The Truth Behind Your Spouse Not Supporting Your Business - Alpha Man Smart Woman
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Hey Dan, great message. Is it possible for everyone to succeed? Both relationship wise and business wise? I've been told that not everyone can or is suited for entrepreneur success, or marriage success. I would like to think everyone can, that would be amazing world to live in. My intuition says not possible though. What do you think?
Dan Lok My Money Sifu,
Going to watch this one with my wife. She did support me when Des rated me a B. She said, " I know you, you will be the best. Dan will hire you with time." Makes me fueled to kick ass till next review.
Thanks Your Humble Student
Nick Mirante NY
Thank you Dan and Jennie. A series by Jennie for woman who support (& to differing degrees shape) their high-performance husbands may be a productive move. You Dan unLOK secrets required for 'front office' success. And Jennie can unLOK secrets to the fundamentally crucial 'back office' of success (the home, the support, the understanding, the teamwork mindset etc).
What do you think?
Why would anybody not like this? other than jealousy, racism and errr.. whatever else?
Closing is IMPORTANT thanks Sifu
Hi Mr & Mrs Lok,
I thought running solo would be super fast.
But if i really think deep, I understood, It is my problem that I'm not getting her support.
I even thought about getting divorce. But this video have shown me a great path.
If I can't get her support. How do I get others to work on my mission.
You guys are life saviors.
Many Thanks.
Wish you two a very happy life together.
Yes i agree.
Same here I thought about getting a divorce when my goals didn’t twine with my husband as well
You guys are so good together. Awesome spouse relationship. Wish you all the best and keep going strong 🙏🙏🙏
Yes, communication between partners is essential. I am married for 20 years now and our relationship grow to a different levels before 10 years when we decide to communicate our needs and wants authentically to each other and tell the truth without the fear of rejection. We decided to set each other free to do what we enjoy and trust that this decision will bring more passion to our relationships. So when he is fishing i am reading a book, listening to a podcast or taking notes for my next post, presentation or book. When i need to work late hours he is free to sleep or go out and watch football. We are free to be our selves and we are more close than ever.
I wholeheartedly agree. Without communication (even if it is tough) relationships break down. You really have to ask yourself, is this the right person because if you can't talk to them- the writing is on the wall.
And behind every successful woman there's a man too. I our family, I'm (the wife) the alpha and my husband is always supportive (e.g. putting our toddler to bed on the nights I have HTC class)... I think it could be a bit more challenging though when the woman is the businesswoman, the wife and the mother... I can't ignore house chores (not yet at least) lol
You could. As you make more, hire someone to do the house chores.
Actually that's one of the goals on my vision board :-) Can't wait to get there.
Hi Dan and Jenny, when I met my husband he was Alpha male but since we have had our first son and he started a office job he has lost his drive and ambition. He has no real vision for our lives and goes around in circular reasoning that he needs more energy to have a vision. What can I do to help him be a better leader? And how does Jenny manage her time to do everything at home and with Dan?
Zoe, this will help with more energy from better productivity: ua-cam.com/play/PLEmTTOfet46OmSXIUKmbHe1acy6u-fIVX.html
“It’s your job to let him or her to get it”
Deeply provoking. Love the part when Jenny’s sharing her perspective; so great to gain an understanding of the other side of the same coin. And also the relationship already being built on a strong level of trust; the examples where Jenny started becoming a part of the events to providing deep insight during business deals… so inspirational!
“Look within. EARN THE SUPPORT!”
This episode is a real eye opener, Thank You Dan and Jenny!
Some spouses are just assholes, lets not sugar coat it. Many people don't like to see their spouse succeed.
YES! I'm not the only one talking about business 80% of the time with my partner!
And she says I don't have other topics to talk than business...
how did you eventually get over that?
The only thing I would like to add to this is don't date insecure women (or women with insecure men) because they may sabotage your business out of fear of you having more options. I know this sounds obvious but insecure people often seem supportive at first if you're just starting out than change as you start to gain even a little success.
It’s in the human nature to switch up on you I would rather always have my own business with my own name on it so in case any shit like this goes down I could take my business and get out the door
80% of your husband-wife conversations are about business?!?
You're a very fortunate, lucky man Dan to have such a woman in your life!
