning inward into his own belly button trying to hide from her!! She sounds like she's on SPEED! WTF is that stuff she's a "spiritual distributor" of or whatever nonsense she was yapping?! My ears hurt! She sounds like she's on amphetamines!
She declares bankruptcy, travels to the Amazon on credit card debt, appears to not pay taxes and now receives us taxpayer funded food assistance (system is irreparably broken).
Yo lowkey, he’s actually the greatest man in the world…4yrs of her AND NO OPIOD USE. Better man than me.
I would develop an addiction trying to live with this woman 😂
😂😂😂
I’m waiting for the follow up where dude is divorced, sober, happy, and having at least joint custody of his kids. Also playing wow with his new friends.
This will be what happens. She is way too much of a narcissist to ever have a successful relationship.
I'm 1/3 of the way through and entirely non-religious...and I'm praying for this result.
She is insufferable
A weight will be lifted off his shoulders once he cuts her out of his life. I used to live with a narcissist, they drag you down in all aspects of life and you barely even realize it.
Agreed, I’m many years sober now but living with this woman would test even my resolve… life with an emotional abuser (which I kinda suspect she is) keeps you so sick, and it’s hard to even see all the ways they f*ck with you. Many times they want to maintain their overburdened martyr role, but they also can’t help but indulge their superiority. This leads to a miserable cycle of being told/encouraged to get it together, the person paying lip service to supporting your endeavors toward growth and then simultaneously sabotaging the shit out of it by being a manipulative, gaslighting nightmare. I hope he manages to escape.
The constant stress in this episode made me feel like I was the one getting divorced.
For Real! 😂
Same😂😂
Actually. I’m watching it to fall asleep and my blood pressure is rising
This nasty woman is so gross and insufferable that I feel the need to file divorce papers on her and I’ve never met her in my life, thank God.
“My kid can’t have sugar, so we need to grocery shop at Whole Foods”
Literally 2 minutes later: “ they get cake pops at Starbucks for free”🤔
To EVERYBODY, not just this couple: STOP having children if you don't have your shit together!!!
This is why I actually admire the Zoomer generation for being hesitant to have children. Being a parent is a big deal and should be treated as such, especially when it comes to financial planning.
It's ridiculous that this needs to be said to actual adults
I ask myself that soooo many times looking at different disfunctional stories. Mostly they now it is shit by baby one...but there will be others born in a still shit situation. I can not wrap my mind around it.
I concur. Use birth control for Christ's Sake. I make a good living but my son is expensive to raise. I would never think to have a child if I was in a situation like this.
Exactly what I was thinking They just had them cuz she wanted them
If you have to constantly tell everyone “I’m the nicest person”, “I’m the most responsible person”, etc. you’re probably not any of those things
This!
“I have a gift”
Trump syndrome
Judges him for his drug addiction and yet continues to do some hippy dippy bullsh*t like she’s the exception. Like she’s better than him.
“Im not of this earth”
Hey i dont wanna be on this planet anymore either. 😂
Hey shes a guardian for the plants in the Amazon living in Oklahoma. That takes a lot of dedication lol
She always has, "a justified reason." And he, "Never has a justified reason." That simple.
@@dustygearheadbro same!
She thinks she's better because she puts so much more thought and effort into being a loser than he does. Ma'am, you're failing to recognize that your husband is MUCH more efficient at it than you are.
“My hobbies are free” girl u just got done saying u paid ur way to the rainforest with CREDIT CARDS
Wife- Your energy drinks are making us poor!!
Meanwhile wife is a failed business owner and goes on expensive trips to the “jungle”. 😂 lady get real.
Yeah- she could remember every Red Bull he ever drank but had difficulty pinpointing the date of the bankruptcy last year.
@@Revert2017 her: we are a 3, because i was practically a single mum that took care of everything... says the womon that watches the show regulary? DAFUQ? She doesn't even get that the score is meant to be about the financial situation as it is right now.
