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I've known this amazing girl for 15 years and it amazes me some of the nasty comments here. Yes, I don't co-sign a lot of the decisions she made, but if I went on the show I'm sure it would be messy, too. So would most people commenting on here. I think it's brave to come on here, be vulnerable and honest, cop a drilling and maybe learn something that could help her not replicate these mistakes again. Definitely hard to watch, but I'm proud of her. Edit: The adoption fell through weeks ago and she has been in the higher paying job for a while now. They knew this during the filming, but it wasn't addressed. I thought I would address it.
Caleb navigating how to get this girl to stop trauma dumping on him and steering it back to finances while trying not to offend the internet is like an Olympic sport and he’s a gold medalist.
Please lady get therapy. You do NOT need to bring a child into a trailer with 5 dogs and negative $300 a month. Clearly your desire for this child is just to off-set the loss you suffered in the past. I promise you that feeling of loss will never leave you and no one or thing will replace that...Get Therapy!!! If you think a child only needs love, you're wrong, it needs a lot more than that!!!
What helps me sleep at night is knowing the adoption agency will take one look at her living situation and say no way in hell are we letting you adopt a child.
@@demonpaw11I wish that were true. Foster to adopt is a little strict, but outright adopting privately is easy and you don't have to prove anything. All they want are the funds you pay for using their services. Adoption in the US is pretty f*cked.
@@jrr7031 Huh? She's trying to adopted someone's baby when she lives in a trailer with 5 dogs? Her life is a mess! Where does her body, her choice come in????
This woman, her partner, and the guy she cheated with all worked at the same place together. Her answer is to ask her partner to quit. So she and the guy she cheated with continue to work together. No wonder he never got over it.
yeha crazy how she said her only dream in life was to become a wife and mother and then when she was finally engaged and basically on the path to having everything she wants, she ruins it. like i can’t fathom her thought process
Someone who can't financially support themselves shouldn't take on financial responsibility for other living creatures. Sure, people have kids and pets then fall on hard times, it happens and it's awful. That's different. People shouldn't be choosing to make a bad situation worse and inflict their situation onto others. That's unconscionable.
You'd be amazed how certain....stereotypes of women who look and live like this consistently make crappy choices. I have a sister in law who looks like a CLONE of this lady and same story. Dying in poverty, a ton of debt, keeps hoarding animals she can't afford and let's die and lives in section 8 housing and survives off of welfare. And unlike this lady, my SIL is even worse cause she has multiple kids all from different baby daddies and barely takes care of them. Hoarding animals, making terrible financial decisions, and chasing awful dudes to hook up with and pursue relationships with is the only focus in her life lol. There are SO many women in the US out there like this that all sound, look, act, and make the same dumb decisions like Chloe. They number in the millions 😂
@@D3V10U5”Shes only worth making kids🤓” brain rot talking. I understand not liking this woman cause she’s a cheater but I just think men who talk like that about woman in general are giving brain rot like lmfao that’s the only way you can insult a woman, come up with another insult that’s not cringe and unoriginal not to mention the insult doesn’t even make any sense. If anything she’s not worth having kids not the other way around since she can’t afford to bring a kid into this world.
This woman is NOT emotionally ready to adopt a child. She can't emotionally support herself, let alone the emotional needs of a child. To say nothing of the financial implications of caring for a child
It is hard to take care of a child in the early stages, but especially if there is no one around to help like a significant other. I really hope the child does not get adopted by her. I feel bad for even saying that.
I wonder if she could take in the 15 year old. That is more plausible as a single mother than a baby which can't be left by itself so requires daycare during work.
She's a child!! She can't adopt. She has a fancy newer z flip and pixel watch 2 with custom band yet. Owes like 20 company's money she's not paying on. So much in collections. Owes family. 18k car repo only thing she probably pays on is her phone and bill so she can order fast food 6 times a day.
@@cedrickoehn4558 My family was In a good Place when they adopted me, (3yrs old) by the time I was 8 it was all Bad. 36 years old now, slowly getting back on my feet from failed marriages, substance abuse, since the age of 12, ETC. I can't look back on it with Anger though. This is where i'm at, and whats the Next Positive step to make?
Yeah we should have government mandated pseudoscience for 5 years to prevent someone from having kids based on hour financial interview on UA-cam. Can't have poor people with bad genes having kids, 100% chance kids with poor childhoods will turn out like their parents, no chance they can have a happy fulfilling life and need to prevent that
Offering to pay the 150 so she can focus on her finances and be at peace with knowing the kid is okay just shows how good of a person Caleb is and how much he cares about everyone that comes on his show 44:21
I actually appreciate that Caleb, for the most part, strikes a balance of being really tough and brutally honest, but also holding space for compassion.
Her extreme desire for a child is most likely a huge guilt trip from the abortion. Now she has some some hero complex to protect that loser dude, his daughter and adopt any child randomly offered up even though she can barely navigate a car payment. The last thing she needs is another boyfriend OR a child right now.
Adopted person here! Do NOT adopt if you’re not financially stable! I am talking at least a Hammer Score of 6. $18/hr with a trailer that can be effectively stolen by the landlord jacking up the rent is not the way to go! My family lost our trailer when I was 1 and were made homeless. People are dying to adopt babies; someone more stable will adopt them! Do not sentence a child to poverty!
I live in Canada and the adoption process is so hard - we had to put it on pause and all the decisions are so hard. No one should give this woman a baby or child.
Also a child raised in poverty here. It built character. I'm left with constant anxiety about money, but I also make good money decisions, so I guess it was for the best?
@@ironprice Being raised in poverty because it just happened that way is one thing, but to intentionally bring a child who could grow up in security into poverty should be illegal.
What a pathetic excuse!! Just because single mothers do it all the time doesn’t make it okay!! Come on girl! Who wants to bring a child into that situation??!!
@@ilovemusic2543yea I think it’s a more accurate way of describing actually, because you’re acknowledging that there’s another side to the story and someone else may have viewed the situation differently from you 🤷♂️
Isn’t that the case with nearly everyone who comes on this show? Some more than others obviously, but it wouldn’t make for good content if that wasn’t the case.
Agreed. It’s breaking my heart to hear the pain in her voice and see the sadness in her eyes. If your mind is not in the right place, nothing else will. Praying she finds help and healing.
So if it weren’t for the pills failing, her husband would’ve lived his whole life never knowing his wife cheated and got pregnant with another man that he works with… what a living nightmare.
So you: - Cheated on your husband - Got pregnant by a potential deadbeat with several other children by other women - Lost $15,000 of your OWN money on a house that you don’t even own at the end of the day. - Didn’t want anything more than to be a wife/mother but threw it away for a deadbeat. - Ex husband is now married again, with a child, and presumably living well. If there were ever a real case of “I’m the problem” it’s here, folks. Edit: AND you’re planning to adopt a child while in a poor financial situation? My dear god.
Deadbeats are powerful. Us women need to educate ourselves/our kids on deadbeats and bad boys and also develop WILLPOWER. Doing messy things has messy results, and from this show I'm amazed at how many grown men and women don't realize that.
Also pays properry tax on a trailer in her name, but she doesn't actually own, because her other ex won't work and she wanted to help him hide $60,000 owed to his kids he's a deadbeat to. But yeah, she'll "do anything" for kids except allow them to get owed child support.
This is the first client on financial audit that is not defensive and owns most of her mistakes. So small props there. At least she is creating room for improvement.
Caleb peered in this woman's soul with the "Are you sure this child isn't another form of hobby" question. Raising kids is an incredible thing to devote your life to, but the blinkered way she's approaching it is telling. She's rushing to adopt before she's even begun to craft a stable environment to raise a kid in, there's an almost manic air of 'this is what will fix my life' to how she talks about it
I'll bet she's lonely, needs someone to love/love her and someone who she thinks can never leave her...God help any child that she has if she doesn't get serious help first.
Unfortunately many broken people think a child or pet will cure their problems, or make them get it together, but that's not necessarily the case. I know someone who has yet to get it together despite children in the picture.
Well she thinks that 24 is a "I was too young to know better than to sleep with someone else while I was in a committed relationship" sort of age, so clearly her judgment is off.
He wasn’t harsh enough on her especially her adopting a baby due to her own regrets and subjecting them to poverty. Mom is obviously a drug addict giving up her baby to a women with 5 dogs and negative income
I just had a baby at 34 with my very loving and helpful partner. We are financially stable with 2 houses and no debt. Let me tell you this shit is insanely hard. There is no way this woman should have a child right now. She is nowhere near mentally and emotionally stable enough to do it with a partner, let alone alone.
My wife and I had our son a year ago at age 36. You’re right, it ain’t easy. Worth it though. I do wish I would’ve had kids earlier because I would be having more. I’m about to turn 38 and I’m just not young enough to do it again
did I hear this wrong or did the fiance not know about the cheating until after buying the house? edit: Just rewatched, yes the fiance did not know about the cheating until after they bought the house when she was having pregnancy complications. The fiance did nothing wrong from just what we were told
Also: that's Pick me behavior, and a violation to the Girl code. She's seriously screwing over a struggling single mom FOR A MAN, as a single mom to be herself. WHY be an agent of the patriarchy like that, ew. She's male identified, yet couldn't manage not to cheat on her partner. How much male validation does she need, come on!!!
She seems to have a thing about irresponsible men. She may also have serious codependency issues seeing how she feels responsible for the daughter she knows more than the dad does. The dad seems to take the back seat and lets others bear the financial responsibility.
If she actually went through the adoption process that most people have to go through, they would immediately be like “this is not a suitable guardian for a child”. She is not ready to be a mother, it’s not about wanting a baby. It’s about what is best for the baby.