Some women zone out within the first 30-secs to 1 min when you explain in detail about your entrepreneurial ventures.
I think it's just about knowing and ensuring your spouse has similar interests to you as an entrepreneur, as every male businessman needs the feminine support and intellect of their wife.
P.S. Love the analogy of 'selling your vision to your spouse', you have qualify, convert and close their interest.
Welcome.
ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO DAN
I am an Entrepreneur from INDIA, your videos are very inspiring and informative.
keep up the good work.. god bless you.
I honestly think it goes back to being with the right person. The wrong person will never support you even if what your doing is a good idea or is successful. Some people are controlling and think only the way they think something should be done is the only way to go even though your gut is telling you otherwise. It's best to only seek support from your spouse if they are the right person and are open minded otherwise it's better to go at it solo.
Dan sifu,
Thank you, running my own business never been easy it's a lonely long road,
I will never give up ,
Danny, make sure you are surrounding yourself with good people walking on the same road as you like in my global Dan On Demand community.
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You even look alike lolz.
Sincerely this is a big issue that rocks marriages and affect any man thriving in business. My previous businesses failed because I felt my wife would not understand the nitty gritty of such businesses. I took my time to show her the present one am doing and trust me it's been mind blowing the success rate. Love that part where a man have to discuss any business venture with his wife. Jennie's statement about communication and there can be only one leader are profound.
Thank you Dan and Jennie for this powerful video
Amazing-amazing vedio thank you so much for both of you for making such a great vedio . It changed my life. thanks a ton.
Really great subject and I do agree that it is extremely hard to succeed if both the man and wife are or try to be the alpha in the family.
Thank you Dan and Jennie for this lesson! And please teach me more!
Dope broski!!! If my track record is bogus, why would she be confident to follow me????? Look within yourself first. Yessir.
"One win can make up for all losses. Just keep swinging the bat!" I super needed this right now, bec I have had a string of 3 losses and I have been getting anxious. Time to restrategize. Also, we are in the 2 alphas in one relationship boat. I guess I can try being a follower because he doesnt seem to be willing to back down lol. And that is why we clash. Can it be give and take though? Sometimes I follow sometimes I lead? Thanks Dan & Jennie!
I'm only 4 minutes in, and I can tell you that I LOVE this perspective! Definitely don't make your spouse a "silent partner". They can be a great asset! Just because she's not "in business" doesn't mean she doesn't have a value or perspective that can't help you. However, if you have other problems in your relationship... and if there's RESENTMENT... and she's "dismissive" or just resigns to let you do whatever you want to do... consider that a big red flag for your relationship. Been there, done that, got the divorce to show for it. Whenever I start dating again, and things get serious... I'll probably show her this video.
You two make some really good points. I agree that communication is the key... and the husband needs to he humble enough to apologize if/whem he messes up on a business venture... been there a few times :) ...and yes, of course my wife wants to see me succeed.
How to find the right women?
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So addicted to you guys.. ..very helpful and insightful !!!
Dan, YOU and Jennie, your elegant wife are an inspiration and a wonderful example of how a couple should approach the subject of working together. Being transparent as you said is key, and as Jennie said, communication, communication, communication is everything- thats how I was able to close my wife on the program. Thanks to you and Jennie for sharing and inspiring others in similar situations.
Appreciate that.
Ah! I've been watching your videos consistently throughout the week and hearing the back story on why she's behind all your presentations really inspires me. Thank you for sharing!
Dan!
You could speak to so many men to listen to their wives
Include us in business 😊😊😊😊
Wow this is so much more effective than going to therapy. Thank you for showing us what a healthy marriage looks like, especially those of us who had horrible examples growing up
This is the video I needed to see today. I'm 25 and have been married for 3 years and my wife seems to enjoy the more stable things in life. I feel very unsupported when I try to pursue entrepreneurial opportunities but to be honest, I haven't proven myself or earned her support. We've always gotten by and I do my best to support us financially in sales but I haven't had a victory yet. Just survival.
don't give up and start small. You can do this!
