How the way you watch movies affects your life
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- Опубліковано 11 лип 2019
- The way you watch movies can say a lot about the way you operate in the rest of your life. Use this knowledge as POWER or something idk
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For the record, I’m not mewing...
or am I
Nice jaw though.. XD Thanks for this video! You gave me a homework to do. 😂
Why nottt
I honestly was thinking about say that you should try mewing the entire video then you brought it 😂
I closed my mouth as soon as i read this lmao
Hahaha, loving the humor and the content man! It's funny how memes (the original sense of the word) travel and permeate in society. Subscribed.
It angers me when I’m watching a movie with somebody and they are on their phone
Idk if it's in every movie theater but the one we sometimes use has a warning about using phone is a violation of the movie rules.
@@Chillwave6 I don't think he meant at the cinema
@@zellamartinez2528 ik. At home the movie does have moments when the others focus on their phones.
same its like... fine, if you dont wanna watch it then gtfo so i can enjoy it myself in peace and rewind something if necessary.
@@myviolinjourney7474 exactly. ☺️
It’s also like reading. Sometimes I can read a whole page and not pay attention to what I’m reading. I have to force myself to pay attention.
VISPRES it depends if the book is good or not
@@sameerhafeez7029 true
For me to really pay attention to what I am reading
I have to read out loud other wise I’m just gonna forget what I have read before
Yeah, it's very strange thing
Same
I feel like this dude is mark zuckerberg if he was actually human
yeah lol
He is not a human?
@@klioon8611 it’s just a meme that mark zuckerberg is a robot. If you watch interviews he looks very robotic. It was just a joke
@@deadheadwsp705 lol
Zucc is seriously not a human.
@@deadheadwsp705 mark zuckerburg is a lizard
I zoned out about 20 seconds in and then he said "Active engagement requires willpower." at 1:35 and then I suddenly snapped back in and restarted it lol
@@PhilipClyde god only knows.
Same
Same but i snapped for like 2 mins and had to rewind.
I can definitely watch a film without looking at my phone but with everything else, social media really has got us out here acting like crack addicts since it's ruined attention spans.
So true. Well as a social media addict myself I can definitely say it has torn my life apart, I literally get like 1-2 hours of sleep everyday but luckily I'm slowly making better changes.
@@alio6051 omg 1-2 hours? take care and sleep more dude
Hey change the "got us out here" to "got me out here", and change that and watch how quickly the world changes
You, it's got you acting like a crack addict.
the heck i was your 1000th like-
Me: Actively engaged in the film
My parents: *on phone*
Me: still watching
My parents: wait, what’s happening? This film is so confusing.
Same! And then at the end, they say the movie was boring when they weren’t even watching
Phones are ruining people's attention spans.
Browsing through pointless shit can be addictive.
Is extremely addictive rather. People don’t realise life’s become really fucking hard. But we’re all very strong and can fight against it all!
this happens all the time
This. This pisses me off so much. I invite my siblings to watch a movie with me and they spend almost the entirety of it on their phone.
I'm an active watcher. I'm sorry but if you sit at a 90° angle at your desk watching a movie you are a psychopath
So good posture?
ok hunchback
It doesn't have to be at a 90° angle, but your head/neck should be aligned with your spine to prevent damage to your body. I usually have my upper body propped up with pillows.
You dont need to be sorry to the emo kid. They will think "Damn,I guess i am psychopath"
That's what healthy people do
I am #1 and my husband is #2 😂 we have strict rules around using your phone while watching so that I actively watch too 😅
Shu t up s hit up don't talk shur up
@@sleave_exe fuck off
@@Clisare tell him/her sis
@@Clisare TELL EM!!
@@AnkanBasu7 him/her
Him: *talking about how you watch movies could ruin your life*
Me: *scrolling through comments*
Haha, me rn
@@victore3116 very underrated
Watching right now and reading the comments kkkkkk
Multitasking😅 I read and listen and I know what I’ve heard and read
haha same
Is this why after passively watching UA-cam for 2 hours I feel like I wasted my time but after actively watching a movie for 2 hours I feel like I accomplished something? Anybody else?
Yeah I know that.
@@darklightning4539 Yes
Yes
Nice job on summing up a 9min video in one sentence. :)
OHH yh that makes sense.
