How To Detach From People and Situations - Stoicism

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  • How To Detach From People and Situations - Stoicism
    Are you struggling to navigate complex relationships or find inner peace amidst life's challenges? This video, "How To Detach From People and Situations - Stoicism," is your guide to mastering the art of detachment with grace. Drawing from the wisdom of Stoicism, an ancient philosophy, we delve into practical strategies for cultivating emotional resilience and maintaining tranquility in the face of adversity.
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  • @StoicKing101
    @StoicKing101 5 місяців тому +231

    "We suffer more in our imagination than in reality." - Seneca

    • @krised2351
      @krised2351 5 місяців тому +6

      How true is this phrase. Possibilities might be a positive thing to think of, but it's also too dangerous, for the reality is now living in lies.

    • @northstarmn
      @northstarmn 5 місяців тому

      Hence religion. Gods, especially jebus are all made up myths.

    • @LamondoHillII
      @LamondoHillII 5 місяців тому +4

      When I first read this quote about 2 years ago now, it shifted my entire outlook on life.

    • @user-dd9sp9hq1j
      @user-dd9sp9hq1j Місяць тому +1

      So true !!!

    • @user-eq8cj7nr8q
      @user-eq8cj7nr8q Місяць тому +1

      Imagination is reality. Reality is the content within consciousness, that beings are experiencing . Everyone is imagining everything that goes on all the time , because consciousness creates reality.

  • @Morpheus1128
    @Morpheus1128 5 місяців тому +97

    "to get something you never had you have to do something you never did."

  • @gissensials2194
    @gissensials2194 4 місяці тому +62

    “the root of suffering is attachment.”

    • @ladyd1614
      @ladyd1614 3 місяці тому +5

      Exactly !! Let them go , if they want to go!!! Bye 👋

  • @gissensials2194
    @gissensials2194 4 місяці тому +47

    Self worth, respect, values.

    • @user-fo5kw1dv4e
      @user-fo5kw1dv4e 2 місяці тому

      Wgengnagjagaghaja glad gakdghakegegjaakegjrtu we’re😢😮🎉😢p

  • @OnStoicism
    @OnStoicism 5 місяців тому +48

    "The soul becomes dyed with the color of its thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius

  • @louiseelliott6404
    @louiseelliott6404 5 місяців тому +33

    Spot on. Point 6 I’ve just gone off most social media as much as possible except for videos like this which help with personal development and growth.

  • @amdeko
    @amdeko 5 місяців тому +24

    I will keep clapping for people until its my turn 🎉🎉🎉

  • @StoicEvolution1
    @StoicEvolution1 5 місяців тому +23

    "Anger: an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured." - Seneca

    • @gloriabitutu8776
      @gloriabitutu8776 3 місяці тому

      That’s deep. Thanks

    • @batterbatterswing
      @batterbatterswing 4 дні тому

      Is it okay to let it out? Seems like there's no answer for the pacifist here

  • @KnowledgeWisdomLife
    @KnowledgeWisdomLife 5 місяців тому +31

    Detachment - a powerful tool for navigating life's challenges

  • @wisdomhistoryphilosophy
    @wisdomhistoryphilosophy 5 місяців тому +18

    Even the smallest gestures of compassion can have a profound and lasting impact on the world around us

  • @TheStoicStrength
    @TheStoicStrength 5 місяців тому +40

    "No man is free who is not master of himself." - Epictetus

  • @EchoesOfExpression-HN
    @EchoesOfExpression-HN 4 місяці тому +12

    "True freedom is the ability to live without being determined by others." - Epictetus.

  • @miriamha970
    @miriamha970 4 місяці тому +8

    Yes I agree with stepping back to figure out what to take in and what not. How about charging after what you want rather than not knowing what you want and having circumstance and people choosing you. Of course not the later.