Thank you Dan and Jenny, I listened to this when I joined HTC in Dec. And with welcome packet you and Jenny sent a welcome video. I showed that to my husband. He looked at it and said "I dont worry whether or not you will succeed because I know you will". Great right, but he left the convesation really not understanding my goa,l and that is my fault. But this video he saw, and it made all the difference. We had a complete conversation about HTC and how he can assist me in my (our) goal. My husband has just signed up for HTC today. So thank Sifu and Jenny
Every successful asbend need asuportive wife. Your half of the heart is your wife allways, Go for you I'am happy for your .mrriage
Thank you
Thanks Dan❤ You're Awesome ❤
Yes. Leader of the family. Yes. Communication doors stay wide open. Collaboration. Partnership. Feminine feedback on the spot. Yes. Good women have great value. Yes. Trust. Never put doubt in your spouse's mind. Most relationship cracks are from immature ego pulls and pushes.
Thank you for this great video. Could you please discuss your diet and how your diet and sleeping habits pave the way for your success. Thank you
So True. As an Entrepreneur, people have to understand that your business is also like your baby too. So true. Being an Entrepreneur keeps you busy. I'm divorced now, and I can see why. LOL Even when I'm at parties or some networking events, I zone out and think about my business. So True. And I'm not the type of guy to relax, even on a vacation. It's boring to just lay around on a beach all day not doing anything. I feel like I need to be productive on my business. So it's that expectations my significant other needs to understand about me. LOL. Anyone here whos' single or divorced entrepreneurs? LOL
HELLO MR LOK. Am focused into sales and building multiple successful businesses. Should i marry a Business woman, or just pick any🤔🤔🤔
What if you're spouse is very stuck in the traditional concepts even though you know if you don't adapt with the changes you're gonna be left behind?
I think,you do not understand the mentality,with us!very well!
To know,i am not married yet,I hope soon,
I have a great man in my life,with a great "H",who loves me a lot,and respect me a lot,cares about me a lot,and the most important thing,he trusts me a lot.
For me,he can count on me,
As I think,I have been tested,times and times,to deserve this particular place in the heart of a real,and special man,that hopes,and prays to god,that one day we can be a husband,and wife,and it is reciprocal from my part.
He always supports me to do good things,l learned from him,all good things,but also he do not like bad things for me!
He is a man,and knows the principles!
Do not forget;I am the woman,and the great love of his life,and I will still for ever,as well as him too.
This is so great! Thanks for your honesty about your relationship and the experiences that you have learned from. I definitely need to listen to my wife more often, trust her and get over my own ego. Thanks again, this was really helpful!
Exactly.
Hi Dan, Thanks for this video, I convinced my wife about the reason of doing business. I am doing job and took a target of 4years to quit till I earn min money in a business and which I will start in parallel.
What if one's wife is not able to handle the truth?
Jenny is the most luckiest girl to have a husband like Dan. My husband damaged my spirit and trust. He lost his head in the stock market and took out home equity without letting me know. He’s a liar and broke my heart. I’m still staying with him because financially and my two daughters.
Maybe you are in the gossip business. So you need to gossip all the time with your spouse. Like the Kardashians.
What if you and/or spouse are a policeman or policewoman ?
Dan do you have kids? What is your family structure like right now? If you don’t then why not? If you do then how many boys and girls?
Dan, nice advise but what if the wife is not ready to listen. Doesn't care about what husband do? It's happening in many asian families I guess. Wife is not ready to listen. She is always busy with kids and household stuff.
What if u get divorced n your wife gets married to your business competitor, don't u think that would drag u behind after knowing all of business schedule
A wife has the job of providing a respite from the stress and strain of business, not continuing it after coming home. Today's woman needs to stop trying to be a business partner instead of a wife. If you are weak-minded enough to let a woman con you into believing that you could never succeed without her then consider this. When was the last time you saw a woman court a man who is unsuccessful? The feminist is no risk taker. She is not concerned with building up a man straight out of college. She wants the guarantee of the ready made man. Most cannot even build themselves into successes so how are they going to build a man into one? The feminist will attack simply out of sexist bigotry and sabotage a man's efforts. There is also penis envy and malice. High achievers realize that implicit in the definition of achievement is being self made. The superachiever wants to test his ability against a challenge. How accurate would the results be if some woman is figuring out everything for you or WORSE, screwing everything up? She needs to go achieve on her own and not ride some mans coat tails. Not needed is her attitude that whenever you succeed she deserves the credit and when you fail you deserve the blame. Women are not risk takers and the moment you tell her your high risk business plan she will try to discourage you out of fear. Try to build a capital base for investment purposes and she will try to talk you out of it because there is a shoe sale at her favourite store and she wants 2000 pairs of shoes not financial independence. Tell her you want to cure cancer and she will tell you to pick a medical specialty that earns more money instead.This transparency crap is just a set up for divorce court. She will know your assets and how to get them. And divorce court is where you are headed if you ever show weakness around a woman.
