For me there really is something to loose. She’s a new, great friend of mine and we will be in school together for the next 2,5 years. But maybe I have a chance that it will turn out. She’s also bisexual and idk we’ve been more touchy lately (laying head on shoulders, comforting each other) and I noticed some more eye contact and I always hit her with a little cute smile when we gave eye contact, and she hits me back with a smile. We’re doing clubbing on Saturday so I’m gonna try to make some moves while dancing if the vibe feels good (maybe is being druk will take of the nerves). WHAT SHOULD I DO? I can’t stop thinking about her. Edit: Yesterday she was also touchy with other friends, so I don’t think she actually likes me.....
Lol I loved the laugh🤣. She did all that , she said that she didn't wanted to be more than friends. Then she admitted it like one week before she was going to get married with her wife🤷
The girl that I think likes me is really pretty. We have been complementing eachother and keep catching eachother looking at eachother. ( we’ve only talked twice) but I keep looking at her and seeing that she’s looking at me. Is this mutual?
I can’t trust my gaydar bc I genuinely thought she was not only lesbian but also had the fattest crush on me. So then I feel head over heels for her and right before I was gonna ask for her number my friend asked if she was a lesbian and she said she was straight.
No fr i just learned my gaydar is messed up because I normally crush on lgbt women but my current is not lgbt as far as I know and has a boyfriend 😢 plus I thought she was flirting so I got her number and she hasn't messaged me at all
okay help me out there’s the most beautiful girl ever in my grade earlier this year she was super like cute and flirty i think she said “Oh my gosh i think you’re so pretty, you look like you’re really good at art” i KNOW she’s gay. is it worth it? it was a few months ago, do you think she was flirting/still into me?
She’s flirting fsssss feel her out she may be showing lots of signs and you already knowwww!!! But be careful cuz some girls really do just like attention 😭
@@shyanlong6653 soooo i got her number she made a playlist with me she added a lot of songs that were HUGE signs (i wanna be your girlfriend, tv girl songs, etc) continued to flirt with me and then started talking about how much she likes a GUY. sent screenshots of our conversations to her friends to make me look obsessive and bad and now her friends are harassing me even though i don’t like her anymore
Lol, there’s this girl at my apartments pool and I go there like everyday to every other day and sometimes she’s there to check us in and every time it’s her we always say something to each other and EVERY TIME I feel like she’s flirting and I do the same back cause she’s hot and my gaydar skyrockets but it’s hard to tell if she’s just being herself personality wise (cause I don’t know her that well) or if she’s flirting and it’s painful cause I swear she’s the most gorgeous girl I’ve ever met. Idk I’m just rambling lol ignore me.
Help, she kissed me while being drunk in a school party, saying she thought I was pretty for a long time, and we've been speaking non stop on the phone since, but i can't tell whether she likes me or not (she's kinda cold when she writes, and is sorta fleeing me at school)
Drunk or not, she kissed you. That’s a start. She may be ignoring you or avoiding you because she remembers what she did and is scared. It could go either way but you should talk to her - if you have any follow up questions pls ask?! Also pls keep me updated I would love to see how this goes 😊
@@Sassygirl_17 thank you for your answer 🙏🏻 well, we still talk throught messages, and i decided to ask if she indeed wanted more with me ! She said she prefers to take it slow, try to know each others better, (kinda seems like the sad past love life), but she said she didnt want to flee me - like she usually did with previous relationship. Im very happy with that, it's my first time meeting a girl as perfect as her, and ive accepted the fact that maybe we'll never date ❤️🩹 (we had some flirty text tho, my heart I can't take it)
She calls me babe and says “love you” or “I love you” JUST TO MAKE ME BLUSH CAUSE I TOLD HER I LIKE HER and I think she likes me back HELP GIVE ME ADVICE IMA ASK HER TO DATE ME ON SATURDAY WHEN I GO TO HER HOUSE PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE TO ASK HER TO DATE ME 😭😭😭😭😭😭
This helped me alot ❤. Since a very long time a girl is long looking in my eyes every time i Come in the store she works in. I havent made a move yet. I like just standing across the store and just look in her eyes. Its almost as good as s...😊
Yeah The girl was totally flirting with me, even giving me a quick hug @ work. Not expected. So then I text wish that hug would have last longer and stronger. She texted back, The hug was as a friend. 😳
@@felicidadhernandez3061 you did well. Don't let women play the hot and cold game. Lesbian dating is difficult but better to go look for someone in an app. And even still be careful.