1) Take a survey of your day 3:20
2) Force yourself to physically and mentally relax during less important tasks 4:57
3)Be more intentional with how actively engaged you are with the work that requires your attention 6:30
4) Take care of your health 7:27
Amazing video! I have to be more intentional in my downtime 😌
Thanks fir the notes 💓
Thanks
2:50 in Japan this exact issue is more extreme, there's even a named phenomenon in Japan for this that I don't recall the name of; it basically translates to "death by overworking".
Karoushi, yes
they suicide?
@@towel1636 no bc they death by overworking not suicide
"Force yourself to relax"
that sounds pretty confusing.
Mentally not physically.
slowD you made me giggle
it does require conscious effort to relax your jaw/face muscles, your shoulder, breath in and clear your mind
Oxymoron
Have you ever tried to relax? It's a paradox!
Im both an active and passive movie watcher, depending on the movie
Is not really depending on the movie, is depending on how you managed your energy throughout the day
@@emiliomonroy7929 true, that also plays a part
@@emiliomonroy7929 some movies suck tho. Ill be more interested in Inception than the emoji movie
@@_R_R_R inception sucks tho
@@hamzehaladwan I really liked it
Sometimes I hate it when a passive movie watchers ask me for movie recommendations...
No matter how good the movie that i recommend, they just like "yeah that's ok" and i was like "dammmnnn just OK?.... Realllyy?.... Did u really watch it?.... Bro!?" 😑
Im an active watcher cause I'm also a writer! So watching how the story flows in the movie, character dialogue, bg music, etc etc really helps me and I'm fascinated about the whole production! There are movies where I'm a passive watcher though it's mostly for movies I've already watched and know I enjoy. I have a longgggggg list of movies and shows I wanna watch but I don't have forever so I do look up reviews and such to help filter them out.
When you realize he was probably editing a video of him editing a video of him talking about editing.
😂
Underrated cooment..! 🤣
I had a stroke reading this
the way i had to read this twice
Group 2 detected
When he said "not today son"
*I felt that*
meowmasterL346 I’m giving you a reply you’re welcome
😂😂😂
Sinking feeling from my heart to my stomach!
F
that's a reference to Itachi from the Naruto s series
I love watching your vids in the morning. So inspirational
amazing video. the scene where you're editing but also taking to us through the screen is simply awesome. great work on the videos.
I was searching through comments to see if anyone else noticed that. Pretty nifty
I'm group 2. Hate watching a movie just for the hell of it. Makes no freaking sense.
Why not though?
@@deideh cuz I don't want to be a mindless robot that acts like an animal out of instinct and habit. Or the average American fat couch potato like the ones in Wall-E, saturated with entertainment and no brains whatsoever. I prefer to use reasoning and filter things so that I reach quality over quantity. If I have time for a movie and I feel like it's truly worth watching it then I'll watch it.
The Vindicator This sounds very pretentious but you can’t be in group 2 without sounding pretentious.
@@GummySlayer Fiction inspires reality; your ability to watch movies and relate is directly related to your level of empathy. Don't get blackpilled; empathy is a skill you may improve upon. I didn't watch the video, I clicked because I'm pissed at the title and thumbnail that anyone ever could actually assume the way you watch a movie is the cause of other problems. The way you watch movies is a symptom of many factors, from environment to the way you were raised, etc.
Sahage Boparai i feel like you can be in group 2 without sounding pretentious if you genuinely love movies and don’t want them to go to waste; it only sounds bad when you get mad at other people for being group 1
I like how your videos aren’t about:
“This is how I live my life be more healthy like me.”
Your videos say
“I am a person who has these issues too and this is how I have been trying to better myself”
That’s a better way of putting it into words, I guess. 😂
It’s the same thing
@@eddygci8 not really
Johanna Harak nah you’re right I was wrong
Ethan Hall that hit me in the feels
I'd say I'm in-between these two groups. It depends on my mood and other circumstances. Though, in the past 2 years, I find it hard to push myself to commit to 2 hours of pretty much anything.
I mean isn’t this two different ways everyone watches movies? I really need the sound of people talking in the background so I’ll throw stuff on while I’m tired or busy around the house but when it’s a movie I want to see I’m actively engaged. I don’t really know people who are only one way or the other.