Nietzsche said it best: woman is for the recreation of the warrior. Period.
This was a hard video to watch because I went through this. I didn't get it and I didn't understand but it was the concept of what he was wanting to do, not from of a lack of faith in his ability to make it happen. I know he can do it, I just didn't understand what he was doing. It was a completely foreign concept to me as I'd never heard of it. It took over a year for it to finally make sense! Had we expressed our feelings and communicated better, I think I would've understood sooner. I know being defensive instead of admitting total confusion didn't help either.
Hey Dan never heard any talk so straight that too from a Man. Women are naive to inform her partner about drawbacks most of the time to keep away arguments which emerge post advice.... loved the way u put the points on table 👍 being transparent and non judgemental is best for any relationship.
Teach those western people with screwed up brain who think themselves as super men or God that needs one. But apart from everything thin you said. Your wife is very special and kind hearted.
Some of the modern woman are too hardened or too am also important. As if they feel small and insignificant when the man is the one having all the success.
Humility and Love, great and true love destroys jealousy and hardness of heart.
Be submissive is the only key as the bible says. When one party accepts it as okay if my husband become the president am happy with that.
The modern world through media and the whole system deliberately destroyed womanhood from their true position in family or relationship. A lot of people don't know this.
Humility humility from submissiveness is not slavery Love tenderness that is your key people.
If a woman doesn't have or build these virtues no matter how much you involve her she still would be what she has been.
This is exactly why I love Dan Lok not being a typical westerners the way their minds works is more realistically down to reality.
I can't imagine watching this guys videos and be not inspired and actually succeed.?
It's all about the heart. The HEART is where it's at. And these couple do have that. But of course hearts can be repaired and shaped through learning and many ways. But the is the Key.
When fuck all the girls at work and everywhere and your view of wife is diminished she may not catch you red handed. But hearted towards her can be sensed with that sixth and so she doesn't support. Do you have the heart or the cock is all you got.
LOVE IS WHAT WE NEED COMPASSION.....I LOVE YOU DAN LOK AND FAMILY.
A woman needs to feel included, helpful and needed ( not burdened) by her man, I agree women have good intuition and can feel a man's mood, so yeah good communication is so important!
i just saw this video, Dan i love your composure. am an entrepreneur run 2 businesses this video will add extra value to my family
I like this video however, Dan I have to disagree with you, not completely, but more than half of what you and your wife said.
I do agree that it is the person in pursuit of success that has to properly share their vision with their spouse but when your spouse has the mentality of a poor person and the negative attitude towards money that you spoke about in your book F.U. Money then you will quickly become demonized and that reaction is amplified with each failure that you make and of course there will be no support but discouragement.
Jean- Claude Philgence N.B. > Michele Obama tried to talk (read: a vicious verbal yelling fight and threats of divorce) Barack out of politics when he lost a local election. Her reason? They could make more money as lawyers in a corporation.
History showed she was wrong on BOTH counts!
Such a cute couple! You are so right... need to communicate. My passion is to help entrepreneurs divorce-proof their marriage!
Loool made me laugh so much midway! My husband supports none of my ventures, needed to hear that thanks
my bf is an entrepreneur and when i ask him to tell me everything he is doing, and he gives me sarcasm and says I should see what he's doing and I know what he is doing i see how he looks.
If my spouse want to be sucessful,but she don't know how to make,What can I do to help her?
What if my boat can only fit one ☝🏼 person, if another person comes on board , the boat might sink
Thanks for the video. It is a very good reminder for a guy like me who has difficulty sharing my burden to my spouse or anybody and try to solve it on my own. Also...working on getting the money to pay for your high ticket sales course. Truly wanna be a high ticket sales closer which i know i can be. Just had a rough 2 years with dishonest partners that wiped me out and left me with all the debt. Was too trusting and didn’t had the balls to just face them earlier even when i found them out.