Adoption agencies are thorough and she would not be approved. Sounds like she's going through a coworker who got pregnant and doesn't want it, disgusting.
I'm going through it right now. We're dual professional income, stable, savings, retirement, own a home, and it took almost 9 months just to get approved. Mandated reporter, FBI clearance, home inspection, bank account info, references. We haven't even met any kids yet.
If they do a private person to person adoption, with no agency, it can be done a lot faster. That said a lot of states still require licencing to even get into the courthouse for a TPR hearing for bio mom, and creating her rights, and she would not get that licence.
I looked it up just because I was so worried that someone would give her a baby, and it looks like the state of Texas requires the vetting process regardless. Thank goodness.
You can really tell what a sweetie Caleb is in this episode. Making her laugh with joking about adopting Noah when she was starting to get down, the little “me too” when talking about growing up not in a financially stable home. Thanks for being both kind and stern with your guests, it’s nice to see.
The baby thing is honestly a little concerning. She doesn’t seem to be in a good place right now and she is fixated on the baby as a solution for both her emotional and financial issues. Hell, she even has a full nursery set up for a baby she isn’t able to take care of. What happens if the mother decides she doesn’t want to go the adoption route? I’m not sure this person can handle another thing not going to plan for her.
Let me add…the legitimate surrogacy process in the US wouldn’t even look twice at either woman. You have to undergo mental health screening, financial screening (you can’t be a surrogate if your finances are in a mess because you’re not doing it for the right reasons), etc. I *hate* it when these disasters of people even use the word “surrogate” because that’s really not what they’re doing. They’re trying a poorly executed “private adoption” as a fix for a pregnancy that they cannot emotionally cope with (& can’t cope with abort1on either). I wish Caleb would stay away from these stories of people who have more mental health issues than financial ones. Let’s stick to the immensely more practical (but boring) financial analysis stories.
@@YuckyMama I’m just glad the kid is being given a chance at life at the least but I’m sure neither are in any position to have decided to have a child
@@The_New_Disciple the fact you call that "A Chance" is crazy Reality is they don't even stand a chance. What do you do for children helping to give them" A Chance"?
This is absolutely terrible..between the cheating, abortion, adoption, marrying someone you cheat on, selling a car with 6 months left to get a lower monthly payment.. this lady thinks "what would be the best thing to do here" and then she does the exact opposite..
I think abortion was the one good decision she actually made. Can you imagine how much worse thinks would be if she had a kid to take care of for the last 5 years???
@@RazRemiiXnah, she is demented. She wasn’t at risk of losing her life with that pregnancy. The baby was a “inconvenience” for her. That’s why the world is doomed if we keep going this route
@@danielredziniak2996 every pregnancy raises the risk of losing one's life and puts the mother in danger. If life sustainment is the goal, then abortion should be standard unless actively trying to have a baby. Regardless of our thoughts on abortion, I think we can both agree that this woman is an absolute mess and it would be a tragedy for her to have a kid brought in at this stage of her life.
@@danielredziniak2996people have always had abortions, they’re just safer and legal now. The world isn’t going to end because people don’t bring kids into horrifically unstable home environments.
That’s honestly so scary thinking about this woman having any form of guardianship over a child in any capacity. I sincerely hope the friend sees this and rethinks that decision. There’s so many more qualified, responsible, financially equipped people in the world who can take that child
This frustrates me. There are no check boxes in life. You don’t have to have kids or get married by 25. Ridiculous. Also, you make $18.50 an hour and can’t even support yourself. Adopting a kid would be purely selfish.
You still need to leave room for people having life goals. My wife and I both had personal life goals of having all the kids we're going to have while in our 20s so that we're not really old by the time they graduate.
@@Farselinot all of us get to have that luck to be with a stable person. Had I been still with the same gf i had when I was 20 of course my kid would be 10 already. Im 30 now and my 20s were not met with successful partners long enough for me to have a kid with them
@@PostBoyMD and yet none of that refutes anything that I said. So much of life comes down to luck. That doesn't negate the concept of having life goals. Having a life goal of having kids in your 20s and not making any more after that is still perfectly fine.
Abortion is not good for a person. I feel awful for her. She was sold a bill of goods (this pill won't be so bad) and she got really bad side effects and was emotionally scarred for years. She still is scarred. It sucks.
The idea of this woman adopting a child after experiencing such extensive life changes traumas and just terrible decisions is FRIGHTENING. Please dont think a child will change your life for you. This episode gave me heart palpitations.
@@slangoognalsthis is why until recently, they’d only adopt children out to married couples. This woman blew her chance to be a wife, and now I can’t imagine a single man signing up for her. So instead, she wants to snatch up a kid to fill a void
@@horrorqueen35771, It’s outrageous what’s she’s done to another human being. People are going to react to that. 2, this is a public comment section where people are allowed to comment their opinions.
She needs to go through some serious therapy and self work to be at a point where she can raise a kid. If she really wants to change she probably can, and I sincerely hope she does for her sake and the sake of everyone she knows.
disgusting to think that people will adopt children to make their own life better, your job as a parent is to make the childs life better even at your own expense. Selfishness is a cancer that is running wild in america right now...
Jesus. I have 8000 in my savings(no debt) and sometimes i feels like a total loser. Im 33 and 18 year old me would think im a loser But not after this video. Im cured, i no longer feel like a loser
Teenagers are pretty dumb. Most think they're gonna be super rich and successful when that's not how median income works. 18 year old me was an idiot. Hell, 25 year old me was an idiot. 39 year old me is very happy with her unimpressive life.
Hey man, most 18 year olds are fucking miserable because they believe they have to be a Hero or a millionaire, otherwise their lives are worthless, and because this is so unrealistic for the absolute majority of them, they feel miserable. Be grateful for where you are. I'm 24, have no savings, a massive drug dependency, and my mental health makes me doubt I'll ever be financially stable. But it's ok. At least I'm not dead, I didn't lose any limbs to necrosis from injecting, I'm substituted, and can follow some of my hobbies occasionally. Like everyone else, I imagined my life to be a fairytale, but this reality isn't that glorious. And yet there is plenty of things to be seen, to be felt, to be enjoyed. I'm grateful to be here.
She should NOT bring a child into her unstable home and financial situation! There are requirements for adoption, she doesn’t meet any of them! Love is NOT enough!
Did she say who's paying for the adoption? Even a private adoption requires legal representation for the adults and a guardian adlitem for tge child? And why no budget for childcare?
"that kid would be graduating high school when I am 50"....LADY WAKE UP...what's wrong with that? My oldest will graduate the exact year I turn 50 and my younger, three years after that. It's a different world than it used to be. My husband and I waited and had kids when we were stable and to provide them with a good life. That means that I was 31 and 34 when we had them. I don't regret our timeline ONE BIT. I am THANKFUL for it. Because of us making smart choices, our kids will never have to wonder if rent will be paid or if we have enough to keep our cars from being repoed. You want kids so badly? How about create the environment needed to support them. Don't put the cart before the horse girl. This is desperation speaking, which is the opposite of how you should view bringing children into the world. As for adopting a new baby, if she can't afford life for herself, how in the world would she afford baby stuff and daycare? This is a delusional nightmare. PLEASE DO NOT adopt that baby. Let another family who is able to support the baby adopt it.
I agree. Nothing wrong with being stable when your kids are going to college. I got married at 23 almost 24 and husband 28 and almost 29 - had our first child two yeas later and our last year 9 years later - (5 total). All done by the time my husband was 40 - I was 35. It was fine. Seriously fine.
my mom was like 54 or 55 when i graduated. i dont see an issue with it just happy my mom was there to see it. its better to be old and there for the kid than young and absend
People live longer now too. I was adopted by older parents, they were fantastic parents and wonderful people. Nobody gets everything. My dad was in his early 40s when I was adopted as a baby. The dude was a stoic teddy bear that spoke one word wisdoms and rolled with the punches like Goku after he achieved Ultra Instinct. There may have been a few things I missed out on because he was older, but I've never wasted a thought on that because I was loved and supported in every way. My mother was in her mid 30s when I was adopted, she's still around and she's 10x more youthful than her mother at her current age. I wouldn't change a thing. Well, maybe I'd tell them to drink more water and invest in a few things 😂
@@leahsmith5923 Her co-workers were the ones who told her to apply for the show. She is going to adopt her co-worker's sister's baby so hopefully her co-worker will know about her situation and tell her sister not to give her kid to her.
She is legitimately like the tenth woman I've heard of dealing with a guy who is actively dodging child support and they think that forming a relationship with that person is an acceptable thing to do. WTF is wrong with people???
As a father of a newborn, she is not in a position to raise a baby (financially or mentally) and I hope that the biological mother seriously reconsiders the position she is about to put the baby into.
Severe emotional issues, living in a sketchy trailer park, screwed finances, 5 dogs, trailer packed with "collectibles", etc. For the love of God, PLEASE DON'T PUT A CHILD IN THAT ENVIRONMENT
Her emotions are clouding her mind. She is even supporting her ex-bf's daughter (being her mother figure) because her ex was a deadbeat dad. She wants to be a mom to many kids by hook or by crook at this stage.
She's a child!! She can't adopt. She has a fancy newer z flip and pixel watch 2 with custom band yet. Owes like 20 company's money she's not paying on. So much in collections. Owes family. 18k car repo only thing she probably pays on is her phone and bill so she can order fast food 6 times a day.