I need SERIOUS HELP!!!!! So there is this girl I am not sure is she is straight or queer! now ima rant lol. So one of my friends asked her and he was like r u gay E? She looked at me in panic kinda blushing and said ummmm not sure then said uhhhh no to get out of the conversation. Another time I asked her she just was like ummmm and changed the topic. ( she said she definitely supported!) So definitely questioning! And she ALWAYS texts me and she has a whole friend group but hangs around me a lot for example we are all in a math class and she sits with me! :) And she texted me wanting to call like on random.( does this all the time ❤️) to note I just moved to her school so its a newer friendship (like 5 months! ) We also both are really flirty and of course I try to notice if she is the same with others and it doesnt seem like it! For example we are on the same softball team and always asks to catch with me ❤️ ( We have loads of other friends on the team) and its always me!!!!!! And today in our Spanish class I was like its really cold and she was like yeah! And she was like ( the sweater she is wearing) do you want to use my sweater ❤️ and she was like dang it ima get dressed coded so sorry and looked kinda disappointed! There are defintly other things but the last thing ima say is we talk alot about deeper things and she is always trying to get to know me! For example we talked about how these boys had crushes on us and I made it very clear I am gay and she seemed not interested at all about boys ( this is supposedly the "cutest/coolest" boy 🤣) And we kept talking a lot! Anyway anyone please please help!!! if you see this I NEED HELP!! thanks for reading my rant
Nice rant but she’s giving so many signs! Just go for it gurl, like some risks are worth taking! She’s flirting with you for a start and you flirt back, try asking to hang out, just the 2 of you maybe or something else? Would love to see how it goes! 😊
I need help pls, sooo.. I have this girl. That I have a crush on for like almost 7 months now. From 1-4th grade, she was my classmate, we were best friends. She moved schools, and we went apart for like 2 years. In the second half of 7th grade we started talking again, as friends. This was the time when I discovered that I'm a lesbian (well i thought i was bi first but like thats not the point), and developed feelings for her. My closest friends know, and she knows I'm a lesbian too. Now I'm half of 8th grade, and she came over for my birthday with my other friends. She was leaning on me when we were talking with the othersy we got a great photo together, we held hands (just cause we went to a forest in the dark with the others) and hugged many times (but I'm a hugger so thats no surprise). From then (this was like one week ago) we talk like 100+ texts every day, deeptalk, want to meetup, reunion our friendship offically, and wanna talk everyday. I feel like I have a chance but like I don't really wanna risk our friendship, and I know she stayef in a relationship before with a girl she didn't really like cause she didn't wanna hurt her feelings. And also, what if she is just wanna get our friendship back, and I'm thinking too much of it?? So I'm not sure but I don't wanna waste time so pleaseee help me do I have a chance? If I do what should I do???
Someone i need help pls. So theres this girl in my school, shes not in my class but she is in my co-curricular activites(cca) club. Recently, i developed feelings for her but im not sure if she likes me back. I see her about three times a week because of the club activities but other than that we dont hang out much. She has however, been really protective of me and is really kind to me. Sometimes during assembly i catch her looking at me and smiling. Sometimes however, she kinda ignores me or doesnt really seem like she wants to talk. Maybe its cause of the really tiring training and everyones exhausted or maybe im just trying to only see the good side. Im really confused right now, i have no idea. Does she like me back? Should i confess to her? I know for a fact that she is lesbian but im not sure if shes dating anyone rn. She thinks im straight though. What do i do?
From what you wrote, she at least definitely looks like she might like you back! If you guys are often having eye contact and smiling, for me it's a sign!! Have you ever talked to each other ? Do you follow each other on socials ? If she's gay, believe me, her gaydar knows that you are gay and into her!!
@@nayteintheclouds we talk to each other a lot during the club activities. Unfortunately i dont have social media accounts unless you count youtube and whatsapp so i cant follow her on social media. 😔
THE LAUGH 😭
Im fucking cryinggggg😂😂😂
lolll frr😭
my gaydar says she straight
I understand ur pain babe
I’ve been there
Same here through 😂😂
Mine says IDFK 😭
She's bi but most likely think I'm a annoying fuck
For me there really is something to loose. She’s a new, great friend of mine and we will be in school together for the next 2,5 years. But maybe I have a chance that it will turn out. She’s also bisexual and idk we’ve been more touchy lately (laying head on shoulders, comforting each other) and I noticed some more eye contact and I always hit her with a little cute smile when we gave eye contact, and she hits me back with a smile. We’re doing clubbing on Saturday so I’m gonna try to make some moves while dancing if the vibe feels good (maybe is being druk will take of the nerves). WHAT SHOULD I DO? I can’t stop thinking about her.
Edit: Yesterday she was also touchy with other friends, so I don’t think she actually likes me.....
Sorry :(( I hope you are okay
Please tell us what happens!