For now until i come up with the money, will continue to watch your videos and listen to your webinars and continue working on my high income skill. Thanks
Do whatever it takes.
DAN I must say you are not just an entrepreneur but a person who is more like preaching to my life I really appriciate what you share with us I always make sure I involve my wife in every part of my life
Thank you Dan and Jennie for this powerful video
First like first comment! Watching the video now.
Great advice!
I see Dan is much better at analogies though
Jenny is SMART. She is really Smart
Jennie is so smart, you guys look good together
Behind every great man is an even greater woman 😉
You two are very lucky to have each other.
Thanks Dan. Very good video. You both are a great team. My question: How do you convince your spouse on alpha male habits like calling a "F" a "F". Some women (and men) find this habit disrespectful and even say its discrimination. Could you do a video on this ie alpha male habits in 21st century. Thanks.
I don't do work i will watching tv
Dan/Jenny, top notch video. Now I see what needs to be done to earn the support for where I want to go. I've had failures, and I know why. Thanks again. Keep us the great videos. Hopefully, the HTC course will be offered in 2019.
Thank you for sharing your personal life with us. Stronger together. My husband is my Jenny and I am always so grateful and surprised by how supportive he is with me. I would probably work myself to death if I didn't have him to help me to stop and remember to enjoy life. Jenny you rock! Dan - I am learning to be a high ticket closer from you right now. One day I will teach you to be a HTC and how to cook a great meal for Jenny 😉😎
Thank you so much for your inspirational video. This info was super helpful and real information that usually girlfriends we ignore but now thanks to you both I am aware of what I have been doing wrong.
I cannot wait to see next coming episodes on 2019 of alpha man smart women. I would love to watch these one as a season of your channel more often of team Dan Lok.
Lots of blessings and greetings from Mexico!
WOW...my exact thoughts. Much respect for both of you. I wish my husband would think like you Mr. Lok.
I love you i love you i love you
I Dan I'm 23 years old I'm about to go in army I've been watching your videos for a while now and I downloaded your book your an inspiration to me and I respect to the max. Love this video I'm going to my girlfriend to watch it right now
Dan is the man. Great video!
Thanks For this Dan and Jennie Lok, its so real and relevant. These skills are so important to be a happy entrepreneur couple. I have some work to do on my communication :)
Mr Lok sometimes words are not enough. Women who are in a serious relationship also expect to see results or at least as Jenny pointed out effort on the man's part. Trust takes time to build and effort to maintain. Also maybe men should not worry so much about eliminating all competition or getting in a pointless rat race just to gain respect and lose family. For some women I think their attitude and values also play an important role maybe even more than their bank account.
I hope I can foster this strong of a relationship with my wife as we move into the next phase of my business. And if she's up for it, a few of her own. I appreciate this video, thanks Dan!
Hey Dan! You met your Jenny, but I talked to my Jenny but I didn't even met her......😏😏
Thank you for the inspiration Dan. I definately know this is the type of relation I want to have in my couple. Wish you the best !
Thank you so much.Its a great video.I've learned something very important.
Love the information... thank you... what if she’s not a team player? What if she doesn’t support you during the hard times? What if she is self absorbed and doesn’t hold the same standards as you? I really needed this today... however these are my obstacles.
Then it's time to have a conversation about expectations.
Thank You Dan... Your Teaching has helped immensely
I wish your wife would tell you bad language in your videos is not necessary
She loves me for who I am. Good and bad.
Do you have kids?
Very thoughtful and timely message. Thank you Sifu Dan (and Jenny)
Many thanks.
Ruby and saphire,keep glowing for us like lighthouse,you are helping a lot!
One win can make up for all your loses. Love this line. I will never give up on trying.
Hi Dan, My wife saw me failing in business once, now she don't believe in me.
That sounds rough Sreekanth Adari.
Do you think you can gain her trust again?
it's been a while, happy December, wishing you all amazing year
I like your message that for the spouse to support you that you need to earn it cannot be given like respect.
Dope
I'm so glad I've come across this video. Thank you.
Good video
You guys are so adorable together, thanks for the advice
You look like a lovely couple. x
Thank you.
I love this video. Thank you for the video. :)