When I watch a movie, I don't like to do anything else. I can throw on music in the background, but movies are not music. They're foremost a visual medium, which requires active engagement. If you don't want to actually _watch_ a movie, then don't have it playing idly. Stick to music. Movies, with the lights, colors, and movement coupled with dialogue and music, are basically overstimulation when you're in such a passive state, which is why it's draining.
Edit: Just wanted to add that I think people have adapted to overstimulation, which is why attention is so poor nowadays. You can't be actively overstimulated for a long time, so you mentally "check out" after a while
Obviously I'm engaged in the movie the first or second time I watch it, but if I need something to have on in the background while I'm doing something, I play a movie I've already watched.
I'm such an active film watcher that I absolutely HATE having anyone around me when watching a film or series. I need to be alone to cry, scream and complain while experiencing what the characters go through.
I do this with books, I use to be able to read in front of people or anywhere but now I need to let out my reactions or talk aloud when a character is being stupid asf. It makes the reading enjoyable even if it’s not the best literature
Yes I agree hahaha I mean I enjoy watching movies with my family and friends but its really different, if its gettinf confusing or the plot is complex watching with other people is great bwcause you come up with theories etc but regarding my emotions, when I'm alone I FEEL the movie much more. For example there is a Korean Netflix series called "My country the new age" and it's just amazing and while I watched it I cried so so much but now that im rewatching it with my parents I maybe had a tear in my eye but didn't cry a river like I did when I was alone so yea lol I prefer watching movies and shows on my own as well hahahaha
same
This is so true, if I'm watching with anyone I tend to lose focus which I don't like
RIGHT
I belong to group number 3
The 'Have a test tomorrow? sure why not watch a movie all night' kind
It’s the panicking but giving the problems for future me
yes. The closest the deadline, the more I procrastinate 😭
I have a test tomorrow. of 180 questions. and I haven't studied for even one. and look who's on youtube 😁
What is wrong with us.
@@shrutis how was your test result?😂 Is it good?
Thanks for the video! These always come up in my feed when I'm at my most disconnected, and they're a wonderful reminder and a good motivator to get back in there and enjoy my life. 👌🏻 Keep up the great work!
heard these ideas so many times, but you've put them together into a system that really works to me
You better not be reading the comments while passively watching the video
Mwhahahaaaaa
U caught me😭💀😂
Haha I love it. I’m so impatient.
Sorry
Guilty af
So if somebody is a Mental Energy Management Expert does that make them a MEME?
🤯🤯🤯🤯
Please add Russian subtitles (google translate)
Lol
Well done
lol haahahaha
This is the perfect video to start morning with! Thank you so much for your job, you just simply making mine and other people’s life better!🙏
This is so true! Now we tend to use our breaks by browsing on our phones or digital devices which results in us being constantly switched on or distracted and therefore taxing ourselves furthermore. We really should take real breaks, and give ourselves time to rest and perhaps slow down, be still and think about our lives more deeply.
*i am **_passively_** engaged in my homework right now.*
If you can afford to passively engage with your homework, you could've finished it in a quarter of the time.
It’s summer
@@alien_invation371 some places don't have summer break ;^;
XxSuicide_LovexX 77 oof
@@alien_invation371 it's winter in some places lol like Australia
“something that doesn’t take a lot of mental energy, like responding to emails” can not relate lmao i send one email and am incapacitated for the rest of the day
FuzzzWuzzz same here! emails are bad but i absolutely despise talking on the phone. like i literally forget how to speak lmao and when people tell me information i just say “okay” whether or not i understand what they’re saying which most of the time i don’t bc i’m too anxious to pay attention and then i don’t realize til after i hang up that i actually have no idea what was just said 😅
@@DolphinGirl826I usually tell them to text me the info unless I'm talking to some company or something. It's good to have written proof of agreements, even if it's just "let's meet at [place and time]".
I had the same thing until I got a chance to practice last year as part of a board function in a ngo I volunteered for. My job as PR forced me to speed up my email process and improve the efficiency of partner meetings. After a while you realize what you are/were doing wrong. Here are some tips based on my experience:
- try to create your own frameworks/templates for emails. After a while you'll unconsciously give that structure to each of your mails, after which you only have to 'fill in the blanks'. The more mails you send the easier this becomes.
- during a meeting or phone call, keep notes! Once the discussion is over, run through your notes and recapitulate what has been said. Your conversation partner can then confirm or help you complete the conclusion of that discussion. Use these notes afterwards to process everything in your calendar or task list.