I didn’t have my kid until I was 39. I was financially secure and didn’t have debt; still nothing could prepare me for what was to come. My son was born with a life threatening condition that requires constant care and funds. None of this was detected during my healthy pregnancy. No family history of disease. She has no idea what could be in store. She should NOT adopt.
@@chriscanavanii9064it’s a bigger risk after 35, but it’s not as big of a risk as many people think. Many women give birth with no complications after 35. And the OP probably had to wait that long g to financially afford it. Don’t knock her, knock the poorly managed financial assistance for mothers/families.
Sick children are born to parents of all ages. I understand the insult is the goal (especially toward a woman), but maybe put more thought into your comments.
@franciscloutier5387 mys sister had a fully healthy pregnancy at the age of 22 and still had sick children, while my aunt in her late forties had a fully healthy child. Anything can happen at any age.
I was totally grossed out. And then she added animal rescue to the mix. She is a walking case of instant gratification. If she adopts this baby, no amount of love will compensate for her irresponsible nature.
The honesty and lack of non sense excuses is definitely a breath of fresh air. Regardless of how crazy her past is, I think she’s gonna be better off than most who have been on the show just based on her attitude and demeanor.
Yes but she's still underwater and wants to adopt a baby. That messy living mentality is still there. She may acknowledge she fd up, want things to be better, but hasn't changed her ways. Same with the trailer thing and the ex's child support. Sets herself up for problems.
No she will not. She is fully aware yet continuing to make horrible long-term decisions. She needs therapy and self-evaluation to do the opposite of every decision she will ever make from here on out.
Yes I agree! I think the reason she is very open and basically trauma dumping is because she’s tired of her own shit! Only half way through but I can tell she wants to change, she just needs guidance & support.
100%. I’ve noticed that a lot of people who “really want a baby” only focus on the little temporary, cutesy aspects of infancy like nurseries, tiny clothes, toys, etc. They never express the same interest in the baby’s growth and don’t seem to consider longterm consequences of not being ready to raise a human - they literally _just_ want an infant that they seem to think is going to be an infant forever. This is just like when people adopt puppies and kittens because they’re cute or specific breeds because they’re pretty but then lose interest once the puppy/kitten grows up or when they didn’t research the breed they wanted and are mad that it’s high-maintenance.
I don’t know that they’re admitting to it “as if it’s acceptable” so much as being honest about their choices. Honesty is required to redeem. That’s what they’re doing.
I’m just listening to the part where she discussed potentially adopting a child-as an adoptive parent myself, you generally have to have a home study approved by the courts in order to legally adopt, and they will care about your finances, background, etc as part of the home study. Just one more motivation for her. It is a very intense and invasive process-rightly so. You have to be in a stable, healthy place in life to adopt.
@@skyegroome223 doesn’t matter, we adopted privately, in most states you still have to have a homestudy regardless if it’s truly an adoption and not just legal guardianship or something.
Would this still apply since she could claim to be a friend of the family? I hope it does, because that poor baby deserves a stable, selfless love from both a mother AND a father.
Offering to pay for a deadbeats taxes to help out this lady and keep a kid you’ve never met safe is probably the sweetest thing I’ve seen in months. Huge kudos to you and all that you do!
I’m not sure how great her ex husband was. He put the house in his name while she paid the down payment, mortgage payments, and monthly living expenses. When he divorces her he keeps the house (I think? I haven’t finished the video yet) and she gets all the credit card debt from their shared expenses. Doesn’t seem fair financially, even despite the cheating and secret pregnancy.
@alicias659 true but I'm assuming he wasn't prepared for a break up from cheating Things would worked out ok in the long run if she kept it in her pants
So many people laugh and lie while Caleb usually cares more, but this time Caleb can't stop laughing out of shock while she's so honest and cares so much... kind of refreshing to see
Yet she's still dating down by dating a guy who has multiple kids by multiple mums, won't work, hasn't paid his child support and doesn't pay the taxes for his own trailer. We're thinking she's rock bottom yet she's paying his bills. 🤦♀️
The only way I would think the kid would be in a better situation with this winner over here is if the bio mom was a homeless addict who had no one else to adopt the kid. So.. basically never? Lol
Oh sweetheart, adopting a child will not take away the pain of aborting your child. Please seek help. There are free counseling services for women who have aborted their kids.
My husband and I finally got pregnant right before our 15 year anniversary. It just never happened! Sometimes I’m sad about being an older first time mom but it’s also nice having savings, no car payments, retirement accounts, her college already saved for, etc. Everything has pros and cons.
Whatching these always reminds me how uncomplicated my life is. Life can be hard all around and I try to not judge people too hard, but sometimes people make decisions that make their life extremely complicated.
Seriously. Unfortunately our culture seems to hide the simple fact that "actions have consequences." Thing's aren't just "going to be okay", you have to make them okay. No one is going to bail you out, nor should you expect them to. You have to put serious effort into making your life as simple and peaceful as possible, which starts with your reputation and honor, as well as fostering self control and discipline. Everyone has different difficulties in life that they can't control, but don't throw away those advantages you have because of poor decisions and a lack of self respect. Boy I'm sounding more and more like a boomer dad every day. At least this guest is finally facing up to her mistakes and trying to address them.
As a 33 year old woman, I don't get the "my life is over if I have kids THIS LATE". I was adopted by my parents when they were 40 from a teen mom. She has been asked to adopt a kid from her coworkers younger sister - I worry about that stuff since she has a history of such impulsive decisions. (see cheating, & see buying a trailer with her 401K, helping her deadbeat dad ex to hide assets from the courts - & by extension, stealing from his other children, etc.) There is nothing wrong with having the aspirations of motherhood & being a wife but I just feel like this is wild. Having the ability to change your mind as conditions change (especially here when they changed due to choices she made to cheat) is important - your life isn't over at 32. I grew up in small town Texas &, while I have never had 'husband & child' as my top line goal but she doesn't think that growing up in a financially stressful household will affect a child....she needs major therapy.
There's a giant hole in her heart that she is desperately trying to fill. Spending won't do it. Nor will becoming a parent. Babies and kids are not a source of emotional support, they REQUIRE a ton of emotional (and financial) resources. I foresee disaster. She is not too old to become a parent and will still not be when she is in a better place as a person. If she is open to adoption, there are many kids who will still need her in a few years from now when she has the personal resiliency to support them.
@current3109 and the bad thing is, healthy at every weight is just a coping mechanism. The body don't freakin lie. It is unhealthy, unsightly, and if not medically related *AND* treated.....its essentially assisted suicide, with extra steps and benign neglect.
In terms of settlements I wouldn't say 60k is a ton but it's definitely a really good amount of money. You could set yourself up really really well with that
Men don't look past cheating, they simply decide that they 1: care more about being with you than they do about who you are. or 2: have too little respect for themselves to care that you hurt them in the most intimate of ways. The act of you cheating will always be in the back of his mind, and will always be a scar. The scar doesn't heal, and likely will only reopen as a wound every so often.
Caleb anyway you can do a collab with a legit therapist on one of these audits? This woman is NOT emotionally, mentally or financially in a position to raise a child rn. It would be a CRIME to hand any child over to her and incredibly selfish to proceed at this time.
She embodies everything wrong with adoption. Adoption should only be an option when the child will benefit. In this case it sounds like the child would be going from one incapable mother to another. She selfishly wants a child and thinks she has earned the right to one which she hasn’t.
Agree... if she can't afford life now, she won't when/if she adopts. Childcare alone is thousands a month in many places. And if it's just the two of them, she likely will make too much to qualify for gov assistance.. plus with her having that trailer title in her name, if she buys another trailer or house, she won't qualify for gov assistance regardless since one would be considered an asset. 😔 She wants a baby and that's fine.. but right now is not the time.
Caleb you were firm with her yet still were considerate of what she has gone through that in itself is impressive. As for helping her and the ex making sure his child has a place to live had me tear up. That is so kind and caring of you. I hope she gets the help she needs
Right? At first it seemed "juicy fun trainwreck" kinda mess but watching, I just feel that she needs more than financial help. She like wants to self deconstruct..like she thinks she doesn't deserve to be better...
How is she going to pay for daycare when she has a baby? She has no savings, no support system, no self control. She needs to get her life together before she thinks about taking responsibility for another life.
I'm assuming a big part of the plan is daycare vouchers and other forms of help. I'm not knocking on people in need of help, but she has to be planning on getting by with those forms of help as her plan outright.
@MissMosierable idk about MO but I live in Nebraska and I make just under 20 bucks an hour and get no assistance on a family of 3. I can't see that she will qualify for anything. And especially with the 54k a year. She's actually more fucked than she would be if she did qualify for state daycare.
She's a child!! She can't adopt. She has a fancy newer z flip and pixel watch 2 with custom band yet. Owes like 20 company's money she's not paying on. So much in collections. Owes family. 18k car repo only thing she probably pays on is her phone and bill so she can order fast food 6 times a day.
You shouldn't even need Caleb for that, if you have BASIC COMMON SENSE. I emptied out mine about two months ago when it hit about $240 a d4mn month. I rented a truck and got that crap out. She has no ambition, and I'm almost 100% certain that she has ADHD and has no clue.
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@@CalebHammer there's apetition for you to wear a heart rate monitor during an audit. . . It's picking up speed and all of your Taquitos love the idea
I'd be interested in her nail polish if she has an email you can ask her to give.
I've known this amazing girl for 15 years and it amazes me some of the nasty comments here. Yes, I don't co-sign a lot of the decisions she made, but if I went on the show I'm sure it would be messy, too. So would most people commenting on here. I think it's brave to come on here, be vulnerable and honest, cop a drilling and maybe learn something that could help her not replicate these mistakes again. Definitely hard to watch, but I'm proud of her.