“I am the most loving person in the world” then proceeds to shit on her husband for 1.5 hours straight.
honestly hilarious that these people thought the priority is their finances right now, 10 mins in and I've heard kids, divorces, addiction, death, seems like they're just prepping to get divorced
😂
10 minutes?? I got to 4 before I was done 😂
Worse than that- stay together !!
absolutely. My first thought was these people need a mental health specialist before a financial advisor. They won't be able to fix their finances if their personal life is a mess.
19 minutes in and they still aren’t talking about finances
She never let that man finish a sentence
Omg she said her kid can’t have white sugar then blames all the Starbucks purchases on cake pops for her kid. She is insufferable!
Bro I was looking for this comment cause miss girl ain’t no way you gonna sit here and say they don’t use white sugar in them sugary pops….
Dude… they have money for ayahuasca and 2cb, but can’t afford a babysitter? Insane
I don’t think it’s about affording it, I think it’s about them being… them. I’d never babysit for them.
lol you think 2CB is expensive or something? It’s not like you need much
That stuff ain't expensive lol. A babysitter is
It isn't very expensive
2cb and Aya are dirt cheap. We're not talking about pure Peruvian cocaine here...
There's no way they're $8k underwater on the car. She bought it for for so cheap that the boss was mad about it!
That was maybe the funniest part. She's so gullible. 😂
Hahah. I was laughing at Caleb acting out the salesman.
The line about "my boss will never go for this" is such a used car salesmen cliche, I cant believe that 1) car salesmen say that in real life unironically, and 2) people fall for it
I spent 12 years in the military. 3 in the Air Force and 9 in the Army. Did I sleep through the class that taught us to shoot first and ask questions later??? Because I distinctly remember many hours of training on the ROE that day the EXACT opposite.
She filed for bankruptcy and then traveled to the Amazon in the same year... then immediately says her hobbies are free???
@@TimS.Which will pay for 6 months, she's shaming him on his hobbies but only recently stopped her daily 'starbies', gross
Lmao truuuuuuth
While she's tripping balls and says she's sober. 😂
Did she admit that she’s in AA but is a spiritual drug dealer?😂😂😂
Yeah, but it's a plant based medicine and she's the tribe's guardian in the world. Totally different.
@sweetjohnny8211 TOTALLY DIFFERENT. what a load of shit
@@sweetjohnny8211weeds a plant.... a lot of drugs are plants
Easy targets ... ig that's where new customers come from
But it’s spiritual, man! 🤣
I've been in the military and you are NOT trained to shoot first and ask questions later. That's how you commit a war crime and go to prison.
shotguns and white phosphorus are war crimes too so......
I thought this same thing. It's the opposite of that. You have to be in active war zones and not shoot until you are shot at. I know that and I'm not in the military in any way. Makes you wonder...
Yeah, I've never served, but I've read a few books written by Special Forces members (Lone Survivor, No Ordinary Dog) I get the impression that the military teaches you to do quite a bit of thinking before shooting someone, lol
I did a combat deployment in Afghanistan, and you're absolutely not told to do that.
We were constantly hammered about how every round you fired had your name on it, and that you had nobody to blame for it. Every single shot we fired in combat was on an enemy we had positive identification on
"Know your target and what lies between and beyond it"
You learn a lot about being accountable for your words and actions with a real grunts mindset. This whole “I act impulsively and figure it out later” is pathetic and the opposite of what good shooters do
Nah, she's probably was just some clerk at the base. Now she's acting like she's a war hero, single-handedly winning the war in Ukraine and burning down the Kremlin. Haha
52:54 “you’re putting me to be this evil person and I’m not.” GIRL. I know you’re “not of this earth” but are you on the same planet? I can’t imagine how exhausted this dude is.
Her “ok, take a chill pill, bring it down” when he calls her on her shit one time….. big yikes she is emotionally abusive for sure. Poor children, they don’t have a very good chance of a happy family dynamic
There’s a reason her daughter doesn’t live with her.