- keep documentation on anything that requires effort to remember. This way you take the load of your memory. Many useful platforms exist, or you can use paper.
- not many people care about receiving a perfectly sentenced email (unless maybe when making a first impression on potential clients/partners). Once the conversation is running, I usually prefer to keep things short and powerful rather than working hours to write a literary masterpiece. This makes it easier to get to the point.
@@GhostSamaritan for company stuff it's usefull too to have an email to keep a trace.
@@jefmasereel4956 well I just wanted to thank you for taking the time and effort to share your advices and experience here. It's actually useful especially for non-experienced people like me.
The most genuine call to yo action I've EVER heard. Literally liked, subscribed and hit the bell icon AS he spoke.
Thanks! Super needed this vid now
UA-camrs: "Turn off notifications on your phone to improve your quality of life
Also UA-camrs: "Turn on bell icon plz"
there's a setting on UA-cam where you can get all your notifications for the day at once at a certain time.
@@fruitybooty663 is it? Where can I find that?
So dumb
Different youtubers really do contradict each other
I wish comments were dislikable
I've been telling my friends they're overstimulating their brains for a while now. Using ur phone to avoid boredom isnt healthy. We need boredom to refresh our minds
Good advice
XiGoat That doesn’t make much sense, it’s like saying “Life has no meaning without death,” it’s completely false, life itself is meaning enough to keep living. But it doesn’t matter how much someone is “overstimulating” their brain, they still have to stop and sleep, and sleeping is a way for most people to think. So stop being such an asshat on your high horse spouting dumb boomer bullshit like how you have friends and how “TECHNOLOGY BAD, OOGA BOOGA” is the greatest thought ever thunk before and get your bitch ass in the 21st century.
When you don't have much free time can't just be bored and do nothing. You do something you enjoy for the the little time you have.
@@burgernthemomrailer Thank you.
Don’t worry I just don’t put time into school
Good plan yeah?
Jumping back into writing and I could not have needed this video at a better time!
You’re killing it man 💪🏼
So are we gonna act like the edit at 4:06 wasn’t incredibly intuitive
It was pretty damn awesome. This is the first of Joey's videos that I came across, and that part really hooked me and got me paying attention. If you know how to communicate that intuitively and smoothly with your audience, your opinions and the information you're relaying are probably well worth some time and consideration.
And gad damn was that ever proven correct.
I didn't even notice, crap, that was a good edit and style of including creative ways to express a point.
I agree, that was sick!!
I didn't even notice that. That's awesome.
The way he looked at the screen like everything is connected 👀
My entire job is unpredictable phone calls. And it's endless anxiety.
Shit, same here. What do you do and how are you balancing it?
Are you actively looking for a new job? I know how tough it can be to actively job hunt or find your calling when your job takes all your energy out of you so by the time you get home you just want to zone out and do nothing but try not to let it control you....
@@bartholomewlyons I do tech support. I help people with their internet connection. I just breathe between each call and try to remember each person is in their own life at their own present with their own issues... The same frustrations I would get with the bank, or insurance, you know...?
@@andyc6542 Yeah, exactly. And half the time, it feels like a leap of faith. What's to say my next job will be better? Or will it be worse?
Metcaslix change that job, if you can. Being on a timer bomb. You are stressed because you cannot relax. Better to sweep the streets, than be available any second. Worst stress ever
This video helped me so much! Really appreciate the help
I passively watch if I’m relaxing with a movie I’ve seen a million times, and I actively watch if it’s something I’ve never seen or only seen a few times
Yeah same
I burn out a lot from being so actively engaged with everything.
Me too.
Now that I actually know how to take a restorative break, rather than just vaguely knowing that my "breaks" are not very effective, I might be able to break better, at least.
Speaking of which, maybe I should look at taking a break now... and an actual break too, not just a fake "break" where I spend just as much energy as I would doing something else on browsing and responding to comments and similar.
Same.
I work with kids. So at work I am very engaged.
But I am also engaged with every other aspect of my life. Which leaves me burned.
I really have to learn to manage it more and as he said > take real breaks.
All the videos are still input. No rest there.
yea i think maybe that's the cause of my constant fatigue, i guess we just care way too much about everything.