Edit: The adoption fell through weeks ago and she has been in the higher paying job for a while now. They knew this during the filming, but it wasn't addressed. I thought I would address it.
Just a heads up you guys have discounts in your description that are over a week past expiration 😂
I own a condo. I have about 400k in equity. What is the best way to use that to purchase another property without raising my current mortgage?
This is a petition to have Caleb wear a blood pressure monitor during an audit
At least a heart rate monitor
Yes
This is me signing the petition
YESSSS
This is the dumbest idea ever and he should do it immediately.
Caleb navigating how to get this girl to stop trauma dumping on him and steering it back to finances while trying not to offend the internet is like an Olympic sport and he’s a gold medalist.
As a therapist, that was some top tier redirecting great job, Caleb! 😅
Literally 😂😂
Caleb is a great interviewer.
Caleb is seriously such a patient and compassionate person
I think he probably also cares about how the person he’s talking to reacts when he does that. I doubt it’s just about the audience.
Please lady get therapy. You do NOT need to bring a child into a trailer with 5 dogs and negative $300 a month. Clearly your desire for this child is just to off-set the loss you suffered in the past. I promise you that feeling of loss will never leave you and no one or thing will replace that...Get Therapy!!! If you think a child only needs love, you're wrong, it needs a lot more than that!!!
What helps me sleep at night is knowing the adoption agency will take one look at her living situation and say no way in hell are we letting you adopt a child.
@@demonpaw11I wish that were true. Foster to adopt is a little strict, but outright adopting privately is easy and you don't have to prove anything. All they want are the funds you pay for using their services. Adoption in the US is pretty f*cked.
Hey!!!! Her body, her choice. Yes?
@@jrr7031 Huh? She's trying to adopted someone's baby when she lives in a trailer with 5 dogs? Her life is a mess! Where does her body, her choice come in????
@@cardozoinator bring In a child, I misconstrued. It was adopt a child. She did exercise her choice earlier with Chad's baby.
This woman, her partner, and the guy she cheated with all worked at the same place together.
Her answer is to ask her partner to quit.
So she and the guy she cheated with continue to work together.
No wonder he never got over it.
My thoughts exactly it blew my mind he didn't address that.
If she really wanted to work on that marriage they both would’ve quit. Still shouldn’t have cheated in the first place tho.
Plus, the guy he cheated with was black. Almost another idiocracy kid to throw into the world
yeha crazy how she said her only dream in life was to become a wife and mother and then when she was finally engaged and basically on the path to having everything she wants, she ruins it. like i can’t fathom her thought process
@@graceclover8697 With a black man too
Can't pay for a car
Can't pay for car insurance
Lives in a trailer
Wants to adopt a baby
I kept waiting for her to say she's in love with her cousin 😅
Got to love that “white privilege”.
Thankfully no agency that deals with it has adoptions will let this clown anywhere near a child.
You a i know she cheated with a black man
@@carlosdelsol76what if he was actually white
You couldn’t waterboard that information out of me
She's into histrionics.
Ha agree
Don't get married, guys
I was looking for this comment because if I couldn't find it I was going to post it myself lol
Hiding it isn't good for you, exposing it will help her get over it sooner.
"The DNA results are in... you are NOT a credit card person"
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T shirt idea
Best comment lmao
The 5 dogs in the trailer is killing me. How can you bring a baby into a trailer with 5 dogs and negative income!? Wtf
Someone who can't financially support themselves shouldn't take on financial responsibility for other living creatures. Sure, people have kids and pets then fall on hard times, it happens and it's awful. That's different. People shouldn't be choosing to make a bad situation worse and inflict their situation onto others. That's unconscionable.
You'd be amazed how certain....stereotypes of women who look and live like this consistently make crappy choices. I have a sister in law who looks like a CLONE of this lady and same story. Dying in poverty, a ton of debt, keeps hoarding animals she can't afford and let's die and lives in section 8 housing and survives off of welfare. And unlike this lady, my SIL is even worse cause she has multiple kids all from different baby daddies and barely takes care of them. Hoarding animals, making terrible financial decisions, and chasing awful dudes to hook up with and pursue relationships with is the only focus in her life lol.
There are SO many women in the US out there like this that all sound, look, act, and make the same dumb decisions like Chloe. They number in the millions 😂
She's a breeder, that's all she's worth tbh. Either making kids or taking on fur kids. She needs a psychiatrist before any other help
@@D3V10U5”Shes only worth making kids🤓” brain rot talking. I understand not liking this woman cause she’s a cheater but I just think men who talk like that about woman in general are giving brain rot like lmfao that’s the only way you can insult a woman, come up with another insult that’s not cringe and unoriginal not to mention the insult doesn’t even make any sense. If anything she’s not worth having kids not the other way around since she can’t afford to bring a kid into this world.
And a trailer that she admits is bad, in a sketchy neighborhood, and filled with various collections.
This woman is NOT emotionally ready to adopt a child. She can't emotionally support herself, let alone the emotional needs of a child. To say nothing of the financial implications of caring for a child
Couldn't support a dog.... Wants a kid....
She's looking for external validation. Cheaters, low lifes, a kid, she justs wants someone to make her feel loved.
It is hard to take care of a child in the early stages, but especially if there is no one around to help like a significant other. I really hope the child does not get adopted by her. I feel bad for even saying that.
I wonder if she could take in the 15 year old. That is more plausible as a single mother than a baby which can't be left by itself so requires daycare during work.
@@exqueue3813"cheaters" the cheater was her...dont get it twisted.
as someone who was adopted, SHE DOES NOT NEED TO ADOPT A CHILD
She's a child!! She can't adopt. She has a fancy newer z flip and pixel watch 2 with custom band yet. Owes like 20 company's money she's not paying on. So much in collections. Owes family. 18k car repo only thing she probably pays on is her phone and bill so she can order fast food 6 times a day.
I also am adopted and I agree. You MUST be in a good place mentally before even considering adopting
@@cedrickoehn4558 My family was In a good Place when they adopted me, (3yrs old) by the time I was 8 it was all Bad. 36 years old now, slowly getting back on my feet from failed marriages, substance abuse, since the age of 12, ETC. I can't look back on it with Anger though. This is where i'm at, and whats the Next Positive step to make?
Yeah.. adopting a child to make you happy isn’t a great idea. Especially if you want to be a full time mom. Who’s going to be making money?
Someone posted in another thread that the adoption fell through. I bet the mother changed her mind.
“I told him to quit!”
“Which one?”
This episode is so spicy
Lol she work with her fiancee and her lover, man the tension at the work place must be insane.
@@khanhnguyen-tt3ffand told the husband to quit instead of the lover….she should have quit!!
youre worthless
She wanted to be left behind with baby daddy
@@di842 I kind of find it hard to believe the husband would quit so her and the other guy could "work" together without him there.
Planning to choose to be a struggling single mom is wildly selfish.
Not to mention child care was not added into her budget…and that’s typically a HUGE chunk of anyone’s income who is middle class or under…
She used you as a confessional. FORGIVE ME FATHER CALEB
"No"
Father Caleb, patron saint of finances
She doesn’t deserve forgiveness from father Caleb
Underrated comment hahaha
*Daddy Caleb 😏
all due respect this woman has absolutely no business becoming any form of mother until at least 5 years of intensive therapy
The funny thing is there are so many women like this and they thought overturning roe v wade is a good idea.
Where is the “due” respect??? This woman has not done anything to earn anyone’s respect, there is no respect due.
Yeah we should have government mandated pseudoscience for 5 years to prevent someone from having kids based on hour financial interview on UA-cam. Can't have poor people with bad genes having kids, 100% chance kids with poor childhoods will turn out like their parents, no chance they can have a happy fulfilling life and need to prevent that
You should've just said "NEVER".
As in, SHE SHOULD NEVER HAVE THE PRIVILEGE OF RAISING THE FUTURE!
Where do you get the 5 year timeline dr 😂
She’s dopamine chasing. She’s hoping this child will solve all of her problems. I hope the girl having the baby reconsiders and finds a better home.
She has a clear case of ADHD too. She needs to be evaluated by a psychiatrist.
I hope the woman giving up the baby WATCHES THIS EPISODE!
Offering to pay the 150 so she can focus on her finances and be at peace with knowing the kid is okay just shows how good of a person Caleb is and how much he cares about everyone that comes on his show 44:21
It kills me that people can call their significant other “great” while cheating on them. It drives me crazy.
#Hindsight!
I respect that a tiny bit more than trying to blame it on their partner being a terrible person.
I think its cuz the cheating isnt about the other person. Its that they have a character flaw of being unfaithful
Even politicians cant be bothered with those obvious fake compliments anymore.
And this poor guy is stupid enough to stay with her
lol Caleb heard “Caleb Springer” one time and NEVER looked back
😂😂😂
Lmao
He could feed china with the amount of tea he spills
Indeed.
1000%
I actually appreciate that Caleb, for the most part, strikes a balance of being really tough and brutally honest, but also holding space for compassion.
Especially in this one. He is very good.
@@emilym9019 its the biggest reason i cant watch dave ramsey. He has the emotional intelligence of a raisin. Caleb knows when to pull back
I appreciate Caleb's kindness and compassion too....despite the mess, he still makes space for the human component
Her extreme desire for a child is most likely a huge guilt trip from the abortion. Now she has some some hero complex to protect that loser dude, his daughter and adopt any child randomly offered up even though she can barely navigate a car payment. The last thing she needs is another boyfriend OR a child right now.