  • @ISEEKSPACE
    @ISEEKSPACE Місяць тому +3

    I've been dealing with a car situation for a while now and also been going out a lot with my friends. The amount of stress I feel is becoming too much. I'm very introverted so I know I'm drained. It's good to come back to this vid to center myself because it's so easy to get up on the attachments we have to things and people that we forget ourselves. It's been a pretty hectic year so far just because I feel I haven't stopped "dealing". It's absolutely time for a break.

  • @StoicInYourLife
    @StoicInYourLife 5 місяців тому +19

    "Fantastic video! It offers a profound insight into the Stoic approach to detachment and maintaining inner peace. As Seneca once said, 'We suffer more often in imagination than in reality.' This video beautifully encapsulates this philosophy, showing us how to navigate our emotions and relationships with wisdom and composure."

  • @ammoodz2313
    @ammoodz2313 5 місяців тому +6

    I love listening to Kevin Conroy talk about the "stoic dudes"...Gotham will sleep well this night

  • @stoicethics_stoicism
    @stoicethics_stoicism Місяць тому +1

    Engaging in open and honest communication with trusted individuals is advocated as it strengthens social bonds and provides valuable insights.

  • @BarnYardBronco
    @BarnYardBronco 5 місяців тому +10

    I love how it says "the ancient wisdom dudes" 😂

  • @LuciCuteDog68
    @LuciCuteDog68 5 місяців тому +13

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

  • @darrellborland119
    @darrellborland119 2 місяці тому +3

    A rather difficult balance comes to the fore, when we consider a friend who means well, but engages in conversations that are a bit demeaning. A power imbalance can occur, creating tension. Therein lies the inner challenge...how to tell them, but leaving an opening for a better friendship. Thanks. subscribed.

  • @LamondoHillII
    @LamondoHillII 5 місяців тому +7

    Really needed this, this morning. Thank you for a great lesson. Rules 3,4 and 7 spoke to me as if they were on a loud speaker. Having a philosophical friend to consult with, controlling how much of your emotions you reveal and focus on what is needed not the want. Won’t forget this.

  • @365InnerPeace
    @365InnerPeace 5 місяців тому +14

    ""To live a good life: We have the potential for it. If we learn to be indifferent to what makes no difference" - Marcus Aurelius
    Your video is very interesting, thanks!

  • @shirleyac12
    @shirleyac12 5 місяців тому +9

    I appreciate this solid advice

  • @StoicMaster.
    @StoicMaster. 5 місяців тому +16

    " Live a life of meaning, not a life of luxury." - Seneca

    • @Evaselfmade
      @Evaselfmade 3 місяці тому

      You can have both, one is not better than the other it's preference

  • @geroldcoleman1845
    @geroldcoleman1845 5 місяців тому +4

    This is good for your self

  • @user-st1uw4wi5s
    @user-st1uw4wi5s 5 місяців тому +3

    TRULY VALUABLE INFORMATION & ANALOGIES…..
    🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐️

  • @Brd3p
    @Brd3p 5 місяців тому +6

    Thank you.

  • @nitaunadkat9514
    @nitaunadkat9514 5 місяців тому +5

    Amazing wisdom ❤

  • @Maria-jo6nn
    @Maria-jo6nn 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you 🙏 take a break sounds good to me right now 🖐️

  • @thomassquad4669
    @thomassquad4669 5 місяців тому +6

    ❤ #Step #Away #ModelwithPurpose

  • @bettybella2417
    @bettybella2417 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @QueenofKyagwe3257
    @QueenofKyagwe3257 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this yeaching

  • @JoyWaweru-kf6cd
    @JoyWaweru-kf6cd 5 місяців тому +1

    Wow i love this

  • @TIMETESTEDADVICE
    @TIMETESTEDADVICE 5 місяців тому +2

    "The obstacle in the way becomes the way." - Marcus Aurelius -

  • @paulinkayukwa1493
    @paulinkayukwa1493 4 місяці тому

    Definitely

  • @Red23165
    @Red23165 5 місяців тому +4

    ❤❤

  • @darnellmitchell9357
    @darnellmitchell9357 3 місяці тому

    O good advice p good advice I do it all the time I'm a chess player and I teach kids how to play chess and I pulled back all the time and let me let me think and sometimes I make mistakes but you got some God bless you in the universe bless you I wish I had known this about 20 years

  • @georgeandrews2839
    @georgeandrews2839 27 днів тому +1

    Good one . ..

