Unmasking the Covert Narcissist in Therapy

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  • Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
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    Author and clinician, Craig Malkin, PhD, sits down with Psychotherapy Networker’s Editor-in-Chief Livia Kent to talk about how to spot covert narcissism and what to do about it.
    They’ll be live and discussing what pop culture-and the therapy field-often gets wrong about narcissism and how to know when “’healthy narcissism” tips into a disorder.
    You don’t want to miss this inside scoop on narcissism!
    Learn more about covert narcissism by visiting psychnet.co/malkin for a FREE excerpt from Dr. Malkin’s book, “Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists.”
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  • @bonniekelley1130
    @bonniekelley1130 11 місяців тому +2

    Echoing, in my case, was a result of attempting to sidestep passive aggressive "punishment" that would result. The malignant narcissist in my life would hide and damage or destroy personal property. His favorite targets were gifts from my children and grandchildren. Any compliment from a friend or mutual acquaintance would result in negative consequences for me.

  • @sandracaezza7234
    @sandracaezza7234 Рік тому +3

    NY state tuning in. My ex narc/addict will never go inward. I recently left him emotionally, many relapses, addictions to social media, gay porn questionable behavior. I’m living a peaceful life now. What you explain,the anxiety, was so spot on.
    I believe he will always self medicate other than do a deep dive. He’s on to new supply now. I think I’ve done more therapy
    in trying to learn about this. We had yrs of therapy due to addiction. Thank you for the information.
    In the end, of course I was to blame and his brother & sister. Heal the trauma.

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Рік тому +4

    Thank you , very informative video !

  • @pattimcelmurry7647
    @pattimcelmurry7647 Рік тому +7

    How do know if they’re telling you the truth in therapy? They believe their lies.

    • @CraigMalkin
      @CraigMalkin  Рік тому +4

      Genuine feelings resonate. You feel them too.
      I go by process (and felt sense) not content.

    • @hectorperez1380
      @hectorperez1380 6 місяців тому +1

      This response filled me with so much sadness and, at the same time, understanding.

  • @wasode20
    @wasode20 Рік тому +3

    Where is the URL for the book...I'd love that. Thankyou for this interview.

    • @CraigMalkin
      @CraigMalkin  Рік тому +2

      Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists a.co/d/6QsEQxX

    • @wasode20
      @wasode20 Рік тому +2

      I read the chapter, and it was so good that I've ordered a copy. Great interview.

    • @CraigMalkin
      @CraigMalkin  Рік тому

      @@wasode20 Thanks! Hope you love it :-)

    • @janehale4402
      @janehale4402 9 місяців тому

      ​@@CraigMalkin3:04

  • @pauladuncanadams1750
    @pauladuncanadams1750 11 місяців тому +2

    I know borderlines that also are very self absorbed with their pain.

    • @dgsmith9969
      @dgsmith9969 8 місяців тому

      I don't think borderline is a personality disorder. The people I know who were given this diagnosis went through horrific situations or have bad chronic illnesses that are quite painful. It's the people around them who have the problem. Disabled people face this judgement all the time. Thing is, a person can be in great pain and society tells them to tough it out and don't bother others, and even, die quickly and quietly.

    • @pauladuncanadams1750
      @pauladuncanadams1750 8 місяців тому

      @dgsmith9969 I think it's a combo of genetics, personality, and environment. Sure, it's PTSD from untreated and unresolved trauma that is ingrained to the point of dysfunction and disorder. The trauma is very real and very raw. I'm not discounting that. It's so raw that it blocks out everything and everybody else, often creating issues for loved ones and making loved ones also feel unseen and unheard. That's what happens when someone is in pain. When you are in pain, you aren't thinking about much of anything else, nor are you very rational. You just want it to stop. But when the pain is relieved, your focus and empathy can turn towards others. With BPD, the pain never goes away, especially if untreated. Therefore, self-absorbed.

  • @Naraszuhra
    @Naraszuhra 6 місяців тому

    I can identify with covert narcissism in myself. Are there things I can do to help myself?

  • @cathleenbalz6199
    @cathleenbalz6199 8 місяців тому

    Nice wishes from Germany

  • @DJSTOEK
    @DJSTOEK Рік тому +1

    ❤😷😷

  • @createbje8627
    @createbje8627 Рік тому +1

    First of all, you have approach from Individualism society, in Europe will call you narcissistic county. In Eurpe we have collectivism, we dorn hsve to think that you have a choice to help other person, you just simply help. Canada is highest narcissistic county i have ever seen. People in there are using rasism as to provoce and them they call that joke, they are using blatantly provocation and then they use that as a joke.