Bingo
This first 10 minutes of this episode felt like an entirely different show holy crap.
Noah sure knows how to pick 'em, eh?😏
It was so unnecessary to the overall plot... a total TMI and could've just said she racked up some debt during a breakup
@@sk6i75odkdon't you take my tea from me
Had the whole “oh woe is me” attitude. News flash, actions have consequences. Eat your karma and shut the hell up
I want to like your comment but it's at 666 😂
Adopted person here! Do NOT adopt if you’re not financially stable! I am talking at least a Hammer Score of 6. $18/hr with a trailer that can be effectively stolen by the landlord jacking up the rent is not the way to go! My family lost our trailer when I was 1 and were made homeless. People are dying to adopt babies; someone more stable will adopt them! Do not sentence a child to poverty!
You are so right. I used to work with foster kids and babies were always adopted right away. She’s really being selfish here.
I live in Canada and the adoption process is so hard - we had to put it on pause and all the decisions are so hard. No one should give this woman a baby or child.
child raised in poverty here- 100% agree
Also a child raised in poverty here. It built character. I'm left with constant anxiety about money, but I also make good money decisions, so I guess it was for the best?
@@ironprice Being raised in poverty because it just happened that way is one thing, but to intentionally bring a child who could grow up in security into poverty should be illegal.
“Single moms do it all the time”- someone not understanding that single moms choose not to do it all the time.
😂
Swear because wtf is she talking about. This whole episode is just her making excuses to why she’s a horrible human being.
also see the legion of single moms complaining because, as it turns out, raising a kid solo is REALLY FREAKING HARD.
This
What a pathetic excuse!!
Just because single mothers do it all the time doesn’t make it okay!!
Come on girl!
Who wants to bring a child into that situation??!!
The second somebody says "my truth" I discount them as unserious individuals.
Indeed. There may be multiple sides to a story, but reality is what it is. "My truth" frames someones perception as actual fact.
All I have heard is just what happened.
@@tylerkinley268saying “my” makes its personal and one sided not a complete fact like you were saying, words matter and create context.
@@ilovemusic2543yea I think it’s a more accurate way of describing actually, because you’re acknowledging that there’s another side to the story and someone else may have viewed the situation differently from you 🤷♂️
She said “my truth” like we’re about to watch a trailer to a movie, so cringe 😂
This woman is in no condition to try and talk about her finances. She needs to seek mental help asap.
Isn’t that the case with nearly everyone who comes on this show? Some more than others obviously, but it wouldn’t make for good content if that wasn’t the case.
Agreed. It’s breaking my heart to hear the pain in her voice and see the sadness in her eyes. If your mind is not in the right place, nothing else will. Praying she finds help and healing.
Na she just needs to grow up and stop being a garbage human
@@TelmaFregeshe’s a cheater, fuck it!
@@TelmaFrege I got not an ounce of empathy for cheater.
So if it weren’t for the pills failing, her husband would’ve lived his whole life never knowing his wife cheated and got pregnant with another man that he works with… what a living nightmare.
Glad youre not the only one noticing that
She literally said she wouldn’t have told him. The fact that people are that selfish is crazy
Oh and would be raising someone else's child lol!!!
@@austinjacobsen7689 No, she didn't intend on keeping that pregnancy. That's why she took the medication to begin with.
I think he knew she cheated but didnt know she got preg.
So you:
- Cheated on your husband
- Got pregnant by a potential deadbeat with several other children by other women
- Lost $15,000 of your OWN money on a house that you don’t even own at the end of the day.
- Didn’t want anything more than to be a wife/mother but threw it away for a deadbeat.
- Ex husband is now married again, with a child, and presumably living well.
If there were ever a real case of “I’m the problem” it’s here, folks.
Edit: AND you’re planning to adopt a child while in a poor financial situation? My dear god.
Deadbeats are powerful. Us women need to educate ourselves/our kids on deadbeats and bad boys and also develop WILLPOWER.
Doing messy things has messy results, and from this show I'm amazed at how many grown men and women don't realize that.
She's young. Not an excuse but a factor.@@purpurina5663
Also pays properry tax on a trailer in her name, but she doesn't actually own, because her other ex won't work and she wanted to help him hide $60,000 owed to his kids he's a deadbeat to. But yeah, she'll "do anything" for kids except allow them to get owed child support.
@@MissMosierable good point!!
@@MissMosierable damn I didn't notice that. She's helping one but hurting the others.
This is the first client on financial audit that is not defensive and owns most of her mistakes. So small props there. At least she is creating room for improvement.
She’s not owning up to it to fix it she’s looking for sympathy
Caleb peered in this woman's soul with the "Are you sure this child isn't another form of hobby" question. Raising kids is an incredible thing to devote your life to, but the blinkered way she's approaching it is telling. She's rushing to adopt before she's even begun to craft a stable environment to raise a kid in, there's an almost manic air of 'this is what will fix my life' to how she talks about it
Her collecting pets and paying for deadbeat dad and his daughter also bolsters your assessment.
I actually said out loud, "that is an EXCELLENT question." Smart guy.
It's a lifetime commitment
I'll bet she's lonely, needs someone to love/love her and someone who she thinks can never leave her...God help any child that she has if she doesn't get serious help first.
Unfortunately many broken people think a child or pet will cure their problems, or make them get it together, but that's not necessarily the case. I know someone who has yet to get it together despite children in the picture.
Lmaooooo announcing A SECRET PREGNANCY via financial audit is crazy😂😂😂
Really makes me wonder if some of these people are here for their 15 minutes of fame/notoriety
Guess they believe no publicity is bad publicity
Damn I need therapy after this one
Well she thinks that 24 is a "I was too young to know better than to sleep with someone else while I was in a committed relationship" sort of age, so clearly her judgment is off.
Caleb Springer
The fact she chose another bum is funny af 🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡🤡
The way Caleb handles this guest is basicslly perfect. He challenges her, he says what needs to be said, but he is so kind/makes her so comfortable.
Idc if hes kind to her honestly she doesnt really deserve it. Shes awful and she needs to be kept away from children.
@@IZenI00this is why you and most of us wouldn’t be able to have a successful show. Doing that would push people away from showing up to these
@@jameshumphrey3425 doing what, nothing I said except for keep her away from children was really actionable, and caleb really should tell her not to.
@@jameshumphrey3425nah, this lady is just a terrible person that has caused her own problems, lol 😂
He wasn’t harsh enough on her especially her adopting a baby due to her own regrets and subjecting them to poverty. Mom is obviously a drug addict giving up her baby to a women with 5 dogs and negative income
I just had a baby at 34 with my very loving and helpful partner. We are financially stable with 2 houses and no debt. Let me tell you this shit is insanely hard. There is no way this woman should have a child right now. She is nowhere near mentally and emotionally stable enough to do it with a partner, let alone alone.
My wife and I had our son a year ago at age 36. You’re right, it ain’t easy. Worth it though. I do wish I would’ve had kids earlier because I would be having more. I’m about to turn 38 and I’m just not young enough to do it again
Exactly she’s like “ I’m ready to have a baby I just got rid of my Starbucks cups and mugs I’m so committed 🤡🤡”
She should not be given that child…
You are so right, she is absolutely clueless what it means to raise a child. The child would be the one that pays if she does this.
She is also a hoarder, all her collections and collecting animals. It just gets worse the more he questions her.
Where is the proof about this increase in pay? She may just be saying this to hear him say yes she can follow through on her plan to adopt.
Getting a house with someone who just cheated on you has to be in the top 5 worst financial and relationship decisions you can make
“We should split up.” “No, let’s buy a house.”
That AND moving so fast with everything? They both had some major red flags.
did I hear this wrong or did the fiance not know about the cheating until after buying the house?
edit: Just rewatched, yes the fiance did not know about the cheating until after they bought the house when she was having pregnancy complications. The fiance did nothing wrong from just what we were told
@@CoolHandLuke196that’s what I thought. I’m pretty sure she just tried breaking up with him without telling him about the cheating
Sounds like it worked out in his favor tho since she paid 15k for the down payment but he’s the one that legally owns the house lol
Dating a man that hides from back child suppport and helping them do that is disgusting.
AGREE
But the d was good lmao
Hiding assets to avoid child support is a very serious offense.
Also: that's Pick me behavior, and a violation to the Girl code. She's seriously screwing over a struggling single mom FOR A MAN, as a single mom to be herself. WHY be an agent of the patriarchy like that, ew. She's male identified, yet couldn't manage not to cheat on her partner. How much male validation does she need, come on!!!
She seems to have a thing about irresponsible men. She may also have serious codependency issues seeing how she feels responsible for the daughter she knows more than the dad does. The dad seems to take the back seat and lets others bear the financial responsibility.
If she actually went through the adoption process that most people have to go through, they would immediately be like “this is not a suitable guardian for a child”. She is not ready to be a mother, it’s not about wanting a baby. It’s about what is best for the baby.
Adoption agencies are thorough and she would not be approved. Sounds like she's going through a coworker who got pregnant and doesn't want it, disgusting.
I'm going through it right now. We're dual professional income, stable, savings, retirement, own a home, and it took almost 9 months just to get approved. Mandated reporter, FBI clearance, home inspection, bank account info, references. We haven't even met any kids yet.
@@robertlibutti6605please contact her coworkers sister 🙈
If they do a private person to person adoption, with no agency, it can be done a lot faster. That said a lot of states still require licencing to even get into the courthouse for a TPR hearing for bio mom, and creating her rights, and she would not get that licence.
I looked it up just because I was so worried that someone would give her a baby, and it looks like the state of Texas requires the vetting process regardless. Thank goodness.