  • @ShaibuBukar-zi7co
    @ShaibuBukar-zi7co 5 місяців тому +4

  • @davidcoupal8083
    @davidcoupal8083 5 місяців тому

    awesome

  • @pewrumalnarayanan3477
    @pewrumalnarayanan3477 5 місяців тому +2

    Good

  • @yemenniru7738
    @yemenniru7738 5 місяців тому

    First of December ❤

  • @user-bg4vg9ho7h
    @user-bg4vg9ho7h Місяць тому

    Truth facts

  • @faithmurithi4036
    @faithmurithi4036 28 днів тому

    It's not that we have a short time to live. it's that we waste most of of it..profound

  • @Stoicism4myLife
    @Stoicism4myLife 2 місяці тому

    A great Video about: The document discusses the principles of stoicism, a philosophy that encourages individuals to cultivate inner tranquility by focusing on what they can control. It outlines four steps to detachment: taking a break to gain perspective, considering whether to distance oneself from a person, and establishing limits for emotional responses. The document emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-awareness of emotions, and the ability to make rational choices based on reason rather than emotion. It also highlights the role of friendship in the pursuit of virtue and the importance of open and honest communication with trusted individuals.

  • @StoicSoul_StoicSoul
    @StoicSoul_StoicSoul Місяць тому

    Stoicism teaches detachment from people and situations by focusing on inner tranquility and accepting what cannot be changed while controlling what can be controlled.

  • @ladyd1614
    @ladyd1614 3 місяці тому

    Only You { Holy Spirit ,The Creator , THE True And Living GOD }.. can I trust as A FRIEND … !! Point , blank and period !! ❤❤❤❤I decree n declare HE IS MY REFUGE !! Life has taught me to much to trust man , mother , father , sister , brother , children .. no thank you !!

  • @Lmorales43
    @Lmorales43 5 місяців тому +1

    I believe there might have been a misspelling in the earlier dialogue regarding the term. In Stoicism, the concept you're referring to is indeed "oikeiosis," spelled as such. It represents the idea of natural affinity or familiarization, particularly in terms of human beings' natural inclinations and the development of a sense of self and community. Oikeiosis involves the natural process of an individual's expansion of concern from oneself to encompass family, community, and eventually, humanity as a whole. It's about the progression from self-interest to a broader perspective that includes caring for others and cultivating a sense of social responsibility and virtue.

  • @georgegates526
    @georgegates526 4 місяці тому +1

    Could have REALLY used this one when I was young.. Too late now.

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 Місяць тому

      It's never too late. Try not feel so defeated and hard on yourself ❤

  • @marilynruiz746
    @marilynruiz746 5 місяців тому +1

    There aren't a lot of people who resemble sunshine to me.

  • @thevagabondsageinthewoods
    @thevagabondsageinthewoods 3 місяці тому +3

    I don’t have ANY friends. Well, one real world friend but she certainly doesn’t bring sunshine into my life. I cringe when my phone rings n its her. So is it me because I am a magnet to Debbie Downers and repel Mary Sunshine. I would love just one friend who could even talk about life a d deeper thoughts instead of whining about their life yet here I am, whining about mine. Im stuck in a paradox to which I see no happy ending. 😢

  • @forgethebind
    @forgethebind 5 місяців тому +1

    I feel like this dialogue was created by Bill S Esquire and Ted T Logan after time traveling to Ancient Greece

  • @ariues
    @ariues 13 днів тому

    woah that guy has thumbs on his feet.