ADD + autism gang, we out here!
Try music. Neo Classic for example. Its calming and gives you mental energy back really fast
Literally reading the comments while watching 🤦♀️ this isn’t a great start
Same
moron daily and writing an essay
This video doesn't require a lot of attention, though. Just listen; don't actually have to watch this kind of video.
This isn't a movie though
COSMICPHOENIXX it being a movie was only an example
Dude, I've only watched two of your videos but I can already tell you have great content. Subscribed!
7:00 btw that sounds a lot like the "flow state", when you are fully engaged and focused in one task and forget about everything else. That's when you get the deep work done, but it's becoming harder and harder to reach that state this days since smartphones and social media continuously interrupt our lives and destroy our ability to focus.
For myself I've found that I need a huge "activation energy" to get to that flow state, kinda like a energy gap that I need to surpass, but once I've passed those first 30 minutes of work, I can work for literally hours focused on my task.
Nicely presented and summarized!
This video is absolutely wonderful
Garrett!
omg it’s garrett
This comment is absolutely underrated
King 👑
So nice
( M ) anaging the
( E ) xpendature of
( M ) ental
( E ) nergy
This took me 99% of my mental energy to come up with.
(D) epartment of
(A) strological
(N) onsense and
(K) nowledge
Expenditure*
Olly he said 99% not 100% thanx though.
Zeal Up Thanks*
Lifeify I’m a watchful protector. A silent guardian. A dark knight.
You're videos are great and so motivating. Even though I already know a lot from this from books and personal experiences, it's great to hear these tips from you in a well prepared form.
You are one of the few content creators who have actually convinced me to subscribe by asking at the end of their video. Keep it up, man! Looking forward to your future videos, and I hope you achieve your goal of creating these amazing videos full time.
I don’t know why but I feel like you should have an Aussie accent
Because he looks like English teacher from Australia from Papa English channel:
ua-cam.com/users/papateachme
Hey, mustah prime ministah!
he said couch pretty aussie like so i think he’s just mimicking an american accent
I'm from Australia and he looks like 80% of guys here, so that's probably why
yeahhh
Jason Statham, I love your videos. This is the kind of content people should spend more of their time consuming as opposed to passively watching reality tv. Keep up the good work. I love it.
Yes, he *transported* the message really well
Yes. He "Shawed" us how to do it right.
I agree. He should *Crank* more informative videos like this.
My mind was Blitz-ed with the new information that I was able to Snatch from this wonderful presentation by Jason Statham.
Yknowimean
This channel is awesome, it's self improvement but a realistic and pragmatic way of looking at it and I never feel bad or insecure after watching these videos, like I do with other content that seems to aim towards a similar goal. Props to you Better Ideas!
thank you man.
i have always wondered about this kind of thing and thanks to this video i have now understood it.
On average, I spend more time comparing IMDb ratings and comments than watching the actual movie....
Same
The way I look at it, I'd rather spend a half hour looking for a quality movie to watch than just wing it constantly and end up wasting 1 1/2-2+ hours on shit everytime. Especially if you've already seen the top stuff on netflix and have to start rolling the dice.
Same, and actually it exhausts me much more. i miss the times where i just put on something... and enjoyed it or not.
Most of the time, I spend so much time trying to find the movie and reading reviews that I end up not having any time to actually watch one. I'm like pathologically indecisive. When I go to a restaurant with people, I need to look up the menu in advance so we can all eat at a reasonable time
I don’t think I’m even breathing right at this point
Stefen Stang probably not, look up orthotropics
You’re most likely not - we should breath in using the muscles lower down, near your stomach. Most people breath in using the higher muscles in your upper chest, which means the lower parts of your lungs aren’t being utilised for gas exchange to the extent that they should be.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Emily Owen my night has been ruined, thank you
This is just what I needed, highschool is killing me and I was expiriencing really bad burnout. Thank you for this vídeo
Wow this was very insightful. I’m definitely an active watcher for films.
Will be nice to apply that idea to other aspects of my life.
If you’re reading this comment, chances are you’re passively watching the video.
@Henry Winkler Disease Hahaha
Don't underestimate my multitasking power!
:) har har
I actually paused it to scroll - not sure what that means - probably something bad ...?