🚩🚩🚩 for hoarding with the Starbucks cups, expired nail polish, abandoned hobbies and 5 dogs.
This woman needs therapy, not a child.
Sounds like ADHD honestly
You can really tell what a sweetie Caleb is in this episode. Making her laugh with joking about adopting Noah when she was starting to get down, the little “me too” when talking about growing up not in a financially stable home.
Thanks for being both kind and stern with your guests, it’s nice to see.
Those are the moments when her personality came out a bit!
The fact he took upon paying for the fee of the child as well so she doesn’t get screwed
“Bad decisions were made” is the motto of Financial Audit.
Lol it called an audit .
@@khanhnguyen-tt3ff 🤨
The baby thing is honestly a little concerning. She doesn’t seem to be in a good place right now and she is fixated on the baby as a solution for both her emotional and financial issues. Hell, she even has a full nursery set up for a baby she isn’t able to take care of. What happens if the mother decides she doesn’t want to go the adoption route? I’m not sure this person can handle another thing not going to plan for her.
Seems like she regrets the abortion and the cheating
I am curious if the birth mom is worse off or if she is being a bad friend and avoiding her responsibility.
Let me add…the legitimate surrogacy process in the US wouldn’t even look twice at either woman. You have to undergo mental health screening, financial screening (you can’t be a surrogate if your finances are in a mess because you’re not doing it for the right reasons), etc. I *hate* it when these disasters of people even use the word “surrogate” because that’s really not what they’re doing. They’re trying a poorly executed “private adoption” as a fix for a pregnancy that they cannot emotionally cope with (& can’t cope with abort1on either).
I wish Caleb would stay away from these stories of people who have more mental health issues than financial ones. Let’s stick to the immensely more practical (but boring) financial analysis stories.
@@YuckyMama I’m just glad the kid is being given a chance at life at the least but I’m sure neither are in any position to have decided to have a child
@@The_New_Disciple the fact you call that "A Chance" is crazy Reality is they don't even stand a chance. What do you do for children helping to give them" A Chance"?
I'm so glad the fiance/husband had a happy ending. he seemed like a good man who didn't deserve all the shit she put him through
This is absolutely terrible..between the cheating, abortion, adoption, marrying someone you cheat on, selling a car with 6 months left to get a lower monthly payment.. this lady thinks "what would be the best thing to do here" and then she does the exact opposite..
And funding loser boyfriends.
I think abortion was the one good decision she actually made. Can you imagine how much worse thinks would be if she had a kid to take care of for the last 5 years???
@@RazRemiiXnah, she is demented. She wasn’t at risk of losing her life with that pregnancy. The baby was a “inconvenience” for her. That’s why the world is doomed if we keep going this route
@@danielredziniak2996 every pregnancy raises the risk of losing one's life and puts the mother in danger. If life sustainment is the goal, then abortion should be standard unless actively trying to have a baby. Regardless of our thoughts on abortion, I think we can both agree that this woman is an absolute mess and it would be a tragedy for her to have a kid brought in at this stage of her life.
@@danielredziniak2996people have always had abortions, they’re just safer and legal now. The world isn’t going to end because people don’t bring kids into horrifically unstable home environments.
That’s honestly so scary thinking about this woman having any form of guardianship over a child in any capacity. I sincerely hope the friend sees this and rethinks that decision. There’s so many more qualified, responsible, financially equipped people in the world who can take that child
She probably wants state benefits
@@LanaRiossoh I bet you’re right 😢
This frustrates me. There are no check boxes in life. You don’t have to have kids or get married by 25. Ridiculous. Also, you make $18.50 an hour and can’t even support yourself. Adopting a kid would be purely selfish.
You still need to leave room for people having life goals. My wife and I both had personal life goals of having all the kids we're going to have while in our 20s so that we're not really old by the time they graduate.
Purely selfish is kinda her MO, she just hids behind nice or I made a dumb mistake
@@Farselinot all of us get to have that luck to be with a stable person. Had I been still with the same gf i had when I was 20 of course my kid would be 10 already. Im 30 now and my 20s were not met with successful partners long enough for me to have a kid with them
She is selfish. This episode proves that. She cheated and then made herself out to be the victim. She’s gross
@@PostBoyMD and yet none of that refutes anything that I said. So much of life comes down to luck. That doesn't negate the concept of having life goals.
Having a life goal of having kids in your 20s and not making any more after that is still perfectly fine.
She needs help. The termination seems to have upset her a lot more than she has faced.
Abortion is not good for a person. I feel awful for her. She was sold a bill of goods (this pill won't be so bad) and she got really bad side effects and was emotionally scarred for years. She still is scarred. It sucks.
This is the most Caleb springer episode yet
damn right
No shoes were thrown. He still has room to improve
@@MotherOfWednesday You beat me to it! I was gonna say "chairs".😂
Who is Caleb Springer?
Ca-Leb! Ca-Leb! Ca-Leb!
Please please please do not adopt a child until you can self-regulate and have a few more tools from therapy. You are not ready.
And financial stability and a PERMANENT partner!!
The idea of this woman adopting a child after experiencing such extensive life changes traumas and just terrible decisions is FRIGHTENING. Please dont think a child will change your life for you. This episode gave me heart palpitations.
She's incredibly selfish. Too selfish to be a wife, too selfish to be a mother, yet she insists on becoming both.
@@slangoognalsthis is why until recently, they’d only adopt children out to married couples. This woman blew her chance to be a wife, and now I can’t imagine a single man signing up for her. So instead, she wants to snatch up a kid to fill a void
@@horrorqueen35771, It’s outrageous what’s she’s done to another human being. People are going to react to that. 2, this is a public comment section where people are allowed to comment their opinions.
She needs to go through some serious therapy and self work to be at a point where she can raise a kid. If she really wants to change she probably can, and I sincerely hope she does for her sake and the sake of everyone she knows.
disgusting to think that people will adopt children to make their own life better, your job as a parent is to make the childs life better even at your own expense. Selfishness is a cancer that is running wild in america right now...
Jesus. I have 8000 in my savings(no debt) and sometimes i feels like a total loser.
Im 33 and 18 year old me would think im a loser
But not after this video. Im cured, i no longer feel like a loser
Teenagers are pretty dumb. Most think they're gonna be super rich and successful when that's not how median income works. 18 year old me was an idiot. Hell, 25 year old me was an idiot. 39 year old me is very happy with her unimpressive life.
Hey man, most 18 year olds are fucking miserable because they believe they have to be a Hero or a millionaire, otherwise their lives are worthless, and because this is so unrealistic for the absolute majority of them, they feel miserable.
Be grateful for where you are.
I'm 24, have no savings, a massive drug dependency, and my mental health makes me doubt I'll ever be financially stable. But it's ok. At least I'm not dead, I didn't lose any limbs to necrosis from injecting, I'm substituted, and can follow some of my hobbies occasionally. Like everyone else, I imagined my life to be a fairytale, but this reality isn't that glorious. And yet there is plenty of things to be seen, to be felt, to be enjoyed. I'm grateful to be here.
She should NOT bring a child into her unstable home and financial situation! There are requirements for adoption, she doesn’t meet any of them! Love is NOT enough!
Honestly, the biological mom probably isn't better off if she's willing to let this woman adopt her kid in her financial situation.
@skyegroome223 Yeah sounds like a lesser of 2 evils thing.
it’s a private adoption it’s up to the mother on whether she wants to give it up or not.
Thank god
Did she say who's paying for the adoption? Even a private adoption requires legal representation for the adults and a guardian adlitem for tge child? And why no budget for childcare?
"that kid would be graduating high school when I am 50"....LADY WAKE UP...what's wrong with that? My oldest will graduate the exact year I turn 50 and my younger, three years after that. It's a different world than it used to be. My husband and I waited and had kids when we were stable and to provide them with a good life. That means that I was 31 and 34 when we had them. I don't regret our timeline ONE BIT. I am THANKFUL for it. Because of us making smart choices, our kids will never have to wonder if rent will be paid or if we have enough to keep our cars from being repoed. You want kids so badly? How about create the environment needed to support them. Don't put the cart before the horse girl. This is desperation speaking, which is the opposite of how you should view bringing children into the world. As for adopting a new baby, if she can't afford life for herself, how in the world would she afford baby stuff and daycare? This is a delusional nightmare. PLEASE DO NOT adopt that baby. Let another family who is able to support the baby adopt it.
I agree. Nothing wrong with being stable when your kids are going to college. I got married at 23 almost 24 and husband 28 and almost 29 - had our first child two yeas later and our last year 9 years later - (5 total). All done by the time my husband was 40 - I was 35. It was fine. Seriously fine.
@@beckypetersen2680 exactly!
my mom was like 54 or 55 when i graduated. i dont see an issue with it just happy my mom was there to see it. its better to be old and there for the kid than young and absend
@@paprikagames 100% agree
People live longer now too. I was adopted by older parents, they were fantastic parents and wonderful people.
Nobody gets everything. My dad was in his early 40s when I was adopted as a baby. The dude was a stoic teddy bear that spoke one word wisdoms and rolled with the punches like Goku after he achieved Ultra Instinct.
There may have been a few things I missed out on because he was older, but I've never wasted a thought on that because I was loved and supported in every way.
My mother was in her mid 30s when I was adopted, she's still around and she's 10x more youthful than her mother at her current age.
I wouldn't change a thing. Well, maybe I'd tell them to drink more water and invest in a few things 😂
Thinking she's in a good situation to raise a child is absolute insanity
This. Caleb you can’t say it, so I will: bringing a child into your situation would be fucking criminal and AWFUL for the kid
@@leahsmith5923 Her co-workers were the ones who told her to apply for the show. She is going to adopt her co-worker's sister's baby so hopefully her co-worker will know about her situation and tell her sister not to give her kid to her.