  • @rawveganfoodforthought2333
    @rawveganfoodforthought2333 5 місяців тому +1

    This is really great stuff (but using the word “dudes” and “it’s cool “ takes a little bit away.) Thank you!

  • @amass_bss
    @amass_bss 3 місяці тому +8

    "When you lose your temper, you lose your power. You can control any situation if you first control yourself..."
    | Florence Scovel Shinn |

  • @Open.Wisdom.Stoicism
    @Open.Wisdom.Stoicism Місяць тому

    Become the 1% of rich people

  • @soniczforever5470
    @soniczforever5470 2 місяці тому +2

    I was told i ruined everyones day tortured around im a 4 stone 12 anorexic im dying. I wont talk anymore. I was told this morning i wasnt good enough because i forgot someones mother. My memory is bad because of my anorexia. I left my intake at 100 calories that walked 70 of them of already. Not eating anymore today. Always bullied in kitchen and not allowed eat outside. What's a barbeque i get yelled at for my morbid terror of eaying. really dont care if i end up somewhere else as this isnt working.

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 Місяць тому

      Please hang in there and reach for help. You are worth it, you are enough and you are not here to be punished and shouted at. I'm very thin myself although not anorexic and all I know is we have to remain hopefully thats thing will change. Because they will change. Just like the good days, the bad days dont last either. Please hear me when I say you deserve to be here and live a well and happy life. Biggest hugs darling 💝 you sre stronger tham you think and you can do this 💪 call a helpline and let them guide you through these difficult days ❤

    • @stephenybeecherkennison-kb2vv
      @stephenybeecherkennison-kb2vv Місяць тому

      ❤❤

  • @elizabethrecco8485
    @elizabethrecco8485 5 місяців тому +2

    My sister and her husband came to visit us, it was the summer before elections. They kept badgering us to watch certain shows on t.v. If we wanted the truth. They also told us who we should vote for. When my husband argued with them they packed their bags and left. They then sent me a message saying they were concerned for my safety because my husband was out of his mind. Lol! I told her I needed a break from them! She said how long, I said 1 year. She stopped talking to me and then died within the year of pancreatic cancer, her husband died 2 years later from cancer. The end.

  • @STarWalker8
    @STarWalker8 Місяць тому

    It's interesting seeing how people interpret what is being said.
    Here's mine:
    Listen to the video

  • @CasaNova-dl5vj
    @CasaNova-dl5vj 3 місяці тому

    I would say all these video on Instagram and UA-cam is ruining relationships and getting into people's mind and making them think detachment is real and healthy

    • @binathere2574
      @binathere2574 2 місяці тому +2

      You misunderstand the meaning.

    • @maxsheerin8219
      @maxsheerin8219 Місяць тому

      I'm sure a man that calls himself CasaNove ruins his own relationships 🙄

  • @HarmonicsAI
    @HarmonicsAI 3 місяці тому

    Can you monetize this channel bro ?

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 20 днів тому

    ..

  • @Groundhog262
    @Groundhog262 Місяць тому

    Wow, these mass-produced AI videos sure suck. They didn't even watch it themselves before uploading :D

  • @WordApe
    @WordApe Місяць тому

    Okay, so while I appreciate and understand the premise of this video, it is clearly just an AI generated dialogue. I mean how many times are we gonna hear the same message but put in different words? Lmao

  • @svencejohanson9051
    @svencejohanson9051 4 місяці тому

    "The ancient wisdom dudes".... Where is Spicoli?

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 2 місяці тому

    SALUTE 🫡 .... MGHOW

  • @Stoicismi
    @Stoicismi 4 місяці тому +2

    The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have.✅
    🚀💹

  • @StoicHabit101
    @StoicHabit101 3 місяці тому +3

    " Live a simple life and do not enslave yourself to temporary possessions." - Seneca

  • @LuciCuteDog68
    @LuciCuteDog68 5 місяців тому +8

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!