THIS IS SO SIMILAR TO ME RIGHT NOW HELP
Please give us an update and pray for me 🙏
I love her accent 😂
Ya I be flirting like looking at them then look away bc I'm scared
I don’t trust my gaydar for crushes cause I’m bias
I don’t trust mine cause I fall the straight girls. 😅
Lol I loved the laugh🤣. She did all that , she said that she didn't wanted to be more than friends. Then she admitted it like one week before she was going to get married with her wife🤷
The fucking laugh 😂😂😂
Trust the gaydar for yourself…good point!
The girl that I think likes me is really pretty. We have been complementing eachother and keep catching eachother looking at eachother. ( we’ve only talked twice) but I keep looking at her and seeing that she’s looking at me. Is this mutual?
I can’t trust my gaydar bc I genuinely thought she was not only lesbian but also had the fattest crush on me. So then I feel head over heels for her and right before I was gonna ask for her number my friend asked if she was a lesbian and she said she was straight.
Wow sorry bout that. Maybe she just told your friend that to throw her off
No fr i just learned my gaydar is messed up because I normally crush on lgbt women but my current is not lgbt as far as I know and has a boyfriend 😢 plus I thought she was flirting so I got her number and she hasn't messaged me at all
@@morganbaldwin4828 she aint suppose to message you, got her number hello.
okay help me out
there’s the most beautiful girl ever in my grade
earlier this year she was super like cute and flirty i think
she said “Oh my gosh i think you’re so pretty, you look like you’re really good at art”
i KNOW she’s gay. is it worth it? it was a few months ago, do you think she was flirting/still into me?
btw i thought she was straight so i didn’t catch the flirting beforehand
She’s flirting fsssss feel her out she may be showing lots of signs and you already knowwww!!! But be careful cuz some girls really do just like attention 😭
@@shyanlong6653 soooo i got her number
she made a playlist with me
she added a lot of songs that were HUGE signs (i wanna be your girlfriend, tv girl songs, etc)
continued to flirt with me
and then started talking about how much she likes a GUY.
sent screenshots of our conversations to her friends to make me look obsessive and bad
and now her friends are harassing me even though i don’t like her anymore
@@shyanlong6653 nope she wasn't... i'll tell you what happened IF you respond to my comment 😭
Omg gurl go for it!! ❤
Lol, there’s this girl at my apartments pool and I go there like everyday to every other day and sometimes she’s there to check us in and every time it’s her we always say something to each other and EVERY TIME I feel like she’s flirting and I do the same back cause she’s hot and my gaydar skyrockets but it’s hard to tell if she’s just being herself personality wise (cause I don’t know her that well) or if she’s flirting and it’s painful cause I swear she’s the most gorgeous girl I’ve ever met. Idk I’m just rambling lol ignore me.
Help, she kissed me while being drunk in a school party, saying she thought I was pretty for a long time, and we've been speaking non stop on the phone since, but i can't tell whether she likes me or not (she's kinda cold when she writes, and is sorta fleeing me at school)
Drunk or not, she kissed you. That’s a start. She may be ignoring you or avoiding you because she remembers what she did and is scared. It could go either way but you should talk to her - if you have any follow up questions pls ask?! Also pls keep me updated I would love to see how this goes 😊
@@Sassygirl_17 thank you for your answer 🙏🏻 well, we still talk throught messages, and i decided to ask if she indeed wanted more with me ! She said she prefers to take it slow, try to know each others better, (kinda seems like the sad past love life), but she said she didnt want to flee me - like she usually did with previous relationship. Im very happy with that, it's my first time meeting a girl as perfect as her, and ive accepted the fact that maybe we'll never date ❤️🩹 (we had some flirty text tho, my heart I can't take it)
@@silmeriag660 I’m happy to hear that, thank you for letting me know what’s happening
@Sassygirl_17 u go girl
She calls me babe and says “love you” or “I love you” JUST TO MAKE ME BLUSH CAUSE I TOLD HER I LIKE HER and I think she likes me back HELP GIVE ME ADVICE IMA ASK HER TO DATE ME ON SATURDAY WHEN I GO TO HER HOUSE PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE TO ASK HER TO DATE ME 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hope it goes/went ok 😊
Just say im really into you, will you go on a date with me?
@@yerneedsry kk
This helped me alot ❤. Since a very long time a girl is long looking in my eyes every time i Come in the store she works in. I havent made a move yet. I like just standing across the store and just look in her eyes. Its almost as good as s...😊
Yeah The girl was totally flirting with me, even giving me a quick hug @ work. Not expected. So then I text wish that hug would have last longer and stronger. She texted back, The hug was as a friend. 😳
She did come back a second time for another hug but I had a cold and pushed her away,telling her I didn’t want to give her my cold.
@@felicidadhernandez3061 you did well. Don't let women play the hot and cold game. Lesbian dating is difficult but better to go look for someone in an app. And even still be careful.
@@etcwhatever Thx will take the advise.