@@nothx1756 i guess its a super power we have
"Dear unimportant client"
I'm dead. 😂
Pause the video at that point and look at the writing on the left
that killed me LMAO
Imagine actually writing that to a client. What would they say...
This is a really amazing video! Thank you for this Mental energy management!
that’s definitely my problem. i’m putting to much energy into things that don’t need it and not enough in the things that do. i’m going to listen to you.
I’m an Active Movie Watcher and a Passive UA-cam Watcher, as a continue to read the comments while watch the video
I love lady noir!!
Lmaoo literally
Youre doing research so ACTUALLY
Ways to better manage your mental energy.
3:19 Take a survey of typical day.
4:01 1) Take more restorative breaks
4:56 2) Force yourself to physically and mentally relax during less important tasks
6:26 3) Be more intentional with how actively engaged you are with the work that requires your attention
7:25 4) Take care of your health
Ways to save mental energy:
Read Valentino's comment
@Sippay, Or better way: Don't watch -so much- selfimprovment/lifeimprovment videos! Enjoy it how you have it.. it always could get worse!
@@moniberoli5220 it always could get better :)
Thank you, bruh. Always good to have a summary after watching that type of videos.
@@moniberoli5220 Better yet, don't think that you or anyone else has the secret and just do and let others do what works for them ;)
Thank you for the video!
Always so helpful. Glad I found your channel :)
Yes but also it's ok to passively watch something to relax. It's ok to do whatever we want passively. Life is intense and we need a moment sometimes
The Self-Worth Habit oh definitely!! If we did everything actively we wouldn’t survive. I think he’s just trying to say that passive activity isn’t the most restful, but it’s also completely subjective.
Yeah, but I guess not everyday. There are tv shows that you can passively watch for sure. Lifestyle shows and such. Even this video, you kinda watch it passively when you are browsing through the comment section.
That's what he's saying. But the point is manage it, to be in control.
he says that
I don't think passive engagement is good for everything. One thing I hate the most is meeting up with friends or a date at a restaurant or something and have them be passively engaged the entire time on their phone and not be able to perform a conversation. Passively engaged when appropriate at home is nice, in public on a frequent basis with certain people or situations...no, not at all.
4:41: "Maybe Make Myself A Snack"
*Casualy Eats Spoon Of Peanut Butter*
Excuse me, that IS a perfect snack
*spoon of regular butter.
His face cought me in a loop I laughed many laughs
Markus2raw YT you mean, you don’t eat PB like this? Come on man, how much energy do you have to make a proper sandwich every time? Can I borrow some?
Just wanted to say how much your videos are changing my mindset and approach to life. Coming from a Psychology background I know most of the concepts you talk about, they way you deliver it and your video skills really motivate me! When I watch your videos I get more shit done the same day
Great content. Many familiar thoughts thought further. Appreciating your ideas and stimuli. Thanks!
The movie dialogue that influenced me most was: we buy things we don’t need to impress people we don’t like
From the movie fight club
Alif Hossain 👍
Correction: ' we work jobs we hate so we can buy shit we don't need '
👍🏾
"the things you own end up owning you"
We don’t talk about that movie
I literally scourge Reddit for 40 mins to consider even 1 movie. And then second guess myself as it downloads lol
I can relate to this. I always have a list of classic films that I want to watch someday in the back of my head, but can never settle on which one to watch at any given point.
I've literally spent all day in comment sections.
I have no idea how I can spend all day web browsing and do nothing else.
I am just not engaged in most of the entertainment out there.
Breh
Where exactly do you get your recommendations from?
*scour
This was very interesting to listen to. I look up to my father and love him dearly for all he did for me and my older sisters in raising us, my mom as well. For me, growing up, my dad worked a very laborious job as a carpenter. Going to work before dawn at the refinery and leaving early at 4-5pm to pick me and my sister up from school. He did this everyday and was also my coach in baseball. We would practice 3 days out of the week, and when my dad would come home from work, while still in his coveralls, would grab all the gear we needed to practice and we would practice until dusk. My father has a high drive, always have since he was a kid, and still does as a 62 year old man. I'm nowhere near like my father in that regard, I wish I was, but I always aspire to be like him some day whenever I have a family.
It has been about a week or so since I watched this video. I’m on summer break. My kids are home. I’m making cakes for people. I had been so distracted and checked out. Watching too much drama on UA-cam and not concentrating with one this at a time. Well, I course corrected and I feel so much better. I’m doing less multi-tasking and more being invested. My mind is so much clearer. Thank you.