TBH, she shouldn't even have a succulent on her windowsill.
The thing in question decided to cheat on her ex and kill the baby to hide it. Insanity is the default for her.
That's because it's driven by emotion rather than logic. Logic would suggest that it would not be fair to the child.
She is legitimately like the tenth woman I've heard of dealing with a guy who is actively dodging child support and they think that forming a relationship with that person is an acceptable thing to do. WTF is wrong with people???
Classic case of “I’m sorry I got caught and I’m sorry now that it affected me” not “I’m sorry for my actions causing harm to others”
Don’t worry
She’s going to do whatever it takes now that she’s adopting.
Something she’s never bothered to do before
@@23kurtzy lol
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
That to often the case 😮
Typical women. Always the victim
“Even if I am saving money, at the end of the month I never have money.”
That’s not how saving money works lol.
Yeeeaaah....she's doing it wrong.
She's probably saving a little when the she gets her check but withdrawing 2 weeks later bc her money ran out
As a father of a newborn, she is not in a position to raise a baby (financially or mentally) and I hope that the biological mother seriously reconsiders the position she is about to put the baby into.
Neither woman is prioritizing the wellbeing of the baby.
1000%. My son is a toddler and sweet baby Jesus I would never recommend someone adopt a child in this situation
🎯
Haha my baby is 6 weeks old and when she said she wanted the crying in the middle of the night. I thought girl.. noooo you do not.
No adoption agency will approve her
Please remember that collecting hobby supplies and doing things with the supplies are two different hobbies.
Such an important sentence
I just learned this quote. I only just heard it and I FELT IT.
I just delivered food to this guy! Lol nice to meet you man.
Edit: And gave me a great tip! Thank you man!
You should spill on where he ordered from and what he got
TELL US WHAT HE ATE (I'm kidding)
@@toastybone4322 Happy Chicks. Pretty sure it was for the office because it was a larger order. Some fried chicken I think.
@@jspur22 damn I wish we had that in Colorado that sounds dope
Did his show just pop up on UA-cam right after you delivered the order?
Sometimes I get depressed about not being in a relationship. Then I hear about something like this and find some solace in knowing it could be worse.
Oh my god. Caleb being a father figure to a child he doesn’t even know. Respect 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
What? Caleb has a child he isn’t even in his kid’s life???
@@truthbetold6942
No he doesn't...
@@truthbetold6942did you watch the episode?
@@truthbetold6942no, he is going to pay to house this lady's sort of step daughter.
lol they're referring to him paying $150 / month for the kids housing until they turn 18.
Severe emotional issues, living in a sketchy trailer park, screwed finances, 5 dogs, trailer packed with "collectibles", etc.
For the love of God, PLEASE DON'T PUT A CHILD IN THAT ENVIRONMENT
This woman wanting a vulnerable baby makes me see red
Her emotions are clouding her mind. She is even supporting her ex-bf's daughter (being her mother figure) because her ex was a deadbeat dad. She wants to be a mom to many kids by hook or by crook at this stage.
Especially since she already ended one of her previous ones. RIP to that angel.
She's a child!! She can't adopt. She has a fancy newer z flip and pixel watch 2 with custom band yet. Owes like 20 company's money she's not paying on. So much in collections. Owes family. 18k car repo only thing she probably pays on is her phone and bill so she can order fast food 6 times a day.
She has sex with more men then she's owed companies money and she owes a ton of people and companies lol crazy to me
@@churrosquirrel What was the species of those “cells”?
I didn’t have my kid until I was 39. I was financially secure and didn’t have debt; still nothing could prepare me for what was to come. My son was born with a life threatening condition that requires constant care and funds. None of this was detected during my healthy pregnancy. No family history of disease. She has no idea what could be in store. She should NOT adopt.
I’m sorry your beautiful baby has those Challenges xx she has no idea how it’s going to screw her. Childcare alone. Ded
Thats kind of the risk of having a pregnancy at 39.
@@chriscanavanii9064it’s a bigger risk after 35, but it’s not as big of a risk as many people think. Many women give birth with no complications after 35.
And the OP probably had to wait that long g to financially afford it. Don’t knock her, knock the poorly managed financial assistance for mothers/families.
Sick children are born to parents of all ages. I understand the insult is the goal (especially toward a woman), but maybe put more thought into your comments.
@franciscloutier5387 mys sister had a fully healthy pregnancy at the age of 22 and still had sick children, while my aunt in her late forties had a fully healthy child. Anything can happen at any age.
“I will do ANYTHING to help this child….including hiding her father’s assets so he doesn’t have to pay for supporting her. I am so amazing!”
I will do anything for my marriage...
@@amoose8439"but I won't do that" is how the song goes right?
Yes! Why would she be with a man who hasn't supported his children? And she's probably in legal Jeopardy by hiding assets from the courts.
If they are on the same page with the suppport agreement, it's bettter than the state taking it.
She's assisting in FRAUD by helping the deadbeat father who doesn't want to pay child support.
I was totally grossed out. And then she added animal rescue to the mix. She is a walking case of instant gratification. If she adopts this baby, no amount of love will compensate for her irresponsible nature.
The honesty and lack of non sense excuses is definitely a breath of fresh air. Regardless of how crazy her past is, I think she’s gonna be better off than most who have been on the show just based on her attitude and demeanor.
I do feel sad for her. Yes she is a mess and makes terrible decisions. She needs Jesus like we all do.
Yes and she seems truly regretful of her choices.
Yes but she's still underwater and wants to adopt a baby. That messy living mentality is still there. She may acknowledge she fd up, want things to be better, but hasn't changed her ways. Same with the trailer thing and the ex's child support. Sets herself up for problems.
No she will not. She is fully aware yet continuing to make horrible long-term decisions. She needs therapy and self-evaluation to do the opposite of every decision she will ever make from here on out.
Yes I agree! I think the reason she is very open and basically trauma dumping is because she’s tired of her own shit! Only half way through but I can tell she wants to change, she just needs guidance & support.
Caleb is absolutely right that the baby is just another hobby. The way she talks about the nursery confirms it.
100%. I’ve noticed that a lot of people who “really want a baby” only focus on the little temporary, cutesy aspects of infancy like nurseries, tiny clothes, toys, etc. They never express the same interest in the baby’s growth and don’t seem to consider longterm consequences of not being ready to raise a human - they literally _just_ want an infant that they seem to think is going to be an infant forever.
This is just like when people adopt puppies and kittens because they’re cute or specific breeds because they’re pretty but then lose interest once the puppy/kitten grows up or when they didn’t research the breed they wanted and are mad that it’s high-maintenance.
The fact that Caleb is helping a girl who is not hers nor his is crazy. This dude is so genuine.
I was so touched by that!!!
Timestamp?
@@kamoroso94it starts around 43:53
he’s a sweet heart!!!
Did she even say thank you? I didn't hear it if she did.
She helped a deadbeat dad… evade child support…
The amount of people who have admitted to adultery on this channel as if it’s acceptable is disheartening
Adultery and tax fraud
It's definitely alarming.
I don’t know that they’re admitting to it “as if it’s acceptable” so much as being honest about their choices. Honesty is required to redeem. That’s what they’re doing.
No shame
@@horrorqueen3577 EXACTLY
I’m just listening to the part where she discussed potentially adopting a child-as an adoptive parent myself, you generally have to have a home study approved by the courts in order to legally adopt, and they will care about your finances, background, etc as part of the home study. Just one more motivation for her. It is a very intense and invasive process-rightly so. You have to be in a stable, healthy place in life to adopt.
She doesn’t make enough to support a child, even if she is debt free.
@@cchaffincctons of women out there don’t make enough to support their kids. Nobody takes them away though. They’re just on govt assistance forever…
She's adopting through the parent, not the system.
@@skyegroome223 doesn’t matter, we adopted privately, in most states you still have to have a homestudy regardless if it’s truly an adoption and not just legal guardianship or something.
Would this still apply since she could claim to be a friend of the family? I hope it does, because that poor baby deserves a stable, selfless love from both a mother AND a father.
I sincerely doubt that a full adoption would be approved by a judge in her case.
Sounds like they want a backyard adoption. No one in their right mind would allow her to adopt.
Hello, lady!? THANK CALEB for offering to pay $450.00 for “you” FROM THE LOVE IN HIS HEART! 44:41
Offering to pay for a deadbeats taxes to help out this lady and keep a kid you’ve never met safe is probably the sweetest thing I’ve seen in months. Huge kudos to you and all that you do!
Her ex husband truly cared for her deeply, definitely something she will regret ruining for a long time
I’m not sure how great her ex husband was. He put the house in his name while she paid the down payment, mortgage payments, and monthly living expenses. When he divorces her he keeps the house (I think? I haven’t finished the video yet) and she gets all the credit card debt from their shared expenses. Doesn’t seem fair financially, even despite the cheating and secret pregnancy.
Common pattern of destruction
Smh classic women , your really blamed the guy and took accountability away from her.@@alicias659
@alicias659 true but I'm assuming he wasn't prepared for a break up from cheating
Things would worked out ok in the long run if she kept it in her pants
@@alicias659then you can chalk bad dating partners as a bad habbit too.
So many people laugh and lie while Caleb usually cares more, but this time Caleb can't stop laughing out of shock while she's so honest and cares so much... kind of refreshing to see
The fact she was hoping to hide the cheating and the baby from her husband is absolutely disgusting
Some people wonder how their lives ended up being such a mess when they’re the biggest perpetrators of their mess.