I need SERIOUS HELP!!!!!
So there is this girl I am not sure is she is straight or queer! now ima rant lol. So one of my friends asked her and he was like r u gay E? She looked at me in panic kinda blushing and said ummmm not sure then said uhhhh no to get out of the conversation. Another time I asked her she just was like ummmm and changed the topic. ( she said she definitely supported!) So definitely questioning! And she ALWAYS texts me and she has a whole friend group but hangs around me a lot for example we are all in a math class and she sits with me! :) And she texted me wanting to call like on random.( does this all the time ❤️) to note I just moved to her school so its a newer friendship (like 5 months! ) We also both are really flirty and of course I try to notice if she is the same with others and it doesnt seem like it! For example we are on the same softball team and always asks to catch with me ❤️ ( We have loads of other friends on the team) and its always me!!!!!! And today in our Spanish class I was like its really cold and she was like yeah! And she was like ( the sweater she is wearing) do you want to use my sweater ❤️ and she was like dang it ima get dressed coded so sorry and looked kinda disappointed! There are defintly other things but the last thing ima say is we talk alot about deeper things and she is always trying to get to know me! For example we talked about how these boys had crushes on us and I made it very clear I am gay and she seemed not interested at all about boys ( this is supposedly the "cutest/coolest" boy 🤣) And we kept talking a lot! Anyway anyone please please help!!! if you see this I NEED HELP!! thanks for reading my rant
Nice rant but she’s giving so many signs! Just go for it gurl, like some risks are worth taking! She’s flirting with you for a start and you flirt back, try asking to hang out, just the 2 of you maybe or something else? Would love to see how it goes! 😊
I need help pls, sooo..
I have this girl. That I have a crush on for like almost 7 months now. From 1-4th grade, she was my classmate, we were best friends. She moved schools, and we went apart for like 2 years. In the second half of 7th grade we started talking again, as friends. This was the time when I discovered that I'm a lesbian (well i thought i was bi first but like thats not the point), and developed feelings for her. My closest friends know, and she knows I'm a lesbian too. Now I'm half of 8th grade, and she came over for my birthday with my other friends. She was leaning on me when we were talking with the othersy we got a great photo together, we held hands (just cause we went to a forest in the dark with the others) and hugged many times (but I'm a hugger so thats no surprise). From then (this was like one week ago) we talk like 100+ texts every day, deeptalk, want to meetup, reunion our friendship offically, and wanna talk everyday. I feel like I have a chance but like I don't really wanna risk our friendship, and I know she stayef in a relationship before with a girl she didn't really like cause she didn't wanna hurt her feelings. And also, what if she is just wanna get our friendship back, and I'm thinking too much of it?? So I'm not sure but I don't wanna waste time so pleaseee help me do I have a chance? If I do what should I do???
Doesn't matter to me ! Too many rings !
Someone i need help pls. So theres this girl in my school, shes not in my class but she is in my co-curricular activites(cca) club. Recently, i developed feelings for her but im not sure if she likes me back. I see her about three times a week because of the club activities but other than that we dont hang out much. She has however, been really protective of me and is really kind to me. Sometimes during assembly i catch her looking at me and smiling. Sometimes however, she kinda ignores me or doesnt really seem like she wants to talk. Maybe its cause of the really tiring training and everyones exhausted or maybe im just trying to only see the good side. Im really confused right now, i have no idea. Does she like me back? Should i confess to her? I know for a fact that she is lesbian but im not sure if shes dating anyone rn. She thinks im straight though. What do i do?
From what you wrote, she at least definitely looks like she might like you back! If you guys are often having eye contact and smiling, for me it's a sign!! Have you ever talked to each other ? Do you follow each other on socials ? If she's gay, believe me, her gaydar knows that you are gay and into her!!
@@nayteintheclouds we talk to each other a lot during the club activities. Unfortunately i dont have social media accounts unless you count youtube and whatsapp so i cant follow her on social media. 😔
what about writing a note and giving it to her ? Always worked for me!! @@twilight_deer
Ooh i might try that! Thanks for the advice!!!@@nayteintheclouds
I love ur accent
Once a girl talked to me and even ask for my number, I was sure she was flirting but then I find out she had a boyfriend :c
Literally just happened to me last week 😭
Yeah, but I don’t know if she’s straight or gay
Какая вы красивая
What does the "HAHAHAAHHAHHA" mean?
😂😂😂😂
💯
First? Shure thing for yes or no 😅
As a man, how can I make a lesbian catch feelings for me? And don’t gatekeep
No you can’t they don’t like you. Imagine a guy trying to turn you gay 💀
what…
No. WE ONLY LIKE WOMEN.
@@ZoeRazzino30 EXACTLY
But if they’re lesbian they don’t like men…