*I watch films alone because others do dozen things during.*
It is also about not wasting time.
Yea. I wish I had a group of friends who would genuinely be down to watch a film with all their attention.
most of my friends dont end up watching anything and need to be filled in repeatedly
@@goldenwolfboy1061 I fucking hate group 1 honestly. It's so annoying
Preach
i don't like group 1 at everything
“To flex on you how cultured I am” I’m dead 😂
What does it mean "to flex on smb."?
I assume it means something like bragging but what's the nuance?
@@kirill4531/playlists Imagine a guy with big muscles flexing them to get noticed.
Flexing, means to show off. It’s a reference to men that have muscles, when they flex them to demonstrate they are better than you. Or they want to get attention, and credit for it and want to impress people.
Such a great video man ❤ you're very inspirational
Very eye opening I must say. I am one of those people that have to listen or watch something while doing the household or cooking. But the difference is clear when i just turn off everything and do my daily work then I am much more calmer and I am much more productive throughout the day. Thank you so much! Your videos makes always sence to me.
Me: -Passively watches the video.-
Also me: -Actively watches the video again.-
underrated comment
lol
Ouch me too 🤣😂
Being a student with adhd doing an online semester is a great starting point lol
There is nothing that doesn't require a lot of effort and attention :/
I feel ya. Some days are forced.
How are you doing now? I don’t have adhd but online school was still hell for me. I can’t imagine what it was like for you.
These videos are really dope man keep it up 👍🏻
This is the best channel youtube has ever recommended me✨ Greetings from Venezuela🇻🇪
You look like Mark Zukkerberg cosplaying as Jason Stathom
Das HunterxHunter stop 😂😂 it can’t be unseen
This is REMARKABLY accurate.
I don't know how but you managed to misspell both of them.
@@lieutenantkleeia well aren't you captain obvious
@@lieutenantkleeia Talent. Still, Beenaddict Countryband is happy it's not him this time.
These are more like “movies moods”.
Sometimes I’m passive, and sometimes I’m active. To me there are movies more suited to one or the other.
some movies are meant to be watch with brain turned off, and there are some movies that are supposed to be fully engaged.
@@bonelesspizza3726 So either a dogshit braindead movie or a good movie.
You don't really need to be as mentally active when watching Star Wars or LotR, you just see the characters do things. But yes, "dogshit."
This will definitely change my life for the better, thank you!
When I watch a movie or movie clip it sometimes makes lightbulbs go off in my heads with inspiration and ideas for books I could write in the future. Its usually a lot of fun.
passively watching this video hearing ``not today son´´ wondering if you just had a flashback or not
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I'm both, depending on my mood and the movie. I'm surprised at how many people fall into group 2, interesting.
Depends a lot on the movie IMO
@@trash3570
Facts , when watching a movie im not interested in im gonna adhd away , if it's a good movie im gonna watch
ya me too
Right
i don't understand people in group 1
2 years ago， now it's 2022 congrat for you channel growth！
Love your videos so much, they help me out big time 🤩
I'm actively engaged in this video, so I've written this comment.
*written
@@user-rh1uf5dl9q -- Yes, thank you :-)
Brah stop I’m questioning myself too much lol
Make it a mix of reddit and a big review source like rotten tomatoes n etc because you have general audience opinion and actual reviews and you know if theyre both bad its a no
Not necessarily. Someone can write a comment after passively watching, talking about how they didn't understand it or that it's crap
great videos I'm definitely sticking in
Man I absolutely agree with you. Nice video
“Not today son”.
That hit me. WHY DAD!?!
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Y'all scrolled down to read the comments instead of actively watching this movie? Yeah we all did
Oops i did it again
no
Shut up shut up shut up noooooooooo
You too
Yeah because he got boring and i am rather reading stupid ppl from group 2 that don't get why group 1 exist. Meanwhile i am in both groups, it just depends on what i want
I started watching you a month ago and you already changed my life. I unsubscribed from all shit not-needed apps which takes my money and time. I sleep more now, and don't drink coffee after 2pm. And now I know how to relax during the work day and be fully concentrated on actual important tasks. You are the best man! Keep doing it!
Thank you for this video, its absolutely revolutionised my workdays!!