Big emotional abuse vibes.
Yeah I was hoping Caleb called it out. It's very sad
I was SHOCKED when she said that - I was so pissed off for her husband. Poor guy deserves someone who will actually support him through his trials.
@@yammabammaHe's a grown man. She might be crazy, but she's not wrong about his laziness and lack of motivation.
He's 35 and needs to "go inside himself" to make important decisions.
Give me a break.
This woman is so unlikable and won’t stop talking that she completely overshadows her husband. I’m sure he sucks pretty bad too but she can’t stop talking to try to make him look bad and it ironically makes her look worse than him. Great job!
I know right. Most comments are about her.
This! She seems incredibly self-centered and egotistical. One of the WORST traits in someone (in my opinion) is constantly talking over others and interrupting, as if being the louder one makes you right. This episode was painful to get through.. only for at the end, this chick to say she’s so likeable and honest and how much people love her. Give me a fucking break 😐
"Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue."
Proverbs 17:28
I can't imagine being in a meeting with her. She has probably driven alot of people away from meetings
"I've been asked countless times to be a police officer, but I refuse cuz I'm a shoot first ask questions later kind of person and I can't re wire my brain" my sister in Christ no one has ever asked you to be a police officer in their lives
“I joined the military on a dare” is also a *major* intelligence issue in my opinion. Joining the military is a big sacrifice you don’t make on a whim
This made me wheeze 😂😂😂
And the shoot first ask questions later is so wrong. If she doesn't know that there's Rules Of Engagement then she's a liar
This made me giggle
🤣🤣🤣🤣
If I were him I would be running away from her so fast you wouldn’t see me for dust. She does nothing but put him down and he has just given up and withdrawn from everything.
Anyone else find it funny that the psychic went bankrupt? Guess she didn’t see that one coming.
Damn. I didn't see that comment coming 😂😂
Maybe it only to help people no herself 😂
she dont need to be reading palms just bank statements lol
🤣🤣
Time blindness
So she can smoke her medicine but he can’t smoke weed? What a hypocrite
LMAO even worse, she’s snorting her medicine. But “sober”
"medicine"
Snort
Meaning her stroke is probably caused by the unprocessed tobacco
She seems like a hypocrite on everything to be fair and nothing is her fault either. It’s always fully someone else’s fault.
Lets all be real here. She didnt go through a massive stroke.@@23kurtzy
I was addicted to IV heroin/opiates for almost 10 years and I now have 1 year and 3 months sober. I got sober with the help of AA and therapy. This lady is a poor representation of AA. She is not taking responsibility for any of her actions and just throwing him under the bus
So glad you got sober! Keep it up!!
Congrats on your recovery! I agree - I have 9 years this month. Please of your struggling know, none of us speak for AA.
Wishing you and others the best!
Congrats mate! Agreed with your sentiment, I've seen this exact template of a person so many times in AA?NA before. They will hijack the whole meeting, speak for a whole hour without taking a breath, commit extreme trauma dumps, act like the world revolves around them, talks about how incredible they are now combined with a fetish for glamourising their rock bottoms ("I literally died" like in this video). Their identity is also so tired up in the X amount of years of sobriety they have and the really love to patronise and speak to newly sober people like they're babies.
In essence, they LOVE to hear themselves speak and they do not give one single fuck or bother to actively listen when someone else in AA is speaking. I had someone like this offer to be my sponsor before and I couldn't get away fast enough.
Good for you, that's amazing. ❤
Probably because she's not even an addict or alcoholic. She probably started to go to AA after she got a little wild at a few parties and the AA system consumed her. I've seem it happen several times when I was in the rooms.im just at the very beginning but I get the sense that she would call herself a "fixer" but has never done any real work on herself. I'm sorry but you're not an alcoholic if went crazy a couple times. Now she's with a real addict and thinks she knows everything because she quit something that wasn't even a real addiction and makes his life miserable I'm sure. I've only watched 4 and a half minutes so we'll see I guess lol