Not only she cheated, but also too lazy to put on a condom. She could have caught a disease and given to her boyfriend
Absolutely. It’s a common trend for people’s problems to be self inflicted.
It’s me hi im the problem it’s me 🎶 😂😂😂
She’s for the streets
“We don’t date losers.”
But she is the loser.
I thought the same thing, lol
Both are at fault but if cheat you are loosing even more but guy cheat with loosing also it all depends on who what when etc
Yet she's still dating down by dating a guy who has multiple kids by multiple mums, won't work, hasn't paid his child support and doesn't pay the taxes for his own trailer. We're thinking she's rock bottom yet she's paying his bills. 🤦♀️
Caleb is waaaayyyy too soft on these women.
@@Draggonnydating down? That's her level. She's dating across.
To the mother who is giving up the child to this woman.... please please please do not do it. 12k for a trailer, can't be a place a kid should live.
With low income, debt and 5 dogs in it in a horrible neighbourhood 🙈🙈
The only way I would think the kid would be in a better situation with this winner over here is if the bio mom was a homeless addict who had no one else to adopt the kid. So.. basically never? Lol
Oh sweetheart, adopting a child will not take away the pain of aborting your child. Please seek help. There are free counseling services for women who have aborted their kids.
I do advise women to seek out counseling for this.
It's almost a necessity...
If anything, it will make the trauma 10 times worse. 😢
I’m 40 and just had a baby. And I’m glad I waited until I was ready both financially and emotionally because it makes me a better parent.
Over here wishing my wife and I started earlier when we were broke. Woulda been able to have more. Age is always a factor
My husband and I finally got pregnant right before our 15 year anniversary. It just never happened! Sometimes I’m sad about being an older first time mom but it’s also nice having savings, no car payments, retirement accounts, her college already saved for, etc. Everything has pros and cons.
Congratulations ❤
Bless u and your family
Whatching these always reminds me how uncomplicated my life is. Life can be hard all around and I try to not judge people too hard, but sometimes people make decisions that make their life extremely complicated.
This…. It’s hard to have empathy for people who complicate their own lives. Versus real complications like sick family, disabled family etc erc
Yeah before i was on medication i thought my life was so hard. Now that i am properly medicated, i realize how quiet and simple my life is.
It's time like this I'm glad it's just me and my chicken tendies
Makes me glad that my life is so boring!
Seriously. Unfortunately our culture seems to hide the simple fact that "actions have consequences." Thing's aren't just "going to be okay", you have to make them okay. No one is going to bail you out, nor should you expect them to. You have to put serious effort into making your life as simple and peaceful as possible, which starts with your reputation and honor, as well as fostering self control and discipline. Everyone has different difficulties in life that they can't control, but don't throw away those advantages you have because of poor decisions and a lack of self respect. Boy I'm sounding more and more like a boomer dad every day. At least this guest is finally facing up to her mistakes and trying to address them.
Living in a trailor park with mountains of debt and wants to adopt a baby, alone at that... Let's pray
And with five dogs in her trailer…God, for the sake of that baby, please guide her path
And a 20+ year old van and knows nothing about how to work/fix an older car! 🤦 Should have bought a newer beater for $2k
The ex-husband in this story sounds like a stellar man.
As a 33 year old woman, I don't get the "my life is over if I have kids THIS LATE". I was adopted by my parents when they were 40 from a teen mom.
She has been asked to adopt a kid from her coworkers younger sister - I worry about that stuff since she has a history of such impulsive decisions. (see cheating, & see buying a trailer with her 401K, helping her deadbeat dad ex to hide assets from the courts - & by extension, stealing from his other children, etc.)
There is nothing wrong with having the aspirations of motherhood & being a wife but I just feel like this is wild.
Having the ability to change your mind as conditions change (especially here when they changed due to choices she made to cheat) is important - your life isn't over at 32.
I grew up in small town Texas &, while I have never had 'husband & child' as my top line goal but she doesn't think that growing up in a financially stressful household will affect a child....she needs major therapy.
Yup! She needs to be a whole person before raising one.
She feeds on drama
There's a giant hole in her heart that she is desperately trying to fill. Spending won't do it. Nor will becoming a parent. Babies and kids are not a source of emotional support, they REQUIRE a ton of emotional (and financial) resources. I foresee disaster.
She is not too old to become a parent and will still not be when she is in a better place as a person. If she is open to adoption, there are many kids who will still need her in a few years from now when she has the personal resiliency to support them.
Nor will eating. That's not a diss, that is a statement.
@@jrr7031yo fr she big as hell 😂
@current3109 and the bad thing is, healthy at every weight is just a coping mechanism. The body don't freakin lie. It is unhealthy, unsightly, and if not medically related *AND* treated.....its essentially assisted suicide, with extra steps and benign neglect.
"He won a settlement and got like... A LOT... like 60k!" When I hear A LOT, in a settlement context, I'm thinking 250k minimum. 😂
Well clearly for their situation 60k is a lot 😭
A 60K settlement could be a lot of money if used properly. Sounds like it was mishandled.
In terms of settlements I wouldn't say 60k is a ton but it's definitely a really good amount of money. You could set yourself up really really well with that
LOL same
Still had to pay taxes on that 60k. Oops
Men don't look past cheating, they simply decide that they 1: care more about being with you than they do about who you are. or 2: have too little respect for themselves to care that you hurt them in the most intimate of ways. The act of you cheating will always be in the back of his mind, and will always be a scar. The scar doesn't heal, and likely will only reopen as a wound every so often.
Well said.
Caleb was SO relieved at the end when she was said she was getting a promotion. You could see the hope return to his body 😂
Bro, she should not be allowed to adopt. Her emotional imbalance would be treacherous for that child's emotional development.
"Probably not the smartest thing" stated 2 minutes later! 😂
Caleb anyway you can do a collab with a legit therapist on one of these audits? This woman is NOT emotionally, mentally or financially in a position to raise a child rn. It would be a CRIME to hand any child over to her and incredibly selfish to proceed at this time.
Couldn't have said it better! Maybe Sondermind or some other new therapy company can pitch one in!
I've had this thought during more than one of thses audits
I’m pretty sure they do have a therapist off-set I think
Licensed therapist here and huge financial audit fan - I would LOVE to do this!!!!!!
Honestly I agree. I think you should directly give them a resource to a therapist - even if it’s off camera.
54:00 "if a child would somehow come into my life i would do anything for it" No she wouldn't. She killed the last one.
Wake up, babe! New Financial Audit dropped and Caleb is screaming about taquitos!
SWEEEEEEEEET TREAT!
@@CalebHammerI always tell my wife I’m gonna go get a little sweet treat when I hit up Wawa 😂
Lol this feels like a Nigel and marmalade skit
@@limestait. Must. Happen.
Those poor animals... and I pray that something stops her from getting that child. That child does NOT deserve to be another 'project' for her.
Seriously!! She has FIVE dogs in her trailer and wants to add a newborn…you can’t make this up, this is such a horrible situation
She embodies everything wrong with adoption. Adoption should only be an option when the child will benefit. In this case it sounds like the child would be going from one incapable mother to another. She selfishly wants a child and thinks she has earned the right to one which she hasn’t.
Agree... if she can't afford life now, she won't when/if she adopts. Childcare alone is thousands a month in many places. And if it's just the two of them, she likely will make too much to qualify for gov assistance.. plus with her having that trailer title in her name, if she buys another trailer or house, she won't qualify for gov assistance regardless since one would be considered an asset. 😔 She wants a baby and that's fine.. but right now is not the time.
Caleb you were firm with her yet still were considerate of what she has gone through that in itself is impressive. As for helping her and the ex making sure his child has a place to live had me tear up. That is so kind and caring of you. I hope she gets the help she needs
This poor girl needs professional help. She does not need to be on UA-cam, and no she should not adopt a baby.
Right? At first it seemed "juicy fun trainwreck" kinda mess but watching, I just feel that she needs more than financial help. She like wants to self deconstruct..like she thinks she doesn't deserve to be better...
Yes definitely does not need to be on UA-cam.
How is she going to pay for daycare when she has a baby? She has no savings, no support system, no self control. She needs to get her life together before she thinks about taking responsibility for another life.
I'm assuming a big part of the plan is daycare vouchers and other forms of help. I'm not knocking on people in need of help, but she has to be planning on getting by with those forms of help as her plan outright.
@MissMosierable idk about MO but I live in Nebraska and I make just under 20 bucks an hour and get no assistance on a family of 3. I can't see that she will qualify for anything. And especially with the 54k a year. She's actually more fucked than she would be if she did qualify for state daycare.
She's a child!! She can't adopt. She has a fancy newer z flip and pixel watch 2 with custom band yet. Owes like 20 company's money she's not paying on. So much in collections. Owes family. 18k car repo only thing she probably pays on is her phone and bill so she can order fast food 6 times a day.
@@Emile-g7u Dude, I see you under every single comment.
@@ThatLaurenThingand taking care of 5 dogs on top of all of that!
Listening to Caleb to and from my storage unit. It’s almost empty and I’ll immediately save $183/month.
That’s like 20 avocado toasts
@@TheoPhilpot Ah yes, me and my multiple avocado toasts, living that luxurious life. 😆
You shouldn't even need Caleb for that, if you have BASIC COMMON SENSE.
I emptied out mine about two months ago when it hit about $240 a d4mn month. I rented a truck and got that crap out.
She has no ambition, and I'm almost 100% certain that she has ADHD and has no clue.